Action: This one is going to be hard to hear because it applies to both the good and the bad. There is a purpose hidden in all of our experiences. It’s usually easy to identify in the good times, but the bad/tough times is a different story. You may not see it during your experience or even immediately after, but down the road, when you’re away from it … you may see it more clearly. This is especially true when we talk about the tough times. All that being said though, I do want to make something clear. During those tough times, you will naturally feel your feelings and that’s okay. Give yourself time for rest and recovery. Finding the purpose of something does not have to happen right away. Even then, frankly we don’t always have to find the purpose.