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Leading Differently Together | "Evangelist" With Ellen Graf-Martin
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Wendi Park is joined by Ellen Graf-Martin, who brings a wealth of experience from her missionary background to her expertise in marketing and communications. Ellen opens up about the pivotal role of evangelism in her life, illustrating how her passion for storytelling informed her journey to founding Graf-Martin Communications, a company dedicated to enhancing the voice and impact of organizations promoting hope and justice.

We go into the theology of evangelism, the transformative power of personal stories, and the strategic importance of crisis communication plans for charities. Ellen shares insights drawn from working with The Chosen in Canada, challenges traditional perceptions around the relevance of Jesus in contemporary society, and underscores the significance of contextualizing messages to genuinely connect with diverse audiences.

Throughout the discussion, humility, practicality, and the ability to truly listen emerge as critical themes when sharing one's spiritual journey.

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[06:17] Passion, skill, communication, branding, fundraising, visual identity.

[08:05] Charities face increasing crisis communication challenges.

[13:27] Share message to all, starting close by.

[15:29] Write for the audience, not yourself

[20:41] Connecting and sharing, inspiring through natural expression.

[22:13] Personal responsibility to support community and charities.

[26:44] Evangelism starts from within

[29:03] Self-reflection, transformation, and journey through life.

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We weren't learning the theology of evangelism. We weren't learning all

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of the theological

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experience with Jesus. People may argue with

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the church or argue with the Bible, but they can't argue

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with your personal experience. What does loving your

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neighbor actually look like? This is

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Journey with Care, where curious Canadians get inspired to love

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others well through real life stories and honest conversations.

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Hey, curious sojourners. We're continuing in our series Leading Differently

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Together. I'm so glad you're on this journey with me. Have you been following

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along? I'd love to hear what you think. Just click on the link in the

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show notes or go to journey with care dot ca. We'd really love to hear

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from you. Ephesians 41112 says, God gives

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some to be apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds,

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teachers to equip the saints for the work of the ministry for

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building up the body of Christ. But what does this look like in

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Canada? Keep listening to find out. Today, we're gonna get curious

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about evangelism. Now before you tune out with triggers of angry

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preachers or feeling that pressure to create awkward conversations,

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today's guest may give you a new take on evangelism altogether.

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I'm your host, Wendy Park, joined by producer, Johan Hinrichs. And

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in studio today, we have a special guest from Elmira, Ontario.

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She's a marketing extraordinaire, founder and CEO of Graf

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Martin Communications, and personal friend of Care Impact, Ellen

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Graf Martin. Ellen, welcome to the podcast. Thank you.

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It's so fun to join you in studio from

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afar. This is so fun to have you because we've gone

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back a few years through the pandemic, actually. We came

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in contact with you. You've been helping us as Care Impact

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tell our story. So it's it's nice to have you on our our

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podcast. It's fun. I know so much about Care

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Impact. I mean, we knew you as forever families, and we made the

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journey with you to becoming Care Impact. So it's exciting. That's

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right. Yeah. And you've really helped us clarify our message,

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clarify our branding, and what we are about to communicate. But

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I I'm curious about your own story, Ellen. So what

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put you on this path to starting Graf Martin Communication? I'm just

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curious a little bit if you could dig into your story a bit. What brought

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you here? Yeah. I actually was a missionary before

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I was a marketer, which is really fun. It's kind

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of a jump. People think, okay. How did that happen? But after university,

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I grew up on Vancouver Island. I went to university on Vancouver Island. I

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actually studied criminology. I thought that I would be working

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with the rehabilitation of female offenders or

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young offenders. That's what I thought I would do. Had a passion for that. Thought

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that's what God's gonna call me to. Graduated, and I was too young for

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anyone to take me seriously, to be honest. And,

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that's not why this happened, but it was how God then used that

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time was that I, after that, ended up with

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Operation Mobilization in Latin America on their ship,

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Logos 2. And I did a cross cultural

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communications internship with Prairie Bible Institute while I

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was in Latin America doing that and realized, you

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know, I was a word person and communication. It was no

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mistake that I was, you know, in criminology learning

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about how people think. So did you see this thread

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throughout kind of looking back as our hindsight is Wendi, but could you

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see this thread of communication and the love for telling

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stories throughout your life? Yeah. You know, when I was

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a kid, I so I was an early reader. I was a very early

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reader. When I was in grade 4, they tested me and said, well,

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you've graduated English. Wow. And so I no longer had to

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take English as of grade 4. So that was, like, an area of

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gifting for me, but it was also an area of interest. So my mom

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and I would go to garage sales, and my favorite thing to buy was a

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typewriter. And this was I mean, you and I are of the same vintage,

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and so typewriters were a thing. And people were selling them, and they were selling

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their manual typewriters and replacing them with electric typewriters. So I

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don't know how many manual typewriters I had. And I would

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write stories. That's what I would use them for. And I basically would

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replace them when the the ink ribbon ran out. I'd have to buy another one

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at a garage sale, and I was always writing. That is so

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fascinating, that that early interest in how you your

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mom even helped channel that. I'm just curious. What

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about storytelling was so intriguing to you? Was it the

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creativity? Was it helping people down this

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path, this imagination? Or what was it about storytelling?

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I think it was just that the stories brought me to life. I was

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always very empathetic, and I had a big

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imagination and just loved crafting words

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together in a way that drew emotion and drew

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response and drew people into a story where I think that they could

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escape a little bit. That's just what I loved, and I still love

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that. Today, I just get to do it in a different way. Well and I

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was gonna say too with the Graf Martin Communication, and you have a full team

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and and it's growing and and you just can't keep up, but you

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really look like you are enjoying what you do. It doesn't

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feel like a job to you. At least it doesn't seem like a job when

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I'm interacting with you. You're just infectious about what you're doing. Can you tell us

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a little bit about Graf Martin Communication and sort

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of the area that you work in? Yeah. So we

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exist to strengthen organizations that are

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championing hope, generosity, and justice. That's really

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what we do. Or if an organization is a hope organization, a

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generosity organization, or a justice organization,

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that's where we land. And so we support those organizations

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to get clarity around their messaging because most of them really

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struggle. They know what they wanna do, but they don't know how to say

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what they are doing. That that was us. That

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yeah. It was. It was. There was this enormous passion and

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enormous skill Wendi I saw you and Harold and the

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team around you. You had this dream and a passion and a

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calling, but didn't know how to tell people clearly what

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that was so that they could be invited to participate with you in it.

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And that's really, at the end of the day, what we do, whether that is

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via brand or public relations, or if it is

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through thinking through fundraising, planning, and

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revising monthly donor programs. And just even the language

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around that, we're all about language. And and then what does that look like

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even when it turns into so if you've got a brand language, what does that

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look like when it turns into a logo? So, you know, are you a

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cheerful brand? And do you pick bright colors like a CareImpact? Or are

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you, really serious in picking

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navy blues and bank colors, if that makes sense. And

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so, we kind of run the gamut on that. And then what does it look

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like when you reach out to media? What does it look like for

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public perception? All the way down to crisis communications. Because

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crisis communications is reputation and brand management,

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and the words you use in a crisis really matter. And

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we learn that when we read the news or watch the news, that

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the words that people choose in a moment of crisis are really

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critical. And most charitable organizations

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or the organizations we work with don't have a crisis comms plan

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and don't even know where to start with that. So that's another example

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of how we bring words to life. Can you give me an example

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of a crisis management, like, maybe a organization you're working

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with that that does this or that you've been working with

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to get that message out? Because it's critical. It is critical. So we've

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actually written a number of crisis comms plans

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for charities in the last year because there are

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more landmines in the space than there used to be.

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And people who started out with Goodwill and, you know, a few

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donors and creating something incredible, now, the

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words that they use are being measured in different ways. Like, when you have a

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you're using more words, not necessarily thinking intentionally about every

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single word that you would choose like you would in an appeal or a newsletter.

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Right. And so, the more words we have, the more opportunity we have

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to be exposed or to be picked apart.

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And, like, we have seen a lot over the last,

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not just few years, but the last decade, even with things that have come out

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around residential schools and around church and

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abuse. I mean, there's just so many, like it, unfortunately, it

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is a There are countless ways, even financial

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mismanagement. These are some of the areas that we

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plan for. If it happens, what will we do?

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What will we say? Who will say it? And how will we respond?

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So I think every organization really should have a plan in hand for

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that. So if they have a crisis comms plan and a brand, they've actually got

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a lot of the pieces that they need for a really solid foundation for years

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to come. And recently, we met together in

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Winnipeg. We got to hang out for for a day, which is really a lot

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of fun, and you were here releasing something with The Chosen. You've

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been working with them, and and that's another form of communication, getting the

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word out there, working closely with Dallas in that. Can you tell us

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a little bit about that and what that journey has been like in Canada?

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Yeah. It's been amazing. I've actually never seen anything like

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it as a brand focused or brand engagement focused

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agency, and that's how we use our communications. Seeing the

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brand engagement for The Chosen is remarkable.

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And, like I said, I've just never seen anything like this. And,

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frankly, I think that The Chosen has been my most impactful

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evangelism method over the last 20

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years of work. Even though I was a missionary for 5 years before I

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started this, I think, oh, I have actually told more people about Jesus

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through my work supporting The Chosen in Canada than I did when I was a

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missionary for 5 years. So it's been really exciting. And I think we have a

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lot to learn from the response that people have had to The

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Chosen, and we we did some research with them in the fall.

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And one of the things that was most exciting is that of

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the non Christian or non church audience that we

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surveyed, over half of them were had either watched an

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episode or were open to watching an episode of The

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Chosen and interested in the story. That tells us something.

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I mean, we think nobody cares about Jesus, but it's not true

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from the research we did. Well, I'm hoping we can have a bit of a

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conversation on evangelism and what that means today in

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the here and now and demystify some of the misconceptions sometimes

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we have. Because sometimes, for me, it it's felt like, well, we

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need to have these awkward conversations and force conversations that people

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don't want, and yet Wendi we look at the good news and evangelism

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is the spreading of good news, it's infectious. There's something. It's

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good for all people, and and the message might change with the

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audience and and what we're we're speaking of may

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be different for different people. But let's talk a bit

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about that word evangelism. You have

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this gift of evangelism simply by the way

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you are infectious about getting the communication out there. You were out there with

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your typewriter telling stories. You've been living in this,

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built a business around sharing good

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news. When you think of evangelism, even from a

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biblical context, is there some passage that comes to mind or

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or things that that inspire you? Yeah. You

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know, I am inspired by the book of acts because when you

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even asked me to, you know, talk about evangelism, I thought, I

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think she has the wrong person. I'm not the evangelist. And

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so I really had to think about this. And one of the things that

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has driven decision making for me is at the very

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beginning of the book of Acts. And it's when Jesus

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was, you know, giving, not commands, but his

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marching orders to his disciples or meeting with them.

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And before he ascended into heaven, the apostles were with Jesus and

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they were saying, so, you know, has the time come now

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for you to restore our kingdom and free

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Israel? And, Jesus said, the father alone has

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the authority to set those dates and times, and they are not for you to

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know. Mhmm. And I think so many of us think, okay, that God's gonna bring

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his kingdom now. We have to do these things and push.

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And I think he says, I'm building my kingdom when you pray.

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May your kingdom come and your will be done on earth as it is in

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heaven. This is God's will, let it happen. But there

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is a job still for us because Jesus said to his apostles, but you

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will receive power when the holy spirit comes upon you. And you will be

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my witnesses telling people about me everywhere in

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Jerusalem, throughout Judea, in Samaria, and to the ends of the

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earth. And I think we, I think we make

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our call out to be too big. I think we need to reach everyone.

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And what I hear from this is that, okay, it's important for you to

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talk to the people in your Jerusalem. And I see this as, okay, who

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are the people in my direct circle? Who are the people right around me in

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my neighborhood? And who are the people in my Judea? So that kind of

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next circle of people. And who are the people in my Samaria? Like, the

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place I wouldn't normally go and is outside that boundary, and

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then to the ends of the earth. And what is my responsibility to each of

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those groups? And so, it actually has taken some of the pressure off. I'm

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like, okay, the Holy Spirit is gonna come upon me, make me a witness.

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And then, I just have to ask God, like, where do you want me

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to be sharing right now? What is my Judea? What is my Jerusalem? What

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is my Samaria? And what does to the end of the earth look like for

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me? And so that has helped me figure out where I work.

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And I was actually really disappointed when God was like, Jerusalem and

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Judea is where I'm sending you, because I wanted to be a very exciting missionary

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going to I had great plans for, like, working in a Muslim

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slum in Indonesia, and God was like, you're going to

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Ontario. And, I'm like, what? That was

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kinda my Samaria, I'm not gonna lie. As a West Coast kid, it was

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kinda my Samaria. Well, I was planning to be overseas too. I had

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planned it. I was doing my undergrad overseas, and then,

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finished my master's thinking I had some great jobs lined up that I

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was gonna do, and God said, you're gonna be in Winnipeg. But

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something that what you said there, I love, is that it's like you have to

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know your Jerusalem, though. You have to know your audience. Communication isn't just

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like barfing it out there on the street and it's like, blah, like, here it

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is. Like, take it or leave it. It's understanding your audience. Understanding

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communication is who is receiving that, having that emotional

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intelligence, that communication intelligence to know,

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what it is you're sharing, that it is good news in a way that

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is contextualized. It's not changing the good news. It's

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understanding who you're talking with that is natural, like connection,

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really. One of my good friends is

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a very well established writer, and she

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said to me this is her name is Holly Girth, and she said to

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me, when she writes a book, she doesn't write a

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book because she has something to say. She writes a book

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because there is something someone needs to hear. And that's a

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very, I mean, it might seem like a small difference, but it's a huge

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difference. And I think what And so, when we're even working on

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communications with a client, we think, know your audience

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and then also don't just know them, don't just have an avatar and a persona,

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but understand what they're experiencing right now.

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What are they thinking about? What is keeping them up at night? What are they

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feeling? What are they doing right now? Are they so busy that they

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don't even have time to hear what you're saying? Or are they so busy that

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just offering a cup of tea to your neighbor and a break for

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half an hour is actually the best message that you can give and an

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opportunity to connect? So we need to know what

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people need to hear, not what we just wanna say.

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Right. Yeah. No. It it takes some humility to pay attention

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and to listen to people. I I think of if

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we're wanting to work with people that are

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finding themselves homeless, just giving them a track and

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telling them, like, fire insurance, this is the way to heaven,

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and yet we're not extending a blanket or a housing plan

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or asking them, what does good news sound like to you today?

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And coming alongside in those ways, really

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isn't going to be effective. Not to to lose that

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eternal perspective, but sometimes

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that journey towards that full understanding of of the

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gospel and the redemption that God has for us

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starts with that cup of water. And and it says in Matthew

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25, like, when did we see you hungry and and thirsty? When did we see

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you in prison? But that was good news in those moments.

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Being in those spaces, even Jesus wasn't saying, you better preach them

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in. It was so tangible, so

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simple, and that's one of the experiences that I had working with you

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and your team as we were working on some rebranding for Care

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Impact. And how do we break it down to the smallest thing,

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something tangible, something easy to understand? Yes. We're

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doing some complex things behind the scenes, but, really, it breaks down to something

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so simple. We're just helping strangers become good neighbors. And,

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and I see you doing that with so many organizations, faith

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based organizations. How do we bring that into context

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in something that is tangible? Yeah. I think

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we've all been on the receiving side of someone

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telling us something that might be true, but isn't necessarily

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very helpful in that moment. And I mean, if you're married or have a spouse,

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you know this really well. Because sometimes our spouse will say something to us and

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we're like, that you are not being very helpful right now. Like, especially for me

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if my husband gives me advice when I'm upset or if she if he

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said, calm down when I am upset. I mean, is it

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true? Yes, I need to calm down. Is he wrong? No. But is it

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helpful helpful in that moment? Not whatsoever, and it will probably not turn out

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well for either one of us. And so I think knowing where your person

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is at and meeting them where they are at, what would be more helpful

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in that moment is to ask the question, what do you need right

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now? Like, how are you feeling and what do you need? And And I think

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we can all learn that because I do the same thing to him. So I'm

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not picking on him. We wanna solve a problem fast, and we just wanna

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tell people what we think they need to know. And we don't wanna ask

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for clarity from them, and we don't want to listen

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necessarily. And so, communicating is more about listening

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than about talking or sharing words. It's about

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responding. And in order to respond, you need to listen and you need

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to hear your audience and you need to know them. And so,

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yes, if my husband listens to this podcast episode, just want him

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to know I'm not picking on him. I've got the same problem. It's a common

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problem, especially in our culture. We're so busy. We don't wanna have to take

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the time to listen to someone. We wanna just tell them what we think they

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need to know. Well, I have a silly example, but a true

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example Wendi visited you at your house, and we

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we communed over our love for coffee. And I expressed my

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enjoyment for a good bean and a good cup of coffee as did you,

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and so we got on to we were just passionate about it, and then you

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introduced me to your coffee machine. And it just, like,

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was an epiphany. It was just this, like, good news to

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all mankind kind of a moment. I know this is silly. This

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isn't gospel, so don't people don't get too hung up on this.

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But it was easy for you to tell me about this beautiful coffee

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machine that just pours out this beautiful

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blend of of beans. And just like that,

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when somebody has good news to share in a gospel sense,

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maybe they've been set free from addiction or maybe it's just

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that they've learned to meditate and breathe when

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they were feeling anxious, something very practical. But I think in

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our community, we have things like that where somebody is

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expressing to us, just like I expressed to you my love for coffee,

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somebody's expressing to us, I'm anxious or I'm,

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working through this difficult situation or in parenting

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or I'm unsure and I and I'm feeling

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uneasy, to be able to identify with each other and point

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them to something, Maybe it's breathing, maybe it's a prayer, or maybe it's, like

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whatever it is, it there's a natural expression and a connection that

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happens, and those with the gift of evangelism

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are more attuned to it. And I think, honestly, all of us

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should mature in these things. It's not like we just leave it all to Ellen

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and and send everybody to Graf Martin Communications to get

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fixed. But people with the gift of evangelism are part

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of the 5 fold ministry of the church so that they can

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inspire us. How do we share our story? Because we all have different

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gifts as you mentioned. And how do we help connect with

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people in very meaningful ways that it really is good

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news? So, yeah, it may start with a cup of coffee.

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It might start with a cup of coffee. And I think starting where you're at,

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people think evangelism, they think too big for me and too scary for

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me. I think that's really what people think. But I think evangelism

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starts with an enthusiasm and a willingness to share that. And the

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enthusiasm, like, I even think of the, the root of that. Like, this is God

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in me. We've been given the gift of the holy spirit. Each one of us

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who know Jesus have been given the gift of the holy spirit. And it

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is our responsibility to use that

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enthusiasm to bring life to the people around us.

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And personally, how I see this as well is I

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am not in Indonesia, but I'm not also released from

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that responsibility. I do what I do in my neighborhood,

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and I do what I do in our community, in our province, but I

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also see this as my responsibility in my own personal giving and

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in my family's giving. So we give in our Jerusalem,

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our Judea, our Samaria, and to the end of the earth.

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And so we choose what charities we give to locally

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and the things that we believe that God is calling us to

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care about. And, I mean, you and I share a passion for

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child welfare and ensuring, like, family resilience.

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And so what are the groups that are doing that? That you've got us uniquely

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impassioned me for that. And it is life giving to

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me as well as life giving to the organizations that are already doing that. We

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don't need to do all the things. Others are already doing that. And so that's

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what I'm trying to say. So who is doing that internationally and to the end

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of the earth? Who is doing that across Canada? Who is doing that in the

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places that I would rather not go? Like, I am probably not a person to

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do I am way too fussy and proceed to do,

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like, deep street ministry. I am just not that

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person. It's just not me. But it doesn't mean that I don't care about

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it. And it doesn't mean that I am absolved from all responsibility.

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And you are getting the messaging down to a a great point so

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that those people who are called into those ministries can

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really get donors and partners behind them and other

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people who are called into that to hear about it and and

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grow that ministry in that way. So that is a huge part that

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you you play. I'm curious I'm curious in

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Canada, in our current context, what does evangelism,

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good communication of good news look like in Canada? Is it

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a a harder audience to convince in the

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more in the religious sense, the spirituality sense of the

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word? Is it a harder hill to climb in communicating

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good news in a Canadian audience, or is that a misconception?

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I think it's a misconception. And, you know, when I joined

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Operation Mobilization many, many years ago, I

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remember them teaching us. The first thing we learned to do was

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to share our testimony, our personal testimony, and to identify

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it and to share it in 3 minutes. And, yeah, I thought,

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okay, this is seems kinda weird. Maybe, like, why is this the first thing we're

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learning? We weren't learning the theology of evangelism. We weren't

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learning all of the the big, you know, well, I

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guess, theological terms for God to explain him

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well. But we were learning to explain what he had done in our life and

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our experience with Jesus. And

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one of the things they told us in that time was

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people may argue with the church or argue with

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the Bible, but they can't argue with your personal experience.

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And we all have that experience.

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And so learning how to articulate it, even if we don't

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think it's very exciting, because there are a lot of us who our

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conversion or our transformation isn't, doesn't look that remarkable.

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But when I look back, I think, wow, like, I can see what God has

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done in my life and the things that he has walked through with

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me and carried me through and

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carried me from and released me from or saved me from.

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And I just think of the hope I have, you know, even when I when

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I lost my dad 8 years ago, I didn't understand the

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reality of heaven until then. And I, when

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I lost my realize, I read something, a book called Imagine

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Heaven. And I realized my dad didn't wanna come back.

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He was in heaven and he didn't wanna come back. He was just waiting for

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us to be there. And even that piece of my testimony is a

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is it's a testimony, and no one can argue with my

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understanding with that. I mean, they could try, but it's not gonna get anywhere. But

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they they can hear it, and they can hear it a lot more than if

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I was quoting scripture, rescriptor, rescriptor to them. They may

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not realize that I've actually woven the words of scripture all into my testimony,

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but it's my story. And it's the story God has given me uniquely, and I

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can share it. I think that's very profound and and

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very practical, actually, because it it begins within

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ourselves. Yes. We wanna listen to our audience, but before we even just

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scan our audience and who who God has brought in our

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midst, what is God doing in our hearts? What is good news in our own

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life that we can celebrate? Are we even

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focused on those things? Are we allowing the Holy Spirit to work in our

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lives and recognizing his presence in ours so that we have something to

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share, not just a doctrine to pass

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on? It it's not just a religion to to spread,

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but what has God actually done in my life that is

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truly joyful? Because when when there's joy in a person's life,

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when there's life, like, oozing out of them, I naturally

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wanna know, hey. What gets you up in the morning? Right? And and and,

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wow. Like, I'm seeing something or even in their grief, but there's a

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tenacity. There's something just grounding them that

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I want to know. There's there's something almost magnetic that

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I want to know, but you've given us something practical formulate. What is

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it that God has done in my life? What is it within me? And being

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able to communicate that is evangelism

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at its core, which is just so beautiful. Is

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there anything else practical that you would give other people? Perhaps

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they're awakened saying, hey. Maybe I love marketing. I love telling

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stories. I I identify with your childhood story. Maybe there's something

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within me that I do have the gift of evangelism that I need to be

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offering that to the the broader church and community or

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ones that are learning from you. Are there some practical things that we

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can do to grow in evangelism

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right in our own Jerusalem? I think, number

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1, specific to evangelism is to know

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your story, know your personal story. I think so many of us are just moving

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so fast, and we discount, what happened before.

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And it's funny. This morning and forgive me for this, but this is a strange

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reference. But this morning, I was listening to music with my daughter on the way

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to school, and then Miley Cyrus' song, Wendi I Was Young,

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came on. And I thought, we all have that story, you know?

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You say that I was this, but I say that I was young. You know?

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You say that I was wild. You say that I was crazy. You say that

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I was fun, but I say I used to be young. And,

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like, in that, she's actually recognizing like, I think this is Miley Cyrus,

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and she's able to recognize her own personal transformation and journey.

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That song actually makes me reflect and stop in my

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tracks and say, what was my used to be young?

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And what are the ways that I think people or even myself, I would have

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characterized myself in those young days? And now, what

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has got done in me? And so, knowing our story and just being able

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to articulate it. An easy way to do that is,

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this is a coaching exercise that I do with people,

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is I get them to write a timeline of their life. And on one side

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of the timeline, I get them to put in their major life events. So,

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like, born, moved, graduated high

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school, married, first child, like, whatever those look like. And then

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on the other side of the timeline, so top side is your is your life

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event. So those are kinda like the what's above the water of the iceberg. And

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then on the bottom, I get them to write in a map of what are

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the things that God has really done in their life. And then compare

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that and take a look at that because often I see, now, that I

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was being confirmed in my faith at 13, and I also realized

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I was going through a really hard time. Personally, like, this is core

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puberty time, so awful for all of us and also

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so awful for self image as girls, 13 year old girls. Like, poor, I

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just, oh, that 11 to 13. But I see that God was

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really grabbing hold of me at that same time. And it reframes

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my memory to say, yeah, I was really struggling with that,

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but God was so present there. And so learning how to articulate our own

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story and identify what God has done through us, I think

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is a massive first step in being able to

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share the gospel and what God has done in your life

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with others. So that would be one really, really practical

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tool that I would give. And the second would be, what are the unique gifts

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that God has given me? Identifying what is your uniqueness. And we did this with

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Care Impact. So we do this with organizations, so I think I may have

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even said this to you. So if all these things that you say are great,

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other people are doing, but what is unique about you? And if there's nothing

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unique, why don't you just go merge with another organization because there's nothing

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unique? And that gets people's back up, you know? Like, well, you know, if

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there's nothing unique, there's something unique about you. And identify what that

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you uniqueness is, that gifting, and ask god to

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equip you in that area as well. That's really good.

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Yeah. I think sometimes we feel very unequipped to be able to

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share our story. I could even think of examples, though, where we

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sometimes overthink it possibly, that we just need to allow

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God to work through us. I think of the shepherds. They got the the good

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news, given to us. They just, like, stormed into the

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town to say the Messiah has been born. But when we

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feel ill equipped, like, what would you say to people who feel

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unequipped? I would say it's not our job

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to do the transformation of a person. It is our job to make a

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space for a person to meet Jesus because I don't feel

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equipped most days, to be honest. I think, oh, you know, God, what have you

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asked me to do? I did not prepare for this. You know, I started

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out in criminology and as a missionary. And now for 15 years, I've run a

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communications agency. And what has

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he has brought back to me over and over is from Exodus. It's a story

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in Exodus of a man named Bezalel,

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who God specifically equipped to

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build the tabernacle. So this is a place where people would meet

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God. And in Exodus 31,

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I'll start with first one. The Lord said to Moses, look, I have specifically

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chosen Bezalel son of Uri, grandson of Hur, of

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the tribe of Judah, which would be Jesus' tribe eventually.

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I have filled him with the spirit of God, giving him great

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wisdom, ability and expertise in all kinds of crafts.

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He is a master craftsman expert in working in gold, silver and bronze.

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He is skilled in engraving and mounting gemstones and in carving

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wood. He is a master at every craft. I think of this

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as probably Bezalel is like, I'm a carver. I

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build things out of wood. I like art. I He said he's a

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master craftsman. He probably wasn't thinking, I have the gift of

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evangelism. That Bezalel was being given the gifts that

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God had for him in order so that he could build a place

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where people could meet God. And I think that is what we are called

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to do. Look at your gifts. What has God equipped you to do? What are

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the experiences that you carry? What is unique about you? And how can

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you use that to create a place where people can meet Jesus, sometimes

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for the very first time? Beautiful. So whatever God

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has entrusted within you, poured through you, share it.

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Don't hold on to it. Give it out. That is the work of the evangelist.

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Thanks so much, Ellen, for taking the time to have this conversation.

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You've really encouraged me and challenged me to really share what God has

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put in my heart, and I hope many people have been encouraged today.

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Thanks so much, Wendy. And be sure to stay tuned for the rest of the

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