Hidden Causes Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Men | FT: Shana Richardson
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Certified hypnotherapist and founder of The Magnetic Queen, Shana Richardson, joins Charlene on Cheers to Great Love for a deeply healing and eye-opening conversation about why so many women keep repeating the same patterns in love, and what it actually takes to change them. Shana breaks down how your subconscious mind, not your conscious desires, is choosing who you attract and how you show up in relationships.
She explains the difference between subconscious patterns and talk therapy, what secure attachment really means, and why women who have done years of personal development still find themselves stuck in the same cycles.
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - Introduction: Who is Shana Richardson
2:30 - What subconscious patterns actually means (the real definition)
5:30 - How your body decides what feels safe and what is love
8:00 - Why your childhood determines who you attract as an adult
11:00 - Shana's personal story: Attracting emotionally unavailable partners 14:30 - Why you keep attracting unavailable men even when you want something different
17:30 - What's happening beneath the surface most women never see
21:00 - The doer woman who struggles to look inward
24:30 - Why high-achieving women develop masculine patterns in love
28:00 - The two core beliefs Shana had to unlearn before love changed
31:30 - Hypnotherapy vs talk therapy: Why the body has to be involved
35:00 - The biggest misconception about healing that keeps women stuck 38:30 - Why you can't let go of your ex and what's really happening
42:00 - You have to actually feel your feelings (not just think about them) 45:30 - Taking personal responsibility without going into shame
49:00 - Dating the same man in seven different bodies explained
52:30 - What starts changing first when women begin doing inner work
56:00 - Shame vs guilt: The distinction that changes everything
59:30 - What a Magnetic Queen actually is
1:02:00 - Practical steps for single women right now
1:05:00 - Practical steps for married women right now
1:07:30 - A real client transformation story
1:09:00 - How to find Shana and connect.
She also gets vulnerable about her own journey, dating the same emotionally unavailable man in seven different bodies before discovering hypnotherapy, and the two core beliefs she had to dismantle before her relationships finally changed.
Whether you are single, married, healing from heartbreak, or just starting to ask the hard questions about love, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.
