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Why selling doesn't need to be scary!
Episode 2929th September 2022 • Wedding Pros who are ready to grow - with Becca Pountney • Becca Pountney
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Do you find selling in your wedding business difficult? In today's episode I want to share with you how to change your mindset so that selling in your wedding business becomes easier. Sales doesn't need to be scary, it's just solving a problem for your couples.

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Last week on my Instagram, I posted a little quote all about selling

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and why you don't need to be frightened of selling in your wedding business.

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I was really surprised about how many of you got in touch with me to see how

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much it resonated with you and how you really are quite scared of selling in your

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business and how much you hate the word.

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Sales.

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Well, today's episode is gonna tackle that subject head on, and I'm gonna be

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talking about why sales doesn't have to be scary and how you can do it.

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I'm Becca Pountney, wedding business marketing expert, speaker and blogger,

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and you are listening to the Wedding Pros who are Ready to Grow Podcast.

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I'm here to share with you actionable tips, strategies, and real life

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examples to help you take your wedding business to the next level.

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If you are an ambitious wedding business owner that wants to take your passion

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and use it to build a profitable, sustainable business doing what you

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love, then you're in the right place.

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Let's get going with today's episode.

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If you're anything like me, as soon as you hear the word sales or selling, you

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picture someone in a estate agent uniform, taking around a house and telling you why.

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It's amazing.

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Even though you can see the cracks in the ceiling or someone trying to sell

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you something in the street, you know when one of those people are trying

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to get you to sign up to a charity.

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And that's what we think of when it comes to selling.

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So when we start thinking about selling in our wedding businesses, we are so scared

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of being like that, that we end up hating.

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Now, this afternoon or this morning, whenever you're listening to this

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podcast, I want you to have a think about selling from a different perspective.

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I want you to shift your thinking and stop thinking in those negative

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terms and start realizing selling doesn't have to be as bad as it sounds.

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Last week I posted on Instagram to say that you just need to

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remember that selling is simply solving somebody else's problem.

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It doesn't have to be this big, scary thing.

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Selling only becomes problematic in our brains when we feel like we're selling

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something that somebody else doesn't need.

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If you start realizing that your service or your product or whatever it is

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that you're selling is actually just solving someone's problem, the whole

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selling piece becomes a lot less scary.

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Just imagine for a moment you're out for the day and you start getting a little bit

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hungry and you decide, right, I need to go and buy something to eat from the shop.

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So you go into the shop, you pick up a sandwich, pick up a drink, pick up

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a packet of crisps and take it to the.

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The person behind the till does not feel bad about selling you that.

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Why?

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Because you're hungry and you've chosen to buy some food.

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It's solving a problem.

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You have another example.

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Imagine today I go out of the house and I accidentally lock myself out.

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I've left my keys inside and there's no way I can get back in.

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I'm now gonna be outside with two very tired after school children, and my

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biggest need is to get back in the house.

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When I ring up a locksmith and ask them to come around my house for an emergency

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appointment to get me back in my home, they're not gonna turn around and say,

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I don't wanna sell you that service.

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That would be crazy.

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In fact, that would make me more mad in that moment.

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I have a problem that needs solving and that's getting into my house,

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and I'm willing to pay the expert who can solve that problem for.

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It's exactly the same in your wedding business.

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Whatever service or product you offer, you are solving somebody's problem.

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Somebody wants your incredible wedding cake on their wedding day.

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Somebody wants to have your beautiful flowers in their bouquet.

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Somebody wants incredible photos taken, and they don't

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know how they're gonna do it.

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Somebody wants a venue to hold this massive party in and so on and so forth.

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You are solving their problem, and if you can change your mindset and realize that

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when you are selling your service, you are doing just that, solving a problem

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that they have and fulfilling a need.

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It's going to help you feel a whole lot better about the word selling.

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In fact, start thinking about it this way.

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If you don't sell them your products or service, you're

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actually doing them a disservice.

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Why?

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Because you're saying, I know you've got this problem, but I'm not here to help.

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That would be crazy, wouldn't it?

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But when we don't sell to people, when we don't tell them how to book with us, when

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we don't tell them what our prices are, that is essentially what we are doing.

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So the first thing I wanna tell you in today's episode is to shift your

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mindset and stop being scared of the idea of selling and start realizing

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actually, I'm here to help someone and I am gonna solve their problem.

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Okay.

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Now I wanna share with you some steps to make selling feel a little bit

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less scary, to make it easier for your customers, and to make it easier for

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you to take people from A to Z or to take people from inquiry right through

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to actually paying for your services.

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The first thing is that you need to make sure you've got a really simple

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step by step process for them to follow.

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When we're confused as consumers, we are much less likely to spend our money.

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Have you ever been in a shop and you go and pick up an item in

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the shop and you want to buy it, You're pleased with the item.

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It solves a problem you have, and it's within your price range.

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Then you decide you need to go and pay for the product, and you can't find the tills.

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So you start wandering around the shop looking for the tills, or looking for

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a sign to tell you where to pay for.

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You then find a till and there's no one at the till, and you start looking around

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for someone who might be able to help you.

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And sometimes we give up.

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At that point we might be busy, we might be fed up or frustrated, and so

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we just abandon that item of clothing somewhere else in the shop and walk out.

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They've lost our business.

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And they've lost that money now.

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They haven't lost our business or our money because we don't want

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to buy the product or service.

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They haven't lost it because we don't have a need that needs fulfilling.

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They've lost it because their processes have been come confusing

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or frustrating, and we just give up.

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When it comes to you selling your products or services to a potential

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bride or groom, it's really important that you have a clear step by step

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process for them to walk through.

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If you want to convert more inquiries into sales, they need

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to know what needs to happen.

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Each step of the way.

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They need to know when they need to pay, what they need to pay, how they

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need to pay, how they go about booking a consultation, how they book a, uh,

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book a call with you, whatever it.

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So you need to make this really clear for them.

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You don't wanna make this long and confusing.

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You wanna get people from A to B in very simple steps.

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So one exercise I recommend you doing is that you actually just get a notebook

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out now and write some numbers down, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, and write out the simplest

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possible way the steps that someone needs to take from finding your business

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right the way through to giving.

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Their money.

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Those steps need to be so clear that a child could understand and follow them.

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If they're not clear, then you need to go back and refine them.

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If you are making those steps too complicated or if you don't know

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what they are yourself, I guarantee you, just like in that shop, there's

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money being left on the table.

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The second tip I have for you to make your selling easier is to be

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really transparent with your pricing.

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Over the weekend, I was at the National Wedding Show and I was talking to

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some brides to be, and one of the things they said they struggled with

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the most is when they're looking on supplies, websites, or visiting them

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on their stands at the exhibition, and they have no idea how much it's going

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to cost to use their services now.

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Done the work.

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They've done their wedding budget.

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They know roughly how much they're looking to spend on a florist or a

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photographer or a venue, but they don't wanna embarrass themselves by talking

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to someone loving their work and then realizing they can't actually afford it.

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They're looking for transparency.

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They're looking for pricing.

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Let's go back to the shop example again.

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You walk into a shop, you find a piece of clothing you absolutely love, and you look

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at the label and there's no price on it.

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Or perhaps you then look on the shelf to see if the price is on the

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shelf and there's no price on it.

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And then you start to look around and you, again, you feel awkward because

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you don't know if you can afford this.

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Now you could take it to the till and ask the price, but then you have

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that embarrassing moment, don't you, where they say, Oh, it's 500 pounds.

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And you have to say, Oh, too expensive and put it back to the shop.

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Socially, we just don't like having those kind of exchanges.

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And it's the same for your potential couples.

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They don't wanna embarrass themselves.

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Coming forward and saying, I like your services and I wanna book you, and then

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finding out that you are way out of their price budget and they can't afford you.

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So how can we counteract that?

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While you can counteract that by having really transparent pricing,

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have pricing structures available on an obvious part of your website.

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Have pricing structures available at a wedding show that people

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can stop and have a look at.

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Now, if you offer a bespoke product or service, this is gonna feel hard

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for you because you will say, Well, I can't give them exact pricing because.

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Flowers, change price, cakes change value, and I get that.

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But you can give them average pricing or rough pricing.

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You can give people a from price or you can even give

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people a minimum spend price.

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If you have a minimum spend on your flowers that you don't go out to a

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wedding for less than 500 pounds, then state that so that if someone

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only has 150 pounds to spend, they know not to get in contact with.

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I know that you might feel like it's better to keep the prices

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off your website, but actually in this day and age, people wanna see

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prices or at least rough prices.

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Just think about your own buying habits.

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If you're looking to book a holiday, if you're looking to book any kind of

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product or service, a training day, a training course, you wanna know roughly

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how much that's gonna cost because you don't wanna embarrass yourself

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and find out you can't afford it.

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So take a look at your website.

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Is the pricing clear?

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Are there packages on there.

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If you haven't ever listened to Kelly Mortimer talking about her

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pricing packages and her rule of three, then I highly recommend

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you go and check that out.

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She's done an incredible training inside of my Wedding Pro members

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lounge, so if you're a member of that, you can go listen to it.

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And if you're not yet a member, reach out to me.

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Let's get you a free month in the members club, and you can go and

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listen to that pricing talk because it's phenomenal and incredibly

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helpful for everyone to get this transparent pricing up on their website.

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Okay.

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My third tip for you to make selling feel a lot less scary is to really

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connect and look and listen to the person you are talking to in order to sell.

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Now, by this I mean if you're talking to someone either by a

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chat or email or in person, you need to try and match their tone.

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And their body language.

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If someone comes over to you at a wedding Fair and they're really chatty and really

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making jokes and wanna have fun, and you talk back to them really seriously,

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they're not gonna be that interested in working with you going forward.

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Whereas if you can match their tone and go with them, you're

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gonna have a much better rapport.

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And as you build that report, it's gonna be a lot easier for you to ask them.

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Do you wanna.

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Give your email address over.

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Do you want to book a consultation?

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Do you wanna find out if your date's available?

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Makes it much more simple and standard.

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The same thing if you're talking to someone online.

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If someone asks you a really short question, reply to them

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with a really short email.

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Don't bombard them with massive amounts of brochures and huge amounts of words.

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It's just going to totally overwhelm them.

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You need to try and match their tone and match their body language.

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This really does help.

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If you can build a bit of a relationship or a rapport with someone, then it's

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gonna feel a lot more natural for you to continue on that conversation rather

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than feeling stilted and like you need to sell to them and ask them for money.

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Think of it as if you're building a friendship or building a relationship

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or finding out whether you could solve their problems or whether

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you are the perfect fit for them.

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Stop having this big pressure and seeing pound signs above their

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head and actually get to know them and find out, can I help you?

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Am I available to help you?

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Am I a good fit?

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Yes, to all the above.

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Great, Well, here we go.

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Here's my contact details here.

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Here's my payment details.

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Why wouldn't they want to pay for your product or service?

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The next thing that comes to mind when it comes to selling is that

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you are the business owner and as scared as you might be of the idea of

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selling, you need to take the lead.

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I'm gonna say that again.

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Even though you are scared of the idea of selling, you need to take the lead.

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A little bit like that.

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Confusion and people walking around the shop and not knowing

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where to pay for something.

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You need to take the lead when it comes to guiding your clients from making

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an inquiry through to booking you.

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Now, so often I see people fall at the hurdle.

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So the first thing I see is people at wedding shows and they're

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having a really great conversation.

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They're talking, they've got that rapport, they're talking about their portfolio.

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But you see the wedding business.

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Stutter and stumble because they don't want to ask the next

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question, which is a sales question.

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They don't wanna say, Would you like me to be in touch?

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Do you wanna book a call?

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Do you wanna find out more about my pricing?

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Do you want me to see if your dates available?

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They panic because they feel like suddenly that's turning into a sale.

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But you need to guide people because what will happen is they'll be hovering around

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the stool, chatting to you and making conversation, but then they'll be starting

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to feel awkward because they don't know what they're expected to do next.

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If you don't offer them a choice, then they're just gonna either walk away

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feeling uncomfortable or they're gonna stand there feeling uncomfortable,

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and that's not really fair on anybody.

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So again, change your mindset.

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Stop feeling like you're about to sell something to them and realize you're

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actually helping them feel less awkward in a situation and guiding them as to what

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to do next, even if you have a very simple step by step process at a wedding show

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to guide people through a conversation.

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Would you like to see if your date's still available?

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Would you like to have a look at my pricing?

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Would you like to fill in your details so I can send.

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X, Y, Z.

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Would you like to book a consultation?

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Whatever you want to do, be guided by them and their tone.

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But yes, you need to lead them onto the next thing.

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Don't leave them stranded.

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This is exactly what happens at the end of sales calls as well.

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When you say to someone, I've told you everything, here's the

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pricing, go away and think about it.

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You're leaving all the power in their hands and they're not, You're not

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guiding them as to what to do next.

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You need to guide them down the process.

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You need to ask the question are you ready to book the date?

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Are you ready to go ahead?

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Do you have everything you need to go ahead and get that

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yes or no Answer from them.

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If it's a yes, then great.

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You can send over the paperwork and explain to them how that works.

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If it's a no ask a follow up question, ask them, Okay, what's holding you back?

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Is there someone else you need to speak to?

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You need to guide them through the process.

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You need to tell them what needs to happen next.

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Otherwise, they're gonna panic and walk away.

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If people feel socially awkward, they.

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Disappear, and I don't want people to disappear out of your life before

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they've paid you a deposit and booked you for their wedding day.

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So as hard as it is, especially when you feel nervous, perhaps you're a

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little bit introverted or you just don't like the idea of selling, realize

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you actually have to take the lead and you're gonna make someone feel a lot

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more comfortable if you confidently guide them through what they need to do next.

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And that brings me onto my final point, which is just don't leave people hanging.

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If people ask a question, try and give them a really simple answer in reply.

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Don't ignore them.

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Don't let them feel like they're silly for asking such a basic question.

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Don't leave them hanging.

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Don't leave it in the.

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Air as to what's going to happen next.

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At the end of a conversation at a wedding fair, make it really clear what

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the next steps are gonna be, right?

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Fill out your email address.

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I'm gonna be in touch tonight.

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I'm gonna send you more information and a link so you can book

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a call with me on that call.

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We can have any final discussion before you decide if you

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wanna go ahead and book me.

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You're not leaving people hanging.

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They're not walking away from that stall, not knowing what's gonna

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happen next because you've told them what's gonna happen next.

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And your process and your journey may not be the same as that,

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but the point remains the same.

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You need to tell people what happens next.

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If someone books a call with you and you're on the phone, you need

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to tell them at the end of the call, what is going to happen next,

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What they can expect from you next.

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Are you gonna follow up with an email?

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Are you gonna phone them again in three days?

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Are you gonna send over a contract again?

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I don't know what your processes are, you'll.

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Them down earlier in this episode.

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When you write down your step by step, but you need to make it abundantly clear what

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is going to happen next, so no one leaves a call or leaves a conversation with you

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or even leaves an email trail not really knowing what's going to happen next.

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Because what will happen if they don't know what's gonna happen next?

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They'll circle around your store, put your product or service down,

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and walk right back out The.

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Hopefully that little whistle stops tour through selling has made you

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feel a little bit more relaxed and a little bit more comfortable

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in what you're about to achieve.

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The biggest thing to do with selling is mindset.

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Realize you're giving someone so much more when you offer

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them your product or service.

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For example, if you're a makeup artist, you're not just selling someone.

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Makeup and doing their makeup, you're selling them a confidence,

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a feeling of being the most amazing they can be on their wedding day.

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They're booking you because they don't feel confident to do that themselves.

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They don't have the qualifications that you do, and they just wanna feel

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amazing on their wedding day, and you can make that happen for them if

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you say, I'm not gonna sell to you.

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Well, then you're taking that away from them.

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So make sure you realize you're so much more than just the product or service

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that you are offering, and you need to solve people's problems for them.

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That's all you're trying to do.

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You're finding out what someone's problem is and seeing if you are

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the right person for the job.

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I would love to know if you put any of these techniques into practice or if

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you're feeling a lot more confident now about how you can go out and sell your

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products and services on social media, on email, in person, and on a consultation.

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Reach out to me on Instagram @Beccapountney and let me know how you're

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getting on with all of the techniques in this podcast and in previous episodes.

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I absolutely love to hear your wins and why not share this episode or one of the

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previous episodes with an industry friend.

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It may just help them out this week too.

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