We all know how bad regret can feel. But did you know you can turn it around? In this episode Shannon and Janine discuss how to glean the learnings from a situation and then let go of the regret. And Shannon demonstrates the process on Janine, helping her let go of regret around catching COVID.
Discussion topics include:
• Janine testing positive for COVID
• Janine's regret over letting her guard down by going to a restaurant
• Shannon's process for letting go of regret
• Taking Janine through the process to help her let go of regret over how she thinks she caught Omicron
• Why regret exists: To keep you from making the same mistake in the future
• Taking it that extra step: Ask yourself "What can I learn from this to make it easy to let go of the regret?"
• Recognizing the positive intention of the regret
• Looking for additional learning in the situation
• Janine's COVID silver linings
• By the end of the process, Janine let go of her regret! (Regret she didn't even realize she had.)
• Shannon's process for letting go of regret (we invite you to try it!):
• Identify the thing that you are feeling regret about
• Ask yourself what you can learn from it or what is important for you to take forward from the experience. You can ask, "What's the positive intention of the regret?"
• Keep checking in with yourself until the regret is gone ("What else do I need to know to allow me to let go of this regret?")
• Applying this to all sorts of regrets, including not sticking with your resolutions