Sooner or later, everyone reaches a point in their relationship when they ask, “Why did my partner even marry me at all?  Why are they with me?”  It’s a question that typically comes up when things have been hard for a while, which--surprise!--is completely normal.  Modern committed relationships are a spiritual journey.  There is a reason why we choose partners that stir up our stuff.  This week, Jules, Vickey and Rebecca share what comes up for them with this question, the wisdom they’ve accrued from making it through the other side of this tough phase in their own marriages, and the opportunity the question presents to each of us if we choose to take it.

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