Empowering Women to Embrace a Healthier, Non-Toxic Lifestyle
In this episode of the Ever Be podcast, host Mari Wagner speaks with Instagram influencer Kristen, also known as Organa Mama, on the importance of reducing toxins in daily life. Kristen shares her personal journey from being diagnosed with interstitial cystitis to achieving permanent remission through clean living. The discussion covers identifying and eliminating common toxins found in homes, personal care products, and food, along with practical steps for gradually switching to non-toxic alternatives. The episode aims to educate and empower women to make smaller, impactful changes towards living a healthier, Christ-centered life.
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Kristen's Links
Instagram @the.organimama
Website - https://www.organimama.com/
Guides & Resources - https://www.organimama.com/resources
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Follow Along:
Hey, I'm your host, Mari Wagner,
and you're listening to the ever be
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:podcast where faith meets lifestyle.
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:Pull up a chair and listen in for
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:and actionable steps on how to claim
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:If you're a woman desiring to live
a Christ centered life in today's
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:modern world, then this is for you.
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:Welcome to Ever Be.
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:mari: Hey, Kristen, welcome to ever be.
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:Kristen: Hi Mari.
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:Thank you so much for having me today.
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:mari: I'm so pumped to get into our
conversation today because I know
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:it's going to be the type of resource
that's going to educate people, um, and
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:empower women to start ditching toxins
and leaning into a cleaner lifestyle.
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:Kristen: Absolutely.
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:Those are two of my favorite
words, educate and empower.
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:mari: Yes, exactly.
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:I know that when I started like my
whole clean living journey, it was about
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:three years ago and it was a little
bit alarming at first to hear about
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:all the things that were bad and to
hear that everything in my house was.
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:You know, harming me in some way.
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:And I felt this like anxiety
and this urgency to get rid of
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:everything at the same time.
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:And for a while it just kind of
became an all or nothing thing.
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:And so I just kind of like focused
on learning and educating, uh,
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:myself because I think at first
I was, I was kind of skeptical.
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:I was like, how come everything
all of a sudden is bad?
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:Like how did I never know this?
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:And it wasn't until really that I, like
I said, focused on educating myself and
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:focusing on just like a few, Resources
that I feel felt like were trusted
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:resources, Christian based resources
of women who were going through similar
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:experiences as me and that were really
dedicating time to real research.
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:It was then that I felt really
empowered, you know, to actually start
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:making small changes, little changes.
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:Um, and your Instagram has been
such a wonderful resource to
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:me the past, I think, like year
that I've been following you.
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:It's been.
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:So great.
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:So I'm excited to have you and really
dive into all this and help people,
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:you know, just gain that confidence
in their clean living journey.
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:Kristen: Absolutely.
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:Yeah, that's great.
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:mari: So let's just kick it off.
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:Can you give us all an
introduction on yourself?
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:Um, and maybe kind of how you got into
this space, like what really kicked off
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:your journey in the non toxic world?
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:What?
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:Kristen: name is Kristen.
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:I show up on Instagram as the Organa Mama.
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:and basically my whole platform
is around helping women learn how
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:to heal themselves or prevent.
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:disease down the road.
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:And so, basically this all stems from
my own personal story, which is that,
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:um, when I got married at age 21, my
husband and I went on our honeymoon,
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:and while we were on our honeymoon in
the Dominican Republic, I developed
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:really painful, um, symptoms of what
felt like a urinary tract infection.
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:I just assumed that's what it was.
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:And we actually went to like a
pharmacy and Nick, my husband
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:can like speak a little Spanish.
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:So he like tried to like find me
an antibiotic for like a urinary
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:tract infection while we were there.
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:And.
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:I like took some drugs that we got from
the pharmacy, like, don't know how legit
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:they were, but, uh, basically what ended
up happening is I suffered from symptoms
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:of what I thought was a UTI for months and
I, you know, saw a doctor when we got back
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:to the States and they like did a test and
they were like, well, I can't really tell
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:if you like actually have an infection or
not, but like, clearly you're symptomatic.
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:So let's put you on another
round of antibiotics.
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:So I actually did three rounds of
antibiotics, which I'm sure just
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:like killed my gut bacteria, but um,
my symptoms really never went away.
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:And so I eventually went and saw a
urologist about four months after our
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:wedding kind of told him all about what
had been going on, what had happened
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:with the antibiotics and all my symptoms.
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:And he said, yeah, it
sounds like you have this.
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:illness called interstitial
cystitis, and it's lifelong.
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:There's no known cure, and you
will probably be in pain for
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:the foreseeable future, like
maybe for the rest of your life.
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:And here's a pamphlet.
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:In this pamphlet, there's some
suggestions on things that might help you.
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:Some people have found help from stuff
that's in here, and some people haven't.
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:And then he said literally.
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:And
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:mari: Oh my,
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:Kristen: I was
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:mari: that's so, that's so tough.
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:I mean, especially just like a few
months into your marriage or just
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:like in this new chapter of life.
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:It's exciting.
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:And then you get hit with this bomb.
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:Like that must've been really hard.
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:Kristen: so hard.
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:And we were still seniors in college.
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:And so I was wondering like, am I
going to really like have to try to
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:finish school, like in all this pain?
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:Like, I just thought I had a UTI
and I thought it would go away,
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:but like, it hasn't gone away.
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:And, um, you know, it definitely
was like a complication on our
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:sex life as new newly married,
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:mari: Yes.
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:Kristen: much pain all the time.
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:There was just so many challenges to that
and I think when that doctor said that to
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:me, I think that like initially I had this
feeling just like this feeling in my heart
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:of like my life is never gonna be the same
like I am like Damaged and I'm like going
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:to be sick for the rest of my life But
then there was also this little part of me
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:that like is the very like stubborn side
of me that was listening to this diagnosis
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:going Really though, like, are we sure
that, that this is going to be my future?
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:And I think that I just leaned
pretty heavily into that.
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:And I started researching,
trying to understand like what
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:causes a disease like this?
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:Like why someone like me, like, I
thought I was pretty normal, healthy,
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:but what I didn't know is my lifestyle
was terrible, but I was living like
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:every other 21 year old college student
that I knew, like, a lot of fast food,
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:staying up late, being on social media
a lot, and not drinking enough water.
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:Just all these things, these like basic
foundations of health that I didn't
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:really realize how important they were.
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:then as I started researching and
trying to understand this, diagnosis of
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:interstitial cystitis, I started learning
about inflammation for the first time.
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:wasn't really familiar with that as a
concept, and the more I learned about it,
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:the more it felt like I was just waking up
to a whole new world of, oh my goodness,
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:the food I'm eating, the quality of sleep
I'm getting, the amount of water I'm
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:drinking, and All of these environmental
toxins, which like who I had no idea what
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:those were before either all of these
environmental toxins are contributing
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:to my body's inflammatory levels.
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:And that's disease is an inflammation
based disease, and I'm sick because
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:my body is just full of inflammation.
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:So
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:mari: Dang.
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:Kristen: trying to figure out, okay,
how do I lower my body's inflammatory
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:response and inflammatory load?
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:And so I started by some diet changes.
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:I was able to, um, make also, sorry, you
hear a baby crying in the background.
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:mari: good.
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:We love babies here, so not a problem.
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:Kristen: We're watching my two kids.
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:There might be some
screaming in the background.
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:mari: All good.
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:Kristen: so I started out by cutting
gluten and that was a huge improvement
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:for me just in terms of how my
body was handling its pain levels.
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:And the flares of my disease really
slowed down when I cut gluten
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:out because the gluten I had been
eating for my whole life was.
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:Not good quality gluten.
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:It was the bleached enriched flour
with all of the preservatives and
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:gums and fillers and stabilizers
added to it and all of that stuff.
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:mari: Yes.
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:Kristen: I cut out like junk food and fast
food and gluten, that was a huge change.
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:And then I started researching like, Oh
my gosh, like these products that I'm
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:putting on my body on a daily basis,
my skincare, my makeup, my shampoo and
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:body wash, my perfume, all of this stuff
is contributing to my inflammation.
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:So I need to change that.
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:mari: Yes.
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:Kristen: And that's how I got started.
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:And that started like a journey for me
of several years of, learning how to
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:read ingredient labels, learning how
to identify toxic ingredients in my
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:personal care products, in my cleaning
products and in other things in my home.
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:And gradually over the years,
Nick and I started swapping
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:things out one thing at a time.
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:It wasn't like an overnight thing.
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:success story, but we started just slowly
whenever we needed to replace one product,
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:we would try to figure out what's the most
non toxic version of this that we can get.
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:Instead we would swap it out.
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:And within two and a half years of
my diagnosis, I was in permanent
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:remission from interstitial cystitis.
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:So that was summer of 2020
and now it's summer of:
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:So it's been four years since
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:mari: What?
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:Kristen: flare.
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:So
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:mari: That is amazing, Kristen.
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:Like what?
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:This is so great.
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:Kristen: yeah.
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:Yeah,
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:mari: Wow, I, I'm like getting so excited
and giddy just listening to you talk,
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:because I feel like half the time when
I talk to people about clean living,
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:toxins, all this stuff, I just kind of
get like, mm hmm, mm hmm, like little like
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:nods here and there, and I think people
probably think I'm nuts or like super
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:intense, but I'm like, yes, you get it.
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:Oh, gosh.
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:Well, praise God.
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:I love, I love your story.
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:I've, I've.
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:Definitely like write it on
Instagram before, but just hearing
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:coming from you is just so amazing.
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:And I know that it's probably
going to touch a lot of people's
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:hearts that are listening.
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:Cause I'm sure you're not the only
one, you know, um, we all are dealing
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:with some sort of health journey
or chronic illness or, you know,
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:whatever it is that's, that's going on.
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:And I think that a lot of us don't
really realize some of those root
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:causes because especially like
you said, environmental toxins are
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:something that we're just everywhere
and that we were never taught about.
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:And.
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:It's really surfacing in the
past few years and I love that
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:more and more is coming out and
people are learning about it.
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:So let's kind of dive
into that a little bit.
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:Can you just identify what sort of toxins
we might encounter in our life and in
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:our home or like where they even are?
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:Um, I know that, like I said,
if it's your first time hearing
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:this, you might feel a little bit
like, what are you talking about?
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:I didn't know everything was bad.
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:So can you just touch on like,
kind of where can you find these?
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:What are these?
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:You know, why is it bad?
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:What are the effects?
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:Kristen: Sure.
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:Um, there's kind of like four
different categories in my mind of
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:where you're going to be exposed
to toxins on a regular basis.
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:the first is going to be the
things that you put on your body.
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:So that's going to be
personal care products.
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:So makeup, skincare, shampoo,
body wash, and also clothing.
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:Um, so anything that's like touching
your body has the potential to expose
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:you to harmful toxins, um, depending
on what it's made from and what
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:the materials and ingredients are.
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:The second category is going
to be cleaning products.
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:So the things that you're
cleaning your home with.
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:So those either may be things
that you're actually inhaling
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:or things that you're touching.
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:So this is kind of more of like a
middle category because it, It falls
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:between two of my other categories.
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:So things that you're putting on
your body and then you have cleaning
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:products, which you might, they
might end up going on your body, like
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:touching your hands or you might end up
breathing them in, like inhaling them.
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:There's most store bought cleaning
products are full of toxic chemicals
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:that are linked to endocrine disruption.
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:That's basically if you're
unfamiliar, that means it's
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:messing up your hormone levels.
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:Um, that's what endocrine disruption
means screwing up your hormones,
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:um, or they're linked to cancer or
they're linked to respiratory issues
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:like asthma, um, or lung cancer.
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:Like there's so many things and there's
hundreds of studies to back this up.
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:Um, then the third category is
going to be what's in the air.
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:So again, cleaning products could
fall into this if it's something
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:you're spraying, but there are
toxins in the air, whether that's.
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:smoke, pollution.
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:It could be pet dander.
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:It could be what we call volatile organic
compounds, which that's a fancy word for
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:basically gases that come off of stuff.
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:It could be gases coming off of furniture.
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:It could be gases coming
out of your perfume bottle.
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:It's anything that kind of
releases gases into the air.
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:Some volatile organic compounds,
or I like to call them VOCs.
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:Some of them are fine.
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:Some of them are not dangerous.
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:They don't have any.
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:negative health implications, but
many of them are very dangerous.
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:Um, and then the fourth category is
going to be stuff you put in your body.
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:So food, water, and supplements.
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:Um, or I guess there's other things that
people like ingest, but, uh, yeah, or
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:yeah, food supplements, drugs and water.
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:So there's potential harmful
toxins in, in those things as well.
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:mari: Yeah, so good.
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:Yeah.
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:And that's why I'm like, if this
is the first time you're hearing
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:this, you're probably like, Oh
my gosh, that is everything.
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:Kristen: Yes.
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:mari: is why, well, I was just
going to say, which is why, like,
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:I want to reiterate, like that
starting small is such a good first
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:step and that don't fall into what
I fell into of just like overall.
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:I'm in like, Oh my gosh, everything's bad.
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:I, I, I am just paralyzed.
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:You know, like I can't do anything once.
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:I actually was like, okay.
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:My shampoo ran out.
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:I'm just going to switch that.
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:My soap ran out.
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:I'm going to switch that.
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:My makeup ran out.
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:You know, little by little starts
making a difference and makes it,
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:makes it so much easier as well as
like I said, like learning more and
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:actually like educating yourself.
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:So were you going to say something else?
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:Kristen: I was just going to say
that I like to think about like toxin
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:exposure in your life as like a bucket.
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:And I kind of call this
the bucket analogy.
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:There's other wellness people that
like share the same analogy too.
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:But essentially if you think
about your health as this bucket,
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:And all of the toxin exposures
are like a splash of water.
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:So you have like a splash of water from
your makeup, a splash of water from your
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:toxic shampoo, a splash of water from
toxins in your all purpose cleaner, a
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:splash from toxic laundry detergent,
a splash from pollution that's in the
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:air around your home, a splash from
pesticides that are in the food you're
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:eating, a splash from food dyes in the
candy that you maybe eat on an occasion.
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:All of those things are just
a splash, but they add up.
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:And then when our body responds
and presents symptomatically with
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:chronic illness, infertility, cancer,
it's an overflow of that bucket.
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:So that bucket has overflowed.
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:Our body cannot handle these exposures
anymore and we're overflowing.
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:So don't have to empty
your bucket overnight.
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:You just need to take out enough
of those, splashes of water to get
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:your level low enough that your
body can breathe and, and operate.
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:And it doesn't have to be
empty for that to be a thing.
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:mari: So good.
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:I'm going to use that.
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:That's so good.
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:Okay.
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:So when it comes to reading ingredient
labels, we know that this can be
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:tough and confusing sometimes.
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:I mean, half the time we can't pronounce
what's even on the ingredient label.
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:And so you just kind of put it down
and kind of hope that it's okay.
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:So can you kind of help
shed some light on this?
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:What are some of those top ingredients
that you could teach us to look out for?
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:Kristen: Yes.
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:I would say if you're just starting
out, there's one, there's one that
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:you need to look out for Mari.
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:I'm sure you know what this is.
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:mari: Yeah.
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:Kristen: ingredient that I would say,
if you're brand new to this concept
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:of toxin free living or low tox.
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:There's one ingredient you
need to be able to identify.
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:And I strongly encourage that you never
buy anything that contains it again.
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:And that's, fragrance.
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:fragrance is sadly in so many things.
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:It's in shampoo.
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:It's in perfume.
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:It's basically what perfume is.
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:mari: Right?
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:Yeah.
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:Kristen: you look at the ingredient list
of pretty much anything that is sold
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:in stores, you're gonna see Fragrance
it could also be listed as perfume or
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:aroma what it is Fragrance perfume aroma.
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:This is an umbrella label that
companies are legally allowed
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:to use on their products and
Underneath this umbrella label can
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:live up to hundreds of chemicals.
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:They're legally through the United
States, at least allowed to put
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:hundreds of different chemicals into
a product and label it as fragrance.
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:And the purpose of these products is
to provide a smell to the product.
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:Now, the problem with this is it takes
away accountability from the company.
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:So if a brand is putting fragrance in
their product, they don't have to disclose
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:what the chemicals are that they've
used to make to scent their product.
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:And unfortunately, the majority of
times when a brand, when a company is
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:manufacturing something that they want to
smell good, and they're using fragrance,
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:they're also going to include this
group of chemicals called phthalates.
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:It's spelled very weird.
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:It's P H T H A L A T E S.
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:Phthalates.
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:mari: Mm.
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:Mm hmm.
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:Kristen: This is a very
harmful group of chemicals.
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:This is proven with hundreds of studies.
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:Phthalates are directly linked
to hormone disruption and cancer.
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:Like time and time again, studies
show linked to those two things.
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:Now, it's really unfortunate because
is it possible that a brand could be
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:using fragrance and not have phthalates?
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:Yes.
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:But is it likely?
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:No, because they don't have to say.
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:And the reason why they're using
phthalates is phthalates are a
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:chemical that is often most commonly
known in plastic because it actually
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:makes plastic more bendable.
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:It makes it more flexible.
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:That's just like the compound of the
compounds within this group of chemicals
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:called phthalates makes plastic bendy.
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:And so a lot of times, you know, when
you see plastic bags in grocery stores,
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:it'll say like phthalate or BPA free.
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:It's because those chemicals are
what makes like bendy plastic.
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:So a lot of times if it's a type of Like
flexible plastic they they will say like
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:this is free of phthalates This is free
of bpa because they Know that people will
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:look at that type of plastic and wonder
if it has those chemicals in it So the
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:reason they put phthalates in fragrance
is because it makes fragrance more sticky
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:It's the same like um attribute that makes
plastic bendy It makes molecules stick to
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:stuff and it makes the scent last longer.
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:So that's why they put it in perfume
That's why they put it in In that
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:umbrella label of fragrance is
cause they want that set to stick
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:around longer to make a better
impression on you with their product.
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:mari: Mm.
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:Kristen: shampoo to smell good all day.
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:They want that perfume to last 24 hours.
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:It's that lingering smell.
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:Like in theory, it's like,
Oh, that makes sense.
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:it's really messed up because what it's
doing is it's causing this epidemic
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:in, like, when we start introducing
body sprays to girls in middle school
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:and they start covering themselves in
bath and body works and other types
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:of perfumes and scented products
like shampoo, conditioner, makeup.
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:We're exposing them to so many
hormone disrupting chemicals.
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:And then we have these girls who
are going into puberty at age nine.
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:um, struggling to get pregnant
when they are ready to, to
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:enter that season of life.
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:Or for someone like me, it may be
that you suddenly develop a random,
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:seemingly random autoimmune disease..
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:didn't realize I'd been dousing myself
in phthalates from my personal care
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:products for basically my entire life.
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:mari: I know.
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:Same.
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:I mean, like, when you said Bath
and Body Works, I'm like, that's
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:what we would do in middle school.
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:We would go to the mall and go to
Bath and Body Works and buy everything
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:and spray ourselves with everything.
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:Kristen: Yes.
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:mari: It's consuming.
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:Mm hmm.
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:Kristen: so if you can.
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:Learn to shop for things without
buying anything with fragrance.
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:a big change.
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:Like if you've been living like
a normal American, you probably
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:have a lot of fragrance products
because that's just the norm and.
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:It takes a lot of dedication to
walk away from that because that
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:means like getting rid of scented
candles scented everything And a lot
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:mari: Yeah,
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:Kristen: products have fragrance in
them as well so I would say for anybody
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:who's totally new to this journey if
you can just start looking at ingredient
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:labels and Putting it back on the shelf.
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:If you see fragrance or perfume or
aroma on there, you're already making
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:a huge step in the right direction.
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:mari: cool.
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:What about like if the ingredient
label says natural fragrance?
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:I know I've seen that before and that
one always makes me pause because
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:I'm like, well, you said natural.
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:So what does that mean?
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:Is, do you feel like that falls
under the same umbrella or is that
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:like, Nope, that's a green light.
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:Kristen: Uh, I personally, I would
say I'm pretty strict when it comes to
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:fragrance and anytime a company is not
fully disclosing their ingredient list.
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:That is a hard red flag for me because
that to me indicates that they're a
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:trying to trick you into thinking their
product is safe when it might not be
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:because they're not actually telling you
what they're using to send the product.
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:And B, where was I going with this?
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:I forgot what my second thought was.
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:mari: We can circle back.
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:If it comes back to you, bring it up.
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:But the second part of my question was,
I've heard different opinions on this.
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:What if it's scented with essential oils?
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:Kristen: Yes,
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:mari: like, that's how it's
written in the ingredient list,
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:like scented with essential oils.
426
:Kristen: yes.
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:Okay, going back a little too,
and then I'll get to this.
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:mari: Okay.
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:Perfect.
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:Kristen: So basically, natural
fragrance is oftentimes an attempt
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:by a company to make their product
seem safe when it might not be.
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:Because that's still, natural
doesn't mean anything.
433
:It's not a regulated term.
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:It's not a government term.
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:It's not anything particular.
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:Literally, if a company puts natural
fragrance, might be the exact same
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:as them putting fragrance So there's
no regulation on the use of the word
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:natural In fact, it's used a lot in
what we would call green washing where
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:a brand is trying to make their products
seem nice and safe Like when it says
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:safe for all ages that is unregulated.
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:That means nothing when it says
natural all natural That means nothing.
442
:Uh, and so natural fragrance as well, I
think falls into that same category of,
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:I would proceed with extreme caution.
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:And generally I'm kind of a crazy
person, but I would email a company
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:and be like, Hey, what chemicals do
you use in your natural fragrance?
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:And if they respond back and say, Oh,
we have like our proprietary blend.
447
:I'm sorry.
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:We can't disclose, but trust us.
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:It's all natural.
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:I'm like walking away.
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:No way.
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:mari: Goodbye.
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:Kristen: can give me a full
list of exactly what's in there.
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:I do not trust it.
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:And then in terms of
essential oils, depends oils.
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:Um, some of them are good and safe.
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:Some of them are sourced very poorly.
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:So it really depends on the company
on their, um, standards for sourcing.
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:It's, um.
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:Preferred that essential oils in a
product would be organic, because that
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:mari: Right.
462
:Kristen: going to have been sprayed
with pestis with harmful pesticides.
463
:Um, that's not always the case, and there
are some products that I do recommend
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:that don't use organic essential
oils, but I trust their sourcing and
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:I trust that where they're getting
their, uh, essential oils from is safe.
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:But I think 1 thing.
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:That this is kind of a hot take of
mine that isn't necessarily shared by
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:everybody in the clean beauty space,
but essential oils for the most part
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:are antimicrobial and antibacterial,
which means they kill things off.
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:A lot of people would consider that
to be a good thing because it's like,
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:oh, it's killing off bad bacteria,
but it also kills off good bacteria.
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:And something that I am a huge
proponent for is having a home
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:that has a healthy microbiome.
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:Which means you have good bacteria
that are thriving in your home.
475
:And if all you're doing is just
disinfecting or using essential oils
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:to clean everything, you're actually
killing off all the good bacteria too
477
:that you want to have in your home.
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:So I'm very cautious with the use of
use of essential oils because it can
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:kind of over sterilize your home or your
body or your mouth or wherever it is
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:that you're using them or applying them.
481
:I just try to be cautious
and not overuse them.
482
:mari: Yeah.
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:Just mindful and in moderation.
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:Okay.
485
:Great.
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:You did mention greenwashing and I wanted
to touch on that a little bit because
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:I think this is increasingly getting
worse and worse and you see more and
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:more brands pop up that are claiming
to be natural or clean or whatever and
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:kind of using these buzzwords to make
people think that it's non toxic and not
490
:harmful and clearly that's not the case.
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:And I even had a conversation with.
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:My mother in law recently, um,
which just kind of shows like
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:people are being tricked by this.
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:And myself included before I've
been definitely fallen into thinking
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:that something is clean, but we
were talking about the new laundry
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:detergent I've been using truly free.
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:I know you use it too.
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:And she was like, well, I bought
like tides free and clear version.
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:Like that's like their non toxic version.
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:So I think I'm good.
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:And I was like, I hate to break
it to you, even though it's called
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:like free, clear, natural, whatever.
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:This is what's called greenwashing.
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:This is like brands that are
like trying to market things in
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:a way that's not actually true.
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:Is that right?
507
:Kristen: Yes.
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:Yep.
509
:mari: Yes.
510
:Kristen: um, It's when a brand is
promoting their product making it sound
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:safe or environmentally friendly or
good for your body And it's actually
512
:not and this is why I really encourage
people I want to educate and empower
513
:people to actually learn how to read
ingredient labels themselves but also
514
:Rather than just looking at branding on
a product and say, Oh, that looks good.
515
:Because it's easy to do that.
516
:I have a graphic design background.
517
:That's what I have my degree in.
518
:And we learned about
this in college of like.
519
:How, like, certain colors make people
more trusting, uh, anything that's
520
:colored green is, uh, is an automatic
win for people mentally, because
521
:you assume that it's environmentally
friendly if it has green packaging.
522
:mari: Yeah.
523
:Like it's
524
:Kristen: and
525
:mari: natural.
526
:Kristen: really good example of this
is just in, like, the oil industry.
527
:This is, like, not really
having to do with, like.
528
:Things in your home.
529
:But if you think about gas stations,
like BP is no different really than
530
:any other gas station in terms of like
where they source their oil, how they
531
:do things, but their branding is green.
532
:And so people think it's better for
the environment to get gas at BP, which
533
:is like, That's just a straight up
marketing ploy, but it's a good example.
534
:It's a good example.
535
:I mean, they've done a good job with
their marketing to help people think
536
:like, Oh, BP is like better gas,
but it's like, it's no different.
537
:You know what I mean?
538
:But it's the same for like beauty brands
and personal care products, deodorants.
539
:Like you're going to see all kinds
of buzzwords on the front, like.
540
:free of aluminum or free of sulfates
or safe for the whole family.
541
:And those things don't mean anything.
542
:It's why you need to take a closer look,
flip it over, look at the ingredient
543
:list, look for fragrance first.
544
:If you're just starting out,
that's the most important one.
545
:But then there's also a lot of other
things that you have to watch out for.
546
:And like you were saying with like
free and clear detergents, those
547
:ones are fragrance free usually.
548
:And so that's why they save.
549
:Free and clear.
550
:It's like, Oh, fragrance free.
551
:And that's a good start, but that's not
really enough because a lot of times
552
:they're using other very toxic chemicals
in their ingredient list, you really
553
:don't want to be exposing yourself to
554
:mari: Yeah, for sure.
555
:So how can we find brands that we trust?
556
:Can you talk about that a little bit
and then kind of touch on EWG as well?
557
:Kristen: sure.
558
:So finding brands that you
trust it, it's a labor of love.
559
:It's hard.
560
:And if you're new to this, it can be
really confusing and overwhelming,
561
:which is why, like you said, at the
beginning, Mari, it's important to
562
:have some trusted resources of people
who, you know, are really, really going
563
:to be taking a deep dive into every
single product and you can trust them.
564
:Now, I always recommend that
people do their own research.
565
:Don't just take what one person says
at face value and just go with it.
566
:Like do your own research, trust
your gut on things, and Do a, do a
567
:double check on everything, but it
can be really helpful to find people
568
:or sources or sites that are a good
starting point to help navigate.
569
:Okay.
570
:Are the ingredients in
this product actually safe?
571
:And so finding good brands, there's
a couple of things that I value a lot
572
:when it comes to choosing a safe brand.
573
:And sometimes brands will
have like one product that's
574
:good, but the other products.
575
:aren't.
576
:So it's kind of nuanced.
577
:It's kind of difficult.
578
:It's not always like, Oh, this
brand is great across the board.
579
:Sometimes it's like, Oh, this one
product, this one sunscreen that this
580
:brand has is safe, but I wouldn't
recommend all of their products.
581
:I look for transparency when
brands are listing out everything
582
:that they're using, when they're
not using terms like fragrance.
583
:When you can go on their website
and easily find an ingredient list,
584
:that is usually a green flag for me.
585
:So a lot of times when you'll go
on to a cosmetics website and you'd
586
:start looking at a product and you
want to find an ingredient list,
587
:it might be very hard to find.
588
:Um, a lot of times they'll have their
ingredients listed somewhere, but
589
:you really have to dig to find it.
590
:It may not be listed on
the actual product page.
591
:You have to go to like a different
part of the website to look
592
:up the ingredients for things.
593
:That's never good.
594
:If a brand is not putting their
ingredients right up front, right
595
:where the product is, that is
something to be very alert towards.
596
:And usually that's a red flag because
that means they don't want you to
597
:see what ingredients they're using.
598
:When brands are proud to
list their ingredients.
599
:Right up front.
600
:That's usually a good sign.
601
:Not always, but usually it's a good place
to start and then from there You you want
602
:to start kind of actually just reading
through like what are they using in here?
603
:Are they?
604
:prioritizing organic products and
Like are there any of these big red
605
:flag toxic ingredients in here or not?
606
:so also the EWG is a website that
you may or may not have heard of.
607
:It is, it stands for the
environmental working group.
608
:They are a nonprofit that does a lot
of really good work in helping to get
609
:safer products into people's homes.
610
:Now I would consider EWG to be a good
starting point, but not the end all.
611
:So EWG is a great place to look up an
ingredient and say like, Is this safe?
612
:Is this like toxic or
how, like, what is it?
613
:What even is this?
614
:If you're like, I don't know what
this ingredient is, I want to look
615
:it up and find out more about it.
616
:EWG is a great place to go for that
because they rate all ingredients on a
617
:scale of one to 10 in terms of safety.
618
:Now there are some EWG because Brands
do have to pay a premium to have
619
:their products looked at on a very
specific deep level because EWG cares
620
:about the dosage of ingredients.
621
:So there
622
:mari: Hmm.
623
:Kristen: one ingredient, for example,
that like, let's take, um, sodium
624
:lauryl sulfate, for example, as a
type of salt it's used in a lot of
625
:like detergents and things like that.
626
:The EWG would say that it's.
627
:It's safe in small amounts,
but unsafe in bigger amounts.
628
:So if someone that uses that ingredient
wants their product to score well on
629
:the EWG or become EWG verified in that,
like they approve of it, they have
630
:to pay a premium for their scientists
to take a look at that product.
631
:And look at the dosages of the
ingredients used and really determine
632
:is this at a safe level that this
ingredient is in there or not.
633
:And so brands that are EWG verified,
that means that they've paid
634
:for EWG to look at their product
and determine that it's safe.
635
:But then there's also brands that
are safe that are rated lower
636
:scores on their website because
they've chosen not to pay that fee.
637
:so it can be a little bit difficult
sometimes to know if something
638
:is actually truly safe or not,
because if a brand doesn't pay for
639
:verification, then they're going to
be scoring lower on the EWG's scale.
640
:Um, even if their product is really safe.
641
:So it's a great starting point, but it's
not the only thing I base my decisions off
642
:of when I'm looking at ingredient lists.
643
:mari: Mm hmm.
644
:Yeah, that's very helpful.
645
:Um, I know it's been a helpful
resource, but I did, yeah, learn
646
:everything that you just talked about.
647
:Cause I, I've gotten a lot
of questions on crunchy.
648
:My audience knows I talk about crunchy
all the time and people are like, why
649
:is it not on EWG or like, why isn't
it rated the highest or whatever?
650
:And that's the explanation I give.
651
:Although I do, I think we did hear
that they're like going to pay now.
652
:And so it's going to be
accurately rated and everything.
653
:So that's exciting, but.
654
:That's helpful to know kind of like
a starting resource that kind of
655
:helps you learn a little bit about a
product or a brand or not a product,
656
:an ingredient, uh, or a product.
657
:And I mean, following OrganiMama
is a great first step as well of
658
:where to get some more information.
659
:I know you educate a lot in your content.
660
:So moving into practicality, just
like what are some practical first
661
:steps somebody can take to start
reducing toxins in their life?
662
:Kristen: Yes, that is a great question.
663
:And listening to all of this explanation
about ingredients and chemicals, it
664
:might be going right over your head.
665
:Like when I was starting out on this
journey, I would hear people talk
666
:about phthalates and fragrance and EWG.
667
:And I would be like, what?
668
:Like, I don't understand any of this.
669
:Like, what do I actually just need to do?
670
:The first step I would say is Just
start looking at your products
671
:that you have in your home.
672
:The products you use on a regular
basis, your toothpaste, your
673
:body wash, your makeup, your
skincare, look at the ingredients.
674
:If you can't find an ingredient list
on the bottle, look it up, Google it.
675
:And if it has fragrance in it, just make
a mental note of when I run out of this, I
676
:need to replace it with something better.
677
:mari: Mm hmm.
678
:Kristen: pressure on yourself to
go and run through your whole house
679
:and throw everything away all at
once because that does not make
680
:financial sense for most people.
681
:Um, be easy at yourself.
682
:Be gentle on yourself as you're
starting to navigate this
683
:journey because it is a journey.
684
:It took me several years of learning all
of this to throw out my toxic products.
685
:mari: Same.
686
:Kristen: on yourself.
687
:Take your time.
688
:Don't feel stressed.
689
:There's a lot of people out there
that love to just fear monger
690
:women into throwing everything out
and freaking out and feeling like
691
:they need to spend all this money.
692
:You don't, the best ways
to heal your body are free.
693
:one of the best things you can do
in terms of getting rid of toxic
694
:products is just start making a
mental note of when I run out of
695
:this, I need to find something better.
696
:And then when you do run out of it,
Then look for those good resources.
697
:My page is a place you can come to find
good resources on on different things.
698
:I have a bunch of different guides
that walk you through like how to
699
:choose toxic cleaning products, how
to choose non toxic personal care
700
:products, how to choose non toxic baby
products, all of these different guides.
701
:There are other great resources out
there as well, but that's when you turn
702
:to a trusted resource to decide, okay,
I just ran out of laundry detergent.
703
:What should I get now?
704
:That's, that's a better, safer option,
but just do one thing at a time.
705
:And like I mentioned earlier,
that's going to slowly reduce that
706
:amount of water in your bucket
707
:mari: yeah.
708
:And I just recommend focusing on
that first category of items you
709
:mentioned, things that go on your body.
710
:I think that's what made the most
sense for me when I started finally
711
:switching things because I was like you.
712
:It took me.
713
:Probably at least a year of hearing
things before I really took action.
714
:Um, and that's because like your skin
just absorbs everything immediately.
715
:And like you said, like we have this
bucket and our body can, like does have
716
:the functions to filter out toxins, but
when it's like being exposed to toxins
717
:and everything that you put in your
body, it's going to be overwhelming.
718
:So starting with what you put in your
body, I know that I started with,
719
:um, honestly, I think my first one
was makeup, which I know is like
720
:usually one of the last ones people
Let go of, cause it's hard to let
721
:go of those brands that you love.
722
:But I was like, I'm going all in.
723
:I had tried other clean beauty
brands before and they all sucked.
724
:And finally I was like, okay, we're just
going to do one last try one last brand.
725
:So I switched my makeup and then my
skincare, then my shampoo, then my body
726
:wash, um, the last thing I'm looking for
is lotion still, which I know that you
727
:recommended that one baby brand and then
somebody else recommended another brand,
728
:but it was like 86 for a bottle of lotion.
729
:And I was.
730
:I'm, I'm like all in on investing,
but I was not about to spend
731
:90 bucks on a bottle of lotion.
732
:So if you have any other recommendations
on that, that would be great.
733
:Um, but yeah, just start with
products that go on your body.
734
:I think that's like the less stress
and you feel like you're making the
735
:most impact because it's directly
being absorbed by your skin.
736
:Kristen: Absolutely.
737
:And if someone comes to me and
they're like, I don't, I've, I,
738
:Have no experience with this kind of
lifestyle, but I want to get started.
739
:What's the very first
thing I should swap out?
740
:I always tell people do your
deodorant first because you're
741
:deodorant, your armpits are a very
highly absorbent area of your skin.
742
:And there's a lot of
lymph nodes near there.
743
:And there's just a lot going
on in your armpit area.
744
:And it's, um, for women, it's very
close to your breasts and breast
745
:cancer is super prevalent right now.
746
:And a lot of the toxic chemicals
that are found in deodorant.
747
:Uh, have very easy access
to your breast tissue.
748
:So that is always the first thing I
recommend for, at least for women to
749
:swap out is your deodorant because most
deodorant contains fragrance and you're
750
:going to, again, you're going to get
those phthalates in there and those
751
:are directly linked to breast cancer.
752
:So get fragrance out of your, out
of your deodorant, get heavy metals
753
:like aluminum out of your deodorant.
754
:Um, and there are some really
great safe options out there.
755
:But that's always the
first thing I recommend.
756
:mari: Absolutely.
757
:Okay.
758
:So what are some health benefits
you feel like you could speak to
759
:or that people might notice after
reducing their exposure to toxins?
760
:I know we heard your personal
testimony, but I think this is where
761
:people get skeptical sometimes is
like, okay, is this going to like
762
:actually make a difference in my life?
763
:Like, am I going to
notice what's going on?
764
:So can you just speak to kind of
some of those health benefits?
765
:Kristen: Absolutely.
766
:So I actually did a poll of my followers,
um, a couple of weeks ago and I asked
767
:them, I was like, if you have been
on a low tox journey, can you tell me
768
:what are some of the positive outcomes
you've seen on your own health?
769
:Since starting on this journey, and
I, I literally cried when I read these
770
:responses because it just blew me away.
771
:So there was a girl who said
that her cancer never came
772
:back after she started low tox.
773
:were multiple women who were
able to get pregnant after
774
:long seasons of infertility.
775
:There were also women telling me that
their husbands had made big changes,
776
:like my husband stopped smoking or
my husband finally got on board after
777
:he saw how much more energy I have.
778
:Energy is a huge one.
779
:I heard from tons of women that they have
increased energy and joy in their life.
780
:After, um, getting rid of toxins in their
home, many of them said, I feel more in
781
:control of my own health just by knowing
what I'm putting on and in my body.
782
:And that's huge.
783
:I mean, just think about the empowerment
that comes from knowing exactly what
784
:you're putting on versus going, yeah,
I don't really know what's in this.
785
:I hope it's okay.
786
:It's a huge shift in, in
the way you think about it.
787
:there were women who were healed
from chronic illness, just like
788
:me overcoming things like Lyme.
789
:Lyme disease, Hashimoto's, other
chronic pain, improved sleep
790
:quality, so many things like, and
it just depends on the person.
791
:It's such a bio individual
experience, but I have rarely ever
792
:heard non positive stories from
people that have been tox journey.
793
:mari: Yeah, for sure.
794
:I love that you mentioned energy
because I feel like that's one
795
:that can be overlooked so easily.
796
:Like you might not even notice that
unless it's like really severe before
797
:and after, but I feel like I noticed
that as well as like headaches.
798
:Like if I look back, I felt
like I got random headaches here
799
:and there throughout the day.
800
:High school and college.
801
:And I kind of attributed to like, Oh,
like I just have a lot on my plate.
802
:But the truth is I still
have a lot of my plate.
803
:I'm an entrepreneur.
804
:I got a lot of businesses to run.
805
:You know, it's like that hasn't changed.
806
:And I don't really remember last time
I had a head, like, it's not normal
807
:for me to get a headache anymore.
808
:And it used to be.
809
:And so that's something that
I definitely have just kind of
810
:kept in the back of my brain.
811
:Like, huh, I wonder if that's because
I removed fragrance in my home.
812
:Kristen: Yeah, that's a huge one.
813
:Headaches, massive.
814
:I mean, that's a lot.
815
:Just the number of stories of women
I've heard from who are like, yeah,
816
:I just stopped wearing like fragrance
perfume and now my headaches are gone.
817
:Like it's just wild.
818
:It's wild.
819
:mari: Awesome.
820
:Okay.
821
:Last question before we wrap
up, I get this question a lot.
822
:Many women tell me that they're getting
started on this clean living journey,
823
:trying to, you know, switch out to non
toxic products in their home and their
824
:husband or their family think that they're
crazy or they just are not on board and
825
:there might be some tension there because
it is a little bit more of an investment
826
:or people just aren't aware of the reality
and so they, they just don't hop on board.
827
:So do you have any tips for women on how
to get Specifically your husband on board.
828
:Yeah, that
829
:Kristen: If you don't already follow
me on Instagram, you may not know
830
:this, but my husband is a fourth
year medical student right now.
831
:So he is very much in the
conventional medicine world.
832
:Um, I'm really grateful because he
is doing a medical program that is a
833
:little bit more holistically leaning.
834
:It's doctor of osteopathics
compared to an MD program.
835
:So that's definitely like his initial
lean is to lean into that and really
836
:see the value in it, which I'm, I'm
grateful for because I think that his
837
:career has kept me from going completely
off the deep end of like crunchy living
838
:and like, Becoming like a crazy person.
839
:Like he keeps me grounded and centered.
840
:And I like have a deep
appreciation for, um, the ways
841
:that modern medicine saves lives.
842
:And I really am grateful for that.
843
:And he's going to be, uh,
hopefully Lord willing a surgeon
844
:who's able to help save lives.
845
:So really important.
846
:It's needed.
847
:And like a lot of people would
die if we didn't have that.
848
:So I'm grateful for it.
849
:But definitely when I first started
on this journey, he had a lot of
850
:skepticism, you know, like are you sure?
851
:Like doing this and like eating
beef liver and like all this stuff.
852
:Like he was just like, you sound crazy.
853
:And I was like, I know,
but let's just try it out.
854
:And I think that like, at the point when
I started this journey, I was so sick
855
:that we were willing to try anything,
you know, and it was hard on him too.
856
:Like for me to be so sick, it
was challenging on our marriage.
857
:We were in college, it was tough.
858
:And so I think his mind was kind of
like, well, if you want to try something
859
:and it works, then let's try it.
860
:And so.
861
:I, you know, asked if we could change
our diet and get rid of gluten and
862
:start like switching out things like
laundry detergent and skincare products.
863
:And initially he was kind of annoyed,
especially when I started asking
864
:him to switch his things too.
865
:Like, Hey babe, can you like
not use that body wash anymore?
866
:And he'd be like, Oh, come on.
867
:I like this one.
868
:I'm like, I'm sorry, but I
think that it might be also
869
:contributing to my health issues.
870
:And so he would kind of just be like,
all right, well, just, you know,
871
:pick something for me, I guess, and
we'll try it, but he's kind of picky.
872
:And so it was a little hard at first,
but I think for him, what really got
873
:him on board was seeing how I healed
myself, you know, like in his experience,
874
:I think he sees a lot of people come to
doctors and get medications for symptoms.
875
:And then.
876
:That medication kind of eradicates the
symptom, but they're not necessarily
877
:trying to figure out, well, why did I
get sick with that in the first place?
878
:And so I think for him from kind
of like a little bit of an outsider
879
:perspective, he watched me make
all these lifestyle changes.
880
:And then as we covered my health in
prayer and took it to the Lord too, I
881
:think it was very clear to him, like.
882
:kind of weird changes that Kristen is
making getting rid of Fragrance and
883
:changing out all our cleaning products
and all this stuff She's getting better
884
:and I think that that kind of blew
his mind and he was like, wow Respect
885
:babe, honestly, like I think he just
had a lot of respect for my like my
886
:drive to, to be able to heal my body.
887
:And, and he was really impressed by that.
888
:And he like saw firsthand how those
changes made me a whole different person.
889
:but that's obviously not everyone's story.
890
:And some people choose a toxin
free journey, not because they're
891
:currently sick, but because they
more so want to be proactively safe
892
:in what they have in their home.
893
:They want to protect their future health,
or they want to protect their children
894
:or their children's future health.
895
:And so you're making these decisions.
896
:And it might be a little more tough if
you have a husband who's not on board
897
:to be like, no, yeah, we all feel fine
right now, but I'm making these changes
898
:to prevent us from feeling bad later.
899
:You might get that response of, yeah,
but we feel fine right now, you know?
900
:And so that's where I think it can be
really helpful to know where to get
901
:some of these great science, studies,
studies, these peer reviewed studies that
902
:really point exactly to The potential
health implications of certain chemicals.
903
:So one of my favorite studies that
I talk about all the time is this
904
:one study that was done about a year
and a half ago on a group of women.
905
:And they had two, two groups of women and
the first group of women continued to use
906
:all of the standard conventional beauty
products They had been always using that
907
:had all the normal toxic ingredients in
them And then they had a second group
908
:of women for a month who switched to
products that had no phthalates So no
909
:fragrance and no parabens, which is
another toxic Group of chemicals that are
910
:found in a lot of conventional products.
911
:So they had the group of women doing
normal The products they'd always been
912
:using a group of women who got rid
of products that had phthalates and
913
:parabens And before they started the
study, they took a sample of every
914
:woman's breast tissue and analyzed
how many pro carcinogenic breast cells
915
:were there so pro carcinogenic cells
essentially to dumb it down means
916
:like cells that have the potential
to turn into cancer, that are already
917
:cancerous, but could turn into cancer.
918
:And so they like did analysis on how
many of these cells each woman had.
919
:So the group that had that maintained the
same products had the same level of pro
920
:carcinogenic cells after this was over.
921
:And the group of women who had
gotten rid of toxic products Had
922
:a significantly reduced number
of pro carcinogenic breast cells.
923
:that to me is like wow, I mean Clear clear
evidence there and obviously we would
924
:hope that they'll continue to do more
studies to just keep proving this over
925
:and over and over of the importance of
Eliminating these toxins in our products,
926
:but there are a lot of studies out
there that point to Direct correlation
927
:between phthalates and parabens and other
groups of chemicals that are in all of
928
:our beauty products that are directly
linked to all of these health issues.
929
:And right now in the US, 50 percent
of Americans have a chronic illness.
930
:this is not the minority
that we're talking about.
931
:It's over 50%.
932
:So.
933
:illness is prevalent.
934
:It is more common than
it's ever been before.
935
:And it's not just adults anymore.
936
:It's children and our children are being
exposed to all these chemicals too.
937
:So it feels to me like if you're trying
to bring your spouse on board with all of
938
:this, start sharing some of these stats,
start looking at some of these studies.
939
:If you go on to pub med, you can look
up like phthalates, health effects,
940
:med, and then you're going to get this
whole list of studies and you can just
941
:start reading them with your spouse.
942
:Like, Hey.
943
:Take a look at this.
944
:This is really interesting.
945
:And it takes time.
946
:You can't expect for someone to
suddenly jump on board overnight.
947
:It takes time.
948
:It takes hearing these things over and
over and over for someone to say, okay,
949
:yeah, I'm willing to try this, but do your
best not to get frustrated with a husband.
950
:Who's not really ready yet.
951
:Just be consistent, be kind and,
uh, and make the swaps that make
952
:financial sense for your family.
953
:Little by little as you go along.
954
:mari: was so helpful.
955
:One thing that came to mind too, was like,
listen to this podcast episode together,
956
:like play this podcast episode for your
husband in the car or something like
957
:that, or while you're making dinner or.
958
:Uh, just in a time where you guys can kind
of sit down and actually pay attention
959
:because it all comes down to education.
960
:Like a lot of my skepticism from
the beginning and everyone's
961
:skepticism is just like, how
come we've never heard of this?
962
:Is this really true?
963
:But when you really hear the facts, you
start to realize like, Oh, it's true.
964
:And I remember when we were, when
we started this journey, I mean,
965
:I started with products and, you
know, sourcing better food and
966
:organic and EMFs was one of the ones
that I was like, ah, is this real?
967
:Or is it like, this is like,
invisible waves in my, you know, air.
968
:Um, and I listened to a podcast episode
that Jordan Dooley did with her brother
969
:or something like that, that owns an EMF
remission company or something like that.
970
:And I listened to it and I
was like, okay, This is really
971
:intriguing and I'm on board.
972
:And then I talked to my husband about
it and he was like, uh, no about that.
973
:And so one time we did a road trip and
I was like, Oh, I just want to listen
974
:to this like new podcast episode.
975
:And I didn't even really
say anything about it.
976
:And we played it and he
had a lot of questions.
977
:And like, by the end, he was
like, wow, this is crazy.
978
:And just by playing that podcast
episode, sometimes I feel like.
979
:Our husbands maybe need to
hear it from someone else.
980
:That's not us.
981
:It's someone who's done more research
or who's like kind of in a place of
982
:authority teaching this kind of thing.
983
:And so after he heard that
podcast episode, he was like,
984
:all right, let's buy the things.
985
:And so we like made some
EMF changes in our home.
986
:And, and even just playing this
episode might be a helpful start.
987
:Kristen: Absolutely.
988
:And like coming from someone who's
married to somebody who is very much
989
:in conventional medicine, I, I mean,
he'll tell you straight up, he'll
990
:be like, Oh yeah, fragrance is bad.
991
:Don't use fragrance.
992
:Like he's like very much on board now.
993
:And I think I love, I love it.
994
:Cause he'll, he'll.
995
:to me and he'll be like, babe,
I just found this new body
996
:wash and it's free of parabens.
997
:It's free of phthalates It's like free
of all the things and then he'll be
998
:like, can you look at the ingredient
list to make sure it looks good?
999
:I'll be like, yeah sure and I take a look.
:
00:51:06,692 --> 00:51:07,802
I'm like looks great, baby.
:
00:51:07,802 --> 00:51:08,232
Like sweet.
:
00:51:08,262 --> 00:51:11,762
I'm so excited to try it Like it's
awesome to see how he's gotten on
:
00:51:11,762 --> 00:51:15,052
board and and he's gonna carry that
with him through his whole career
:
00:51:15,052 --> 00:51:17,147
You know of like understanding These
:
00:51:17,277 --> 00:51:17,557
mari: Yes.
:
00:51:17,647 --> 00:51:21,177
Kristen: of health that are so
important that they're not teaching
:
00:51:21,187 --> 00:51:23,877
about in medical school, like you're
not going to learn about the dangers
:
00:51:23,877 --> 00:51:25,247
of fragrance in medical school.
:
00:51:25,627 --> 00:51:26,497
Um, but it's important.
:
00:51:26,867 --> 00:51:27,597
So, yeah,
:
00:51:28,292 --> 00:51:29,012
mari: Absolutely.
:
00:51:29,562 --> 00:51:30,042
Amazing.
:
00:51:30,042 --> 00:51:34,602
This has been such a helpful, such
an awesome, empowering conversation.
:
00:51:34,862 --> 00:51:37,322
Any other, you know, things or
encouragement that you want to
:
00:51:37,322 --> 00:51:39,212
share before we totally close out?
:
00:51:39,212 --> 00:51:40,642
Yes.
:
00:51:40,642 --> 00:51:42,072
Yes.
:
00:51:42,227 --> 00:51:45,867
Kristen: just, um, it, it may
feel easy to just get overwhelmed
:
00:51:45,887 --> 00:51:47,137
when you start this journey out.
:
00:51:47,157 --> 00:51:49,947
And like you were saying earlier,
Mari, I think sometimes when you
:
00:51:49,947 --> 00:51:53,097
first hear about all of this, you can
start having this feeling of like.
:
00:51:53,452 --> 00:51:55,932
Panic of, my goodness.
:
00:51:55,962 --> 00:51:59,802
I probably have so much stuff in my home
right now that's like killing me and
:
00:51:59,802 --> 00:52:01,382
it's toxic and I'm going to get cancer.
:
00:52:01,382 --> 00:52:04,032
And like, you can start spiraling
and just really freak out.
:
00:52:04,032 --> 00:52:09,972
And I always just encourage people, like
take a breath, take a step back, pray
:
00:52:09,972 --> 00:52:13,797
about it, and And make one little change.
:
00:52:13,857 --> 00:52:14,417
That's it.
:
00:52:15,057 --> 00:52:18,227
Know that every little change
you're making is making an impact
:
00:52:18,287 --> 00:52:20,367
on your body's toxic burden.
:
00:52:20,727 --> 00:52:21,777
And it makes a difference.
:
00:52:21,827 --> 00:52:25,077
And you don't have to
do everything overnight.
:
00:52:25,077 --> 00:52:29,597
And I say this a lot, like, don't
compare my year five to your day one.
:
00:52:29,597 --> 00:52:34,727
I was at day one at one point,
and now I'm at year five, but
:
00:52:34,727 --> 00:52:37,087
it took a long time to get here.
:
00:52:37,087 --> 00:52:41,287
And I don't expect people to suddenly
wake up one day and be able to explain
:
00:52:41,287 --> 00:52:44,917
phthalates and be able to understand
all these chemicals and stuff, but
:
00:52:45,267 --> 00:52:47,277
it's one little change at a time.
:
00:52:47,367 --> 00:52:52,107
And, and whenever you start to feel like
your nervous system kind of freaking
:
00:52:52,107 --> 00:52:54,177
out, your heart starts going faster.
:
00:52:54,177 --> 00:52:56,647
You get a little sweaty as you
start to hear about something
:
00:52:56,647 --> 00:52:57,947
or toxins in my brain.
:
00:52:57,967 --> 00:52:58,997
Floss.
:
00:52:58,997 --> 00:52:59,217
What?
:
00:52:59,547 --> 00:53:01,427
And then you start just
freaking out, right?
:
00:53:01,737 --> 00:53:04,777
It's like important to just take a
step back, take a breath and be like,
:
00:53:05,047 --> 00:53:07,377
okay, today I'm going to do my best.
:
00:53:07,457 --> 00:53:08,517
And then I'm going to forget the rest.
:
00:53:09,727 --> 00:53:13,997
I'm just going to let go what I, what
I can't handle or can't control today
:
00:53:14,007 --> 00:53:19,457
because truly If our nervous system is
dysregulated, we can't live well, we can't
:
00:53:19,542 --> 00:53:20,102
mari: Mm hmm.
:
00:53:20,377 --> 00:53:23,957
Kristen: And that's the most important
thing is to learn how to be still, be
:
00:53:23,957 --> 00:53:28,517
calm, get outside, be in the sun, put
your feet in the grass, drink some
:
00:53:28,517 --> 00:53:33,527
water, eat some protein, you know,
get those, those basics of health.
:
00:53:33,587 --> 00:53:36,837
And then yeah, start swapping out
toxic products, but don't become
:
00:53:36,937 --> 00:53:40,737
so obsessed with getting rid of
toxins that your mental health
:
00:53:40,737 --> 00:53:42,597
becomes super toxic in itself.
:
00:53:43,177 --> 00:53:43,807
Because I think that's.
:
00:53:44,052 --> 00:53:48,702
That's a risk that you run when you
start this non toxic lifestyle is this
:
00:53:49,992 --> 00:53:52,402
mindset of I have to switch everything.
:
00:53:52,402 --> 00:53:53,332
I have to swap it all.
:
00:53:53,332 --> 00:53:54,452
I have to do it perfectly.
:
00:53:54,452 --> 00:53:55,732
And that's not the point.
:
00:53:55,942 --> 00:53:59,362
The point is just to give our
bodies the space that they
:
00:53:59,362 --> 00:54:02,312
need to function optimally.
:
00:54:03,012 --> 00:54:05,077
And for anybody who's like, Okay.
:
00:54:05,077 --> 00:54:06,587
I'm looking for next steps after this.
:
00:54:06,587 --> 00:54:10,387
I really want to start swapping out
products in my beauty, in my, um, in my
:
00:54:10,387 --> 00:54:14,647
beauty routine, or I want to know like,
how can I buy toxin free furniture?
:
00:54:14,657 --> 00:54:17,267
Or how can I have toxin free kitchen gear?
:
00:54:17,287 --> 00:54:21,137
I have a whole lineup of guides
that if you go to my Instagram,
:
00:54:21,177 --> 00:54:23,387
it's at the dot organic mama.
:
00:54:23,672 --> 00:54:26,952
If you go to the link in my bio, I
have several different guides that
:
00:54:26,952 --> 00:54:31,232
are all based on different categories
of your life for babies, for homes,
:
00:54:31,262 --> 00:54:36,102
for beauty products, and, um, those
are some great resources if you're
:
00:54:36,102 --> 00:54:41,032
wanting to dive further into this
on how can I lessen my toxic load.
:
00:54:41,307 --> 00:54:43,717
That would be a great place
to start, at least I think so.
:
00:54:43,717 --> 00:54:47,987
I'm biased, but I put those resources
together for people that are
:
00:54:48,117 --> 00:54:49,697
ready to take it a step further.
:
00:54:50,982 --> 00:54:51,382
mari: Yeah.
:
00:54:51,432 --> 00:54:52,552
No, that'll be really helpful.
:
00:54:53,022 --> 00:54:55,222
Uh, thank you for those
words of encouragement.
:
00:54:55,222 --> 00:54:59,072
You have such a spirit of like peace
and kindness and love when you speak
:
00:54:59,072 --> 00:55:03,272
about this, that I hope people feel that
on the other side of their headphones
:
00:55:03,272 --> 00:55:04,502
or car, wherever they're listening.
:
00:55:04,502 --> 00:55:06,492
So, uh, where can we find you?
:
00:55:06,492 --> 00:55:09,272
I know we've mentioned your Instagram
before you mentioned your bio, but one
:
00:55:09,272 --> 00:55:12,122
more time, do you, what your Instagram
handle and do you have a website or
:
00:55:13,227 --> 00:55:13,647
Kristen: Yeah.
:
00:55:13,687 --> 00:55:14,907
So you can find me on Instagram.
:
00:55:14,907 --> 00:55:15,687
It's at the.
:
00:55:15,687 --> 00:55:16,887
organamama.
:
00:55:16,927 --> 00:55:19,397
I do have a website that's organamama.
:
00:55:19,397 --> 00:55:19,727
com.
:
00:55:19,747 --> 00:55:20,947
It's in the works right now.
:
00:55:20,957 --> 00:55:21,487
So maybe by the
:
00:55:21,572 --> 00:55:21,912
mari: Okay.
:
00:55:22,307 --> 00:55:24,057
Kristen: comes out, it'll be updated, but.
:
00:55:24,777 --> 00:55:27,987
working on making that better and
getting my blog back up and running.
:
00:55:27,997 --> 00:55:28,307
But
:
00:55:28,442 --> 00:55:29,202
mari: Perfect.
:
00:55:29,317 --> 00:55:31,297
Kristen: talking on Instagram,
feel free to send me a DM.
:
00:55:31,297 --> 00:55:33,997
I always love having conversations
with people to help them get
:
00:55:33,997 --> 00:55:35,097
their health back on track.
:
00:55:35,872 --> 00:55:36,362
mari: Perfect.
:
00:55:36,392 --> 00:55:37,432
Thanks, Kristen.
:
00:55:37,777 --> 00:55:38,537
Kristen: Absolutely, Mari.
:
00:55:38,537 --> 00:55:40,037
Thank you so much for having me today.