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How to respond to a national tragedy
Episode 2715th September 2022 • Wedding Pros who are ready to grow - with Becca Pountney • Becca Pountney
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This week has been a moment in history - but as a small business owner how do we respond in times of national tragedy?

In today's episode I explore how we navigate these difficult moments and share some tips to help you make a plan.

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This week in the UK and across the world, we've been

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shocked and saddened by the death of our beloved queen Elizabeth II.

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Although we knew this day was going to come, I'm not sure we really understood

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the huge impact it would have on society.

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There is so much we can learn from her reign and from her

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example, her devotion to her work, her servant hearted leadership.

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And of course her sense of humor as small business owners, it can be hard to know

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how we react to such huge national events.

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So in today's episode, I'm gonna share some thoughts to hopefully help.

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I'm Becca Pountney wedding business, marketing, expert, speaker, and blogger.

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And you are listening to the wedding pros who are ready to grow podcast.

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I'm here to share with you actionable tips, strategies, and real life

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examples to help you take your wedding business to the next level.

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If you are an ambitious wedding business owner that wants to take your passion

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and use it to build a profitable, sustainable business, doing what you

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love, then you're in the right place.

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Let's get going with today's episode.

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If you're listening to this episode in real time, then hopefully this will help

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you navigate at this really poignant time.

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After the death of our beloved queen Elizabeth II.

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However, there quite often comes national events, things that we don't

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expect, terrorist attacks, national tragedies, even the COVID crisis

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that we just don't understand how to navigate as small business owners.

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I'm hoping that this episode will help prepare you or to come back.

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If and when these things happen, so you know exactly how we should deal with them.

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So I'm gonna be sharing with you seven pieces of advice to help you

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navigate this time here in the UK, and that you can use in the future.

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So the first thing I wanna say is don't be hard on yourself.

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If you just don't quite know how to deal with these things as a small business

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owner, if you think about it, the UK government and the big organizations

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have been preparing for the death of our Monarch for many, many years.

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In fact, operation, uh, London bridge has been practiced over and over again.

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It's like a well oiled.

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but as small business owners, we haven't got a plan in place

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for what to do in this instance.

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And we can't just pull it out from the cupboard and, and follow it.

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Exactly.

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We're all making it up as we go along.

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So the first thing I wanna say is don't be hard on yourself.

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If you feel a bit disorientated, if you think I don't really know what to say.

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I don't know what to post.

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Can I carry on as usual?

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Do I need to stop?

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All of those questions are totally normal.

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Don't be hard on yourself.

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You haven't had time to prepare for this.

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And actually, I don't think it's as black, as white as a right,

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and a wrong way to deal with it as I'm gonna explain later on.

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So that's the first thing is if you're feeling like you're being really hard

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on yourself, because you don't know what to do, don't be hard on yourself.

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You haven't had the time to prepare.

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Let's just take it one step at a.

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The second thing that I wanna share with you about how to deal with

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these kind of events in history.

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When it comes to dealing with our business is to keep yourself

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informed and to keep yourself informed with reputable resources.

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I think this is really important because when it comes to the

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internet, we know that there's so much information out there.

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And quite often it's difficult for us to know what's opinion and what is fact?

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So for me, I read loads of articles about what's gonna happen over

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the 10 days, but so much of it was opinion based and not entirely fact.

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In fact, I saw three different dates given for the Queen's funeral

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before an official announcement was.

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So the first thing to think about is where are you getting

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your news information from?

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I highly recommend going to something like the BBC, because they don't tend

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to put out a lot of opinion information.

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They tend to just put out the information as it's told to

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them by the official channels.

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So do make sure you're getting your up to date information.

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Don't get taken in by what other people are saying in groups or opinion,

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blogs, or even opinion, newspapers and tabloids, because actually it

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can cause you additional stress.

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It makes you feel like there's gonna be more things happening than

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actually are going to be happening.

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And so it's really important to get your information from reputable sources.

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This is exactly what I did during the COVID pandemic.

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Make sure that I was reading what the government were actually saying,

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rather than everyone's opinion on what we should and shouldn't be doing.

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So in the event of these kind of crisis, make sure you are going directly to the

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source to find out the information, rather than relying on what people are saying.

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People love to cause a stir people love to panic you and make you read and buy their

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newspapers or read their Facebook posts.

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So make sure you're going back to that traditional information.

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What has actually been said, what has been said about what can and can't happen

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and what is open to interpretation?

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the third thing I recommend you do.

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And this is something that I definitely do is watch the

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bigger brands, follow their lead.

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Look at what the bigger brands are doing on their social media.

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And when I talk about bigger brands, I'm not talking about.

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Bigger brands within the wedding industry.

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I'm talking about national brands.

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Look at what John Lewis are doing.

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Look at what, uh, Tescos or Sainsbury's are doing.

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I don't know who you wanna look at, but look at what these bigger brands are

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doing with their social media channels.

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Are they going silent?

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Have they had one day of silence?

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Are they posting as per usual?

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Are they posting less than usual and follow their leads on the whole if

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you follow the lead of the bigger brands, you're probably going to.

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Okay.

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So don't be worried about looking at what other people are doing

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and following their example.

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For example, last week I went to Lego land and on Friday Lego land was closed out

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of respect for the death of the queen.

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It was just one day after, but by Saturday, everything was

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pretty as normal at Lego land.

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When I was there, it was.

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Open, the only thing different was the Lego model of Buckingham palace where

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they'd lowered the mast, which was very poignant and a great way to respect,

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uh, and pay tribute to her majesty.

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okay.

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Number four is in these times, it's okay to be genuine and

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honest with your audience.

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The benefit of being a small business owner is often it's you,

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that's the business, it's you, that's posting the social media.

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You are the face and the voice of your brand and people know and love you.

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So it's okay to be genuine and honest with them.

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You know, tell people, I don't actually know what to say at the

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moment, so I'm not gonna say.

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tell people, you know, I'm trying to be sensitive here.

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Um, hopefully nothing I do is unsensitive, you know, depending on

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what your relationship's like with your audience, depending on how your tone

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of voice comes across your audience.

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It's totally okay.

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To just be honest with them.

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I think sometimes coming from a place of vulnerability helps because we

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can't pretend we have it all together.

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I saw this a lot.

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Um, a couple of years back when the black lives matter movement was huge and lots

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of people were posting about it was that people a bit like me in a white privileged

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position were struggling to know how to talk about it and how to be sensitive.

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And actually, instead of pretending, they knew it was really helpful

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when people said, look, I actually don't know what to say right now.

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I don't know how to be helpful.

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Um, and I'm being totally honest with you and it's the same in this situation

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with the death of the queen or in other national, um, tragedies as well.

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Sometimes it's okay.

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Just to say, I don't know what I'm doing.

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I'm just gonna do my best and people will respect that more than if you pretend

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you have it all together, my fifth piece of advice for you is that actually

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sometimes staying quiet is also an option.

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If you don't know what to post, if you don't know how to be respectful

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in a time of a tragedy, you don't know what's right or wrong.

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It's okay to just go silent.

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I think sometimes we think that everyone's gonna miss us when we go off social media.

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Do you ever see those posts, which say things like I'm gonna be gone

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off social media for five days or I'm back after a week away?

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Well, actually most of that audience probably didn't even notice, like

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people aren't looking at your social media feed waiting for your next post.

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Most of the.

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So it's okay to go silent for a couple of weeks and not post anything.

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And then just start again as we were before, not making a big announcement that

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you are back because most people won't have even realized that you'd gone quiet.

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So remember that being quiet is an option.

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If it doesn't feel right to you right now to post on your social feeds, then don't.

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You don't have to post anything.

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You can just leave it quiet.

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And in a couple of weeks time, when it feels right, again, just get it

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going as if nothing has happened, you put way too much pressure on yourself

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that you have to be consistent.

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And yes, consistency's great.

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But if you stop every now and again, give yourself a little

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break because it feels right.

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That's absolutely fine.

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So again, don't be too hard on yourself.

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If it feels easier to just let things lie and be quiet, then just do.

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The sick thing I wanna talk about, which is a little bit of a boring thing to

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talk about, but I think it's important is copyright over the last few days

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with the death of the queen, I've seen all sorts of people, posting images of

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the queen and drawings of the queen and all sorts of things in tribute, which

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is such a wonderful, lovely gesture.

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The one thing I just wanna remind you of, and to be careful of is

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to remember that those images are still copyrighted in the same way.

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When you take place, uh, part in a styled shoot and you share an image

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and you need to credit the photographer and it's kind of disrespectful.

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If you don't, it's exactly the same.

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In these circumstances.

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So if you are gonna be sharing images, professional images of the queen, the

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Royal family, or even artwork, please make sure you are crediting the photographer,

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crediting the artist, tagging them in your post and making sure that's clear

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often, if those images are professionally owned, you can get in trouble for

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using them on your social feeds.

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Now, obviously we'd like to hope that people aren't gonna be looking

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to make money out of this and by finding us and that kind of thing,

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but it is something you need to be aware of and to be careful of.

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One of the safest ways to do it is to share directly from an official account.

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So for example, if you go to the official Royal family, Instagram

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account, you can share those posts to your own Instagram stories.

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And therefore you are not actually taking that picture and using it as your own.

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You are sharing it and it's got the original accreditation and everything.

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On it.

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So just be careful.

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Yes.

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I know you want to pay your respects and I know you wanna market and

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write things and show things on your Instagram feeds or your Facebook pages,

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but just remember copyright rules do still apply and you do need to be

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particularly careful when you're sharing professional images of celebrities.

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And I don't want any of you to get caught out.

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If at all possible credit, although again, they can still say you can't

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use their image without paying or ideally share it from an official

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source so that you're not taking that image and using it as your own.

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And then the final thing I want to share in today's episode is that

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you just have to do your best.

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You can be sensitive, you can be respectful, but at the end of the day, you

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need to remember it's your own business.

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Like I said earlier, there is no right and wrong in these situations.

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There's no right or wrong way to behave in this situation.

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There's no right or wrong way to behave in another national tragedy either.

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We need to watch, we need to learn.

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We need to be thoughtful and sensitive to what our audience might be thinking,

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but there is no right or wrong way.

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Do it, however you want to, if you want to pay tribute, pay tribute.

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If you don't, then don't, if you wanna carry on as normal,

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then carry on as normal.

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If you don't wanna carry on as normal and you wanna stay quiet, stay quiet.

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If you wanna put a black logo on your Instagram page, put a black logo on

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your Instagram page at the end of the day, it's your business, you know, your

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business best, you know, your audience best and you know yourself best.

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So make sure you do what you think.

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Is right.

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Yes.

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Listen for any official guidelines.

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Yes.

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Look at what other brands are doing and be sensitive, but don't feel like there's

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a certain path you have to follow because everyone else is doing it because there

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absolutely isn't often these posts, when we write tributes, come from a place of.

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Genuine feeling thoughts and emotion.

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If we try and force that it becomes obvious that we're just joining

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in with the rest of the crowd.

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So be true to yourself.

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Be true to your audience and share what you think is appropriate

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to share at the time when you think it's appropriate to share.

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So to recap those seven thoughts that I had for you on how to react

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as a small business owner, uh, this week after the death of our beloved

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queen Elizabeth II or in the event of another national or worldwide tragedy.

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And we just don't quite know how to respond.

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So number one, don't be hard on yourself.

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We are single business owners.

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We often don't know what we're doing and that's okay.

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We don't have the same amount of planning and preparation as

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some of the big corporations.

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Secondly, stay informed to make sure you're looking to reputable

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sources for your information.

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Thirdly, watch what the bigger brands are doing.

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This is a great practice to get into anyway, in your marketing

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because they know what they're doing and they often have bigger.

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Uh, budgets than we do fourthly.

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Don't be afraid to be honest and genuine about how you're feeling or

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what you're doing with your audience.

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Number five, remember that?

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Staying quiet is an option.

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It's okay.

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To just not post anything.

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If you're unsure of what to say, number six is be careful of copyright,

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especially when sharing images of celebrities, uh, or professional images

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that they may want you to pay to use.

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And finally just do your best.

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That's all you can ever do.

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Be true to yourself is your business.

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You can do it however you want.

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Don't let other people tell you what to do.

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Just be true to yourself and do what you think is best.

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I hope you found this episode helpful.

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If you need any more help and advice, reach out to me this week on

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