How to release the tension in a heated debate …

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Welcome back to

“Irresistible Communication”.

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Two minutes, twice a week.

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No nonsense advice on

leadership communication.

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You're in a meeting room.

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The air is thick with unease.

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Everyone's on edge.

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It's a heated debate

and emotions fly high.

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Basically, everyone's waiting

for the room to explode.

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But then out of nowhere, someone

drops a perfectly timed statement.

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The kind, that's not just

funny, but smart and relevant.

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First silence.

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But then, suddenly, the room bursts

with laughter, the tension dissipates,

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and what seems like a dead end

becomes a moment of connection.

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In high stress environments, a leader

who can lighten the mood is more

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than just a breath of fresh air.

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They become a catalyst for change.

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They shift the dynamics and align

the team back on the common path.

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Humor, when used well,

is not a distraction.

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It's a tool for engagement.

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But here's the catch:

timing and fit are key.

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A well-timed joke can turn the tide, but

a poorly timed one can sink the ship.

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It's also crucial to be respectful if

it's at the expense of someone in the

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group, the joke is likely to backfire.

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But if it's about yourself or

maybe ourself, it allows the

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group to look at the heated debate

from a very different place.

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The better you read the room

and understand the dynamics,

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the better you can deliver that

punchline at just the right moment.

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The person who can break the

tension with humor isn't just

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funny; they are invaluable.

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They create an environment where

ideas flow freely, where people feel

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connected and where the weight of the

moment doesn't feel quite so heavy.

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Keep lighting the path and

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