Entrepreneur, author, speaker, and Founder/CEO of GameChangers Inc, Peter Voogd, breaks down the mental blocks keeping even very successful people from making six figures, the trick to getting out of "the gap", how to check the balance of your "confidence account", and the importance of separating growth friends from maintenance friends.
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Host:hear often in the next few years. His name is Peter Voogd,
Host:and he's a podcaster. He's the CEO of GameChangersmovement.com
Host:he first started in business at 15 years old. By age 22 he had
Host:the classic entrepreneur story just broke and stressed, but
Host:then in a year, a year later, he made a six figure income, and
Host:within three and a half years after that, he had made a
Host:combined total income of over $1 million. He now talks about
Host:that formula in Six Months to Six Figures. Peter, thanks for
Host:being here.
Peter Voogd:Thank you for having me. And I'm excited to
Peter Voogd:add as much value as I possibly can.
Host:So I want to kind of zero in on the mental side of this,
Host:like breaking past that six figure mark. Do you agree that
Host:it's mostly a mental block?
Peter Voogd:Oh, 100% I think, I mean 70 or 80% of it. I think
Peter Voogd:it's mental, because I see people that have capacity and
Peter Voogd:the skills to get the six figures, but they're stuck
Peter Voogd:making 60 a year because they can't get past them at the
Peter Voogd:block. So I fully agree. I think there's kind of two parts to it.
Peter Voogd:I think one is they're living in the gap, which means the gap of
Peter Voogd:where they want to go, which is 100k to where they are, maybe
Peter Voogd:it's 50. They're living in wishing they made 100k thinking
Peter Voogd:they can't make 100k and they're not appreciating and being
Peter Voogd:grateful for where they already came and the progress they've
Peter Voogd:made. So they're taking too much of a jump mentally, where it's
Peter Voogd:almost like you get overwhelmed, and when you're overwhelmed, you
Peter Voogd:seek distraction. So it's almost like a self fulfilling prophecy.
Peter Voogd:If they don't feel like they have that could pass to your
Peter Voogd:potential to make that 100k they're not going to take the
Peter Voogd:right action. And when you don't take the right action, you get
Peter Voogd:small results, and then they reinforce to themselves, yeah, I
Peter Voogd:knew I couldn't make six figures, and it's an ongoing
Peter Voogd:thing. Whereas the most successful people make a
Peter Voogd:definite decision that they're going to make, that they put the
Peter Voogd:steps in place and make a plan, and they take big action, and
Peter Voogd:that big action produces bigger results, and then they reinforce
Peter Voogd:themselves. I knew I could do this. That's the first part. Is
Peter Voogd:that mental, that they live in that gap without actually having
Peter Voogd:the right strategies and focusing on consistent progress.
Peter Voogd:And I think they also compare themselves to others, which is
Peter Voogd:definitely very miserable to do that. And the second thing is, I
Peter Voogd:don't think the people that are around or their circle of
Peter Voogd:influence is congruent to that. Whereas, if they're making 50k a
Peter Voogd:year, their five best friends, if they add up the income of the
Peter Voogd:people they hang out with the most, it probably averages
Peter Voogd:between 50 and 60 a year. So for me, when I was broke, I remember
Peter Voogd:hanging out with most of the people in my company, and they
Peter Voogd:were struggling, and the sad thing is, they were okay with
Peter Voogd:it. So I really I reevaluated and figured out, okay, if
Peter Voogd:everyone I'm hanging out with this okay with mediocrity and
Peter Voogd:doesn't have the standards I want to live, I need to shift my
Peter Voogd:influence. So I think it's a mix between that living in the gap
Peter Voogd:and then not having the right circle of influence to really
Peter Voogd:pull them up to the higher standard of six figures. And I
Peter Voogd:feel like if people are so focused on six figures that they
Peter Voogd:forget that they need to make 70 and then 91st to make 100 it's
Peter Voogd:going to get them demotivated. So when I was, for example, we
Peter Voogd:wanted to go for I remember when I was new to direct sales, I
Peter Voogd:wanted my office to shoot for a $40,000 week in sales. And in my
Peter Voogd:mind, I'm like, I don't know how that's gonna happen, but I was
Peter Voogd:dedicated to it, but I didn't know how it was gonna happen.
Peter Voogd:And I would think in my head, oh, if I could just do 40 grand
Peter Voogd:in a week, that is just, I would be on top of the world. Fast
Peter Voogd:forward to the next summer, when we're doing 130k weeks, and I
Peter Voogd:was mad if we didn't do 100 it's not that I totally changed
Peter Voogd:atmospheres and environments and I had new people. No, it's just
Peter Voogd:my capacity shifted, because I can strictly elevate my results.
Peter Voogd:So I think that's the key too, is not focusing on doing the
Peter Voogd:huge numbers right away, but having the action steps and
Peter Voogd:making sure you have progress checked along the way. And then
Peter Voogd:on top of that, connecting with people that are already doing
Peter Voogd:it, so they can cut your learning curve in half and you
Peter Voogd:can get there with it.
Host:Yeah, well, if you say this is what I'm going to do,
Host:then you are forcing yourself to come up with a plan to do it.
Host:But if you say this is something I'd like to do, but I don't
Host:think it's really possible. People, you're forcing yourself
Host:to live in that conundrum of, I don't think I can ever pull it
Host:off.
Peter Voogd:Oh, 100% and one of the biggest keys that I talk in
Peter Voogd:my book is you don't have to come up with the answers. If you
Peter Voogd:want to make six figure income, or if you want to become a best
Peter Voogd:calling author, you have to find the best people that have
Peter Voogd:already done it and be persistent and start connecting
Peter Voogd:with them so they can give you the answers, what they did well,
Peter Voogd:what they would do differently, and that way you can literally
Peter Voogd:cut your learning curve and app. I didn't want to be a best
Peter Voogd:selling author and number one on Kindle. I found a team that
Peter Voogd:already did it and gave me the steps they need to go find the
Peter Voogd:best people near them and mentor them and ask them questions and
Peter Voogd:take them to lunch, because that's how they're going to get
Peter Voogd:to the next level. And you're either hanging out with people
Peter Voogd:that are holding you accountable or letting you off the hook.
Peter Voogd:There's no in between.
Host:Yeah, it is wild. So give us some more practical things in
Host:terms of, you know, let's say I'm listening to this and I'm
Host:one of those people that going, Yeah, I've been stuck. And, you
Host:know, could be, could be any plateau. What are? What are some
Host:of the tangible things that I could start doing to help me go
Host:from, you know, broke to six figures in six months, or if I'm
Host:at 200,000 How can I add another six figures in six months? What
Host:are the practices?
Peter Voogd:Good question. So yeah, and I pride myself in
Peter Voogd:being more comprehensive and practical versus, like,
Peter Voogd:motivational words, like, you just got to do it, right? I know
Peter Voogd:a lot of folks said better, like, just do it. But the
Peter Voogd:reality is, you do have to have practical steps and tactical
Peter Voogd:steps as well. So Well, the first step, really, is you have
Peter Voogd:to gain absolute clarity on who you are, what your strengths
Peter Voogd:are, and who you need on your team, and then you have to
Peter Voogd:reverse engineer. So the most people I've talked to whether
Peter Voogd:they're making 250 a year, whether they're making 50 a
Peter Voogd:year, they don't have a clear and precise bullet proof plan on
Peter Voogd:how to get to the next level. So they haven't clearly defined
Peter Voogd:exactly how to get there. So one thing I learned from Gary
Peter Voogd:Vaynerchuk, he always had an ideal outcome within the next
Peter Voogd:six months to a year. So what I would ask people is, have you
Peter Voogd:figured out your ideal outcome in six months? What's your
Peter Voogd:business look like? How involved are you in your business? What's
Peter Voogd:the ideal culture of your business? Getting Personal. How
Peter Voogd:much money do you have saved? How much money are you making
Peter Voogd:monthly? What does your team look like? What feelings are you
Peter Voogd:experiencing the most in six months? If it was ideal, what
Peter Voogd:are these? What are the answers to these questions? That's
Peter Voogd:really the first step is figuring out who you are and
Peter Voogd:figuring out what your values are, and really what your Big
Peter Voogd:Five is for the next six months. What are your top three goals
Peter Voogd:for the next 90 days. And then what I have people do is they
Peter Voogd:write down their top 20 most compelling reasons. And here's
Peter Voogd:what I found in training 1000s of people. 80% of those reasons
Peter Voogd:are BS. They're materialistic. They don't even wake you up in
Peter Voogd:the morning. What the heck are you writing these reasons down
Peter Voogd:if you're already sleeping in or pushing the alarm clock? You got
Peter Voogd:to find out of those 20, find five reasons that drive you,
Peter Voogd:like your kids, or you're sick of your boss telling you what to
Peter Voogd:do. If you when you find five internal reasons that drive you,
Peter Voogd:you'll never lack motivation again. So then you find out your
Peter Voogd:compelling reasons and then what key behaviors are needed. So
Peter Voogd:that's the first step, is getting that absolute clarity.
Peter Voogd:So once you get clear on kind of what you want and what you're
Peter Voogd:willing to give up to get what you want, and realize you have
Peter Voogd:to sacrifice. The next step is increasing your confidence
Peter Voogd:account, because every single person has an account inside
Peter Voogd:them called their confidence account. Clarity is great, but
Peter Voogd:without the right confidence, you're not going to accomplish
Peter Voogd:much. So there's five really crucial components to an
Peter Voogd:unshakable confidence. And I mean, I can go through them, but
Peter Voogd:the main ones are you have to watch every choice you make,
Peter Voogd:because they make you. Every choice you make is either
Peter Voogd:helping or hurting your confidence. So you have to be
Peter Voogd:aware what you're doing with that confidence account, because
Peter Voogd:once you get clear, you're going to be more motivated. But then
Peter Voogd:you have to take the right actions to continue elevating
Peter Voogd:your confidence. So your perspective on challenges,
Peter Voogd:understanding that the bigger the goal, the bigger the
Peter Voogd:challenges, is a huge part of confidence. Consistency is a
Peter Voogd:huge part of confidence. Because I think the scariest things in
Peter Voogd:life and business are momentum and lack of momentum, right? So
Peter Voogd:you want to keep up the momentum. And then fourth is
Peter Voogd:your identity. You have to develop an identity with
Peter Voogd:yourself that whatever you say, your actions follow. I think a
Peter Voogd:big confident killer is lack of follow through. You have to
Peter Voogd:understand most people when they say they're going to do
Peter Voogd:something, they don't really think they're going to do it.
Peter Voogd:There's nothing else more important in life and business
Peter Voogd:than your word, because if you don't have your word, people
Peter Voogd:will lose respect for you subconsciously. So the next
Peter Voogd:thing after you gain confidence is shifting your circle of
Peter Voogd:influence and figuring out who you spend time with and how are
Peter Voogd:they influenced. Then you make a list of your top five growth
Peter Voogd:friends and maintenance friends. Growth friends are friends that
Peter Voogd:challenge you, that have results that you want, that are list.
Peter Voogd:Life at a higher level. Playing the game at higher level, you
Peter Voogd:want to increase your time with the maintenance friends, or
Peter Voogd:friends you met at in high school, and you feel bad not
Peter Voogd:hanging out with them, and maybe they're working at the mall, but
Peter Voogd:you like it. It's fun to hang out with them, but they don't
Peter Voogd:really help you as far as advancing towards your biggest
Peter Voogd:goals and dreams and helping your legacy. So you got to lower
Peter Voogd:your time with the maintenance friends. You have to cut off
Peter Voogd:some friends. Yes, you actually do.
Host:Somebody who's older, do you think that they have
Host:maintenance friends, or they have people that they should
Host:really think about, that they may have to cut some ties with?
Peter Voogd:I think really, anybody that's not at a level
Peter Voogd:they need to be at needs to evaluate really who they're
Peter Voogd:around the most and who they're hanging out with, because
Peter Voogd:sometimes what's more important than mentors is who you need to
Peter Voogd:stay away from. So I mean, it's not as much as the younger
Peter Voogd:generation, but I definitely feel like there is some older
Peter Voogd:people that really might still have people that kind of drag
Peter Voogd:them down versus pull them up to higher standards. With this, you
Peter Voogd:need to find your top industry leaders, pinpoint the top five
Peter Voogd:people that are doing what you're getting are doing what
Peter Voogd:you want to do, and reach out to them. So that's the next step,
Peter Voogd:is shifting your circle to influence. And then once you
Peter Voogd:shift your circle of influence, you got to make sure you keep
Peter Voogd:the consistent inner drive and motivation and energy as well.
Peter Voogd:And obviously, I don't want to talk too much about energy, but
Peter Voogd:you got to make sure you're energized, physically, mentally,
Peter Voogd:and then once you kind of figure out what results you're getting,
Peter Voogd:you see your results going up because you have a higher
Peter Voogd:influence, you have clarity, you're building your confidence.
Peter Voogd:Then one of my favorites is you create result ritual. I think
Peter Voogd:every problem in people's business lives is just the lack
Peter Voogd:of systems in place. I really think that's a big issue for
Peter Voogd:most people. I think the amount of stress people have in their
Peter Voogd:life or business is in direct correlation to the lack of
Peter Voogd:systems or rituals they have in place. So then you kind of
Peter Voogd:figure out what rituals have consistently been proven to get
Peter Voogd:results, and once you figure out what systems deliver predictable
Peter Voogd:results, then you put them in place, and you can put in
Peter Voogd:mindset, rituals, productivity, rituals, health rituals, wealth
Peter Voogd:rituals, and then the last one is just continual growth and
Peter Voogd:learning which, which, obviously we don't spend the time, but
Peter Voogd:that's just continuing to reach out to high level people and
Peter Voogd:becoming a people developer, standing on the shoulders of
Peter Voogd:giants, and learning how to reinvest your profits back into
Peter Voogd:yourself and back into your business and staying with that
Peter Voogd:clarity. So really, that's the kind of the six steps
Peter Voogd:simplified.
Host:I love it. Well, Peter, I really appreciate you being on
Host:the show, and we wish you good luck.
Peter Voogd:Thank you so much you guys.