Who do you allow to be your advisor ?

Who do you let close to your dreams and your worries ?

The people who you let close to your heart might also give you advice at times. Make sure to know their possible agenda and limiting beliefs.

Make sure the next time you seek advice and are in a vulnerable position that you pick the right advisor/ mentor for you.

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Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

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your host Aurora, life coach and companion on this beautiful

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journey called life.

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Ah, I'm so excited to be recording this episode,

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I'm so excited to connect with you. And hopefully I'm creating

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something that brings you value that on one level or another in

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one way or another helps you to connect back to yourself and to

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find ways to live your most authentic life that you could

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possibly dream off. Today, I want to talk about your

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advisors. The people that you have in your life that you seek

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advice from, that you look up to, that are role models, that

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are people in your life that helped you in the past, find

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your ways. And sometimes it's family members, sometimes it's

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friends, sometimes it's professionals. And what I'm

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learning right now is that sometimes we are so lost,

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sometimes we are so desperate to find a path to feel clearer to

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know what is going to happen in our life and where we're going

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to end up that we seek advice from people who on the surface

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seem very competent. And two in the past helped you greatly. But

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maybe in other instances, they were not good advisors. But you

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couldn't see that because you were so lost and desperate that

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you just wanted any kind of advice from outside. Because you

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felt that anything could help you get unstuck and feel found

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again. I'm going to give you a little example right now. So I

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just got engaged recently, which is very big and very exciting

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for me. And my mom, back then didn't really have a wedding

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celebration, she only signed papers with my dad. And that was

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it. And my grandma had a wedding celebration that she doesn't

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like to look back to it was a weird wedding in a backyard even

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in a garage. And it was I don't know, she felt very weird on

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that day. And so now that I got engaged, they started talking

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about wedding and celebrations and wedding dress. And people

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who know me know that I was never the kind of girl who

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dreamt up anything about weddings, wedding dresses. I'm

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pretty Yeah. Neutral about it, I want to say. And now that I'm

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engaged, I'm feeling excited. And so I started talking with

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them about possible celebration and wanting to choose my wedding

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dress with them. And my grandma took me aside yesterday and told

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me that, yeah, the world is going through a recession. And

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my mum didn't have a proper wedding. She didn't have a

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proper wedding. So she really hopes that I'm not going to get

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too excited about a beautiful dress and celebration, because

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this is not what life is about. And that was it. We left and

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later on coming back home. I told my soon to be husband, my

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fiance about this and he got so mad and I couldn't really

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understand why. And he just said, Yeah, well, they had their

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experience and they will be advising you in their ways what

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feels best for them. But maybe that's not best for you, maybe

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you want something else. And maybe you can find ways that you

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get to express yourself in a way that is most authentic to you.

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And not according to some other people's plans, even though it's

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your family. So from that experience I want to share with

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you and make you aware that sometimes you will be asking for

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advice, you will have people sharing their opinion with you.

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And you will put yourself in a position of I don't want to say

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victim, but a position of desperation where you seek

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advice, and you will take it and you will drink it like a magic

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potion. But maybe there's a little bit of poison in there,

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maybe there's a little bit of jealousy in there, maybe there's

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a big chunk of limiting beliefs in there that you then swallow

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in from another person. And if you make and base your decisions

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on those advisors, and mentors, you will end up in a place in

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your life. That will not feel like you that will make you feel

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very limited and small. Because of course, the limiting beliefs

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of other people are not yours. So sometimes we have to be brave

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enough to sit in discomfort to sit in not knowing and

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uncertainty. And to really go within to allow silence, to feel

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yourself to experience yourself and from that space. Make

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decisions that are most authentic to you. And you got to

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strengthen that muscle because you will have people very close

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to your heart, giving you advice that is not good for you at all.

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And it is not that they are mean tempered, ill tempered or, you

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know, don't want the best for you. They want the best for you.

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But sometimes what they think what is the best for you is not

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the best for you. And this is so extremely tricky, especially

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when you're close to these people.

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So

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whatever it is you seek advice on, is it career, is it

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relationship? Is it marriage, is it you know, big life changes

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that you want to make in the future. Always be aware that

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people have their own limiting beliefs, they have their own

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agenda. And they will give you advice from their space of

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knowledge. There's very few people out there who have big

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empathy and big knowledge and give advice for free. That is

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then serving you 100% and helping you grow. And sometimes

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you got to ask several people and have several opinions, but

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it is always, always always important. To go within and to

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really dig deep and find out who you are. What makes you you what

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is the life that you want to create for yourself. And

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especially if it is different to the life that your parents or

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caregivers lead. You have to seek advice from people who are

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leading that life already who have done the steps and when you

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seek advice from them, also be critical. Don't just step into

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their foot prints because you are not them. But you can listen

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to their advice to their opinion. And counter check like

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check. If it resonates with your soul with your inner truth.

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Nobody except you knows what is best for you. Nobody knows you

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Tension, sometimes you don't even know your own potential.

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This is why I'm so, so, so passionate to help people get to

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know themselves. Because it is from that space that you're

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going to make decisions that are good for you. And it is from

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that space that you will find courage enough to distance

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yourself from people that you desperately want to be in a

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relationship with. But that don't help you when it comes to

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your personal growth. You might feel very lonely at times when

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you start making decisions that are not in alignment with those

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old people, so to say anymore. But if you want to lead a happy

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life, I live true to yourself, you will have to bring up some

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courage. All right, I'm going to leave you with that. I love you

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so much. I care so much about your well being and hope that

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you always know that there's somebody out there, willing to

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listen to you and wanting to connect with you. You're not

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alone. And I will be out there on a more consistent basis

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again, and I'm very excited to show up for you. And for my

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little podcast here. So until then, take really good care if

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there's any questions, any remarks, any comments, feel free

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to connect with me over Facebook. And I would love you

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to take a second or so to rate and review my podcast on Apple

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podcast. It means the world to me. And if I was able to bring

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you value insights and reflection, then that wouldn't

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be the greatest gift. Thank you so much. Until next time,