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50. Why Your Team Won’t Say What They’re Really Thinking
Episode 5014th October 2025 • Leadership in 5 • James R. Mayhew
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Episode Synopsis

When James was being considered for a bigger role early in his career, his boss asked, “What do you want to do?” The question was well-intentioned but lacked context, trust, and direction. This episode exposes a common leadership blind spot: founders often expect confident answers from their teams without first creating the environment for honest dialogue. It’s not about asking better questions — it’s about creating the conditions for real answers.

Key Message: You can’t expect truth when people don’t feel safe or clear enough to share it.


Episode 50: Why Your Team Won’t Say What They’re Really Thinking

Episode 4 in the series Engaged Leaders

“What do you want to do?”

It sounds simple, but when asked without context or trust, it shuts people down.

In this episode, James shares a personal story from early in his career that exposes a leadership blind spot: founders and leaders often expect clarity they haven’t created. You’ll learn how to ask questions that invite honesty instead of hesitation — and how to build the kind of environment where people speak the truth even when it’s hard.

This episode is for founders who are tired of surface-level answers and want their teams to think, speak, and act with conviction.

  • Why leaders get vague answers from smart people
  • How to set context that draws out confident ideas
  • The difference between asking and earning clarity
  • What happens when people don’t feel safe enough to speak up

Reflection Questions

  • Where are you frustrated by vague answers but haven’t provided enough context for clarity?
  • What would change if you painted a clearer picture before asking for input?

Links and Resources

  • The Next Question Guide → NextQuestionGuide.com
  • LinkedIn → linkedin.com/in/jamesmayhew
  • Website → JamesMayhew.com

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