Growing a successful private practice doesn't always start with confidence—it often starts with necessity. In this inspiring conversation, Anna sits down with Nashville therapist Tozia Ware, who shares the story of leaving a group practice after earning just $6,000 in six months and building a six-figure private practice in less than two years.
Together, they explore how choosing a clear niche, creating client-centered website copy, and showing up consistently in relationships transformed Tozia's practice. From embracing a specialty before he felt "ready" to discovering the power of authentic marketing in an AI-driven world, this episode offers both practical strategies and encouragement for therapists at every stage of practice.
1️⃣ Why niching down early can actually help you attract more clients—not fewer.
2️⃣ How writing about your clients' lived experiences creates stronger marketing than listing your credentials.
3️⃣ Why your website is only the beginning—and how networking and relationships amplify your marketing.
4️⃣ How authenticity and human connection are becoming your greatest marketing advantage in the age of AI.
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Marketing Therapy is the podcast where therapists learn how to market their private practices without burnout, self-doubt, or sleazy tactics. Hosted by Anna Walker, a marketing coach, strategist, and founder of Walker Strategy Co—each episode brings you clear, grounded advice to help you attract the right-fit, full-fee clients and grow a practice you feel proud of.
Hey, hey.
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:This is one of the most inspiring
conversations I have had all
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:year with a therapist, and I'm so
glad that you get to listen in.
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:In this Marketing Therapy episode,
I'm sitting down with Tozia Ware, who
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:is a clinician here in Nashville who
specializes in working with the BIPOC
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:community and who has expanded into a
couple of other interesting micro-niches
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:that you'll hear about in the episode.
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:But Taja shares about how he went from
making $6,000 in six months, $6,000 in
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:six months, to now making six figures
net in just his second year in practice.
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:He has an incredible story of stepping
into confidence as a pre-licensed
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:clinician, owning a niche, making
decisions, and giving himself,
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:as he says, permission to profit.
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:And how figuring out his niche and a
really, really solid website has served
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:as a workhorse as he has grown his
premium fee practice here in Nashville.
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:I think every single clinician can take
something cool away from this one, and I
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:can't wait to hear what it does for you.
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:Let's dive in
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:Anna Walker: Tozia, good morning.
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:Welcome to Marketing Therapy.
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:I'm so happy you're here.
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:Tell us a little bit about you, first of
all, where you're located, and your niche
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:So, so happy to be here.
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:I'm located in Nashville, Tennessee,
and my niche that's a, that's
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:a, a good question because it's
kind of evolved and changed, but
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:my niche is psychedelic assisted
therapist and also a trauma therapist
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:Anna Walker: Amazing.
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:All right, I wanna know kind of going
way back to the beginning, Tozia.
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:Tell us about how you came into
this work, certainly how you got
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:into private practice and sort of
what led you to choose this path
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:So, man, how long has it been?
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:It's been like three years or
almost three years I would think.
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:So, graduated in fall of 2023 and
joined a group practice, but I was just
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:such a baby therapist at the time so I
wasn't really privy to how the payment
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:structures were at group practices.
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:And I will share that I made a total
of $6,000 over the span of six months.
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:Anna Walker: What?
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, it was like,
honestly like less than $1,000 a month.
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:And so at the top of the year 2024 I
got that:
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:I was like, "Oh, this is not good.
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:Not good at
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:Anna Walker: That's not gonna work
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:Tozia Ware: Not gonna work at all."
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:My wife and I, we were living on
savings and so we really didn't see
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:the impact until we got that 1099 back,
and then that's when I was like, "Hey,
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:I have to leave this group practice."
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:Went to a practice that just charged
rent and that was actually maybe I think
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:March of 2024, and I believe that is
the time that I joined Confident Copy
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:Anna Walker: Yeah, it was early 2024.
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:So you decide to make that pivot it
sounds like out of necessity, right?
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:To, to be able to pay the
bills and that kind of thing.
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:When you decided to make that change
and join this practice that is, like
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:you said, just charging rent, what were
your hopes and goals for your practice?
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:Did you have them yet or was
it just survival at that point?
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:Tozia Ware: I'm so glad that you asked
that because it was just survival.
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:Like, it was just survival at that point.
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:Honestly, I was devastated that I made
so little right out the gate because I
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:grew up, you know, in this generation
of you get a degree, get the job, make
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:the money, white picket fence, golden
retriever, and that was not the case.
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:And so devastated, a wave of, regret
came over me of like, what did I just do?
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:I just left my, you know, 90K a year
tech job for the past five years to
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:It was nerve-wracking.
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:And so at that time it was
survival, and my goal was to just
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:Anna Walker: Yeah.
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:So you make that pivot, and obviously,
like you mentioned, you joined
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:Confident Copy, but what other
actions did you take to kind of
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:stand up your own brand effectively?
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:Well, I will have to say it
started with Confident Copy.
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:Like, Confident Copy was the, like,
leap pad into knowing what my brand was.
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:And, you know, saying Confident
Copy out loud now and thinking
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:back, it gave me so much confidence.
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:The, the website.
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:Anna Walker: name it with
a, with something in mind.
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:Tozia Ware: You know, and, and it's
so funny that you mention that,
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:'cause it actually never clicked until
now, looking back in hindsight, but
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:I'm like, "Oh, me having a website,
I had so much confidence then."
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:And so that was like the leap pad
of, like, figuring out what my brand
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:was, what, what I wanted to do, the
type of populations that I wanted to
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:Anna Walker: Yeah, that's incredible.
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gone on with your niche.
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:So originally in Confident Copy,
where you landed, and then where
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:you find yourself today, and
sort of how you've gotten there.
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, absolutely.
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:So right out the gate as a pre-licensed
therapist some programs will normally
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:say, like, "See whoever you can see for
the practice," and things like that.
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:But I believe that I was in your Facebook
group around the marketing books Facebook
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:group, and so many therapists, and I
think including yourself, was essentially
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:saying whenever you market to everyone,
you market to no one essentially.
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:And so I took note as a
little baby therapist, I was
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:like, "I need to hone in."
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:And s- when I told some colleagues,
they were like, "Well…
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:well, what if, you know, you don't
get people and this and that?"
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:But me doing that, I
actually got more clients in.
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:And so whenever I started Confident
Copy, my passion was really, and it still
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:is working with the BIPOC populations
around racial trauma, racial stress.
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:That was just a passion that I had then
from my own personal lived experience
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:And so I was like, "This is
something that's needed here."
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:But since then it has just warped and
evolved into so many different things.
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:And for anyone listening to this
right now, I just wanna say you're not
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:stuck with whatever you start with or
whatever niche that you start with.
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:That thing can evolve and grow into
something, like, more and beautiful
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:while also keeping the existing
population you were working with
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:Anna Walker: Yeah.
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:That's such an important message.
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:I think when people think about
niching, they do, they're like, "Oh, no.
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:Like, I'm married to this
for the rest of my career.
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:I have to, you know, forsake
the other populations or
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:presenting issues that I enjoy."
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:So what a powerful message.
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:So are you continuing to work with
that BIPOC population even now?
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:Tozia Ware: Yes, continuing to
work with the BIPOC population.
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:And I will say that it has evolved
because now I am a psychedelic assisted
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:therapist and I work with songwriters and
creatives in Nashville doing intensives.
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:And so I, I know it's like they, they
kinda go hand-in-hand but kinda not.
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:But it, but it's still underneath
the same umbrella of, you know,
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:relational therapy, and I think that's
where I'm really at right now is
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:relational attachment therapy, and that
really spans across all populations
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:Anna Walker: Yeah.
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:Okay.
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:And how did the addition of the
psychedelic-assisted and then the
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:intensives, like tell us about how
those came about, 'cause I think those
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:are two kind of hot topics right now.
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:Lots of clinicians are thinking
about one or both of those
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, absolutely.
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:So when it came to psychedelic-assisted
therapy, I first heard about it in,
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semester of my last year of the program,
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:and I actually attended the Psychedelic
Science Conference in summer:
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:It is so fun to be there to learn, you
know, what's going on in the field.
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:And, sitting in those presentations, I
was learning these different modalities,
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:how these psychedelic medicines were
helping people with complex trauma, PTSD,
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:and there was just something within me
that I was like, "Wait a minute, this
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:is the population that I work with, and
psychedelics is condensing 10 years'
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:worth of talk therapy into one session?
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:Like, that sounds really cool.
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s- like, student at this time,
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:so I know, like, nothing.
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:But once I graduated and moved practices,
I got some extensive training, and
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:that- that's also the thing, is I w- I'm
considered a train-a-holic to some folks.
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:My training list looks like
a Cheesecake Factory menu.
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:But but I've since slowed down, because
what's so important about this work and
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:in psychedelics is the integration period.
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:It's like making sure that you are
actually sitting with this information,
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:sitting with these insights to make
that, to make those lasting changes.
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:And so incorporating that within
my practice, ketamine-assisted
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:psychotherapy, it's the only
legal substance at this time.
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:But psilocybin, also known as magic
mushrooms, it is up to probably,
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psychedelic for treatment of PTSD.
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:And so I know the community is
very, very excited about that.
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:And then when it came to the intensives,
I kind of stumbled upon that.
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:S- someone reached out to me and they were
like, "Hey, we, we love your website," of
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:course, because I get that all the time.
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:And they were like, "Hey, we are working
with songwriters and creatives that
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:could really use the type of trauma
healing and modalities that you have,
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:and would you be open to you know,
opening this up for intensives?"
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for about a year, and it has
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:Anna Walker: Cool, cool.
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:You know, I've been talking a lot
about the idea of micro-niching
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:lately, how, like, choosing a super
specific population or a sp- super
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:specific presenting issue, something
like that, can be really powerful in
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:addition to, like, more general work.
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:So for you, you know, serving the BIPOC
population, for instance, but then
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:you kind of have these micro-niches
certainly of psychedelic-assisted,
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:but also these intensives for
a really specific population.
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:Do you feel like leaning into those
more specific areas has opened up some
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:additional marketing opportunities?
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:Like, does it make in any
way your marketing easier?
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:Or like you mentioned, you know,
this idea of, like, going too
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:broad can sometimes limit you.
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:I think it's made the marketing
a bit easier for me because I'm
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:hitting a lot of different folks
with what I'm working with.
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:At the end of the day, regardless
of the population a lot of folks are
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:carrying a lot of pain, a lot of trauma.
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anyone listening out there, 60K
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goal is to just be with the client.
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:Anna Walker: Mm.
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:Tozia Ware: That was the red thread.
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:They're just be with the
client, just be in that space.
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:And it's like, oh, well,
well, thank you 60K later.
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:Like, yes, I think that the populations
that I work with, they are so happy
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:that there is a space and that is
a person out there for them, but I
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on my website and being like, "Hey,
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:It's like, "Oh, that's really
cool that you have, experience
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:And being in Nashville,
I will say that almost…
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:And, and I know that you're also Nashville
too, Anna, but I feel like everyone,
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a songwriter or some type of musician.
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:And so, the work that I've been doing has
not been bad for the marketing at all.
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marketable having these micro-niches.
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:Anna Walker: Yeah, I can imagine.
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:Okay, so what's interesting to me,
Tozia, when I think about your journey
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tarted your practice in early:
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clinicians for seven years, I feel like
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been the greatest shift, like, the m- the,
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:So you've just been, like, you
jumped on that rollercoaster and
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:So what have you seen change in the
market in these last couple years
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under you and building your practice?
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:So let's start from the beginning.
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:So whenever I joined in early
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I came in not knowing a thing.
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that I was with at the time in the
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:program, I was in there with seasoned
therapists, therapists that had
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:I think what has changed is more
therapists are starting to recognize
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participants in their marketing.
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:And around that time, I remember that
a lot of people did not want to do it.
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create the website.
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people are wanting more humanness
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a little bit of that has increased
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:Anna Walker: Yeah.
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, yeah.
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:Anna Walker: No, please, I, I think what
you're noting there around people desiring
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absolute most valuable asset in your
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to be a human and to not outsource,
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else, but, like, to actually own that
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, absolutely.
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:And, you know, at that time, in
hindsight, I feel like the first
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:Anna Walker: Tell me more
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:Tozia Ware: I would love to.
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:At the time, you know, this journey,
and even to this day, so many
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:therapists, they put this information
on their websites robotically.
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university, and I have this degree,
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:What I've learned, clients
don't care about any of that.
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:They care about the moments,
the moments that they are in.
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:They want to hop on your website
and they want to read the
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:That's what gets them.
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:But I will say that's
how we're trained, right?
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:We're trained to be professionals.
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our, our clientele.
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:You have services, it's killing your
sales because it, it does come off as
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:You telling me your de- your degrees
and your certifications doesn't tell
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:me anything about the work that you're
able to do with me, or can you even
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:That in and of itself has
been a game changer, and that
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:That is one thing out the gate
that you taught us is to name those
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:moments, and I can't tell you how
many times I have therapists hop on my
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:website or clients and they're like,
"The way you worded that, I did not
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:Like, I felt so seen reading
your website because I've been
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:We can't see a client saying,
"Hey, we have six certifications
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:Tozia Ware: And so that, that's
what I mean about the first, you
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therapist in how they were operating.
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in that sense, we're just operating
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reframing a bit of that training when
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it is that you're putting out there.
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:Tozia Ware: Absolutely
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:Anna Walker: Okay, awesome.
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Confident Copy, you launch your website,
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operate in a vacuum, right?
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no one sees it, it doesn't matter.
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, and I'm so glad you
mentioned that because I've, I've talked
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finally after, you know, 10 decades
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like, "Well, I'm not getting anything."
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one knows you exist.
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Copy, and I think that, I don't
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but at the time it was 16 weeks.
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because I was so eager.
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:Anna Walker: You were a speedy student.
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:Tozia Ware: I was like- Yeah … "Let's
get this done, 'cause I need the money."
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it with friends, family, colleagues,
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that I put into it over those 13 weeks.
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:I will say to you, that summer it was a
little slower because that was my first
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two to three therapists for coffee.
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come August I was full.
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right, and it wouldn't have happened
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there to let people know that I exist.
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where the humanness comes in.
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they know you and they feel
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and even seasoned clinicians,
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you build it and they will come.
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groups ab- for, for folks all over the
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in Tennessee, especially in Nashville,
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there's a therapist on every corner.
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:Anna Walker: That is the truth
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:It like, it's over, like, 3,000-plus
therapists in Nashville, and there's
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refer to who they remember and that just
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:Tozia Ware: Sorry.
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:Anna Walker: else away from this
episode, let it be that very thing.
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especially early on like you mentioned,
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having a website you're proud of, knowing
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benefit that we can't measure.
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but when you feel good about what it is
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said, you felt proud sharing this, there's
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:There's kind of the energy of putting
yourself out there confidently y-
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those connections and provide someone
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mission critical, 'cause if you
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going to remain kind of small in your
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opportunity, window of opportunity in
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website, and you made the most of that
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:Tozia Ware: Absolutely.
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little bit more about that
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:Anna Walker: Please do
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:Tozia Ware: Once again, I want
to reiterate for those folks
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did not know what I was doing, and
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did not know what I was doing.
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was up, did not know.
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explaining what I would want to
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passionate about, that got people in,
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understanding more about the copy
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"Oh yeah, this makes sense now.
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so important to have a website.
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to this day that think that
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but are you able to thrive?
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know, these you know, Psychology Today
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like, a, a short little website.
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the essence of you so that
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therapists 2:00 AM at night.
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where they gotta read all your
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the moments that they're in.
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AM, I wanna have that in my copy.
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:Anna Walker: Mm-hmm
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:Tozia Ware: There's a
heaviness in your chest.
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everything and nothing's working."
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know, every time this happens I
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care of us in this program, y'all.
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:Last summer I had a client that
was looking for a therapist for
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bit pricey, but the way that I do
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:Let me tell you that this client mentioned
that they were going between another
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therapist's website was hard to navigate,
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clear, the fees were not visible, it was
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:And my website was clean, easy to
navigate, everything was listed.
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seasoned therapist because of my website.
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and safety starts with our website.
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:In psychedelic therapy, we ha- we
do something called preparation
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:And we are prepping someone for
the experience, you are also doing
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if I jump on a website and it is
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:giving me a hard time, I'm not
gonna lie, that puts me at unease.
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I, it's, it, I don't know if how
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:that experience will be working
with someone that, you know, their
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:And so I just wanted to share that
because the website has worked
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:in so many ways that I could not
even imagine that it would have
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:Anna Walker: Interesting.
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:Wow, you got insight into…
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:I mean, that client sharing that
with you, I think that's happening
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:way more than we realize, 'cause you
don't often hear that from the client.
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:But we know they're looking at five,
seven, nine other therapist websites, and
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:they are making decisions based on it.
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:So what interesting insight into
that actual experience and how yours,
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:because the experience was better
and it was cleaner and whatever
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:that they, they, they chose you.
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:Like you said, credentials
be damned, essentially.
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:So
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:Tozia Ware: yes, exactly
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:Anna Walker: Yeah.
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:Okay y- before we put, hit record,
you mentioned that things are going
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:So tell me, how are things
going in your practice today?
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, things are
going so great in my practice.
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:So whenever I left, you know, the, the
group that I made $6,000 in six months,
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:once I left, I made that $6,000 back
in 30 days, and so that was amazing.
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:And so my first year, so 2024, I brought
in, I believe, 70K in the practice,
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:and last year I made over six figures.
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net, and I did not overwork myself.
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:I worked, like, three to,
three to four days a week.
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:And so I, I will say
that was the catalyst.
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:The website was honestly
the catalyst for my success.
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:I cannot lie.
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:Because someone- and, and things are
going so well because of the website.
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:I get so many referrals
through my website.
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:I have like, the processes
are so streamlined that I had
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:someone ask, because I'm doing
so well now, "How do you sell?
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:How do you sell yourself?
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:How do you get your ideal client?
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:How do you get your premium rate?"
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:And I, and I will say this.
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:My rate at the time when I started
Confident Copy was $145 an hour.
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:This year I am at $200 an hour.
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:Anna Walker: Good for you
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:Tozia Ware: And thank you, thank you.
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:And there was a little bit of old
programming, you know, that, that was
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:left of like, "Oh, will anybody buy this?"
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:My supervisor at the time, she was,
when I, when I said I was gonna raise
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do you mean be patient?
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:Once you raise your rate, that
old programming will come and
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:you want to, you know, fall back
to what's safe and what's small.
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:And if a client hesitates once you say
the rate, will that turn them off?"
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:And she was like, "Be patient.
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:And so starting with my website, the
selling piece, I feel like I never
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:have to sell anybody because all
of the information is on my site.
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:And so whenever they hit that contact
form, it's really having a short
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:And you know, I always say I love
surprises, but not when it comes to money.
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seen, they're like, "Oh yeah, I saw it.
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:I rarely have to sell.
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:I rarely have to have a consult
with someone that cannot pay my full
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:So I'm all private pay.
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that's changed for me is leaning in and
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:standing in that confidence that we,
we are essentially essential workers,
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without being well-resourced.
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:Since then, Anna, I've become like a,
a radical therapist need to get paid.
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:Because even starting out and my website
was done, and even at the 145, I would
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:have colleagues saying, "Oh, well,
you shouldn't increase your rate,"
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:and, oh, my, my even Black and Brown
colleagues, they were like, "Oh, well,
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:you know, Black and Brown folks can't
afford therapy, and you should just,
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:you know, keep your rates the same."
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:There was something in me that I was
like I'm not going to subscribe to
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:that narrative, and I did not, and I'm
happy to report over 90% of my caseload
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:are Black and Brown folks paying full
rate, and they did not bat an eye.
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:It was not an issue
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:Anna Walker: Hmm.
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:Man, there's so much to be said there.
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:We could do an entire podcast episode
or entire podcast on this probably.
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:Tozia Ware: I'm ready to come back, Anna
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:Anna Walker: Yeah, let's do it.
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:We can have round two together.
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:I would love that.
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:But what's interesting is I think
you're speaking to the fact that
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unintentionally assign or project
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:Well, this population can't pay that.
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:And that there are ways that you
can remain accessible to, to the
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also being well, well-resourced, you
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:know, well yourself, meeting your
own goals and that kind of thing.
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:That they are, those two things are
not necessarily mutually exclusive.
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:You can serve a really wonderful
population and make a big impact and
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thing that, that changed for me over
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money wounds that I carried into this
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:You know, in, in many of our programs,
we're kind of taught directly or
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into this work to make money.
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the kindness of your heart.
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wounds of whatever you were fed before
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:the age of 18 of people with money are
greedy, or if you care about money,
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quickly that I cannot effectively
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when I am stressed and burnt out.
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devastating part for me.
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:I just graduated six months ago and
I'm already financially burnt out?
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:Something had to change.
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:And so, I give a lot of
therapists permission to
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:Anna Walker: to profit.
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, and, and, and I
think it, it really did start with
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to show up with the confidence on
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:our website, because if you have
that, the website sells itself.
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:Anna Walker: Yeah.
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:Tozia Ware: and that's what you
taught early on, that like there's
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:If you have the right language in those
moments and they're visceral, oh my
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:goodness, you're gonna get your item
fine at your full rate easy, and that has
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:Anna Walker: That's incredible.
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:The other thing, you mentioned the
word permission, and that was kind
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I think you've also given listeners
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:here permission to not have it all
figured out when they start, right?
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:Like you mentioned, like you kind of
lived into what you wrote on that website.
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:Sometimes I'll hear from
people, like I put…
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:You know, I…
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:If we write the copy for them or they go
through Confident Copy, sometimes they're
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:like, "I read this and I, I don't know if
I'm that good of a therapist," you know?
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:But you can live into that.
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:It doesn't have to be fully formed.
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:What a wonderful thing
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:And also what I tell folks that your
clients don't know, and that's okay too.
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:Anna Walker: Mm-hmm.
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:Tozia Ware: And it's not that you can't
help them, like, and I think that's where
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we have been trained to be with people.
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:We have all the knowledge and
the skills, it's just putting
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:Because what really helped me feel
into what was on my website is whenever
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trainings and chase the next thing,
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:but actually put those things into
practice, and that's when it started to
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:land in my own body and nervous system.
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:But your website is only the door and
you grow, you know, throughout that.
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:But the door needs to look good.
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:The door needs to
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:Anna Walker: It does.
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:It does.
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:Right, we can't get around that
right now, that's for sure.
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:Well, Tozia, this has been incredible.
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:Maybe we will bring
you back for round two.
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:You and I can chat about that.
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:But as we wrap up, I want you to
imagine that version of yourself, right?
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:So early 2024, you got your 1099, you
only made 6K in the last six months.
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:What would you say to that
version of yourself now?
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah.
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:I would say that First,
be patient with yourself.
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:You are good enough, and things
are going to unfold better than
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:you could ever have planned or
imagined by just trusting the process
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:Anna Walker: Hmm.
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:I think anyone could benefit
from hearing that today, Tozia.
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:Thank you so much for joining
me for this first version.
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:Maybe we'll have you back soon.
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:We appreciate you, and if people
wanna learn more about you, if
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:they're interested in seeing this
website where can they find you?
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, so you
can go to my website at
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. Because like I said, I'm kind of like
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about how therapists deserve to be
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to profit because I just really value
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:this work, and I want to stay in it
as long as I possibly can, but I need
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the overflow of that, not the lack.
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:And so follow me there and I will be
sharing all of these insights and nuggets.
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:And yeah, I'm just happy that I was
able to share what I had to share today.
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:Thank you
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:Anna Walker: Thank you so much.
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:We will link those things in the show
notes for, so folks can follow along.
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:We appreciate you and
we're cheering you on.
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:Tozia Ware: Yeah, thank you
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:Anna Walker: Absolutely.
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:Tozia Ware: Well, isn't
that an inspiring story?
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:I I hope you got something out of Tozia's
journey and what he shared, whether it
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:was just taking the leap out of necessity
into private practice, of owning a
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:niche, of figuring out micro-niches,
of giving yourself permission to,
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:as he said, serve clients out of the
overflow of your cup, not the lack.
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:That really stuck with me.
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:If you're interested in building out
a website like what Tozia has done for
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:himself and what he is using to bring in
those right fit clients right now, The
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:doors to Confident Copy live, our final
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:Tomorrow, we are opening the doors to our
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:weekly live coaching, community feedback,
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:start figuring out what makes you you,
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:marketing, and of bringing it to life
in such a way that it overflows into
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:everything you do to grow your practice.
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:You can get all the details,
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:If this is the right container for
you, I urge you to jump in now.
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:Like I said, it is your last chance
this year, and we would love to make
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:you another story of what it looks like
to step into who you're meant to be as
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:a clinician and bring in those clients
that you are most equipped to help.
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:I'll see you inside