A good coach MUST be a good listener. Beyond that, they must be a “disciplined listener.” Today’s guest covers this topic with information and expertise. Join us to learn more!

Mike Reddington is a Certified Forensic Interviewer and the president of InQuasive, Inc. He wrote The Disciplined Listening Method and hosts the Disciplined Listening podcast. Mike shares effective communication techniques derived from interrogation practices. You’ll learn the importance of disciplined listening, strategic observation, and how creating safe spaces can foster openness. 

Show Highlights:

• Mike details his path into this line of work from his beginnings as a middle school teacher and coach.
• Myths about interrogation vs. the reality of non-confrontational interrogation
• Key concepts in disciplined listening
• What you DO is more important than what you SAY.
• What is “disciplined listening”?
• “How many questions have I created?” is better than asking, “Do you have any questions?”
• Critiquing diverse pathways and control in conversations
• A key takeaway from Mike: “Prioritize outcomes and maintain situational awareness.”

Resources:

Connect with Mike Reddington and InQuasive, Inc.

Michael Reddington.com

InQuasive, Inc.

The Disciplined Listening Method book

Disciplined Listening podcast, and LinkedIn

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