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84. From $6K to Six Figures (While Pre-Licensed): Tozia's Story
Episode 844th August 2026 • Marketing Therapy • Anna Walker
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Growing a successful private practice doesn't always start with confidence—it often starts with necessity. In this inspiring conversation, Anna sits down with Nashville therapist Tozia Ware, who shares the story of leaving a group practice after earning just $6,000 in six months and building a six-figure private practice in less than two years.

Together, they explore how choosing a clear niche, creating client-centered website copy, and showing up consistently in relationships transformed Tozia's practice. From embracing a specialty before he felt "ready" to discovering the power of authentic marketing in an AI-driven world, this episode offers both practical strategies and encouragement for therapists at every stage of practice.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

1️⃣ Why niching down early can actually help you attract more clients—not fewer.

2️⃣ How writing about your clients' lived experiences creates stronger marketing than listing your credentials.

3️⃣ Why your website is only the beginning—and how networking and relationships amplify your marketing.

4️⃣ How authenticity and human connection are becoming your greatest marketing advantage in the age of AI.

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Marketing Therapy is the podcast where therapists learn how to market their private practices without burnout, self-doubt, or sleazy tactics. Hosted by Anna Walker, a marketing coach, strategist, and founder of Walker Strategy Co—each episode brings you clear, grounded advice to help you attract the right-fit, full-fee clients and grow a practice you feel proud of.

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Tozia Ware:

Hey, hey.

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This is one of the most inspiring

conversations I have had all

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year with a therapist, and I'm so

glad that you get to listen in.

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In this Marketing Therapy episode,

I'm sitting down with Tozia Ware, who

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is a clinician here in Nashville who

specializes in working with the BIPOC

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community and who has expanded into a

couple of other interesting micro-niches

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that you'll hear about in the episode.

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But Taja shares about how he went from

making $6,000 in six months, $6,000 in

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six months, to now making six figures

net in just his second year in practice.

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He has an incredible story of stepping

into confidence as a pre-licensed

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clinician, owning a niche, making

decisions, and giving himself,

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as he says, permission to profit.

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And how figuring out his niche and a

really, really solid website has served

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as a workhorse as he has grown his

premium fee practice here in Nashville.

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I think every single clinician can take

something cool away from this one, and I

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can't wait to hear what it does for you.

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Let's dive in

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Anna Walker: Tozia, good morning.

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Welcome to Marketing Therapy.

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I'm so happy you're here.

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Tell us a little bit about you, first of

all, where you're located, and your niche

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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So, so happy to be here.

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I'm located in Nashville, Tennessee,

and my niche that's a, that's

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a, a good question because it's

kind of evolved and changed, but

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my niche is psychedelic assisted

therapist and also a trauma therapist

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Anna Walker: Amazing.

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All right, I wanna know kind of going

way back to the beginning, Tozia.

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Tell us about how you came into

this work, certainly how you got

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into private practice and sort of

what led you to choose this path

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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So, man, how long has it been?

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It's been like three years or

almost three years I would think.

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So, graduated in fall of 2023 and

joined a group practice, but I was just

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such a baby therapist at the time so I

wasn't really privy to how the payment

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structures were at group practices.

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And I will share that I made a total

of $6,000 over the span of six months.

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Anna Walker: What?

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, it was like,

honestly like less than $1,000 a month.

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And so at the top of the year 2024 I

got that:

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I was like, "Oh, this is not good.

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Not good at

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Anna Walker: That's not gonna work

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Tozia Ware: Not gonna work at all."

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My wife and I, we were living on

savings and so we really didn't see

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the impact until we got that 1099 back,

and then that's when I was like, "Hey,

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I have to leave this group practice."

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Went to a practice that just charged

rent and that was actually maybe I think

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March of 2024, and I believe that is

the time that I joined Confident Copy

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Anna Walker: Yeah, it was early 2024.

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Okay.

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Wow, okay.

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I didn't realize this.

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So you decide to make that pivot it

sounds like out of necessity, right?

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To, to be able to pay the

bills and that kind of thing.

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When you decided to make that change

and join this practice that is, like

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you said, just charging rent, what were

your hopes and goals for your practice?

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Did you have them yet or was

it just survival at that point?

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Tozia Ware: I'm so glad that you asked

that because it was just survival.

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Like, it was just survival at that point.

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Honestly, I was devastated that I made

so little right out the gate because I

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grew up, you know, in this generation

of you get a degree, get the job, make

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the money, white picket fence, golden

retriever, and that was not the case.

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And so devastated, a wave of, regret

came over me of like, what did I just do?

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I just left my, you know, 90K a year

tech job for the past five years to

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essentially jump straight into poverty.

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It was nerve-wracking.

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And so at that time it was

survival, and my goal was to just

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get better than what I was getting

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Anna Walker: Yeah.

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Okay.

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So you make that pivot, and obviously,

like you mentioned, you joined

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Confident Copy, but what other

actions did you take to kind of

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stand up your own brand effectively?

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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Well, I will have to say it

started with Confident Copy.

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Like, Confident Copy was the, like,

leap pad into knowing what my brand was.

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And, you know, saying Confident

Copy out loud now and thinking

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back, it gave me so much confidence.

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The, the website.

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Anna Walker: name it with

a, with something in mind.

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Tozia Ware: You know, and, and it's

so funny that you mention that,

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'cause it actually never clicked until

now, looking back in hindsight, but

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I'm like, "Oh, me having a website,

I had so much confidence then."

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And so that was like the leap pad

of, like, figuring out what my brand

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was, what, what I wanted to do, the

type of populations that I wanted to

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see, and so that was really the start

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Anna Walker: Yeah, that's incredible.

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Okay, now you hinted at this.

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Tell me about what's

gone on with your niche.

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So originally in Confident Copy,

where you landed, and then where

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you find yourself today, and

sort of how you've gotten there.

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I'm so curious

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, absolutely.

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So right out the gate as a pre-licensed

therapist some programs will normally

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say, like, "See whoever you can see for

the practice," and things like that.

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But I believe that I was in your Facebook

group around the marketing books Facebook

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group, and so many therapists, and I

think including yourself, was essentially

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saying whenever you market to everyone,

you market to no one essentially.

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And so I took note as a

little baby therapist, I was

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like, "I need to hone in."

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And s- when I told some colleagues,

they were like, "Well…

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well, what if, you know, you don't

get people and this and that?"

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But me doing that, I

actually got more clients in.

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And so whenever I started Confident

Copy, my passion was really, and it still

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is working with the BIPOC populations

around racial trauma, racial stress.

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That was just a passion that I had then

from my own personal lived experience

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and throughout living in the South.

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And so I was like, "This is

something that's needed here."

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But since then it has just warped and

evolved into so many different things.

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And for anyone listening to this

right now, I just wanna say you're not

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stuck with whatever you start with or

whatever niche that you start with.

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That thing can evolve and grow into

something, like, more and beautiful

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while also keeping the existing

population you were working with

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Anna Walker: Yeah.

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That's such an important message.

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I think when people think about

niching, they do, they're like, "Oh, no.

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Like, I'm married to this

for the rest of my career.

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I have to, you know, forsake

the other populations or

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presenting issues that I enjoy."

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So what a powerful message.

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So are you continuing to work with

that BIPOC population even now?

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Tozia Ware: Yes, continuing to

work with the BIPOC population.

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And I will say that it has evolved

because now I am a psychedelic assisted

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therapist and I work with songwriters and

creatives in Nashville doing intensives.

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And so I, I know it's like they, they

kinda go hand-in-hand but kinda not.

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But it, but it's still underneath

the same umbrella of, you know,

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relational therapy, and I think that's

where I'm really at right now is

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relational attachment therapy, and that

really spans across all populations

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Anna Walker: Yeah.

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Okay.

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And how did the addition of the

psychedelic-assisted and then the

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intensives, like tell us about how

those came about, 'cause I think those

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are two kind of hot topics right now.

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Lots of clinicians are thinking

about one or both of those

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things in their own practices.

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, absolutely.

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So when it came to psychedelic-assisted

therapy, I first heard about it in,

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let's see here, I think it was my spring

semester of my last year of the program,

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and I actually attended the Psychedelic

Science Conference in summer:

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And so the conference is biannually.

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It is so fun to be there to learn, you

know, what's going on in the field.

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And, sitting in those presentations, I

was learning these different modalities,

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how these psychedelic medicines were

helping people with complex trauma, PTSD,

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and there was just something within me

that I was like, "Wait a minute, this

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is the population that I work with, and

psychedelics is condensing 10 years'

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worth of talk therapy into one session?

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Sign me up."

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Like, that sounds really cool.

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And once again, I'm an internship

s- like, student at this time,

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so I know, like, nothing.

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But once I graduated and moved practices,

I got some extensive training, and

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that- that's also the thing, is I w- I'm

considered a train-a-holic to some folks.

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My training list looks like

a Cheesecake Factory menu.

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But but I've since slowed down, because

what's so important about this work and

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in psychedelics is the integration period.

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It's like making sure that you are

actually sitting with this information,

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sitting with these insights to make

that, to make those lasting changes.

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And so incorporating that within

my practice, ketamine-assisted

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psychotherapy, it's the only

legal substance at this time.

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But psilocybin, also known as magic

mushrooms, it is up to probably,

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hopefully be the first FDA-approved

psychedelic for treatment of PTSD.

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And so I know the community is

very, very excited about that.

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And then when it came to the intensives,

I kind of stumbled upon that.

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S- someone reached out to me and they were

like, "Hey, we, we love your website," of

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course, because I get that all the time.

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And they were like, "Hey, we are working

with songwriters and creatives that

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could really use the type of trauma

healing and modalities that you have,

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and would you be open to you know,

opening this up for intensives?"

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And so I've been doing that

for about a year, and it has

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been a beautiful experience.

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Anna Walker: Cool, cool.

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You know, I've been talking a lot

about the idea of micro-niching

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lately, how, like, choosing a super

specific population or a sp- super

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specific presenting issue, something

like that, can be really powerful in

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addition to, like, more general work.

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So for you, you know, serving the BIPOC

population, for instance, but then

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you kind of have these micro-niches

certainly of psychedelic-assisted,

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but also these intensives for

a really specific population.

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Do you feel like leaning into those

more specific areas has opened up some

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additional marketing opportunities?

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Like, does it make in any

way your marketing easier?

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Or like you mentioned, you know,

this idea of, like, going too

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broad can sometimes limit you.

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What have you noticed there?

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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I think it's made the marketing

a bit easier for me because I'm

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hitting a lot of different folks

with what I'm working with.

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At the end of the day, regardless

of the population a lot of folks are

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carrying a lot of pain, a lot of trauma.

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And I tell you what, if, also

anyone listening out there, 60K

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later in trainings, the common

goal is to just be with the client.

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Anna Walker: Mm.

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Tozia Ware: That was the red thread.

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Right, right.

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They're just be with the

client, just be in that space.

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And it's like, oh, well,

well, thank you 60K later.

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But I think that that's really what it is.

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Like, yes, I think that the populations

that I work with, they are so happy

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that there is a space and that is

a person out there for them, but I

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haven't yet experienced someone jumping

on my website and being like, "Hey,

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you also work with these populations.

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I don't know."

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It's like, "Oh, that's really

cool that you have, experience

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and skills in other areas."

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And being in Nashville,

I will say that almost…

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And, and I know that you're also Nashville

too, Anna, but I feel like everyone,

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if not everyone is, like, a creator or

a songwriter or some type of musician.

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And so, the work that I've been doing has

not been bad for the marketing at all.

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It actually made, made me more

marketable having these micro-niches.

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Anna Walker: Yeah, I can imagine.

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I can imagine.

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Okay, so what's interesting to me,

Tozia, when I think about your journey

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is you joined Confident Copy and

tarted your practice in early:

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And from my perspective, I've been serving

clinicians for seven years, I feel like

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tw- right around there, 2024 to now has

been the greatest shift, like, the m- the,

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the fastest change in the last two years.

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So you've just been, like, you

jumped on that rollercoaster and

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it was already, like, flying.

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So what have you seen change in the

market in these last couple years

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as you have been getting your feet

under you and building your practice?

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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So let's start from the beginning.

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So whenever I joined in early

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again, I, pre-licensed therapist,

I came in not knowing a thing.

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And, you know, in the cohorts

that I was with at the time in the

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program, I was in there with seasoned

therapists, therapists that had

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been on for years without a website.

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I think what has changed is more

therapists are starting to recognize

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that they need to be active

participants in their marketing.

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And around that time, I remember that

a lot of people did not want to do it.

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Like, they didn't wanna

create the website.

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They didn't wanna show up on social media.

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They wanted to outsource all the work.

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But I think with the rise of AI,

people are wanting more humanness

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and more connection, and just even

a little bit of that has increased

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my referral sources, like, 10 times.

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Anna Walker: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Man, I couldn't say it better myself.

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, yeah.

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Please, go ahead.

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Anna Walker: No, please, I, I think what

you're noting there around people desiring

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humanness, like, that is becoming your

absolute most valuable asset in your

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marketing right now, is just your ability

to be a human and to not outsource,

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like you said, to a robot or to someone

else, but, like, to actually own that

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, absolutely.

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And, you know, at that time, in

hindsight, I feel like the first

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robots were actually the therapist.

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Anna Walker: Tell me more

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Tozia Ware: I would love to.

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At the time, you know, this journey,

and even to this day, so many

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therapists, they put this information

on their websites robotically.

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And that is, "I went to this

university, and I have this degree,

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and I'm trained in these modalities."

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What I've learned, clients

don't care about any of that.

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They care about the moments,

the moments that they are in.

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They want to hop on your website

and they want to read the

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exact moment that they're in.

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That's what gets them.

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But I will say that's

how we're trained, right?

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We're trained to be professionals.

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But also, that's killing

our, our clientele.

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You have services, it's killing your

sales because it, it does come off as

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not as personable and not as human.

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You telling me your de- your degrees

and your certifications doesn't tell

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me anything about the work that you're

able to do with me, or can you even

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be with me in this moment in space?

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That in and of itself has

been a game changer, and that

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started with Confident Copy.

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That is one thing out the gate

that you taught us is to name those

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moments, and I can't tell you how

many times I have therapists hop on my

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website or clients and they're like,

"The way you worded that, I did not

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know that someone like you existed.

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Like, I felt so seen reading

your website because I've been

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carrying this for so long."

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We can't see a client saying,

"Hey, we have six certifications

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in somatic therapy."

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That means nothing.

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Anna Walker: Right.

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Tozia Ware: And so that, that's

what I mean about the first, you

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know, robots out here were, were the

therapist in how they were operating.

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But it's not that we're operating wrong

in that sense, we're just operating

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in the way that we were taught

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Anna Walker: Mm, mm.

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So it's kind of undoing that or at least

reframing a bit of that training when

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you consider your marketing and what

it is that you're putting out there.

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Tozia Ware: Absolutely

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Anna Walker: Okay, awesome.

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Okay, so now tell me, so you graduate

Confident Copy, you launch your website,

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you're, you know, you're feeling legit.

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Then what did you do?

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'Cause websites don't

operate in a vacuum, right?

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You can launch a website, but if

no one sees it, it doesn't matter.

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So tell me about what, what happened next

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, and I'm so glad you

mentioned that because I've, I've talked

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to a few colleagues recently that they

finally after, you know, 10 decades

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completed their websites and they're

like, "Well, I'm not getting anything."

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Well, yeah, because no

one knows you exist.

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Yeah.

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And so after I completed Confident

Copy, and I think that, I don't

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know if it's still this way now,

but at the time it was 16 weeks.

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I just wanna put a badge on myself.

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I completed it in 13

because I was so eager.

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Anna Walker: You were a speedy student.

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Tozia Ware: I was like- Yeah … "Let's

get this done, 'cause I need the money."

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It was, it was out of desperation.

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But once I completed the website, I shared

it with friends, family, colleagues,

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because I was so proud of the hard work

that I put into it over those 13 weeks.

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I will say to you, that summer it was a

little slower because that was my first

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experience of a slummer, summer slump.

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And what I did is I met with, like,

two to three therapists for coffee.

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I tell you what, Anna,

come August I was full.

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They were sending me referrals left and

right, and it wouldn't have happened

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if I would not have put myself out

there to let people know that I exist.

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And I think that is the,

where the humanness comes in.

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Like,

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we can't outsource our energy.

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We can't outsa- or outsource our aura.

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People need to know that first

they know you and they feel

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confident sending people your way.

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I always tell new clinicians,

and even seasoned clinicians,

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this is not a profession where

you build it and they will come.

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I always joke you know, I run consultation

groups ab- for, for folks all over the

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globe, and I always joke that, you know,

in Tennessee, especially in Nashville,

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just like, gas stations and churches,

there's a therapist on every corner.

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Anna Walker: That is the truth

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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It like, it's over, like, 3,000-plus

therapists in Nashville, and there's

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no competition though, because people

refer to who they remember and that just

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takes you getting yourself out there.

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Anna Walker: Oof.

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Tozia Ware: Sorry.

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I know I-

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Anna Walker: else away from this

episode, let it be that very thing.

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I love that.

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You know what's interesting to me, too,

especially early on like you mentioned,

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there's this intangible that comes with

having a website you're proud of, knowing

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who you are, knowing how to talk about it.

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There's this intangible

benefit that we can't measure.

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Like, it's not, it's not quantitative,

but when you feel good about what it is

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that you're putting out there, like you

said, you felt proud sharing this, there's

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something to be said for that, right?

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There's kind of the energy of putting

yourself out there confidently y-

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and there's a willingness to make

those connections and provide someone

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your, your website and whatever.

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And I think early on, that is absolutely

mission critical, 'cause if you

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don't feel good about that, you're

going to remain kind of small in your

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marketing, and there is no greater

opportunity, window of opportunity in

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your marketing than after launching your

website, and you made the most of that

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Tozia Ware: Absolutely.

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little bit more about that

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Anna Walker: Please do

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Tozia Ware: Once again, I want

to reiterate for those folks

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listening, pre-licensed therapist,

did not know what I was doing, and

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niched down right out the gate.

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And even at that time, I still

did not know what I was doing.

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was up, did not know.

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But at least there was a billboard

explaining what I would want to

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do and what I love doing, what I'm

passionate about, that got people in,

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and I was figuring it out as I went.

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And as I continued to grow, I was

understanding more about the copy

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that I put on my website of like,

"Oh yeah, this makes sense now.

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Also wanna say, it is so, so,

so important to have a website.

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There are therapists out there

to this day that think that

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they can survive without it.

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You may be able to survive,

but are you able to thrive?

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Those are two different things.

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The website is the billboard for yourself.

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Some folks are sticking with you

know, these you know, Psychology Today

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or I think SimplePractice offers,

like, a, a short little website.

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the essence of you so that

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people can land on your page.

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therapists 2:00 AM at night.

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They don't wanna land on a page

where they gotta read all your

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degrees and not know what this meant.

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Once again, they want to know

the moments that they're in.

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If they land on my website at 2:00

AM, I wanna have that in my copy.

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"You're probably reading this at 2:00 AM.

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Anna Walker: Mm-hmm

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Tozia Ware: There's a

heaviness in your chest.

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You feel like you tried

everything and nothing's working."

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That is what they want to read and see.

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It's visceral, yeah.

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I will share this also, which, you

know, every time this happens I

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always think, like, Anna really took

care of us in this program, y'all.

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I, I will say that.

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Last summer I had a client that

was looking for a therapist for

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ketamine-assisted psychotherapy.

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bit pricey, but the way that I do

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it, it's still very much affordable.

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Let me tell you that this client mentioned

that they were going between another

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therapist and myself, but the other

therapist's website was hard to navigate,

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it was clunky, the information wasn't

clear, the fees were not visible, it was

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hard to even know how to contact them.

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And my website was clean, easy to

navigate, everything was listed.

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And so they chose me over that other

seasoned therapist because of my website.

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and safety starts with our website.

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In psychedelic therapy, we ha- we

do something called preparation

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the experience, you are also doing

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that for, like, with your website.

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if I jump on a website and it is

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giving me a hard time, I'm not

gonna lie, that puts me at unease.

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It stresses me out even more, and

I, it's, it, I don't know if how

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that experience will be working

with someone that, you know, their

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website isn't where it needs to be.

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And so I just wanted to share that

because the website has worked

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in so many ways that I could not

even imagine that it would have

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Anna Walker: Interesting.

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Wow, you got insight into…

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I mean, that client sharing that

with you, I think that's happening

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way more than we realize, 'cause you

don't often hear that from the client.

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But we know they're looking at five,

seven, nine other therapist websites, and

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they are making decisions based on it.

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So what interesting insight into

that actual experience and how yours,

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because the experience was better

and it was cleaner and whatever

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that they, they, they chose you.

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Like you said, credentials

be damned, essentially.

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Tozia Ware: yes, exactly

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Anna Walker: Yeah.

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Okay y- before we put, hit record,

you mentioned that things are going

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better than you could have hoped for.

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So tell me, how are things

going in your practice today?

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, things are

going so great in my practice.

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So whenever I left, you know, the, the

group that I made $6,000 in six months,

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once I left, I made that $6,000 back

in 30 days, and so that was amazing.

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And so my first year, so 2024, I brought

in, I believe, 70K in the practice,

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and last year I made over six figures.

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net, and I did not overwork myself.

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I worked, like, three to,

three to four days a week.

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that was the catalyst.

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The website was honestly

the catalyst for my success.

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I cannot lie.

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Because someone- and, and things are

going so well because of the website.

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I get so many referrals

through my website.

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I have like, the processes

are so streamlined that I had

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someone ask, because I'm doing

so well now, "How do you sell?

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How do you sell yourself?

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How do you get your ideal client?

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How do you get your premium rate?"

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And I, and I will say this.

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My rate at the time when I started

Confident Copy was $145 an hour.

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This year I am at $200 an hour.

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Anna Walker: Good for you

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Tozia Ware: And thank you, thank you.

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And there was a little bit of old

programming, you know, that, that was

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left of like, "Oh, will anybody buy this?"

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Yes they will.

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My supervisor at the time, she was,

when I, when I said I was gonna raise

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my rate, she was like, "Be patient."

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do you mean be patient?

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Like, I, I wanna raise my rate."

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And she was like, "No, no, no.

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Once you raise your rate, that

old programming will come and

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you want to, you know, fall back

to what's safe and what's small.

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And if a client hesitates once you say

the rate, will that turn them off?"

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And she was like, "Be patient.

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And I will tell you they did.

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And so starting with my website, the

selling piece, I feel like I never

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have to sell anybody because all

of the information is on my site.

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form, it's really having a short

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consultation to check the vibes.

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And you know, I always say I love

surprises, but not when it comes to money.

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And I ask them have they, where they

seen, they're like, "Oh yeah, I saw it.

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We're good to go.

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It's great."

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I rarely have to sell.

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I rarely have to have a consult

with someone that cannot pay my full

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rate, and I don't accept insurance.

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And so I think that has been the thing

that's changed for me is leaning in and

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standing in that confidence that we,

we are essentially essential workers,

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and people want what we have to offer.

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without being well-resourced.

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Since then, Anna, I've become like a,

a radical therapist need to get paid.

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Because even starting out and my website

was done, and even at the 145, I would

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have colleagues saying, "Oh, well,

you shouldn't increase your rate,"

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and, oh, my, my even Black and Brown

colleagues, they were like, "Oh, well,

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you know, Black and Brown folks can't

afford therapy, and you should just,

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you know, keep your rates the same."

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There was something in me that I was

like I'm not going to subscribe to

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that narrative, and I did not, and I'm

happy to report over 90% of my caseload

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are Black and Brown folks paying full

rate, and they did not bat an eye.

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It was not an issue

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Anna Walker: Hmm.

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Man, there's so much to be said there.

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We could do an entire podcast episode

or entire podcast on this probably.

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Tozia Ware: I'm ready to come back, Anna

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Anna Walker: Yeah, let's do it.

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We can have round two together.

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I would love that.

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But what's interesting is I think

you're speaking to the fact that

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a lot of clinicians sometimes

unintentionally assign or project

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things onto their ideal client.

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Well, this population can't pay that.

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And that there are ways that you

can remain accessible to, to the

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people that you love to serve while

also being well, well-resourced, you

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know, well yourself, meeting your

own goals and that kind of thing.

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That they are, those two things are

not necessarily mutually exclusive.

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You can serve a really wonderful

population and make a big impact and

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also be paid what you deserve to be paid.

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Tozia Ware: Absolutely.

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And I, and I think that's the biggest

thing that, that changed for me over

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the two years, was really working on the

money wounds that I carried into this

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profession, and what we are being fed.

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You know, in, in many of our programs,

we're kind of taught directly or

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indirectly that you didn't come

into this work to make money.

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You should be doing this from

the kindness of your heart.

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And then, you know, your old money

wounds of whatever you were fed before

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the age of 18 of people with money are

greedy, or if you care about money,

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you're caring about the wrong thing.

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But I learned very early on and

quickly that I cannot effectively

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show up and do this work ethically

when I am stressed and burnt out.

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Like, that, that was a

devastating part for me.

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I just graduated six months ago and

I'm already financially burnt out?

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Absolutely not.

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Something had to change.

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And so, I give a lot of

therapists permission to

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profit, and we can be so much.

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Anna Walker: to profit.

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I love

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, and, and, and I

think it, it really did start with

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you, Anna, that you gave us permission

to show up with the confidence on

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our website, because if you have

that, the website sells itself.

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Anna Walker: Yeah.

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Tozia Ware: and that's what you

taught early on, that like there's

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not much you really have to do.

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If you have the right language in those

moments and they're visceral, oh my

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goodness, you're gonna get your item

fine at your full rate easy, and that has

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come easy for me over the past two years

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Anna Walker: That's incredible.

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The other thing, you mentioned the

word permission, and that was kind

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of coming to my mind earlier because

I think you've also given listeners

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here permission to not have it all

figured out when they start, right?

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Like you mentioned, like you kind of

lived into what you wrote on that website.

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Sometimes I'll hear from

people, like I put…

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You know, I…

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If we write the copy for them or they go

through Confident Copy, sometimes they're

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like, "I read this and I, I don't know if

I'm that good of a therapist," you know?

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But you can live into that.

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It doesn't have to be fully formed.

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You can still be evolving.

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What a wonderful thing

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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And also what I tell folks that your

clients don't know, and that's okay too.

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Anna Walker: Mm-hmm.

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Tozia Ware: And it's not that you can't

help them, like, and I think that's where

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we really undervalue our skills that

we have been trained to be with people.

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We have all the knowledge and

the skills, it's just putting

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those things into practice.

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Because what really helped me feel

into what was on my website is whenever

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I stopped trying to chase all these

trainings and chase the next thing,

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but actually put those things into

practice, and that's when it started to

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land in my own body and nervous system.

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But your website is only the door and

you grow, you know, throughout that.

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But the door needs to look good.

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The door needs to

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Anna Walker: It does.

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It does.

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Right, we can't get around that

right now, that's for sure.

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Well, Tozia, this has been incredible.

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Maybe we will bring

you back for round two.

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You and I can chat about that.

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But as we wrap up, I want you to

imagine that version of yourself, right?

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So early 2024, you got your 1099, you

only made 6K in the last six months.

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What would you say to that

version of yourself now?

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Tozia Ware: Yeah.

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I would say that First,

be patient with yourself.

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You are good enough, and things

are going to unfold better than

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you could ever have planned or

imagined by just trusting the process

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Anna Walker: Hmm.

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I think anyone could benefit

from hearing that today, Tozia.

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Thank you so much for joining

me for this first version.

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Maybe we'll have you back soon.

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We appreciate you, and if people

wanna learn more about you, if

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they're interested in seeing this

website where can they find you?

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, so you

can go to my website at

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modernhealingco , that's C-O, .com.

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And also I'm on Instagram.

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The handle is modernblacktherapist

. Because like I said, I'm kind of like

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radical out here right now of talking

about how therapists deserve to be

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paid and giving therapists permission

to profit because I just really value

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this work, and I want to stay in it

as long as I possibly can, but I need

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to fill my cup and give my clients

the overflow of that, not the lack.

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And so follow me there and I will be

sharing all of these insights and nuggets.

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And yeah, I'm just happy that I was

able to share what I had to share today.

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Thank you

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Anna Walker: Thank you so much.

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We will link those things in the show

notes for, so folks can follow along.

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We appreciate you and

we're cheering you on.

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Tozia Ware: Yeah, thank you

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Anna Walker: Absolutely.

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Tozia Ware: Well, isn't

that an inspiring story?

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I I hope you got something out of Tozia's

journey and what he shared, whether it

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was just taking the leap out of necessity

into private practice, of owning a

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niche, of figuring out micro-niches,

of giving yourself permission to,

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as he said, serve clients out of the

overflow of your cup, not the lack.

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That really stuck with me.

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If you're interested in building out

a website like what Tozia has done for

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himself and what he is using to bring in

those right fit clients right now, The

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doors to Confident Copy live, our final

cohort of the year, are opening tomorrow.

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Tomorrow, we are opening the doors to our

incredible 16-week program where you get

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weekly live coaching, community feedback,

eyes on your niche and your copy as you

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start figuring out what makes you you,

of injecting that humanness into your

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marketing, and of bringing it to life

in such a way that it overflows into

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everything you do to grow your practice.

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You can get all the details,

walkerstrategyco.com/confident-copy.

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If this is the right container for

you, I urge you to jump in now.

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Like I said, it is your last chance

this year, and we would love to make

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you another story of what it looks like

to step into who you're meant to be as

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a clinician and bring in those clients

that you are most equipped to help.

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