In this episode of The One Small Change Podcast, Kimberly Crowe joins Yvonne McCoy to reveal how saying "yes" to speaking opportunities—no matter how small or unexpected—can lead to transformative growth both personally and professionally. Kimberly Crowe, an international speaker and vibrant entrepreneur, shares her journey from the corporate world to building million-dollar businesses, why fun fuels her success, and how small changes in mindset democratize the stage for everyone. Together, they explore the power of genuine human connection, the value of embracing your natural strengths, and actionable steps entrepreneurs can take to amplify their voices and impact. The conversation is packed with encouragement for introverts, extroverts, and everyone in between to speak up, show up, and build businesses—and lives—they genuinely love.
Guest Bio:
Kimberly Crowe is an international inspirational public speaker who has graced over 5,000 stages worldwide. Renowned for helping individuals "step up and shine," Kimberly Crowe is passionate about creating inclusive platforms for people of all backgrounds to share their stories. With a background in corporate leadership, entrepreneurship, and public speaking, she’s the driving force behind Speakers Playhouse, a vibrant community dedicated to connecting speakers with opportunities. Her philosophy: if it’s not fun, it’s not worth doing!
Chapters:
00:00 Craving Genuine Human Connection
05:55 Second Grader: A Kindergarten Genius
06:53 "Value in Starting and Sharing"
10:17 Understanding Boundaries in Communication
14:39 "Talking Trained Out Over Time"
16:56 "Too Young to Work, Too Old for Camp"
20:10 Reignite Purpose Through Passion
26:16 "Power of Repeated Speaking Engagements"
28:11 "Be Known Before Needed"
30:35 "Embrace Change, Step Forward"
Quote from the Guest:
"If somebody hands you a mic, you say yes, and if it's not fun, it's not worth doing."
Link:
Connect with Kimberly at: https://speakersplayhouse.com/
Hi, everybody. Welcome to the One Small Change. I am so glad that
Speaker:you're here again this week to go on this journey of exploration and
Speaker:transformation. And I'm your host, Yvonne McCoy. I bring almost 30
Speaker:years of entrepreneurial experience and I have a
Speaker:crazy obsession with discovering growth through the power of
Speaker:seemingly small change. So I want to thank you and I'm hoping that
Speaker:you're going to use this in your business and it
Speaker:doesn't have to be a big change to get a big result. And this week
Speaker:we are going to be talking with one of my favorite people,
Speaker:Kimberly Crow, and she is going to share with you how a small,
Speaker:unexpected or insignificant decision sparked a
Speaker:remarkable transformation and growth in her life, whether personal
Speaker:or professional. Kimberly, thank you for
Speaker:being here. Iman, it is such a pleasure just to be
Speaker:on with a good friend of mine and really enjoy the opportunity
Speaker:to have just a conversation. Oh, well, you know, I tell
Speaker:everybody whenever I get a chance. Kimberly is one of the
Speaker:people who got me speaking and I think not only speak got
Speaker:me back to speaking because I had been speaking before, but you
Speaker:know, when everything kind of changed, I was like, oh, I don't know, I don't
Speaker:know, I don't know. And she, she pushed me out of the nest, literally.
Speaker:So, Kimberly, please tell everybody all the good
Speaker:things. Oh, well, you can't tell them all the things, but tell them the main
Speaker:thing that you do and why it makes you so good at what
Speaker:you do. Well, thank you for that. I actually,
Speaker:funny enough, I asked ChatGPT this the other day. Do you use ChatGPT?
Speaker:Absolutely. Right? So it knows everything about me at this point.
Speaker:And so I just put into it, I was like, hey, tell me, tell me,
Speaker:like, tell me who I am and tell me what I'm good at and tell
Speaker:me all these, like, I was like, tell me all this stuff. Tell if you
Speaker:were to describe me to somebody else who, like, what do I do? Because
Speaker:I have my fingers in a lot of pies and many entrepreneurs do. Right?
Speaker:We're always doing new things and coming up with new creative stuff.
Speaker:And ChatGPT came back and said, you create
Speaker:playgrounds of stages for people to step up and
Speaker:shine. I like that.
Speaker:That is what I do. It's what I love doing.
Speaker:I do not have some sort of year long program that you can join.
Speaker:I just, I love being able to create opportunities for people
Speaker:to step up to the mic, grab the mic and shine
Speaker:because all of the stories that get shared on the mic are
Speaker:so beautiful. And I think one of the things that
Speaker:it didn't say is at this point in
Speaker:time, we are all craving connection.
Speaker:So speaking. So when people can hear you, when they can hear you
Speaker:and see you, it is even more powerful. I
Speaker:mean, you're not alone anymore. There's somebody else out there in the
Speaker:void, that's for sure. With all the AI videos and things
Speaker:that are going out now, I mean, you could spot the face. They're getting better
Speaker:and better, and 10 years from now, it's going to be a whole new world.
Speaker:But I think really what we crave is that human
Speaker:connection, to really be able to meet a real person
Speaker:and connect with them and know that they are a person with feelings
Speaker:and struggles and challenges and they want
Speaker:to do good in the world and they're doing the best they can. And I
Speaker:think that's. That's really why I love being able to create an
Speaker:opportunity for people to share their stories, real life stories of real things that
Speaker:have happened to them. And I know that sometimes that's scary,
Speaker:right, that. That there are studies out there that say that people
Speaker:would rather. That are more afraid of getting on stage than being afraid
Speaker:of death. Right. So that means that you would rather be in the
Speaker:coffin than giving the eulogy. Right? That's a. That's a
Speaker:terrible statement for our world. But it's kind of. It is kind of true that
Speaker:fear is really, really big. And so my goal is
Speaker:to help everybody feel safe and warm and comfortable being able to step
Speaker:up and shine and share their message with the world, because you're the
Speaker:only one who can tell it. And if you hide that or don't take the
Speaker:chance to step up and get on a microphone, then the
Speaker:people who need your message won't be able to hear it. And between you
Speaker:and me, I am an international inspirational public speaker, and
Speaker:I'm proud of that. I've spoken on over 5,000 stages, and
Speaker:that's wonderful. But if you Google that, like, who are the international
Speaker:speakers? Who are the inspirational speakers? Who are the motivational speakers?
Speaker:You're going to get a whole bunch of Caucasian men and like, four other people.
Speaker:And that's not a slam on those guys who
Speaker:are doing it. It's actually just an invitation for the
Speaker:rest of us to take our place on the stage and
Speaker:step up to the mic. It's not that they're pushing us off, it's that we're
Speaker:not stepping up. Yeah. And so my passion is to, like,
Speaker:make it possible for loads of people, no matter who you are, what
Speaker:race, color, creed, Religion, lifestyle that you live, that
Speaker:your message is super powerful to share. Because my guess is it's
Speaker:not just the Wayne Dyers and the Tony Robbins and the Brendan
Speaker:Burchards of the world who have the important stuff to share. I bet
Speaker:people like you and me probably have some stuff to share as well. Absolutely.
Speaker:And you know what? The thing that is such a
Speaker:shame is your message doesn't have to be for
Speaker:everybody. True. But for the people who need it,
Speaker:they are looking for you. Yeah. And you are holding.
Speaker:Holding that in. I mean, that is one of the things that, that it's taken
Speaker:me a really long time to figure out. You don't need to be the person
Speaker:for everybody. You just need to be the person for that.
Speaker:Right. Person who needs what you have, who, who's going
Speaker:through what you've gone through. And you can solve their problem in a way that
Speaker:they can go, oh, my God, they get me. I totally agree with that.
Speaker:Yeah. As a matter of fact, I will often teach that even a
Speaker:second grader is a genius to a kindergartner.
Speaker:Right. If you go. If your first day in kindergarten, you don't know where to
Speaker:put your lunchbox or your jacket, you're not going to go to
Speaker:the principal to find that information out. You're not going to even go to the
Speaker:noon duty aid because they're kind of big and scary. But if you
Speaker:have a friend who's a second grader who takes you under their wing and
Speaker:is like, I know how to help you. I can help you find these little
Speaker:things that I know about that you don't know about.
Speaker:It's really the connection, that human connection of people
Speaker:wanting somebody who's just a little bit further ahead, who knows just a little
Speaker:bit more than they do. And it's not even that you have to keep ahead
Speaker:of them. It's just that naturally people are going to learn from people
Speaker:who have a little bit more information than they do, and they're going to
Speaker:connect with those people instead of the big scary people who have all the information
Speaker:sometimes. So you don't have to be all things to all people. And, and
Speaker:here's the thing I think that people forget is when you're
Speaker:not the expert and you're kind of behind, you know, you're not.
Speaker:Sometimes your insight and perspective is
Speaker:so valuable because you're looking at it with really clear eyes.
Speaker:And I think that's why I always, you know, you know, and I
Speaker:wasn't always this way, but encourage people that when they're starting out
Speaker:get into community because, you know, not only
Speaker:will you learn, I mean, I always thought I couldn't join a community until I
Speaker:had something to offer. Do you know what I
Speaker:discovered was what I
Speaker:surprised we all have something to offer. Well, but what I discovered
Speaker:was because I didn't know everything and I didn't know how to do it the
Speaker:traditional way, I had a lot of insights that other people
Speaker:didn't have. Do you know? And they're like, oh, that's interesting. I
Speaker:never thought about it that way. So you bring value
Speaker:to any room that you're in or any stage that you're on,
Speaker:do you know? Even if it's only to one person, Right?
Speaker:Yeah. Right. So get kind of getting back to,
Speaker:you know, because you and I could just go, right.
Speaker:So getting back to the theme of the podcast, was there one
Speaker:thing that really made a big change for you that was, like, unexpected? How did
Speaker:you start speaking? Well, if you ask my family,
Speaker:they will say that I came out of the womb sharing my opinion. And I
Speaker:haven't stopped since. I've never really been afraid of
Speaker:the stage. In fact, it is something that,
Speaker:as an extrovert, not all extroverts feel this way. But I will say the difference
Speaker:between an introvert and an extrovert on stage is that the introvert and
Speaker:extrovert are both equally powerful and can deliver
Speaker:amazing messages from stage. And just afterwards, the introvert
Speaker:needs to go to a nice quiet room where they can recharge their batteries.
Speaker:That's me. An extrovert wants to go to a cast party and talk about
Speaker:how great they were. Right? Because it fuels
Speaker:them to be us. I am one. Fuels us to
Speaker:be on stage and be able to share and be with a lot of people
Speaker:and be interacting with a million people all at once.
Speaker:And really an introvert is much more powerful, although they don't like that
Speaker:so much. Like, getting up and meeting everybody really quickly is not really
Speaker:your cup of tea. Usually if you're an introvert, you are much more
Speaker:capable and you enjoy much more doing a deep
Speaker:dive with maybe five or 10 people at a
Speaker:networking event. And for me, that would be like, I can't
Speaker:even think of doing, like, getting really deep. If I get really deep with one
Speaker:or two people, that's my fill for the day, right?
Speaker:I'm done. Right. Like, I'm out. And. And so I think
Speaker:it's just that sort of difference in. In where you show up
Speaker:and what your strengths are, but they're both equally powerful in
Speaker:different ways. So it's not that we need to be more like the
Speaker:other one. And I, I will ask an audience oftentimes I'll say, do you identify
Speaker:as an introvert or an extrovert? Put it in the chat and I'll have
Speaker:so many answers like, well, I'm an ambivert or I'm an extrovert
Speaker:that acts like an introvert or I'm an introvert that acts like an extrovert or
Speaker:whatever. And I'm like, you don't have to be anything other than what's natural and
Speaker:comfortable for you. You just need to leverage the
Speaker:strength that you already have. That's much more powerful
Speaker:than trying to pretend to be something that you're not. Well,
Speaker:you know, the other thing is. So you're the extrovert, I'm the
Speaker:introvert. I'm like, when I'm finished, I don't want to talk to you. I
Speaker:mean, I've had it and you know, I realize that that's the reason
Speaker:I don't do all day events most of the time. Yeah, I need like a
Speaker:half a day or if I have to be with you all day, you have
Speaker:to go get lunch on your own. Don't ask me to come have lunch with
Speaker:you because I don't want to see you. Right. And, but I
Speaker:think the more you understand who you are,
Speaker:the better you can deliver your message and who's listening.
Speaker:I mean, it's very interesting to me because I talk to people about their
Speaker:unique power and typically your unique power is the
Speaker:intersection of what you do really well
Speaker:with the people who wouldn't even consider
Speaker:that need those things. So what I find really interesting is
Speaker:I am not really detailed oriented, but I'm finding that right now
Speaker:my clients are incredibly detail oriented and
Speaker:they need my big picture point of view. They need to, they need to
Speaker:get out of the weeds and kind of come up for air.
Speaker:And I'm like, isn't that interesting? Because I absolutely am not
Speaker:at all. Do you know? So, and I actually just
Speaker:worked with a friend. I spent a month in Spain,
Speaker:which is like my life does not suck. Right? Like, I lived in
Speaker:Spain for a month. I do it pretty much every summer now. I've been doing
Speaker:it for four years and it's just a delight. But while I was there, my
Speaker:friend Jennifer and I were actually working on disc profile.
Speaker:She's, she can do the analysis and she's certified. And so
Speaker:we went through the disc profiles and I'm a very high, I, I is
Speaker:influence. And so I'M like, energetic and I can talk
Speaker:everybody into doing stuff and we can be like. Like, that's who I am. Right.
Speaker:And then I have, like, it's. It's 96%
Speaker:I. And then my D is at like 68%,
Speaker:which is driver personality. So you combine those two and. And you've got
Speaker:somebody super enthusiastic with also the push energy.
Speaker:And I think you and I were discussing how you. You were like,
Speaker:I'm. I'm. I'm looking at maybe doing some stages in the future. And I was
Speaker:like, do it. Do it now. It'll be fun. And like, what?
Speaker:And so, like, that's my personality and, and I have an
Speaker:ability to do that where other people would hate doing that. Right.
Speaker:Conversely, I have, on the disc profile, it's D, I, S and C,
Speaker:and the S and the C. I have almost none of like,
Speaker:Like, C is for compliance, which is. Which is like the,
Speaker:you know, the, the like follow all the rules to the letter and, and
Speaker:find the places where people are making mistakes and things like that. And I'm like,
Speaker:I'm out. No, thank you. Right? Because I'm like, if it's not. If
Speaker:it's. If it's. If it's not fun, it's not worth doing is my motto. And
Speaker:then the second one is done is better than perfect. Right? Like, let's just get
Speaker:it out there and see what happens. And so compliance for me
Speaker:is just like a joke. And it's not because
Speaker:compliance keeps us out of jail. Right. It's a good thing. But
Speaker:I need to have people around me that have that so that I can
Speaker:stay out of jail. Right. And I can make sure that my team is making
Speaker:sure that we're compliant with all kinds of things. But, yes, what you're saying is,
Speaker:if you have a strength here, other people need that strength. And you might,
Speaker:sir, you might not be serving your same people that are just like you,
Speaker:serving people that need that supplementation of what you have, and they
Speaker:don't. And I have to tell you that
Speaker:Kimberly's team is amazing. I
Speaker:have worked on different things with Kimberly's team, and they are always
Speaker:amazing. If you go to an. An event that Kimberly's team is.
Speaker:Is running, they are taking care of the details, they are juggling
Speaker:stuff, they are making sure stuff runs. All right, I'm going to try to
Speaker:reign you in just a little bit and see if I can get the question
Speaker:answered, which I may not. Can you think of one small
Speaker:change that makes you better at this than anybody else?
Speaker:Yeah, I think so. I did what
Speaker:maybe when I, when I was like I said when I was
Speaker:born, I was sharing my opinion. I loved being on stages. I was the lead
Speaker:in the school play multiple times. I loved being out there. You
Speaker:know, you could just, you could give me applause and compliments. I didn't need an
Speaker:allowance, I just wanted applause and compliments. Right. That felt
Speaker:fed me up, but then it sort of got trained out of me.
Speaker:So in elementary school, as you would go through, you know, junior high and then
Speaker:high school, it's sort of like, no, you got to follow these rules and these
Speaker:are the things. Like I was the one that they would, the, the teacher would
Speaker:stand right next to your desk and put their hand on your desk and be
Speaker:like, that's just to say you need to be quiet and you need to not
Speaker:be socializing. Which. Yeah, I don't know if any of your people
Speaker:listening were in that, that same vein. Maybe it's just me, but I definitely
Speaker:had that. I was a talker. And so it gets trained out of you over
Speaker:time. And then as I went through college, I did what they told me
Speaker:to do, which is, you know, go to work, get a good job with health
Speaker:insurance. Right. And so I did. And I worked at a corporate job for
Speaker:about 17 years and 15 of them were good.
Speaker:I was climbing the corporate ladder and I really enjoyed it. And the last
Speaker:two, not so much. It was a job that just didn't fit me
Speaker:anymore. I was climbing a ladder I didn't even want to be on. And
Speaker:I was vehemently trying to throw myself off that ladder. And
Speaker:my, my company really enjoyed me and they kept trying to hire me back. So
Speaker:it took me about two years to officially resign and,
Speaker:and my now ex husband was not a big fan of me
Speaker:resigning because I had climbed the corporate ladder and I was in pretty much golden
Speaker:handcuffs where I was making a lot of money, but I just didn't love it
Speaker:anymore. I was really unhappy. And so when I quit,
Speaker:that was actually not the turning point. It wasn't until I
Speaker:decided that I would start a new business. And the business
Speaker:grew to a million dollars. And it was amazing. That was the goal.
Speaker:Build a million dollar business. But I built the same business that
Speaker:I'd already been doing and I was over it. And so I was really
Speaker:miserable. And even though I had this, this huge business that was
Speaker:super successful, I just wasn't into it.
Speaker:And I went into like sort of a mild depression. And I remember
Speaker:like not going into work one day. It was my own company. And I was
Speaker:like, I'm not going in. I'm just going to go for a walk. And I
Speaker:ended up, we have a mountain nearby called Iron Mountain. And I was like, I'm
Speaker:going to hike to the top of the mountain. Maybe the answer will be up
Speaker:there. And it wasn't.
Speaker:And I came back down and I walked into the house and my 15 year
Speaker:old son said to me, oh, mom, I'm glad you're home. I have a problem.
Speaker:And I thought, great, somebody
Speaker:else's problem to focus on. Have you ever felt that
Speaker:way? Like you're like, I cannot figure out my own problem,
Speaker:but if I have somebody else's problem to figure out, like I'm on it, right?
Speaker:So that's where I was. And I was like, what's the problem? And he said,
Speaker:well, I'm 15 and a half this summer and
Speaker:that's the problem. I'm the wrong age. I thought,
Speaker:how so at 15 and a half? And he said, well, I'm
Speaker:too young to get a summer job because in the US you have to be
Speaker:16 to get a real, you know, part time job in the summer. And I'm
Speaker:too old to go back to summer camp because I'm 15 and a half and
Speaker:I know everything. And that's boring and stupid now, right? Of course
Speaker:it is, because you're 15 and a half. Plus, he was frankly taller than
Speaker:all the camp counselors, so yes, and no more summer camp for him.
Speaker:So I said, well, why don't we just create a business around what you love
Speaker:doing? Because he was a little entrepreneur himself. And I was like, let's just, let's
Speaker:just build a business around something fun for the summer. And he was really
Speaker:excited about it. And so we put in all the things he was good at
Speaker:into Google. We didn't have chatgpt at the time. And out came this
Speaker:idea of being an audiobook narrator. And he was super
Speaker:excited about that because he read books to kids at the library and he was
Speaker:on stage like mom and loved being doing improv and,
Speaker:and, and he's like, I would love that. So we built a business
Speaker:around being an audiobook narrator and you audition for
Speaker:books and we got so much business. Hey, I was doing it too because it
Speaker:was super fun. Like we were having so much fun and we got so much
Speaker:business, we couldn't handle it all. We couldn't deliver on time. And we
Speaker:realized like, oh my gosh, the fun aspect had us like moving forward,
Speaker:but now we're kind of stuck so we, instead of trying to muscle
Speaker:through and do the stuff that wasn't fun, we decided to
Speaker:teach at the local adult school a class on how to
Speaker:be an audiobook narrator so we could offload some of our work.
Speaker:And we started teaching the class and we loved it. And I
Speaker:remember at that class thinking, this is really fun.
Speaker:This is really. It should be fun. Life should be fun.
Speaker:It should light you up, it should give you joy. Because we're all brought here
Speaker:with different loves, things that we love to do. So what is it
Speaker:that, that lights me up? Being able to teach, Getting on stage, sharing with
Speaker:somebody else, being able to hand my son the mic and have him teach, and
Speaker:watching him bloom was so powerful and so exciting. I was like, we're
Speaker:gonna do this. Well, I don't know if you know, but
Speaker:it turns out you don't make a lot of money when you teach at an
Speaker:adult school. It's like, I do know that.
Speaker:$16 an hour for the three hour class that we taught. And then we
Speaker:split it and it was like, okay, well, that wasn't, you know, highly
Speaker:lucrative. So we started teaching classes online and then
Speaker:charging, you know, $50 and then $100
Speaker:and then $197 per seat. And then we were
Speaker:like, then we were cooking with gas. So it was super fun. And we did
Speaker:that for a while until the joy ran off of that one. And I
Speaker:realized, you know, that's the key, like, if you're doing what
Speaker:you love. I was, I was loving it for the first 17. For the first
Speaker:15 of those 17 years, I really enjoyed climbing the corporate ladder.
Speaker:Until I didn't. Yeah. And when I kept doing it, it was like,
Speaker:something's wrong, something's broken. And it did kick in, like a mild
Speaker:depression for me. And thank goodness it wasn't a very serious one. It
Speaker:wasn't, you know, medically treated or anything like that, but it was like this
Speaker:icky feeling of getting up and not wanting to do anything, not wanting
Speaker:to go in. I remember being at my, my corporate job at 10 o'
Speaker:clock at night, just crying because my kids were already in bed and I was
Speaker:gonna go home and not even see them until the morning. Like, I was just
Speaker:so unhappy. And I think that if you
Speaker:hit that spot, you really need to step back and
Speaker:think, what is it that I love doing? And it could be stuff
Speaker:in your current job, or it could be stuff in your personal life, or
Speaker:it could be stuff with your church or your religious organization,
Speaker:but you have to embrace the things that you Love doing.
Speaker:To light that fire again. So I just want to say this because I
Speaker:think this is so important. And, you know, as you're.
Speaker:Whether it's your entrepreneurial journey or any point in your life, I think
Speaker:you have to say, what is it? You know, this is the cliche, what would
Speaker:I do for nothing? You know that I love it so much.
Speaker:Right. And you're absolutely right about what you said.
Speaker:Certain things are educated out of us, and part of the reason for that is
Speaker:because, you know, our educational system
Speaker:was meant to. To educate drones. I
Speaker:mean, so you, you know, you follow the steps, you follow the instructions. You
Speaker:have a manager, and you follow not. Not to lead or be creative
Speaker:or innovative. And I was teaching. I was
Speaker:teaching workforce development in a nonprofit, and I was having
Speaker:a blast. I was having the best time of my life. And I
Speaker:went to a graduation for one of the companies, and the guy
Speaker:that was like, the president was like, dude, this is fabulous.
Speaker:When are you starting your own business? Right? And my new boss
Speaker:was there, and when I got in on Monday morning, it was like, we want
Speaker:to know who you talk to, where you're going, where you're putting your hours, all
Speaker:the contacts you have, blah, blah, blah. And I, like, I'm out of
Speaker:here. I mean, if you're going to sit on top of me like that. If
Speaker:they just left me alone, I didn't even have a desire to go out and
Speaker:have my own business. You know, I would have been just the happiest person
Speaker:piddling around, doing what I. Doing what I do.
Speaker:And so, you know, that's part of, I think,
Speaker:discovering your unique power. Yeah. What is it that
Speaker:you do naturally that you like to do? Do, you know,
Speaker:and. And it's interesting to me because I took an assessment. We were talking
Speaker:about assessments. I took an assessment. And one of mine is that
Speaker:I like to customize and individualize things for people, which
Speaker:I do, because that's cool. Yeah. Because
Speaker:we're not, you know, we are not the same.
Speaker:I mean, we see, you know, you know, we can all do the
Speaker:same thing. You know, we can all follow, theoretically, the same
Speaker:instructions that come out with different results. And so you.
Speaker:So you have to, you know, the thing that makes you. You makes you put
Speaker:your little, you know, your little oomph to it or whatever, you know,
Speaker:that makes it, you know, absolutely yours. I
Speaker:can't believe this, but we've run out of time. I. I just want to throw
Speaker:in one other thing. My husband took your. Your.
Speaker:Your course. He loves Kimberly, the The audio.
Speaker:He took the audiobook course. Yeah, he did. And he went
Speaker:down the. He went down the technical hole. I. I need this, you know,
Speaker:that kind of thing. But he has found his passion now, so
Speaker:he's. He's good. He's doing something that he loves doing, so that's good.
Speaker:But he does have a great voice. I would love him to do a podcast.
Speaker:I, you know, but I can't convince him, so maybe I should have you talk
Speaker:to him. You know.
Speaker:Okay, I got to give you the commercial. No, I. Before that,
Speaker:before I forget, what would be three things that you pieces
Speaker:of advice that you would give an entrepreneur to move their
Speaker:business forward with speaking. Speak and speak for those would
Speaker:be the three pieces. It would be like, you know, if.
Speaker:Here's the first thing. Make yourself a new rule.
Speaker:If someone hands you a mic, you say yes. And you wouldn't
Speaker:believe how often that happens once you shift that
Speaker:mindset. I met so many people that are like, where
Speaker:do I find? How can I get on a podcast?
Speaker:And when you get into my world at Speakers playhouse,
Speaker:we drop 17 to 100 stages a week
Speaker:every single week that are opportunities to get on podcasts,
Speaker:radio shows, TV shows, web summits, webinars, all kinds of different
Speaker:opportunities in person stages. Some of them are pay to play,
Speaker:some of them are free, some of them are paid stages. But being able to
Speaker:get on a stage, super easy to find them at Speakers Playhouse. But
Speaker:once you change your mentality from I want to get on one
Speaker:stage to if somebody
Speaker:hands me a mic, I will say yes. You would not believe how
Speaker:many people are actually trying to hand you a microphone and you've
Speaker:just been like, I'm not ready. I'm not doing it yet. I didn't really even
Speaker:understand. I couldn't possibly. Those kinds of
Speaker:phrases are what you're saying that actually push that opportunity away.
Speaker:And speaking is a great way to build your know, like and
Speaker:trust with an audience. There's a. I'll get, I'll get. I'll do
Speaker:this quick. There is a 7411 principle which was
Speaker:discovered by Google when they did some research on what it takes to make a
Speaker:buying decision. So if you're a coach and you're trying to sell something and you
Speaker:approach somebody and they don't buy, the reason may not be you or your
Speaker:offer. It's 74 11. So it takes an average of
Speaker:seven hours for someone of research for someone to make
Speaker:a buying decision. I mean, think the last time you bought a car, you didn't
Speaker:Just go to the lot and just buy one. Right. You did a lot of
Speaker:research. First, it takes an average of four different locations to
Speaker:find that. Like, I don't want to just buy it from this lot. I want
Speaker:to, I want to check the references. I want to say what my friends say.
Speaker:I want to look on the website. I might add an app to my phone.
Speaker:And then it takes 11 different touches, meaning you see
Speaker:the car or you want the car, you find out about the car 11 different
Speaker:times, statistically speaking, before you'll make that buying decision
Speaker:commitment. So speaking is this great
Speaker:way to be able to get content out there where people can get
Speaker:you speaking on something like this for 30 minutes of that seven hours,
Speaker:that's one different touch. But then if they grab your gift afterwards, that's two different
Speaker:touches. If they find you in this podcast and other
Speaker:podcasts, that's another different location. So speaking on podcasts
Speaker:is just having a conversation with another wonderful human like Yvonne and
Speaker:then moving forward into other speaking opportunities. So
Speaker:my, my methodology would be to speak, speak and speak.
Speaker:And I have to add something to that. Even though we're
Speaker:talking about stages, I have to tell you, you
Speaker:are missing opportunities. If you're at a workshop or
Speaker:you're just on a call and you do not speak up.
Speaker:If you do not, if you do not show up on Zoom. I say this
Speaker:all the time at my workshop. If you want to grow your business
Speaker:and you're afraid to show up, be on Zoom.
Speaker:Be on camera in front of people like, you know, that are, are
Speaker:like minded people. How are you going to talk to somebody about buying
Speaker:your product? I mean, I, I understand if you're driving or something
Speaker:like that, you know, because I said this at one of my workshops. I'm like,
Speaker:get on, you know, get on the camera. And somebody's like, I,
Speaker:I didn't appreciate you bullying me.
Speaker:And I was like, this is probably not my right client. Not your person.
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah. But the thing is, it doesn't, you know, you.
Speaker:Yes. A stage where you're going to, you know, lots of people are going to
Speaker:see you, but you, your life is a stage. People
Speaker:see you all the time, whether you know it
Speaker:or not. Yeah. When I walk into, when I
Speaker:would walk into an event, I just recently went to an event in Orlando
Speaker:and I knew the person on stage, but I really didn't know anybody in the
Speaker:audience and I didn't really have anybody to sit with and I was coming in
Speaker:late and so I stood in the back of the room and A person came
Speaker:up to me, and he goes, oh, you're Kimberly Crow.
Speaker:And I was like, yes, I am. And they're like. He goes, I've seen you
Speaker:everywhere. And so then we're in the back kind of talking quietly, and somebody
Speaker:else comes in from the back of the room, and he reaches over and he
Speaker:goes, do you know Kimberly Crow? And they're like, you're Kimberly Crow? And
Speaker:they're like, oh, my gosh, we've seen you everywhere. And so it's just a matter
Speaker:of showing up regularly so you're known by before you're
Speaker:needed. Yeah, you have to be known before you're needed. That is great. I
Speaker:love that. Known before you're needed. And the thing that, you know, I find
Speaker:amazing is. And then we got. We got in.
Speaker:The thing that I find amazing is I'll go into a networking group, which maybe
Speaker:is a new networking group, and somebody will go, oh, you guys
Speaker:need to meet Eva, you know, but if.
Speaker:You know. But you have to let people know that you're there and
Speaker:that you, you know, what you stand for. Yada, yada, yada.
Speaker:Okay, gu. I gotta throw in the commercial.
Speaker:So as a first step, be sure you subscribe, share, and engage
Speaker:on social media about the podcast, because one of the reasons that I do
Speaker:this is to give you really useful information so
Speaker:that you can supercharge your. Your. Your business and
Speaker:hopefully connect you with people that maybe you haven't met before. And this is
Speaker:my way of giving back and helping you to, you know,
Speaker:expand your world and your community and, you know, the input
Speaker:that you have. So I hope you will continue to jo on
Speaker:the one small change and realize that just the smallest shift can make
Speaker:the biggest change in your business. So, Kimberly, what are your last words
Speaker:of wisdom? If somebody hands you a mic, you say
Speaker:yes, and if it's not fun, it's not worth doing.
Speaker:I love this woman. She.
Speaker:I don't normally add extra stuff, but the first time I
Speaker:went to Speakers Playhouse because I'm an introvert, I couldn't
Speaker:handle it. I. I couldn't stay and I recorded
Speaker:it, and I still couldn't do it. And now I
Speaker:can. I understand the process. I can do it. So
Speaker:I'm gonna tell you. She. Aside from the gift that she has,
Speaker:we are definitely going to put in the link Speakers
Speaker:Playhouse. And you need to get on her mailing list,
Speaker:because this woman knows everybody and everything
Speaker:that's going on in the world. Okay. Having said all that and
Speaker:catching my breath, I want you to remember that change can
Speaker:be simple, but it's not always easy. And it requires courage,
Speaker:resilience, and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone. And this is
Speaker:what I'm going to say. If you're comfortable, then you are
Speaker:probably stagnating and falling behind because the rest of the world is
Speaker:changing whether you want to or not. So I hope you
Speaker:will continue to join me on the one small change. And until the next time,
Speaker:stay very, very curious. Kimberly, thank you so much.
Speaker:I had a blast. I don't know if everybody else will have as much fun,
Speaker:but I always have fun with you. Ditto. I love it.
Speaker:Thanks so much for having me. I have really
Speaker:enjoyed every minute. Thanks. Bye, everybody.