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High-Risk Auto, Underinsured Homes & Legacy: Insurance Wisdom with Jacob Carroll | Whiskey Wisdom Podcast On the Whiskey Wisdom Podcast, co-hosts Tyler and Chris welcome Jacob Carroll, owner and agent of Superior Insurance, while they sip a 115-proof Yellowstone barrel pick and discuss flavor, seasons, and living near the coast. Jacob shares his move from Florida to North Carolina after a seven-day water fast that brought clarity and led to a youth pastor role, then into sales and ultimately insurance, where a mentor encouraged him to start his own agency. He explains helping “harder to insure” drivers (DUIs, points, suspended licenses, credit impacts), rising underwriting scrutiny like unlisted household drivers, and why insurance is required with plates or mortgages. The conversation also covers widespread home underinsurance amid rising values and premiums, replacement cost estimating, ethics, claim realities, and Jacob’s view of success as family legacy, mentorship, and being present for his kids. 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 00:52 Yellowstone Barrel Pick Tasting 02:40 Beach Life and Moving North 06:34 Fasting for Direction 09:11 From Car Sales to Insurance 14:28 Helping High Risk Drivers 20:22 Broker vs Underwriter Explained 23:33 Licensing Rules and New Drivers 26:11 Wilmington Traffic and Driving Culture 30:01 Road Rage Reality Check 31:41 Panic Buying Madness 33:08 Hurricane MRE Memories 35:37 Home Insurance Underinsured 43:16 Claims Limits Ethics 48:00 Advisor Mindset Shift 51:14 Defining Success Legacy 56:41 Mentors Modern Family 58:59 Whiskey Wrap Contact 01:01:27 Advice To Younger Self

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Tyler:

Welcome back to the Whiskey Wisdom Podcast everybody.

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I am your co-host, Tyler, and today I am

with my constant co-host Chris Kellum.

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And our special guest today is

Jacob Carroll and he is the owner

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and agent of Superior Insurance.

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And we're bringing him on today because

he was gracious enough to save us.

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'Cause we did not have someone for

12 o'clock because I am a slacker.

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And something I wanted to bring up to

you too, I thought this was interesting

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is I've seen you pop up on a lot of

different things on my social medias.

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Yeah.

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And I'm just like, you know what?

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I need to reach out to him.

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I need to talk to him.

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And I was like, it's always been

on my radar for like, the past

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few weeks to reach out to you.

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Awesome.

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And I put that out there.

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You were like the first person

to reach back out and I was like.

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This is it.

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This is the time.

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Jacob: The stars of the wine.

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Tyler: Exactly.

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So thank you so much for coming on.

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I greatly appreciate it.

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Jacob: No, thank you guys.

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Excited to be here.

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Tyler: Looking forward

to a fun conversation.

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Yes.

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Before we dive into it, Chris,

what are we sipping on today?

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Chris: So today we're sipping

on a barrel pick of Yellowstone.

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This bad boy is 115 proof.

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Tyler: There we go.

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Chris: and I think technically I

can't, I'm horrible at trying to

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read these bottles 'cause that

would look slightly different.

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But I want to say that it went in in 2017.

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'cause that would make sense.

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'cause that would put it

at like an eight year.

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Tyler: Yeah.

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Chris: If it came out in 2025.

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Yeah.

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But it was put in in November so it was

a little bit colder of a time instead

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of like starting it in those hot months.

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Problem with barrel picks, you

can't really look up those flavor

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notes and stuff like we usually

do, but I'm excited to taste it

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'cause it smells a little spicy.

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And the look on your face as it might be.

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It's,

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Jacob: it's nice.

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Chris: this we mentioned a friend of the

podcast, Matt Ray, who loves some spicy

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stuff and I think he would like this.

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Jacob: He, he would,

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Chris: but yeah.

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Cheers fellas.

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Jacob: Cheers.

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Chris: You go.

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It smells nice though.

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Tyler: Mm-hmm.

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It's hot.

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It's good though.

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Jacob: It's very good.

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Tyler: Is that a great, Hmm.

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Favorite profile, Chuck?

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Jacob: Yeah.

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It, it packs a punch, but

it's not over the top.

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Chris: No.

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Jacob: Very manageable.

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Chris: So, you know, my seasonal

depression's over so we talk but I like to

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get back into my seasonal drinking style.

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This to me is definitely, I

would say it's a February drink.

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Jacob: Yeah.

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Chris: Like the end of spring where

it's a little bit, or the end of winter

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where it's starting to warm up a little

bit, but it's still kind of cold.

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Mm-hmm.

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I think this would be a

good time to drink this.

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'cause it's, it'll warm

you up, but not like,

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Jacob: yeah.

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When we were covered in snow.

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Right.

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I'd, I'd warm up the

room, that's for sure.

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Chris: Oh gosh, for sure.

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Done debating on the seasons.

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I'm assuming you don't like cold weather.

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Jacob: No, no.

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Not at all.

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Chris: Is that why you live here?

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Jacob: Yeah.

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B born in Florida, so

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Chris: Okay.

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Jacob: On the east coast.

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Used, grew up at the beach or

near the beach and so, Wilmington

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was an option and moved here.

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Definitely for the beach.

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Be close.

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There is something beautiful about

the coastal air being near the sea.

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Actually my wife and I are not huge

fans of the beach, but our children

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devour it and love it, so we are,

we have learned to love the sand.

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It's been good.

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Tyler: That is the worst part of it.

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It is.

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It's the sand that just follows you in.

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Chris: Yeah, for sure.

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Three days later.

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Yes.

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Tyler: Right.

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Chris: It's almost like going

to strip club all the glitter.

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I wouldn't know anything about it.

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I just heard stories of it.

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Which is always hilarious

to hear those things.

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So you, you're from Florida?

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Jacob: Yep.

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Chris: I'm assuming you didn't

move up here for the military.

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Jacob: No,

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Chris: I didn't.

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You had to pick it out.

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I didn't, not How'd you, how'd

you get from the Great Sunshine

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State to the halfway state?

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Jacob: That's a, that's

a great, that's a great

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Tyler: question.

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Hey, Chris, can you to Jacob's Micro Yeah.

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If you can.

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A little bit.

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Yep.

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Perfect.

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Jacob: If I twist to me, it should lock,

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Tyler: other way I think, or no?

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Is that Yeah, that's better.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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Jacob: Cool.

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That better

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Tyler: always do.

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Jacob: Sweet.

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Tyler: Let's take it.

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Chris: Sweet.

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We bought the cheapest stand, so they're

like, over time, they want to get

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Jacob: Sure, sure.

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Chris: Looser.

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Tyler: I meant to buy new

ones this weekend, but

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Jacob: Good.

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Chris: Here

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Tyler: we are.

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Yep.

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Good to go.

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Cool.

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Perfect.

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Thank you.

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Jacob: Yeah.

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So, grew up in a coastal town in Florida.

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My dad worked in the same

business that his dad did.

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Tyler: Oh, wow.

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Jacob: I didn't want to be I,

I wanted to blaze my own path.

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Okay.

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And so decided to move

up to North Carolina.

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I worked at a summer camp for a few years.

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I met a fabulous couple who pastors

a church in Wallace about 40 minutes

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up the road from here in Wilmington.

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They reached out to me when I was still at

junior college and said, Hey, we want you

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to come up here and be our youth pastor.

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And I was like, I don't know about that.

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I'm, I'm still trying to figure it out.

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And so, I fasted for

seven days, just water.

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Oh, wow.

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And I was like, if I'm gonna leave

home and do something different,

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I need to, I need to know.

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And a lot of my friends

thought I was nuts.

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They still do.

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But I did.

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I, I fasted for seven days,

just water about day five.

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I sensed it was something was

coming, it was time to go.

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So I packed up my station wagon and my

mother and I drove to up to Wallace.

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And that would've been in.

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2012 probably.

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Oh wow.

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Okay.

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February of 2012 actually.

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And she got a one way ticket back.

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I believe it was Allegiant at the time.

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Oh yeah.

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Flying from Wilmington

to back towards Orlando.

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And so I've been up here, I

worked up there for about three

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years and ended up moving down to

Wilmington and finding a new job.

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And through that job landed in insurance.

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And about five years after working

for myself in sales, I started to

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laugh because that's what my dad does.

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Tyler: Oh yeah.

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Jacob: So I tried to do my thing

and I was brought back into that.

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And so, but yeah, so it's

been really beautiful.

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This is a fabulous town.

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I think it's, you know, it's

growing just uncontrollably, so yes.

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I don't know if I love that part

of it keep, keeps me busy at

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work, but as the traffic gets to

intensify and more people come, we

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can't build any more east Exactly.

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Water.

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And so, Pender County and

Brunswick County are exploding.

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Yeah.

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We're kind of landlocked

here in New Hanover and so

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Chris: yeah.

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Jacob: But really just love it.

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When my wife was a student at UNCW,

we met through mutual friends and

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she decided to keep me around.

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And so we've been, we've been

married 10 years in July.

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Have three kids, six, four, and

two, and just really love this.

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This is, this is our home and so

she has direct family a couple

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hours away and so that's, you

know, a great reason to stay put.

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And just Wilmington has been

just a wonderful place to be.

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Really enjoy it here.

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I like

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Tyler: it.

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That's awesome.

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So, starting back a little bit earlier

in your story and then we'll move.

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Jacob: Sure.

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Tyler: Most recent, you said you

fasted for seven, seven days.

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Jacob: Yeah.

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Tyler: I heard that it

gives a lot of clarity.

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Does fast for like a full seven days.

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Sure.

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I don't think I've ever

gotten to seven before.

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I think I got to like four.

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It was like the max.

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Is that something that you really

noticed too while you were fasting?

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It does bring a whole, yeah.

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New sense of clarity.

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Jacob: It was unbelievable.

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I mean, I, I would say.

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Some people, depending on where you're

at in your faith I would say I heard an

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audible voice of the Lord in that moment.

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Tyler: Yeah.

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Jacob: 36.

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And I've been following

the Lord since I was 13.

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It's only happened once.

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Tyler: Yeah.

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Jacob: It was in that moment.

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The first 48 hours.

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Pretty rough.

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Chris: Mm-hmm.

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Jacob: There was some breakthrough

on day three and I, I, by the time I

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got to day seven, it was just water

and it was, everything was fine.

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But by the fifth day, I heard go.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: So I got in the car, packed

it up, cranked it up, and drove.

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And so it was I kind of kicked

myself 'cause I don't fast enough.

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It's, I I think it's a regular rhythm.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: I, I know the, the word says

not if you fast, it says when you fast.

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And so, you know, it's, it's

been interesting because there

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are types of fast you can do.

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You know, I'm gonna fast social

media, I'm gonna give this up,

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I'm gonna give this up dry.

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January's pretty popular.

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Chris: Mm-hmm.

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Jacob: You know, but I, I would argue that

new Testament biblical fasting is food.

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Yeah.

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And so that brings out on seven days.

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That brings out a lot of weakness in

anyone who would be willing to do that.

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I actually have a friend

who just did 40 days

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Tyler: Oh wow.

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Jacob: Animal.

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And just getting to hear his story.

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I was like, maybe one day, maybe not.

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So

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Tyler: Yeah.

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Jacob: But yeah, just absolute

extreme clarity in that week.

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And I mean, even my friends,

I'd go to lunch with 'em.

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Aren't you gonna get something?

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I just water.

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Yeah.

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Because I was just committed.

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I was like, if I'm gonna uproot and make

this kind of decision, move four states

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away, potentially, hopefully find a wife.

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Tyler: Right.

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Jacob: Get into some business

and have some children.

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I need to know, because I had

a couple options on the table.

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There was a, a potential job in Texas.

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I was like a camp job.

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I was looking at, I love

being a camp counselor.

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I wanted to be a camp director.

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Tyler: Okay.

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Jacob: And so I was kind of

making moves towards that.

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And then the youth pastor

job came up and great time.

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I'm glad to say.

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Yeah, in 2026, I don't do that anymore.

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Tyler: Yeah,

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Jacob: it was a really sweet

season and a really sweet rhythm.

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But teenagers are teenagers,

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Tyler: right.

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Jacob: And I learned a ton of what to do,

and I learned a ton of what not to do.

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And so, really enjoyed that.

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But yeah, glad, glad to get here.

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And this has been home for I mean,

we're going on like 15 years.

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I can't believe it.

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Tyler: Yeah,

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Jacob: she, so it's it's

a beautiful place to be.

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Tyler: Thank you.

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Awesome.

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What got you into insurance and was

that something that your dad did?

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So it was kind of in the past, or

was it, or is it just sales that

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Jacob: year?

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Yeah, sales, sales in general.

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So my, my granddad, I would say let's see.

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They, my dad was born in Ohio and my,

my granddad was in the, I guess you

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would say in the retail side of the car

business and did very well for himself.

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Tyler: Okay.

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Jacob: they got tired of the snow

and they heard about Florida say

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in the, this would be, let's.

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So in the late sixties, early seventies.

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Oh

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Tyler: wow.

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Okay.

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Jacob: Took a trip for a couple

weeks, kind of scouted it out

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and landed in the satellite beach

area, kinda near Cape Canaveral.

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And that's, that's where they grew up.

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And then ended up moving

down to Vera Beach.

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And so, after a few years of that,

my dad, I think a funny story.

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My granddad went outta town for either

a family function or something back to

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Ohio, and he had six cars at home and when

he came back, my dad sold all of them.

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And he was 16 years old.

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He had sold all of them.

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Wow.

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And so they've been selling mostly

wholesale for the most part.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Mm-hmm.

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Jacob: Auctions going all over

the place and they've been doing

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that for, I mean, my whole life.

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And so really fun.

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Get to go to auctions, get to

meet, you know, I will say car

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guys earn their reputation.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: I would like to, to if,

if my dad ever does watch this,

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he is not one of those guys.

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But when you work in certain.

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You can then see why certain things

get reputations the way they are.

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Chris: Yeah, yeah.

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Jacob: And so I didn't wanna, I

was like, ah, sales I don't know.

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And so, I was working, I was in

sales here for the Stevenson group.

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I met a guy, his name's Matthew, and he

said, I want you to come work for me.

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And I said, that's too much of

a pay cut as far as an agent.

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I can't, I can't make the jump.

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And about a, a year and a half later,

I called him after working in the

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retail side of the car business.

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I was like, these hours are killing me.

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Mm-hmm.

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I'm making great money.

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Mm-hmm.

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I got nowhere when I got outta work.

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Everything's closed.

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Right.

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You know, six days a week.

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And so he said, yeah, come on.

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And as we were, I was working for him

for about a year and he called me in

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his office and he had tears in his eyes

and I was like, I've made an e and o.

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Yeah.

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Like, I'm toast, I'm fired.

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And he was like, I had a dream.

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And I was like, alright, what's up?

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He goes Lord told me to

put you into business.

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So whatever you need to do, let's do it.

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And so we pulled some money together.

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I opened or took over

an office in Hampstead.

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Chris: Mm-hmm.

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Jacob: looking back, maybe

should have stayed in Hampstead.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: This was almost, so

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I was in Hampstead for about six months

before I moved to the Ogden area.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: And Hampstead

has exploded since then.

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But glad to be in the

Wilmington, in the Ogden area.

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We do a lot with Car lots and so Market

Street, if you're, if anyone in the

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world is familiar with Wilmington

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Chris: Yep.

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Jacob: It's Car Lot

Central on Market Street.

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So it's been very good

for business to be there.

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And so, yeah, because he called

me in his office and he believed

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in me, saw something in me Yeah.

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Maybe that I didn't even see in myself.

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And so in 2013 we created

the business entity.

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I signed my life away to a contract.

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Yeah.

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And I have been trying to provide great

insurance coverage home and auto mostly.

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Since that date and really just

love being able to help people.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: And so it, it does, I

would say, kind of coincides.

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It can coincide ministry wise

because you just get to, you

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never know who you're gonna meet.

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Tyler: Right.

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Jacob: I've met, I have

customers from landfall.

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I have customers from sixth

Street, I have everywhere.

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And something I got instilled

early on, you treat the janitor

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just like you would treat the CEO.

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Tyler: Absolutely.

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Jacob: Everybody deserves respect.

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And so, it's been, it's been fun.

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You know, I've got customers

with a bunch of cars.

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I've got customers with maybe

one, there's motorcycles, there's

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houses, there's renters insurance.

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Right.

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And then when they come by

with the cool car to show me,

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seen some Maseratis, it's like,

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Chris: whoa.

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Tyler: That's

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Jacob: sweet.

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Offer a ride.

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Absolutely.

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I'm, we're going.

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Tyler: Yep.

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Jacob: Never asked to drive

yet, but I have ridden in a few.

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And so yeah, it's been

it's been really sweet's.

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The people business.

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Tyler: Yeah.

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Yep.

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Jacob: Everything.

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I mean, what you guys do,

it's people buy people

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Tyler: Exactly.

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Jacob: And so they're, they're

buying that relationship.

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They're buying that experience,

they're buying that trust.

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It's 'cause I will say the downside

of the insurance game is there

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is an agency on every corner.

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Chris: Right?

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Yeah.

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Jacob: But that can be a good side too.

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Chris: True.

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Jacob: So, you know, I've had to

meet with customers and say, Hey,

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this is just not a great fit.

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Chris: Mm-hmm.

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Jacob: But the good news is

there are wonderful people.

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I can even, I've even referred

people to other people.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: Hey, this is a friend of mine.

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Go visit this guy.

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They're a much better fit

and everybody's happy.

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Tyler: Yeah.

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Jacob: So that was it's been

just really sweet to do that.

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Tyler: Let's pause real quick,

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Chris: because Thank you.

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I, I saw that.

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I was like,

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Tyler: I think,

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Chris: what's going on?

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Is it too far out?

440

:

Can I bring it a little closer this way?

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:

Yeah.

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:

I'll just reorganize this.

443

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Hopefully that will stay.

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Jacob: Sorry about that.

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No, you're good.

446

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And there's me

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Tyler: there.

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I had to get off it.

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Yeah.

450

:

When I was reading through the

profile that you filled out for us,

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it said that you specialize in getting

people insurance that probably a

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:

little bit harder to get insurance.

453

:

Sure.

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Or maybe not the best insurance rates.

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Can you go a little bit more into to that?

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Yeah, that's something I'm really

interested in just 'cause I'm

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like, how, like I'm blessed that

like I don't have points on my

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like record and stuff like that.

459

:

Sure.

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:

But I've always wondered how do we

insure people like that and like what

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:

kind of struggles do they go through?

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:

Yeah.

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Jacob: Yeah.

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:

I would, it is funny you asked that

because it was this week, so I've been

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doing this I would say going on, what

have we had probably 14 years total.

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And I saw something, I pulled a

motor vehicle report this week.

467

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It was the first time I've

ever seen this charge.

468

:

And I was like, what the heck?

469

:

I'm on the phone with a customer and

it was a 10 point traffic violation.

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:

Tyler: Holy crap.

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Jacob: It said racing.

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And I was like, oh, this is,

this is less than enjoyable.

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And so I said, what happened?

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He said, 133 miles an hour

in a Dodge Challenger.

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And

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Chris: I went, what?

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Jacob: was the cop driving to catch

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Chris: you?

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I know.

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Jacob: Real.

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Right?

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And so, ultimately overall didn't

end up capturing that policy that the

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:

driving record with that situation.

484

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That was about a thousand

dollars a month for that policy.

485

:

Oh, wow.

486

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So he ended up not doing that.

487

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Don't blame him.

488

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That seems to like a lot to me.

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Mm-hmm.

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And so, you know, DUIs,

accidents you know, I'm not pro

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drinking and driving at all.

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As the restrictions have tightened,

it has become very, a lot easier

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to, to then below that limit.

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You're over the legal limit.

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You get a DUI, you know, I

only had two glasses of wine.

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Well, that's all it takes.

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That's the rules.

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Obey the rules.

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You don't get a DUI.

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Chris: Yep.

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Jacob: That's, you know,

that's kinda how that works.

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But accidents and points suspended

or revoke license that happens.

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Yeah.

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If you have a traffic violation

and you go to court, but you don't

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pay the traffic fine, you would

then you don't pay the court cost.

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Right.

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They could drop the ticket, but

if you don't pay the court cost,

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they're gonna suspend your license.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Jacob: And so, you still need insurance.

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You know, it's, it's one of the

joys about doing what we do as far

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as home or auto in North Carolina.

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If you have a license plate on your

vehicle or you have a mortgage on your

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home, you're required by law to carry

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Chris: insurance,

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Jacob: some form of insurance.

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And so, selling things that people have

to have is good, but because they have

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to have it, that means the market is.

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Tyler: Exactly.

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Jacob: Oversaturated.

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:

Yes.

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So that's always fun.

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And how do you do that?

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But yeah, just being a, being a place

where people can land that might get

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treated every, we have a nice niche

in what we do to offer a service to

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folks who maybe have been treated, I

don't wanna say unfairly, but every

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insurance company has a customer

or a client they're looking for.

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Chris: Yeah.

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Right.

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Jacob: And which is fine.

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So that's how you, that's

how you run good business.

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But we've found a business in having

open hands and open arms because certain

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carriers will, even, they, they might not

offer physical damage or full coverage.

534

:

Mm-hmm.

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If you have x amount of points

or if you have these situations,

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and if you're financing a car

and then this happens to you,

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Chris: right.

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Jacob: Your finance company doesn't

necessarily care that this happened.

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They want, they still need covered.

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:

Right.

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You signed a, a legally

binding contract, and so.

542

:

Being able to help other

agencies has been super helpful.

543

:

I have relationships through Farm

Bureau, through State Farm Oh yeah.

544

:

And things like that as far as that goes.

545

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And so just being a, you know, hey a

lot of companies will also credit check

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and so depending on where your score is,

you might have a decent driving record,

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:

but if your score's not high enough,

you're gonna get a different rate.

548

:

And so we do offer some

companies who don't credit

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check but most do now in 2026.

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:

And so, just being able to be there for

people who need it, word of mouth gets

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:

around, Hey, Jacob took great care of me.

552

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Go over there, get referrals are just

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Tyler: right.

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Jacob: You could sell vacuums, jewelry,

insurance, doesn't matter if somebody

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refers that customer to you and

it's a warm lead, it's lights out.

556

:

Yeah.

557

:

Yeah.

558

:

You know, and so, it has been, it's been

a really beautiful journey to spend time

559

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with people as well as sometimes things

happen to people that they didn't expect.

560

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They don't get a fair shake.

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:

Something happens.

562

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I still wanna be able to provide

a service for that, you know?

563

:

And, and we've been able to do that.

564

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We've been able to meet people

where they are, love them in their

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mess, and sometimes they stay in

it, sometimes they get out of it.

566

:

That doesn't, you know, that doesn't

necessarily bother us that much.

567

:

You know, and, and with insurance you

get a, a percentage of the commission.

568

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Chris: Mm-hmm.

569

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Jacob: So, you know, depending

on what line of insurance you

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sell, your commission rate varies.

571

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For us, we have to sell

a lot of it mm-hmm.

572

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To make up for the, the premium,

the percentage premium from

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the auto and the home line.

574

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And that's fine.

575

:

But yeah, just treating people

that walk in, you know, I don't,

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I, I know what you're coming for.

577

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Chris: Right.

578

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Jacob: I know why you're calling

and I hope that your experience

579

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with us would be enjoyable.

580

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'cause especially with SEO and all

the analytics and things, Google

581

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reviews are still important.

582

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And so, I mean, you don't do

it for the Google Review, but

583

:

if it does happen that Exactly.

584

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Hey, I was calling.

585

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People with my office in the Ogden area.

586

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I just looked you up.

587

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No problem.

588

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Send them what they need.

589

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That's awesome.

590

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And then I'm a, I'm a neighborhood name

and face that hopefully that would then

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be able to service the area that we live.

592

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And so it's nice.

593

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We're licensed in all of

North Carolina right now.

594

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And so I have some customers

out in the mountains.

595

:

Okay.

596

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Have some beach homes.

597

:

We have some vacation homes,

Airbnb homes, the secondary

598

:

renter's market as well as auto.

599

:

I have customers in Charlotte

and Raleigh all over.

600

:

Nice.

601

:

So that's been very nice to be able

to kind of assist to whoever needs it.

602

:

Tyler: Yeah.

603

:

So you need to kind of go into

that a little bit too because the

604

:

next guest we have on after you

is a criminal defense attorney.

605

:

Oh, very nice.

606

:

So that'll be a really

interesting Be crossroads there.

607

:

Yeah.

608

:

Jacob: Put those together.

609

:

Tyler: Exactly.

610

:

So are you the actual like broker

or the underwriter, or both?

611

:

Jacob: Yeah, so, so I am I

own the book of business.

612

:

Tyler: Okay.

613

:

Jacob: And I'm a part of, I'm not

a franchise, but I'm under the,

614

:

the banner of superior insurance.

615

:

Tyler: Okay.

616

:

Jacob: And so, with that I have I

would say we have seven different

617

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home c carriers we write with, we have

seven different auto carriers we write

618

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with, and then we have some we do some

commercial as well from my office.

619

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And every agency's kind of set up similar

to, you know, similar with contracts, but

620

:

certain people run after certain things.

621

:

Chris: Right, right.

622

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Jacob: And so, we are the broker

signed up to sell with these companies.

623

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We do underwrite a portion of that

get submitted the company that

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underwrites the rest to make sure

that we are submitting the true

625

:

things that the customer has told us.

626

:

And so that's been on the rise recently.

627

:

The, the mis material misrepresentation.

628

:

Technically every auto insurance

company, I would say all of them.

629

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I, I hope I can speak for all of them.

630

:

They want people 14 and above listed

on the policy, even if they're not

631

:

gonna drive because Interesting.

632

:

There, there have been a ton of

claims of unlisted or unnamed drivers.

633

:

Chris: Mm-hmm.

634

:

And

635

:

Jacob: what would happen was if we

were living together and, you know, you

636

:

are my son and you got a DUI, if I add

you on my policy, it's gonna triple.

637

:

So why would I do that?

638

:

Well, why you should do that

is, Hey, we're out of bread.

639

:

Here's my keys.

640

:

You go to the store, get an

accident, they're not charging the

641

:

proper premium for you to do that.

642

:

Tyler: Oh, I see.

643

:

Jacob: And so trying to fight against

rate evasion, trying to make sure that

644

:

we're playing by the rules that we should.

645

:

Tyler: Yeah.

646

:

Jacob: And so the unlisted drivers is, is

a pretty big deal in the last few years.

647

:

And so there every company we've dealt

with and oh, there's have really been

648

:

tightening that down to say, Hey.

649

:

Who's in the home, how

many drivers we got.

650

:

Chris: Right.

651

:

Jacob: Well even roommates.

652

:

It's weird 'cause a lot of people in this

market and this economy, it's hard to just

653

:

go out and buy a house or live by yourself

right now when rent is economical.

654

:

And so they would, companies

would even want to have your

655

:

roommates listed on your policy.

656

:

You can list as other insurance since

you probably both have auto insurance,

657

:

but there are some hoops to kind of

jump through now in 26 that we didn't

658

:

have to do back when I started.

659

:

Tyler: Interesting.

660

:

Jacob: Yeah.

661

:

Chris: So it makes sense.

662

:

'cause like 14 and a half, I

guess you can start Driver's ed.

663

:

Which still makes me laugh because I got,

I took driver's ed as early as I could

664

:

to right at 14 and a half and I get in

the car and the teacher's like, okay, so

665

:

you know, go ahead, put it in reverse.

666

:

We're going here.

667

:

And I'm like, yeah, I've never been

in this part, in this seat before.

668

:

Yeah.

669

:

Yeah.

670

:

So you're gonna have

to walk me through it.

671

:

And then I looked over to the car

beside me and the, the girl was

672

:

just like, whoop, just whip it out.

673

:

And I'm like, oh.

674

:

So we don't all play by the same rules,

675

:

Jacob: that's for sure.

676

:

Chris: Yeah.

677

:

My mom would've been like, no.

678

:

Even when I had finished driver's ed, she

would, she wouldn't let me drive the car

679

:

through the church parking lot to pick

her up so she didn't have to walk as far.

680

:

Jacob: Yeah.

681

:

Chris: She's like, no.

682

:

So it's interesting.

683

:

It makes sense that they, why they

have to get as low as like 14.

684

:

Jacob: Yeah.

685

:

Yeah.

686

:

And in North Carolina, they

cannot charge you for inexperience

687

:

until you're licensed.

688

:

And so, if you're a permanent

driver, sometimes parents can be

689

:

kind of, you know, I don't know.

690

:

But if you add your permitted

driver, your rates won't go up.

691

:

It's when they get licensed.

692

:

So in North Carolina you have to have a DL

1, 2, 3 to take it to the DMV to pass it.

693

:

Or you take the, the, the

written and the driven test.

694

:

Mm-hmm.

695

:

You have a form called a DL 1

2 3 DL for driver's license.

696

:

Mm-hmm.

697

:

And you hand that to them showing

that you do have insurance.

698

:

They then give you your driver's

license if you pass the test.

699

:

And then that's when things can become,

and I think it's been inter, some

700

:

of the most interesting things are

that I've tried to talk to parents

701

:

with this generation, my kid's not

ready and my kid doesn't want to.

702

:

I've told them these stories that

we've had customers come from, say

703

:

bigger cities like Chicago or New York.

704

:

Yeah.

705

:

Never been licensed before.

706

:

'cause they haven't had to.

707

:

Chris: Oh yeah.

708

:

Jacob: But if they're 50 years old

and never been licensed, they pay the

709

:

same rate that a 16-year-old driver

that's never been licensed does

710

:

Chris: wild.

711

:

Jacob: Because in North Carolina,

because they've never been

712

:

licensed, they have no experience.

713

:

Chris: Okay.

714

:

Jacob: That does

715

:

Chris: make sense.

716

:

Jacob: Interesting.

717

:

Well, you've taken the bus, you've

taken the train, the subway,

718

:

however you've gotten around.

719

:

Tyler: Yeah.

720

:

Jacob: Well now that you live somewhere

in the Wilmington area or, you know, we

721

:

don't really offer that like the bigger

cities do, and so you have to get a

722

:

license and they're like, well I'm 50.

723

:

Sorry.

724

:

I understand.

725

:

And

726

:

Tyler: you still haven't

727

:

Jacob: driven

728

:

Tyler: cars.

729

:

Jacob: That's right.

730

:

That's right.

731

:

And so that can be a interesting

pill to swallow for certain folks.

732

:

Yeah.

733

:

Tyler: Wow.

734

:

That's interesting.

735

:

Chris: That is, well,

that does make sense.

736

:

Yeah.

737

:

Like our, we had a coworker who was

from New York and lived there for like

738

:

almost 20 years and then moved down here

and there's no public transportation.

739

:

And watching,

740

:

Tyler: well, you can, it'll just

take five hours to get across town.

741

:

Yeah.

742

:

Chris: I mean, when you, when you live

in like Offwhite Road and then you're

743

:

coming to Mayfair, it's a 10 minute

drive, but if you need to catch a bus,

744

:

you gotta leave an hour early Sure.

745

:

To get hit the right buses.

746

:

But just watching her drive was hilarious.

747

:

The first couple, like months because

she's like, I haven't driven in

748

:

like, an extended amount of time.

749

:

Yeah.

750

:

And I just, I was like, oh.

751

:

So, but you saying that they have diff

like your insurance is rated on the fact

752

:

that you haven't really had a license.

753

:

Correct.

754

:

And I was like,

755

:

Tyler: eh.

756

:

It is a good point though.

757

:

'cause like even if I don't drive for a

week, like if I go on vacation somewhere

758

:

and I don't drive for a week, it is kind

of weird getting back behind a wheel's.

759

:

Like I can't imagine being this

age and have never driven before.

760

:

Jacob: Yeah.

761

:

Tyler: Ain't getting behind

like the wheel of a vehicle.

762

:

Jacob: Oh yeah.

763

:

That was especially here,

764

:

Tyler: right?

765

:

You got that right.

766

:

Jacob: It's unbelievable.

767

:

The, the, I mean, college road.

768

:

I mean my, we, I joke with my friends.

769

:

I have a ton of friends who live in

Pine Valley and 2 8 4 0 9 2 8 4 1 2.

770

:

And I'm like, I'll I'll see you one day.

771

:

I just don't know when.

772

:

Right.

773

:

Yeah.

774

:

But that, that college road in

Olender light is unbelievable.

775

:

So

776

:

Tyler: Yeah.

777

:

Jacob: Now we live in Ogden, so

we kind of stay on this side.

778

:

Chris: Yeah,

779

:

Tyler: yeah.

780

:

Jacob: But you know, it's

like, hey, you wanna come?

781

:

Like, can we meet at the mall?

782

:

Can we meet somewhere?

783

:

This side der because.

784

:

In the morning and in the

afternoon or in the evening.

785

:

Tyler: Mm-hmm.

786

:

Jacob: The rush hour times that

you've gotta sit through that

787

:

three or four times a month.

788

:

Tyler: Exactly.

789

:

Jacob: It's only gonna get worse.

790

:

Tyler: I used to live in Monkey

Junction and that was the main

791

:

reason why I moved to Leland.

792

:

Jacob: Yeah.

793

:

Tyler: I was like, if I'm especially gonna

take me 30 minutes to get to Mayfair.

794

:

Jacob: Yeah.

795

:

Tyler: I'd rather take MLK and or

the bypass to get to get here as

796

:

opposed to just hitting every single

red light behind every single bus.

797

:

Jacob: It's tough.

798

:

Chris: We were talking, we had Kelly

Roberts on, he was talking about

799

:

like, they had a, some cities have

that tech that can actually like,

800

:

yes, I hate ai, but they can still

read this traffic situation and like

801

:

change the timeframe for the light.

802

:

Wow.

803

:

So it'll, you're not every morning at

5:00 AM sitting at a light waiting,

804

:

you know, three minutes because

it's always a three minute light.

805

:

It's like, oh, there's no one here.

806

:

Let's flip it up.

807

:

Okay.

808

:

We'll do an adjustment here and here.

809

:

I was like, that would be amazing.

810

:

In.

811

:

Especially on those big lights

where it's like, okay, cool.

812

:

You do it here and then the like

three, four lights away from it.

813

:

So you're not all congestion, but you're

not sitting, waiting, sitting, waiting.

814

:

Right.

815

:

And it doesn't help that Wilmington is

a tourist trap and a college town and

816

:

a destination for everyone who retires

and doesn't wanna get to Florida.

817

:

Mm-hmm.

818

:

So everyone I know is like,

God, the traffic here sucks.

819

:

I'm like, no, no, y'all suck

because you learned how to drive

820

:

in a completely different state.

821

:

Different

822

:

Jacob: Sure.

823

:

Chris: And then moved here and you're

like, you guys drive different.

824

:

I'm like, well, yeah.

825

:

You have people from Ohio, Philly,

New York, Jersey, Wilmington, like

826

:

everyone drives different and we're

in the south, we want to be chill.

827

:

Should people be on their

phones at a stoplight?

828

:

No.

829

:

But I should also not be mad

that grandpa is driving on a

830

:

Sunday afternoon going 35 just.

831

:

Cruising and we're Hong

832

:

Jacob: Kong, well we have

our traffic issues here, but

833

:

just go to Charlotte or go to

834

:

Tyler: true that

835

:

Jacob: and you come, go to Atlanta and

you come back and you're like, Hmm,

836

:

Tyler: it's not

837

:

Jacob: that bad.

838

:

Not that bad.

839

:

No, I thought it was, it's not.

840

:

So, you know, 'cause I will, after I

made a few jokes about Pine Valley,

841

:

I'm like, it really is only 25 minutes.

842

:

So that's, I mean, some people

are doing an hour to work in the

843

:

Raleigh, the greater Raleigh area.

844

:

Chris: Yeah.

845

:

Yeah.

846

:

Jacob: Twice a day, every day.

847

:

And so I'm like, okay, yes, it has

gotten, and you any topic you wanna

848

:

talk about, you go to some social

media comments and it is just poison.

849

:

Chris: Yes.

850

:

Jacob: Gasoline and matches.

851

:

And it's like, we love to

just vomit everything we know.

852

:

I always say the greatest thing about

social media is everybody has a voice.

853

:

The worst thing about social media

is everybody has a voice, right?

854

:

Chris: Yes.

855

:

Jacob: And so, yes.

856

:

Are there issues in Wilmington?

857

:

Yes.

858

:

Do they need to be addressed?

859

:

Yes.

860

:

But.

861

:

Zoom out some.

862

:

Mm-hmm.

863

:

Let's go 30,000.

864

:

Chris: Mm-hmm.

865

:

Jacob: The traffic here,

it can be congested.

866

:

It's not Raleigh, it's not

Charlotte, it's not Atlanta.

867

:

We'll take it.

868

:

Chris: Yeah,

869

:

Jacob: exactly.

870

:

Chris: Oh, we'll gladly take it.

871

:

I saw something this is a while

ago about like, what is the point?

872

:

Getting mad and yelling at

the car in front of you.

873

:

'cause one, they're not gonna hear you.

874

:

And like, you can't affect

them even if you're yelling.

875

:

So like, just take a second breathe.

876

:

Which stems off my friend who's

from Baltimore, who told me, she's

877

:

like, you don't honk the horn unless

you're willing to get out the car.

878

:

And

879

:

Jacob: I need, I needed to

hear that, so thank you.

880

:

So

881

:

Chris: like, in the back

of my head, I always pause.

882

:

I'm like, do I want, Nope, I'm

not, I, I won't get out the car.

883

:

Sure.

884

:

I've only honked the horn maybe

five times in the last like 10

885

:

years because of that thought.

886

:

It's like, okay.

887

:

You know?

888

:

Yes.

889

:

They're going slow.

890

:

They're stopped at a stoplight.

891

:

I had, I had one lady honking at me

trying to get through, like school traffic

892

:

through a back neighborhood, and she was

honking and I, I sat there and it was on

893

:

and off for like a solid five, 10 minutes.

894

:

And I got out the car and she stopped.

895

:

She's like, what are you doing?

896

:

I'm like, you're honking at me.

897

:

Tyler: Sure.

898

:

I thought you wanted to talk.

899

:

Chris: Isn't that the point of this?

900

:

And she, and she got real quiet

and like turned around and went

901

:

a different direction for sure.

902

:

I'm like, I'm not, yes,

I'm a big black man.

903

:

I'm not gonna beat you up.

904

:

Like, I know where I'm gonna end up

if I start swinging, but I want to.

905

:

I'm like, why are we honking?

906

:

We're in a school district.

907

:

You gotta understand it'll be, and

it, then it also, like I said, it

908

:

makes you think about those things.

909

:

Jacob: Yeah.

910

:

Chris: And then it all helps explain why

insurance rates are so stupid sometimes.

911

:

Jacob: Yeah.

912

:

It's, it's like that meme you see of like

when the, a picture of the belt loop on

913

:

your pants gets stuck on the kitchen.

914

:

Yes.

915

:

But it only happens at the

worst possible moments mm-hmm.

916

:

Of your life.

917

:

Yeah,

918

:

Chris: exactly.

919

:

Jacob: If we left 15

to 20 minutes earlier,

920

:

Chris: yeah, you'd be fine.

921

:

Jacob: And it, it's taken me

25 years to figure this out.

922

:

Those red lights are

still the same red lights.

923

:

I'm just less mad because I left

a little bit sooner because I'm

924

:

like, every time I leave I hit every

red light and it's like, no, I'm

925

:

actually noticing because I'm behind.

926

:

I should, uh uh, and then it's

some personal accountability and

927

:

responsibility would go a long way.

928

:

Yes.

929

:

In that, and probably many areas as

well, but everybody, I think it's

930

:

pretty interesting as we are working

h, you know, the finally into:

931

:

everybody seems to be in each other's way.

932

:

Yeah.

933

:

Whether it's Costco or Market Street, or.

934

:

You're in my way.

935

:

I need this now.

936

:

The snow storm's coming.

937

:

The hurricane's coming.

938

:

You, you don't drink, you know,

you don't drink 48 bottles of

939

:

water all year, but because the

hurricane's coming, I need six cases.

940

:

Chris: Yes.

941

:

Jacob: Right.

942

:

And I'm like, I just

don't understand that.

943

:

And so that, you know, fud it sells

944

:

Chris: Yeah.

945

:

Jacob: All day long to everybody.

946

:

And so it's like, how can we, you

know, treat other people neighborly.

947

:

That'd be a great start.

948

:

Chris: Right.

949

:

Jacob: And go from there and, yeah.

950

:

'cause I think if we just took

enough there would then be enough.

951

:

But I, I, I'm a half full

guy, so I could be wrong.

952

:

I'd be happy to prove differently,

but if we did, if we didn't buy six

953

:

loaves of bread and four gallons

of milk for the snowstorm that's

954

:

coming, we'd be, we'd still be

okay to make it to the other side.

955

:

Chris: Right.

956

:

Tyler: Exactly.

957

:

Chris: Has anyone figured

out what that makes?

958

:

That's what I'm so to, I'm gonna need

someone at some point to come on.

959

:

Ooh.

960

:

I should ask Gabby.

961

:

Tyler: She would be the one

962

:

Chris: we're gonna,

963

:

Jacob: I'm the wrong guy.

964

:

I'm from Florida, so snow.

965

:

I'm just,

966

:

Chris: but a hurricane.

967

:

What did you scoop up?

968

:

Jacob: Not it's, it's a North

Carolina thing for bread and milk.

969

:

I don't understand.

970

:

Chris: Okay.

971

:

Jacob: We never bread

and milked it down there.

972

:

And I'm like, what?

973

:

Tyler: You guys are smarter down there.

974

:

Jacob: Yeah.

975

:

You

976

:

Tyler: actually picked up this

977

:

Jacob: crappy needed.

978

:

Yeah, it was 2004.

979

:

We had three hurricanes come in, like

a very short span, a couple weeks span.

980

:

And I remember the National Guard

came set up at the mall and they were

981

:

handed out boxes of MREs to everybody.

982

:

'cause the power was out for so long.

983

:

Chris: Wow.

984

:

Jacob: So we thought we were so cool,

985

:

Chris: the Mrs.

986

:

Mrs.

987

:

Like the soldiers.

988

:

Jacob: And then I was

like, this is terrible.

989

:

Chris: So

990

:

Jacob: bad.

991

:

Glad we did.

992

:

But it's like, whew.

993

:

I don't think I'd wanna sign

up for res again anytime soon.

994

:

Chris: No, I've eaten enough.

995

:

Enough enough, that's right.

996

:

Of those things.

997

:

And there I would love to know.

998

:

Who designed these?

999

:

Oh, because like, yes, it's,

oh, this is a great, this is

:

00:33:49,164 --> 00:33:51,684

supposed to taste like this.

:

00:33:52,274 --> 00:33:57,464

And I will say there's always one flavor,

or like one MRE that everyone hates.

:

00:33:57,764 --> 00:34:00,704

Like when I was going through

it was there was like an omelet.

:

00:34:01,034 --> 00:34:01,064

Jacob: Oh.

:

00:34:01,514 --> 00:34:03,104

Chris: So it was powdered eggs.

:

00:34:03,194 --> 00:34:03,944

Tyler: Oh, that sounds

:

00:34:03,949 --> 00:34:04,469

Chris: disgusting.

:

00:34:04,469 --> 00:34:05,414

And let, oh, it was so bad.

:

00:34:05,804 --> 00:34:10,333

And at the end of basic training, our

drill sergeants like had us in a room.

:

00:34:10,333 --> 00:34:12,344

We were like doing maintenance.

:

00:34:12,554 --> 00:34:15,734

And I looked and I'm like, why

is this, what is this palette?

:

00:34:16,154 --> 00:34:21,704

And they're like, these are all of the

omelet res that y'all didn't eat all year.

:

00:34:22,634 --> 00:34:24,344

And just put 'em back in the boxes.

:

00:34:24,344 --> 00:34:25,694

And we just stacked them up.

:

00:34:25,694 --> 00:34:29,324

And I mean, like, it was almost,

it was a good five feet tall Yeah.

:

00:34:29,353 --> 00:34:33,495

Of just like, just the size of

this table just just stacked.

:

00:34:33,524 --> 00:34:36,734

And I'm like, I really hope

they don't make anyone eat

:

00:34:36,734 --> 00:34:39,373

those, because it was the worst.

:

00:34:39,764 --> 00:34:44,489

And I guess the new age kids don't have

to eat or deal with that horribleness.

:

00:34:44,518 --> 00:34:44,819

Yeah.

:

00:34:44,879 --> 00:34:47,599

Tyler: Did you get Texas Pea or

what was that, what they used then?

:

00:34:47,599 --> 00:34:48,649

Or was it Tabasco?

:

00:34:48,819 --> 00:34:49,449

Chris: Tabasco.

:

00:34:49,839 --> 00:34:50,319

Tyler: Tabasco.

:

00:34:50,438 --> 00:34:51,309

Chris: but they were like,

:

00:34:51,668 --> 00:34:51,859

Tyler: yeah, the,

:

00:34:52,119 --> 00:34:53,949

Chris: the bottle was super, super small.

:

00:34:53,949 --> 00:34:54,339

You're like, yeah.

:

00:34:55,244 --> 00:34:55,534

Like

:

00:34:56,074 --> 00:34:57,759

Tyler: was it you or was it

someone else told me that was

:

00:34:57,759 --> 00:35:01,389

like currency because like most of

those res were hard to get down.

:

00:35:01,389 --> 00:35:03,009

So people were trading Tabasco sauces.

:

00:35:03,219 --> 00:35:05,079

Chris: I did not say that,

but yes, that is correct.

:

00:35:06,609 --> 00:35:07,509

I'm like, I would keep

:

00:35:07,509 --> 00:35:09,249

' Tyler: em, I knew who

I was talking to about

:

00:35:09,249 --> 00:35:09,259

Chris: it.

:

00:35:09,259 --> 00:35:09,364

It

:

00:35:09,364 --> 00:35:11,939

Tyler: was, it was like

cigarettes and Tabasco sauces.

:

00:35:11,939 --> 00:35:12,269

Oh.

:

00:35:12,269 --> 00:35:12,279

Oh.

:

00:35:12,279 --> 00:35:12,989

I, it was Adam.

:

00:35:12,989 --> 00:35:13,739

I remember who it was.

:

00:35:13,769 --> 00:35:14,099

Chris: Yes.

:

00:35:14,279 --> 00:35:17,189

Tyler: He was like cigarettes and Tabasco

sauce, which is like the highest form

:

00:35:17,189 --> 00:35:19,559

of currency over in the Middle East.

:

00:35:19,589 --> 00:35:19,979

Chris: Yes.

:

00:35:20,669 --> 00:35:23,249

And then someone like, they give

you these little packets that

:

00:35:23,249 --> 00:35:25,199

are supposed to be like napkins.

:

00:35:25,409 --> 00:35:27,179

And I'm like, no one

use those for napkins.

:

00:35:27,179 --> 00:35:28,679

Those are like your last resort.

:

00:35:28,679 --> 00:35:31,739

I had to go to the bathroom,

like pull 'em outta your pocket.

:

00:35:31,829 --> 00:35:32,009

Yeah.

:

00:35:32,429 --> 00:35:34,289

Oh, the silliness that we went through.

:

00:35:34,559 --> 00:35:35,339

Tyler: That's hilarious.

:

00:35:35,459 --> 00:35:36,989

Chris: Hopefully you guys

all have to deal with that

:

00:35:38,099 --> 00:35:41,909

Tyler: to switch a little bit from what

we were talking about in car insurance.

:

00:35:41,999 --> 00:35:42,179

Sure.

:

00:35:42,179 --> 00:35:45,689

But to go to home insurance that hopefully

sell you a couple more policies here.

:

00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:45,839

Yeah.

:

00:35:46,079 --> 00:35:48,419

So I'm licensed to sell

home and auto Nice.

:

00:35:48,419 --> 00:35:51,269

I don't, because I'm

not, I I don't like it.

:

00:35:51,274 --> 00:35:51,704

I appreciate that.

:

00:35:51,709 --> 00:35:54,419

I'm not a, not an expert at it,

so I'd rather send it to you.

:

00:35:54,629 --> 00:35:54,779

Yeah.

:

00:35:54,879 --> 00:35:59,229

But with that being said, I

do whom insurance like audits

:

00:35:59,229 --> 00:36:00,069

to see where people are.

:

00:36:00,309 --> 00:36:04,239

The number one thing I see,

especially after like 20, 22 people

:

00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,799

are way underinsured right now.

:

00:36:05,829 --> 00:36:05,979

Jacob: Yes.

:

00:36:06,639 --> 00:36:09,099

Tyler: So I wanted to give you,

yeah, I wanted to give you some

:

00:36:09,099 --> 00:36:10,419

time to kind of talk about that too.

:

00:36:10,419 --> 00:36:15,699

'cause I'll see a house that was

purchased for 500,000, now it's 650,000.

:

00:36:15,699 --> 00:36:18,399

They still have an insurance

policy for $500,000.

:

00:36:18,399 --> 00:36:18,489

Right.

:

00:36:18,909 --> 00:36:22,119

Do you wanna explain to the lessers

why that's a very bad thing?

:

00:36:22,539 --> 00:36:23,349

Jacob: Yeah, it can be.

:

00:36:23,349 --> 00:36:27,489

I, I think, you know, I mean this is,

this swings above my weight class, but

:

00:36:27,489 --> 00:36:28,789

I'll, I'll try to sit in on what I.

:

00:36:29,289 --> 00:36:34,099

What I think is going on as, as

the, the market was extremely

:

00:36:34,099 --> 00:36:35,689

hot over the last few years.

:

00:36:35,869 --> 00:36:36,109

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:36:36,349 --> 00:36:38,599

Jacob: These homes were

selling for over asking.

:

00:36:38,749 --> 00:36:38,869

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:36:39,559 --> 00:36:42,919

Jacob: And then so you're, you're

dealing with that, you're also dealing

:

00:36:42,919 --> 00:36:46,579

with folks who only have so much

money to try to purchase a home.

:

00:36:46,729 --> 00:36:46,879

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:36:47,119 --> 00:36:50,449

Jacob: And so there's been some

roundabouts with lenders and I need

:

00:36:50,449 --> 00:36:54,559

it to be here for the debt to income

to match and for this to work.

:

00:36:54,559 --> 00:36:58,549

And so it's you know, it's, it's

very interesting kind of a cat and

:

00:36:58,549 --> 00:37:04,879

mouse little game going on to try to

make sure that, you know, and then

:

00:37:04,879 --> 00:37:07,339

on top of that, premiums are rising.

:

00:37:07,549 --> 00:37:11,989

I mean, we, our personal home, we

just got our renewal this year.

:

00:37:12,139 --> 00:37:15,139

It didn't move this year,

but last year went up 38%.

:

00:37:15,259 --> 00:37:15,589

Tyler: Yep.

:

00:37:15,889 --> 00:37:18,199

Jacob: And so a lot of

folks have felt that.

:

00:37:18,319 --> 00:37:21,289

A lot of my customers, a lot of people

that I don't even have their insurance.

:

00:37:21,289 --> 00:37:24,169

They know I'm in insurance, so they

tell me, I'm like, yeah, it's about 30%.

:

00:37:24,169 --> 00:37:24,439

Yeah.

:

00:37:24,439 --> 00:37:25,399

It was about 30%.

:

00:37:25,404 --> 00:37:25,564

Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:25,644 --> 00:37:25,654

Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:25,909 --> 00:37:26,809

And so that's.

:

00:37:27,229 --> 00:37:30,499

I mean, at the end of the day,

the insurance companies are

:

00:37:30,499 --> 00:37:31,669

in the business to make money.

:

00:37:32,359 --> 00:37:32,539

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:32,869 --> 00:37:36,709

Jacob: And they are selling

contracts to help rebuild your life

:

00:37:36,739 --> 00:37:38,329

or to at least get you back there.

:

00:37:38,329 --> 00:37:38,419

Right.

:

00:37:38,839 --> 00:37:39,439

It is.

:

00:37:39,529 --> 00:37:45,769

I think what happens in the, the

purchasing a home, so many things happen.

:

00:37:45,769 --> 00:37:49,099

I remember when we bought our house,

we we're at the closing office

:

00:37:49,129 --> 00:37:50,359

and they pulled this binder out.

:

00:37:51,079 --> 00:37:52,369

I mean, had to be an eight inch binder.

:

00:37:52,369 --> 00:37:53,804

I'm like, I didn't even

know they made 'em that.

:

00:37:54,044 --> 00:37:55,004

I was gonna say Exactly.

:

00:37:55,634 --> 00:37:56,404

Flip, flip.

:

00:37:56,664 --> 00:37:58,429

And they get to that last one.

:

00:37:58,489 --> 00:38:00,559

It was like the amateurization schedule.

:

00:38:00,679 --> 00:38:00,709

Oh

:

00:38:00,709 --> 00:38:01,039

Chris: yeah.

:

00:38:01,159 --> 00:38:03,949

Jacob: And they're like, oh, at, 'cause

we did a 30 year note and they were like,

:

00:38:03,949 --> 00:38:07,039

at this year, it was 30 years when we

bought it, I was like, I've never even

:

00:38:07,039 --> 00:38:09,709

thought that far into the future before.

:

00:38:10,219 --> 00:38:11,599

And that's when it'll be paid off.

:

00:38:11,599 --> 00:38:14,089

And so there's so many things going on.

:

00:38:14,209 --> 00:38:16,549

You want your home inspection

done, you want all these things.

:

00:38:16,909 --> 00:38:20,299

I don't necessarily think

insurance is on the forefront.

:

00:38:20,959 --> 00:38:24,499

It's what I've noticed with insurance,

whether it's home, auto, renters,

:

00:38:24,499 --> 00:38:27,199

whatever it might be, could even be life

insurance could fall in this category.

:

00:38:27,204 --> 00:38:27,494

Mm-hmm.

:

00:38:29,119 --> 00:38:36,979

The, I'm trying to be kind and not paint

too broadly, but we tend to complain about

:

00:38:36,979 --> 00:38:43,189

the price of a, of say, insurance as a

product and maybe want to thin it out

:

00:38:43,279 --> 00:38:49,579

or bring it down or what can barely get

me by until something happens and then

:

00:38:49,579 --> 00:38:51,199

we're mad that we didn't have enough.

:

00:38:51,199 --> 00:38:54,619

And when that something happens, if

that's a car accident, a home loss,

:

00:38:54,619 --> 00:38:59,539

a death, whatever that may be, it's

too late to make any of those changes.

:

00:38:59,569 --> 00:39:06,109

And so you're trying to sell value of,

Hey, if this happens, we want to get

:

00:39:06,109 --> 00:39:11,899

you back to a place where you won't be

you know, negatively affected by that.

:

00:39:11,929 --> 00:39:12,019

Right.

:

00:39:12,019 --> 00:39:17,869

And so, but if that means your premium

goes up by $800 a year, clients are

:

00:39:17,869 --> 00:39:19,639

more than likely willing to risk it.

:

00:39:19,999 --> 00:39:20,329

Tyler: Right.

:

00:39:20,329 --> 00:39:23,749

Jacob: Because things are, I

think everything is up right now.

:

00:39:23,779 --> 00:39:24,019

Yeah.

:

00:39:24,079 --> 00:39:27,559

And so you, you, there's

multiple factors to that.

:

00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:27,649

Mm-hmm.

:

00:39:27,919 --> 00:39:30,619

And you're like, Hey, I think

we should, let's do a review.

:

00:39:31,159 --> 00:39:33,739

Because there, I will say with the

companies that we write with, there's

:

00:39:33,739 --> 00:39:38,359

a three to 5% inflation guard that

will follow each year at the renewal.

:

00:39:38,449 --> 00:39:38,809

Tyler: Oh, okay.

:

00:39:38,809 --> 00:39:41,569

Jacob: The policy, the coverage

a will go up three to three,

:

00:39:41,599 --> 00:39:44,599

four, sometimes 5% automatically.

:

00:39:44,809 --> 00:39:45,109

Tyler: Right.

:

00:39:45,109 --> 00:39:47,089

Jacob: And so there's gonna

be that increase there.

:

00:39:47,179 --> 00:39:49,759

Will that catch up with these

markets that are just crazy?

:

00:39:49,789 --> 00:39:50,599

No, they won't.

:

00:39:50,929 --> 00:39:54,259

And so with the underinsured,

you want to have those reviews.

:

00:39:54,259 --> 00:39:56,089

Hey, this is what I think we need to do.

:

00:39:56,389 --> 00:39:59,899

One, one thing that is an asset

to the insurance companies that

:

00:39:59,899 --> 00:40:04,039

we write with that can get in

the way of mortgage brokers.

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00:40:04,039 --> 00:40:05,659

And I know a lot of them

and love them dearly.

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00:40:05,779 --> 00:40:05,869

Mm-hmm.

:

00:40:06,109 --> 00:40:09,259

But we do have a replacement

cost estimator software.

:

00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:10,969

You put in all the details.

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00:40:11,269 --> 00:40:11,509

Chris: Yeah.

:

00:40:11,569 --> 00:40:15,289

Jacob: The address, the property, how it's

built, what it's made out of, what year.

:

00:40:15,729 --> 00:40:19,479

And then you run it through that,

it's like a nationwide database.

:

00:40:19,479 --> 00:40:19,539

Yeah.

:

00:40:19,569 --> 00:40:22,659

And it'll, it'll give you a hard

number that, hey, this is where we

:

00:40:22,659 --> 00:40:26,649

feel comfortable to what you need

to be at for replacement cost.

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00:40:27,099 --> 00:40:31,569

And the rub comes in when the replacement

cost is a little bit higher than

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00:40:32,019 --> 00:40:33,789

the broker wants to see on the deal.

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00:40:34,149 --> 00:40:36,699

And so that's where your

hands are kind of tied of.

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00:40:37,059 --> 00:40:38,139

That's when ethics come in.

:

00:40:38,379 --> 00:40:38,619

Yeah.

:

00:40:38,619 --> 00:40:40,659

Well, we could write it for a

bit less, but do we want to?

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00:40:40,659 --> 00:40:41,169

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:40:41,184 --> 00:40:44,439

Jacob: And that's, you know, are you in

it for volume and to sell policies or

:

00:40:44,439 --> 00:40:46,029

do you want to care for your customers?

:

00:40:46,419 --> 00:40:47,559

That's a battle every day.

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00:40:47,559 --> 00:40:48,819

I think everybody faces.

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00:40:48,879 --> 00:40:48,999

Chris: Yeah.

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00:40:49,004 --> 00:40:49,014

Jacob: Yeah.

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00:40:49,059 --> 00:40:53,429

So, some probably more than others,

some might say they don't, but, you

:

00:40:53,429 --> 00:40:57,269

know, that's, that's the beautiful thing

about our continuing ed every two years.

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00:40:57,359 --> 00:40:57,599

Chris: Yep.

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00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:01,439

Jacob: They make you take ethics and

it's just a, it's a great reminder,

:

00:41:01,529 --> 00:41:03,989

a read through that ethics course

going, I can't believe people do

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00:41:03,989 --> 00:41:07,619

this, but it reminds me that there

are people out there willing to Right.

:

00:41:07,619 --> 00:41:09,599

Cheat and shortcut to earn business.

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00:41:10,079 --> 00:41:11,809

And that's just that's not the way.

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00:41:11,809 --> 00:41:15,319

So I think, you know, those

annual reviews are, are important.

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00:41:15,649 --> 00:41:18,859

The other thing is if it's involved

in your mortgage, you just pay it

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00:41:19,279 --> 00:41:20,959

right as you pay your mortgage.

:

00:41:21,349 --> 00:41:24,319

If you escrow your taxes, your

mortgage bill and your insurance,

:

00:41:24,649 --> 00:41:25,549

it just gets paid every year.

:

00:41:25,939 --> 00:41:26,089

Yeah.

:

00:41:26,089 --> 00:41:26,959

That went up a little bit.

:

00:41:26,959 --> 00:41:27,769

We'll just keep paying it.

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00:41:27,769 --> 00:41:30,589

Renewal gets billed to

Wells Fargo Mortgage.

:

00:41:30,664 --> 00:41:30,954

Yeah.

:

00:41:31,174 --> 00:41:31,969

And you just pay it.

:

00:41:31,969 --> 00:41:34,039

And it's been seven years since

you've looked at anything.

:

00:41:34,459 --> 00:41:35,719

Values have skyrocketed.

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00:41:35,929 --> 00:41:36,949

Life's busy.

:

00:41:36,949 --> 00:41:39,469

You've got a ball game over

here, wife's over here.

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00:41:40,129 --> 00:41:41,209

Or life happens.

:

00:41:41,449 --> 00:41:43,099

You've lost somebody in your family.

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00:41:43,309 --> 00:41:44,089

Things happen.

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00:41:44,449 --> 00:41:45,739

You just don't have time to do that.

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00:41:45,739 --> 00:41:49,489

So those reviews and having people,

fiduciary people in your life to

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00:41:49,879 --> 00:41:52,099

help review that is very important.

:

00:41:52,279 --> 00:41:52,999

Very helpful.

:

00:41:53,359 --> 00:41:56,989

Because you tend to not think about those

things like insurance until it's too late.

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00:41:57,169 --> 00:41:57,319

Chris: Mm-hmm.

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00:41:57,919 --> 00:42:00,829

Jacob: And you say, I wish I would've had

that, or I wish my deductible would've

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00:42:00,829 --> 00:42:05,809

been more or less, well, we can't do

anything because the claim has happened.

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00:42:06,079 --> 00:42:06,529

Tyler: Exactly.

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00:42:06,529 --> 00:42:08,089

Jacob: We could have

for the last 11 years.

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00:42:08,554 --> 00:42:12,694

12 years, 25 years, you know, I've

never, that's the hardest part.

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00:42:13,024 --> 00:42:14,134

Insurance is a scam.

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00:42:14,344 --> 00:42:17,299

And I'm like, okay, I don't

know if you need that.

:

00:42:17,299 --> 00:42:18,019

This is gonna be a good fit.

:

00:42:18,049 --> 00:42:18,339

Yeah.

:

00:42:18,339 --> 00:42:18,619

Yeah.

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00:42:18,619 --> 00:42:24,124

Because if something happens, and

God forbid you kill somebody or

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00:42:24,124 --> 00:42:25,384

you send people to the hospital

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00:42:25,504 --> 00:42:25,624

Chris: mm-hmm.

:

00:42:25,864 --> 00:42:26,044

Your,

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00:42:26,194 --> 00:42:28,714

Jacob: your insurance will be

very useful when they pay out

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00:42:28,714 --> 00:42:30,394

up to the policy limits on that.

:

00:42:30,394 --> 00:42:30,814

Exactly.

:

00:42:30,904 --> 00:42:30,964

Yeah.

:

00:42:30,964 --> 00:42:33,889

And if you have that personal

umbrella, then that million gets, 2

:

00:42:33,889 --> 00:42:35,194

million gets paid out on top of that.

:

00:42:35,374 --> 00:42:35,674

Tyler: Right.

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00:42:35,734 --> 00:42:39,364

Jacob: That lets you keep your home or

your lifestyle, and that's what it's for.

:

00:42:39,604 --> 00:42:39,814

Tyler: Yep.

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00:42:39,844 --> 00:42:41,734

Jacob: You could live your whole

life and that never happened, but

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00:42:41,734 --> 00:42:44,104

it only takes once and Exactly.

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00:42:44,104 --> 00:42:45,484

You've lost everything

you've ever worked for.

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00:42:46,144 --> 00:42:50,014

And so trying to get

people to understand that.

:

00:42:50,194 --> 00:42:51,754

Some people get it, some people don't.

:

00:42:51,874 --> 00:42:54,064

Some people want to hear it

and some people don't as well.

:

00:42:54,069 --> 00:42:54,259

Yeah.

:

00:42:54,359 --> 00:42:59,404

So, yeah, the, the, the market

has, as it continues to rise.

:

00:43:00,109 --> 00:43:03,559

You want to give people a good

value and cover them well, but

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00:43:03,559 --> 00:43:05,659

also there's a cost to that.

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00:43:05,664 --> 00:43:06,004

Chris: Mm-hmm.

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00:43:06,169 --> 00:43:06,259

And

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00:43:06,289 --> 00:43:10,159

Jacob: so I think there's a little bit

of a rub there of it's working now.

:

00:43:10,219 --> 00:43:11,179

We'll just keep it going.

:

00:43:11,509 --> 00:43:15,139

And then they sit with someone like

you and find out it's not enough.

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00:43:15,289 --> 00:43:15,619

Tyler: Right.

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00:43:15,709 --> 00:43:16,729

Jacob: And then what do you do with that?

:

00:43:16,969 --> 00:43:20,089

Tyler: And correct if I'm wrong too, I'm

pretty sure that if you're underinsured

:

00:43:20,869 --> 00:43:26,419

for a house, let's say your house is worth

500,000, you only have it insured for 400.

:

00:43:26,809 --> 00:43:31,039

Let's say your roof blows off and you

need to pay $20,000, the insurance

:

00:43:31,039 --> 00:43:34,459

company isn't gonna pay that 20,000

even though it hasn't hit that 400

:

00:43:34,459 --> 00:43:36,049

because you only have 80% of it.

:

00:43:36,049 --> 00:43:37,909

Only pay 80% of that 20,000.

:

00:43:37,909 --> 00:43:38,209

Right.

:

00:43:39,619 --> 00:43:40,789

Jacob: It's firing away over here.

:

00:43:41,149 --> 00:43:41,169

Got 'em.

:

00:43:41,169 --> 00:43:41,179

Yeah.

:

00:43:41,179 --> 00:43:41,509

Got 'em.

:

00:43:41,689 --> 00:43:42,979

I was holding it together until now.

:

00:43:43,579 --> 00:43:43,969

Yeah.

:

00:43:43,969 --> 00:43:46,979

I mean there's definitely there's

definitely gonna be some issues down

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00:43:46,979 --> 00:43:48,659

the road if you're not properly insured.

:

00:43:48,659 --> 00:43:53,039

And so I think people think that, you

know, it's a greedy insurance agent.

:

00:43:53,039 --> 00:43:54,084

He just wants 'cause listen.

:

00:43:54,944 --> 00:43:59,804

There's been a big bump in auto premium

and home premium, which on one hand, as

:

00:43:59,804 --> 00:44:03,284

an insurance agent, it's great, but on

the other hand, I also have insurance.

:

00:44:03,464 --> 00:44:06,584

So my car insurance and my home insurance

has gone up, so I'm paying that as well.

:

00:44:06,584 --> 00:44:10,184

And so, you know, I, I do

feel that personally as well

:

00:44:10,184 --> 00:44:11,474

as I have great empathy.

:

00:44:11,474 --> 00:44:15,824

This is why, you know, when claims happen,

we have to hand it over to the claims

:

00:44:15,824 --> 00:44:19,934

department because I'm ready to fight

tooth and nail for every customer Yeah.

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00:44:19,934 --> 00:44:20,534

That I have,

:

00:44:20,744 --> 00:44:21,074

Tyler: right?

:

00:44:21,074 --> 00:44:23,564

Jacob: This is, they're not

this, and it's like, no, they

:

00:44:23,564 --> 00:44:25,094

have to take that emotion out.

:

00:44:25,574 --> 00:44:29,504

And I would assume that claims people

are maybe more spreadsheet people and

:

00:44:29,504 --> 00:44:30,614

they run it through the database, right?

:

00:44:30,614 --> 00:44:33,344

They put all the numbers in, here's

our settlement, here's where we land.

:

00:44:33,644 --> 00:44:36,944

I would be a terrible claims adjuster

because I just want the checkbook out

:

00:44:38,114 --> 00:44:39,554

his hand handing checks left and right.

:

00:44:39,554 --> 00:44:43,949

And so being properly insured is so

important in this time because, I mean.

:

00:44:44,909 --> 00:44:48,749

We're not at Florida levels, but it is

a very litigious state here as well.

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00:44:48,809 --> 00:44:48,959

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:44:49,199 --> 00:44:49,379

Yeah.

:

00:44:49,439 --> 00:44:52,589

Jacob: You know, and there's been times

you rear end somebody and then three

:

00:44:52,589 --> 00:44:57,089

days later their neck hurts, they're

in the hospital and they go to a lawyer

:

00:44:57,509 --> 00:44:59,009

and the lawyer takes 'em to court.

:

00:44:59,009 --> 00:45:02,219

And for the most part to stay outta

court, the company's gonna settle.

:

00:45:02,699 --> 00:45:03,149

Chris: Right.

:

00:45:03,149 --> 00:45:06,479

Jacob: And then a lawyer

makes 30%, they're happy.

:

00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,999

Customer gets a little change

in their pocket, they're happy.

:

00:45:09,509 --> 00:45:11,159

And then rates just continue to go.

:

00:45:11,189 --> 00:45:11,489

Yep.

:

00:45:12,389 --> 00:45:16,319

Because at the end of the day, the

insurance companies are not charities.

:

00:45:16,319 --> 00:45:17,039

They're there to make money.

:

00:45:17,219 --> 00:45:17,639

Chris: Right.

:

00:45:17,849 --> 00:45:22,649

Jacob: And so it can be, you know, I like

being on this side of the bus business

:

00:45:22,649 --> 00:45:24,209

because I do get to see how it's played.

:

00:45:24,689 --> 00:45:24,869

Chris: Yeah.

:

00:45:24,869 --> 00:45:27,899

Jacob: I understand that there are

contracts and if you're within that

:

00:45:27,899 --> 00:45:29,609

written contract, it will get paid.

:

00:45:30,089 --> 00:45:32,459

Sometimes there's gray area

where it could be an issue.

:

00:45:32,689 --> 00:45:36,199

But I, what I've seen as far as our

claims history for their companies,

:

00:45:36,199 --> 00:45:40,729

we represent, they do pay, you know,

and, and I think they, they pay well.

:

00:45:41,119 --> 00:45:44,149

And some people will probably hear that

and say they of course an insurance, hr.

:

00:45:44,554 --> 00:45:44,674

Yeah.

:

00:45:45,034 --> 00:45:45,914

Wouldn't say that.

:

00:45:45,914 --> 00:45:46,634

Right, right.

:

00:45:46,759 --> 00:45:46,999

Yeah.

:

00:45:47,119 --> 00:45:48,949

You know, and so I do see that.

:

00:45:48,949 --> 00:45:52,819

But yeah, I mean there, there have been

times where, you know, one example,

:

00:45:53,269 --> 00:45:54,949

I letter, I'll never forget it.

:

00:45:54,949 --> 00:45:57,469

I wrote a lady, a renter's

insurance policy at Carolina

:

00:45:57,469 --> 00:46:01,179

Beach, and if you add wind and hill

coverage, it doubled the premium.

:

00:46:01,329 --> 00:46:03,069

She was like, Nope, not gonna do it.

:

00:46:03,189 --> 00:46:05,649

I was like, well, hey, I, I recommend it.

:

00:46:05,739 --> 00:46:06,789

Nope, not gonna do it.

:

00:46:06,789 --> 00:46:07,479

Said no problem.

:

00:46:07,959 --> 00:46:10,929

Got the signed application,

got a really nice form.

:

00:46:11,199 --> 00:46:13,089

It says I reject wind and hail.

:

00:46:13,119 --> 00:46:13,209

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:46:13,449 --> 00:46:15,219

Jacob: Got it signed, put it in the file.

:

00:46:16,149 --> 00:46:20,679

Less than a year later, hurricane

comes, her stuff gets wrecked.

:

00:46:20,979 --> 00:46:24,819

She calls me, goes to file the

claim, there's no coverage because

:

00:46:24,819 --> 00:46:28,899

it was a, well, I'm a thief, I'm a

liar, I'm a cheat, I'm everything.

:

00:46:29,649 --> 00:46:31,959

And I said, well, ma'am, I'm, I'm

really sorry you feel that way.

:

00:46:32,329 --> 00:46:34,404

So I sent her her signed application.

:

00:46:34,674 --> 00:46:35,664

I never signed that.

:

00:46:35,664 --> 00:46:38,814

I mean, she's cussing me from top to

bottom, which understandably I get it.

:

00:46:38,844 --> 00:46:39,564

Chris: Yeah, you're mad.

:

00:46:39,594 --> 00:46:40,584

Jacob: Lost all your stuff.

:

00:46:40,584 --> 00:46:41,724

I'm so sorry.

:

00:46:41,784 --> 00:46:42,654

And it's hard to deal with.

:

00:46:42,894 --> 00:46:43,044

Mm-hmm.

:

00:46:43,284 --> 00:46:47,784

And I sent her application and she quickly

changed her tune because she actually

:

00:46:47,784 --> 00:46:50,574

did sign that piece of paper and went

over it together and things like that.

:

00:46:50,574 --> 00:46:54,024

But in those moments when you

wish you had that Yeah, exactly.

:

00:46:54,024 --> 00:46:54,624

Didn't have it.

:

00:46:54,984 --> 00:46:57,534

And so how do you empathize

with people in that moment?

:

00:46:57,774 --> 00:47:01,764

It can be pretty hard because, you

know, selfishly I would like to write

:

00:47:01,764 --> 00:47:05,124

everybody at the top limits of liability.

:

00:47:05,514 --> 00:47:08,784

I would like you to have the most

insurance that you can afford.

:

00:47:09,084 --> 00:47:10,914

'cause that means that I

would get paid more money.

:

00:47:11,034 --> 00:47:11,154

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:47:11,454 --> 00:47:12,804

Jacob: But I also live in reality.

:

00:47:12,804 --> 00:47:13,554

I understand.

:

00:47:13,614 --> 00:47:14,604

State minimums.

:

00:47:14,754 --> 00:47:15,264

People need 'em.

:

00:47:15,994 --> 00:47:18,734

Thank you to the North

Carolina legislature.

:

00:47:18,734 --> 00:47:19,184

They have.

:

00:47:19,589 --> 00:47:20,879

Up the state minimums.

:

00:47:20,949 --> 00:47:25,719

As of the middle of last year, it

was 30,000 per person, 60,000 per

:

00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,369

accident and 25 in property damage.

:

00:47:27,369 --> 00:47:27,459

Mm-hmm.

:

00:47:27,699 --> 00:47:29,589

The new state minimum's 50,000 per person.

:

00:47:29,589 --> 00:47:32,079

A hundred thousand per accident

and 50,000 property damage.

:

00:47:32,169 --> 00:47:32,409

Chris: Yep.

:

00:47:32,529 --> 00:47:35,829

Jacob: And that raised the

liability rate six to $8 a month.

:

00:47:36,069 --> 00:47:36,129

Tyler: Okay.

:

00:47:36,159 --> 00:47:39,799

Jacob: So, that did go up a

little bit, but you're almost

:

00:47:39,799 --> 00:47:41,419

doubling what you've had.

:

00:47:41,509 --> 00:47:41,989

Tyler: Exactly.

:

00:47:41,989 --> 00:47:46,369

Jacob: And I think that's very helpful to

keep people there 'cause life does happen.

:

00:47:46,789 --> 00:47:46,879

Chris: Mm-hmm.

:

00:47:47,119 --> 00:47:47,209

POD:

:

00:47:47,209 --> 00:47:48,829

Jacob: so, you know, I understand.

:

00:47:48,829 --> 00:47:51,409

Well, I've been driving for 28

years and never got an accident.

:

00:47:51,709 --> 00:47:52,129

Chris: True.

:

00:47:52,399 --> 00:47:52,939

Jacob: Correct.

:

00:47:53,209 --> 00:47:54,169

Chris: Until it happens

:

00:47:54,169 --> 00:47:57,679

Jacob: and then it happens and

you're wishing you had it or,

:

00:47:58,009 --> 00:47:59,959

and it's like, we want to assist.

:

00:48:00,409 --> 00:48:03,589

And, you know, I, I would say I

think the biggest change in since

:

00:48:03,589 --> 00:48:09,139

:

from a salesman to an advisor.

:

00:48:10,699 --> 00:48:13,189

And that's been a very

interesting role because I love

:

00:48:13,189 --> 00:48:16,249

to sell, I love to hit goals.

:

00:48:16,249 --> 00:48:16,909

I love to.

:

00:48:18,304 --> 00:48:20,164

You know, selfishly, I like to make money,

:

00:48:20,494 --> 00:48:20,674

Tyler: right?

:

00:48:20,674 --> 00:48:21,964

Jacob: That's what I wake up for, right?

:

00:48:22,144 --> 00:48:22,324

Tyler: Yeah.

:

00:48:22,384 --> 00:48:25,924

Jacob: But, but as far as offering

different, as the independent

:

00:48:25,924 --> 00:48:29,014

agent, I can get multiple

quotes from multiple carriers.

:

00:48:29,374 --> 00:48:33,814

I can then offer them this way and I

say, Hey, this is what I'm thinking.

:

00:48:33,934 --> 00:48:36,484

Or maybe this is what we do in

our house, but it's ultimately,

:

00:48:36,484 --> 00:48:37,864

it's up to you guys to decide.

:

00:48:37,864 --> 00:48:41,524

And so to advise them through that,

I think that's been really helpful

:

00:48:41,584 --> 00:48:43,474

because it's, maybe it's helped me.

:

00:48:43,474 --> 00:48:48,724

I'm, I, I'm high empathy and I love

people and very relational, and so

:

00:48:49,384 --> 00:48:53,944

when things go wrong, I'll then feel

partially responsible for that, right?

:

00:48:53,944 --> 00:48:59,434

And so bringing them in on that decision

to say, Hey, this is kind of a hard truth.

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00:48:59,434 --> 00:49:02,854

But back then we sat down together and

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Tyler: Right.

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00:49:03,574 --> 00:49:06,364

Jacob: We had multiple options, and

this is the one that you did choose.

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00:49:06,364 --> 00:49:10,174

So from that advisor role, that's been

pretty helpful and it's been really good.

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00:49:10,659 --> 00:49:10,949

Tyler: Yeah.

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00:49:10,954 --> 00:49:11,239

Yeah.

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00:49:11,299 --> 00:49:12,379

So, personal story.

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00:49:12,739 --> 00:49:18,439

I had a Tesla before, I had my F-150 now,

and I had my Tesla for a while and been

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00:49:18,439 --> 00:49:21,799

driving for, at that point, 17, 18 years.

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00:49:21,804 --> 00:49:21,854

Mm-hmm.

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00:49:21,934 --> 00:49:25,099

I'd never had a cracked windshield in my

life, so my deductible for windshields,

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00:49:25,254 --> 00:49:26,959

I, I was like, ah, who needs it?

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00:49:26,959 --> 00:49:27,259

Right?

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00:49:27,319 --> 00:49:27,409

Sure.

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00:49:27,409 --> 00:49:28,609

I was like, I've never had this before.

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00:49:28,609 --> 00:49:30,049

Been driving for 15, 16 years.

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00:49:30,509 --> 00:49:32,669

So it was, and you got a Tesla

stupid high that got a Tesla and

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00:49:32,669 --> 00:49:34,349

then it cracked like instantly.

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00:49:34,379 --> 00:49:35,699

And I was like, interesting.

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00:49:36,089 --> 00:49:37,439

And that's expensive glass.

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00:49:37,439 --> 00:49:39,629

Come to find out price.

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00:49:39,629 --> 00:49:44,099

So yeah, so I had to pay that and I

was like, you know what, maybe I should

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00:49:44,099 --> 00:49:45,749

lower that deductible a little bit.

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00:49:45,989 --> 00:49:48,029

So lowered it down significantly.

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00:49:48,329 --> 00:49:52,429

And then my F-150 now has a crack in

the windshield, and I was like, well,

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00:49:52,429 --> 00:49:53,839

I'm glad I lowered the deductible.

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00:49:54,169 --> 00:49:54,229

Yeah.

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00:49:54,319 --> 00:49:58,309

But with that being said, there's

parts of insurance that I, I don't

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00:49:58,309 --> 00:50:00,799

like just because like, who likes

paying for something that they're

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00:50:00,799 --> 00:50:02,089

not gonna use 90% of the time?

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00:50:02,599 --> 00:50:05,569

On the flip side of that, I just got

a life insurance policy, probably

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00:50:05,569 --> 00:50:06,859

way more than I actually need.

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00:50:07,219 --> 00:50:10,849

But the safety in the back of

my head, knowing that my kids'

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00:50:10,849 --> 00:50:12,469

schools are gonna be paid for Yes.

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00:50:12,799 --> 00:50:15,499

That the house will be paid off

and they don't have to move.

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And that if there's anything that

ever that they could possibly

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need will be taken care of.

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'cause I'm not here.

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00:50:20,839 --> 00:50:21,019

Jacob: Yeah.

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00:50:21,099 --> 00:50:24,519

Tyler: just having that in the back

of my mind that's already settled.

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00:50:24,549 --> 00:50:24,849

Jacob: Sure.

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00:50:24,849 --> 00:50:24,939

Yeah.

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00:50:24,999 --> 00:50:27,399

Tyler: It's like, you know what, I'll

pay a little bit more in premium.

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00:50:27,579 --> 00:50:27,789

Right.

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00:50:27,819 --> 00:50:30,189

Knowing that my, my

family's gonna be safe.

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00:50:30,429 --> 00:50:32,799

So when it comes to like same

type of thing for insurance.

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00:50:32,799 --> 00:50:32,889

Sure.

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00:50:32,889 --> 00:50:34,449

Especially homeowner's insurance.

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00:50:34,569 --> 00:50:38,079

'cause again, same thing because value

of the house went up, everything.

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00:50:38,079 --> 00:50:42,819

I had some flood damage and then they're

like, oh yeah, we'll cover like 95% of it.

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'cause you weren't fully like, insured.

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Chris: Insured, yeah.

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Tyler: And I was like.

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00:50:47,619 --> 00:50:50,649

The price went up literally

within the last like 12 months.

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00:50:50,649 --> 00:50:52,029

Like, I couldn't do anything about that.

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00:50:52,029 --> 00:50:52,749

And they're like, yep.

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00:50:52,779 --> 00:50:53,169

Well, sorry.

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00:50:53,799 --> 00:50:54,249

I was like, no kidding.

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00:50:54,309 --> 00:50:54,699

Alright.

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00:50:54,699 --> 00:50:55,359

Whatever, dude.

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00:50:55,419 --> 00:50:55,869

Wow.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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00:50:57,039 --> 00:51:00,379

So, but anyway, I wanna talk to you

afterwards about, 'cause I haven't

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had my policies looked at in a long,

long time, so I'll, ill definitely

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reach, would love to do that.

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00:51:03,949 --> 00:51:04,409

Reach out to you.

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That'd be great.

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00:51:04,684 --> 00:51:05,359

Get that done too.

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00:51:06,139 --> 00:51:09,349

Chris: So you're raising some kiddos?

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00:51:09,409 --> 00:51:09,679

Jacob: Yeah.

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00:51:10,519 --> 00:51:13,699

Chris: Living life, enjoying the,

the Okta and Porter's neck area.

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00:51:13,759 --> 00:51:13,909

Yep.

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00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:19,219

So my question for you though, I don't

like to dig deep into jump the kids that

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00:51:19,219 --> 00:51:23,129

people don't need to know too much, but

what does success look like for you?

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00:51:23,489 --> 00:51:24,569

Jacob: Oh, that's such a great question.

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00:51:24,894 --> 00:51:27,449

I, I saw that on the form to

fill out and I still haven't

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00:51:28,409 --> 00:51:29,609

figured out an answer to that.

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00:51:29,669 --> 00:51:33,404

So, I, I think as far as success

for me, I think long term, I think

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00:51:33,404 --> 00:51:35,624

legacy, I like to think about my kids'.

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00:51:35,624 --> 00:51:35,984

Kids.

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00:51:36,464 --> 00:51:36,704

Chris: Yeah.

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00:51:36,854 --> 00:51:39,644

Jacob: And so what does that look

like when I'm not here anymore?

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00:51:40,214 --> 00:51:43,724

And, and I think that's just a good

question for every man to think about.

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00:51:43,814 --> 00:51:47,954

And you know, moms as well as

you're raising your kids one day,

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00:51:47,954 --> 00:51:49,004

we're not gonna be here anymore.

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00:51:49,094 --> 00:51:50,934

My wife she's an only child.

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00:51:51,294 --> 00:51:52,344

God bless her soul.

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00:51:52,434 --> 00:51:55,614

And she, she lost her,

her dad a few years back.

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00:51:56,094 --> 00:51:58,974

And I told her as we were kind

of family planning, having that

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00:51:58,974 --> 00:52:01,404

discussion, she said, I want one.

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00:52:01,944 --> 00:52:03,589

And I said, well, I want six, you know?

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00:52:03,909 --> 00:52:07,654

And so, we settled at

three, so we have three now.

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00:52:07,654 --> 00:52:14,644

But I said, you know, we had a really

kind of grim conversation and I said,

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00:52:14,644 --> 00:52:16,234

eventually all of our parents will die.

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00:52:16,954 --> 00:52:17,494

Chris: Mm-hmm.

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00:52:17,554 --> 00:52:20,914

Jacob: And when your mom

dies, it'll be just you.

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00:52:21,724 --> 00:52:23,224

And I said, in one day, you and I'll die.

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00:52:23,734 --> 00:52:26,884

And I said, I would hope that our

kids would have a relationship

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00:52:26,884 --> 00:52:28,444

with one another, that they

would at least be able to.

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00:52:28,909 --> 00:52:29,989

Be in contact Right.

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00:52:30,019 --> 00:52:30,859

With that family.

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00:52:30,859 --> 00:52:33,439

And then when they get married hopefully,

and have kids, then they're, you

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00:52:33,439 --> 00:52:34,909

know, to, that's my hope and my goal.

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00:52:34,909 --> 00:52:39,079

So success for me, you know,

it used to be a bunch of money.

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00:52:39,079 --> 00:52:42,109

It used to be shiny cars or toys

or whatever that looks like.

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00:52:42,109 --> 00:52:47,499

But I, spending time having freedom

to spend time with my family

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00:52:47,679 --> 00:52:49,359

has just, it's been everything.

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00:52:49,809 --> 00:52:55,149

And I can tell in my children, even

at six, four, and two, mostly with

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00:52:55,149 --> 00:52:58,569

the six and 4-year-old, but I can

tell when I have not put in the

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00:52:58,569 --> 00:52:59,859

certain amount of time I need to.

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00:53:00,009 --> 00:53:00,219

Chris: Yeah.

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00:53:00,249 --> 00:53:01,809

Jacob: By the way that they act and react.

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00:53:01,869 --> 00:53:02,079

Chris: Yeah.

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00:53:02,199 --> 00:53:02,409

Yeah.

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00:53:02,409 --> 00:53:04,119

Jacob: And it's like,

ah, they need more dad.

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00:53:04,389 --> 00:53:04,749

Right?

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00:53:04,749 --> 00:53:04,869

Yeah.

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00:53:04,959 --> 00:53:09,689

And so, I would love to be able to

provide for them what they need now so

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00:53:09,689 --> 00:53:14,009

that when they're adults, 'cause they're

gonna need therapy from my parenting.

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00:53:16,109 --> 00:53:19,109

I, I would say that most of us

do need it, if not all of us.

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00:53:19,139 --> 00:53:22,589

And so I, I say my parents did

the best they could with what

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00:53:22,619 --> 00:53:23,789

they were provided at the time.

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00:53:23,909 --> 00:53:25,409

And I love them and honor 'em for that.

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00:53:25,844 --> 00:53:27,584

And I'm still in therapy, right?

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00:53:27,584 --> 00:53:30,474

And so, my wife and I,

we, we try to read books.

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00:53:30,474 --> 00:53:31,794

We try to love each other.

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00:53:31,794 --> 00:53:34,404

Well pray together, forgive one

another in front of our kids.

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00:53:34,644 --> 00:53:36,234

Our kids are still gonna need therapy.

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00:53:36,504 --> 00:53:40,554

And so success for me is that

my kids will love one another.

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00:53:40,554 --> 00:53:44,564

Well, they'll love their friends

and their community and they will

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00:53:44,564 --> 00:53:48,134

look back and say, mom and dad

did a good, like they, they tried.

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00:53:48,314 --> 00:53:48,614

Chris: Yeah.

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00:53:48,674 --> 00:53:49,064

Jacob: Yeah.

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00:53:49,064 --> 00:53:49,724

And I think

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Chris: I like

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00:53:50,054 --> 00:53:50,144

Jacob: that.

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00:53:50,144 --> 00:53:51,824

Hopefully if we can get to that 0.1

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00:53:51,824 --> 00:53:53,174

day, that'd be great.

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00:53:53,474 --> 00:53:57,554

You know, would I love to be a

multimillionaire and, and you

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00:53:57,554 --> 00:53:59,264

know, certain things like that.

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00:53:59,384 --> 00:54:00,224

Yeah, that'd be great.

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00:54:00,374 --> 00:54:00,554

Right.

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00:54:00,554 --> 00:54:06,134

But that has fallen down the list

of, as I'm, I turned 36 last year

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00:54:06,224 --> 00:54:10,414

and just getting to know people and

see, I have customers that live in

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00:54:10,414 --> 00:54:14,314

landfall and then I have customers

who rent and might never own a house.

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00:54:14,314 --> 00:54:18,084

And so been able to see what,

the different levels of peace

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00:54:18,084 --> 00:54:19,374

that other people have had.

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00:54:19,494 --> 00:54:19,584

Mm-hmm.

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00:54:19,824 --> 00:54:20,664

Different goals.

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00:54:20,664 --> 00:54:24,174

I love spending time with people who are

older than me or even seasons ahead of me.

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00:54:24,204 --> 00:54:24,324

Mm-hmm.

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00:54:24,714 --> 00:54:27,024

Because I can, I can

glean and learn from that.

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00:54:27,804 --> 00:54:34,284

And so I would love to, you know, be

able to look back and love for my kids

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00:54:34,284 --> 00:54:38,994

like I do now, hear my parents' voice

in my head and go, you know what, that

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00:54:38,994 --> 00:54:41,664

might've been tough growing up, but

dad, mom and dad were right about that.

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00:54:41,759 --> 00:54:42,109

Chris: Right.

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00:54:42,354 --> 00:54:44,844

Jacob: And they would be able

to love their families well and

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00:54:44,844 --> 00:54:45,924

love their community as well.

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00:54:46,314 --> 00:54:51,444

I think I've seen personally with

friends and friends of friends

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00:54:51,444 --> 00:54:56,904

that situations when things get

involved after people pass away

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00:54:57,084 --> 00:54:57,204

Chris: mm-hmm.

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00:54:57,444 --> 00:54:58,674

Jacob: The mess that entails.

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00:54:58,974 --> 00:54:59,154

Chris: Yep.

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00:54:59,154 --> 00:55:02,784

Jacob: And to me, legacy wise,

that actually is a black eye.

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00:55:03,594 --> 00:55:07,914

And so obviously everybody is adults,

they make their own decisions.

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00:55:08,274 --> 00:55:09,114

It's not a movie.

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00:55:09,204 --> 00:55:10,374

So I'm very clear on that.

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00:55:10,464 --> 00:55:12,964

But one day when my wife

and I aren't here anymore.

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If, if my kids continue to love each

each other on a sibling level as

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00:55:17,704 --> 00:55:20,884

they continue to grow and turn into

the adults, and I think the Lord's

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00:55:20,884 --> 00:55:25,234

called them to be, I'll be a very

happy man cheering them on from here.

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00:55:25,234 --> 00:55:29,914

So I think legacy, successful

legacy has a lot to do with the

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00:55:29,914 --> 00:55:31,354

direction we're heading as a family.

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Thanks.

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00:55:32,074 --> 00:55:32,644

Tyler: That's awesome.

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00:55:32,824 --> 00:55:33,544

I've heard that one before.

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00:55:33,544 --> 00:55:34,234

I like that a lot.

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Yeah.

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Thank you.

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I'll tell you a funny story

before we sign off just because

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00:55:37,464 --> 00:55:38,874

it kinda like falls in there.

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00:55:39,114 --> 00:55:43,914

I was talking to my son the other

day and he's like weirdly obsessed

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00:55:43,914 --> 00:55:45,174

with death for some reason.

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00:55:45,864 --> 00:55:46,104

Chris: It's

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00:55:46,104 --> 00:55:46,314

Tyler: that

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00:55:46,314 --> 00:55:46,824

Chris: age.

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00:55:46,854 --> 00:55:47,184

Tyler: Yeah.

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00:55:47,454 --> 00:55:51,024

So he is like trying to figure it out

and everything and he was like, Hey,

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00:55:51,174 --> 00:55:52,914

who's gonna be my dad when you pass?

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00:55:52,914 --> 00:55:53,754

Or like when you die?

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00:55:54,234 --> 00:55:55,464

I'm like, well, I'm

still gonna be your dad.

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00:55:55,464 --> 00:55:56,724

I just won't like be around.

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00:55:57,174 --> 00:55:58,194

And he was like.

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00:55:59,394 --> 00:56:01,374

But life goes on after you die.

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00:56:02,394 --> 00:56:04,014

I was like, right, you are.

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00:56:04,014 --> 00:56:04,134

That's

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00:56:04,189 --> 00:56:05,334

Jacob: a gut punch right there.

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00:56:06,369 --> 00:56:07,734

Tyler: And I was like, who told you that?

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00:56:07,764 --> 00:56:11,094

He goes, I was just thinking about

it, but life will go on after you die.

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00:56:11,364 --> 00:56:11,454

Yeah.

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00:56:11,454 --> 00:56:13,829

And I'm like, sir, that's good.

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00:56:14,059 --> 00:56:14,349

Yeah.

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00:56:14,814 --> 00:56:16,734

And he was like, but still,

who's gonna be my dad?

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00:56:16,764 --> 00:56:18,444

I'm like, I will still be your dad.

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00:56:18,444 --> 00:56:18,949

Won't, you won't.

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00:56:18,949 --> 00:56:19,884

Like, I'm like, your

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00:56:19,884 --> 00:56:21,264

Chris: mom's not allowed to remarry.

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00:56:21,264 --> 00:56:21,324

Yeah.

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00:56:22,434 --> 00:56:24,534

She's not gonna have any guy friends.

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00:56:25,014 --> 00:56:26,814

It is just gonna be Your mom left this.

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00:56:26,814 --> 00:56:27,054

That's right.

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00:56:27,714 --> 00:56:30,474

Tyler: I was like, how do I go down

this rabbit hole with like a 5-year-old?

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00:56:30,479 --> 00:56:30,549

Sure.

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00:56:30,549 --> 00:56:33,444

And I was like, I'm still

your biological dad.

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00:56:33,504 --> 00:56:33,744

Yeah.

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00:56:33,744 --> 00:56:34,704

That's where we're at with this.

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00:56:34,704 --> 00:56:35,964

And he's like, well Pat, pat be my dad.

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00:56:35,964 --> 00:56:37,284

He was like, he's still

gonna be your pat Pat.

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00:56:37,374 --> 00:56:37,824

That's right.

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00:56:38,184 --> 00:56:38,604

That's right.

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00:56:38,814 --> 00:56:41,469

So it was a fun, like, interesting

conversation to have with fire.

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00:56:41,469 --> 00:56:41,844

No, that's a great

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00:56:41,844 --> 00:56:44,844

Jacob: question because I would say, you

know, whether you're involved in faith

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00:56:44,844 --> 00:56:49,849

or not, a big issue that we're in as a

country, would be the lack of fathers

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00:56:49,849 --> 00:56:51,469

and mothers involved in your life.

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00:56:51,529 --> 00:56:55,489

And, and I mean that, not

necessarily biologically, but

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00:56:55,669 --> 00:56:55,999

Tyler: Right.

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00:56:56,004 --> 00:56:58,519

Jacob: Depending on where you go,

where your job takes you, there

:

00:56:58,519 --> 00:57:01,879

are relationships and friendships

with people who you might think

:

00:57:01,879 --> 00:57:02,719

you'd never be friends with.

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00:57:02,869 --> 00:57:02,959

Chris: Mm-hmm.

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00:57:03,199 --> 00:57:04,249

Jacob: And they're there for a reason.

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00:57:04,429 --> 00:57:08,359

And so it's, do you have people in

your life with gray hair who have made

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00:57:08,359 --> 00:57:10,219

some mistakes or maybe done a lot?

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00:57:10,219 --> 00:57:13,069

Well, and that can then guide

you and mentor you in that.

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00:57:13,069 --> 00:57:17,479

And so I think the, the mother and father

name, that's what it should be called.

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00:57:17,479 --> 00:57:18,889

But mentorship is good.

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00:57:18,979 --> 00:57:22,789

You know, people taking you under

their wing to, to pull out some gold

:

00:57:22,789 --> 00:57:24,259

in you that you didn't know was there.

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00:57:24,409 --> 00:57:24,739

Chris: Right.

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00:57:24,799 --> 00:57:29,659

Jacob: And you know, we all would

hope maybe our parents were able to

:

00:57:29,659 --> 00:57:34,909

do that, or, you know, all my family's

still 10 hours away and so there is

:

00:57:34,909 --> 00:57:35,869

Chris: a direct flight though.

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00:57:35,899 --> 00:57:37,459

Jacob: There is, it's not too bad.

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And so the the Vera Beach airport

just picked up, american Air,

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00:57:41,319 --> 00:57:43,449

so we should be able to go to

Charlotte and then land in town.

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00:57:43,449 --> 00:57:44,229

That'd be pretty sweet.

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00:57:44,259 --> 00:57:44,769

Tyler: That'd be nice.

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00:57:44,859 --> 00:57:48,249

Jacob: But we do our, we do our annual

trip home to visit and hug necks and

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00:57:48,249 --> 00:57:51,759

love, and my parents come to visit

often up into the Wilmington area.

:

00:57:51,759 --> 00:57:55,599

But, you know, realistically as great

of a relationship that my dad and I

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00:57:55,599 --> 00:57:57,189

have, we talk on the phone regularly.

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00:57:57,639 --> 00:57:59,679

There's times where I need

somebody here in Wilmington.

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00:58:00,009 --> 00:58:00,279

Chris: Yeah.

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00:58:00,279 --> 00:58:03,069

Jacob: And so I have a couple of

men in my life who are old enough

:

00:58:03,069 --> 00:58:06,999

to beat my dad that don't try to

take the place of my dad, but do

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00:58:07,419 --> 00:58:10,119

give me hard advice, soft advice.

:

00:58:10,119 --> 00:58:12,999

They gimme love, they, they beat me

up and they put me back together.

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00:58:13,209 --> 00:58:13,419

Chris: Yeah.

:

00:58:13,419 --> 00:58:16,809

Jacob: And so I think, you know, if

anybody hears anything from today,

:

00:58:16,809 --> 00:58:21,549

even more than just insurance is, you

know, find that person, that mother

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00:58:21,549 --> 00:58:27,579

or that father for you to walk through

life with you, because my kids need

:

00:58:27,729 --> 00:58:30,039

me to be all that I'm called to be.

:

00:58:30,999 --> 00:58:32,049

And I can't do that alone.

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00:58:32,559 --> 00:58:36,069

And I love both of you guys,

but we only know what we know.

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00:58:36,219 --> 00:58:37,089

Tyler: Yeah, exactly.

:

00:58:37,089 --> 00:58:39,789

Jacob: You know, and so we can

get together and talk about how

:

00:58:39,789 --> 00:58:44,079

to talk about our kids wondering

about death and things like that.

:

00:58:44,229 --> 00:58:44,319

Right.

:

00:58:44,349 --> 00:58:46,209

If we've never dealt with

it before, we don't know

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00:58:46,509 --> 00:58:47,109

Tyler: exactly.

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00:58:47,109 --> 00:58:47,169

Jacob: Yeah.

:

00:58:47,169 --> 00:58:50,199

So getting, getting, rolling up your

sleeves and doing life with people

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00:58:50,199 --> 00:58:53,439

who've been there has really paved

the way for me to be where I'm today.

:

00:58:53,889 --> 00:58:54,399

Tyler: That's awesome.

:

00:58:55,509 --> 00:58:58,779

Very good insights to finish out

the podcast, so I appreciate that.

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00:58:58,839 --> 00:58:59,109

Jacob: Yeah.

:

00:58:59,199 --> 00:59:00,459

I came for Whiskey and Wisdom.

:

00:59:00,459 --> 00:59:01,539

I think we found a little bit of both.

:

00:59:01,539 --> 00:59:02,319

Tyler: Yeah, absolutely.

:

00:59:02,319 --> 00:59:02,559

That's good.

:

00:59:02,679 --> 00:59:03,279

We tried to do

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00:59:03,519 --> 00:59:03,639

Jacob: what

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00:59:03,639 --> 00:59:05,379

Chris: happens when you

get that spicy yellow stuff

:

00:59:05,524 --> 00:59:05,844

Jacob: Right.

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00:59:06,104 --> 00:59:06,404

You know?

:

00:59:06,999 --> 00:59:07,809

Well I was on the way over here.

:

00:59:07,809 --> 00:59:10,599

I was like, I was like, what am I

gonna, which 1:00 AM I gonna pick?

:

00:59:10,689 --> 00:59:13,329

And I was like, I know if the

proof's too low, Matt Ray's

:

00:59:13,329 --> 00:59:15,009

gonna gonna get ahold of me.

:

00:59:15,489 --> 00:59:15,759

Tyler: Yep.

:

00:59:15,759 --> 00:59:17,109

Jacob: I was like, so

I gotta make him proud.

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00:59:17,619 --> 00:59:18,129

Tyler: There you go.

:

00:59:18,219 --> 00:59:18,699

You did.

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00:59:18,819 --> 00:59:19,449

Chris: I think so.

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00:59:19,509 --> 00:59:20,079

For sure.

:

00:59:20,829 --> 00:59:25,179

So we're talking about what do you think

about this you've had after your sips?

:

00:59:25,179 --> 00:59:25,299

Jacob: Yeah.

:

00:59:25,299 --> 00:59:27,039

I think it, honestly, it's delightful.

:

00:59:27,039 --> 00:59:27,879

I really like it.

:

00:59:27,939 --> 00:59:28,809

Never had it before.

:

00:59:29,349 --> 00:59:33,249

Heard about it, seen it, you know, have,

have, you know, had it on a short list,

:

00:59:33,249 --> 00:59:35,199

but it would definitely move up the list.

:

00:59:35,199 --> 00:59:36,339

I thought it was really good, right.

:

00:59:36,519 --> 00:59:37,899

For being the proof that it was.

:

00:59:39,009 --> 00:59:41,649

It's definitely, it's sips I

think a little lower than that.

:

00:59:41,739 --> 00:59:42,129

Chris: I'd agree.

:

00:59:42,129 --> 00:59:44,709

Jacob: There's some spice and

there's some fire, but it's not,

:

00:59:45,249 --> 00:59:48,939

you know, you get into that one 13

to one 15, it's like, good morning.

:

00:59:48,969 --> 00:59:49,209

Chris: Yeah.

:

00:59:49,239 --> 00:59:49,509

Jacob: Yes.

:

00:59:49,509 --> 00:59:50,349

You know, hello.

:

00:59:51,279 --> 00:59:55,239

And, and this is, had a nice nose

on it and I think it got better as

:

00:59:55,239 --> 00:59:57,939

I sipped it, as it sat out a little

bit and breathed from the glass.

:

00:59:58,359 --> 01:00:01,119

So maybe a little bit of time

when you pour that, but it was,

:

01:00:01,239 --> 01:00:02,139

it was really, really good.

:

01:00:02,259 --> 01:00:02,529

Chris: Good.

:

01:00:02,619 --> 01:00:02,979

Tyler: Perfect.

:

01:00:03,249 --> 01:00:03,969

Chris: Glad you liked it.

:

01:00:03,969 --> 01:00:04,149

Jacob: Yeah.

:

01:00:04,149 --> 01:00:04,839

I appreciate that guys.

:

01:00:04,839 --> 01:00:05,019

POD:

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01:00:05,349 --> 01:00:05,889

Chris: Tyler.

:

01:00:07,404 --> 01:00:08,724

Tyler: Thanks so much for coming on.

:

01:00:08,724 --> 01:00:09,384

Jacob: No, thanks for having me

:

01:00:09,384 --> 01:00:09,564

Tyler: on that.

:

01:00:09,564 --> 01:00:12,024

And is there any way that anyone

could reach out to you or anything

:

01:00:12,024 --> 01:00:12,204

Jacob: like that?

:

01:00:12,489 --> 01:00:12,859

Reach, reach out?

:

01:00:12,859 --> 01:00:15,674

Yeah, so, I have a brick and mortar

store here in town AFR across the

:

01:00:15,674 --> 01:00:17,414

street from the old Defy Gravity.

:

01:00:17,594 --> 01:00:17,894

Tyler: Oh,

:

01:00:18,524 --> 01:00:18,584

Jacob: okay.

:

01:00:18,584 --> 01:00:20,474

It's called I forget what it's called.

:

01:00:20,564 --> 01:00:21,794

It has a new name now.

:

01:00:22,454 --> 01:00:22,504

Chris: Oh, is it?

:

01:00:22,504 --> 01:00:22,599

Okay.

:

01:00:22,709 --> 01:00:24,134

Jacob: It's still a trampoline place.

:

01:00:24,134 --> 01:00:24,194

Yeah,

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01:00:24,194 --> 01:00:24,524

Chris: trampoline.

:

01:00:24,524 --> 01:00:24,554

Jacob: Okay.

:

01:00:24,554 --> 01:00:26,294

It's just not Defy Gravity anymore.

:

01:00:26,294 --> 01:00:30,314

And so it's behind the ma my office is

behind Matthews Motors truck center.

:

01:00:30,794 --> 01:00:30,854

Oh, okay.

:

01:00:30,854 --> 01:00:33,704

So not the original Matthews Motors,

but that truck center right there.

:

01:00:33,704 --> 01:00:38,254

And so, you know, phone, email,

Facebook anyway, they wanna

:

01:00:38,254 --> 01:00:39,304

reach out would be great.

:

01:00:39,674 --> 01:00:41,354

We do high risk drivers.

:

01:00:41,354 --> 01:00:43,784

We do people who have no points as well.

:

01:00:43,784 --> 01:00:45,044

They, you know, right.

:

01:00:45,044 --> 01:00:45,224

Yeah.

:

01:00:45,224 --> 01:00:46,634

They're happy with no points as well.

:

01:00:46,634 --> 01:00:52,124

So, you know, my encouragement would

be to get a review, whether, you know,

:

01:00:52,124 --> 01:00:55,574

whether it's from me or whether it's

from somebody call your agent, Hey, it's

:

01:00:55,574 --> 01:00:56,954

been a few years, can we take a look?

:

01:00:57,629 --> 01:00:59,429

More than likely, there's

probably something out there

:

01:00:59,429 --> 01:01:00,779

that's worth taking a peek at.

:

01:01:00,839 --> 01:01:00,989

Yeah.

:

01:01:01,199 --> 01:01:05,159

And so it's I would say the insurance

side of things is just as important

:

01:01:05,159 --> 01:01:06,779

as reviewing all your other accounts.

:

01:01:06,869 --> 01:01:07,139

Chris: Right.

:

01:01:07,199 --> 01:01:10,829

Jacob: Reviewing, you know, meeting with

your finance and wealth guys mm-hmm.

:

01:01:11,069 --> 01:01:14,519

To make sure you've got, you know,

you, you probably have a better,

:

01:01:14,609 --> 01:01:17,189

I would assume most people have

a better grip of their assets.

:

01:01:17,549 --> 01:01:17,639

Right.

:

01:01:17,639 --> 01:01:21,149

I think it would be good to have

a grip on that liability as well.

:

01:01:21,539 --> 01:01:23,969

And to make sure that it's

balanced and covered well.

:

01:01:24,029 --> 01:01:24,839

Tyler: Yeah, exactly.

:

01:01:24,929 --> 01:01:26,549

Just having assets if

they're not protected.

:

01:01:26,819 --> 01:01:27,179

Jacob: That's right.

:

01:01:27,179 --> 01:01:27,389

Chris: True.

:

01:01:27,779 --> 01:01:33,659

So, 'cause I'm assuming you would

definitely tell your younger self some,

:

01:01:33,749 --> 01:01:37,259

something along those lines like, Hey,

you should always protect your assets,

:

01:01:37,529 --> 01:01:41,249

but outside of that, is there something

you would tell your younger self?

:

01:01:41,579 --> 01:01:43,139

Jacob: Oh man, that's good.

:

01:01:44,399 --> 01:01:49,919

I, I've gotten to the place where I, I,

although I would like things to maybe

:

01:01:49,919 --> 01:01:53,039

play out differently in certain areas

of my life, I'm glad they didn't because

:

01:01:53,039 --> 01:01:54,509

I am who I am today because of that.

:

01:01:54,569 --> 01:01:54,719

Chris: Hmm.

:

01:01:54,779 --> 01:01:54,839

If

:

01:01:55,289 --> 01:01:58,509

Jacob: I could tell something to my

younger self just keep your chin up

:

01:01:59,469 --> 01:01:59,829

Chris: nice.

:

01:01:59,829 --> 01:02:02,049

Jacob: Keep your chin up because

what's coming is gonna be better

:

01:02:02,049 --> 01:02:03,699

than anything you could ever imagine.

:

01:02:04,449 --> 01:02:04,539

Chris: Nice.

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01:02:05,229 --> 01:02:05,769

I love that.

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01:02:05,859 --> 01:02:07,719

Like it, I feel like that's

a good way to end it.

:

01:02:08,079 --> 01:02:10,869

Keep your chin up and we'll

catch you in the next one.

:

01:02:11,229 --> 01:02:11,709

Cheers.

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01:02:11,709 --> 01:02:12,099

Cheers.

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01:02:12,159 --> 01:02:12,579

Jacob: Cheers.

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