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Episode 12023rd March 2026 • Wellness Big Sis: The Pod • Dr. Kelsy Vick
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This podcast episode aims to help us understand the changes that occur in our bodies during perimenopause and menopause. We wellness girl chat about the importance of being preventive rather than reactive, emphasizing early education on the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and menopause. The episode covers the common symptoms, hormonal shifts, and the metabolic impact of perimenopause and menopause. It also provides actionable advice on exercise, diet, sleep, and supplements, highlighting the role of hormone replacement therapy. The conversation underscores the need for foundational habits like protein intake and weightlifting to prepare for a healthier transition into menopause.

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Kelsy Vick:

So I selfishly started this podcast for one main reason,

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and that main reason was to get girls

starting to think about what changes

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happen within their bodies before they.

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Come to that stage before

they have to actually react.

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So I want people to be a little bit

more preventative in how they think

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about their bodies and what's happening

within their bodies before they're

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actually going through a certain stage.

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So we've covered a lot on the menstrual

cycle, on pregnancy, on postpartum,

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but something that we haven't covered

a lot about is perimenopause and

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menopause, and I feel like it's this.

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Wild West thought in our heads

of we might get there eventually.

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We don't really understand

what happens when we go through

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that phase of our lives.

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So that's why I'm grateful that you

agreed to come on and help us just better

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understand and educate us on what happens

within our bodies during perimenopause and

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menopause and how you go about treating

women in perimenopause and menopause.

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So let's start with the basics.

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Okay?

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What actually happens within

our bodies when we are hitting

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that stage of menopause?

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Okay, so average age of

menopause is about 51.

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. Perimenopausal symptoms will start

seven to 10 years before that,

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so a lot of women in their late

thirties to early forties will start

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to feel just not like themselves.

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They may be more tired.

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They may not sleep as well.

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They may not be as effective in

the gym when they're working out.

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They may have some brain fog.

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Muscle soreness, joint soreness

itchy ears frozen shoulder.

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the list is actually very long.

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And that's 'cause everybody responds

to their hormonal shifts differently.

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And it is like a rollercoaster ride.

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Some women don't have a lot of symptoms.

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A lot of women have significant symptoms.

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anxiety, depression seem to get worse.

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A DHD gets worse.

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Again, women just don't feel

like themselves and it can start

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as early as your late thirties.

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Kelsy Vick: Is there certain criteria

that have to be met in order to know are

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we in perimenopause, are we in menopause?

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Or based on what someone

comes to tell you.

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You're like, Nope, you are.

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In that stage, is it more

of like your expertise that

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goes into the deciding that?

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Yeah, so perimenopause is

really symptoms and age.

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Okay.

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If a 20-year-old came to me

and said, I have these we'd be

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talking about something else.

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But if you're in your thirties but

forties and you come with symptoms

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it's basically that checking hormones

and perimenopause, testosterone is

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one that we can check because it

declines in a different way than.

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Estradiol and progesterone do.

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But if you're checking somebody's

estradiol, it's just a snapshot in time.

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And it could be completely

different two days from then.

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So in Peron menopause,

it's really symptoms.

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Menopause is lack of estrogen, lack

of progesterone, and technically,

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clinically no period for a year.

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But you're gonna get symptoms

long before that happens.

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Kelsy Vick: So what

happens within our bodies?

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You mentioned hormones decrease.

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Can you explain that a little bit of

the process that our bodies go through?

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Yeah.

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Physiologically with menopause?

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Yes.

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up until, let's say mid

thirties, your estradiol and your

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progesterone are pretty stable.

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You get specific variations

throughout your menstrual cycle.

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When you get into your later thirties,

early forties, the brain and the ovary

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are not as good at communicating.

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Basically, your ovary is trying to

figure out how to output the estradiol

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so your brain will produce signals.

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LH and FSH, they're just two signaling

hormones and they go to tell your

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ovary, Hey, produce estradiol.

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If your ovary is good at it and

your adrenals are good at it, then.

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Your brain's happy, the

rest of you's happy.

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But as we get older, we're not as

good at producing the estradiol.

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So everything gets a little wacky,

testosterone's a little different.

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Women's peak testosterone typically

is mid twenties, and then we

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get a steady decline from there.

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You get some variation, but it's a pretty

steady decline throughout the decades.

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So that pretty much by the

time women reach perimenopause.

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In their mid forties.

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Women's testosterone levels tend to be

fairly low, and again, estradiol can

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be anywhere from very low to very high.

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Kelsy Vick: So with some of those hormonal

shifts, is that what causes some of the

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symptoms that women experience or, yes.

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Okay.

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All of them, yes.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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So we have estradiol, testosterone

receptors everywhere in our body,

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brain, bone, muscle bladder, pretty

much everywhere we have those receptors.

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And so when things start to

get wacky, we get symptoms.

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Again, not every woman

is as sensitive to them.

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But most women are

gonna have some symptom.

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They may not equate it

to, I'm in perimenopause.

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They may just think I've got little kids

and I'm running around and I'm tired and

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I'm not sleeping as good 'cause I have

little kids, but it's usually hormonal.

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Kelsy Vick: And are the symptoms that

I get related to my genetics or what

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part of menopause, whether it's the

time that we hit it or the symptoms

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that we get, is any of that related

to genetics or is it really no one

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kind of knows, there's no pattern.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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I would say no one kind of knows.

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Yeah I do always ask, Hey,

when did you start your period?

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When did you start your cycle?

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When did your mom start it?

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When did she go through?

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You can gauge, but

every woman's different.

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every woman's got a

different ovarian reserve.

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Kelsy Vick: Are there environmental

factors that can put someone

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into menopause or has that

not really been studied?

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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There aren't really studies on that.

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Okay.

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Yeah, it's, I would,

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I would say we know currently

that there are a lot of.

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What we call endocrine

disruptors in our society.

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And those certainly are gonna play a role.

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We see lower men, we see lower

testosterone levels now than

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we used to because of endocrine

disruptors and women are the same.

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I think we just have more variability

now because there are things in

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our environment and in our diet.

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That affect us more hormonally

than we used to have.

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Kelsy Vick: So moving to a little

less sciencey, a little less

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nerdy, moving more towards what the

everyday woman might experience.

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To notice within their bodies.

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What are some of the physical changes that

women often see when they hit menopause?

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When it comes to aesthetics, body

composition, skin changes, fueling,

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you mentioned exercise capacity.

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What are some of those common changes that

women are challenged with in menopause?

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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It's a lot.

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Estrogen and testosterone both

help us keep collagen around.

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They help keep our muscles strong.

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They help keep our.

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Visceral fat and

subcutaneous fat levels low.

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So when testosterone starts to decrease

and estradiol starts to get wacky we

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start to lose collagen in our skin.

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So you may notice drier skin

wrinkles start appearing.

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We start to replace our muscle with

fat, which is very discouraging.

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We start to build visceral fat.

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A lot of women will start to

notice that they gain weight

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around the middle that they're not

as strong as they used to feel.

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But collagen plays a big

role for skin health.

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And we do see, because at the clinic

here we do aesthetics as well.

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We see a lot of women who have not

been on hormones, who have not as

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great a skin as they would like to

simply because collagen is gone.

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Vaginal dryness is a huge one.

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And that can start in perimenopause.

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And again, estradiol keeps the

vaginal tissue moist and healthy.

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And collagen there keeps everything happy.

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And when it goes away or starts

to get wacky that's a big

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symptom that women come in with.

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So physically, women usually

will report dry skin.

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Weight gain is a big one,

especially around the middle.

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Kelsy Vick: Given some of the physical

things that women experience, how do you

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approach it from a physician lens as a

way to guide your patients, whether it's

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through supplementation, medications,

behavior modifications, education,

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what sort of stuff have you seen work

really well clinically and then has also

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really research backed, when it comes

to handling some of these challenges?

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Yeah, so we do a lot here.

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We do blood work, we

test a lot of biomarkers.

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We do body composition testing because

when you think about perimenopause and

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menopause and the changes that happen

with the hormones, a lot of that is that

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we get a lot less metabolically healthy.

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So again, we get visceral fat.

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We get fat buildup in our muscle.

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We get less insulin sensitive,.

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A lot of women will come in and

say, I haven't changed a darn thing.

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I eat the same, I work out the

same, I've gained all this weight.

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What's going on?

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So we do body composition

testing on everybody.

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We measure their muscle mass, their

visceral fat their percent body

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fat, and I don't even care about

their weight number as much as

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I care about those three things.

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And it's very interesting

for some women who.

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When you look at them physically

look like they shoulda a low body fat

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percentage, but they don't because

they've replaced some of their muscle

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with fat and they have a higher

visceral fat load than they expected.

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And it's all because of

those hormonal changes.

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So we do body composition testing,

we do a lot of blood testing to

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look at different just like even

vitamin levels, like vitamin D.

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Let's take vitamin D we say.

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We call it a vitamin, but

really it's a pro hormone.

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It helps us with all of

our other sex hormones.

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So if a woman's vitamin D level is low,

one of the first things we're gonna do

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is say, you gotta get that vitamin D

level up and it needs to sit around 70.

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And most of the time we check

in and it's usually around 20.

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And people are like, but

I'm outside all the time.

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You are, but it's still not enough.

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We don't have enough in our diets

anymore for most people to really

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have A really good level, again,

which needs to be around 70 plays

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a role in bone growth for women.

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Osteoporosis is a huge thing that happens

for women as they go through menopause.

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and actually it happens before that

so I want to back up a little bit.

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So I've actually started talking

to women a lot earlier, and I

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wish that primary care physicians.

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Even pediatricians would talk

more to young women about

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exercise and protein intake.

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Peak bone density for

most women is around 20.

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It starts to decline after that.

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So I've had two women come into me

with premenopausal spinal fractures

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from weightlifting because they

said, I'm gonna go get healthy.

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And then so they start lifting

weights and they get a compression

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fracture or stress fracture.

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We start them on testosterone and

a little bit of estradiol and bone

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density improves over a couple years.

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But if we started to talk to

younger women about the importance

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of this, we'd see less of that

as they went through menopause.

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and maybe it's different with

kids now, like my daughter lifts

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weights, but she lifts weights.

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'cause we talk about lifting weights.

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I don't know how many 21 year olds

get that talk from somebody that

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this is really important for you.

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But muscle health and bone health,

very important muscle health because

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again, it keeps us metabolically

more healthy as we go through life.

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And perimenopause and menopause

are just times when women get

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very metabolically unhealthy.

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So we talk a lot about body composition.

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We talk a lot about protein intake.

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'cause again, protein intake

needs to be different for women.

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Our body doesn't deal with

it the same way men does.

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We have to have.

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A certain spacing of it.

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We really need three meals a day

with a good amount of protein,

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and women need at least a gram

of protein per ideal body weight,

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especially when we're in menopause.

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So I like women to break it up.

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And let's say your ideal

body weight is 120 pounds.

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You need 45 at breakfast.

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45 at dinner.

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And the rest at lunch.

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So higher protein intakes.

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At the two ends of the day, really

better for muscle synthesis for women.

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So better protein intake,

different exercise.

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Most women are really good about cardio.

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They'll go out, they'll take a walk,

they'll get on a treadmill, they'll go

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get on a stair step or whatever, but

that doesn't help you build muscle.

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And so talking to women about

weightlifting, everybody that

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comes in, we talk about it.

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And not just lifting, but lifting heavy.

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Really trying to keep your muscle mass

around and build it if you don't have it.

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Because muscle's, the organ of longevity.

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If it gets unhealthy, which it does

when women go through perimenopause and

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menopause, we just don't age as well.

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We don't do as well.

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Protein intake exercise or two of the big

things, we talk to everybody about making

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sure that your blood work looks good

from a vitamin and mineral standpoint.

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The biggest supplement we

probably put everybody on is

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Vitamin D, just 'cause it's low.

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And then we start talking about hormones.

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We do a ton of hormone replacement here.

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Estradiol, progesterone, testosterone.

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There are lots of different

ways to get it replaced.

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Testosterone I think, is huge for women.

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Again, we've got androgen receptors

everywhere, muscle bone, brain bladder.

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start a lot of premenopausal

women on testosterone.

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It does help alleviate a lot of

the symptoms through perimenopause.

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'cause you do get some conversion

to estrogen, estradiol.

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And then if they're very symptomatic from

lack of estrogen, we'll do some estradiol

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and perimenopause at lower doses.

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And then once they get into

menopause, we do full doses.

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But.

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It's really about trying to stay

strong, metabolically healthy, eat

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right, really watch body composition

and then address the hormones.

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Kelsy Vick: What about when

it comes to skin health?

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Is there anything that you guys like to do

or recommend when it comes to skin health

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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hormones?

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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So estrogen deficient

skin is a real thing.

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If you're not on systemic hormones,

there are estradiol, estriol.

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Face creams that you can get compounded.

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We also talk a lot about the lasers

that help you build collagen.

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'Cause there are some

very good ones out there.

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And then good medical grade skincare.

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One of our favorite ones that we sell

here is Pavis because it has so many

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amazing adaptogens and antioxidants

in it that help your skin repair.

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And then some kind of.

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Retinol or acid type product that

again helps you build collagen.

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I love copper.

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GHK, copper.

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I think it's all over Instagram right

now, but you can use it topically.

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You can inject it.

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It's a peptide.

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it is.

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amazing for collagen build and skin.

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It takes time.

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Everything does.

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But it is one of our favorite

peptides to use for skin.

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But it's a good combination of

good medical grade skincare.

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A really good sunscreen.

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I cannot stress sunscreen enough.

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I know I'm a redhead, so I

talk to everybody about it.

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But any coloring in

your skin is sun damage.

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Sunscreen and a physical

block over a chemical block.

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So something that's a zinc.

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For sunscreen and then lasers

that again, help with sun

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damage and help build collagen.

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there a class of, I'll call them fillers.

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They're really biostimulators, sculptural

radius and Bella Field that really

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help you build your own collagen.

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So we do a combination of all those.

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to build out a plan.

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We're not just a one and

done kind of thing for us.

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If a woman's coming to see us and

they come to see us for a skin

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consult and they're not on hormones,

we talk to them about it because.

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Your skin's not gonna age as

well if you're not on some

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kind of systemic hormone.

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And there are very few women that

hormones are contraindicated for.

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Very few.

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Kelsy Vick: You said you can start them,

maybe not preventatively fully, but

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like when people first start showing

symptoms to help with some of the symptoms

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This is a very probably elementary

question, but do y'all taper off too?

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Is there like a ending phase

that you guys taper off?

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Or is, once a woman is in menopause

and starts to have some of these

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changes, they really are changes that

are gonna have to be managed for life

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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It's permanent, right?

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It does.

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It doesn't, once you stop hormone

replacement, all of your benefits go away.

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And the benefits are many luckily the

FDA removed the black box warning from

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estradiol six weeks ago, which was huge

because those of us who have been in

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the space for as long as I have been,

know what the science is and know that

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we should have been using hormones all

along, we should have never stopped

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because of that one silly study.

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We know heart prevention, dementia

prevention, osteoporosis prevention.

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When you look at the leading causes of

death for women, heart hip fracture,

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dementia, and the hormone replacement,

menopause hormone replacement really

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does help prevent all of those things.

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So we're huge proponents of it.

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Kelsy Vick: And like you said,

hormones, there's receptors on all

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different systems within our bodies.

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Yeah, exactly.

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So there's probably not a system

that it doesn't benefit, especially

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if that was how our bodies normally

functioned in our twenties and thirties.

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We're still gonna have some of those

receptors, so how can we maximize

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their reach when we can no longer

produce what we used to be able to.

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Yes.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Yep.

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So I have 80 plus year olds on.

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hormones still because they want

to continue to reap the benefits

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and they feel good on them.

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And if they have tried to stop them in

the past, they're like, I don't feel good.

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So we just keep 'em on.

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No reason to stop.

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Kelsy Vick: I love what you said too about

just different education and guidance

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that you give your patients, because

as a PT I'm a huge muscle building.

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Bone mineral density.

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How can we shift the viewpoint early on,

especially in girls that working out is

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for aesthetics, which yes, it can be.

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Yes.

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And that's confident building.

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Like I do the same thing, but how can we

get more of that long-term view of yes,

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I see patients all the time who have

muscle atrophy, who have bone marrow

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density issues, and then they're gonna

become fall risks later on and have

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that fracture and lose some of their

mobility and some of their function.

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And knowing that's even

more important in menopause.

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I don't know if this is a good

way to put it, but our bodies.

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Are not necessarily working with us as

much as they are in our twenties, when

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exactly we can maximize some of that

bone marrow density disease and some

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of that muscle, our muscle mass too.

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yes, that peaks in what?

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Thirties, early thirties, and then it's

the, it gets the graph for increasing

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the linear, the slope is a little less.

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So it's how can we work to build what

we can when we're younger, because

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that's when we can really build that

solid foundation and then continue

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to work towards that in our thirties,

our forties, our fifties, when our

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bodies again are maybe converting

that muscle to fat a little bit.

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But we have to work a little

harder for some of those benefits.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Yeah, exactly.

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We need to be doing more

education in younger women.

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And it's funny 'cause when I started

doing it here with my late 20 year

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olds, they would kinda look at me

and I'd be like, I promise this is

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coming and if we can just do something

about it now to help you be better.

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From a muscle standpoint, from a metabolic

standpoint, menopause is gonna be easier.

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Kelsy Vick: I call it the longevity fund.

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It's like putting in little habits

every single day, whether it's exercise,

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a mindfulness thing, hydration,

fueling the right way, enough protein

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i've noticed so many more of my

patients healing better after injury.

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Having a better mindset when it comes to

a mental health challenge or challenge

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that their families are going through.

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There's just these little

things that we can do early on

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to help us when we're older.

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field, we see that, and maybe it's

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more of a fear-based motivation for

us to be like, no I know what I can

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do preventatively to help me whenever

I get to even pregnancy, postpartum,

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our bodies go through changes then.

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But menopause as well, it's.

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What can I do now knowing what I know

happens in these later stages of life?

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How can I help my body and how can I

transfer that mindset to other girls too?

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To realize you can do all the cardio yes.

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If you love that, but build the muscle,

build the bone marrow density, do

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the jump training to have some of

those long term effects, so Exactly.

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And training does need to change right?

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Throughout your life, your body responds

to things differently menopausal

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women really need to do sprint

training, like true sprint training.

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And that's because of the effect that HIIT

exercise has on cortisol for women, which

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affects our insulin level and everything.

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our stress response is different

because of our hormonal challenges.

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a true sprint exercise is gonna

be better for us than a hit

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exercise cold plunge for women.

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And there's not a lot of science

behind cold plunge in general, but for

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women, not good intermittent fasting.

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for women, again, not good.

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We lose lean muscle mass.

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So for us, again, we need that protein

in the morning for our muscles.

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So don't fast till six o'clock at night.

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Sauna's much better for Yes, for women.

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And the science on the health

benefits from saunas Is good.

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It's really there.

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So I do, I encourage my women if

they've got access to one to do it.

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'cause I just think it's

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Kelsy Vick: beneficial.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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for us.

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Kelsy Vick: When we did the cold plunge

episode that'll come out next week.

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It was talking about how

cold plunging for women.

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if you're going to do cold plunging,

it's not the colder, the better.

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Like we think for men it's more of our

body's sense, the cold as a bad stress

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and kick on our bad stress response.

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Yep.

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And I actually mirrored it to

fasting because fasting, I've had

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a PhD researcher, dietician like

physiologist, exercise physiologist

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who studies some of the metabolic.

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Effects that women go

through and all of this.

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And she was saying for fasting,

our bodies sense the same thing,

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where it's like we go into this.

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Survival mode a little quicker when our

body senses lower energy availability.

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So both with cold and with fasting

and things like that, our bodies

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as women handle it differently than

men and sense that bad stress a

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little earlier on where men might.

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Think of it or their body sense it as

more of a good stress and adaptable

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stress that they can grow from.

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So I just thought it was

interesting, cold and fasting.

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It's like both of these things

are very popular right now,

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especially intermittent fasting.

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and fasted training, fasted exercise,

all of those sorts of things.

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So it's just interesting to link those

two and to have the women's health and

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female science Be showing some of these

differences between men and women.

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I think it's awesome.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Yep.

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I think it's great.

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It's studies have been

needed for a very long time.

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My background's primary care and the thing

that I always remember, 'cause again,

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we always think about heart disease and

how women present differently than men.

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Had this one patient come in and

she just said, I get short of breath

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when I get to the top of the hill.

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And that's new.

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And I did an EKG on her in

my office and she was having

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a heart attack in my office.

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But men come in with crushing chest pain.

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Women don't.

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Right?

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But that's, again, the studies

haven't been out there.

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We're now starting to see

some of them, which is great.

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happy that we have people who are focusing

more on women women's health because.

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We are very different Yeah.

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Than men.

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Totally.

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Very different

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Kelsy Vick: from our metabolic capacities

to our thermo regulation when it

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comes to sauna and heat and Yeah.

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I love that.

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I love learning about that and actually

like seeing some of the differences.

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I also think with probably the women

that you're seeing right now who are

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in that perimenopause menopause stage.

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It's a little bit of a mindset shift

that you're having to coach them through

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too, because I think younger women are

starting to understand the importance

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of strength training over cardio

for some of these aesthetic changes.

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But I bet there's a heavy sort of like

mindset shift because a lot of my loved

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ones, like my aunts and my, older women

in my family that I look up to, their

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exercise has consistently been cardio.

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Yeah.

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And thinking of cardio for fat

loss, it's like cardio burns fat.

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That has been the.

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mantra that people have had for years

and years, and then having to understand

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the shift of, okay, hang on, our bodies

handle that a little differently.

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That might be great for men, but we

might need to focus on something a

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little differently as women or have

a little bit of a different ratio

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when it comes to that sort of thing.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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Yeah.

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Strength.

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The strength training is huge.

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you have to think of your muscle as.

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Your metabolic regulator

beyond your hormones.

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They're very important.

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But your muscle, basically

controls your insulin sensitivity.

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So if your muscles aren't healthy you're

metabolically not gonna age as well.

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You will gain weight,

you will lose strength.

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And weightlifting will

definitively help that.

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we really try to build

these plans for women.

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It's not just, Hey, come in and get

some hormones and you're gonna be good.

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We really do a ton of education.

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We talk about how to

address the visceral fat.

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We talk about how to address muscle mass.

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With all of those other things that aren't

just the hormones, but hormone replacing

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women's hormones is of huge importance.

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When we look at.

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How to really help women age better.

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So we talk about it all.

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It's a complete plan.

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We talk sometimes about peptides.

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There are different peptides that we

use that can help address visceral fat

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differently and muscle gain differently.

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But that's after we've

done everything else.

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And somebody's doing the workout

and they're eating like they should

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and they're taking their creatine.

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We know creatine is, all over Instagram

right now but The science on creatine

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for women is actually very good.

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Not just for muscle, but for brain health.

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The studies that have come out on

Alzheimer's and when the Women's Health

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Initiative study came out and it really

deterred hormone use for women the rates

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of Alzheimer's went up tremendously.

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But we know that's not just related

to hormones, it's related to creatine.

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It's related to.

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Omega-3 levels declining in

women's brains as they get older.

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Some of the things that are, really

important to talk to women about omegas,

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creatine, vitamin D hormones, all of that.

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Just because women are far more

likely to get Alzheimer's than men

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and without hormones even more likely,

all, that's to say that there's a lot

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to talk to women about as they age.

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And you need to be seeing somebody

who will take the time to really

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talk to you about all that.

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'cause sometimes educating yourself

on Instagram isn't the best idea.

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Kelsy Vick: And I love how you're

talking about the foundations.

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It's yeah, we can do the peptides,

we can do other treatments on top of

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it for your skin health and things.

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But what I'm also hearing is like

the foundations are the same that we

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should be focusing on throughout life.

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they might shift a little bit, but

if we can reset a little bit or

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teach someone who's maybe new at

it and struggling with some of the

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challenges that come with menopause.

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If we can teach 'em good exercise,

habits and routines, good fueling,

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good supplementation, all of those

sorts of things, maybe help 'em

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with their sleep a little bit,

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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sleep is super important and it gets

very disrupted in perimenopause because

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progesterone is our sleep hormone

and when progesterone goes away.

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We do not sleep well at all.

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And not sleeping affects,

cortisol, insulin, all of that.

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So we do focus a lot on sleep health.

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I have a lot of patients

that have wearables.

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And I say that's great as long

as it's not distracting to you.

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I have one I wear sometimes, not

consistently, but get a little

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data and then I go on my merry way.

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But sleep is huge and progesterone.

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Is very important for that.

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And so we do replace progesterone

early for a lot of women because

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they just, they're not sleeping.

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The 41-year-old will come into me

and say, I don't sleep at night

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and I'm falling asleep in Carline.

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Okay?

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I know what that is,

and we can address that.

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Kelsy Vick: Sleep is one of those

where I feel like a lot of women,

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whether it's hot flashes or different

things that they experience at night

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too, sleep seems to be disruptive.

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And knowing how important

sleep is for just recovery,

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muscle building, brain health,

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All of it.

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And if we can.

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Help with that in some way.

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And like you're saying, if it's through

hormones, because of course hormones

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affect every part of our system.

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Then why not help that earlier on

that way people aren't struggling

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with some of these sleep disturbances

that is negatively impacting all of

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the other work that they're putting

into Their bodies in general too.

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When interestingly when women's

testosterone starts to go down,

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they'll start to get night sweats.

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So when women wake up just

drenched at night, it's usually

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'cause their testosterone is low.

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And again, that's an easy fix.

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Kelsy Vick: I love y'all's

approach too, because.

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Like you said, attacking it from every

single angle and I was able to walk

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through y'all's clinic before, which

is amazing, and seeing all of the ways

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that you're touching every single system

within the body, because our hormones

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affect every single system within

the body, is absolutely wonderful.

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On the topic of creatine and

supplementation specifically, have you

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noticed a difference in dosage needed

for creatine when women hit menopause?

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I know one of my friends subjectively has.

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Experienced more bloating,

and bloating is oftentimes a.

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Something that people worry

about and are concerned with.

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And she has said, I know the research

says that water retention is not a thing,

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but in my body that is what I'm feeling.

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so is there a shift in how our bodies

manage creatine once we get to that age.

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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So I think people bloat with creatine

or they don't, and just, again,

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everybody's body's a little different.

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You can get some water retention with it.

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You can get bloating.

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I think the biggest thing with creatine

is you've gotta drink water with it.

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So if you're somebody who just,

I had a friend tell me, she was

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like, I just throw the creatine on

my tongue and I'm like, oh, okay.

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One, it's usually so chalky.

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Really.

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Like you actually get that down.

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But secondly, you really need

water with it for absorption.

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And if you're good about drinking

a lot of water with it, you're

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gonna get less bloating and

less water retention in general.

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Five grams a day is the standard, right?

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That's what we need.

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The studies that came out on

Alzheimer's we're actually done with

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15 to 20 grams of creatine a day.

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You have to be really good about

water with that, and somebody

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needs to be monitoring some blood

work on you if you're gonna do

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that high of a dose of creatine.

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My recommendation is usually

just five grams a day.

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If I have somebody that I'm really

trying to get some muscle on,

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like they really have low muscle.

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I'll tell them to do an extra five

grams on the day that they lift, like

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after they lift, do an extra five grams.

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But just standard five grams a day.

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Kelsy Vick: have you seen, someone

who is putting in the behavior

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modifications with the exercise.

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With the eating right.

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Who has maybe declined

hormone replacement therapy

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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we do have some women

who choose not to do.

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Hormone therapy, which is fine.

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It's everybody's personal choice.

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I usually will direct them to

certain resources to try to influence

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them to take it, but you can do

it without hormone replacements.

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It's just not as easy.

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it gets harder to build muscle, like

you talked about as we age anyway.

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So when your hormones go

away, it gets really hard.

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You have to lift exceptionally heavy.

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To maintain and build muscle.

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When you're in menopause, if you're

not gonna be on hormone replacement,

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it's also a lot harder to address

the visceral fat that happens.

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Again, you've gotta be diligent about

what you're doing in the gym and how

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you're eating, what you're eating.

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hormones, just make it easier

because the effect they have on our

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muscles and on our fat distribution

and on our insulin sensitivity.

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So just makes it a little easier.

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Kelsy Vick: So we've talked a lot about a

lot of different parts of the body today,

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about menopause, about perimenopause,

about just being a woman in general.

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Is there something that you wish girls

in their twenties and thirties knew?

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And we've touched on it a little

bit, but what would be maybe your

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top one to three things that you

wish younger girls understood about

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their bodies at this age to help

them in perimenopause and menopause,

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Dr. Larissa O'Neill:

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protein intake and weightlifting.

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Those are really the two things that.

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Every woman in their teens

needs to be educated on.

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if you can get your eating habits

good, if you can get the protein intake

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right, if you can build that muscle

and that bone density when you're

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young and maintain, not that it's

gonna make perimenopause and menopause

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a breeze, but it's gonna be easier.

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It's just in general gonna be an easier

transition 'cause you're gonna go

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into it more metabolically healthy.

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So you might not gain as much weight.

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the belly bulge that happens

will be less your risk of

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osteoporosis is gonna be less.

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It just protein and weightlifting

at the two most important things.

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A 20-year-old could be doing right now.

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Kelsy Vick: I love that.

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So consistent with what we

are, trying to, teach women

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and educate them on earlier on.

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So thank you so much for joining us.

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I learned a lot.

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I know this is something that.

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I selfishly wanted more people to

understand about menopause, myself

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included and perimenopause and just

what happens within our bodies, why it

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happens, what we might expect to change,

how we can work to not necessarily prevent

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'cause that's not the case, but be more

prepared for it once it does hit us.

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So thank you so much.

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Yes.

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I will leave the link to Dr.

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O'Neill's clinics below

her clinic in Georgetown.

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If you are in the Austin area and know

someone or are someone who might want to.

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Come see her for her holistic

approach to just being a woman and

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going through perimenopause and

menopause and all of the stages.

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So I hope you guys learned a lot from her.

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I know I did.

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And I will see you guys again on the

next episode of Wellness Fixes the Pod.

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