Making connections as writers is important. But how do you go about leaving your shell to make those connections? Here are eight ways to connect.
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True story. When I started thinking about this episode, I
Speaker:was wearing a t shirt with the motto. I'm not antisocial. I
Speaker:just prefer to stay at home. It featured a turtle on the front
Speaker:and turtles are my spirit animal because they can always draw
Speaker:into their shells and be at home. The Myers Briggs test says
Speaker:I am an INTJ, which stands for the introverted intuitive
Speaker:thinking and judging personality type, the architect or if you
Speaker:prefer the evil mastermind, the evil mastermind part is not a
Speaker:term put forward by the Myers Briggs folks, but it seems to
Speaker:fit, especially when you know Professor Moriarty and Elon Musk
Speaker:are supposedly INTJ is one study I found estimates that female
Speaker:INTJ is makeup only 0.5% of the population. Yay, me! I'm a
Speaker:unicorn. What it really adds up to in my case, is someone who
Speaker:always, always feel socially awkward, no matter how well I
Speaker:fit in. But I'm also an intuitive thinking sort of
Speaker:person who is hyper self aware. That means I know I need to make
Speaker:connections, no matter how much I want to be alone. So today, we
Speaker:are going to talk about writers making connections, because it's
Speaker:important and whether or not you are also an INTJ. There are
Speaker:plenty of authors who are introverts. So I hope this
Speaker:episode will help you come out of your shell. To make
Speaker:connections a writing precedes authors. Welcome back to the
Speaker:podcast. To those of you who are new, I want to extend a special
Speaker:welcome. My name is Kathrese McKee. And I'm glad you're here.
Speaker:If you are a writer seeking encouragement, information and
Speaker:inspiration, this podcast is for you. Let's get to it. Let's
Speaker:start by figuring out why making connections is important for
Speaker:writers. First, if you don't connect with readers, there's
Speaker:really no reason to publish your writing. You need to understand
Speaker:their needs, wants and desires, you need to understand what they
Speaker:want to read. Once you have a set of readers, you need to
Speaker:nurture your relationship with your readers if you want to sell
Speaker:more books. Second, you need connections to competent
Speaker:editors, cover designers and other service providers to
Speaker:produce the best products possible. Third, you need to
Speaker:connect with other writers because other writers are the
Speaker:only folks who will fully understand your daily struggles
Speaker:with words and other writerly chores. Your spouse won't get it
Speaker:unless they write to your kids won't get it. Face it, the
Speaker:majority of your family won't even read your books. You need
Speaker:other writers to support you. Through it all. let me commend
Speaker:this, you really really need to connect with other writers in
Speaker:your genre, you can enjoy meeting a romance writer. But if
Speaker:you write hard science fiction, that connection is unlikely to
Speaker:help your writing business find folks, let's call them
Speaker:coopetition, who cooperate with you to cross promote and
Speaker:critique and create great books. Fourth, you need to connect with
Speaker:agents and publishers, if you are not interested in being an
Speaker:indie author. Fifth, it's a good idea to make connections with
Speaker:library staff members and bookstore owners, no matter if
Speaker:you are an indie author or traditionally published. And did
Speaker:I mention connecting with readers? That's the most
Speaker:important thing. Okay, so making connections is important. But
Speaker:how do you go about leaving your shell to make those connections?
Speaker:We could spend an episode on each of these tips. But as an
Speaker:overview, here are eight ways to make connections for authors,
Speaker:one, writing communities if you live near a city, then more than
Speaker:likely there's at least one chapter of a writing
Speaker:organization that has regular meetings where you can meet
Speaker:other authors if you live in a rural area. They may not
Speaker:however, there is nothing to stop you from joining a national
Speaker:authors Association like our RWA (Romance Writers of America), or
Speaker:SFWA (Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers) of America or
Speaker:the Mystery Writers of America or the like these associations
Speaker:have online forums. Tune in to your genre. Get to know your
Speaker:peers. Two, conferences and workshops. Even if you can't
Speaker:find a writing community. You can attend conferences and
Speaker:workshops. Usually these are not free, but I have never been
Speaker:sorry that I paid to attend. Here's a chance to meet authors
Speaker:you have heard of editors, agents and future collaborators.
Speaker:Some conferences, offer pitch sessions and mentoring. All
Speaker:workshops and conferences give you the opportunity to meet
Speaker:people with similar interests. Make sure you get contact
Speaker:information for people you meet, and then follow up three social
Speaker:media. Find author groups on Facebook and search for authors
Speaker:on Instagram and Tiktok interact on
Speaker:Mind for groups be sure to read and follow group guidelines. No
Speaker:spamming and self promotion, get in there and interact. Try to
Speaker:contribute and be sociable and respectful. If possible, create
Speaker:posts yourself. When someone follows me on Instagram, I pop
Speaker:over to see their posts. If it's nothing besides sale sale sale,
Speaker:I don't follow back, it is entirely possible to strike up
Speaker:virtual friendships and get to know your peers long before you
Speaker:have an opportunity to meet them in real life. Four - literary
Speaker:events and readings, check out meetup.com and Eventbrite, and
Speaker:count library calendars and bookstore announcements to find
Speaker:local events where you can meet other authors. Also, there's
Speaker:nothing stopping you from scheduling an event of your own
Speaker:to connect with local authors five critique groups, my first
Speaker:critique group had about seven authors from all over the United
Speaker:States and Canada, we found each other through an online message
Speaker:board, made available through our mutual Writers Association.
Speaker:My second critique group was established the same way, you
Speaker:need critique partners, especially when you're starting
Speaker:out, take every piece of advice with a grain of salt. It helps
Speaker:to find authors at or above your level. But honest, thoughtful
Speaker:critique from any serious reader is worth its weight in gold.
Speaker:Take the advice you can use and ignore the rest. critique groups
Speaker:help you forge long lasting relationships with your peers.
Speaker:connections that are meaningful. Make sure your critique group
Speaker:has clear guidelines and expectations before you join.
Speaker:Writing pursuits is run by Kathrese. McKee, who has been
Speaker:trusted by fiction authors since 2014. To take their writing to a
Speaker:new level of excellence. Kathrese is a three story
Speaker:methods certified editor who specializes in story
Speaker:diagnostics, coaching and line editing to help you prepare your
Speaker:story for the journey ahead. For more information, go to writing
Speaker:pursuits.com. The link is in the show notes. And now back to the podcast.
Speaker:Six collaborations okay, this is definitely something I have not
Speaker:done. Personally, I don't think editing a couple of anthologies
Speaker:counts, but finding a collaborative partner is a great
Speaker:way to advance and challenge your writing skills.
Speaker:Collaborating is something I want to do. Once I find the
Speaker:right partner, check out a couple of resources before you
Speaker:get started. Collaboration for authors A Complete Guide to
Speaker:collaborating finding a partner and accelerating your author
Speaker:career by Daniel Wilcox and Jay Thorne, and also co writing a
Speaker:book collaboration and co creation for authors, Vijay
Speaker:Thorn and Joanna pen. I will put links to these in the show
Speaker:notes. Seven mentors. I mentioned finding mentors at
Speaker:conferences but of course, you can find them other places. If
Speaker:you find a mentor or take part in a mentoring group or
Speaker:mastermind group, you will progress more quickly than you
Speaker:would on your own. When you find people who suit you these
Speaker:connections can last a lifetime. Eight, your newsletter
Speaker:subscribers. The moment you finish your first best short
Speaker:story or novella put it out there and collect email
Speaker:subscribers seriously. Before you publish your first book
Speaker:published a lead magnet, set up a free Miller Lite account. And
Speaker:the moment you get a subscriber start sending out a monthly
Speaker:newsletter. A newsletter is your best way to forge personal
Speaker:connections with your readers, your tribe, your niche, whatever
Speaker:you want to call them. You need to connect with your readers and
Speaker:keep the connection fresh. entertain them, inform them info
Speaker:obtain them. Every once in a while send your readers and
Speaker:exclusive chapter or short story it is never too late to do this.
Speaker:If you haven't started a newsletter, put it on your
Speaker:calendar and set to work. If someone writes back, make sure
Speaker:you respond. And guess what? You never have to leave your house
Speaker:to send out a newsletter. What a great deal. In conclusion, I'm
Speaker:certain I haven't covered every method for writers to make
Speaker:meaningful connections. Today we've discussed why you need to
Speaker:make the effort to come out of your shell to make connections
Speaker:with other writers and readers. And we covered eight ways to
Speaker:increase your odds. Writing communities conferences and
Speaker:workshops, social media, literary events and meetings,
Speaker:critique groups, collaborations, mentors and last but not least,
Speaker:your newsletter subscribers. If you would like to connect with
Speaker:me, find me on Instagram at writing pursuits podcast. How do
Speaker:you make writing related connections? Leave your answers
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Speaker:That's all I have for today. Until next time, keep writing my
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