Masculinity

Some people will jump in the air and freak out just hearing this word

Same goes for:

Power

and

Leadership

What if I told you I strongly believe we all have MASCULINE AND FEMININE power roaming inside of us and WE ALL want Power and Influence of some sort

and if we keep blaming and shaming masculinity and think that power is a bad thing we will end up in a very poisonous, manipulative, back stabbing society where nobody gets nowhere in life.

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Welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm your host

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Aurora. And I'm very happy to be spending some time with you

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today.

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Today I

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want to talk about masculinity, power,

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leadership,

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reclaiming your masculinity. Is this episode only for

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men?

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Absolutely not. We all have both energies roaming inside of us.

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And before I continue, I want to remind you to

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leave

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a review, or rate my podcast here on Apple podcast. I'm

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burning to know what you're thinking and feeling. And if

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this puckered cast is bringing you value and love understanding

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into your life. Thank you so much. And now enjoy the rest of

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the episode. I feel we have a huge problem with masculinity. I

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feel a lot of men out there struggle with what, what is

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masculinity, really what do women want? What is our role in

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society, and the same goes for women as well. But I want to

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focus on the masculinity today. And the women who express their

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feminine, a little more than the masculine, still have that

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masculine part and side of themselves. And if they're not

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okay, with masculinity in the x journal, they will also not

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accept and embrace their internal masculinity. So what

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are the little steps that we can take? In order to make peace?

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Again, I think we have to look back in time First, we have to

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look at patriarchy that was ruling the world for so long.

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And that was shaping our society so strongly. And you will see

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that, yeah, there were a couple men in power. And most

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households, it was the guy who was earning the money. But what

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about the guys who suffered from that as well? It was not only

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women. Some of them enjoyed it thoroughly. But some women

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suffered enormously under the patriarchy. But what about the

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guys who suffered under it? It was crippling to their soul. It

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was restrictive, it was violent, it was not good for most men.

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And we have to see this, we can't put every man into that

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box of patriarchy and assume that every man is longing for

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that structure of society. Because it is not the case. I

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invite us all, to ask more questions, to go more into depth

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into what we really need, and what we really want. And at the

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same time, we have to become more authentic, we have to

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authentically, fearlessly express what we need and want.

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And in order to do that, or surprise or surprise, we have to

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know who we really are. Are you the son of your father and your

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mother? Are you the boyfriend of such and such? Are you the

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friend of such and such and such? Or are you your individual

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self and you make your decisions based on what you feel is inside

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of you and has to be expressed to the outside? And same goes

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for you. If you are expressing your feminine on this planet?

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Are you the daughter of your father or your mother? You such

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and such? wife, mother, sister, who are you and what is it that

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you want to express in this world because as soon as you

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express who you truly are and show up authentic To be as who

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you are, you will live such a fulfilled life, you will be able

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to enrich and encourage, and inspire others. And you will

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attract people that are meant to be on your journey in your life.

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I feel we all struggle with the word, power, and leadership, we

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all have a very twisted feeling. When it comes to power, and

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leadership, we think it's a bad thing to claim power, it's a bad

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thing to be powerful. Well, what will happen if you believe

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that it is bad to express a longing for leadership and

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entrepreneurship, in very subtle ways, this suppressed energy

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will find a way to manipulate your way through life, to

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manipulate your relationships, and to play tricks on you.

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Right, yes, suppressing and energy that wants to be

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expressed, that wants to be out there to support others and lead

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others, yet you decide to suppress it. And what is going

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to happen with that energy, it's going to turn into depression,

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into bitterness, into manipulation, and lots of

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suffering. Instead of waking up and living your truth, you

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decide to stay in that closet, you decide to dim your light,

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and to not share with people with what you identify with,

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truly with who you are. In this world. When it comes to

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masculinity, masculine energy is forward is penetrating is

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sometimes maybe a little bit forceful, but it doesn't have to

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be threatening. If we women learn to stand are a woman and

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to be empowered, we will not be intimidated of that energy

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anymore. And feel that need to castrate and to humiliate and to

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blame and shame, we will take that energy and receive it. If

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we feel this is the right person to do it with, we will receive

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that energy and we will in turn, become this super magical power

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of feminine energy who wants to nurture and who wants to create

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and who wants to be dancing and singing? Yeah, we will be

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receiving the masculine energy instead of trying to manipulate

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and control it. Blaming and shaming and overly telling how

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we want things to be and and need things to look like which

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is controlling. We will appreciate and trust the

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masculine again, trust that the masculine energy that we all

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carry inside of ourselves is good. It wants to come out. It

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wants to be expressed the right way. If you're struggling with

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porn addiction, let's say as a guy, and you feel you want to go

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out there and date women, but you only want sex, you don't

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want any relationships. Chances are you doing it for the wrong

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reasons. You watched porn for too long. And you want to get

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that energy out. You want that experience you want to be inside

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of a woman's body as fast as possible. And then you're going

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to make mistakes. If you have the wrong intentions. to

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approach women, you will pay the price. You have to have the raw,

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very vulnerable, strong intention to connect with a

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woman and to wanting to meet up with her and to get to know her

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and to feel out her energy and then become intimate with her.

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You don't want to scare her

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off.

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You don't want to violate her. You want to listen to your

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instincts, but not to any sick like extension of your

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addiction. So you have to be brutally honest with with

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yourself with how you project yourself, and how you present

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yourself. And the deep intention you have, when you want to unite

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with a woman. All too often, we go out there and want a date and

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have the wrong intentions. And this is where women become very

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angry and upset and fearful and then end up rejecting you.

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Because maybe you are not aware of this weird intention that you

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actually have in meeting up with a woman, you have to become

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brutally honest with yourself that you want a deep connection,

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that you want to feel understood and supported, that you want to

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feel uplifted sometimes.

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And at the same time, you want to do exactly this, for the

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other part, for the feminine, and the masculine part that you

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want to unite with. And as a woman, you have to be brutally

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honest, when you go out and date, what do you want? Are you

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still thinking that you can trick a guy into a relationship

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with sex? Are you still thinking that it is not a good thing to

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be upfront with a guy and telling him what you are

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available for and what not, we have to learn to empower

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ourselves again, we have to learn to be confident again,

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with what we want, and what we need. We cannot shy away from

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this because it is bringing too much drama into this world. That

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is unnecessary suffering. So if you are a woman living in your

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feminine energy in a beautiful, feminine aura, then at times,

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you have to be confident, and you have to trust your masculine

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energy to clearly express what you need and want. So I hope it

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was not too confusing. With all those energy talks. I hope you

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can make sense of this. My main point is that we have to come

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together again, we have to ask more questions. We have to make

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less assumptions. And trust that we want the same from each

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other. We want to feel understood. We want to feel

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nurtured, we want to feel uplifted, and maybe even create

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a business or a family build something together. But first,

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we have to trust ourselves. We have to trust our intentions.

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Second, we have to know ourselves better. And thirdly,

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we have to not be scared of

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clearly

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expressing our desires, not your fears. Stop feeling and being

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caught in what you don't want and blaming and shaming other

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people. But start expressing what you want. Thank you so much

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for listening to the Borealis experience. If you resonate with

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this, please share with loved ones. Leave me a review on Apple

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podcast. And I will be out there very soon again. Thank you so