What if everything you’ve been chasing — success, peace, and meaning — has been hiding beneath the noise of your own ego? In this soul-awakening episode, Kellan and Nimesh dive deep into what it truly means to awaken. They break open illusions of control and separation, revealing how surrender and love create the only path to freedom.

This isn’t about adding more — it’s about remembering who you already are. If you’ve ever felt that whisper inside saying there’s something deeper than your current reality, this conversation is your call to rise.

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• Why awakening demands surrender
• The illusion of control and the ego’s last stand
• The moment of awakening: the death of who I thought I was
• Remembering love as the essence of your being
• Living from the heart: letting the universe do its magic

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You have infinite power. Welcome to this episode of Your Ultimate Life, the podcast that We've got to help you create a life of purpose, prosperity, and joy.

Today, I'm excited to have Nimesh. Say that for me again.

Nimesh.

Nimesh. Nimesh.

I wanted to get it exactly right because, you know, I don't like having it messed up.

He's a beautiful and wonderful guest, and I've had the chance to visit with him before, and I'm excited to have him on.

Share his thoughts and wisdom.

So welcome Nimesh to the show.

Thank you for having me.

I'm excited. I'm excited about this conversation. Thank you for the space.

You betcha.

So one of the things, I don't do introductions because who you are and what you do comes out in the show and I like it that way.

So I love to just start with a question. What is Nimesh doing to add good to the world?

My... My mission, what I do is my deal with my guides and sources.

I'm just going to keep showing up.

So wherever I'm sent, wherever I feel like my light is needed, I'll keep showing up.

I spent many years in the corporate world, but what I do now is really guide people to truly become themselves.

Through mentoring, through Akashic Records, through just showing up, through my vibration.

I love what I get to do and I love to connect people to their true essence.

Kellan |

01:53

Why is that important? I mean, some people, you know, we live in a world where Drawing up as your true self or authenticity or essence and all that stuff, those are regular.

You know, regular pieces of language that get used, but in lots of places they're not.

And that sounds a little woo-woo and, you know, crazy and stuff like that.

Why is it important for people to connect to their true essence. Why does that matter?

Nimesh |

02:21

So when we come into our physical form, We come with karma that we need to release, and we go through all these things in life, and we have all this programming and these expectations and everything, Sometimes we're not living our own purposeful life, right]?

We're living somebody else's expectations. And once you remove the layers of programming, you start to become your true essence.

You start to understand you at a deeper level. Who you are as a soul, what you're here to... What your light is and what you're here to do.

Because otherwise...

Sometimes we're living in or our parents expected us to do.

Sometimes it's for our religion, sometimes it's for our, you know, society or career, which is all good, there's nothing wrong with that, but as you start to understand you at a much deeper level, you start to understand... What your essence and you know everything you've been through maybe it's your training for what i was coming next me as an example i spent 25 years in the corporate world working in software in IT industry, which is all great.

But with my awake and everything, I understand that. Actually, my voice and my essence add so much value to it.

More value to lots of people, which is where I started the podcast and I started on my spiritual journey.

So you know, Some people are going to be, say, this is woohoo, woo, and doesn't. And that's okay.

But other people are going through some kind of shift inside and feeling something different.

And are open to starting to shift and starting to do something different is that. Feeling inside that.

I'm here to do something else.

So many of us have been through this life trying to fit in. Yeah.

And then we realize we're not meant to fit in, right]?

I mean, your own story is like, you know, it's like.

Totally.

Do You know, I don't think, at least the way we've structured society right now, it isn't conducive to helping people find that essence.

We all want to go through a painful awakening or can we do this in a more... He's in grace way.

It's conditioning, it's programming, and without shaming or blaming parents, society, churches, business, whatever, you know, they've got a sort of formula that they want us to follow.

When a person starts to wake up, is a phrase that we use.

I use it, you use it, and realize that This programming isn't... What they really want to do anymore without regard to what they should have been doing, because that's done.

They wake up and they say, I want to do something else. What is that waking up?

Allow a person to do.

Like you said, you had 25 years in corporate and now you Follow intuition and show up where your light is needed.

So if someone's feeling some of that stirring right now and You know, I really think I... And meant to do something else, that kind of feeling.

What is waking up? I use that word, allow someone to do.

Or begin to do when they respond to that feeling?

Yeah.

I mean, sometimes we make it sound like it's an overnight thing, right]?

I mean, for me, it's happened over a period of years, but it's that. It's time.

The feeling inside that you're meant to do more, there's a feeling inside that you're still in your world, but you don't fit in anymore, right]?

The friends that you maybe have or the work that you do doesn't feel the same.

The things that make you laugh don't. And that's what for me a rebirth looks like.

And, you know, following a rebirth is when you wake up.

So. It's that feeling of disconnect.

It's when... You get up and go, you get up and left, right]?

And then you start to have weird experiences, weird, deeper conversations. And sometimes there is a deep awakening, right]?

Sometimes you go through a lot of really... And you experience a deep level of grief or a deep level of pain, Because sometimes that pain, that grief, Exit to a place where You do?

Find a different essence within you.

So you start to That's what rebirth looks like.

It's that pain is so deep. That you start to feel different things around you.

Just like a death, for example, death of a loved one.

Sometimes you see life differently and when you start to see life differently... From that comes a different way of being.

And that's when you start to realize you're here for something else. And everybody's awakening.

Everybody's kind of when you wake up or whatever you want to call it is different.

But it, The consistency stems from Knowing that you're here to do something different and Like I said, a lot of the time, or traumatic event, We push you to look at things differently.

And that leads you to going through a shift and maybe awakening and having more of that spiritual connection.

When you follow that, like I love what you said to start with, you know, you go where your light is needed and you help people make their own shift or to accept or live into their possibility of shifting and accepting the truth that the essence is meant to do something more and bigger... What is the most rewarding thing for you?

Since I started with what you're doing to add good to the world and you said, I'm just following that spirit and going and doing what I'm needed or what's needed where I'm needed.

What is the most rewarding thing for you? About doing life that way instead of The other way, programming and the other stuff you used to do.

I mean, there's a couple of answers to that.

I mean, with the mentorship work I do, it's just... When you see somebody's eyes light up, Because they realized that the power they have in the scene.

It's like when you've been doing things a certain way and you realize, well, actually, You have a choice.

You can do something differently. And it's that awareness that you get in you that, well, the reason that I've been feeling stuck in this area is because of this programming but You can get frustrated with it or you can realize, well, hold on, I have a choice to do something different.

When people start to realize they have a light in them, a gift in them, like they start to use their voice.

And people hear them differently.

So when you feel the impact It's so... Sometimes you feel like that, Like a parent, you know, when you see something in somebody's eyes and the light change in that moment.

It's such a powerful. And the other thing with, you know, with my attitude to life is... You have the most wildest... Exciting, interesting conversations with people when you have that view.

I mean, I just, I went to an event the other day and I walked around, I'm like, I'm not sure why I've been sent to this event.

And I was walking out and... This couple, this lady stopped me when she was with her husband.

She's like, you don't know me, but your name is Shradi, right]? I'm not sure.

She's like, well, I've seen you on social media. I wasn't going to come to this event, but I knew I was meant to meet you.

So that's why I came to this event. Okay, cool.

So she was like all day yesterday, I was thinking about you and So I gave her a hug, gave her a call and said, yeah, reach out.

Let's have a conversation. And it's just. Beautiful conversation, beautiful light. When you open to magic, magical things happen.

When you have expectations, it's different.

Right? It is. That's such a powerful truth.

When you're open to magic happens.

Like we create our lives. I know you agree with this.

And when you're open- To magic. We live our lives so closed.

And resistant to the fact that there is more and we don't want to see, you know, we live with blinders or...

You know, dark sunglasses on or something.

It's a defense mechanism. If we expect magic and it doesn't come, we'll be disappointed.

So why don't we stay in this box?

What if the magic not coming was the magic?

Yeah, 100%.

I mean, right then, like we live with this set of expectations, like we got a playbook about how life ought to be, right]?

And in it, it's got all kinds of things. And when you look at the universe's playbook or God or whatever, it's way different because the outcomes or the goals are different, expansion, growth.

And so maybe magic not coming was the magic for you.

Yeah.

100%. But magic is everywhere.

If you're looking, you know, it's like you're walking in nature, you could sit there, you could be walking and be on the phone and, you know, or be stuck in traffic or whatever.

It's like. Me, you, I was stuck in traffic. I was like... But then... I just stopped and looked around and it's like when you walk in nature you're stopping and seeing a flower you know it's just magic is there everywhere if you're looking for it but if you sometimes we were expecting this big epiphany in the sky the flash in the sky and all of a sudden we're awakened found our destiny my god and it's like.

Yeah, well, what if your destiny is already in your heart?

What if you just... Taking a moment, two minutes for yourself to go out in nature and be present.

It's the magic you're looking for.

I have a question.

We'll go back to the beginning when I asked you how you had Good to the World.

You listed several things, and one of the things you talked about was Akashic Records.

Can you tell, I'm sure there are people who have no idea what that is, can you describe that a little bit, what it is?

What that means and what you do with that.

Sure.

So, Cashy Records are more about a journey of your soul.

So... Again, my belief, we've had many lives, so the Akashic Records are a record of your past lives, your parallel lives, your future lives.

Everything about your soul and your essence is stored in the records.

And when you tap into your records, you get an insight into this life.

Now, obviously, human psyche can't take everything about what your soul's been through so what you're What you get with your records, and I channel them through your guides, is I always say they tell you what you need rather than what you want.

So to give you an insight maybe into the karma that you carry into this life, the past life essence, I'd love to connect you, build a deeper connection with your guides through the records.

For me, the records have opened up a deeper connection to my essence, a deeper connection to other realms, a deeper connection to my guides.

Yeah, I love, I mean, the records, I was guided to open the records by one of my mentor, my friend, She left this realm.

He's only 30 years old in a fire. And she became a spiritual guide and she's the one.

That was very persistent with me to learn how to read the records and They help me to understand why I'm here.

They help me to understand my soul contract with her.

They give you... A deeper essence and a deeper guiding to who you are.

The reality is you're a soul having human experience.

So it's not like your guides are going to let you bypass the human experience.

If you're meant to go through something painful, that's part of your expansion.

You're still going to go through it, but with the awareness the records gives you, it helps you to understand why your soul picked that.

And with that understanding, It's a way of accelerating your journey.

And yeah, they just give you a deeper insight into who you are at a much deeper level.

Is that like a service that you offer in terms of business or is that like, how does that Like, let's see, I have never done that sort of thing.

And you and I visited with that a little bit, not. In your podcast.

But before that, when we talked a little bit about it.

And so if someone says to you, Wow, that sounds really interesting. I would like to connect with my guides.

I've always felt that there's presence around me or, you know, some kind of thing because we all feel those things.

What would they do?

Like, what does that look like?

Nimesh |

14:11

So the way I read the records for... For others, and here's a service I offer is, I connect with your guides, and I channel a message, because they have full access to your records.

I channel a message. I'm in many ways a vessel for the message. I don't filter it.

I don't change it. When I open the records for somebody, it's actually the time when I feel most connected source.

The human in me is not really there.

So I will connect with your guides who it's a very protected environment because they love you unconditionally.

And I channel a message for you through that. And the way I'll do it is I'll take you through a guided meditation before.

The meditation is really about cleansing our energy, me connecting with your higher self, I'll then say a prayer to open the records.

I channel a message for you. Then I'll give you an opportunity to ask any questions you have.

And the message, like I said, it's... I've No two readings are the same.

I mean, there's similarities.

I always like to connect you with a couple of your guides and things like that, but... It really is a journey for your soul.

It gives you... Guidance on what you've been through in this journey, what you've been carrying.

Normally some past lives come up.

Yeah, some ancestors. I feel like in this phase we're in right now, because the planet's going through such a shift, Our guides are trying to communicate with us more.

Our ancestors, our deeper ancestors are coming through much more too.

So It's a beautiful time to... Connect with you guys and feel the energy and the vibration around you because I feel like we've been pushed and nudged so much more because the planet's going through a shift and we're going through a shift in parallel.

Let's talk about that shift right now. Thank you for that explanation. I Completely.

Nimesh |

15:59

Hope that makes sense on the record. It makes sense.

Kellan |

16:04

What it says to me, and I'll say it back and you can fix it, is that lives, present, past, future, are written in records.

Spiritual guides that all of us have access to those records.

And you, going through some process, have learned to connect with guides and to give someone who's with you a message from those guides that come from the records.

In terms of assisting them or clarifying or explaining things that... Are with you or in you or that you're carrying or that you've been through or something like that.

It sounds like most of the time, at least, or maybe all the time, it is a, is it?

Is a tool, a powerful, can be a powerful insight or A piece of help, wisdom, clarification.

It allows you to have a different perspective on something that either has happened or that you're going through.

That's what.

I heard. - Yeah, I mean, 100%.

I mean, we all have access to our guides and stuff Depending on how we access them in this room but it's like when you give somebody permission to open your records it's you're giving them permission to go deeper because when you connect with your guides your ego's still there the human's still there and it's just there's so much other when you give a reader permission you're giving them permission to go even deeper to get a deeper message and i always say that whoever i do reading for whoever i work with it's a soul contract So

at some point at a soul level, we contracted each other to have that deep experience.

Anyone that allows me to open the records. For me, it's a blessing.

I get to feel the love of your guys, the love that's around you, the deeper essence of your soul.

And for me, that's the sacred process.

Thank you for saying that.

And here's what I want to take hear from that and.. Talk a little bit more about it.

You know, the world, us, every one of us, we are spiritual beings having this human experience here.

We were somewhere before, we're going to be somewhere after.

And all of us work, and this I know from my own experience dying and coming back to life, like we are created intentionally from love, with love, and so your expression of that being the pervasive feeling, and beauty of that love and how you get to be sort of bathed in that love as you participate in that experience with them.

I can understand why that's so beautiful. All right.

So thanks for sharing that.

You said something during that process about The planet's going through a shift and so are we.

Could you talk more about that? What you're sensing, what you know, what you're experiencing? It makes sense.

Is that true?

So I really feel like what the planet's like, we're shifting from a divine masculine to a divine feminine.

And what I mean by that is if you look at the last few centuries and... It's all been about the masculine.

You have masculine and feminine in this, right]?

So it's not about males.

But it's about... Shifting from masculine has all been about ego, putting people on a pedestal, wars.

And it just feels like we're shifting more from, that essence to more of a feminine, which is all about the heart.

It's all about shifting from I think to I feel. You look at what's happening on the planet.

You can see there's a lot of chaos and I feel like Over the next 12, 18 months, the planet's going to go through such a massive shift that And we have a choice.

Do we focus on allowing the noises outside to consume us, whether there's wars, whether it's natural disasters, whatever else is going to happen?

Or do we choose to focus on the shift that's happening inside?

Because in parallel with the planet, the planet's going through a shift.

So are we.

And that's why I feel like in this lifetime, there's so many of us that have gone through some deep shifts.

It's almost like preparing us for the shift that this planet is going through.

And, you know, a lot of spiritual leaders talk about moving from shift, third dimension to the fifth or ascension, whatever human words you want to give it.

I feel like it's an opportunity for us as a soul. To shift to be more present, more heart-led.

I feel like the area we're going into, community, is going to be so much more important rather than you know, we're all having human experience, but Why do we always feel like we need to do it alone?

Maybe six months, the last few years. Lots of conversations with people I've had, everyone's kind of felt lonely, like nobody really understands me, I've been going through something and I can't.

Some of that we had to do on our own, but I feel like we're shifting into a phase where our hearts are opening up.

We're connecting to more feminine and more communities. Or the other thing that's going to happen is the noise that's on the planet is going to consume us.

And we're going to focus on things that maybe we can't change, but, And it's just, you have, everybody has a choice and reality is, The answer for any individual may be somewhere in the middle.

You know sometimes obviously you're gonna focus on the external noise but If we can just Be the example and guide people to focus on the inside.

None of us say it to fix anybody, right]? Nobody needs fixing. Everyone's exactly where they're meant to be.

If I can... Ooh my words and my energy, my vibration, give people another choice, another way of being. Then.

I'm doing what I'm here to do. I give them a choice.

We know I don't force anyone to change, but if my words or my energy just, allows people to maybe see things a little differently and start to focus on themselves.

And I'm doing what I'm here to do.

I want to talk a little bit about that.

Awareness in us because the external demands its own attention, prestige, money, power, position, all that stuff.

And what you're talking about, I love, which is, And I agree with. And I wonder, what do you do?

With someone you're working with who's sensing some of these disturbances, but they don't feel like they know how.

To hear intuition, inspiration, to focus on that. Energy, that vibration is part of the shift.

How do you help someone? Who is or has been carrying a story or has had the habit of focusing only on the noise and the external.

How do you help me if I come to you and say, wow, that sounds cool.

I want to focus on new stuff. How do you help me do that?

Nimesh |

22:36

So... I mean, it's such a long answer to that, but I work on your four bodies, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual, your karma that you're carrying, the Anything that's trapped could be in any one of those bodies.

Really, when we're going on a healing journey, first step is always awareness.

Without awareness, without truly understanding your programming, you know, kind of what you're carrying and actually what.

Once you remove the layers, the awareness increases.

So once you become aware and the way you, the first way you start to become more aware is change your question.

Because sometimes your story consumes me. I went through this, guess what]?

I went through this and it becomes like trauma dumping, right]?

It's like my trauma is so much deeper than yours. It's never about the trauma.

It's about what did you learn from that trauma? How did you expand through it.

And once you change your question and realize that, The trauma you've been through and the pain you've been through has actually expanded you in some kind of way.

Then that awareness helps you to understand yourself at a deeper level.

And then the next stage after awareness is acceptance. Accepting you in this moment, falling in love, because we're always so focused on the next version of ourselves.

You know, it's like, I'd be happy when this happens. I'll be happy.

Or, you know, once I've got through this phase, once I understand my pain.

No, because the second thing I do is, We're a soul having a human experience.

So why do we want to bypass the human experience?

Why do we want to wait and say, you know what, when this happens, then we'll be happy.

No. The biggest thing we can do right now and guide people to is to be focused on this moment.

Because that's where the magic is, right]? If we're honest with ourselves, how much control do we have of the future?

I mean, COVID lockdown is an example, right]? I mean, who could have predicted that, right]?

And So the thing is, If we're honest with ourselves, we don't really have a lot of control of the future.

Yes we can manifest and yes we can plan and all the human stuff we've got to do but If we can be present in this moment, present in this conversation, present in the love that we have inside and around us, then maybe the next moment becomes even more magical.

So I really try and guide people to be present in this moment, because that's where the magic happens.

You can't unless you've got a time machine, you can't change the past.

And if you've got a time machine, please let me know. But you can't change.

You can learn from the past.

Yeah. And you can embrace the future, but if you love this moment and look, You're going through something painful.

Then you've still got to know that this too shall pass.

And the pain that you're going through is here to teach you something. Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

Sometimes we stay in a situation, we've already experienced the pain.

But we stay in the situation and that's when we suffer.

What the awareness and the focus on the moment allows you to do is to really integrate the pain and complete that phase so you can actually then move on to whatever's next.

And if that happens in the moment, it doesn't happen in the future. It doesn't happen.

In somebody else, it's like, how often do we struggle to, and this is the other thing I teach is putting yourself first.

Often do we give our power away? It's like put everybody else first.

And in the end, we become tired and we don't have an energy vibration.

It's just I guide people to understand that when you put yourself first, your light becomes so much brighter.

You can help so many more people. And it's not selfish to put you first.

Actually, it's selfish if you don't.

You know, that's such a... Touch up.

Such a point of discussion because people believe in being selfless or putting others first, they're somehow noble, And there's two problems with that.

One is you get drained, so your cup becomes empty, and you're serving from an empty cup, which simply means that you collapse and wither away energetically, spiritually, and even physically.

The other thing that happens is often When we're doing that, it builds up this resentment because we're not appreciated, or people don't understand, or know how much we've done for them, and hear all that language.

And it's our expectation.

Right?

Yeah, resentment's the opposite of what you're trying to do because service is love.

And so I just want to agree with you really loudly. Putting yourself first is not about self-indulgence.

It's not about any of that. It's about caring for the physical and spiritual, emotional and mental.

Being that you are so that your cup is overflowing.

I had a friend that always said you serve from the saucer, you know, and so your cup's overflowing and so you're serving from the saucer.

And then that keeps you from getting into resentment, which is the antithesis of love.

And service, so I couldn't agree more with the need to do that.

Nimesh |

27:39

It's making a conscious choice. You know, it's like when you put your prioritize you, it doesn't mean you don't guard your way for people, but it means when you do, actually you're doing it because it makes you feel good.

It's lifting your essence. It's lifting your soul. If you're doing it out of...

You know, a feeling that you have to do it and just, you know, then that's the wrong energy, it's the wrong vibration.

If you have an expectation that... You go and out your way for somebody, you want them to do the same?

Then he's not giving selflessly, right]? I've done a lot of work with myself.

It's like, if I go out my way for people, It's easy to say I have no expectations.

I do have expectations, but I don't expect them to do the same for me.

There's a part of me that wants respect. That's the respect for what I've done, what I've did.

But I don't expect the same. They're not the same as me.

How they give is different to the way I give.

So You, and it doesn't have to give back to me.

You give back to whoever you want, but it's that.

I go out of my way for people because I love doing it. It makes me feel good.

I'm doing it for me. I am selflessly going out of my way for people because it makes me feel good.

I have a friend who starts every talk, I don't know every talk, but I've heard him speak many times.

I've shared the stage with him and he's made a lot of money and he does a lot of things, supports a lot of causes, and he starts his talk with getting up and saying, I am selfish.

And he'll dive into that selfishness and go all in and grinding on it and then ties it around the corner to what you're saying, because he says, you know, I feel so good when I do this and that.

And so it's for me. And so he's emphasizing that point. He's funny.

So it.

Beautiful.

And it's a beautiful way of doing.

Yeah. And his talks are always funny and good.

So I love that. So you've talked about the shift in the world and helping people create that awareness.

So awareness in themselves, like you are a dual being, you have an energetic being, and you get to learn to develop that intuition and trust it.

And the only way... You can learn to do that is to create what you said earlier, some space for stillness, some space, because the spirit doesn't ever seem to scream.

It whispers. And we've got to hear that still, small voice. We're going to miss the boat.

And learning to do that is such a blessing.

Yeah, it's interesting.

I don't feel like we're going to miss anything, right]?

It's like, I have a big belief whatever's for us is going to find us, right]? Whatever's not, then.

We'll miss it. All right, well, we'll miss this boat, and we'll have to take the next one.

Yeah, 100%. But the thing is, you know, This spiritual journey doesn't have to be complicated.

I didn't say it was easy or hard, by the way. I said it doesn't need to be complicated.

For me... Finding that quiet. Connecting to it with your guides.

You know, sometimes my God, it's so complicated.

You've got to meet the universe halfway.

So what I always recommend is... You know, the simple things, time in nature.

Time to be silent, time, some sort of physical activity.

And just

everyone, lots of people say, well, I can't meditate. It's like going to the gym.

You can't go to the gym once and get a six-pack, right]? You've got to do something consistently, right]?

So yes, if you try to meditate and your mind's busy, well... You've got to do something.

I would say at least 21 days.

Yeah, I always recommend start with 10 minutes silence.

Start with just, or even five minutes.

Some people say, I haven't got 10 minutes. But just be with yourself.

Think of it as you time. And If a thought comes through, let it come, let it go, let it come, let it go, and just be gentle with yourself.

What you're doing is, it's not about becoming quiet. It is about, as you said, our intuition, our guides, don't shout.

Our ego shouts. Our ego has a lot of emotions. And the ego is not a bad thing.

EGO, Earth Guide Only, it's trying to keep you safe.

It's trying, it doesn't want you to change, because if you change, what if you fall?

What if you get hurt? But sometimes you've got to just talk to your ego.

And the way, again, you do that is that silent time.

It's about quieting the mind so you can listen to that.

Soft voice that comes from your guides.

And your intuition... It's normally the first thing that comes through.

So again, if you want to start building your messages from the guides.

Ask the question and trust the quiet noise that comes through because When we have a question, what's the first thing we do right now?

We go and ask Google, no, the new latest thing is with chat GPT. Whichever AI you use.

I'm not telling you not to do that, but why don't you just stop and slow down and ask you, how do you really feel about that?

And then trust that whatever's coming through, because my words were, how do you feel? What do you think?

Because thinking is coming from the ego, the brain. When you feel it, it's coming from the heart.

And just starting with simple, you know, just that simple, how do I feel about this?

Maybe that opens up something different. And you start to truly listen to yourself because... This shift that we're going through It's not going to come from your history.

It's everything you've been through in this lifetime. It's in your head, it's in your ego, it's in your... But this shift we're going through, I really feel like it's going to come from a different place where it comes from your heart.

Because Everything we've been through has created this reality we're in right now, which we're talking about needs to be broken down.

What if when you listen to your true essence and then you just try to listen to your heart, You receive new information about ways to be.

And what if it's magical?

I love that and I agree.

And you know, you've taken words that I have written the first Five books that I wrote were a five-volume series on meditation, and people preach all kinds of different, you know, stand on your head in a corner and cross your legs a certain way and do all this weird stuff, you know.

I've said three things. Slow down enough to be where you are. Be still enough to notice what is there.

Trust what comes to you is truth. That's it. And whatever process that way is, and that's a developmental thing.

And, believing, knowing. That you are conceived in love, you're supported by love, the love of your guides is all available to you.

And it is us tuning the antenna. It is us.

You know, turning up the volume. I like, yeah.

You know, it makes it is a trust.

There is a trust. It's a leap of faith.

It is. It's like sometimes we want this proof. All right, you know what?

And it's like, sometimes we'll ask our guides and say, you know what?

I mean, I love to wake up in the morning and say, you know what]?

Today I want you to show up and show off. Guys, you know what]?

I want you to show up and show off for me today.

It's like the show enough maybe just seeing numbers, you know, just 11-11 and whatever and it's like The human mind will say, well, that's not really that.

I need more proof. Why? Why can't you just trust in the magic?

Maybe you're driving on the road and you see... An eagle, whatever you want.

And he's just like, a mind plays tricks on us.

And this is like, What if whatever you see, whatever you is the magic that you asked for?

It's just Wow. Why do, and sometimes why do we need proof?

I mean, the three things, so I should have said the three things. So the 10 minute silence.

The other thing I always love to recommend is mirror work.

And the reason I would love to recommend mirror work is we spend so much time.

Kind of Make the physical body perfect, you know. How often do we spend trying to love ourselves from the inside?

And what the mirror work does, it helps you to understand you from the inside.

So look in the mirror.

You can't look with both eyes, only one eye. And say whatever's in your heart.

I always recommend saying, I thank you, I appreciate you, and I love you.

You could even start with just, I love you. And what that does, it allows you to start loving you from the inside.

And by the way, sometimes it makes you feel uncomfortable because you see something inside you don't like.

And that's okay too. Who cares? And the third thing is journaling.

And a lot of people say, I don't journal, whatever.

But Whatever you're doing, There needs to be a way of releasing it.

Channeling is just a beautiful way of Taking the things that are inside you and releasing it.

And by the way, if you don't want to write it down, record a voice note.

Whatever, but find a way of releasing the things that you're holding on to and, you know, just, Of course, being grateful and all the rest of the beautiful things we can do, but it's not.

Start with one simple thing. Again, because the people don't start this journey because... It just feels too daunting.

My life is too busy. I haven't got time. We'll pick one thing out of everything we've said today.

Pick one thing and do it for a little bit of time, maybe 21 days, and then come back and See what you want to do next.

I had a funny... Funny story that came to me. I love the mirror work too.

And I teach people to do that. I, Told this one client some years ago to look in the mirror and tell him, tell himself, you know, I love you.

And He came back. The next week and he said, man, I'd rather put my hand in a meat grinder because it was so difficult to do that.

You know, but the truth is... You're honoring your creator. Your creator doesn't want you to hate yourself.

They're not living in hate. Your guides, your God, they're not sitting there thinking, you jerk what, I'll love you when.

You're already in love, and this is just an allowing. Of that to happen.

And I loved that you said that. And I just thought of what he said. He did.

I'd rather put my hand in a meat grinder because it was so hard for him to do that.

Yeah. It's like some. It really is.

I mean, all my clients, there's a... When we talk about it, it's like, yeah, that sounds pretty straightforward.

And then they come back and they'll resist. It's like doing all these other things.

I'm like, what about the mirror work?

Yeah, kind of, you know. And it's just, it's powerful.

But the thing is that. This is a vessel that our souls, you know, so... I feel like there's so many souls that want to have this human experience and we are blessed to be here.

Absolutely. We do.

This, the planet's going through. We are blessed to be here.

So when you... And it's like, If you're on it, sometimes you're doing the exercise and looking after the physical body.

Of course, that's important. But it's like sometimes the conversation we have in our head, what we truly think of ourselves on the inside, That's what's causing the disease.

That's what's causing the pain. And Really falling in love with you. It's such a powerful thing to do.

And it's like, because when you love you, then... You let go of this expectation of finding somebody that completes me.

You let go of this expectation of you know, looking for love on the inside.

And by the way, we make this, I make this science sometimes so easy, you know, with my words.

I guess sometimes... I wouldn't say it's hard, but sometimes it's a journey.

And, you know, we've got all this programming that, It's not even just our parents did.

It's centuries and centuries of expectations of how we should be. We're trying to break the mold.

Kellan |

39:16

I was going to say we spent decades learning one thing, and we're not going to undo it in five minutes.

No, 100%. It's going to be a little work.

Nimesh |

39:25

But you were selected as a soul to be here during this shift. Which means you're important, you're needed.

And your life's important. Because again, so often we think, well, he's talking to somebody else.

Well, no, actually, if you're thinking that, we are exactly talking to you. And you're needed, you're wanted.

Everybody is just as important as everybody else.

Kellan |

39:45

And the joy that, like, when you started the episode, and I ask you that.

The energy and the way you spoke the words about what you do.

Were full of truth, they were full of love, And discovering that for yourself, moving from a corporate thing to another thing, It was now fulfilling.

Is what created that energy and that love and that invitation and that sort of juicy you know, feeling.

And I marinated in that because I feel the same way. People ask me how I am.

And I always say something like I'm outrageous because I feel that way all the time. And I love it.

And it's and what he's just telling you is you can have that.

So this is not a couple of weird dudes talking about fun stuff you can't have.

This is on your menu.

100% and actually if you listen to the conversation you're meant to this conversation is for you would what if your guides led you to this conversation.

What if this was their way of Letting you know that there is a different, there is a choice.

But you have to take the step. Your guides want to help you.

The universe wants to help you, but you have to meet them partway. I never said halfway, right]?

What if you just, you're one step, they will take the rest of the journey. But you have to trust.

You have to ask for help. Because the other thing we haven't spoke about as males and, you know, Not even females too, but... Our ability to ask for help.

Sometimes isn't there. You know, it's like we have this ego. We need to do everything on our own.

My God, you know. But this is the time where we should ask for help.

And why not ask for help from our guides too?

That's fantastic. Go ahead.

And the thing is what?

Because sometimes we ask our guys for help.

But we have an expectation they're not going to help.

The guys are going to listen to that and say, okay. We'll prove you right.

You want help, but you don't really expect it.

So if that's what you want, that's what we're going to give you.

It is a leap of faith. And I get it because it's like if you've always... If you asked for help before and you not got it, you have this expectation that No one's here for me.

I'm the only person that, you know, and.

Yeah, man, I get that feeling too, right]?

You know, we've been let down so many times and But what if this is a time to ask for help?

Something has to change. If that formula has been true in your life, okay.

I'm not even going to argue that, but somebody's got to do something different.

I mean, somebody said Einstein, I think, can't solve a problem at the same level of.

Thinking or activity or whatever that caused it.

So we got to get in a different place.

So I want to ask you one question here that I didn't. We've talked a lot about many different things.

But I want to ask you, free open, is there something that was on your heart that you think might be valuable to fit in here as we get toward the end.

Just to remind people that. Your needed, your wanted, your powerful being.

Your voice, I feel like so much right now. We're not using, we're not. We're not using our voice.

We're not speaking our truth. And I don't mean speaking in anger, I don't mean, but I mean, what you have to say is, I mean, you, what you do kind of so beautiful with the storytelling and getting people to write books.

That's, I feel like that's so important. And whether you use your voice to write a book, whether you use it on social media, whether you use it, you just... That's so important.

And the second thing is create your circle. If you're around people that You have to fake who you are.

You have to lower your vibration. You're around people that don't lift you up.

They manifested you a different set of friends. If you know, ask yourself, This person is my sole contract with this person complete.

Have I learned as much as I can? Because this shift that we're going through, I feel, is about Making sure that we're in the right community.

And I feel like for a lot of us, we need to shift that community.

And...

You know, with that community, sometimes that includes our blood family. Our blood family, we pick to expand us.

We don't always pick to love us, but it's our expectation that, and what I mean by that is our parents, our siblings, and family.

Our soul has picked our blood family to teach us something.

But we have an expectation that we should get this love of what we feel it should be from a mother or father.

Maybe we get that.

I mean, I had... Beautiful and you know I still have beautiful amazing parents that are supporting me from the other side but It's our expectations.

And what if we let go of Finding the love from the people around us right now and we create a soul family.

A group of people that truly holds us The house pushes us, expands us, but it does it with love.

What if right now you just allow that love to come through from your guides at the beginning.

What if you just closed your eyes multiple times a day and just felt the love that's around you?

That's fabulous. Nimesh, I thank you so much for sharing your heart.

You're, wisdom, Your... Equanimity, and the things that you have learned. With us today. Thanks for being with me.

Thank you. Such a pleasure. It's such a... Save space to share.

Thank you for creating that space and that energy. Really do feel blessed. Thank you.

And you know, a lot of the time it's 555.

You know, that's another sign from the universe, another sign from our guides.

There you go. It's 555.

So thank you. I love what you do. I love your light.

I love the conversation we've had.

So thank you.

You're absolutely welcome.

My dear listeners and friends, I want you to take this one.

This is an episode you need to listen to a couple times. Go love yourself in the mirror.

Allow the love that's around you to penetrate your heart.

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