High-Risk Auto, Underinsured Homes & Legacy: Insurance Wisdom with Jacob Carroll | Whiskey Wisdom Podcast On the Whiskey Wisdom Podcast, co-hosts Tyler and Chris welcome Jacob Carroll, owner and agent of Superior Insurance, while they sip a 115-proof Yellowstone barrel pick and discuss flavor, seasons, and living near the coast. Jacob shares his move from Florida to North Carolina after a seven-day water fast that brought clarity and led to a youth pastor role, then into sales and ultimately insurance, where a mentor encouraged him to start his own agency. He explains helping “harder to insure” drivers (DUIs, points, suspended licenses, credit impacts), rising underwriting scrutiny like unlisted household drivers, and why insurance is required with plates or mortgages. The conversation also covers widespread home underinsurance amid rising values and premiums, replacement cost estimating, ethics, claim realities, and Jacob’s view of success as family legacy, mentorship, and being present for his kids. 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 00:52 Yellowstone Barrel Pick Tasting 02:40 Beach Life and Moving North 06:34 Fasting for Direction 09:11 From Car Sales to Insurance 14:28 Helping High Risk Drivers 20:22 Broker vs Underwriter Explained 23:33 Licensing Rules and New Drivers 26:11 Wilmington Traffic and Driving Culture 30:01 Road Rage Reality Check 31:41 Panic Buying Madness 33:08 Hurricane MRE Memories 35:37 Home Insurance Underinsured 43:16 Claims Limits Ethics 48:00 Advisor Mindset Shift 51:14 Defining Success Legacy 56:41 Mentors Modern Family 58:59 Whiskey Wrap Contact 01:01:27 Advice To Younger Self
Welcome back to the Whiskey Wisdom Podcast everybody.
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:I am your co-host, Tyler, and today I am
with my constant co-host Chris Kellum.
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:And our special guest today is
Jacob Carroll and he is the owner
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:and agent of Superior Insurance.
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:And we're bringing him on today because
he was gracious enough to save us.
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:'Cause we did not have someone for
12 o'clock because I am a slacker.
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:And something I wanted to bring up to
you too, I thought this was interesting
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:is I've seen you pop up on a lot of
different things on my social medias.
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:Yeah.
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:And I'm just like, you know what?
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:I need to reach out to him.
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:I need to talk to him.
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:And I was like, it's always been
on my radar for like, the past
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:few weeks to reach out to you.
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:Awesome.
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:And I put that out there.
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:You were like the first person
to reach back out and I was like.
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:This is it.
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:This is the time.
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:Jacob: The stars of the wine.
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:Tyler: Exactly.
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:So thank you so much for coming on.
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:I greatly appreciate it.
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:Jacob: No, thank you guys.
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:Excited to be here.
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:Tyler: Looking forward
to a fun conversation.
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:Yes.
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:Before we dive into it, Chris,
what are we sipping on today?
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:Chris: So today we're sipping
on a barrel pick of Yellowstone.
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:This bad boy is 115 proof.
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:Tyler: There we go.
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:Chris: and I think technically I
can't, I'm horrible at trying to
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:read these bottles 'cause that
would look slightly different.
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:But I want to say that it went in in 2017.
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:'cause that would make sense.
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:'cause that would put it
at like an eight year.
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:Tyler: Yeah.
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:Chris: If it came out in 2025.
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:Yeah.
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:But it was put in in November so it was
a little bit colder of a time instead
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:of like starting it in those hot months.
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:Problem with barrel picks, you
can't really look up those flavor
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:notes and stuff like we usually
do, but I'm excited to taste it
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:'cause it smells a little spicy.
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:And the look on your face as it might be.
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:It's,
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:Jacob: it's nice.
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:Chris: this we mentioned a friend of the
podcast, Matt Ray, who loves some spicy
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:stuff and I think he would like this.
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:Jacob: He, he would,
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:Chris: but yeah.
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:Cheers fellas.
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:Jacob: Cheers.
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:Chris: You go.
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:It smells nice though.
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:Tyler: Mm-hmm.
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:It's hot.
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:It's good though.
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:Jacob: It's very good.
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:Tyler: Is that a great, Hmm.
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:Favorite profile, Chuck?
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:Jacob: Yeah.
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:It, it packs a punch, but
it's not over the top.
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:Chris: No.
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:Jacob: Very manageable.
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:Chris: So, you know, my seasonal
depression's over so we talk but I like to
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:get back into my seasonal drinking style.
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:This to me is definitely, I
would say it's a February drink.
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:Jacob: Yeah.
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:Chris: Like the end of spring where
it's a little bit, or the end of winter
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:where it's starting to warm up a little
bit, but it's still kind of cold.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:I think this would be a
good time to drink this.
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:'cause it's, it'll warm
you up, but not like,
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:Jacob: yeah.
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:When we were covered in snow.
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:Right.
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:I'd, I'd warm up the
room, that's for sure.
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:Chris: Oh gosh, for sure.
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:Done debating on the seasons.
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:I'm assuming you don't like cold weather.
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:Jacob: No, no.
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:Not at all.
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:Chris: Is that why you live here?
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:Jacob: Yeah.
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:B born in Florida, so
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:Chris: Okay.
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:Jacob: On the east coast.
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:Used, grew up at the beach or
near the beach and so, Wilmington
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:was an option and moved here.
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:Definitely for the beach.
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:Be close.
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:There is something beautiful about
the coastal air being near the sea.
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:Actually my wife and I are not huge
fans of the beach, but our children
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:devour it and love it, so we are,
we have learned to love the sand.
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:It's been good.
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:Tyler: That is the worst part of it.
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:It is.
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:It's the sand that just follows you in.
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:Chris: Yeah, for sure.
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:Three days later.
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:Yes.
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:Tyler: Right.
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:Chris: It's almost like going
to strip club all the glitter.
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:I wouldn't know anything about it.
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:I just heard stories of it.
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:Which is always hilarious
to hear those things.
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:So you, you're from Florida?
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:Jacob: Yep.
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:Chris: I'm assuming you didn't
move up here for the military.
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:Jacob: No,
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:Chris: I didn't.
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:You had to pick it out.
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:I didn't, not How'd you, how'd
you get from the Great Sunshine
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:State to the halfway state?
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:Jacob: That's a, that's
a great, that's a great
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:Tyler: question.
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:Hey, Chris, can you to Jacob's Micro Yeah.
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:If you can.
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:A little bit.
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:Yep.
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:Perfect.
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:Jacob: If I twist to me, it should lock,
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:Tyler: other way I think, or no?
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:Is that Yeah, that's better.
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:Okay.
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:Yeah.
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:Jacob: Cool.
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:That better
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:Tyler: always do.
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:Jacob: Sweet.
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:Tyler: Let's take it.
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:Chris: Sweet.
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:We bought the cheapest stand, so they're
like, over time, they want to get
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:Jacob: Sure, sure.
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:Chris: Looser.
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:Tyler: I meant to buy new
ones this weekend, but
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:Jacob: Good.
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:Chris: Here
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:Tyler: we are.
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:Yep.
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:Good to go.
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:Cool.
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:Perfect.
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:Thank you.
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:Jacob: Yeah.
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:So, grew up in a coastal town in Florida.
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:My dad worked in the same
business that his dad did.
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:Tyler: Oh, wow.
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:Jacob: I didn't want to be I,
I wanted to blaze my own path.
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:Okay.
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:And so decided to move
up to North Carolina.
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:I worked at a summer camp for a few years.
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:I met a fabulous couple who pastors
a church in Wallace about 40 minutes
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:up the road from here in Wilmington.
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:They reached out to me when I was still at
junior college and said, Hey, we want you
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:to come up here and be our youth pastor.
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:And I was like, I don't know about that.
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:I'm, I'm still trying to figure it out.
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:And so, I fasted for
seven days, just water.
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:Oh, wow.
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:And I was like, if I'm gonna leave
home and do something different,
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:I need to, I need to know.
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:And a lot of my friends
thought I was nuts.
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:They still do.
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:But I did.
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:I, I fasted for seven days,
just water about day five.
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:I sensed it was something was
coming, it was time to go.
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:So I packed up my station wagon and my
mother and I drove to up to Wallace.
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:And that would've been in.
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:2012 probably.
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:Oh wow.
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:Okay.
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:February of 2012 actually.
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:And she got a one way ticket back.
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:I believe it was Allegiant at the time.
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:Oh yeah.
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:Flying from Wilmington
to back towards Orlando.
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:And so I've been up here, I
worked up there for about three
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:years and ended up moving down to
Wilmington and finding a new job.
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:And through that job landed in insurance.
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:And about five years after working
for myself in sales, I started to
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:laugh because that's what my dad does.
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:Tyler: Oh yeah.
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:Jacob: So I tried to do my thing
and I was brought back into that.
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:And so, but yeah, so it's
been really beautiful.
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:This is a fabulous town.
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:I think it's, you know, it's
growing just uncontrollably, so yes.
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:I don't know if I love that part
of it keep, keeps me busy at
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:work, but as the traffic gets to
intensify and more people come, we
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:can't build any more east Exactly.
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:Water.
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:And so, Pender County and
Brunswick County are exploding.
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:Yeah.
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:We're kind of landlocked
here in New Hanover and so
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:Chris: yeah.
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:Jacob: But really just love it.
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:When my wife was a student at UNCW,
we met through mutual friends and
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:she decided to keep me around.
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:And so we've been, we've been
married 10 years in July.
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:Have three kids, six, four, and
two, and just really love this.
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:This is, this is our home and so
she has direct family a couple
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:hours away and so that's, you
know, a great reason to stay put.
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:And just Wilmington has been
just a wonderful place to be.
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:Really enjoy it here.
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:I like
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:Tyler: it.
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:That's awesome.
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:So, starting back a little bit earlier
in your story and then we'll move.
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:Jacob: Sure.
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:Tyler: Most recent, you said you
fasted for seven, seven days.
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:Jacob: Yeah.
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:Tyler: I heard that it
gives a lot of clarity.
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:Does fast for like a full seven days.
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:Sure.
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:I don't think I've ever
gotten to seven before.
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:I think I got to like four.
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:It was like the max.
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:Is that something that you really
noticed too while you were fasting?
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:It does bring a whole, yeah.
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:New sense of clarity.
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:Jacob: It was unbelievable.
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:I mean, I, I would say.
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:Some people, depending on where you're
at in your faith I would say I heard an
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:audible voice of the Lord in that moment.
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:Tyler: Yeah.
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:Jacob: 36.
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:And I've been following
the Lord since I was 13.
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:It's only happened once.
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:Tyler: Yeah.
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:Jacob: It was in that moment.
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:The first 48 hours.
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:Pretty rough.
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:Chris: Mm-hmm.
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:Jacob: There was some breakthrough
on day three and I, I, by the time I
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:got to day seven, it was just water
and it was, everything was fine.
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:But by the fifth day, I heard go.
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Jacob: So I got in the car, packed
it up, cranked it up, and drove.
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:And so it was I kind of kicked
myself 'cause I don't fast enough.
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:It's, I I think it's a regular rhythm.
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Jacob: I, I know the, the word says
not if you fast, it says when you fast.
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:And so, you know, it's, it's
been interesting because there
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:are types of fast you can do.
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:You know, I'm gonna fast social
media, I'm gonna give this up,
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:I'm gonna give this up dry.
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:January's pretty popular.
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:Chris: Mm-hmm.
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:Jacob: You know, but I, I would argue that
new Testament biblical fasting is food.
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:And so that brings out on seven days.
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:That brings out a lot of weakness in
anyone who would be willing to do that.
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:I actually have a friend
who just did 40 days
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:Tyler: Oh wow.
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:Jacob: Animal.
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:And just getting to hear his story.
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:I was like, maybe one day, maybe not.
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:So
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:Tyler: Yeah.
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:Jacob: But yeah, just absolute
extreme clarity in that week.
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:And I mean, even my friends,
I'd go to lunch with 'em.
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:Aren't you gonna get something?
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:I just water.
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:Yeah.
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:Because I was just committed.
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:I was like, if I'm gonna uproot and make
this kind of decision, move four states
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:away, potentially, hopefully find a wife.
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:Tyler: Right.
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:Jacob: Get into some business
and have some children.
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:I need to know, because I had
a couple options on the table.
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:There was a, a potential job in Texas.
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:I was like a camp job.
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:I was looking at, I love
being a camp counselor.
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:I wanted to be a camp director.
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:Tyler: Okay.
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:Jacob: And so I was kind of
making moves towards that.
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:And then the youth pastor
job came up and great time.
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:I'm glad to say.
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:Yeah, in 2026, I don't do that anymore.
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:Tyler: Yeah,
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:Jacob: it was a really sweet
season and a really sweet rhythm.
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:But teenagers are teenagers,
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:Tyler: right.
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:Jacob: And I learned a ton of what to do,
and I learned a ton of what not to do.
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:But yeah, glad, glad to get here.
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:And this has been home for I mean,
we're going on like 15 years.
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:I can't believe it.
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:Tyler: Yeah,
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:Jacob: she, so it's it's
a beautiful place to be.
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:Tyler: Thank you.
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:Awesome.
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:What got you into insurance and was
that something that your dad did?
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:So it was kind of in the past, or
was it, or is it just sales that
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:Jacob: year?
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:Yeah, sales, sales in general.
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:So my, my granddad, I would say let's see.
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:They, my dad was born in Ohio and my,
my granddad was in the, I guess you
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:would say in the retail side of the car
business and did very well for himself.
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:Tyler: Okay.
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:Jacob: they got tired of the snow
and they heard about Florida say
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:in the, this would be, let's.
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:Oh
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:Okay.
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:Jacob: Took a trip for a couple
weeks, kind of scouted it out
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:and landed in the satellite beach
area, kinda near Cape Canaveral.
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:And that's, that's where they grew up.
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:And then ended up moving
down to Vera Beach.
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:And so, after a few years of that,
my dad, I think a funny story.
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:My granddad went outta town for either
a family function or something back to
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:Ohio, and he had six cars at home and when
he came back, my dad sold all of them.
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:And he was 16 years old.
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:He had sold all of them.
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:And so they've been selling mostly
wholesale for the most part.
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:Jacob: Auctions going all over
the place and they've been doing
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:Get to go to auctions, get to
meet, you know, I will say car
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Jacob: I would like to, to if,
if my dad ever does watch this,
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:he is not one of those guys.
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:But when you work in certain.
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:You can then see why certain things
get reputations the way they are.
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:Chris: Yeah, yeah.
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:Jacob: And so I didn't wanna, I
was like, ah, sales I don't know.
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:And so, I was working, I was in
sales here for the Stevenson group.
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:I met a guy, his name's Matthew, and he
said, I want you to come work for me.
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:And I said, that's too much of
a pay cut as far as an agent.
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:I can't, I can't make the jump.
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:And about a, a year and a half later,
I called him after working in the
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:I was like, these hours are killing me.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:I'm making great money.
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:I got nowhere when I got outta work.
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:Everything's closed.
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:Right.
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:And so he said, yeah, come on.
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:And as we were, I was working for him
for about a year and he called me in
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:his office and he had tears in his eyes
and I was like, I've made an e and o.
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:And he was like, I had a dream.
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:And I was like, alright, what's up?
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:He goes Lord told me to
put you into business.
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:I opened or took over
an office in Hampstead.
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:Chris: Mm-hmm.
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:Jacob: looking back, maybe
should have stayed in Hampstead.
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Jacob: This was almost, so
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:I was in Hampstead for about six months
before I moved to the Ogden area.
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Jacob: And Hampstead
has exploded since then.
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:But glad to be in the
Wilmington, in the Ogden area.
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:We do a lot with Car lots and so Market
Street, if you're, if anyone in the
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:Chris: Yep.
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:Jacob: It's Car Lot
Central on Market Street.
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:So it's been very good
for business to be there.
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:And so, yeah, because he called
me in his office and he believed
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:in me, saw something in me Yeah.
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:Maybe that I didn't even see in myself.
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:And so in 2013 we created
the business entity.
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:I signed my life away to a contract.
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:And I have been trying to provide great
insurance coverage home and auto mostly.
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:Since that date and really just
love being able to help people.
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Jacob: And so it, it does, I
would say, kind of coincides.
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:It can coincide ministry wise
because you just get to, you
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:never know who you're gonna meet.
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:Tyler: Right.
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:Jacob: I've met, I have
customers from landfall.
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:I have customers from sixth
Street, I have everywhere.
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:And something I got instilled
early on, you treat the janitor
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:Tyler: Absolutely.
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:Jacob: Everybody deserves respect.
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:You know, I've got customers
with a bunch of cars.
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:I've got customers with maybe
one, there's motorcycles, there's
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:houses, there's renters insurance.
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:Right.
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:And then when they come by
with the cool car to show me,
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:seen some Maseratis, it's like,
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:Chris: whoa.
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:Tyler: That's
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:Offer a ride.
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:Tyler: Yep.
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:Jacob: Never asked to drive
yet, but I have ridden in a few.
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:And so yeah, it's been
it's been really sweet's.
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:The people business.
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:Tyler: Yeah.
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:Jacob: Everything.
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:I mean, what you guys do,
it's people buy people
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:Tyler: Exactly.
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:Jacob: And so they're, they're
buying that relationship.
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:They're buying that experience,
they're buying that trust.
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:It's 'cause I will say the downside
of the insurance game is there
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:Chris: Right?
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:Jacob: But that can be a good side too.
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:Chris: True.
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:Jacob: So, you know, I've had to
meet with customers and say, Hey,
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:this is just not a great fit.
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:Chris: Mm-hmm.
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:Jacob: But the good news is
there are wonderful people.
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:I can even, I've even referred
people to other people.
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:Chris: Yeah.
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:Jacob: Hey, this is a friend of mine.
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:They're a much better fit
and everybody's happy.
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:Tyler: Yeah.
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:Jacob: So that was it's been
just really sweet to do that.
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:Tyler: Let's pause real quick,
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:Chris: because Thank you.
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:I, I saw that.
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:I was like,
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:Tyler: I think,
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:Chris: what's going on?
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:Is it too far out?
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:Can I bring it a little closer this way?
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:Yeah.
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:I'll just reorganize this.
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:Hopefully that will stay.
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:Jacob: Sorry about that.
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:No, you're good.
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:And there's me
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:Tyler: there.
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:I had to get off it.
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:When I was reading through the
profile that you filled out for us,
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:it said that you specialize in getting
people insurance that probably a
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:Sure.
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:Yeah, that's something I'm really
interested in just 'cause I'm
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:like, how, like I'm blessed that
like I don't have points on my
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:But I've always wondered how do we
insure people like that and like what
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:Jacob: Yeah.
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:I would, it is funny you asked that
because it was this week, so I've been
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have we had probably 14 years total.
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:And I saw something, I pulled a
motor vehicle report this week.
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:It was the first time I've
ever seen this charge.
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:And I was like, what the heck?
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:I'm on the phone with a customer and
it was a 10 point traffic violation.
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:Tyler: Holy crap.
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:Jacob: It said racing.
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:And I was like, oh, this is,
this is less than enjoyable.
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:And so I said, what happened?
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:He said, 133 miles an hour
in a Dodge Challenger.
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:And
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:Chris: I went, what?
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:Jacob: was the cop driving to catch
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:Chris: you?
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:I know.
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:Jacob: Real.
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:And so, ultimately overall didn't
end up capturing that policy that the
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:That was about a thousand
dollars a month for that policy.
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:Don't blame him.
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:That seems to like a lot to me.
489
:Mm-hmm.
490
:And so, you know, DUIs,
accidents you know, I'm not pro
491
:drinking and driving at all.
492
:As the restrictions have tightened,
it has become very, a lot easier
493
:to, to then below that limit.
494
:You're over the legal limit.
495
:You get a DUI, you know, I
only had two glasses of wine.
496
:Well, that's all it takes.
497
:That's the rules.
498
:Obey the rules.
499
:You don't get a DUI.
500
:Chris: Yep.
501
:Jacob: That's, you know,
that's kinda how that works.
502
:But accidents and points suspended
or revoke license that happens.
503
:Yeah.
504
:If you have a traffic violation
and you go to court, but you don't
505
:pay the traffic fine, you would
then you don't pay the court cost.
506
:Right.
507
:They could drop the ticket, but
if you don't pay the court cost,
508
:they're gonna suspend your license.
509
:Chris: Yeah.
510
:Jacob: And so, you still need insurance.
511
:You know, it's, it's one of the
joys about doing what we do as far
512
:as home or auto in North Carolina.
513
:If you have a license plate on your
vehicle or you have a mortgage on your
514
:home, you're required by law to carry
515
:Chris: insurance,
516
:Jacob: some form of insurance.
517
:And so, selling things that people have
to have is good, but because they have
518
:to have it, that means the market is.
519
:Tyler: Exactly.
520
:Jacob: Oversaturated.
521
:Yes.
522
:So that's always fun.
523
:And how do you do that?
524
:But yeah, just being a, being a place
where people can land that might get
525
:treated every, we have a nice niche
in what we do to offer a service to
526
:folks who maybe have been treated, I
don't wanna say unfairly, but every
527
:insurance company has a customer
or a client they're looking for.
528
:Chris: Yeah.
529
:Right.
530
:Jacob: And which is fine.
531
:So that's how you, that's
how you run good business.
532
:But we've found a business in having
open hands and open arms because certain
533
:carriers will, even, they, they might not
offer physical damage or full coverage.
534
:Mm-hmm.
535
:If you have x amount of points
or if you have these situations,
536
:and if you're financing a car
and then this happens to you,
537
:Chris: right.
538
:Jacob: Your finance company doesn't
necessarily care that this happened.
539
:They want, they still need covered.
540
:Right.
541
:You signed a, a legally
binding contract, and so.
542
:Being able to help other
agencies has been super helpful.
543
:I have relationships through Farm
Bureau, through State Farm Oh yeah.
544
:And things like that as far as that goes.
545
:And so just being a, you know, hey a
lot of companies will also credit check
546
:and so depending on where your score is,
you might have a decent driving record,
547
:but if your score's not high enough,
you're gonna get a different rate.
548
:And so we do offer some
companies who don't credit
549
:check but most do now in 2026.
550
:And so, just being able to be there for
people who need it, word of mouth gets
551
:around, Hey, Jacob took great care of me.
552
:Go over there, get referrals are just
553
:Tyler: right.
554
:Jacob: You could sell vacuums, jewelry,
insurance, doesn't matter if somebody
555
:refers that customer to you and
it's a warm lead, it's lights out.
556
:Yeah.
557
:Yeah.
558
:You know, and so, it has been, it's been
a really beautiful journey to spend time
559
:with people as well as sometimes things
happen to people that they didn't expect.
560
:They don't get a fair shake.
561
:Something happens.
562
:I still wanna be able to provide
a service for that, you know?
563
:And, and we've been able to do that.
564
:We've been able to meet people
where they are, love them in their
565
:mess, and sometimes they stay in
it, sometimes they get out of it.
566
:That doesn't, you know, that doesn't
necessarily bother us that much.
567
:You know, and, and with insurance you
get a, a percentage of the commission.
568
:Chris: Mm-hmm.
569
:Jacob: So, you know, depending
on what line of insurance you
570
:sell, your commission rate varies.
571
:For us, we have to sell
a lot of it mm-hmm.
572
:To make up for the, the premium,
the percentage premium from
573
:the auto and the home line.
574
:And that's fine.
575
:But yeah, just treating people
that walk in, you know, I don't,
576
:I, I know what you're coming for.
577
:Chris: Right.
578
:Jacob: I know why you're calling
and I hope that your experience
579
:with us would be enjoyable.
580
:'cause especially with SEO and all
the analytics and things, Google
581
:reviews are still important.
582
:And so, I mean, you don't do
it for the Google Review, but
583
:if it does happen that Exactly.
584
:Hey, I was calling.
585
:People with my office in the Ogden area.
586
:I just looked you up.
587
:No problem.
588
:Send them what they need.
589
:That's awesome.
590
:And then I'm a, I'm a neighborhood name
and face that hopefully that would then
591
:be able to service the area that we live.
592
:And so it's nice.
593
:We're licensed in all of
North Carolina right now.
594
:And so I have some customers
out in the mountains.
595
:Okay.
596
:Have some beach homes.
597
:We have some vacation homes,
Airbnb homes, the secondary
598
:renter's market as well as auto.
599
:I have customers in Charlotte
and Raleigh all over.
600
:Nice.
601
:So that's been very nice to be able
to kind of assist to whoever needs it.
602
:Tyler: Yeah.
603
:So you need to kind of go into
that a little bit too because the
604
:next guest we have on after you
is a criminal defense attorney.
605
:Oh, very nice.
606
:So that'll be a really
interesting Be crossroads there.
607
:Yeah.
608
:Jacob: Put those together.
609
:Tyler: Exactly.
610
:So are you the actual like broker
or the underwriter, or both?
611
:Jacob: Yeah, so, so I am I
own the book of business.
612
:Tyler: Okay.
613
:Jacob: And I'm a part of, I'm not
a franchise, but I'm under the,
614
:the banner of superior insurance.
615
:Tyler: Okay.
616
:Jacob: And so, with that I have I
would say we have seven different
617
:home c carriers we write with, we have
seven different auto carriers we write
618
:with, and then we have some we do some
commercial as well from my office.
619
:And every agency's kind of set up similar
to, you know, similar with contracts, but
620
:certain people run after certain things.
621
:Chris: Right, right.
622
:Jacob: And so, we are the broker
signed up to sell with these companies.
623
:We do underwrite a portion of that
get submitted the company that
624
:underwrites the rest to make sure
that we are submitting the true
625
:things that the customer has told us.
626
:And so that's been on the rise recently.
627
:The, the mis material misrepresentation.
628
:Technically every auto insurance
company, I would say all of them.
629
:I, I hope I can speak for all of them.
630
:They want people 14 and above listed
on the policy, even if they're not
631
:gonna drive because Interesting.
632
:There, there have been a ton of
claims of unlisted or unnamed drivers.
633
:Chris: Mm-hmm.
634
:And
635
:Jacob: what would happen was if we
were living together and, you know, you
636
:are my son and you got a DUI, if I add
you on my policy, it's gonna triple.
637
:So why would I do that?
638
:Well, why you should do that
is, Hey, we're out of bread.
639
:Here's my keys.
640
:You go to the store, get an
accident, they're not charging the
641
:proper premium for you to do that.
642
:Tyler: Oh, I see.
643
:Jacob: And so trying to fight against
rate evasion, trying to make sure that
644
:we're playing by the rules that we should.
645
:Tyler: Yeah.
646
:Jacob: And so the unlisted drivers is, is
a pretty big deal in the last few years.
647
:And so there every company we've dealt
with and oh, there's have really been
648
:tightening that down to say, Hey.
649
:Who's in the home, how
many drivers we got.
650
:Chris: Right.
651
:Jacob: Well even roommates.
652
:It's weird 'cause a lot of people in this
market and this economy, it's hard to just
653
:go out and buy a house or live by yourself
right now when rent is economical.
654
:And so they would, companies
would even want to have your
655
:roommates listed on your policy.
656
:You can list as other insurance since
you probably both have auto insurance,
657
:but there are some hoops to kind of
jump through now in 26 that we didn't
658
:have to do back when I started.
659
:Tyler: Interesting.
660
:Jacob: Yeah.
661
:Chris: So it makes sense.
662
:'cause like 14 and a half, I
guess you can start Driver's ed.
663
:Which still makes me laugh because I got,
I took driver's ed as early as I could
664
:to right at 14 and a half and I get in
the car and the teacher's like, okay, so
665
:you know, go ahead, put it in reverse.
666
:We're going here.
667
:And I'm like, yeah, I've never been
in this part, in this seat before.
668
:Yeah.
669
:Yeah.
670
:So you're gonna have
to walk me through it.
671
:And then I looked over to the car
beside me and the, the girl was
672
:just like, whoop, just whip it out.
673
:And I'm like, oh.
674
:So we don't all play by the same rules,
675
:Jacob: that's for sure.
676
:Chris: Yeah.
677
:My mom would've been like, no.
678
:Even when I had finished driver's ed, she
would, she wouldn't let me drive the car
679
:through the church parking lot to pick
her up so she didn't have to walk as far.
680
:Jacob: Yeah.
681
:Chris: She's like, no.
682
:So it's interesting.
683
:It makes sense that they, why they
have to get as low as like 14.
684
:Jacob: Yeah.
685
:Yeah.
686
:And in North Carolina, they
cannot charge you for inexperience
687
:until you're licensed.
688
:And so, if you're a permanent
driver, sometimes parents can be
689
:kind of, you know, I don't know.
690
:But if you add your permitted
driver, your rates won't go up.
691
:It's when they get licensed.
692
:So in North Carolina you have to have a DL
1, 2, 3 to take it to the DMV to pass it.
693
:Or you take the, the, the
written and the driven test.
694
:Mm-hmm.
695
:You have a form called a DL 1
2 3 DL for driver's license.
696
:Mm-hmm.
697
:And you hand that to them showing
that you do have insurance.
698
:They then give you your driver's
license if you pass the test.
699
:And then that's when things can become,
and I think it's been inter, some
700
:of the most interesting things are
that I've tried to talk to parents
701
:with this generation, my kid's not
ready and my kid doesn't want to.
702
:I've told them these stories that
we've had customers come from, say
703
:bigger cities like Chicago or New York.
704
:Yeah.
705
:Never been licensed before.
706
:'cause they haven't had to.
707
:Chris: Oh yeah.
708
:Jacob: But if they're 50 years old
and never been licensed, they pay the
709
:same rate that a 16-year-old driver
that's never been licensed does
710
:Chris: wild.
711
:Jacob: Because in North Carolina,
because they've never been
712
:licensed, they have no experience.
713
:Chris: Okay.
714
:Jacob: That does
715
:Chris: make sense.
716
:Jacob: Interesting.
717
:Well, you've taken the bus, you've
taken the train, the subway,
718
:however you've gotten around.
719
:Tyler: Yeah.
720
:Jacob: Well now that you live somewhere
in the Wilmington area or, you know, we
721
:don't really offer that like the bigger
cities do, and so you have to get a
722
:license and they're like, well I'm 50.
723
:Sorry.
724
:I understand.
725
:And
726
:Tyler: you still haven't
727
:Jacob: driven
728
:Tyler: cars.
729
:Jacob: That's right.
730
:That's right.
731
:And so that can be a interesting
pill to swallow for certain folks.
732
:Yeah.
733
:Tyler: Wow.
734
:That's interesting.
735
:Chris: That is, well,
that does make sense.
736
:Yeah.
737
:Like our, we had a coworker who was
from New York and lived there for like
738
:almost 20 years and then moved down here
and there's no public transportation.
739
:And watching,
740
:Tyler: well, you can, it'll just
take five hours to get across town.
741
:Yeah.
742
:Chris: I mean, when you, when you live
in like Offwhite Road and then you're
743
:coming to Mayfair, it's a 10 minute
drive, but if you need to catch a bus,
744
:you gotta leave an hour early Sure.
745
:To get hit the right buses.
746
:But just watching her drive was hilarious.
747
:The first couple, like months because
she's like, I haven't driven in
748
:like, an extended amount of time.
749
:Yeah.
750
:And I just, I was like, oh.
751
:So, but you saying that they have diff
like your insurance is rated on the fact
752
:that you haven't really had a license.
753
:Correct.
754
:And I was like,
755
:Tyler: eh.
756
:It is a good point though.
757
:'cause like even if I don't drive for a
week, like if I go on vacation somewhere
758
:and I don't drive for a week, it is kind
of weird getting back behind a wheel's.
759
:Like I can't imagine being this
age and have never driven before.
760
:Jacob: Yeah.
761
:Tyler: Ain't getting behind
like the wheel of a vehicle.
762
:Jacob: Oh yeah.
763
:That was especially here,
764
:Tyler: right?
765
:You got that right.
766
:Jacob: It's unbelievable.
767
:The, the, I mean, college road.
768
:I mean my, we, I joke with my friends.
769
:I have a ton of friends who live in
Pine Valley and 2 8 4 0 9 2 8 4 1 2.
770
:And I'm like, I'll I'll see you one day.
771
:I just don't know when.
772
:Right.
773
:Yeah.
774
:But that, that college road in
Olender light is unbelievable.
775
:So
776
:Tyler: Yeah.
777
:Jacob: Now we live in Ogden, so
we kind of stay on this side.
778
:Chris: Yeah,
779
:Tyler: yeah.
780
:Jacob: But you know, it's
like, hey, you wanna come?
781
:Like, can we meet at the mall?
782
:Can we meet somewhere?
783
:This side der because.
784
:In the morning and in the
afternoon or in the evening.
785
:Tyler: Mm-hmm.
786
:Jacob: The rush hour times that
you've gotta sit through that
787
:three or four times a month.
788
:Tyler: Exactly.
789
:Jacob: It's only gonna get worse.
790
:Tyler: I used to live in Monkey
Junction and that was the main
791
:reason why I moved to Leland.
792
:Jacob: Yeah.
793
:Tyler: I was like, if I'm especially gonna
take me 30 minutes to get to Mayfair.
794
:Jacob: Yeah.
795
:Tyler: I'd rather take MLK and or
the bypass to get to get here as
796
:opposed to just hitting every single
red light behind every single bus.
797
:Jacob: It's tough.
798
:Chris: We were talking, we had Kelly
Roberts on, he was talking about
799
:like, they had a, some cities have
that tech that can actually like,
800
:yes, I hate ai, but they can still
read this traffic situation and like
801
:change the timeframe for the light.
802
:Wow.
803
:So it'll, you're not every morning at
5:00 AM sitting at a light waiting,
804
:you know, three minutes because
it's always a three minute light.
805
:It's like, oh, there's no one here.
806
:Let's flip it up.
807
:Okay.
808
:We'll do an adjustment here and here.
809
:I was like, that would be amazing.
810
:In.
811
:Especially on those big lights
where it's like, okay, cool.
812
:You do it here and then the like
three, four lights away from it.
813
:So you're not all congestion, but you're
not sitting, waiting, sitting, waiting.
814
:Right.
815
:And it doesn't help that Wilmington is
a tourist trap and a college town and
816
:a destination for everyone who retires
and doesn't wanna get to Florida.
817
:Mm-hmm.
818
:So everyone I know is like,
God, the traffic here sucks.
819
:I'm like, no, no, y'all suck
because you learned how to drive
820
:in a completely different state.
821
:Different
822
:Jacob: Sure.
823
:Chris: And then moved here and you're
like, you guys drive different.
824
:I'm like, well, yeah.
825
:You have people from Ohio, Philly,
New York, Jersey, Wilmington, like
826
:everyone drives different and we're
in the south, we want to be chill.
827
:Should people be on their
phones at a stoplight?
828
:No.
829
:But I should also not be mad
that grandpa is driving on a
830
:Sunday afternoon going 35 just.
831
:Cruising and we're Hong
832
:Jacob: Kong, well we have
our traffic issues here, but
833
:just go to Charlotte or go to
834
:Tyler: true that
835
:Jacob: and you come, go to Atlanta and
you come back and you're like, Hmm,
836
:Tyler: it's not
837
:Jacob: that bad.
838
:Not that bad.
839
:No, I thought it was, it's not.
840
:So, you know, 'cause I will, after I
made a few jokes about Pine Valley,
841
:I'm like, it really is only 25 minutes.
842
:So that's, I mean, some people
are doing an hour to work in the
843
:Raleigh, the greater Raleigh area.
844
:Chris: Yeah.
845
:Yeah.
846
:Jacob: Twice a day, every day.
847
:And so I'm like, okay, yes, it has
gotten, and you any topic you wanna
848
:talk about, you go to some social
media comments and it is just poison.
849
:Chris: Yes.
850
:Jacob: Gasoline and matches.
851
:And it's like, we love to
just vomit everything we know.
852
:I always say the greatest thing about
social media is everybody has a voice.
853
:The worst thing about social media
is everybody has a voice, right?
854
:Chris: Yes.
855
:Jacob: And so, yes.
856
:Are there issues in Wilmington?
857
:Yes.
858
:Do they need to be addressed?
859
:Yes.
860
:But.
861
:Zoom out some.
862
:Mm-hmm.
863
:Let's go 30,000.
864
:Chris: Mm-hmm.
865
:Jacob: The traffic here,
it can be congested.
866
:It's not Raleigh, it's not
Charlotte, it's not Atlanta.
867
:We'll take it.
868
:Chris: Yeah,
869
:Jacob: exactly.
870
:Chris: Oh, we'll gladly take it.
871
:I saw something this is a while
ago about like, what is the point?
872
:Getting mad and yelling at
the car in front of you.
873
:'cause one, they're not gonna hear you.
874
:And like, you can't affect
them even if you're yelling.
875
:So like, just take a second breathe.
876
:Which stems off my friend who's
from Baltimore, who told me, she's
877
:like, you don't honk the horn unless
you're willing to get out the car.
878
:And
879
:Jacob: I need, I needed to
hear that, so thank you.
880
:So
881
:Chris: like, in the back
of my head, I always pause.
882
:I'm like, do I want, Nope, I'm
not, I, I won't get out the car.
883
:Sure.
884
:I've only honked the horn maybe
five times in the last like 10
885
:years because of that thought.
886
:It's like, okay.
887
:You know?
888
:Yes.
889
:They're going slow.
890
:They're stopped at a stoplight.
891
:I had, I had one lady honking at me
trying to get through, like school traffic
892
:through a back neighborhood, and she was
honking and I, I sat there and it was on
893
:and off for like a solid five, 10 minutes.
894
:And I got out the car and she stopped.
895
:She's like, what are you doing?
896
:I'm like, you're honking at me.
897
:Tyler: Sure.
898
:I thought you wanted to talk.
899
:Chris: Isn't that the point of this?
900
:And she, and she got real quiet
and like turned around and went
901
:a different direction for sure.
902
:I'm like, I'm not, yes,
I'm a big black man.
903
:I'm not gonna beat you up.
904
:Like, I know where I'm gonna end up
if I start swinging, but I want to.
905
:I'm like, why are we honking?
906
:We're in a school district.
907
:You gotta understand it'll be, and
it, then it also, like I said, it
908
:makes you think about those things.
909
:Jacob: Yeah.
910
:Chris: And then it all helps explain why
insurance rates are so stupid sometimes.
911
:Jacob: Yeah.
912
:It's, it's like that meme you see of like
when the, a picture of the belt loop on
913
:your pants gets stuck on the kitchen.
914
:Yes.
915
:But it only happens at the
worst possible moments mm-hmm.
916
:Of your life.
917
:Yeah,
918
:Chris: exactly.
919
:Jacob: If we left 15
to 20 minutes earlier,
920
:Chris: yeah, you'd be fine.
921
:Jacob: And it, it's taken me
25 years to figure this out.
922
:Those red lights are
still the same red lights.
923
:I'm just less mad because I left
a little bit sooner because I'm
924
:like, every time I leave I hit every
red light and it's like, no, I'm
925
:actually noticing because I'm behind.
926
:I should, uh uh, and then it's
some personal accountability and
927
:responsibility would go a long way.
928
:Yes.
929
:In that, and probably many areas as
well, but everybody, I think it's
930
:pretty interesting as we are working
h, you know, the finally into:
931
:everybody seems to be in each other's way.
932
:Yeah.
933
:Whether it's Costco or Market Street, or.
934
:You're in my way.
935
:I need this now.
936
:The snow storm's coming.
937
:The hurricane's coming.
938
:You, you don't drink, you know,
you don't drink 48 bottles of
939
:water all year, but because the
hurricane's coming, I need six cases.
940
:Chris: Yes.
941
:Jacob: Right.
942
:And I'm like, I just
don't understand that.
943
:And so that, you know, fud it sells
944
:Chris: Yeah.
945
:Jacob: All day long to everybody.
946
:And so it's like, how can we, you
know, treat other people neighborly.
947
:That'd be a great start.
948
:Chris: Right.
949
:Jacob: And go from there and, yeah.
950
:'cause I think if we just took
enough there would then be enough.
951
:But I, I, I'm a half full
guy, so I could be wrong.
952
:I'd be happy to prove differently,
but if we did, if we didn't buy six
953
:loaves of bread and four gallons
of milk for the snowstorm that's
954
:coming, we'd be, we'd still be
okay to make it to the other side.
955
:Chris: Right.
956
:Tyler: Exactly.
957
:Chris: Has anyone figured
out what that makes?
958
:That's what I'm so to, I'm gonna need
someone at some point to come on.
959
:Ooh.
960
:I should ask Gabby.
961
:Tyler: She would be the one
962
:Chris: we're gonna,
963
:Jacob: I'm the wrong guy.
964
:I'm from Florida, so snow.
965
:I'm just,
966
:Chris: but a hurricane.
967
:What did you scoop up?
968
:Jacob: Not it's, it's a North
Carolina thing for bread and milk.
969
:I don't understand.
970
:Chris: Okay.
971
:Jacob: We never bread
and milked it down there.
972
:And I'm like, what?
973
:Tyler: You guys are smarter down there.
974
:Jacob: Yeah.
975
:You
976
:Tyler: actually picked up this
977
:Jacob: crappy needed.
978
:Yeah, it was 2004.
979
:We had three hurricanes come in, like
a very short span, a couple weeks span.
980
:And I remember the National Guard
came set up at the mall and they were
981
:handed out boxes of MREs to everybody.
982
:'cause the power was out for so long.
983
:Chris: Wow.
984
:Jacob: So we thought we were so cool,
985
:Chris: the Mrs.
986
:Mrs.
987
:Like the soldiers.
988
:Jacob: And then I was
like, this is terrible.
989
:Chris: So
990
:Jacob: bad.
991
:Glad we did.
992
:But it's like, whew.
993
:I don't think I'd wanna sign
up for res again anytime soon.
994
:Chris: No, I've eaten enough.
995
:Enough enough, that's right.
996
:Of those things.
997
:And there I would love to know.
998
:Who designed these?
999
:Oh, because like, yes, it's,
oh, this is a great, this is
:
00:33:49,164 --> 00:33:51,684
supposed to taste like this.
:
00:33:52,274 --> 00:33:57,464
And I will say there's always one flavor,
or like one MRE that everyone hates.
:
00:33:57,764 --> 00:34:00,704
Like when I was going through
it was there was like an omelet.
:
00:34:01,034 --> 00:34:01,064
Jacob: Oh.
:
00:34:01,514 --> 00:34:03,104
Chris: So it was powdered eggs.
:
00:34:03,194 --> 00:34:03,944
Tyler: Oh, that sounds
:
00:34:03,949 --> 00:34:04,469
Chris: disgusting.
:
00:34:04,469 --> 00:34:05,414
And let, oh, it was so bad.
:
00:34:05,804 --> 00:34:10,333
And at the end of basic training, our
drill sergeants like had us in a room.
:
00:34:10,333 --> 00:34:12,344
We were like doing maintenance.
:
00:34:12,554 --> 00:34:15,734
And I looked and I'm like, why
is this, what is this palette?
:
00:34:16,154 --> 00:34:21,704
And they're like, these are all of the
omelet res that y'all didn't eat all year.
:
00:34:22,634 --> 00:34:24,344
And just put 'em back in the boxes.
:
00:34:24,344 --> 00:34:25,694
And we just stacked them up.
:
00:34:25,694 --> 00:34:29,324
And I mean, like, it was almost,
it was a good five feet tall Yeah.
:
00:34:29,353 --> 00:34:33,495
Of just like, just the size of
this table just just stacked.
:
00:34:33,524 --> 00:34:36,734
And I'm like, I really hope
they don't make anyone eat
:
00:34:36,734 --> 00:34:39,373
those, because it was the worst.
:
00:34:39,764 --> 00:34:44,489
And I guess the new age kids don't have
to eat or deal with that horribleness.
:
00:34:44,518 --> 00:34:44,819
Yeah.
:
00:34:44,879 --> 00:34:47,599
Tyler: Did you get Texas Pea or
what was that, what they used then?
:
00:34:47,599 --> 00:34:48,649
Or was it Tabasco?
:
00:34:48,819 --> 00:34:49,449
Chris: Tabasco.
:
00:34:49,839 --> 00:34:50,319
Tyler: Tabasco.
:
00:34:50,438 --> 00:34:51,309
Chris: but they were like,
:
00:34:51,668 --> 00:34:51,859
Tyler: yeah, the,
:
00:34:52,119 --> 00:34:53,949
Chris: the bottle was super, super small.
:
00:34:53,949 --> 00:34:54,339
You're like, yeah.
:
00:34:55,244 --> 00:34:55,534
Like
:
00:34:56,074 --> 00:34:57,759
Tyler: was it you or was it
someone else told me that was
:
00:34:57,759 --> 00:35:01,389
like currency because like most of
those res were hard to get down.
:
00:35:01,389 --> 00:35:03,009
So people were trading Tabasco sauces.
:
00:35:03,219 --> 00:35:05,079
Chris: I did not say that,
but yes, that is correct.
:
00:35:06,609 --> 00:35:07,509
I'm like, I would keep
:
00:35:07,509 --> 00:35:09,249
' Tyler: em, I knew who
I was talking to about
:
00:35:09,249 --> 00:35:09,259
Chris: it.
:
00:35:09,259 --> 00:35:09,364
It
:
00:35:09,364 --> 00:35:11,939
Tyler: was, it was like
cigarettes and Tabasco sauces.
:
00:35:11,939 --> 00:35:12,269
Oh.
:
00:35:12,269 --> 00:35:12,279
Oh.
:
00:35:12,279 --> 00:35:12,989
I, it was Adam.
:
00:35:12,989 --> 00:35:13,739
I remember who it was.
:
00:35:13,769 --> 00:35:14,099
Chris: Yes.
:
00:35:14,279 --> 00:35:17,189
Tyler: He was like cigarettes and Tabasco
sauce, which is like the highest form
:
00:35:17,189 --> 00:35:19,559
of currency over in the Middle East.
:
00:35:19,589 --> 00:35:19,979
Chris: Yes.
:
00:35:20,669 --> 00:35:23,249
And then someone like, they give
you these little packets that
:
00:35:23,249 --> 00:35:25,199
are supposed to be like napkins.
:
00:35:25,409 --> 00:35:27,179
And I'm like, no one
use those for napkins.
:
00:35:27,179 --> 00:35:28,679
Those are like your last resort.
:
00:35:28,679 --> 00:35:31,739
I had to go to the bathroom,
like pull 'em outta your pocket.
:
00:35:31,829 --> 00:35:32,009
Yeah.
:
00:35:32,429 --> 00:35:34,289
Oh, the silliness that we went through.
:
00:35:34,559 --> 00:35:35,339
Tyler: That's hilarious.
:
00:35:35,459 --> 00:35:36,989
Chris: Hopefully you guys
all have to deal with that
:
00:35:38,099 --> 00:35:41,909
Tyler: to switch a little bit from what
we were talking about in car insurance.
:
00:35:41,999 --> 00:35:42,179
Sure.
:
00:35:42,179 --> 00:35:45,689
But to go to home insurance that hopefully
sell you a couple more policies here.
:
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:45,839
Yeah.
:
00:35:46,079 --> 00:35:48,419
So I'm licensed to sell
home and auto Nice.
:
00:35:48,419 --> 00:35:51,269
I don't, because I'm
not, I I don't like it.
:
00:35:51,274 --> 00:35:51,704
I appreciate that.
:
00:35:51,709 --> 00:35:54,419
I'm not a, not an expert at it,
so I'd rather send it to you.
:
00:35:54,629 --> 00:35:54,779
Yeah.
:
00:35:54,879 --> 00:35:59,229
But with that being said, I
do whom insurance like audits
:
00:35:59,229 --> 00:36:00,069
to see where people are.
:
00:36:00,309 --> 00:36:04,239
The number one thing I see,
especially after like 20, 22 people
:
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,799
are way underinsured right now.
:
00:36:05,829 --> 00:36:05,979
Jacob: Yes.
:
00:36:06,639 --> 00:36:09,099
Tyler: So I wanted to give you,
yeah, I wanted to give you some
:
00:36:09,099 --> 00:36:10,419
time to kind of talk about that too.
:
00:36:10,419 --> 00:36:15,699
'cause I'll see a house that was
purchased for 500,000, now it's 650,000.
:
00:36:15,699 --> 00:36:18,399
They still have an insurance
policy for $500,000.
:
00:36:18,399 --> 00:36:18,489
Right.
:
00:36:18,909 --> 00:36:22,119
Do you wanna explain to the lessers
why that's a very bad thing?
:
00:36:22,539 --> 00:36:23,349
Jacob: Yeah, it can be.
:
00:36:23,349 --> 00:36:27,489
I, I think, you know, I mean this is,
this swings above my weight class, but
:
00:36:27,489 --> 00:36:28,789
I'll, I'll try to sit in on what I.
:
00:36:29,289 --> 00:36:34,099
What I think is going on as, as
the, the market was extremely
:
00:36:34,099 --> 00:36:35,689
hot over the last few years.
:
00:36:35,869 --> 00:36:36,109
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:36:36,349 --> 00:36:38,599
Jacob: These homes were
selling for over asking.
:
00:36:38,749 --> 00:36:38,869
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:36:39,559 --> 00:36:42,919
Jacob: And then so you're, you're
dealing with that, you're also dealing
:
00:36:42,919 --> 00:36:46,579
with folks who only have so much
money to try to purchase a home.
:
00:36:46,729 --> 00:36:46,879
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:36:47,119 --> 00:36:50,449
Jacob: And so there's been some
roundabouts with lenders and I need
:
00:36:50,449 --> 00:36:54,559
it to be here for the debt to income
to match and for this to work.
:
00:36:54,559 --> 00:36:58,549
And so it's you know, it's, it's
very interesting kind of a cat and
:
00:36:58,549 --> 00:37:04,879
mouse little game going on to try to
make sure that, you know, and then
:
00:37:04,879 --> 00:37:07,339
on top of that, premiums are rising.
:
00:37:07,549 --> 00:37:11,989
I mean, we, our personal home, we
just got our renewal this year.
:
00:37:12,139 --> 00:37:15,139
It didn't move this year,
but last year went up 38%.
:
00:37:15,259 --> 00:37:15,589
Tyler: Yep.
:
00:37:15,889 --> 00:37:18,199
Jacob: And so a lot of
folks have felt that.
:
00:37:18,319 --> 00:37:21,289
A lot of my customers, a lot of people
that I don't even have their insurance.
:
00:37:21,289 --> 00:37:24,169
They know I'm in insurance, so they
tell me, I'm like, yeah, it's about 30%.
:
00:37:24,169 --> 00:37:24,439
Yeah.
:
00:37:24,439 --> 00:37:25,399
It was about 30%.
:
00:37:25,404 --> 00:37:25,564
Mm-hmm.
:
00:37:25,644 --> 00:37:25,654
Mm-hmm.
:
00:37:25,909 --> 00:37:26,809
And so that's.
:
00:37:27,229 --> 00:37:30,499
I mean, at the end of the day,
the insurance companies are
:
00:37:30,499 --> 00:37:31,669
in the business to make money.
:
00:37:32,359 --> 00:37:32,539
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:37:32,869 --> 00:37:36,709
Jacob: And they are selling
contracts to help rebuild your life
:
00:37:36,739 --> 00:37:38,329
or to at least get you back there.
:
00:37:38,329 --> 00:37:38,419
Right.
:
00:37:38,839 --> 00:37:39,439
It is.
:
00:37:39,529 --> 00:37:45,769
I think what happens in the, the
purchasing a home, so many things happen.
:
00:37:45,769 --> 00:37:49,099
I remember when we bought our house,
we we're at the closing office
:
00:37:49,129 --> 00:37:50,359
and they pulled this binder out.
:
00:37:51,079 --> 00:37:52,369
I mean, had to be an eight inch binder.
:
00:37:52,369 --> 00:37:53,804
I'm like, I didn't even
know they made 'em that.
:
00:37:54,044 --> 00:37:55,004
I was gonna say Exactly.
:
00:37:55,634 --> 00:37:56,404
Flip, flip.
:
00:37:56,664 --> 00:37:58,429
And they get to that last one.
:
00:37:58,489 --> 00:38:00,559
It was like the amateurization schedule.
:
00:38:00,679 --> 00:38:00,709
Oh
:
00:38:00,709 --> 00:38:01,039
Chris: yeah.
:
00:38:01,159 --> 00:38:03,949
Jacob: And they're like, oh, at, 'cause
we did a 30 year note and they were like,
:
00:38:03,949 --> 00:38:07,039
at this year, it was 30 years when we
bought it, I was like, I've never even
:
00:38:07,039 --> 00:38:09,709
thought that far into the future before.
:
00:38:10,219 --> 00:38:11,599
And that's when it'll be paid off.
:
00:38:11,599 --> 00:38:14,089
And so there's so many things going on.
:
00:38:14,209 --> 00:38:16,549
You want your home inspection
done, you want all these things.
:
00:38:16,909 --> 00:38:20,299
I don't necessarily think
insurance is on the forefront.
:
00:38:20,959 --> 00:38:24,499
It's what I've noticed with insurance,
whether it's home, auto, renters,
:
00:38:24,499 --> 00:38:27,199
whatever it might be, could even be life
insurance could fall in this category.
:
00:38:27,204 --> 00:38:27,494
Mm-hmm.
:
00:38:29,119 --> 00:38:36,979
The, I'm trying to be kind and not paint
too broadly, but we tend to complain about
:
00:38:36,979 --> 00:38:43,189
the price of a, of say, insurance as a
product and maybe want to thin it out
:
00:38:43,279 --> 00:38:49,579
or bring it down or what can barely get
me by until something happens and then
:
00:38:49,579 --> 00:38:51,199
we're mad that we didn't have enough.
:
00:38:51,199 --> 00:38:54,619
And when that something happens, if
that's a car accident, a home loss,
:
00:38:54,619 --> 00:38:59,539
a death, whatever that may be, it's
too late to make any of those changes.
:
00:38:59,569 --> 00:39:06,109
And so you're trying to sell value of,
Hey, if this happens, we want to get
:
00:39:06,109 --> 00:39:11,899
you back to a place where you won't be
you know, negatively affected by that.
:
00:39:11,929 --> 00:39:12,019
Right.
:
00:39:12,019 --> 00:39:17,869
And so, but if that means your premium
goes up by $800 a year, clients are
:
00:39:17,869 --> 00:39:19,639
more than likely willing to risk it.
:
00:39:19,999 --> 00:39:20,329
Tyler: Right.
:
00:39:20,329 --> 00:39:23,749
Jacob: Because things are, I
think everything is up right now.
:
00:39:23,779 --> 00:39:24,019
Yeah.
:
00:39:24,079 --> 00:39:27,559
And so you, you, there's
multiple factors to that.
:
00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:27,649
Mm-hmm.
:
00:39:27,919 --> 00:39:30,619
And you're like, Hey, I think
we should, let's do a review.
:
00:39:31,159 --> 00:39:33,739
Because there, I will say with the
companies that we write with, there's
:
00:39:33,739 --> 00:39:38,359
a three to 5% inflation guard that
will follow each year at the renewal.
:
00:39:38,449 --> 00:39:38,809
Tyler: Oh, okay.
:
00:39:38,809 --> 00:39:41,569
Jacob: The policy, the coverage
a will go up three to three,
:
00:39:41,599 --> 00:39:44,599
four, sometimes 5% automatically.
:
00:39:44,809 --> 00:39:45,109
Tyler: Right.
:
00:39:45,109 --> 00:39:47,089
Jacob: And so there's gonna
be that increase there.
:
00:39:47,179 --> 00:39:49,759
Will that catch up with these
markets that are just crazy?
:
00:39:49,789 --> 00:39:50,599
No, they won't.
:
00:39:50,929 --> 00:39:54,259
And so with the underinsured,
you want to have those reviews.
:
00:39:54,259 --> 00:39:56,089
Hey, this is what I think we need to do.
:
00:39:56,389 --> 00:39:59,899
One, one thing that is an asset
to the insurance companies that
:
00:39:59,899 --> 00:40:04,039
we write with that can get in
the way of mortgage brokers.
:
00:40:04,039 --> 00:40:05,659
And I know a lot of them
and love them dearly.
:
00:40:05,779 --> 00:40:05,869
Mm-hmm.
:
00:40:06,109 --> 00:40:09,259
But we do have a replacement
cost estimator software.
:
00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:10,969
You put in all the details.
:
00:40:11,269 --> 00:40:11,509
Chris: Yeah.
:
00:40:11,569 --> 00:40:15,289
Jacob: The address, the property, how it's
built, what it's made out of, what year.
:
00:40:15,729 --> 00:40:19,479
And then you run it through that,
it's like a nationwide database.
:
00:40:19,479 --> 00:40:19,539
Yeah.
:
00:40:19,569 --> 00:40:22,659
And it'll, it'll give you a hard
number that, hey, this is where we
:
00:40:22,659 --> 00:40:26,649
feel comfortable to what you need
to be at for replacement cost.
:
00:40:27,099 --> 00:40:31,569
And the rub comes in when the replacement
cost is a little bit higher than
:
00:40:32,019 --> 00:40:33,789
the broker wants to see on the deal.
:
00:40:34,149 --> 00:40:36,699
And so that's where your
hands are kind of tied of.
:
00:40:37,059 --> 00:40:38,139
That's when ethics come in.
:
00:40:38,379 --> 00:40:38,619
Yeah.
:
00:40:38,619 --> 00:40:40,659
Well, we could write it for a
bit less, but do we want to?
:
00:40:40,659 --> 00:40:41,169
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:40:41,184 --> 00:40:44,439
Jacob: And that's, you know, are you in
it for volume and to sell policies or
:
00:40:44,439 --> 00:40:46,029
do you want to care for your customers?
:
00:40:46,419 --> 00:40:47,559
That's a battle every day.
:
00:40:47,559 --> 00:40:48,819
I think everybody faces.
:
00:40:48,879 --> 00:40:48,999
Chris: Yeah.
:
00:40:49,004 --> 00:40:49,014
Jacob: Yeah.
:
00:40:49,059 --> 00:40:53,429
So, some probably more than others,
some might say they don't, but, you
:
00:40:53,429 --> 00:40:57,269
know, that's, that's the beautiful thing
about our continuing ed every two years.
:
00:40:57,359 --> 00:40:57,599
Chris: Yep.
:
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:01,439
Jacob: They make you take ethics and
it's just a, it's a great reminder,
:
00:41:01,529 --> 00:41:03,989
a read through that ethics course
going, I can't believe people do
:
00:41:03,989 --> 00:41:07,619
this, but it reminds me that there
are people out there willing to Right.
:
00:41:07,619 --> 00:41:09,599
Cheat and shortcut to earn business.
:
00:41:10,079 --> 00:41:11,809
And that's just that's not the way.
:
00:41:11,809 --> 00:41:15,319
So I think, you know, those
annual reviews are, are important.
:
00:41:15,649 --> 00:41:18,859
The other thing is if it's involved
in your mortgage, you just pay it
:
00:41:19,279 --> 00:41:20,959
right as you pay your mortgage.
:
00:41:21,349 --> 00:41:24,319
If you escrow your taxes, your
mortgage bill and your insurance,
:
00:41:24,649 --> 00:41:25,549
it just gets paid every year.
:
00:41:25,939 --> 00:41:26,089
Yeah.
:
00:41:26,089 --> 00:41:26,959
That went up a little bit.
:
00:41:26,959 --> 00:41:27,769
We'll just keep paying it.
:
00:41:27,769 --> 00:41:30,589
Renewal gets billed to
Wells Fargo Mortgage.
:
00:41:30,664 --> 00:41:30,954
Yeah.
:
00:41:31,174 --> 00:41:31,969
And you just pay it.
:
00:41:31,969 --> 00:41:34,039
And it's been seven years since
you've looked at anything.
:
00:41:34,459 --> 00:41:35,719
Values have skyrocketed.
:
00:41:35,929 --> 00:41:36,949
Life's busy.
:
00:41:36,949 --> 00:41:39,469
You've got a ball game over
here, wife's over here.
:
00:41:40,129 --> 00:41:41,209
Or life happens.
:
00:41:41,449 --> 00:41:43,099
You've lost somebody in your family.
:
00:41:43,309 --> 00:41:44,089
Things happen.
:
00:41:44,449 --> 00:41:45,739
You just don't have time to do that.
:
00:41:45,739 --> 00:41:49,489
So those reviews and having people,
fiduciary people in your life to
:
00:41:49,879 --> 00:41:52,099
help review that is very important.
:
00:41:52,279 --> 00:41:52,999
Very helpful.
:
00:41:53,359 --> 00:41:56,989
Because you tend to not think about those
things like insurance until it's too late.
:
00:41:57,169 --> 00:41:57,319
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:41:57,919 --> 00:42:00,829
Jacob: And you say, I wish I would've had
that, or I wish my deductible would've
:
00:42:00,829 --> 00:42:05,809
been more or less, well, we can't do
anything because the claim has happened.
:
00:42:06,079 --> 00:42:06,529
Tyler: Exactly.
:
00:42:06,529 --> 00:42:08,089
Jacob: We could have
for the last 11 years.
:
00:42:08,554 --> 00:42:12,694
12 years, 25 years, you know, I've
never, that's the hardest part.
:
00:42:13,024 --> 00:42:14,134
Insurance is a scam.
:
00:42:14,344 --> 00:42:17,299
And I'm like, okay, I don't
know if you need that.
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00:42:17,299 --> 00:42:18,019
This is gonna be a good fit.
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00:42:18,049 --> 00:42:18,339
Yeah.
:
00:42:18,339 --> 00:42:18,619
Yeah.
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00:42:18,619 --> 00:42:24,124
Because if something happens, and
God forbid you kill somebody or
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00:42:24,124 --> 00:42:25,384
you send people to the hospital
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00:42:25,504 --> 00:42:25,624
Chris: mm-hmm.
:
00:42:25,864 --> 00:42:26,044
Your,
:
00:42:26,194 --> 00:42:28,714
Jacob: your insurance will be
very useful when they pay out
:
00:42:28,714 --> 00:42:30,394
up to the policy limits on that.
:
00:42:30,394 --> 00:42:30,814
Exactly.
:
00:42:30,904 --> 00:42:30,964
Yeah.
:
00:42:30,964 --> 00:42:33,889
And if you have that personal
umbrella, then that million gets, 2
:
00:42:33,889 --> 00:42:35,194
million gets paid out on top of that.
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00:42:35,374 --> 00:42:35,674
Tyler: Right.
:
00:42:35,734 --> 00:42:39,364
Jacob: That lets you keep your home or
your lifestyle, and that's what it's for.
:
00:42:39,604 --> 00:42:39,814
Tyler: Yep.
:
00:42:39,844 --> 00:42:41,734
Jacob: You could live your whole
life and that never happened, but
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00:42:41,734 --> 00:42:44,104
it only takes once and Exactly.
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00:42:44,104 --> 00:42:45,484
You've lost everything
you've ever worked for.
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00:42:46,144 --> 00:42:50,014
And so trying to get
people to understand that.
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00:42:50,194 --> 00:42:51,754
Some people get it, some people don't.
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00:42:51,874 --> 00:42:54,064
Some people want to hear it
and some people don't as well.
:
00:42:54,069 --> 00:42:54,259
Yeah.
:
00:42:54,359 --> 00:42:59,404
So, yeah, the, the, the market
has, as it continues to rise.
:
00:43:00,109 --> 00:43:03,559
You want to give people a good
value and cover them well, but
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00:43:03,559 --> 00:43:05,659
also there's a cost to that.
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00:43:05,664 --> 00:43:06,004
Chris: Mm-hmm.
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00:43:06,169 --> 00:43:06,259
And
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00:43:06,289 --> 00:43:10,159
Jacob: so I think there's a little bit
of a rub there of it's working now.
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00:43:10,219 --> 00:43:11,179
We'll just keep it going.
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00:43:11,509 --> 00:43:15,139
And then they sit with someone like
you and find out it's not enough.
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00:43:15,289 --> 00:43:15,619
Tyler: Right.
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00:43:15,709 --> 00:43:16,729
Jacob: And then what do you do with that?
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00:43:16,969 --> 00:43:20,089
Tyler: And correct if I'm wrong too, I'm
pretty sure that if you're underinsured
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00:43:20,869 --> 00:43:26,419
for a house, let's say your house is worth
500,000, you only have it insured for 400.
:
00:43:26,809 --> 00:43:31,039
Let's say your roof blows off and you
need to pay $20,000, the insurance
:
00:43:31,039 --> 00:43:34,459
company isn't gonna pay that 20,000
even though it hasn't hit that 400
:
00:43:34,459 --> 00:43:36,049
because you only have 80% of it.
:
00:43:36,049 --> 00:43:37,909
Only pay 80% of that 20,000.
:
00:43:37,909 --> 00:43:38,209
Right.
:
00:43:39,619 --> 00:43:40,789
Jacob: It's firing away over here.
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00:43:41,149 --> 00:43:41,169
Got 'em.
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00:43:41,169 --> 00:43:41,179
Yeah.
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00:43:41,179 --> 00:43:41,509
Got 'em.
:
00:43:41,689 --> 00:43:42,979
I was holding it together until now.
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00:43:43,579 --> 00:43:43,969
Yeah.
:
00:43:43,969 --> 00:43:46,979
I mean there's definitely there's
definitely gonna be some issues down
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00:43:46,979 --> 00:43:48,659
the road if you're not properly insured.
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00:43:48,659 --> 00:43:53,039
And so I think people think that, you
know, it's a greedy insurance agent.
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00:43:53,039 --> 00:43:54,084
He just wants 'cause listen.
:
00:43:54,944 --> 00:43:59,804
There's been a big bump in auto premium
and home premium, which on one hand, as
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00:43:59,804 --> 00:44:03,284
an insurance agent, it's great, but on
the other hand, I also have insurance.
:
00:44:03,464 --> 00:44:06,584
So my car insurance and my home insurance
has gone up, so I'm paying that as well.
:
00:44:06,584 --> 00:44:10,184
And so, you know, I, I do
feel that personally as well
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00:44:10,184 --> 00:44:11,474
as I have great empathy.
:
00:44:11,474 --> 00:44:15,824
This is why, you know, when claims happen,
we have to hand it over to the claims
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00:44:15,824 --> 00:44:19,934
department because I'm ready to fight
tooth and nail for every customer Yeah.
:
00:44:19,934 --> 00:44:20,534
That I have,
:
00:44:20,744 --> 00:44:21,074
Tyler: right?
:
00:44:21,074 --> 00:44:23,564
Jacob: This is, they're not
this, and it's like, no, they
:
00:44:23,564 --> 00:44:25,094
have to take that emotion out.
:
00:44:25,574 --> 00:44:29,504
And I would assume that claims people
are maybe more spreadsheet people and
:
00:44:29,504 --> 00:44:30,614
they run it through the database, right?
:
00:44:30,614 --> 00:44:33,344
They put all the numbers in, here's
our settlement, here's where we land.
:
00:44:33,644 --> 00:44:36,944
I would be a terrible claims adjuster
because I just want the checkbook out
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00:44:38,114 --> 00:44:39,554
his hand handing checks left and right.
:
00:44:39,554 --> 00:44:43,949
And so being properly insured is so
important in this time because, I mean.
:
00:44:44,909 --> 00:44:48,749
We're not at Florida levels, but it is
a very litigious state here as well.
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00:44:48,809 --> 00:44:48,959
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:44:49,199 --> 00:44:49,379
Yeah.
:
00:44:49,439 --> 00:44:52,589
Jacob: You know, and there's been times
you rear end somebody and then three
:
00:44:52,589 --> 00:44:57,089
days later their neck hurts, they're
in the hospital and they go to a lawyer
:
00:44:57,509 --> 00:44:59,009
and the lawyer takes 'em to court.
:
00:44:59,009 --> 00:45:02,219
And for the most part to stay outta
court, the company's gonna settle.
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00:45:02,699 --> 00:45:03,149
Chris: Right.
:
00:45:03,149 --> 00:45:06,479
Jacob: And then a lawyer
makes 30%, they're happy.
:
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,999
Customer gets a little change
in their pocket, they're happy.
:
00:45:09,509 --> 00:45:11,159
And then rates just continue to go.
:
00:45:11,189 --> 00:45:11,489
Yep.
:
00:45:12,389 --> 00:45:16,319
Because at the end of the day, the
insurance companies are not charities.
:
00:45:16,319 --> 00:45:17,039
They're there to make money.
:
00:45:17,219 --> 00:45:17,639
Chris: Right.
:
00:45:17,849 --> 00:45:22,649
Jacob: And so it can be, you know, I like
being on this side of the bus business
:
00:45:22,649 --> 00:45:24,209
because I do get to see how it's played.
:
00:45:24,689 --> 00:45:24,869
Chris: Yeah.
:
00:45:24,869 --> 00:45:27,899
Jacob: I understand that there are
contracts and if you're within that
:
00:45:27,899 --> 00:45:29,609
written contract, it will get paid.
:
00:45:30,089 --> 00:45:32,459
Sometimes there's gray area
where it could be an issue.
:
00:45:32,689 --> 00:45:36,199
But I, what I've seen as far as our
claims history for their companies,
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00:45:36,199 --> 00:45:40,729
we represent, they do pay, you know,
and, and I think they, they pay well.
:
00:45:41,119 --> 00:45:44,149
And some people will probably hear that
and say they of course an insurance, hr.
:
00:45:44,554 --> 00:45:44,674
Yeah.
:
00:45:45,034 --> 00:45:45,914
Wouldn't say that.
:
00:45:45,914 --> 00:45:46,634
Right, right.
:
00:45:46,759 --> 00:45:46,999
Yeah.
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00:45:47,119 --> 00:45:48,949
You know, and so I do see that.
:
00:45:48,949 --> 00:45:52,819
But yeah, I mean there, there have been
times where, you know, one example,
:
00:45:53,269 --> 00:45:54,949
I letter, I'll never forget it.
:
00:45:54,949 --> 00:45:57,469
I wrote a lady, a renter's
insurance policy at Carolina
:
00:45:57,469 --> 00:46:01,179
Beach, and if you add wind and hill
coverage, it doubled the premium.
:
00:46:01,329 --> 00:46:03,069
She was like, Nope, not gonna do it.
:
00:46:03,189 --> 00:46:05,649
I was like, well, hey, I, I recommend it.
:
00:46:05,739 --> 00:46:06,789
Nope, not gonna do it.
:
00:46:06,789 --> 00:46:07,479
Said no problem.
:
00:46:07,959 --> 00:46:10,929
Got the signed application,
got a really nice form.
:
00:46:11,199 --> 00:46:13,089
It says I reject wind and hail.
:
00:46:13,119 --> 00:46:13,209
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:46:13,449 --> 00:46:15,219
Jacob: Got it signed, put it in the file.
:
00:46:16,149 --> 00:46:20,679
Less than a year later, hurricane
comes, her stuff gets wrecked.
:
00:46:20,979 --> 00:46:24,819
She calls me, goes to file the
claim, there's no coverage because
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00:46:24,819 --> 00:46:28,899
it was a, well, I'm a thief, I'm a
liar, I'm a cheat, I'm everything.
:
00:46:29,649 --> 00:46:31,959
And I said, well, ma'am, I'm, I'm
really sorry you feel that way.
:
00:46:32,329 --> 00:46:34,404
So I sent her her signed application.
:
00:46:34,674 --> 00:46:35,664
I never signed that.
:
00:46:35,664 --> 00:46:38,814
I mean, she's cussing me from top to
bottom, which understandably I get it.
:
00:46:38,844 --> 00:46:39,564
Chris: Yeah, you're mad.
:
00:46:39,594 --> 00:46:40,584
Jacob: Lost all your stuff.
:
00:46:40,584 --> 00:46:41,724
I'm so sorry.
:
00:46:41,784 --> 00:46:42,654
And it's hard to deal with.
:
00:46:42,894 --> 00:46:43,044
Mm-hmm.
:
00:46:43,284 --> 00:46:47,784
And I sent her application and she quickly
changed her tune because she actually
:
00:46:47,784 --> 00:46:50,574
did sign that piece of paper and went
over it together and things like that.
:
00:46:50,574 --> 00:46:54,024
But in those moments when you
wish you had that Yeah, exactly.
:
00:46:54,024 --> 00:46:54,624
Didn't have it.
:
00:46:54,984 --> 00:46:57,534
And so how do you empathize
with people in that moment?
:
00:46:57,774 --> 00:47:01,764
It can be pretty hard because, you
know, selfishly I would like to write
:
00:47:01,764 --> 00:47:05,124
everybody at the top limits of liability.
:
00:47:05,514 --> 00:47:08,784
I would like you to have the most
insurance that you can afford.
:
00:47:09,084 --> 00:47:10,914
'cause that means that I
would get paid more money.
:
00:47:11,034 --> 00:47:11,154
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:47:11,454 --> 00:47:12,804
Jacob: But I also live in reality.
:
00:47:12,804 --> 00:47:13,554
I understand.
:
00:47:13,614 --> 00:47:14,604
State minimums.
:
00:47:14,754 --> 00:47:15,264
People need 'em.
:
00:47:15,994 --> 00:47:18,734
Thank you to the North
Carolina legislature.
:
00:47:18,734 --> 00:47:19,184
They have.
:
00:47:19,589 --> 00:47:20,879
Up the state minimums.
:
00:47:20,949 --> 00:47:25,719
As of the middle of last year, it
was 30,000 per person, 60,000 per
:
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,369
accident and 25 in property damage.
:
00:47:27,369 --> 00:47:27,459
Mm-hmm.
:
00:47:27,699 --> 00:47:29,589
The new state minimum's 50,000 per person.
:
00:47:29,589 --> 00:47:32,079
A hundred thousand per accident
and 50,000 property damage.
:
00:47:32,169 --> 00:47:32,409
Chris: Yep.
:
00:47:32,529 --> 00:47:35,829
Jacob: And that raised the
liability rate six to $8 a month.
:
00:47:36,069 --> 00:47:36,129
Tyler: Okay.
:
00:47:36,159 --> 00:47:39,799
Jacob: So, that did go up a
little bit, but you're almost
:
00:47:39,799 --> 00:47:41,419
doubling what you've had.
:
00:47:41,509 --> 00:47:41,989
Tyler: Exactly.
:
00:47:41,989 --> 00:47:46,369
Jacob: And I think that's very helpful to
keep people there 'cause life does happen.
:
00:47:46,789 --> 00:47:46,879
Chris: Mm-hmm.
:
00:47:47,119 --> 00:47:47,209
POD::
00:47:47,209 --> 00:47:48,829
Jacob: so, you know, I understand.
:
00:47:48,829 --> 00:47:51,409
Well, I've been driving for 28
years and never got an accident.
:
00:47:51,709 --> 00:47:52,129
Chris: True.
:
00:47:52,399 --> 00:47:52,939
Jacob: Correct.
:
00:47:53,209 --> 00:47:54,169
Chris: Until it happens
:
00:47:54,169 --> 00:47:57,679
Jacob: and then it happens and
you're wishing you had it or,
:
00:47:58,009 --> 00:47:59,959
and it's like, we want to assist.
:
00:48:00,409 --> 00:48:03,589
And, you know, I, I would say I
think the biggest change in since
:
00:48:03,589 --> 00:48:09,139
:from a salesman to an advisor.
:
00:48:10,699 --> 00:48:13,189
And that's been a very
interesting role because I love
:
00:48:13,189 --> 00:48:16,249
to sell, I love to hit goals.
:
00:48:16,249 --> 00:48:16,909
I love to.
:
00:48:18,304 --> 00:48:20,164
You know, selfishly, I like to make money,
:
00:48:20,494 --> 00:48:20,674
Tyler: right?
:
00:48:20,674 --> 00:48:21,964
Jacob: That's what I wake up for, right?
:
00:48:22,144 --> 00:48:22,324
Tyler: Yeah.
:
00:48:22,384 --> 00:48:25,924
Jacob: But, but as far as offering
different, as the independent
:
00:48:25,924 --> 00:48:29,014
agent, I can get multiple
quotes from multiple carriers.
:
00:48:29,374 --> 00:48:33,814
I can then offer them this way and I
say, Hey, this is what I'm thinking.
:
00:48:33,934 --> 00:48:36,484
Or maybe this is what we do in
our house, but it's ultimately,
:
00:48:36,484 --> 00:48:37,864
it's up to you guys to decide.
:
00:48:37,864 --> 00:48:41,524
And so to advise them through that,
I think that's been really helpful
:
00:48:41,584 --> 00:48:43,474
because it's, maybe it's helped me.
:
00:48:43,474 --> 00:48:48,724
I'm, I, I'm high empathy and I love
people and very relational, and so
:
00:48:49,384 --> 00:48:53,944
when things go wrong, I'll then feel
partially responsible for that, right?
:
00:48:53,944 --> 00:48:59,434
And so bringing them in on that decision
to say, Hey, this is kind of a hard truth.
:
00:48:59,434 --> 00:49:02,854
But back then we sat down together and
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00:49:02,884 --> 00:49:03,454
Tyler: Right.
:
00:49:03,574 --> 00:49:06,364
Jacob: We had multiple options, and
this is the one that you did choose.
:
00:49:06,364 --> 00:49:10,174
So from that advisor role, that's been
pretty helpful and it's been really good.
:
00:49:10,659 --> 00:49:10,949
Tyler: Yeah.
:
00:49:10,954 --> 00:49:11,239
Yeah.
:
00:49:11,299 --> 00:49:12,379
So, personal story.
:
00:49:12,739 --> 00:49:18,439
I had a Tesla before, I had my F-150 now,
and I had my Tesla for a while and been
:
00:49:18,439 --> 00:49:21,799
driving for, at that point, 17, 18 years.
:
00:49:21,804 --> 00:49:21,854
Mm-hmm.
:
00:49:21,934 --> 00:49:25,099
I'd never had a cracked windshield in my
life, so my deductible for windshields,
:
00:49:25,254 --> 00:49:26,959
I, I was like, ah, who needs it?
:
00:49:26,959 --> 00:49:27,259
Right?
:
00:49:27,319 --> 00:49:27,409
Sure.
:
00:49:27,409 --> 00:49:28,609
I was like, I've never had this before.
:
00:49:28,609 --> 00:49:30,049
Been driving for 15, 16 years.
:
00:49:30,509 --> 00:49:32,669
So it was, and you got a Tesla
stupid high that got a Tesla and
:
00:49:32,669 --> 00:49:34,349
then it cracked like instantly.
:
00:49:34,379 --> 00:49:35,699
And I was like, interesting.
:
00:49:36,089 --> 00:49:37,439
And that's expensive glass.
:
00:49:37,439 --> 00:49:39,629
Come to find out price.
:
00:49:39,629 --> 00:49:44,099
So yeah, so I had to pay that and I
was like, you know what, maybe I should
:
00:49:44,099 --> 00:49:45,749
lower that deductible a little bit.
:
00:49:45,989 --> 00:49:48,029
So lowered it down significantly.
:
00:49:48,329 --> 00:49:52,429
And then my F-150 now has a crack in
the windshield, and I was like, well,
:
00:49:52,429 --> 00:49:53,839
I'm glad I lowered the deductible.
:
00:49:54,169 --> 00:49:54,229
Yeah.
:
00:49:54,319 --> 00:49:58,309
But with that being said, there's
parts of insurance that I, I don't
:
00:49:58,309 --> 00:50:00,799
like just because like, who likes
paying for something that they're
:
00:50:00,799 --> 00:50:02,089
not gonna use 90% of the time?
:
00:50:02,599 --> 00:50:05,569
On the flip side of that, I just got
a life insurance policy, probably
:
00:50:05,569 --> 00:50:06,859
way more than I actually need.
:
00:50:07,219 --> 00:50:10,849
But the safety in the back of
my head, knowing that my kids'
:
00:50:10,849 --> 00:50:12,469
schools are gonna be paid for Yes.
:
00:50:12,799 --> 00:50:15,499
That the house will be paid off
and they don't have to move.
:
00:50:15,529 --> 00:50:18,829
And that if there's anything that
ever that they could possibly
:
00:50:18,829 --> 00:50:19,879
need will be taken care of.
:
00:50:19,879 --> 00:50:20,689
'cause I'm not here.
:
00:50:20,839 --> 00:50:21,019
Jacob: Yeah.
:
00:50:21,099 --> 00:50:24,519
Tyler: just having that in the back
of my mind that's already settled.
:
00:50:24,549 --> 00:50:24,849
Jacob: Sure.
:
00:50:24,849 --> 00:50:24,939
Yeah.
:
00:50:24,999 --> 00:50:27,399
Tyler: It's like, you know what, I'll
pay a little bit more in premium.
:
00:50:27,579 --> 00:50:27,789
Right.
:
00:50:27,819 --> 00:50:30,189
Knowing that my, my
family's gonna be safe.
:
00:50:30,429 --> 00:50:32,799
So when it comes to like same
type of thing for insurance.
:
00:50:32,799 --> 00:50:32,889
Sure.
:
00:50:32,889 --> 00:50:34,449
Especially homeowner's insurance.
:
00:50:34,569 --> 00:50:38,079
'cause again, same thing because value
of the house went up, everything.
:
00:50:38,079 --> 00:50:42,819
I had some flood damage and then they're
like, oh yeah, we'll cover like 95% of it.
:
00:50:42,879 --> 00:50:45,189
'cause you weren't fully like, insured.
:
00:50:45,189 --> 00:50:45,789
Chris: Insured, yeah.
:
00:50:45,999 --> 00:50:46,419
Tyler: And I was like.
:
00:50:47,619 --> 00:50:50,649
The price went up literally
within the last like 12 months.
:
00:50:50,649 --> 00:50:52,029
Like, I couldn't do anything about that.
:
00:50:52,029 --> 00:50:52,749
And they're like, yep.
:
00:50:52,779 --> 00:50:53,169
Well, sorry.
:
00:50:53,799 --> 00:50:54,249
I was like, no kidding.
:
00:50:54,309 --> 00:50:54,699
Alright.
:
00:50:54,699 --> 00:50:55,359
Whatever, dude.
:
00:50:55,419 --> 00:50:55,869
Wow.
:
00:50:55,929 --> 00:50:56,409
Yeah.
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00:50:56,469 --> 00:50:56,859
Yeah.
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00:50:57,039 --> 00:51:00,379
So, but anyway, I wanna talk to you
afterwards about, 'cause I haven't
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had my policies looked at in a long,
long time, so I'll, ill definitely
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reach, would love to do that.
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Reach out to you.
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That'd be great.
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Get that done too.
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Chris: So you're raising some kiddos?
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Jacob: Yeah.
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Chris: Living life, enjoying the,
the Okta and Porter's neck area.
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Yep.
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So my question for you though, I don't
like to dig deep into jump the kids that
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people don't need to know too much, but
what does success look like for you?
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Jacob: Oh, that's such a great question.
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I, I saw that on the form to
fill out and I still haven't
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figured out an answer to that.
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So, I, I think as far as success
for me, I think long term, I think
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legacy, I like to think about my kids'.
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Kids.
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Chris: Yeah.
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Jacob: And so what does that look
like when I'm not here anymore?
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And, and I think that's just a good
question for every man to think about.
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And you know, moms as well as
you're raising your kids one day,
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we're not gonna be here anymore.
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My wife she's an only child.
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God bless her soul.
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And she, she lost her,
her dad a few years back.
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And I told her as we were kind
of family planning, having that
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discussion, she said, I want one.
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And I said, well, I want six, you know?
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And so, we settled at
three, so we have three now.
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But I said, you know, we had a really
kind of grim conversation and I said,
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eventually all of our parents will die.
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Chris: Mm-hmm.
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Jacob: And when your mom
dies, it'll be just you.
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And I said, in one day, you and I'll die.
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And I said, I would hope that our
kids would have a relationship
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with one another, that they
would at least be able to.
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Be in contact Right.
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With that family.
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And then when they get married hopefully,
and have kids, then they're, you
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know, to, that's my hope and my goal.
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So success for me, you know,
it used to be a bunch of money.
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It used to be shiny cars or toys
or whatever that looks like.
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But I, spending time having freedom
to spend time with my family
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has just, it's been everything.
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And I can tell in my children, even
at six, four, and two, mostly with
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the six and 4-year-old, but I can
tell when I have not put in the
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certain amount of time I need to.
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Chris: Yeah.
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Jacob: By the way that they act and react.
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Chris: Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Jacob: And it's like,
ah, they need more dad.
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Right?
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Yeah.
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And so, I would love to be able to
provide for them what they need now so
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that when they're adults, 'cause they're
gonna need therapy from my parenting.
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I, I would say that most of us
do need it, if not all of us.
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And so I, I say my parents did
the best they could with what
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they were provided at the time.
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And I love them and honor 'em for that.
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And I'm still in therapy, right?
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And so, my wife and I,
we, we try to read books.
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We try to love each other.
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Well pray together, forgive one
another in front of our kids.
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Our kids are still gonna need therapy.
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And so success for me is that
my kids will love one another.
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Well, they'll love their friends
and their community and they will
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look back and say, mom and dad
did a good, like they, they tried.
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Chris: Yeah.
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Jacob: Yeah.
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And I think
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Chris: I like
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Jacob: that.
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Hopefully if we can get to that 0.1
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day, that'd be great.
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You know, would I love to be a
multimillionaire and, and you
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know, certain things like that.
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Yeah, that'd be great.
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Right.
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But that has fallen down the list
of, as I'm, I turned 36 last year
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and just getting to know people and
see, I have customers that live in
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landfall and then I have customers
who rent and might never own a house.
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And so been able to see what,
the different levels of peace
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that other people have had.
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Mm-hmm.
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Different goals.
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I love spending time with people who are
older than me or even seasons ahead of me.
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Mm-hmm.
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Because I can, I can
glean and learn from that.
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And so I would love to, you know, be
able to look back and love for my kids
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like I do now, hear my parents' voice
in my head and go, you know what, that
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might've been tough growing up, but
dad, mom and dad were right about that.
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Chris: Right.
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Jacob: And they would be able
to love their families well and
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love their community as well.
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I think I've seen personally with
friends and friends of friends
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that situations when things get
involved after people pass away
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Chris: mm-hmm.
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Jacob: The mess that entails.
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Chris: Yep.
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Jacob: And to me, legacy wise,
that actually is a black eye.
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And so obviously everybody is adults,
they make their own decisions.
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It's not a movie.
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So I'm very clear on that.
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But one day when my wife
and I aren't here anymore.
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If, if my kids continue to love each
each other on a sibling level as
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they continue to grow and turn into
the adults, and I think the Lord's
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called them to be, I'll be a very
happy man cheering them on from here.
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So I think legacy, successful
legacy has a lot to do with the
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direction we're heading as a family.
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Thanks.
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Tyler: That's awesome.
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I've heard that one before.
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I like that a lot.
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Yeah.
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Thank you.
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I'll tell you a funny story
before we sign off just because
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it kinda like falls in there.
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I was talking to my son the other
day and he's like weirdly obsessed
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00:55:43,914 --> 00:55:45,174
with death for some reason.
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Chris: It's
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Tyler: that
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00:55:46,314 --> 00:55:46,824
Chris: age.
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Tyler: Yeah.
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So he is like trying to figure it out
and everything and he was like, Hey,
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00:55:51,174 --> 00:55:52,914
who's gonna be my dad when you pass?
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00:55:52,914 --> 00:55:53,754
Or like when you die?
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00:55:54,234 --> 00:55:55,464
I'm like, well, I'm
still gonna be your dad.
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I just won't like be around.
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And he was like.
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But life goes on after you die.
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00:56:02,394 --> 00:56:04,014
I was like, right, you are.
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That's
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00:56:04,189 --> 00:56:05,334
Jacob: a gut punch right there.
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00:56:06,369 --> 00:56:07,734
Tyler: And I was like, who told you that?
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00:56:07,764 --> 00:56:11,094
He goes, I was just thinking about
it, but life will go on after you die.
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00:56:11,364 --> 00:56:11,454
Yeah.
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00:56:11,454 --> 00:56:13,829
And I'm like, sir, that's good.
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Yeah.
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00:56:14,814 --> 00:56:16,734
And he was like, but still,
who's gonna be my dad?
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00:56:16,764 --> 00:56:18,444
I'm like, I will still be your dad.
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00:56:18,444 --> 00:56:18,949
Won't, you won't.
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00:56:18,949 --> 00:56:19,884
Like, I'm like, your
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Chris: mom's not allowed to remarry.
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00:56:21,264 --> 00:56:21,324
Yeah.
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00:56:22,434 --> 00:56:24,534
She's not gonna have any guy friends.
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00:56:25,014 --> 00:56:26,814
It is just gonna be Your mom left this.
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That's right.
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00:56:27,714 --> 00:56:30,474
Tyler: I was like, how do I go down
this rabbit hole with like a 5-year-old?
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00:56:30,479 --> 00:56:30,549
Sure.
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00:56:30,549 --> 00:56:33,444
And I was like, I'm still
your biological dad.
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00:56:33,504 --> 00:56:33,744
Yeah.
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00:56:33,744 --> 00:56:34,704
That's where we're at with this.
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00:56:34,704 --> 00:56:35,964
And he's like, well Pat, pat be my dad.
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00:56:35,964 --> 00:56:37,284
He was like, he's still
gonna be your pat Pat.
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00:56:37,374 --> 00:56:37,824
That's right.
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00:56:38,184 --> 00:56:38,604
That's right.
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00:56:38,814 --> 00:56:41,469
So it was a fun, like, interesting
conversation to have with fire.
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00:56:41,469 --> 00:56:41,844
No, that's a great
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00:56:41,844 --> 00:56:44,844
Jacob: question because I would say, you
know, whether you're involved in faith
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00:56:44,844 --> 00:56:49,849
or not, a big issue that we're in as a
country, would be the lack of fathers
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and mothers involved in your life.
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And, and I mean that, not
necessarily biologically, but
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Tyler: Right.
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00:56:56,004 --> 00:56:58,519
Jacob: Depending on where you go,
where your job takes you, there
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00:56:58,519 --> 00:57:01,879
are relationships and friendships
with people who you might think
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00:57:01,879 --> 00:57:02,719
you'd never be friends with.
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00:57:02,869 --> 00:57:02,959
Chris: Mm-hmm.
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00:57:03,199 --> 00:57:04,249
Jacob: And they're there for a reason.
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00:57:04,429 --> 00:57:08,359
And so it's, do you have people in
your life with gray hair who have made
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00:57:08,359 --> 00:57:10,219
some mistakes or maybe done a lot?
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00:57:10,219 --> 00:57:13,069
Well, and that can then guide
you and mentor you in that.
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00:57:13,069 --> 00:57:17,479
And so I think the, the mother and father
name, that's what it should be called.
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00:57:17,479 --> 00:57:18,889
But mentorship is good.
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00:57:18,979 --> 00:57:22,789
You know, people taking you under
their wing to, to pull out some gold
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00:57:22,789 --> 00:57:24,259
in you that you didn't know was there.
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00:57:24,409 --> 00:57:24,739
Chris: Right.
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00:57:24,799 --> 00:57:29,659
Jacob: And you know, we all would
hope maybe our parents were able to
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00:57:29,659 --> 00:57:34,909
do that, or, you know, all my family's
still 10 hours away and so there is
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00:57:34,909 --> 00:57:35,869
Chris: a direct flight though.
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00:57:35,899 --> 00:57:37,459
Jacob: There is, it's not too bad.
:
00:57:37,819 --> 00:57:41,289
And so the the Vera Beach airport
just picked up, american Air,
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00:57:41,319 --> 00:57:43,449
so we should be able to go to
Charlotte and then land in town.
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00:57:43,449 --> 00:57:44,229
That'd be pretty sweet.
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00:57:44,259 --> 00:57:44,769
Tyler: That'd be nice.
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00:57:44,859 --> 00:57:48,249
Jacob: But we do our, we do our annual
trip home to visit and hug necks and
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00:57:48,249 --> 00:57:51,759
love, and my parents come to visit
often up into the Wilmington area.
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00:57:51,759 --> 00:57:55,599
But, you know, realistically as great
of a relationship that my dad and I
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00:57:55,599 --> 00:57:57,189
have, we talk on the phone regularly.
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00:57:57,639 --> 00:57:59,679
There's times where I need
somebody here in Wilmington.
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00:58:00,009 --> 00:58:00,279
Chris: Yeah.
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00:58:00,279 --> 00:58:03,069
Jacob: And so I have a couple of
men in my life who are old enough
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00:58:03,069 --> 00:58:06,999
to beat my dad that don't try to
take the place of my dad, but do
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00:58:07,419 --> 00:58:10,119
give me hard advice, soft advice.
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00:58:10,119 --> 00:58:12,999
They gimme love, they, they beat me
up and they put me back together.
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00:58:13,209 --> 00:58:13,419
Chris: Yeah.
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00:58:13,419 --> 00:58:16,809
Jacob: And so I think, you know, if
anybody hears anything from today,
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00:58:16,809 --> 00:58:21,549
even more than just insurance is, you
know, find that person, that mother
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00:58:21,549 --> 00:58:27,579
or that father for you to walk through
life with you, because my kids need
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00:58:27,729 --> 00:58:30,039
me to be all that I'm called to be.
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00:58:30,999 --> 00:58:32,049
And I can't do that alone.
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00:58:32,559 --> 00:58:36,069
And I love both of you guys,
but we only know what we know.
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00:58:36,219 --> 00:58:37,089
Tyler: Yeah, exactly.
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00:58:37,089 --> 00:58:39,789
Jacob: You know, and so we can
get together and talk about how
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00:58:39,789 --> 00:58:44,079
to talk about our kids wondering
about death and things like that.
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00:58:44,229 --> 00:58:44,319
Right.
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00:58:44,349 --> 00:58:46,209
If we've never dealt with
it before, we don't know
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00:58:46,509 --> 00:58:47,109
Tyler: exactly.
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00:58:47,109 --> 00:58:47,169
Jacob: Yeah.
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00:58:47,169 --> 00:58:50,199
So getting, getting, rolling up your
sleeves and doing life with people
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00:58:50,199 --> 00:58:53,439
who've been there has really paved
the way for me to be where I'm today.
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00:58:53,889 --> 00:58:54,399
Tyler: That's awesome.
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00:58:55,509 --> 00:58:58,779
Very good insights to finish out
the podcast, so I appreciate that.
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00:58:58,839 --> 00:58:59,109
Jacob: Yeah.
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00:58:59,199 --> 00:59:00,459
I came for Whiskey and Wisdom.
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00:59:00,459 --> 00:59:01,539
I think we found a little bit of both.
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00:59:01,539 --> 00:59:02,319
Tyler: Yeah, absolutely.
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00:59:02,319 --> 00:59:02,559
That's good.
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00:59:02,679 --> 00:59:03,279
We tried to do
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00:59:03,519 --> 00:59:03,639
Jacob: what
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00:59:03,639 --> 00:59:05,379
Chris: happens when you
get that spicy yellow stuff
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00:59:05,524 --> 00:59:05,844
Jacob: Right.
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00:59:06,104 --> 00:59:06,404
You know?
:
00:59:06,999 --> 00:59:07,809
Well I was on the way over here.
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00:59:07,809 --> 00:59:10,599
I was like, I was like, what am I
gonna, which 1:00 AM I gonna pick?
:
00:59:10,689 --> 00:59:13,329
And I was like, I know if the
proof's too low, Matt Ray's
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00:59:13,329 --> 00:59:15,009
gonna gonna get ahold of me.
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00:59:15,489 --> 00:59:15,759
Tyler: Yep.
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00:59:15,759 --> 00:59:17,109
Jacob: I was like, so
I gotta make him proud.
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00:59:17,619 --> 00:59:18,129
Tyler: There you go.
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00:59:18,219 --> 00:59:18,699
You did.
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00:59:18,819 --> 00:59:19,449
Chris: I think so.
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00:59:19,509 --> 00:59:20,079
For sure.
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00:59:20,829 --> 00:59:25,179
So we're talking about what do you think
about this you've had after your sips?
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00:59:25,179 --> 00:59:25,299
Jacob: Yeah.
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00:59:25,299 --> 00:59:27,039
I think it, honestly, it's delightful.
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00:59:27,039 --> 00:59:27,879
I really like it.
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00:59:27,939 --> 00:59:28,809
Never had it before.
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00:59:29,349 --> 00:59:33,249
Heard about it, seen it, you know, have,
have, you know, had it on a short list,
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00:59:33,249 --> 00:59:35,199
but it would definitely move up the list.
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00:59:35,199 --> 00:59:36,339
I thought it was really good, right.
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00:59:36,519 --> 00:59:37,899
For being the proof that it was.
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It's definitely, it's sips I
think a little lower than that.
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Chris: I'd agree.
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Jacob: There's some spice and
there's some fire, but it's not,
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you know, you get into that one 13
to one 15, it's like, good morning.
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Chris: Yeah.
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Jacob: Yes.
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You know, hello.
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And, and this is, had a nice nose
on it and I think it got better as
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I sipped it, as it sat out a little
bit and breathed from the glass.
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So maybe a little bit of time
when you pour that, but it was,
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it was really, really good.
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Chris: Good.
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Tyler: Perfect.
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Chris: Glad you liked it.
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Jacob: Yeah.
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I appreciate that guys.
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Chris: Tyler.
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Tyler: Thanks so much for coming on.
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Jacob: No, thanks for having me
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Tyler: on that.
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And is there any way that anyone
could reach out to you or anything
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Jacob: like that?
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Reach, reach out?
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Yeah, so, I have a brick and mortar
store here in town AFR across the
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street from the old Defy Gravity.
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Tyler: Oh,
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Jacob: okay.
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It's called I forget what it's called.
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It has a new name now.
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Chris: Oh, is it?
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Okay.
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Jacob: It's still a trampoline place.
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Yeah,
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Chris: trampoline.
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Jacob: Okay.
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It's just not Defy Gravity anymore.
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And so it's behind the ma my office is
behind Matthews Motors truck center.
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Oh, okay.
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So not the original Matthews Motors,
but that truck center right there.
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And so, you know, phone, email,
Facebook anyway, they wanna
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reach out would be great.
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We do high risk drivers.
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We do people who have no points as well.
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They, you know, right.
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Yeah.
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They're happy with no points as well.
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So, you know, my encouragement would
be to get a review, whether, you know,
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whether it's from me or whether it's
from somebody call your agent, Hey, it's
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been a few years, can we take a look?
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More than likely, there's
probably something out there
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that's worth taking a peek at.
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Yeah.
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And so it's I would say the insurance
side of things is just as important
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as reviewing all your other accounts.
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Chris: Right.
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Jacob: Reviewing, you know, meeting with
your finance and wealth guys mm-hmm.
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To make sure you've got, you know,
you, you probably have a better,
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I would assume most people have
a better grip of their assets.
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Right.
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I think it would be good to have
a grip on that liability as well.
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And to make sure that it's
balanced and covered well.
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Tyler: Yeah, exactly.
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Just having assets if
they're not protected.
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Jacob: That's right.
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Chris: True.
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So, 'cause I'm assuming you would
definitely tell your younger self some,
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something along those lines like, Hey,
you should always protect your assets,
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but outside of that, is there something
you would tell your younger self?
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Jacob: Oh man, that's good.
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I, I've gotten to the place where I, I,
although I would like things to maybe
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play out differently in certain areas
of my life, I'm glad they didn't because
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I am who I am today because of that.
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Chris: Hmm.
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If
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Jacob: I could tell something to my
younger self just keep your chin up
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Chris: nice.
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Jacob: Keep your chin up because
what's coming is gonna be better
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than anything you could ever imagine.
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Chris: Nice.
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I love that.
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Like it, I feel like that's
a good way to end it.
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Keep your chin up and we'll
catch you in the next one.
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Cheers.
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Cheers.
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Jacob: Cheers.