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What Most People Get Wrong About Collaboration (Especially When You’re Building a Business with Chronic Illness)
Episode 19716th May 2025 • Business With Chronic Illness • Nikita Williams
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If you’ve been told that lead generation means pitching constantly, being visible everywhere, or following a one-size-fits-all funnel strategy… this episode is going to feel like a deep breath.

In this solo episode, I share the most powerful (and overlooked) way to grow your audience, build trust, and attract aligned clients — through the sustainable and soul-led path of community and collaboration.

Whether you're just starting out or looking to refine your approach as a coach, creative, or service provider living with chronic illness, I’ll share how to use your hobbies, professional skills, and innate talents to build visibility and create genuine relationships that convert — without pretending, burning out, or pushing beyond your body’s limits.

You’ll walk away with:

  • The #1 mindset shift that makes collaboration sustainable
  • How to attract aligned leads using your actual interests (not just business strategies)
  • A simple weekly rhythm for connection, even if you only have one good hour a week
  • Real-life examples of how I grew my podcast and audience without paid ads or constant posting
  • Gentle journal prompts to help you turn your personality into your magnet

This episode is a gentle nudge to do things differently — and proof that you can generate leads from a place of alignment, joy, and rest.

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Today's episode is one that is going to

talk about lead generation or acquiring

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more people to know about what you do so

that you can nurture and convert them.

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And we're talking about this

through one of my favorite ways of

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creating lead generation, which is

through collaboration and community.

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And I'm going to share with you why

most people are doing it in a way

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that leads to burnout, misalignment,

and just plain disappointment.

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So whether you're at the start of

your business or you've been building

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for a while, you've likely heard

that you need to network, you need

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to pitch, you need to get visible,

you need to collab with the right.

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People, and maybe you've tried,

but something about it has

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felt off, it's felt draining.

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It's felt awkward, it's felt one-sided.

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It's just not felt authentically

you in any way, shape or form.

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And this is not just for introverts

that feel like this, but also

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extroverts have felt like this as well.

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So if you've ever felt like I don't

have the energy to be everywhere.

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Or I have the energy to be everywhere,

but I don't wanna be everywhere.

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I'm not the kind of person who

just slides into people's dms.

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I want real connection, not just

the surface level kind of collab.

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You itch my back eye.

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It's yours.

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This episode is for you.

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Welcome to Business with Chronic Illness,

the Globally Ranked podcast for women

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living with chronic illness who want

to start and grow a business online.

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I'm your host, Nikita Williams and I

went from living a normal life to all

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of a sudden being in constant pain

with no answers to being diagnosed

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with multiple chronic illnesses.

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And trying to make a livable income.

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I faced the challenge of adapting

traditional business advice to fit

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my unique circumstances with chronic

illness, feeling frustrated and more

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burned out than I already was while

managing my chronic illness to becoming

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an award-winning coach with a flexible,

sustainable online coaching business.

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I found the surprisingly simple

steps to starting growing a

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profitable business without

compromising my health or my peace.

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Since then, I've helped dozens of women

just like you learn how to do the same.

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If you're ready to create a thriving

business that aligns with your lifestyle

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and wellbeing, you're in the right place.

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Together, we're shifting the narrative

of what's possible for women with

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chronic illness and how we make a living.

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This is business with chronic illness.

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A value that guides everything that I

do is something I wanna share with you

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before we dive into this conversation.

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It's probably one of my deepest

truths when I think about

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how I've grown my business.

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Community holds us,

collaboration grows us.

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This value runs through my

entire business ecosystem.

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It's how I've built

long-term trust with clients.

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It's how my podcast has grown without paid

ads, and it's also how people find me and

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feel like they know me instantaneously

and want to be in my offers or in

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my world, or just connect, right?

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Because.

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The reason why I believe this is because

community is what holds us through the

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messy parts when we're authentically

showing up and being who we are, and

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collaboration is what expands us beyond

our current reach or our current rooms

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or situation, but only when it's done

from alignment and not performance.

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So today I'm going to walk you through

one powerful shift you can make to

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build community and collaborations that

feel good, that support your capacity,

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and that actually move your business

forward without burning you out.

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Now, there is a lot to this actually,

when I was thinking about this episode.

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So I'm just gonna break down

for you in this episode.

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The most important starting point I want

you to remember when it comes to this and.

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Most people start in the wrong place

when it comes to lead generation when

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you're using collaboration and community.

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So I wanna share what I think

has been the reason why people

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are starting at the wrong place.

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This is just to bring

more awareness to why.

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If you've been doing this way, it

hasn't been working, or if you've

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been wanting to do this, why you

haven't really leaned into it more.

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Most people try to network, quote unquote,

before they connect to themselves.

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They ask, who should I be pitching?

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What's the best strategy to get seen?

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Who do I need to know to grow faster?

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But when your life includes.

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Everyday ups and downs, chronic illness,

burnout, recovery, or just being a

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deep feeling sensitive human being.

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That strategy doesn't feel right.

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It just feels completely out of alignment.

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It feels transactional because

it skips the most important part.

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Your capacity, your values, your rhythm,

your vibe, and your actual reality.

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So instead of asking how do I get

in the right rooms, try asking

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where do I already feel most myself?

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The real starting point is

what's gonna help you connect

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in the right rooms, right?

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Connecting from what you care

about is what will help you

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shift your thoughts about this.

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So start your collaborations and

your community building from what

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already brings you joy, both inside

and outside of your business.

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It's that lane that I always

say that business is personal.

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It's that point that what, who and you

are vicariously is being brought into

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your business in some way, shape, or form.

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And that is a part of how we can grow.

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This is what I've coached so many of my

clients through and it changes everything.

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Why does it do that?

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Because it removes the pressure to

quote unquote perform to be something

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that you're not and anchors your

connection in truth not tactics.

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It naturally attracts people

who value what you value.

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So what does this look like?

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Maybe you love talking about plants

and your home habits or DIY projects.

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Maybe you're obsessed with long form

content like podcasting or YouTubes.

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Maybe you're a huge book reader

and you love mystery or you love,

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old school books, or maybe you're a

poet and you love poetry maybe you

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love slow mornings and journaling

and scrapbooking and book clubs.

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Maybe you enjoy certain

aspects of your creativity.

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Paint by numbers crocheting,

maybe you love music.

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Like I do.

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And it's just something you

are feel, you feel so moved to.

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Maybe it's traveling.

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There's so many things.

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There are so many doors into connection.

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And from that connection,

collaboration grows.

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And here's the beautiful part for

anyone listening who's still learning

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how to make a livable income with your

hobbies, your professional skills, or

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your innate talents, community holds us.

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Collaboration grows us,

is your business model.

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If you want to start coaching,

creating, or consulting online without

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burning out, this is where you begin.

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You let community hold your

confidence while you're building.

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You let collaboration grow

your visibility, even if you

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only show up once a week.

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Let your values and your passion be

the map, not someone else's funnel.

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This is how you grow using strategies

that work even on flare days, even on

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brain fog days or just bad days and

unpredictable life things happening

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because you're not forcing output.

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You're creating connection.

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You're sharing from what's

already inside of you.

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That's lead generation

that works with your body.

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With your reality.

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This can happen in a doctor's office.

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This can happen at the mall.

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This can happen at

getting your nails done.

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Leads can come from anywhere and so can

clients, and that is how your income

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comes from this place of integrity.

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That's how you build a business

that actually feels like you.

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So here's what I did back in the

early days when I started my podcast.

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I wanna share this in context of

like how I know this is to be true.

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And also currently I'm like

playing with TikTok and.

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I'm testing out this theory on this new

platform on how this is working, and my

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first viral pieces of content came from

literally this truth, this reality, right?

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Is tapping into things that I just

values are, I'm con connected to.

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But let me go back to the

days with the podcast.

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When I started my podcast back

in:

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who is a big or small person.

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I was like, wasn't trying to

think about who is most famous.

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I was just trying to connect with people

that I felt like there might have been

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some resonance, some commonalities.

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Some common ground, some interest

that I was interested in, right?

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I wasn't tracking audience numbers,

I wasn't trying to optimize my reach.

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I was thinking, who do I genuinely admire?

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Who feels aligned with what I believe in?

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And from there, I made it a practice.

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Every week I picked three people on

Instagram to just to engage with.

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I didn't pitch them.

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I asked them questions.

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I learned about them.

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I engaged with their content.

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I did not slide into their dms

automatically to ask favors.

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I just connected.

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I'd reply to a story, comment on a post

that resonated, ask questions like I said,

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and tear them on, and eventually it felt.

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It just felt good to naturally

lead into I love your content.

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I love who you are.

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I love to get curious

about you and your story.

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Would you be interested

being on my podcast?

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Not because they had a massive

following, but because they had

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something to say about their story

or something to share, something

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that aligned with the conversations.

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I wanted to hold space for that

simple rhythm built relationships

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that I still have today years later,

and some of those people are now.

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Doing huge things like very popular, but

when they first came on my show, they

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were just people I connected with and

I think that's a really big, important

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piece because that's how I have led

with my values and why I've been able to

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sustainably keep growing in the way that

I have done it, especially on my show.

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And I'm testing this theory out as well,

in a way, on TikTok by talking about

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all these all these different buckets

of things that I am interested in.

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And it's not just business related.

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And I'm really bringing my full

personality as much as I can that

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feels good and within my capacity.

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And I believe that's the reason why

I went pretty viral pretty quickly.

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Now let's be real for a second.

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This is a note on capacity.

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You might think that sounds

great, Nikita, but I'm tired.

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I'm already stretched thin.

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I don't have the energy to

engage like that, and I get it.

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Which is why I teach this as

a capacity conscious process.

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You don't need to connect

with 30 people a week.

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You can start with one.

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You don't need to go to

five networking events.

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You can start by joining a conversation

online that feels safe and welcoming.

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In fact, I often coach my clients to

choose one platform, one value thread,

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and one intention and build from there.

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Because when you respect your capacity,

you build connections that respect it too.

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So let's reflect, pull out your pen

and paper journal or whatever, because

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this is the part that will help you be

more intentional in creating these this

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community and these collaborations that

will lead to leads is these questions.

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What topics, hobbies, or experiences

make you feel most like yourself?

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Where am I already engaging with

curiosity and joy that I want to share?

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What parts of my business or

things that I do is something

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that I could talk hours and hours

about and not feel like it's work.

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What would it feel like to build

a community based on shared

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values, not just business metrics?

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So I'm gonna say that again.

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What would it feel like

to build community based.

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On shared values, not

just business metrics.

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These questions are the foundation

of sustainable visibility.

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This is how you grow without doing more.

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Because again, say it with me, community

holds us, collaboration grows us.

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This is how we scale visibility, deepen,

trust, and expand without doing more.

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So here's what I want you to know.

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You don't have to network

like everyone else.

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You don't have to

collaborate like a marketer.

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You don't have to push yourself

into burnout to be seen.

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You can build from your truth.

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You can collaborate from your

capacity, and you can connect through

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resonance or vibing, not just reach.

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And when you do the people who

are meant for you, they find you.

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You don't need to be

everywhere all of the time.

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You just need to be

where your values live.

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Your energy will do the rest.

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So if you're craving more of this kind

of approach, one of one that makes

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space for your reality, your rhythm,

and your values, come join us inside

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of chronically UN and Profitable.

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My hybrid group coaching program where I

give you one-on-one coaching along with

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a group community where women living

with chronic illness are wanting to

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build a business that is sustainable.

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Literally, if you decide to join, by the

end of this week that you're listening

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to this, you could get your own capacity

conscious plan on how to start lead

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generating for your business so you can

bring clients and build a community that

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serves you even when you're resting.

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All right, until next time.

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That's a wrap for this episode

of Business with Chronic Illness.

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If you would like to start and grow

an online coaching business with me,

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head to the show notes to click a link

to book a sales call, and learn how

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to make money with chronic illness.

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at ww dot crafted to thrive.com.

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