So Sunday February 19th I turn 48. I don’t like birthdays. They are simply a reminder I’m not as young as I feel. However, they are a time to reflect on what has transpired thus far in one’s life. Here’s a little of what I’ve learned.
You will survive almost every tragedy that befalls you
You DON’T have to try to make people like you. Just be the type of person it’s easy to like
It takes more energy to hate than to forgive
You will never have enough money to do all the things you want to do
True joy comes from experiences not things
Developing skills and pursuing activities that make you a better person but no money at all are indeed worthwhile
Loving with full abandon is the surest way to keep your spouse happy
When cooking a steak, trust the process. Don’t check the meat every minute. Find the time and temperature that works and trust the process
People will always disappoint you. They’re human. That’s what humans do
It’s okay to be a nobody in the world’s eyes. What matter is being a somebody your wife and children can depend on
“He who conquers his mind conquers the world.”
Contentment is the brass ring not the brass ring
Age is in fact just a number. How you feel is what matters most
Stay active. It’s magical how amazing being healthy feels
Not drinking alcohol is awesome
If you smile at the world, more times than not it will smile back at you. Sounds cheesy, but it’s true
Divine appointments are real. I’ve had more than I can count
Managing the distance between action and reaction can change everything
Trying to control others is pointless. You can only control yourself
You don’t need nor can explain the actions of others. Leave it to them. You are only accountable for your own actions
Apologize quickly
Being a good listener is far more important than being a good talker
It’s ok to keep your opinion to yourself
It’s ok to disagree with people just do it respectfully
Like C.S. Lewis said, “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.”
I’m sure there’s more. After all, it’s been nearly half a century. However these are 20 of the main lessons I’ve taken from life so far. I can wait to see what the next 48 holds.
