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Minnesota: Lessons in Leadership from a Father-Son Dynamic with Craft & Crew Hospitality President, David Benowitz
Episode 10129th January 2025 • Titans of Foodservice • Nick Portillo
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This week on the Titans of Food Service podcast, Nick Portillo speaks with David Benowitz, President of Craft and Crew Hospitality. David discusses the challenges and rewards of working alongside his father, highlighting the need for open communication and the evolution of their relationship as they navigate the complexities of a family business. David elaborates on the entrepreneurial operating system (EOS) that has been pivotal in shaping their company's structure and success, illustrating how it fosters clarity and consistency in operations. David also expresses his commitment to building a legacy that not only supports their staff and families but also prepares the next generation for potential leadership in the business.


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(00:00) Intro

(02:06) Exploring Minnesota's Food Service Scene

(06:16) The Journey into Hospitality

(19:23) The Importance of Networking and Leadership in Business

(21:42) Navigating Family Dynamics in Business

(32:56) Decisions That Shape Our Business Journey

(36:35) Navigating Family and Business Dynamics



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Nick Portillo:

There are a million ways to make money in the food service industry.

Nick Portillo:

You just have to find one.

Nick Portillo:

On the Titans of Food Service podcast.

Nick Portillo:

I interview real life movers and shakers in the food game who cut through all the noise to get to the top.

Nick Portillo:

My name is Nick Portillo and welcome to the Titans of Food Service podcast.

Nick Portillo:

Let's jump right into it.

Nick Portillo:

Welcome back to season three of Titans of Food Service.

Nick Portillo:

I'm your host Nick Portillo and I'm continuing my Journey across America in 50 weeks tour where I'm highlighting one titan of food service from every state.

Nick Portillo:

This week I'm heading to the land of 10,000 Lakes, Minnesota and to do so, I'm thrilled to welcome David Benowitz.

Nick Portillo:

He's the President of Craft and Crew Hospitality.

Nick Portillo:

On the episode we talk about his experience in the business, how he got into the business.

Nick Portillo:

He also works with his dad and the dynamics of a father, son relationship approach, professional relationship and a personal relationship and trying to maintain the two.

Nick Portillo:

It's a really fun, interesting and I even conversation.

Nick Portillo:

I even mentioned David that you know, he's very introspective and I like the the way that he thinks about things and you'll get to see that a little bit in the episode but little background on David.

Nick Portillo:

He leads this impre impressive lineup of restaurants under the Crafting Crew umbrella, some of which include Dukes on 7th, the Block 6, Stanley's Northeast Barroom, Pub, 819, the How Daily Kitchen and Bar, Al's Place and the Bar Drafthouse.

Nick Portillo:

He has a clear commitment to building a corporate culture that values employee growth and guest satisfaction.

Nick Portillo:

He also ensures that Crafting Crew's core values, which are guest satisfaction, crew development, teamwork, creativity, fun and growth are at the center of every decision that they make within the business.

Nick Portillo:

It's this dedication that has helped them create unforgivable dining experiences across across the entire state of Minnesota.

Nick Portillo:

In the conversation we also talk about his use of eos, the entrepreneurial operating system, and how he has a visionary and implementer.

Nick Portillo:

And you're probably wondering what maybe what am I talking about?

Nick Portillo:

Or maybe you are familiar with it.

Nick Portillo:

But we get more into that in the discussion.

Nick Portillo:

Before I dive into my conversation with David, I want to explore a little bit about what makes Minnesota's food service scene so unique.

Nick Portillo:

So it's known for its love of comfort food and locally sourced ingredients.

Nick Portillo:

The state's culinary identity is deeply tied to its Scandinavian and German roots.

Nick Portillo:

The state is famous for iconic dishes like Tater Tot, Hot Dish, Wild Rice Soup and The legendary Juicy Lucy burger, a Minneapolis invention featuring a cheese stuffed patty.

Nick Portillo:

Minnesota also boasts a thriving craft beer scene with over 200 breweries statewide.

Nick Portillo:

And its food service industry generates billions annually, supporting thousands of restaurants and jobs, making it a cornerstone of the local economy.

Nick Portillo:

Now, without further ado, let's go ahead and welcome.

Nick Portillo:

All right, David, welcome to the titans of food service.

Nick Portillo:

Man, I appreciate you taking time to come on and meet with me.

David Benowitz:

Absolutely.

David Benowitz:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

Happy to be a part of this and looking forward to the conversation today.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah.

Nick Portillo:

So how's your.

Nick Portillo:

How's the new year going for you, for your business overall?

David Benowitz:

Pretty pretty well.

David Benowitz:

We had one major setback that was out of our control, which we talked about previously with a fire that we had at one of our stores.

David Benowitz:

But besides that, you know, things are going fairly well as expected.

David Benowitz:

We have a little bit of a downturn in January and February.

David Benowitz:

I think a lot of restaurants do.

David Benowitz:

But to combat that, we pushed out a pretty large gift card sale and also have a pretty aggressive promotion for the month of January on some food items that has been perceived pretty.

David Benowitz:

Pretty well so far in terms of the value play.

David Benowitz:

So, you know, we like to constantly innovate and try new things.

David Benowitz:

So usually this is the time of the year where we'll push a lot of new items out and hopefully one or two sticks that we can continue every January and February.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah, that makes sense.

Nick Portillo:

Why this time of the year?

Nick Portillo:

Why do you push it here at the beginning of a year?

David Benowitz:

Well, look, I mean, I think customers after the holidays are looking to save where they can and have a lot of expenses from the month of December.

David Benowitz:

So at least with our business and where we're located, we've always seen a little bit of a downturn in January and February just because in Minnesota, not only is it cold, but also, as I just previously stated, it tends to be a time of the year where people are looking to find a deal and spend a little bit less.

David Benowitz:

So we try to be pretty aggressive during these months to sustain revenue.

Nick Portillo:

That makes sense.

Nick Portillo:

I was talking to a gentleman just yesterday, actually.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah.

Nick Portillo:

From Minnesota, and he's saying that it was negative five where he was in the state yesterday.

Nick Portillo:

I was like, holy.

Nick Portillo:

Where I'm at right now, it's.

Nick Portillo:

I'm literally looking out the window.

Nick Portillo:

It's sunny.

Nick Portillo:

It's probably about 65, 70 degrees out.

David Benowitz:

Sounds nice.

Nick Portillo:

It's pretty nice.

Nick Portillo:

I.

Nick Portillo:

I've only been in Minnesota once.

Nick Portillo:

Beautiful place.

Nick Portillo:

But I went in the fall and it wasn't too cold.

Nick Portillo:

All the.

Nick Portillo:

The trees were, you Know, turning that brown orangish color.

Nick Portillo:

Beautiful place.

David Benowitz:

And I think I want to look.

David Benowitz:

Minnesota is an awesome place, not only to raise a family, but in the spring, the summer, there's nothing better.

David Benowitz:

But in the winter, it can be pretty brutal.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

Especially if you're not accustomed to the weather, snow and ice.

David Benowitz:

However, the last couple of winters, in terms of snow accumulation, it's been fantastic because there has been very minimal amount.

David Benowitz:

So right now we have maybe a half inch, which for this time of the year, we typically have 20 to 30 inches on the ground.

David Benowitz:

So.

Nick Portillo:

Wow.

Nick Portillo:

Much different climate than where I'm at.

David Benowitz:

Yes.

Nick Portillo:

So tell me, go back to the beginning.

Nick Portillo:

How did you get into the food business?

David Benowitz:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

So, you know, my story is probably a little bit different than.

David Benowitz:

Than most.

David Benowitz:

I actually was always interested in the hotel space.

David Benowitz:

Growing up, I was fascinated by everything in Las Vegas.

David Benowitz:

My parents took me to Las Vegas, I think, when I was 16 or 17 years old.

David Benowitz:

Prior to me being legally able to gamble, that doesn't mean I didn't try to try.

David Benowitz:

And something that most people don't know about me, you know, in junior high and high school, I.

David Benowitz:

When my job was to perform magic and I did it for private events, birthday parties, I.

David Benowitz:

I did a couple local restaurants, like Friday and Saturday nights.

David Benowitz:

Um, so.

David Benowitz:

And Las Vegas is, you know, also known for their acts.

David Benowitz:

And one of that is this magic.

David Benowitz:

So I remember going.

David Benowitz:

Going there as a kid and just being fascinated by.

David Benowitz:

By that aspect of it and then by the sheer volume of.

David Benowitz:

Of people going in and out of the hotels and the restaurants.

David Benowitz:

So I always, you know, had an inkling that I would go into hospitality in some capacity.

David Benowitz:

I just didn't know how to get there.

David Benowitz:

My father was in the bar business, not in the food business growing up.

David Benowitz:

And I saw, you know, a lot of issues with him being in that business.

David Benowitz:

He didn't have a lot of support.

David Benowitz:

It was really him running the show, and he wore every single hat.

David Benowitz:

Didn't have really any structure in place.

David Benowitz:

And in:

David Benowitz:

He purchased a property in a building that had a kitchen, and he had zero food experience.

David Benowitz:

As I just mentioned, I was working for Corporate America at the time, doing inside sales.

David Benowitz:

And I think, you know, two or three months into the.

David Benowitz:

The opening, he called me and said, david, if there's ever a time that he'd be interested to come help me out, I could really utilize your help.

David Benowitz:

And I said, you know, why don't I try working along your side?

David Benowitz:

And inside the restaurant on the weekends I'll continue doing my corporate job.

David Benowitz:

So I did that for about three months and I just, I really saw a path.

David Benowitz:

I didn't know how I would get there, but I knew I could create something great alongside my father.

David Benowitz:

So about three months later I ended up putting my notice in where I'm working with him full time.

David Benowitz:

And we were closely together for about the first decade in the same office in the basement in our south Minneapolis store, which we still have.

David Benowitz:

And then in:

David Benowitz:

But I put out a post for an unpaid marketing intern.

David Benowitz:

I swear that's what the post said.

David Benowitz:

We ended up paying him with food and gas money for the first six months and that was it.

David Benowitz:

I don't think I'd fly anymore.

David Benowitz:

And I just saw his name was Luke and I just saw something in him that I hadn't seen anyone else that had met thus far in the business.

David Benowitz:

And he started running all of our marketing for us.

David Benowitz:

When I went to school, social media really wasn't a thing.

David Benowitz:

So I was trying to align our businesses with Facebook at the time, email marketing.

David Benowitz:

I was doing all that from my own personal email and sending them out, if you remember those days.

David Benowitz:

And you know, he took that on and then eventually went on to run all of our operations and we hired someone else to do marketing for us as an intern.

David Benowitz:

That's sort of been our model is internship into full time position within the organization.

David Benowitz:

It's been a great model for us.

David Benowitz:

We can talk about that more if you want but.

David Benowitz:

And now he.

David Benowitz:

In:

David Benowitz:

And now he's a business partner with myself and my father, who, who my father no longer runs the day to day.

David Benowitz:

So Luke and I oversee all of our stores.

David Benowitz:

We also have ownership in four of our eight concepts.

Nick Portillo:

That's insane that you found someone for an unpaid position on Craigslist.

David Benowitz:

You never know what can happen.

Nick Portillo:

I feel like when you hear Craigslist like it's always kind of a crapshoot of, you know, what you're gonna get from there.

Nick Portillo:

You know, I, I've been, I've not personally been on Craigslist in, I mean probably a decade.

Nick Portillo:

And even back in the day when I would go on it, it's like, you know, whether you want, I, I used to do like Bartering with people.

Nick Portillo:

So I trade things and I, I'd find people on there with stuff they're trying to sell or get rid of.

Nick Portillo:

Every time I deal with someone on there, it's like, this is interesting.

Nick Portillo:

Or, you know, or even when I do a deal, I can.

Nick Portillo:

Broad daylight, I'm trading a golf club for a wallet.

Nick Portillo:

Or it was kind of a fun thing that I was doing.

Nick Portillo:

You're like, is this person, you know, sane and a good person?

Nick Portillo:

I don't know.

David Benowitz:

Correct, correct.

Nick Portillo:

But that is really cool that you found, you know, what would be an eventual business partner of yours through Craigslist.

Nick Portillo:

And so now.

Nick Portillo:

So Luke's job mainly is operations.

Nick Portillo:

Is he?

Nick Portillo:

Or what else does he do?

David Benowitz:

Yeah, so he, he's co owner.

David Benowitz:

So we're, I don't know if you're familiar, Nick, with the traction model.

David Benowitz:

Traction, okay.

David Benowitz:

So, so we're on that model.

David Benowitz:

We've been on it for the last eight years.

David Benowitz:

You know, in terms of the visionary integrator.

Nick Portillo:

Yep.

David Benowitz:

For a while he was our integrator.

David Benowitz:

Okay.

David Benowitz:

Now we're in the process of promoting someone else in that position.

David Benowitz:

So we're, you know, so we're sort of both taking on the visionary role, but we're, we tend to go back and forth as well.

David Benowitz:

So, you know, we both have ideas on how we want the, where the company to go to in terms of the vision, but in terms of, you know, our operations.

David Benowitz:

You know, he had the title for probably seven years of director of operations and again now that that role is going to be going to somebody else.

David Benowitz:

But yeah, I'm grateful every day that I found them.

David Benowitz:

I know how challenging it is just by talking with a lot of my colleagues in the industry locally, having that right hand person by your side to help, not only to talk to, but, you know, to go through all the issues that we go through in our industry every day with being in the people business, there's, you know, it needs constant attention.

David Benowitz:

So it's, it's lonely at the top and you know, to have someone along, along your side is, is truly beneficial.

David Benowitz:

And you know, I, you know, I tell everyone, you know, find, find a good integrator if they're on the EOS model because it's truly a game changer.

David Benowitz:

We wouldn't be even close to the level we're at without him in place.

Nick Portillo:

And for those listening, you know, kind of the EOS model with the visionary and the implementer, because my dad and I, we, we use elements of EOS ourselves where he's kind of the visionary kind of the idea person.

Nick Portillo:

And then he has me.

Nick Portillo:

I'm also kind of a visionary and an implementer.

Nick Portillo:

I do a little bit of both.

Nick Portillo:

But essentially, you know, if he or him and I, we create the idea, then I, I'm in charge of putting the idea into, into action.

Nick Portillo:

And then underneath that, you know, folds out into your rocks, which are like quarterly goals or.

David Benowitz:

Goals.

David Benowitz:

Exactly.

David Benowitz:

Right.

Nick Portillo:

Level 10 meetings, which we do every week within our different divisions, departments within our company to make sure that we're achieving the overall vision and you know, what we set out to do for the, for the year.

Nick Portillo:

So we, we do use elements of that and it's really been nice, you know, just keeping the business on track.

Nick Portillo:

I think for me personally, I'm not necessarily like a good manager of people, but I can understand like putting a process into place and then finding and how, you know, essentially having people help me put that, those things into action and manage the process and manage the people to be able to accomplish what we need to do.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, yeah, I'll say, Nick, you know, if you are looking to grow and if you don't have the right structure, I'm not saying EOS is for everyone.

David Benowitz:

I know there's other operating systems, but I just would advise having something in place to have that structure because people crave structure.

David Benowitz:

And when we first started it, we did have some comments like we're becoming too corporate.

David Benowitz:

But there's a reason for it, right?

David Benowitz:

There's a reason why these large restaurants are who they are, because they have a process and a structure and it's followed every time.

David Benowitz:

You know, consistency is key.

David Benowitz:

Right.

David Benowitz:

And customers need consistency and they're.

David Benowitz:

You're not going to be able to accomplish that without the right systems and protocol in place.

David Benowitz:

I just, I've seen it work so many times well this way.

David Benowitz:

And when, you know, usually when people fail, they don't have.

David Benowitz:

It's either, you know, people process or product.

David Benowitz:

People's number one.

David Benowitz:

But if you don't have the right process for the people, it's.

David Benowitz:

It can fail pretty quickly because people are going to really look for an organization that they feel confident in.

David Benowitz:

And you know, if they feel confident, they're going to be happy coming to work.

David Benowitz:

And so that's what it's all about.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah, you're totally right.

Nick Portillo:

You know, in our experience as well, you know, giving that, as you kind of mentioned, given the structure to the business, I like to tell our team like, hey, we want to do, we want to do big company stuff, but protect and perfect what we do as a, you know, as, as a smaller business, medium business as we grow.

Nick Portillo:

Because if you, if we look at like the things that like a ConAgra does or you know, some of these large just food businesses, for example, you know, they're doing, they're super systematized superstructure, we're not necessarily going to maybe get to that point, but we can work towards those types of things and protect our culture, you know, make it a great place for people to work and EOS's.

Nick Portillo:

Are you a member of VO?

David Benowitz:

I'm not a member of EO, no.

Nick Portillo:

Maybe I should be.

Nick Portillo:

Have you ever heard of EO before?

Nick Portillo:

I have, yeah.

Nick Portillo:

That's how I found out about eos.

Nick Portillo:

I've been in EO now for about five years and it's been great.

Nick Portillo:

You know, you join, you get into a forum with like anywhere between five to eight people and talk about different parts of your business.

Nick Portillo:

You really get to discover a lot of your blind, blind spots because they put you in a group with entrepreneurs that are within other industries that are not your own.

Nick Portillo:

And so it's fascinating to hear how other people, you know, run their business.

Nick Portillo:

And so eos.

Nick Portillo:

Very familiar with that.

Nick Portillo:

I've heard of MAP and there's other, you know, systems out there that people use that seem to be pretty beneficial for their business.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, I was, I was involved with Vistage.

David Benowitz:

I don't know if you've heard of MyStage.

David Benowitz:

I know, yeah, about a year and a half and it was great.

David Benowitz:

I just had some issues with my forum and the people inside that, which is why I dropped out.

David Benowitz:

So I'm familiar with the process of the forum but it's really beneficial, especially if you have the right people in place.

David Benowitz:

That group think model and a lot of the Visage members are on EOS traction.

David Benowitz:

So it's nice to have the same language and in terms of your communication with them as well.

Nick Portillo:

You ever heard of the, the adage?

Nick Portillo:

I'm sure you have.

Nick Portillo:

There's.

Nick Portillo:

If you're on social media, you've heard this, that you are like the sum of your five closest friends.

David Benowitz:

So true.

Nick Portillo:

It is.

Nick Portillo:

And as like I've got so many friends who are growing up, they're just total yahoos.

Nick Portillo:

They're just, you know, fun to hang out with and.

Nick Portillo:

But I was like, I don't want to ditch those because I, I enjoy hanging out with those guys.

Nick Portillo:

But there's also guys in that you can meet at EO or professional, professionally that you know, that you know, in There you can build a network of other people that are entrepreneurs going through a similar type experience.

Nick Portillo:

It doesn't have to be a group like that, but that's been my way of finding, you know, building out my network of people that are going through similar type issues and problems and experiences that I'm going through at the same time.

David Benowitz:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

And the networking piece is, is so crucial, I can't tell you how many avenues I've opened.

David Benowitz:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

Because of where I not only place myself, but also have the opportunity to give of myself as well.

David Benowitz:

rganization that I started in:

Nick Portillo:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

So prior to being envisaged, I was in another program was called Economic Gardening Locally here it was by the Small Business association and where it was like a roundtable format of different industries that came together and talked about real time issues.

David Benowitz:

And I always thought to myself, why isn't there something like this just for restaurants?

David Benowitz:

Maybe nationally there was, but here in the Twin Cities there wasn't at that time.

David Benowitz:

So I'm like, what the hell, I'm just gonna start myself.

David Benowitz:

So I started with three other restaurants that I was pretty close with and now we have, I think, 40 restaurants involved with it.

David Benowitz:

I don't advertise it at all, just sort of a word of mouth.

David Benowitz:

We meet monthly at a different restaurant every month and we, you know, we process issues just like you do in Vistage or, or eo because we're all going through, you know, similar types of issues and maybe if you haven't gone through that issue, maybe you know, someone else that has that help.

David Benowitz:

So we provide, you know, insighted perspective and resources to each other, not only in that meeting, but outside that meeting.

David Benowitz:

And then usually quarterly, we'll bring in an outside speaker to talk about an educational item to help us with our business professionally and sometimes even personally as well.

Nick Portillo:

That's really smart.

Nick Portillo:

I on this, on this podcast, I've had people that have owned restaurants and restaurant chains and every time I talk to somebody within that field, like I always pick up like a little nugget or different tactic that these different restauranteurs do.

Nick Portillo:

And it's like, man, that should be shared across other restaurants.

Nick Portillo:

You know, like, this is a great idea and good for you for starting that.

Nick Portillo:

I think that's really, really cool that you're doing that.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, that's been fun.

David Benowitz:

And it's been, you know, probably the number one reason why I've been able to network the way I have within the Twin Cities, because of that and I don't charge for it, it's just my time.

David Benowitz:

But I tell you, the benefit that I received because it's a free service, you know, there isn't, you know, money that just there's, there's so much value.

Nick Portillo:

Speaking of mentors or working with people within your business, what's it been like working with your dad over the years?

David Benowitz:

Yeah, you know, I, you know, I would be lying if I was saying that it's easy.

David Benowitz:

It hasn't been.

David Benowitz:

I think all family businesses have their challenge.

David Benowitz:

Typically the more family members that are in the business, there's more challenges because of the personality.

David Benowitz:

But my dad and I really had from the beginning a truly different perspective on how to manage the business and the people inside of it from day one.

David Benowitz:

And for the first couple of years I sort of went along with it because I didn't know any better.

David Benowitz:

But as I tested what I thought at the core was right, things started changing for the better.

David Benowitz:

And it took him a while to understand and see that.

David Benowitz:

But when I finally spoke up and self advocated because there was no one else besides me and there's, I have an older brother, but he's not in the business.

David Benowitz:

He started seeing a different way of, of handling the business and thinking differently.

David Benowitz:

But still, even today, even though he's not involved in the day to day, he's on our board, more of an advisor role.

David Benowitz:

He's in town more in the summer than the winter time so that my parents travel in the winter more.

David Benowitz:

I wish they should at their age.

David Benowitz:

It still is challenging just because he, you know, this is really his, his legacy and his life.

David Benowitz:

You know, he, you know, maybe it's a generational thing, but he hasn't really built a lot outside of his business.

David Benowitz:

Like this is how he identifies himself.

David Benowitz:

And for me, I identify myself in a lot of other aspects of my life in terms of know my hobbies and you know, my family and my networking groups.

David Benowitz:

Obviously the business is important, but we, so we look at, we also look at life very differently.

David Benowitz:

So we've had a lot of those discussions.

David Benowitz:

est thing for me right now in:

David Benowitz:

Like there's the family component and then there's the business component.

David Benowitz:

And what is like, what is most important?

David Benowitz:

Right?

David Benowitz:

What is most important like are, you know, we've, I've been at this for 21 years.

David Benowitz:

as been in the business since:

David Benowitz:

He'll be 75 this year.

David Benowitz:

We have a really good structure in place.

David Benowitz:

The, the business is pretty solid in terms of the people we have now.

David Benowitz:

And, and again, the just organizational structure component, you know, if he wasn't involved, things would continue on this, this path with the people we have.

David Benowitz:

And, you know, to clearly articulate that to him, I think is, Is important.

David Benowitz:

So that's, that's a lot of the conversations we've been having recently is let's really try to, you know, solidify the family piece and the father son piece first and the business second.

David Benowitz:

Because for the past 21 years, it's been all, you know, 90% of the relationship in the business has been the business and, you know, family and personal ties into it, but only if the business comes up.

David Benowitz:

And I don't, at this point in our lives and our careers, I don't agree with it because nothing is guaranteed, right?

David Benowitz:

Nothing is guaranteed.

David Benowitz:

And I would hate to look back if something were to happen and regret not having these hard conversations.

David Benowitz:

And nobody likes to have hard conversations, right.

David Benowitz:

And again, there aren't any other family members to advocate, so I have to self advocate.

David Benowitz:

So it's taken me a long time to come this realization and really be upfront and vulnerable, but I think it's really important.

David Benowitz:

Another reason why I started writing this family business book that I'm writing, it's a family business blueprint.

David Benowitz:

And you know, there's a lot of family business books out there.

David Benowitz:

I think mine is going to be different because of the conversations not only I've had with my father, and I go into pretty great detail on how I started those and the outcomes of those conversations, but I interviewed about 25 other business owners of first, second, third, fourth generations and their experience versus what I've experienced over the 21 years.

David Benowitz:

And I wanted to put this book out, and I'm going to be putting this book out because I want to help other small family businesses succeed.

David Benowitz:

Because I wish I had the knowledge and understanding I have today, 20 years ago, because I would have done things a lot differently and I would have saved a lot more time, saved a lot more money and energy, you know, just mental space and capacity and then sleep.

David Benowitz:

I mean, it's been challenging.

David Benowitz:

And you know, there's been times over the past 20 years where I thought about quitting.

David Benowitz:

I'm not gonna lie, because it's been so hard.

David Benowitz:

But at the end of the day, you know, I had to continue on for my family and for the legacy of the brands.

David Benowitz:

I knew we could build something much bigger than what it was.

David Benowitz:

And we had so many people that relied on us.

David Benowitz:

Not only our staff, but also their families.

David Benowitz:

So when I looked at that, I was like, we know.

David Benowitz:

I knew if I were to give up, things would fall along, and that was not okay with me.

David Benowitz:

So we're in a better position today than we were, you know, four years ago.

David Benowitz:

I'll say.

David Benowitz:

You know, four years ago, it was in a pretty bad and dark spot.

David Benowitz:

And that's when I started to think, like, how can I take this and really help other people?

David Benowitz:

Because I know there's other people in the same position that are struggling.

David Benowitz:

And because it's family, these conversations are hard, and I just want to help.

David Benowitz:

So this book I've been working on for about the last year and a half, it's, you know, taken as much time as it has just because of the business.

David Benowitz:

Right.

David Benowitz:

Like, we had a fire in one of our kitchens this summer, and then we opened another business.

David Benowitz:

So, you know, and so I'm currently working on.

David Benowitz:

It's all written, but now it's being edited, and hopefully Q1.

David Benowitz:

At the end of Q1, it will be coming up so you can look for it.

David Benowitz:

But it's.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, it's.

David Benowitz:

It's.

David Benowitz:

The title, at least right now is just a Family Business, Family Business Blueprint.

David Benowitz:

And it'll be in online on Amazon very soon.

Nick Portillo:

I like that.

Nick Portillo:

I could definitely empathize being in a family business, working with my dad as well.

Nick Portillo:

And it's a weird.

Nick Portillo:

There's a.

Nick Portillo:

There's a power dynamic.

Nick Portillo:

Right, for me and for you.

Nick Portillo:

You know, our dads have been in this.

Nick Portillo:

Doing this, you know, type of work for a very long time, and they have the experience.

Nick Portillo:

And then we come in as.

Nick Portillo:

As, you know, this.

Nick Portillo:

The son already in this.

Nick Portillo:

In a different, you know, power.

Nick Portillo:

In a power dynamic where he, you know, is.

Nick Portillo:

Is the older, is the elder.

Nick Portillo:

We've always looked up to him as a dad, and now we're in a professional.

Nick Portillo:

I like what you said, too.

Nick Portillo:

Like, the first couple years, you kind of just went along with it, and then you start to learn and then you start to apply, you know, the things that you've learned in your life and your education into the business and is it accepted?

Nick Portillo:

You know, just because it was done1way 20 years ago May not be how we want to do it today.

Nick Portillo:

You know, are they open to change and things like that?

Nick Portillo:

I was actually talking with a buddy of mine this last week, and he's in a business where it's him and another gentleman, and my buddy's 31, and.

Nick Portillo:

And the guy's in his 60s and it's multiple generations older and how that person views business and, you know, the use of technology and, you know, they're constantly in this battle of no, we.

Nick Portillo:

In order to get new customers and retain the ones we have, we have to look at the business a lot different.

Nick Portillo:

They're a financial advising firm.

Nick Portillo:

They have to look at the business a lot differently than how it's always been.

Nick Portillo:

So it's very unique in.

Nick Portillo:

In that way.

Nick Portillo:

And I also resonate, too, with what you're saying with.

Nick Portillo:

Between the boundaries of work and family.

Nick Portillo:

My dad, I think, in many ways, does view his job as his identity, where I'm kind of like yourself, right?

Nick Portillo:

My job, my family, and there's, like, more to life.

Nick Portillo:

I think maybe it's a generational thing or maybe it's a personal thing.

Nick Portillo:

I don't know.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, it probably is.

David Benowitz:

It probably is.

David Benowitz:

And it's interesting.

David Benowitz:

oint, Nick, I can remember in:

David Benowitz:

Doing business the way we're doing right now is not going to get us there.

David Benowitz:

And we need to think differently.

David Benowitz:

We need to think outside the box.

David Benowitz:

We need to bring in other resources.

David Benowitz:

And, you know, shortly thereafter, I introduced, you know, I was introduced to the traction EOS model by a colleague in a different industry.

David Benowitz:

And I brought in a professional implementer to, you know, implement this for our company.

David Benowitz:

And she had to have several meetings with my dad about the process because this.

David Benowitz:

This idea of not only investing in a concept like this over the course of several years, but bringing in an outside professional to.

David Benowitz:

To lead our leadership team at that time was foreign to my dad.

David Benowitz:

And, you know, after the first meeting, he was.

David Benowitz:

He's like, I don't think this is going to work.

David Benowitz:

I don't see, you know, a reason to invest, you know, tens of thousands of dollars into this.

David Benowitz:

What we're doing right now is just fine.

David Benowitz:

So the conversations that had to happen and just to put that structure into place was immense.

David Benowitz:

And it was, you know, both on myself and with Luke talking to him about it.

David Benowitz:

You know, fortunately we were able to convince him.

David Benowitz:

But.

David Benowitz:

And, you know, that, you know, I'm so glad we did it because, you know, that was really, you know, the turning point of our business.

David Benowitz:

It really was, I think back of like, what is one, you know, now you know, I say to, to my, to my kids, like everyone, I believe, you know, there's four or five decisions, professionally and personally, that someone makes throughout their lives that can greatly change the trajectory of their life.

David Benowitz:

Right.

David Benowitz:

And what are those four or five decisions going to be for, for you?

David Benowitz:

Like the thing.

David Benowitz:

And it could be, you know, positive or it could be a negative thing.

David Benowitz:

Right.

David Benowitz:

It can happen really quickly.

David Benowitz:

You never know when it's going to happen.

David Benowitz:

You know, for our business, I would say that is one of the four or five decisions that we made that completely changed the trajectory of our business.

David Benowitz:

Now personally, I can identify those two in my head.

David Benowitz:

And we were actually just on winter break with our family and we had this conversation at the dinner table one night right before New Year's Eve.

David Benowitz:

We all talked about them up until this point in our lives.

David Benowitz:

Like, what do we believe it is?

David Benowitz:

But I truly believe that at any moment it can change based upon a decision that you make.

David Benowitz:

And it's really interesting to think about that.

David Benowitz:

But that's implementing eos into our business was definitely one of ours.

David Benowitz:

And the organization still feels it 10 years later.

David Benowitz:

It really does.

Nick Portillo:

I like how you put that too, like you kind of having four to five big decisions in your professional life.

Nick Portillo:

You know, I look back on the, the history of my business, which has been around for 10 years now, and there has been, yeah, a couple big things that really, I mean, you have years of, you know, you have years of growth and years of, you know, loss as well.

Nick Portillo:

But it's really been a couple, you know, a few decisions that have really been, you know, instrumental on how we made it to 10 years and how we got to where we're at now that we're in 10 years.

Nick Portillo:

I like how you said that.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, thank you.

Nick Portillo:

What do you hope to achieve with your dad?

David Benowitz:

I really hope we can get to a place where he's, he's looking at the bigger picture of what this is all about versus, you know, my dad is.

David Benowitz:

And maybe this is a generational thing.

David Benowitz:

My dad is a very numbers driven, financial minded person.

David Benowitz:

So majority of our conversations revolve around that because that's what he knows and that's what he looks at.

David Benowitz:

We just had a conversation last week about this, that now I said, dad, if you think about the last 10 years, how many times have you come to me or even come to Luke and said, you know, we, what can we do to create more value for our guests?

David Benowitz:

What can we do to provide more benefits or maybe different benefits for our staff to Maybe make them think differently about the organization or maybe to attract different types of talent that you've never had those conversations with us and that's okay because we have it handled.

David Benowitz:

But just think about it like everything we talk about is financially related to the businesses that you own 100%.

David Benowitz:

Because that's just how his mind always operates.

David Benowitz:

And that ties, as I talked about earlier, that ties directly into our personal relationship too because it is constantly coming up.

David Benowitz:

So I hope we can get to a place where he thinks of family first and he sees me as his son first versus his business partner first.

David Benowitz:

Because right now, and I'll tell him this too, I feel that he sees me as his partner and then his son and especially at this point in his life, he's going to be 75.

David Benowitz:

I don't think that's okay.

David Benowitz:

And I'm not comfortable with it anymore.

David Benowitz:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

So that I, so I, I think that answers your question where he's just, he, he sees me differently versus how he's seen me over the past 20 years because nothing is guaranteed and we just really need to think about the big picture and where we're at and what's truly important.

Nick Portillo:

If you can go back in time over 20 years ago when you started, would you have chosen to do this?

David Benowitz:

I would, I would.

David Benowitz:

I'm a true believer that, you know, everything really happens for a reason.

David Benowitz:

And I think I was, I think my dad asked me and pushed me to come help him versus my brother because he knew, you know, consciously or unconsciously that I was going to have the ability to take us to the level that we're at today.

David Benowitz:

And I just, maybe not that I'm better or smarter than my brother, but I probably think a little bit differently when it comes to business and to marketing and to people.

David Benowitz:

There's also the, the family component where my wife is truly understanding of the situation that I'm in and she allows me to have the flexibility that is needed, especially earlier on in my career when we are opening a lot of stores and having small kids where my sister in law, not that she is inflexible and this wonderful person, but she doesn't necessarily have that same mindset.

David Benowitz:

So there's a lot that goes into it.

David Benowitz:

So I, I just, I truly feel that I was put in this position for, for a reason.

David Benowitz:

And you know, now I'm, I'm trying, you know, not only to, to build this legacy for my, my family, but you know, our brand and the Twin Cities is, you know, fairly well known in our space.

David Benowitz:

In our niche, of our.

David Benowitz:

Of our restaurant in terms of the, I would say the elevated American cuisine space.

David Benowitz:

And that means a lot.

David Benowitz:

Like, we.

David Benowitz:

I want to continue it and, you know, have it grow, and I want to be there for only our staff, but.

David Benowitz:

But their families.

David Benowitz:

And if one of my kids or my brother's kids has the skill set and brings something of value to the table and truly has a passion for the industry, I want this to be there for them as well.

David Benowitz:

So I'd.

David Benowitz:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

So I would.

David Benowitz:

I would say yes.

David Benowitz:

I, I.

David Benowitz:

Even though it has been by far and away the most challenging piece of my life, it's also been the most rewarding because I've.

David Benowitz:

I've been able to not only gain so much, you know, perspective, but it's challenged me in a way that I never thought I could be challenged.

David Benowitz:

And it's, you know, brought me out of my comfort zone so many times that I've had to be uncomfortable and reach out for help in ways I never thought that I would or could.

David Benowitz:

But then in turn, that's brought opportunities to me that I never thought that I would have.

David Benowitz:

So I, you know, I never, you know, 20 years, I mean, before I started in this business, just growing up, I was a very introverted child and had a really challenging time.

David Benowitz:

I can even remember growing up, like, ordering food at a restaurant.

David Benowitz:

I had the hardest time communicating with a server.

David Benowitz:

I remember my parents talking to me about it, and it took me, like, years and years and years just to order myself because I was so shy and just a true introvert.

David Benowitz:

So thinking about what I do now and the opportunities I have and the speaking engagements that I've done within the industry that never would have happened if I didn't go along this path.

David Benowitz:

So I.

David Benowitz:

I'm truly grateful for the opportunity that I've been given, but also grateful for the people in my life and the people in our organization that have helped shape what craft and crew hospitality is today.

Nick Portillo:

Incredible.

Nick Portillo:

You're such an introspective person.

Nick Portillo:

Despite all of the challenges you mentioned that it's been rewarding and that you would do this again.

Nick Portillo:

And, you know, with the future of, you know, your own kids and, you know, your.

Nick Portillo:

Your nephews and nieces and, you know, potentially, if they ever want to get in the business, I'm sure maybe you do things differently than how it was given to you.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah.

Nick Portillo:

Worked with you, but I think that's really cool.

David Benowitz:

Yeah.

David Benowitz:

You know, I've always said with regard to any family member, you know, we're not going to just have a position for them.

David Benowitz:

Like they have to prove themselves.

David Benowitz:

Right.

David Benowitz:

They have to bring value to the organization and have not only the passion but the skill set, you know, otherwise it's not going to work because there has been that has happened with a family member where we did not allow them to come in because we didn't feel that they were bringing value.

David Benowitz:

They just wanted it.

David Benowitz:

That doesn't mean that you're going to come into the business just because you.

David Benowitz:

You like it or want it, so.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah, exactly.

Nick Portillo:

Well, David, I want to say thank you so much, I mean, truly for being vulnerable today, sharing your story.

Nick Portillo:

Just thank you so much that you came on and did that.

Nick Portillo:

So thank you.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, you're welcome.

David Benowitz:

You're welcome.

David Benowitz:

Thanks for having me.

Nick Portillo:

Yeah, next time I'm out there, man, I'll have to come by and check out your.

Nick Portillo:

The different concepts that you have.

David Benowitz:

Yeah, I appreciate it.

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