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Welcome to the mesmerizing marketing podcast, where we take a deep dive
Speaker:into the latest marketing trends, tools, and tips, and provide you with
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Speaker:And now here's your host dimple.
Speaker:Dang.
Speaker:Hello there.
Speaker:My most amazing marketing crew today, I wanted to take time out to wish everyone
Speaker:a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving.
Speaker:And I really was inspired to get on here and record a message for
Speaker:you guys, because Thanksgiving is.
Speaker:a Really important insignificant holiday.
Speaker:And I want to talk about attitude of gratitude, because I think that it's
Speaker:really important to have that attitude of gratitude, but sometimes it can be
Speaker:really difficult when you think about.
Speaker:All of the things that have gone on, ever since the pandemic started, it really has
Speaker:been a challenging year for many people.
Speaker:And a lot of people have lost their loved ones.
Speaker:Through the pandemic or through cancer, through other things that have happened,
Speaker:a lot of people have felt isolated.
Speaker:A lot of people have been uncertain about their, job or their financial situation.
Speaker:So a lot has gone on.
Speaker:And I think, you know, with everything that's happened, I think that it's
Speaker:important to take time today on Thanksgiving to really reflect
Speaker:on that attitude of gratitude
Speaker:And see what you can do to have your share of, you know, having that positive
Speaker:attitude and showing that gratitude and spreading that across the universe.
Speaker:Because I think it's about not just having that message, but sharing
Speaker:that message with the world and with those that need it today.
Speaker:when we talk about.
Speaker:Gratitude, what it really is.
Speaker:It's really a solution to like negative emotions and it also neutralizes
Speaker:envy and hostility and, anger and worry and just, anything that
Speaker:you might be feeling irritated by.
Speaker:And it's also about not taking things for granted, and living in the present.
Speaker:I think living in the present is so important.
Speaker:And one of the reasons why people are really just, not in a good place
Speaker:sometimes is because they live in the past or the past always comes up to haunt them,
Speaker:whether it's there's certain things that have happened in the past that have taken
Speaker:their confidence away, or maybe there's things that were just very difficult and
Speaker:trying times that they've been through.
Speaker:when you think about those things, Of course, they are a part of you and
Speaker:they shape you to who you are today.
Speaker:And they're part of your story.
Speaker:And that's how you can use that in a positive ways.
Speaker:That's part of your story, but if it's not part of your story, our fair, not
Speaker:using it in a positive way and you really want to live in the present.
Speaker:So when we talk about, attitude of gratitude,
Speaker:I want to share five things about attitude of gratitude that you can do
Speaker:that are going to help you to really feel that attitude of gratitude.
Speaker:So number one is to appreciate the little things on a daily basis.
Speaker:How many times do little things happen?
Speaker:And we overlook them.
Speaker:You guys, we overlook them because we're only looking for the big things.
Speaker:And when you think about it, the big things do happen, but
Speaker:they don't happen that often.
Speaker:If you're only waiting for the big things to happen, to show that gratitude,
Speaker:to show that appreciation Don't start looking at the little things.
Speaker:Think about the time when you were in a hurry and you were driving
Speaker:somewhere cause you were running late and you got every green light.
Speaker:Did you think about showing gratitude for that and saying, oh, well, thank you.
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:You know, I'm blessed because I got every green light cause I
Speaker:needed to be somewhere on time.
Speaker:Or how about when you went to Starbucks and they gave you.
Speaker:A bigger size coffee, just because, right.
Speaker:And it's like the little things like that, or it's like someone is in line and
Speaker:they say, oh, you can go in front of me.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:It's it's all of those little things that happened.
Speaker:On a daily basis.
Speaker:It's that little thing of hearing from a friend you haven't heard from
Speaker:in awhile and they reach out to you.
Speaker:And I don't even mean by text message.
Speaker:I mean, they actually pick up the phone and they call you, that's something
Speaker:that you can, you know, be grateful for.
Speaker:That's something that you can have that attitude of
Speaker:gratefulness and showing gratitude.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Number two is that you want to surround yourself with positive and like-minded
Speaker:people that is really, really important.
Speaker:And this is something that I've learned in the past, year or so ever
Speaker:since the pandemic, I realized that.
Speaker:You know, some of the friends that I had were very negative and they were just
Speaker:bringing me down and there were very pessimistic or every time they would
Speaker:call you and they would talk to you.
Speaker:It was just one negative thing after another.
Speaker:And one negative story after another.
Speaker:And after a while, it just begins to sound like a broken record.
Speaker:And I think that if you're not conscious of who you're surround yourself with,
Speaker:there's a possibility that other people are going to bring you down.
Speaker:You really want to surround yourself with people that are positive, that
Speaker:are like-minded and that lift you up and that don't bring you down.
Speaker:I think as we're about to go into a new year and pretty much like a month or so,
Speaker:I think it's also time to think about.
Speaker:Things in your life that no longer serve you.
Speaker:I think it's time to think about friendships that you have to let go,
Speaker:because it was all take, take, take, take, take, and there was no give, right?
Speaker:So I think that if you want to live a life and you want to be grateful, you
Speaker:also want to be surrounded by people that.
Speaker:Give you back and that also love you back.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:So keep that in mind.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Number three.
Speaker:And this is really important too, is don't isolate yourself.
Speaker:It's really easy to become isolated during a pandemic.
Speaker:It's really easy to get wrapped up on social audio apps and also
Speaker:just, you know, in your own zone.
Speaker:But I think it's important to take time off for yourself.
Speaker:It's important to take time off for self care.
Speaker:It's important to, get out of the house and go meet different
Speaker:people and do different things.
Speaker:And I think it's also important to reach out to other people because what
Speaker:I really miss are the days when people used to pick up the phone and actually
Speaker:call you and have a conversation.
Speaker:now, everything is mostly via texts and, you know, I miss that human
Speaker:interaction of where people would just call you and you can talk to them.
Speaker:You can hear their voice, you can see the joy, if you're talking to them
Speaker:via zoom, hearing their voice is very different than a text message.
Speaker:So I also encourage you.
Speaker:On Thanksgiving to call your family members and talk to them
Speaker:and, ask them to do a zoom.
Speaker:If you can't be together in the same, you know, then the same city, because
Speaker:a lot of people are traveling, but a lot of people still are not traveling.
Speaker:And a lot of people also have families that live in different countries.
Speaker:And some of the countries, even, you know, in Europe are starting
Speaker:to go on, lock down again.
Speaker:So.
Speaker:Just reach out to your loved ones and dedicate, to spending some time with them
Speaker:on Thanksgiving, even if it's virtual.
Speaker:Reach out to a best friend and plan, you know, a time to talk to them and
Speaker:chat with them, even if you're going to be busy with your family, because
Speaker:maybe they don't have a family.
Speaker:Maybe they lost their family.
Speaker:Maybe they're all alone.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:So think about all those things.
Speaker:And then the other thing I want to talk about, which I touched on a little bit
Speaker:is that you want to live in the present.
Speaker:Not the past or the future, you really want to live in the present
Speaker:because the present is what's going to really be the one thing that
Speaker:you can control is right there.
Speaker:In that moment, you can not change the past and you can't predict the future,
Speaker:but when you can do, as you can live intentionally in the present to make sure
Speaker:that what you're doing in the present will make a big impact for your future.
Speaker:So that's what you want to think about.
Speaker:How can you have an impact, for the future?
Speaker:How can you impact other people?
Speaker:How can you change lives and focus on that.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Number four, it's about changing your mindset.
Speaker:Mindset is one of the most important things, but if you don't
Speaker:have control over your own mind, That can really be catastrophic.
Speaker:So if you find that your mindset is not where it needs to be, our negative
Speaker:thoughts are creeping up on you.
Speaker:And especially during the holidays, like holidays are really
Speaker:a tough time for some people.
Speaker:And especially during a pandemic, I think it just exemplifies that
Speaker:situation, but try to change your mindset and have that attitude of
Speaker:gratitude and try to be positive.
Speaker:Try to think about, everything that did go right.
Speaker:You know, in the past 12 months, instead of everything that went wrong, right?
Speaker:Because there will always be challenges in life.
Speaker:There will always be things that go wrong, but you can't focus on that.
Speaker:You have to change your mindset to have that mentality where.
Speaker:The glass is half full, not half empty.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:And when you think that way, it changes the way that you look at the world, it
Speaker:changes the way that you see things, and it really can have a positive impact on
Speaker:everything that you do every single day.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:So the fifth thing I wanted to talk about.
Speaker:Having that attitude of gratitude.
Speaker:There's a ton of advantages to having that.
Speaker:And I'm going to talk to you guys about a couple of the things that I think
Speaker:are really important when it comes to that, is that you're going to find
Speaker:that if you show more of an attitude of gratitude and you embrace that in your
Speaker:everyday life and everything that you do, you're also going to be more confident.
Speaker:You're going to have more self-esteem.
Speaker:on top of that, you're going to feel blessed.
Speaker:You're going to feel like even you talking to other people that you have
Speaker:the ability to bless other people, you're going to feel more abundant.
Speaker:You're going to feel happier and it's not a happiness.
Speaker:That's a fake happiness from buying an expensive item that you wanted.
Speaker:And then that happiness lasts for a day.
Speaker:And then it's gone.
Speaker:I know you've all experienced that high of like buying a new car, buying
Speaker:a condo, you know, buying a new watch that you wanted, but how long
Speaker:does that happiness really loud?
Speaker:So when you think about happiness and it has to come from within, it
Speaker:has to come from deep, deep, down, inside from internally, you need to
Speaker:practice that you have to work at it.
Speaker:It's not always just going to be there, but you have to be cognizant
Speaker:and you have to make efforts every single day to become a happier person
Speaker:to do the things that make you happy.
Speaker:And also remember to make time to do the things that bring you joy.
Speaker:You guys, sometimes it's as simple as taking a walk outside in the park and
Speaker:watching like the swans, in the pond and, and just taking in that beauty,
Speaker:it's about going to the botanical garden and looking at the flowers and looking
Speaker:at the scenery and breathing in the fresh air and being thankful for that.
Speaker:Some other advantages.
Speaker:Of attitude or gratitude are that you're going to end up being more
Speaker:active and actively doing things instead of reactive and reacting
Speaker:to everything in your environment.
Speaker:And that's really powerful because you don't want to always be reactive.
Speaker:Being reactive can be a bad thing.
Speaker:You want to be able to take in information and then evaluate
Speaker:it and then you want to read it.
Speaker:That's what it means to be active.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:You guys, so the other things that I wanted to talk to you about today
Speaker:is for happy Thanksgiving, if you're going to be wishing other people happy
Speaker:Thanksgiving, I want to share some ways that you could wish your friends
Speaker:and family, a happy Thanksgiving in a very beautiful and impactful way.
Speaker:One message you can say is you can say happy Thanksgiving, even
Speaker:though I know where part today, but
Speaker:you're always in my heart and I love you.
Speaker:And I miss you.
Speaker:And I can't wait to see you in person.
Speaker:That's one way that you could a message.
Speaker:You can share.
Speaker:Another message you can share is you can say happy Thanksgiving.
Speaker:Let's not get so busy that we forget to spend time together,
Speaker:even if it's on FaceTime or zoom.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Another way is you can make a video for a friend or loved one
Speaker:and you can, you can tell them.
Speaker:These are the three things that I love about you.
Speaker:And I'm so thankful that you are a part of my life and I'm so grateful for you.
Speaker:I think that would be so impactful.
Speaker:I think someone would really love that and it gives it that personal touch.
Speaker:And that's what it's all about.
Speaker:I hope you guys are going to reach out to your loved ones.
Speaker:You're going to reach out to your friends.
Speaker:You're going to show that.
Speaker:Positive attitude of gratitude.
Speaker:I want to know, I want to know how you're going to show your gratitude.
Speaker:So send me a message connect with me on Instagram.
Speaker:And I just wanted to wish everyone a very happy Thanksgiving,
Speaker:a very blessed Thanksgiving.
Speaker:I hope that everyone has an amazing holiday and has safe travels.
Speaker:If you're traveling.
Speaker:And I just wanted you to take the time to think about, having that
Speaker:attitude of gratitude, because Thanksgiving is also a perfect day
Speaker:to sit down and reflect on, what your attitude is towards being thankful.
Speaker:And, you know, are you thankful on a daily basis or are you only being thankful on
Speaker:Thanksgiving because you got reminded.
Speaker:That this is a holiday where we give thanks and we show thanks.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:And I think if you're thankful every day, like if you can find three things
Speaker:to be thankful for every single day and you consciously make an effort
Speaker:to notice them, I guarantee that that's going to be a game changer.
Speaker:In your life for how you feel, and it's going to help you feel happier,
Speaker:more fulfilled, and it's going to give you that positive attitude
Speaker:that you need to get through the difficult times when they do come.
Speaker:So you guys, I just wanted to give you a personal, thank you as well.
Speaker:For being my listeners and for being my loyal fans and followers I love
Speaker:you guys from the bottom of my.
Speaker:I'm so thankful and grateful for those of you who do listen to my podcast.
Speaker:I'm so grateful for all of you.
Speaker:That left me reviews.
Speaker:I think in my previous episode, I did a shout out to
Speaker:everybody that left me review.
Speaker:So you guys can go listen to that.
Speaker:I think it was a previous one.
Speaker:And also, I just want to say, take this time to really.
Speaker:Rest and unwind and, you know, do the things that make you happy.
Speaker:And I'm wishing everyone a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving.
Speaker:I will talk to you guys later.
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