I missed my Miracle Morning again (big womp-womp energy), my voice is still froggy, my Scentsy order is being held hostage in Chicago, and my brain is doing mental gymnastics about caregiving, finances, and job searching.
Today I talk about the emotional load of trying to take care of my mom, the frustration of wanting someone to choose better for themselves, a Dateline rabbit hole on domestic violence, why scared people stay, starting Financial Peace University with one-third of our former income, and interviewing for jobs while navigating this wild season.
Short, candid, and very “I’m doing my best but also… wow.”
🧭 In This Episode
- Missing the Miracle Morning… again
- Feeling froggy + fatigued but pushing through
- Scentsy vendor event stress + a Chicago shipment in limbo
- The mental drain of caregiving and acceptance
- Dateline deep dive: domestic violence, fear, and complexity
- Dancing with the dog instead of spiraling
- Reading The Total Money Makeover + starting Financial Peace University
- Navigating the loss of 2/3 of household income
- A hopeful job posting + LinkedIn recruiting breadcrumbs
💡 Key Takeaways
- Someone else’s self-neglect isn’t yours to fix — even when it hurts.
- Caregiving isn’t just actions; it’s mental load, emotional load, and grief.
- Domestic violence dynamics are far more complex than outsiders assume.
- Financial stress reshapes identity, energy, and hope — but learning helps.
- Even on bad days, tiny joys (a dancing dog, a new book insight, a job lead) matter.
⚠️ Content Note
This daily entry includes vulnerable discussion of caregiving fatigue, family strain, domestic violence, financial stress, and ongoing illness/fatigue. Nothing graphic, but emotionally heavy at points. Listen gently if you’re already feeling tender.
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📌 Standard Disclaimer
This podcast is based on personal experience and is intended for information, education, and entertainment purposes only. I am not a medical professional, therapist, or financial advisor. Always seek the guidance of your qualified health, wellness, or financial professional regarding any medical condition, treatment, or decision. Listener discretion is advised. 💜
