Do you feel like you are constantly swimming against the current of the culture? This episode will affirm all your efforts and confirm that you are on the right track! Your efforts are not in vain, Mama! Sylvia Zuiderveen is the Women's Ministry Director at Coram Deo Bible Church and she brings biblical conviction with fire in this episode! For more information about pointing your children to the Lord, following the biblical model for your home, and guarding against the influence of culture, check out Entrusted with a Child's Heart.
Scripture Referenced:
Psalm 90:12
They're the joyful agains our children shout on the swings, the
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:exhausting agains of cooking and laundry,
and the difficult agains of discipline.
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:So much of what we do
as mothers is on repeat.
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:So what if we woke up with clarity,
knowing which agains we were called
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:to, and went to bed believing we
are faithful in what matters most?
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:We believe God's Word is
the key to untangle from the
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:confusion and overwhelm we feel.
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:Let's look up together to embrace a
motherhood full of freedom and joy.
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:Okay.
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:Have you ever met someone that is an
absolute delight to be around, but
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:there's this part of you waiting to
end your conversation because you can't
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:wait to go open up the word because
they've made you hunger for holiness.
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:That is Sylvia.
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:As I intervene to me.
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:I am so excited for you to listen to
this episode of the again, podcast.
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:I'm Stephanie Hickox and as always, this
is brought to you by entrusted ministries.
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:Today, we're releasing part,
one of an inspiring interview
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:with Sylvia Zuiderveen.
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:She's a women's ministry director
and she brings the word with fire.
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:Her devotion to scripture
and her delight in God's.
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:Goodness is absolutely contagious.
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:I had some hard questions for her and
she did not disappoint in her answers.
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:She discerns the root of issues and
she calls us to something higher.
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:There were several times that
her answers brought conviction
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:to me as she humbly shared.
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:some of the tests and trials
She has faced as a mother.
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:Then also as she spoke some powerful
words of encouragement to our
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:generation of mothers, Her joy is
absolutely unmatched and she has one
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:of the best laughs I've ever heard.
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:It's truly evident.
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:Her joy comes straight from the Lord.
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:This episode is one.
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:You should have on repeat.
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:Sylvia.
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:I am just thrilled that
you are here today.
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:I know you faithfully diligently point
the women at your church to the Lord
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:it's such an honor that you took
time out of your day to share how the
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:Lord has met you and your mothering.
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:And how you want to encourage
this generation of mothers.
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:Thank you so much for
taking time to be with us.
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:So I had to look it up.
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:I knew the name of your church,
but I needed to refresh my memory.
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:On the meaning.
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:So Sylvia works at Coram Deo Bible,
church, and Coram Deo is a Latin
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:phrase, meaning in the presence of God.
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:I love that your church's call and
commitment is to live fully in the
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:presence of God, under the authority
of God and for the glory of God.
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:I absolutely see that in you.
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:And I know our listeners are
going to see those commitments
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:shine through as you speak.
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:You are the women's ministry director
at your church, is that correct?
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:Sylvia: Yep.
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:And so that includes everything from
teaching the Bible, training others to
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:teach the Bible, choosing Bible studies.
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:Implementing Bible
studies that are weekly.
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:That's one bucket of our
Women's Ministry program.
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:And then we've also got a
wonderful program called Moms4Moms.
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:And that's a monthly gathering where
we gather moms together and talk
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:on a topic related to parenting.
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:And then we've also got like a Women's
Christmas event, Women's Retreat.
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:We have a monthly prayer gathering
where we gather together to pray for
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:our church, our community, our world.
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:And so yeah, we keep quite busy,
but God's at work here and we're
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:excited with what He's doing.
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:And one of the things He's just
faithfully worked through at our church
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:is using the entrusted curriculum.
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:Um, I love to hear that.
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:And I would love to hear more about
it, but first, can you tell us a
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:little bit about your family and
your children and what age and
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:stage are your kids at right now?
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:Sylvia: You bet.
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:I am married to Mark.
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:We've been married 26 years and
he is a pastor at our church and
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:he's just a wonderful godly man
and definitely my best friend.
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:He and I met as friends and
then had to reach that awkward
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conclusion that we didn't.
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:Know how we would be able to
live together, but we knew we
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:didn't want to live apart and we
trusted the Lord with the rest.
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:So 26 years in we are still having
a blast together and laughing a lot.
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:And so we're raising two amazing kids.
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:Our daughter Elise is 20.
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:She's a sophomore at Cedarville
University in Ohio and then our
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:son Zach is 15 and he's a sophomore
at a local high school here.
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a dynamic story that I would
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:Sylvia: Oh my word.
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:Yeah, lots of competitive sand volleyball.
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:Stephanie: yeah.
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:Sylvia: Got us started, actually.
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:Stephanie: Oh, that's great.
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:And what is he the
pastor of at your church?
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:Sylvia: He does all operations and media.
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:Basically all things not preaching.
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:Website graphics, communication,
facility, security worship
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:used to be under him as well.
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:Worship and production.
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:He still got the production wing of
things, but worship is not anymore
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:because we also started a school.
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:And so that just happened
in the last couple years.
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:And so just managing all of
facility tech needs now for that.
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:Website needs for that.
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:Curriculum needs has expanded
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:Stephanie: Oh, that's
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:Sylvia: but Yeah,
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:Stephanie: Wow.
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:That's a huge undertaking.
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:Exciting,
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:Sylvia: his giftedness.
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:Honestly, like this is a tangent.
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:I won't take much of your time, but
like he was homeschooled and his
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:dad owned a construction company.
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:So part of what his dad would
taught him growing up was all
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:things related to construction.
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:His degrees in Bible and
multimedia technology.
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:So he never thought he'd use the
construction, but now that we
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:have all this facility growth and
facility need, he's overseen, gosh,
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:Buildouts for our church and all this.
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:And of course God had all of
that so perfectly designed and
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:Stephanie: Yes.
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:Sylvia: it now and like only
God could have created all
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:of that in the way he did.
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:That's a side note, has
nothing to do with entrusted
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:Stephanie: but really, seeing God's
hand in our lives, in our children's
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:lives, it builds up your faith to hear
these testimonies of, look it, we,
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:even as intentional as we try to be as
parents, God has such a greater plan.
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:Sometimes I'm sweating it Oh,
am I developing their talents
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:and their gifts enough?
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:Sylvia: Does.
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:And this morning it's funny.
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that says, I was young and now I'm old and
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:Are their children begging bread?
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:And that not only is beautifully
specific to what it's talking about
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:in that passage, but it also gives a
biblical principle that we can stand on.
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:We are not forsaken.
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:Any experience that comes into
our lives is a teachable moment.
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:We To show our children.
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:God is faithful.
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:God has plans that supersede ours.
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:His ways are higher than ours.
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:His wisdom is great.
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:He's supremely lovely,
supremely excellent, and
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:So when a trial comes your way,
when a difficulty comes your
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:That's consistent genesis to Revelation.
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:God is faithful, and so yeah,
telling our stories is so important
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:to our children and using them.
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:Being raw and vulnerable sometimes to say,
maybe this wasn't what I expected even in
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:my life or dad expected or you expected,
but we can't deny God's faithful hand.
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:We have story after story
of his faithfulness.
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:So this has a story ready to be written.
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:We just don't know where
it's at in the storyline.
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:Preach.
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:That's such a good point.
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:We have to model for our kids to
have eyes, to see how the Lord has
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:worked in our lives to help train
them, to see God's purposes and plans
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:being carried out in their lives.
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:Can you speak to why you have chosen
to use interested with a child's heart?
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:And what sets it apart
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:Sylvia: Oh, it's absolutely distinct
and I'm so thankful for that.
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:I think so often moms are driven towards
method right now and they want to look
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:at results of their children where
what I love most about Entrusted with a
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:Child's Heart is that it starts with God.
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:It starts with who he is and his character
and his nature and why we can trust the
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:Bible and why the Bible has to be the
foundation of everything that we do.
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:And then it funnels into our
commitment to obey the Bible.
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:And part of that includes our marriages.
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:So it's building the foundation wisely.
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:And I think about, how the Bible talks
about building your house rightly and
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:foundation matters and entrusted with a
child's heart emphasizes The Bible and
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:the authority of it and the goodness
of it and the rightness of it And that
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:it gets to have supreme value And so
that then lays the foundation for good
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:parenting and that's what sets it apart
because other studies blogs articles are
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:so quick to go to Instant gratification
and give you the five ways you can do
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:this and the four ways you can do this,
but That is so short sighted to biblical
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:living and so I just appreciate that
entrusted really forces us and allows us
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:the joy of Finding contentment and joy
and sufficiency in the word of God first.
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:Stephanie: Well said, I agree, such
a strong foundation is set and I think
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:we have such a tendency to desire
those, but just tell me what to do.
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:And it's no, we're going to tell you who
to seek and we're going to tell you where
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:to look and we're going to encourage
you to develop that faithfulness with
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:the It's actually more of a to be list
than a to do list, often, and who were
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:Thank you.
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:How have you seen women in your church
grow through pressing into the Lord
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:and their parenting through Entrusted?
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:Yes.
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:Sylvia: study is it's the ultimate
outreach opportunity too as a church,
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:because everyone's interested in raising,
they don't know it, they're wanting
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:to raise good kids, we want to raise
kids that know the Word of God, but
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:it's a way to get people in the doors.
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:Of the church that typically wouldn't
come into the church and they'll come
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:in and we've seen women get saved
Through entrusted with a child's heart.
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that they've suddenly committed their
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:And so we're very thankful for that
The other thing that I see more than
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of God and parenting out of the Bible's
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:truth rather than the world's truth.
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:And I think that's the biggest
distinction is we're all over informed
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:we Can all go to the internet
and search up anything and find
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:anything to, answer those questions.
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:But we don't just want
answers, we want truth.
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:And so Entrusted with a Child's
Heart steers us away from worldly
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:wisdom, which we know is fleeting
and futile and unsatisfying, and
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:instead drives us towards the
biblical truth, which does satisfy.
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:And the coolest thing is watching
hundreds of women every year, as
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:we walk them through Entrusted with
a Child's Heart, seeing them grasp
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:it, seeing them get it, seeing them
Really see families transformed.
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:We've seen marriages healed because of it.
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:As women realize, I need
to do this with my husband.
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:This is a joint effort and he can lead
our family and lead our family well.
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to trust him in that.
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:And we've seen a lot of that.
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:We've seen women find that the Bible gets
to have a place of priority in their life
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:because of taking the entrusted study.
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:And suddenly they realize I
can't parent without this.
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:It's not how do I fit the
Bible into my parenting?
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how do I parent out of the word of God?
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:That's now become such a source of
great joy and wisdom in my life.
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:Stephanie: Praise the Lord.
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and really every year of your life.
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:I love hearing from leaders
that they watch that play out.
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:Thank you so much
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:Sylvia: of the greatest joys that
I also think is fantastic is the
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becomes family scripture memory.
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:It's not just mom learning the Bible
verses, the kids are learning them,
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:they're singing them together, the
family's listening to them in the van
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:as they go places, and suddenly now
instead of mom's Bible study being
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the family and they can all go back to
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:Stephanie: Oh, it is so sweet.
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are our rules coming from?
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this out of thin air.
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makes it so much more powerful
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:and the authority of God's Word
creating the standards in our home.
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:Tell me a little bit about what
do you see in the moms of today?
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is using with this generation?
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cautions you have for how you see
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:I am seeing, and I'm so thankful for
this, an increased sober mindedness
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calling they have to parent children
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:What's interesting is a lot of our moms
right now didn't come from the church.
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church or they were raised without a
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:That entrusted curriculum is so
important that way is we need to first
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a little bit of who God is, share
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share what the Bible is, and what the
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:I love that increased sober mindedness.
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to take parenting seriously and to
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willing to stand against the ways of the
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zeal like never before.
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:I've been parenting for 20 years,
which isn't a whole lot, but it's
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age were a little more okay, we
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and mom and kids that are right.
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of saying, no, I just don't want good.
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:That was more the battle that was
fought in my generation, where with
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fire to stand firm on the word of God
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that they're swimming against the
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in what I see of moms right now.
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great concerns that I see brewing
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things that aren't formational.
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blogs and we're over informed from
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Reels and everything coming at us.
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articles and even Christian articles and
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Christian people before we have done our
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written about God, though those can
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important place at the right time.
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until you have sat at the feet of
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me and you will find me when you
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the Bible and then instantly google
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or go to the Bible And find this
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to a syncretistic approach, honestly,
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ways, but let me just make sure they line
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this person told me I'm supposed to do.
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of God is authoritative.
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its principles first.
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it and seek the Lord and ask him,
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before I go out and seek someone else's
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see young moms facing the temptation of.
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a dictionary app on my phone and I
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dictionary to make sure I was thinking
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and next thing I knew I was on email.
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purity of our souls.
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to walk away from the temptation of that.
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pocket that we Just have to be cautious
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the glory of God and the joy in our homes.
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information but over opportunity.
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person to teach your child art lessons,
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to belong to the perfect this, the
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to seek the Lord, like Psalm 90,
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that I would have a heart of wisdom.
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spend every minute of our time because as
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taking family away from the kitchen table.
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away from the family room.
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experiences and they're sending.
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place, kids, another place.
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as well for us to challenge moms with
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you want to raise kids.
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love the Lord their God with all of
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fight over information.
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fight over opportunity.
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encouraging word at the same time.
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heart as well as I'm raising my children.
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sometimes for my family.
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on a regular basis.
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are at a deficit, but to
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of sports or activities is actually
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and bless them in a greater way.
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it's wise to have a multitude of advisors
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but I think we have to be careful to say,
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and I don't need to contract this out.
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to train and minister to my children
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position and authority the Lord has
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getting distracted and running all of
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the Lord by not farming out their time
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and celebrating the beautiful
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to participate in the junior Olympics.
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:He's a musician to the
core, gifted so by God.
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gigs within the community on a drum set.
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meticulously guard his time.
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behind that, it's not the opportunity.
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:So is it, Is it a Desire to please
people that you might feel like,
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people by not giving my children
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the Lord and give an account for
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how have you gifted my children?
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priorities that you identify in the
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have an athlete, awesome.
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glory of God, not for the glory of
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family, not for the glory of a coach,
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attention and our heart and our love.
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that we have to flush out.
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perfection or applause or other things.
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decision making with how we prioritize
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:our time and honestly for us It
comes down to who do we worship?
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in the area of sports, or if he's
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music, and there are opportunities,
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conflict with my ability to worship God.
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worship him individually, but
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pull my child or my family away from
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:the meeting of the saints on Sunday
morning, it's not going to happen.
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:And again, this from someone who has an
athletic child who's gifted and has been
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:given numerous opportunities that way.
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cultural idols that throw opportunities
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:Self yes, character.
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:He has learned character
extraordinarily well through sports.
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:He's learned character
extraordinarily well through school.
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:He's learned, character can come in the
most mundane moments and often does.
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:So we don't need to fall into that
temptation that our child won't learn
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:work ethic or time management if we
don't plug them into all these things.
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:Or, Oh no, they're eight.
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:Other people are starting
these things at age eight.
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:And if we don't start it now, they're
going to get behind on everything.
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:That is a lie.
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:If God has gifted your child and his
plan is for your child to exalt him
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:on a court or around a track or on
a football field, his will prevails.
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:Your child will be out on the
field doing that because that's
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:what God has ordained for him.
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:But if we are trying so desperately
to train something into our children,
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:which God in His creativity doesn't
have for them, we may need to search
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:our soul to see if we're content with
the children that God's given us and the
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:way that He's gifted them for His glory.
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:And so I am a firm believer in
saying, those formative years,
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:Statistically speaking, George
Barner writes a lot about this.
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:By age 13, our children's worldview
is solidified for the most part.
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:Now, we know God is able to do all
things above and beyond what we can ask
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:or imagine, and he can save people, at
age 60, 70, 80, we see it all the time.
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:He's a miracle worker
and he is always working.
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:That being said, statistics do show
that for the most part, a child's
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:worldview is formed by age 13.
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:If I'm sending my child away every
weekend to become the best wrestler
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:in my community, what worldview
have I instilled in my child?
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:It is not.
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:Worship the Lord with all of your
heart, soul, mind, and strength.
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:It's worship Him at your
convenience, and that's not worship.
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:So we aren't training our children
well if we are setting them up
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:in a position where they have to
forsake the meeting of the saints.
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:Stephanie: Well said.
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:I, yes.
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:Sylvia: feel very strongly
about that, sorry.
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:Stephanie: I'm so thankful.
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:I agree with you.
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:This has come up even in my small
group this year, we were studying
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:Daniel, and for the first time
as I studied it, I thought about.
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:The pain that he must have felt as he
watched all of his people bow down and to
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:think, you guys I've been raised with you.
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:we know this is wrong.
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:We were instructed we
do not worship idols.
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:We do not bow down.
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:And to watch all of his people
fall into that temptation must
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:have been so difficult for him.
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:And I think when we see it in others,
it is right, and it's godly to call it
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:out and to say, We actually were created
to be a blessing to the body of Christ
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:and to bring God glory, not to fall
into this individualistic mindset where
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:we're all about developing ourselves and
our children and living through them.
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:So I think that is a worthy soapbox.
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:Sylvia: I trumpet that one loud and clear,
but I do it because I love our women.
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:I love the women in our church, and
I love the Word of God, and I've
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:seen it, what's that old hymn, 'Tis
So Sweet to Trust in Jesus, right?
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:Just to take him at his word.
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:When we trust in him, I do, I trust him.
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:The things of earth grow strangely dim
in the light of his glory and grace.
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:So if those things are so visible
in my life and so shiny to me and
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:so appealing, I just have to ask.
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:Am I basking in the light of his glory
and grace or have I started basking
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:under the glory of something else?
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:And for me personally, when I fall
prey to that with my scheduling or
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:opportunities or anything like that,
most of the time for me, I'm not speaking
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:this for everyone, but for me, it's
because there's something about the.
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:lure of the world that I am
falling prey to that I, and I
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:just need to do a heart check.
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:What is my motive for sending my child
out to all of these activities that
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:are exhausting them when we know our
children need sleep, that are putting
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:other influences to train them up in
character and in the way they think
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:and in the formation of their mind when
that's my role as a So to give that away
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:to someone Is a precious entrustment.
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:I want to make sure that those people
speaking into my children's lives
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:are speaking in a way that at least
aligns with the values of the Bible
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:and the moral standards of the Bible.
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:And sometimes we have had
coaches that are ungodly.
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:We have had teammates that are ungodly.
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:What that then requires is a commitment
on the parent to, Talk about all of
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:it to flush it out with them, to take
them to the Bible and say, what does
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:the Bible say about that response?
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:We want to teach our children that
the word of God prevails and that
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:every word they take In, needs to be
critically thought through and identified
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:as either biblical or unbiblical.
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:And if we aren't taking the time to
do that with opportunity, thought,
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:information, absolutely everything,
we're not setting our children up to live
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:rich lives for the glory of the Lord.
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:I told you she is phenomenal.
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:I hope that brought some great
conviction to you, but also gave
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:you a hunger to be in God's word,
to make sure that everything.
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:That you are believing that you're
thinking that you're acting out, that
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:you're speaking into your children.
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:Comes from the truth in God's word.
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:I pray that you continue to press
into the Lord for discernment to
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:swim against the culture and to raise
children who are ready to do the same.
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:If you haven't already.
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:Head over to our website, to sign up
for some new freebies that we have.
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:So you can get a taste of
entrusted with a child's heart.
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:I would love to schedule a call so we can
talk about exactly how interested with
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:the child's heart can bring the word of
God to your church or to your home group.
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:Email me at Stephanie.
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:S T E P H a N I e@ewach.com.
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:That stands for entrusted
with the child's heart.
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:Thanks for listening.
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:Stephanie: We know you're busy,
Mama, so we are truly grateful you
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:joined us for this episode of Again.
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:If you're looking for more information
about building your home on the
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:foundation of Jesus Christ, head to www.
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:EntrustedMinistries.
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:com to learn more about our study for
moms, Entrusted with a Child's Heart.
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:This scripture saturated study
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:world, and we want it for you, too.
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:Before you go, I want to pray
this benediction over you
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:from 2 Thessalonians 1, 11 12.
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:We're rooting for you.
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:To this end, we always pray for you,
that our God may make you worthy of His
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:calling, and may fulfill every resolve
for good and every work of faith by
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:His power, so that the name of our Lord
Jesus may be glorified in you, and you in
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:Him, according to the grace of our God.
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:And the Lord Jesus Christ.
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:Amen.
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:Until we meet again.