In this special first-anniversary edition, we recorded LIVE with host Linda Orsini of the A Call For LOVE podcast. Linda is an expert in mindset, movement, and meditation, as well as a transformation life coach and founder of Global Wellness Education. She is here to help you HEAL from the fear that keeps you small and to AWAKEN your HIGHEST SELF, guiding you to discover your personal power, purpose, and passion.

Joined by Jodie Pappas as the MC and Darlene Guirde Butts as the co-host, they delve deep into "Manifest More For 2024" to help you raise your vibration. The conversation focuses on personal interactions, self-awareness, and the impact of positive energy. They share experiences and insights on the importance of self-worth, trust, surrender, and celebrating life.

This special live recording captures the excitement and high energy of the audience, providing valuable advice for listeners to create more abundance, a healthier mindset, and realize their dreams to feel healthier, happier, and wealthier.

Meet Jodie Pappas, the MC

Jodie is a Healthy Aging Expert who coaches women who are struggling to embrace their midlife body, using a restriction-free approach. Jodie’s coaching method uses her three pillars of health expertise: Mindful nutrition, Movement, and Non-toxic living. She is the founder of Clean Kiss Lifestyle and Soma + Soul Wellness and has been helping women transform their health for over a decade.

Meet Darlene Guirde Butts, the co-host.

Darlene is an award-winning speaker, three-time best-selling author, and founder of the Clarity Project is an intuitive, soul-based coach using a powerful combination of psychology, strong intuition, and business strategy to help her clients overcome their fears, doubts, and insecurities. By going deep and discovering the blocks that are hindering them from prospering both spiritually and financially, her clients rediscover their authentic selves and create a life and career that is aligned and prosperous.

Linda's Website: Global Wellness Education

Darlene's Contact: https://hummovement.com/

Connect with Jodie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somasoulwellness/

About Linda:

Have you ever battled overwhelming anxiety, fear, self-limiting beliefs, soul fatigue or stress? It can leave you feeling so lonely and helpless. We’ve all been taught how to be courageous when we face physical threats but when it comes to matters of the heart and soul we are often left to learn, "the hard way."

As a school teacher for over 30+ years, struggling with these very issues, my doctor suggested anti-anxiety medication but that didn't resonate with me so I sought the healing arts. I expanding my teaching skills and became a yoga, meditation, mindfulness, reiki and sound healer to step into my power and own my impact. 

A Call for Love will teach you how to find the courage to hold space for your fears and tears. To learn how to love and respect yourself and others more deeply.  

My mission is to guide you on your journey. I believe we can help transform the world around us by choosing love. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love anyone else? Join a call for love. 

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Hi there, welcome to a call for loves. first anniversary live podcast celebration. How exciting is this? Thank you so much for taking the time and energy to share in this event. This is so exciting for Linda, as we celebrate. We're here to connect. We're here to collaborate. And this is all about manifesting more for 2024. Right. That's why we're here. So my name is Jodie Pappas. I'm the MC here tonight. And I'm a holistic wellness practitioner. So I am the brand founder of clean kiss lifestyle. And one lucky person is going to get a great basket tonight. And I'm also the founder of Soma and soul wellness. So I help women in midlife to enjoy the aging process to celebrate it to not try to fight it down. But to do that through nutrition movement and non toxic lifting. So that's a little bit of who I am. And I would love to congratulate Linda for having the vision to create this podcast. So as of today, there are 57 episodes, right? And 41 five star reviews. How amazing is that? That deserves a big round of applause. That is so impressive. And she didn't even give me this in the note. So I had not gotten to some reason. I had to do some research today so that I could share those really cool facts with you. So my claim to fame is that I had the honor of being Linda's very first guest. It was episode six that it was titled orthorexia healthy eating gone bad, so that if you haven't heard it, I do encourage you to go check that out. So together our friendship has blossomed over the years, we first met through our mutual yoga community. And we hosted our first ever yoga retreat one day retreat in September that just passed. So that was really cool. I actually remember the day that Linda called me from her cottage to tell me that she was planning the next chapter of her life. She was retiring from teaching for more than 30 years. And she was going to become a business and wellness mentor. So that was really cool. And guess what? I think she did it right. Here we are. Yeah, another another round of applause. So suffice it to say two and a half years into founding global wellness education. She's celebrating her first anniversary as a podcast coat, pod, cast host of a call for love. Right. That's why we're here. She has not stopped there. So in fact, in mid February coming up, she will be a published author, contributing as a powerful collaborator for a book called The Forgotten children, where she writes a personal and impactful chapter titled, nurturing our last children's emotional well being. After hosting many in person courses on healing. Linda is offering her first online course beginning Sunday, January 21. That's this Sunday, it's coming up called Emotional Freedom getting unstuck. This is a course designed to help you heal from the fear that keeps you small, in order to awaken your highest self to discover your personal power for peace, purpose and passion. Very cool. As a transformational coach and advocate for mindset, movement and meditation, Linda has dedicated her life to serving others on their mindset, movement and meditation journey. She does this through transformative life coaching, being a speaker, of course creator, and so much more. And I'm so grateful to be on this journey with her. We are all here to share and support each other here tonight. So release your old stories. Step into your personal power, and share that light and love with everyone that's here. Since this podcast will be recorded, as Linda mentioned, we do ask that you kindly stay seated. I know you're gonna want to get up and jump and cheer. But do have fun. Do clap, do laugh, do do all the things. And most of all, definitely have fun. Without further ado, I'm turning it over to Linda and she is going to take it away. Incredible Linda, thank you.

Thank you, Jodie. Thank you, Jodie. It's a real pleasure to be here. Because I really believe in connection. I believe in supporting each other and I believe that we We really have power to influence or change our lives. And, you know, it's a testimony of coming together and sharing the experience. So I really, really thank you for coming here. And I would like to introduce my co host and mentor Darlene Gudrie Butts. She is an award winning speaker three times bestselling author and founder of the Clarity Project, and even the hum of the ham movement. As an intuitive soul based coach, she uses a powerful combination of psychology, strong intuition and business strategy to help her clients overcome their fears and doubts. She was my mentor, actually my coach strategy to help her clients overcome all those things. And by going deep and discovering the blocks that are hindering them from prospering both spiritually right, we want to evolve our souls. And financially, he says a lot of money mindset, her clients, rediscover their authentic selves and create a life and career that is aligned and prosperous. So I really thank God for coming here. And we are going to begin this conversation of Manas festing more for 24, who I'm so

Darlene Gudrie Butts: happy to be here. I was actually at the genesis of this podcast, when she told me that she wanted to do a podcast and we were coming up with different names and a call for love came up. And we both went, Yes, yes, it's a perfect representation of her. And all of the work that she does. So I am honored to be the guest today, and to be on the other side of the coin. And I get to do whatever you tell me to.

Well, we're going to talk about what's the new year and I believe 2023 was tough. And the preceding years before, it was tough, I do feel like even though every day is a new beginning, just the calendar reset to a new year, is helps us really create that mindset. And so we are going to talk about manifesting more. And before we actually begin, I would like everybody, if it's safe to do so to just close your eyes for a moment, plays both feet on the ground. And you can place your palms on your thighs if you wish. And I would like us to take a deep breath in through our nose. Exhale, sight out the MEL through the mouth, the breath. And then come to mind about what comes into your mind about manifesting more for 24. What comes to mind when you create an image in your mind? What do you see Flash before you

and then take a deep breath in through your nose. And then just blow that out into the universe into the ether. And let's see how we can really dive into this and see if it transforms. Right evolves. All right, Darlene. Okay, let's go. You take it away. Darlene's a smarty.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: I thought you're gonna ask me questions. But hey, I could talk all day by myself. I think really the simplest place to start about manifesting is the fact that I think As Napoleon Hill that said, whatever the mind can conceive and believe you can achieve that is the most simplest form of manifestation. But there's a lot of other parts to it. And I think people get frustrated because they're like, I've thought about what I want, and I believe I'm gonna get it and it's not here. What is wrong with this picture. And it's because of all of the deeper aspects of manifesting. A lot of people don't understand, don't take the time to actually go through and also maybe needing something or someone to help them go through the process. Because we all have these subconscious blocks that we are unaware of. And until you're aware of them, you can't heal them. So it's really going through the process. And I can give an example from today myself, you want me to be open and honest and authentic. I am calling in for January 2020 for a brand new MacBook. And I when you when you call something in you set your intentions, you make sure that you really believe that you deserve it. You have that self worth because you draw into your life whatever Do you believe you're worth? And then the universe will test you to see, do you really want this? Are you really at the level to accept this? And if you pass all the tests, and you're at that place of knowing, then you will see your manifestation come true. So this MacBook, I'm getting tested, like I've already got it in my cart. Okay, I've gone through I picked all I'm using, I picked the color starlight, because it's like just a golden champagne colors really pretty. I've already got a cover for it. That's all glittery. And I'm like, I'm there. Like, I know, I'm gonna have a MacBook, but it hasn't come yet. And I know first off that me thinking it hasn't come, I got a problem. Because you have to have a sense of really grounded knowing before it'll come like you're not even thinking about it's here. I don't I'm not even thinking about it. So I knew that was first thing. And then second thing was like I passed all the test cars on Facebook marketplace, there's all kinds of MacBooks that are like 2020 21. And they're half the price of a brand new one. I'm like, No, I'm getting my new one. It's sitting in my cart, what's wrong. And I realized this morning, I'm doing the work trying to figure out what it is that's really holding me back. And I realized that when I was growing up my parents, I come from a family of seven kids. So you can imagine they're a little bit budget conscious trying to feed seven kids. They always said painful price was extravagant, that you paid full price for something that was a waste of money. And all of this was coming back to me. And my dad was especially like, thrifty. And he would you know, he would take a piece of wood and make a highchair out of it. Like you know, whatever he had to do, and that he would love. He's not alive today. But he would love Facebook marketplace because you can get anything from free to whatever. And I realized that's what was holding me back. It was this whole thought that really darling, you're going to spend two grand on a laptop, although that's my whole life. I live on my laptop from my business. But I was still at that place thinking it's too extravagant, what a waste of money. And now that I've worked through it this morning, I'm expecting a laptop to be delivered next. Tomorrow, the next day, I'm willing, whatever day University want to bring it to me. But I had to do the work. I had to really like dial in and think what is this holding me back? Because I knew I had all of the pieces. But there was something holding me. So I think for for any of you that are trying to manifest something for 24. That's the first step is like deciding what you want. Putting it out in the universe, if it's not coming figure out what.

So too, I said in one of my episodes that if you want to go on a trip and you went to a travel agent, and you said I want a warm trip, and they send you to Africa or somewhere very, very hot, you'd say, Wow, that was so hot. Why did you send me there? Well, then the travel agent would say, well, you really didn't tell me what you wanted. And so getting really clear about our intentions gives us direction.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: Absolutely. Yeah, you have to be really clear. So if you went into a restaurant you didn't, you wouldn't say I want food. They look at you like okay, what kind of food do you want? Okay, I want pizza. Okay, what kind of pizza do you want? I mean, you have to be very detailed when you go into a restaurant to order something. The same thing when you want to manifest is you've got to be detailed. Like I told you, I'm getting a star light MacBook Air. I'm not I don't want the blue color.

Well you daughters are here.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: You're going to chip in for me. So it's like being very specific. I went through and I picked all of the different features that you can with a computer. I was very specific with the universe. So I think sometimes it's that we're not specific enough, like you said, or we keep changing our mind. So you're like, oh, maybe I'll have a star like what? No, I want the blue one. Oh, maybe the silver one. Oh, no, maybe the starlight one. I always envision the universe like this. You have these personal assistants, invisible, but your spirit. Personal Assistants, they're running behind you. There's a whole bunch of them. They got a pad and paper. They're listening to everything you have to say the right. Oh, she wants pizza. Okay, pizza and she wants mushrooms and peppers. Okay, we're gonna get her a pizza. Okay, she wants the computer to and we're running ahead of them. And they're trying to capture everything that we want. That's why sometimes have you ever had a situation where you've wished for something like two years ago forgot all about it. And then it showed up? And you're like, what, what? Oh, and someone will remind you, you've thought about that two years ago. It's because they're sitting there trying to give it to you. But then what do we do? We either change your mind they all go oh, okay, wait, wait, wait back off. Change your mind. Everyone. Get your pad out again. Let's see what she said. Or they're working on delivering it to you. And then Amen, because it doesn't come exactly the way that you pictured it. You don't receive it. Have you ever like, well, who's heard the parable about the man who is drowning? And says, God, please save me? And then the canoe comes and says, no, no, I'm good. God's coming. I don't need you. You know? And then you have the helicopter commies Oh, Gods coming. And eventually, the guy drowns. And it goes up to heaven. He says, God, where were you just, what do you think the canoe and the helicopter was about? is sometimes we have this idea of what we picture how it's gonna come. So let's say that you decide, I want an extra $1,000 this month. And you put that intention out there, and you have the self worth and you believe it. And so then, you know, the, you get a rebate back from your hydro, which is $200. You don't see that as part of the $1,000. You see that as Oh, that's bonus money. But they're always delivering in a way that maybe you wouldn't see. Our let's say, you're going out for lunch, you knew no, this lunch was gonna happen. And you have a good friend like mine, who was always trying to pay the bill. And she pays the bill. And as you know, that's $100 that you wouldn't have you would have spent? That's part of the $1,000 You're calling in. But what do we do? Oh, no, Cheryl, my friends here, we fight all the time over the bill. It's like, I'm learning she's taught me how to receive, because that was really horrible at first, and she will attest to this, of accepting a free lunch. And then I just got to the point where, okay, like she wants to treat me and she's enjoying this, just let her. And it's part of what the universe is bringing to us. But we have rules, that actually stops us from receiving what they're bringing. Because we have want total control about how it's going to come.

Being open being open to I always like to think that putting an intention out there, and just really be open to how it manifests. But I'm just wondering if you have questions about manifesting more for 24. Like when it comes to your mind, what do you think of manifesting? I'd like to hear your opinions in the audience. When you think of it, what comes to mind?

Darlene Gudrie Butts: Or what challenges do you have?

Or questions because I think that being a listener of a call for love, or being in this venue, people are already doing their work. People are already thinking and being very mindful of what's going on in their lives. And you don't know what you don't know. Right? You don't know what you don't know. And so being open to what you don't know, how do you do that? And how you opening that door actually helps you open up to manifesting because we think we know we think we know all the answers. And we do not know all the answers. And being open. Being open is an as in mindfulness, they say the beginner's mind, being open, like a fresh start. And this is a fresh start, as we record this now, this is January, every morning that you wake up is a fresh start. And often my mum would say that like a diet every day, she could restart her diet. Well, you know, it's true. Every day we can re start. We can be start, have a new trajectory, have a new intention, manifest more intentionally. And what does that look like? When you think of manifesting? What does it look like to I just want to share a quick story. My sister was single now she's seeing somebody, and she wanted to meet somebody by her birthday, which was the end of October. And she said, I said, you know, write it down. You got to write it down. What do you really want and it wasn't happening. So she says, I'm going to write it down. So she wrote down, she wanted to meet a single man before her birthday, and she wanted him to take her out. Well, two days before her birthday, my brother called her up who's single? And he says, me and my son are coming to take you out for dinner and a hearse and his son was single. So she had two single men take her before her birthday. And she and she says, Oh, wow. Well, I did get what I asked for it. Yeah, but I need to be clear. So then. Then she wrote an eligible man and and she find it

Darlene Gudrie Butts: really she's not related to Yeah.

And so I just love that story, because it's just so clear that when we're really intentional and precise, that See, miracles happen. And miracles are not religious, there are shifts in perspective, you know, when you are even driving and you're stuck in traffic, and you're really, really angry, and all of a sudden you say, Oh, it's okay. It doesn't matter if I'm five minutes late, that shift and you're calm, that is a miracle because you have shifted your energy. And you have shifted your perspective. In any case, anybody else have more questions about manifesting.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: Just before we move on to the next I just want to address because I think there's a flip side to that point of being very specific about what you want. Yeah, it's also being tested about something that's just about what you want, and you not giving in. So for instance, for me, the MacBook being the wrong color. It's like I can get a deal on a blue one note, I want the starlight color. But it's like, say, for instance, that you have 10 things on your list that are must haves for the man that you want to call into your life. And you meet someone who has eight, and you go, wow, eight, this is pretty good guy. I mean, it's close. And the universe is saying, Do you want eight? Because we didn't give you eight. But if you want 10, we'll give you 10. So it's the flipside of one being specific, but to when you're tested when it's not exactly right, let it go. Don't be afraid that the right one is not going to come because it is whether it's a man or a computer, it will come if you trust.

That's right, because as I said, sometimes we think we know what is good for us. And sometimes we don't, right. And we

Darlene Gudrie Butts: need something bit better than just single. As I said earlier, you manifest based on your self worth. So if you're trying to call in this, whatever your favorite superstar male is, if you're trying to call him in and you feel like crap, you're going to call the call in somebody who's going to be in that vibrational level. So you're 100%, right? Is doing that work and raising your own vibration. And being in the right emotional place, is where you're actually going to see the magic. And there's so much magic out there. If you just do the work and get yourself to that place. Because you think about it. If somebody let's we're talking about relationships today, I've been married for 40 years. So I'm kind of like, this is not my expertise, because I haven't dated for 42 years. But if you're talking about calling in men, is if if you met a man who wasn't looking for a spiritual connection, who wasn't doing the work that you're doing, you wouldn't be a match. Right? So it the same thing is flipped. If you're not a match, it's not going to work. But it's really like doing that work first. And, you know, we work together and, and I know the the journey of all of the healing that goes place. And then, you know, when I met her and who she is today is a completely different person because she's been doing the work.

It's a lot of work. Well, it's not a lot of work. But you know what I think what work means is questioning yourself. Because you can't believe everything you think, and to believe everything you think is really limiting and really dangerous. Because our thoughts are not the truth. And, and to do the work is to ask the hard questions. And to shift perspective to see a different angle because we get so rigid in our past programming. And I talked about that in the unconscious mind, especially in the course. But we have all these ingrained as we had talked about when we did our coaching rules, we have so many rules that we have created in our mindset that we carry forth. And you know, if you just soften, just soften on what you think, you know, to allow a new perspective, a new idea to come in, like miracles happen. Like I'm looking at my Maggie who's a photographer and she is always recreating herself. You know, she's recreating her business. And you know, that takes courage. It takes forgetting what you've always done to try something new. And that can only happen as I did a podcast episode, trust and surrender. Trust that you're going to be taken care of that the universe is not like this mean ogre that really goodness comes and if you trust and then you surrender and I believe then what you couldn't even think possible. Anything anything and happens and you know, it comes like this like a Bing I all of a sudden, I only get like this. Like for instance this podcast. I was Do you think I was thinking of a party? I wanted to put already because I want to celebrate, I want to celebrate every day I want to celebrate life. And I just was scrolling through social media and I saw somebody post this and it wasn't even somebody I follow. That's a great idea. Well, I was just It came to me it open and then snowballed, right? And when everything flows, so easy, and effortless, it's like, it's like a red carpet rolling out for you. And you just follow it, and you follow your dreams. And, you know, that's when things happen. And that's manifesting, as

Darlene Gudrie Butts: I like to talk about trust and surrender for a bit. Because how many people struggle with letting go, that was my 2023 path was trust and surrender. I'm in control freak. And it was really, really difficult. And I saw the magic, the moment that I let go of something, and just let it whatever is going to happen is going to happen. So many magical things happened. One, I had this mantra was the moment I need for nothing, everything will up here. So whenever I got like really trying to hold on tight, something, I just repeat this to myself. So cardinals, were my big thing that I've no want to manifest because they are no. So just, I don't know, they touched my heart, I have more things with Cardinals on it, my abs good. My friends figured it out. And they give me stuff with Cardinals on it. But I was walking, I have a path by my house, and I walk it every day, and I'm walking through and you know, every other day or so I'll see a Cardinal. And I can hear them. I know what their little Chirp is. So I like I can hear you baby come out and show yourself. And I walked down. And I got to a certain part where past that I've never seen a Cardinal. So I was like, I am so bummed out I didn't get to Sadek I really want to see a Cardinal. And okay, definitely, the moment you need for nothing, everything's appears. So I turned the corner on my path, which never once have I ever seen a Cardinal. And there's this tree full of birds is like one turn, and there's a little bit of red. Now, it can't be a cardinal, there's no way. And I look up, and I see six birds, and I'm pretty sure they're Cardinals. But I take a picture because I'm like not really, really sure. And I've never seen more than two Cardinals together at any certain point of time. So I'm walking home and it's probably about a 15 minute walk and the whole walk I'm if there weren't cardinals, there's no way there's six Cardinals I do there's no way I get home, and I zoom up because there are female cardinals, they got very little red. It's not like if there were six red ones I like yeah, for sure. And zoom in. Not only were there six cardinals, there were seven in a tree. The moment I said, I need for nothing. Trust and surrender is the place of magic. It's the hardest thing to do. I sometimes do it on a minute by minute basis, sometimes on a daily basis. But when you actually immerse yourself in that practice, that's when you'll see stuff happen. Because the universe is way smarter than me. I don't know, maybe you guys are smarter than the universe. But I know that as soon as I release, and I trust and surrender, I'm getting way more than I could ever do under my own steam.

Trust and surrender.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: That's the law of reciprocity. And as magical. The moment that you feel like you're needing something like money, or likes on Facebook, if you give them away, you will be amazed and how quickly they'll come back to you. Even if you only have $1 to give or $5 to give you give that $5 away. It's saying to the universe, I have more than enough. And so the universe brings you more than enough. So you you live that and it's such an amazing feeling. Because it seems so simple, right? And you think why don't we do this more?

Now when you say I want it says to the universe I don't have right I don't have and actually I want to share my word for the year if you have listened to a call for love podcast. It's I am. Because in the present I am already as Dr. Wayne Dyer always said, live as if your dreams have already be been answered. And I am. I am peaceful. I am powerful. I am strong. I am happy. It's just in the presence and Kathy, my friend has that tattoo. One day I'm gonna get that tattoo but she has I am very powerful statement. Because God had said to Moses I Am that I Am. It means like you're one with the universe. In any case, I feel that manifesting more for 24 is something that if you're here, it's already in your mindset. It's already you have already planted the seed and you could almost just let it go and allow it to happen. Because just showing up with the time idle, a manifest more for 24 means that you're open. And being open. Just creates new connections, you can meet new connections, things. And you know, we're talking about relationships, but we could talk about, you know, your career, we could talk about changing places where you live, or so many things that you haven't even thought about. And I feel like a lot of people are shifting, I have two sisters. And they've upped and moved their whole homes, and they've just created new lives. And to always feel like we have to do everything the same. We don't drink, we can take that chance, take that leap. Anyone taken the leap? Recently?

Darlene Gudrie Butts: You cannot hear me

here because, you know, I, as everyone came in, and I, I am the youngest of 11. Children. A loving 11 Yes. And I thrive on meeting new people. I thrive on connection is what fuels me because I just love it, it just and so I see everybody, you know, you kind of walk in the door, and you don't know anyone and you kind of, but then you build, right you build a new connection. And you say, oh, yeah, I saw you there, I saw you there and next time you meet them, it just expands your world. And really, it's abundance. It's abundance mindset.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: I agree. And it's so great to see all of you here today, we're both really appreciative that you came out because it's cold. And it wasn't easy to find GPS didn't even help us finding this place. And I think the one thing that I we haven't really touched on that I really feel is important and manifesting is the feeling of grounded gratitude. And I just heard this on a podcast the other day, and I was like this, that's a perfect phrase, for where you need to be. The grounded part is the knowing, I know for sure, for sure, for sure. This is coming, however, whatever, but it's coming. It's that knowing. And the gratitude place piece is being thankful as if it's already here. And you hear those words all the time. I mean, we've all read books on manifesting, we've heard podcasts about it. But it's really that sense of just being so grateful for what you have right now, you don't even have to be grateful for what you're calling in. It's just everyday waking up being grateful for being here that we're allowed to group together like this and talk about anything that we want to have that freedom, even that is just worth thinking about for gratitude. And, or for Yeah, for being grateful. And anything. That's one of the biggest things. And we've talked about it so many times when we've had conversations about the power of gratitude. And even if you're having a really bad day, if you just think of like three things that you're going to be grateful for, it can completely shift your energy, just three, and it could be like, I like these pants. I don't look too bad today, my hair is doing okay. And my friend called me. That's it. And that just thinking those things and feeling those things are enough to shift you into the place where you can manifest. Because you can't manifest from a place of lack. Like Linda said, it's impossible. You can try force it, but it's not going to work. Well, when

you force it, you're actually going through your egoic mind, right you're thinking it through, as opposed to really like the heart vibration is way stronger. So when you invest in that heart vibration, as they say Heart Math, then that's the vibration that comes back to like a boomerang, when you overthink it. It's your mind egoic mind trying to, to create it. And that's not what we want.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: But how many times we've been out somewhere shopping or at a networking event, and you meet somebody super pushy. And like you're immediately like, the worst thing is when you get caught in a corner and there's no exit, and then they're sitting there and they're telling you about their whole life. I was once at a networking event where someone had me cornered and was talking about her daycare, and I'm like, do you look at me, like I'm 60 and I don't have any grandchildren. So I'm pretty sure that my 37 year old children don't need daycare. They don't. But it's that pushy energy that woman probably did not get any business. But if she was just in it, just me people and just having fun and being grateful for being there. I am sure she would have gotten a client because people would have been attracted to that personality right there. Just want to get to know you more and oh, you're doing this Oh, you must be like a really great person if you can deal with little children. And it's that energy that we put out and we choose it every single moment. We're either choosing the pushy or we're choosing the receiving And you can't receive all your pushing. It's an impossibility.

Yeah, I always like to say that my mum always used to say you have two masters. So you can serve the egoic mind. Or you could serve your higher self. And it's a choice in every moment, it is a choice, how you're going to live and how you're going to respond, are you going to, and when I say ego, judgment, criticism, anger, anger, all those emotions. And that's actually a beautiful way to round up this, this manifesting more for 24. Because this is what a call for love is, this is my mission on a call for love. Because there's two places that you can stand, you can stand in anger, resentment, jealousy, boredom, sadness, depression, all those are not knowing who you are. Because in your essence, you are divine, perfect, whole and complete. And so if you're not in that space, then it's a call for love. It's a call to shift into resonating for love for life, for the universe, for yourself. And when I say that, it's not a selfish thing, right. Because if you are a loving person, it's not good to keep it to yourself, you want to spread it to others, to the universe to the planet. And it's only when you raise the vibration that raises the whole collective consciousness. And that's what we're doing. They said that when Mother Teresa walked into a room, or tick non Han, or all these, these really, really beautiful people, the whole vibration of the room would change. And that's what we want to do. We and I was a school teacher for how long and I had to convince the kids all the time, I can't make a difference, I can't make a difference. And I always said, Have you ever slept in a room with a mosquito? Because trust me, it's annoying, you can make a difference. One little person can make a difference. And that's what we're doing. We're planting the seeds of choosing love. And when you're not, it's a call for love, to be the vibration, to be the example to be the peace that we want to see in the world. And when we are vibrating that high, there's only great things that happen because we're not attracting anything else. But greatness.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: And I just want to echo is anybody can do this, you know, we're sitting up here with the mics. But that doesn't mean that you don't make a difference. Every time you walk in a room, you're either raising the vibration, or you're lowering it. And the thing is, is that if you ever went walked in a room and felt it low vibe, and you brought it up, there's no better feeling in the world, than to raise that vibration, have people walking away laughing instead of before, where they were quiet and maybe reserved. So each person in this room has the ability to raise the vibration for themselves, and for others. And if we all do it together, we can raise the vibration of the world.

So I want to thank you. And I know Darlene, thanks as well. And I want to thank my you know, I'm looking out in this congregation. And I see my two sons here. And I want to thank my sons and my husband for being here. Because you know, it's really beautiful to see that we can all come together. You know, I we're on a sea of beautiful woman here. But you know, the men, thank you for being here. I really, really appreciate that I feel very blessed. And for Jodie our MC, who is just such a dear friend.

Darlene Gudrie Butts: Well, thank you all for coming. I have my two daughters here, which is always nice when you have support from family. And I think if you can't find support within your family, find support outside of your family. Because we all need a little help and making this world a better place. And I am so grateful that I am here on your one year anniversary. I'm so excited for you. Just to watch all of your growth over the last two years. It's been phenomenal. And I'm so appreciative that you're out there, helping people with a call for love.

Thank you. And you know what? This is my intention. My intention is to put it out there. If people listen great. If they don't listen, that's fine too. What is my intention? My intention is just to serve. And however it follows through is a blessing. And so each one of you here is a blessing. So thank you. So thanks for joining. Thank you.

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