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In this episode of "A Changed Mind", our host, David Bayer, explores the transformative power of super synchronicities—moments when multiple meaningful coincidences align to unlock extraordinary opportunities. Drawing from personal stories and real-life examples, he breaks down a practical three-step framework to help listeners reconnect with life's flow, shift out of isolation, and catalyze major shifts in relationships, business, and well-being.

From neuroscience and spirituality to actionable strategies for personal growth, David blends deep insights and relatable stories, inviting listeners to step into a more connected, intentional, and abundant reality.

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What We Explored This Episode

00:06:01 Separation and the Collective Intelligence of Nature

00:12:09 Non-Resistance: The Key to Manifesting Desired Results

00:18:08 Operating from Intention and Trusting the Process

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“Most of us spend our day-to-day lives separated—from our surroundings, other people, and the present moment. We've become compartmentalized and fragmented, and that's why the world feels so disconnected right now.”

“Desire plus non-resistance equals desired result. If you can want something and be emotionally and psychologically aligned with that desire, you will produce it.”

“You have to be out there in the world colliding, meeting people. Floating at home by yourself does not create or align you with super synchronicity—you need to be in the shoal with other fish to truly activate the flow.”

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Every once in a while, something happens that's so perfectly aligned it almost feels impossible. You think of someone and they call you. You imagine an opportunity and it shows up. But sometimes those synchronicities don't just happen one at a time. Sometimes they converge into what I call a super synchronicity. When multiple coincidences stream into something that's far more powerful than an ordinary coincidence, it feels like a quantum unlock. It's those moments when you go, holy shit, is this really just a simulation? Am I waking up from the Matrix? The challenge is that these moments feel fleeting most of the time. Most of us feel disconnected, trapped in our minds, isolated from this intelligence that is functioning all around us. And that separation is why the world feels so fragmented right now. In this episode, I'm going to show you how to reconnect to the field that's organizing everything and how to 100x your ability to create not by trying to find more time, but by harnessing the power of timing by stepping out of your day to day reality and into the stream of super synchronicities.

Welcome to A Changed Mind. A journey into the topics that matter to you most. From the neuroscience and spirituality of mindset and personal growth, to groundbreaking strategies for health, wealth and relationships, to open and honest conversations about pressing global issues such as the environment, censorship, corporate capture, and democracy. Each and every episode reminds us of the certainty of the goodness of the future and provides the teachings, tools and timeless wisdom inspiring you to create real, lasting change in your life and in the world. If you've been desiring a sanctuary for your spirit, a place to go to tune out the distraction, negativity and doom and gloom so that you can tap into the deep power, the vibrancy, and the potential you have inside.

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A couple of weeks ago, I was invited to keynote in an event in san Diego with 1578 nine figure entrepreneurs. I was also participating in a panel. It was an interview with me and another woman, Mickey Agraval. She's built two nine figure businesses and is changing the world. And we were being interviewed on transition and change because there's so much change going on in the world today. And I was listening to this woman, Mickey, and I was feeling her and I was like, oh my God, this girl is amazing. I would love to be able to drop in with her and spend some more time with her. This weekend we literally walk off a stage, she goes, dave, I was feeling you. Oh my God, I'm so excited to spend more time with you. How about breakfast tomorrow? So the next morning, we have breakfast. We spent two and a half hours together. It was like we had known each other since the fifth grade and we were dropping right back into elementary school. We had an amazing time. Spent the whole day just hanging out, playing, laughing, talking about our businesses, seeing how we can support each other. And I had an unbelievable time. So after that event, I'm flying to Austin, Texas, and I literally land on the Carmack. I get a text message. It's from Mickey. And Mickey says, what are you doing? I said, I just landed in Austin. She goes, I live in Austin. Here's my address. Head over to my house. So I literally. I don't even go to the hotel where this next event is. I head over to Mickey's house. We're hanging out in her kitchen, and I'm like, this is the craziest shit. I'm like, people say you can't teleport, but 48 hours ago, you and I were on a panel, and now I'm sitting in your kitchen. And I was really excited to be in Austin because I was meeting up with my buddy Gordy. Gordy is another visionary entrepreneur. He's helping me raise a fund for my company, Whole Human. And we were going to drop in and talk about this event that I was speaking at. I'm literally talking to Mickey in the kitchen, and Gordy walks out of the garage. I said, gordie is walking out of your garage? She goes, of course Gordy's walking out of my garage. He and his wife Suki are staying at my house this weekend. I said, I didn't even know you knew Gordie. She said, I didn't know you knew Gordy. Gordy walks in. I can't believe it. And then Mickey's boyfriend Seth comes in the front door and goes, david Bayer. And I'm like, yeah. He goes, bro, I'm a subscriber. I've been following you for the last six months. You're, like the only dude out there that's putting together meta physics and neuroscience and business wrapped up all in one. He's got, man, I love your show, Seth. And I drop in and he shows me what he's building with this thing called giving circles. And it's literally the technology that I need in order to build my next company. I'm like, what is going on? This was not just one synchronicity. It was four separate synchronicities collapsing into one. It was literally a super organism of connection. So I want to talk to you about how this works. Because when you understand how this works, you can actually start to line it up in your life. And when you do, time doesn't even become a thing anymore. It's all about timing. I spend that evening with four brilliant people who all care about what I'm building, brainstorming around my new company and mapping out a plan to raise $10 million fast. I'm like, holy shit, how did this happen? Because it wasn't just a coincidence. It was an entire stream of synchronicities all lining up. And here's the amazing it's while I wasn't even trying, I was having fun. I was relaxed. What you're going to find as I break down this framework for you is that's actually one of the key ingredients. But it was as if the culmination of like all the things that I had been wanting or the problems that I had been trying to solve in the span of a few hours all came together, everything lined up. But this is not how most of us spend most of our time. Because the reality is, rather than feeling like we're in the flow, the flow of other human beings and the flow of our desires materializing in manifestation, most of us most of the time feel disconnected. We've disconnected ourselves from synchronicity. And one of the primary reasons for that we're going to see here in this episode is because we live in the mind. We have become mind addicted. Have you ever noticed when you're like driving from point A to point B, and if I asked you how you actually got there and what you noticed signs on the road, other cars drive, you wouldn't remember a thing because you were literally just living in your head. I live in this beautiful dream home of mine. It's like a 8,000 square foot sanctuary. And I find myself walking through my house in this beautiful environment on a top of a mountain, in the jungle in Puerto Rico, completely in another reality. Arguing or debating with someone, worrying about something, thinking of the next thing that I need to do. I'm guessing it's not just me, it's probably you too. We're living most of our day to day lives separated. Separated from our surroundings, separated from other people, separated from the present moment. We'd been compartmentalized into little cubicles. We'd become compartmentalized and separated in our mind, in our tiny separated houses, in our cars. It wasn't that long ago in the scope of humanity that we lived in a village with like a lot of other people. And we were living in harmony. We were crowdsourcing all of the solutions. We were healthy. We were integrated with nature. Life was abundant. We had everything that we needed, arguably. And now we're all separated. Even though we have digital connectivity, we're more physically, psychologically, emotionally, spiritually separated than ever before. Anxiety is at an all time high. Depression is at an all time high. Suicide rates are at an all time high. The dominance of our mind, which is the separation from the super synchronicity, is what's actually causing so much chaos in the world. You've heard my story, or maybe you're a new listener or subscriber. My story is I was disconnected from others. I was isolated. I was in my drug, my alcohol, my sex addiction for many, many, many years. And so let's be clear, isolation is a symptom of the problem. It is evidence of the disconnection. It is the antithesis of the flow of what we're talking about here today, which is the super synchronicity. Super synchronicity is a vibration. It is a coherence where you align with other people, where you align with opportunities, where you align with a flow that produces desired results. And we find this vibrational coherence, or the super synchronicity, in nature. You ever watch one of those nature videos and you see like, not one fish, but like thousands of fish in there, swimming in what's called a shoal. They literally look like a superorganism. They're like all moving in harmony. You see this coordination, the synchronicity in flocks of birds. It's not one that decides to change direction. It's like there's an intelligence that's connecting all of them, and they all just start to adjust simultaneously. You see this in the functioning of beehives. You see this with the interconnectivity of mycelium across the entire planet underneath the Earth. And if you've ever seen a shoal of fish, they're beautiful, they're moving in a synchronicity because nature operates as a collective intelligence. But we have disconnected from that collective intelligence as a result of this powerful tool that until we become conscious of it and use it intentionally uses us, which is called the mind. But in nature, there's this seamless coordination without thinking. And that's exactly what happened to me in my super synchronicity. That's exactly what happened. I was not thinking it. I could have not architected it. I was just in the flow. And that is what is available to us when we get out of our heads schools of fish, flocks of birds. They operate through field and intelligence, not individual calculation. Mycelium networks, how bees communicate. And this is the idea of quantum entanglement. MICKEY Gordy SETH SUKI gordy's WIFE we became quantum entangled. There was something we were all getting out of this rendezvous that was the culmination of things that we had been asking for. And it's not a coincidence that these are four of the more conscious people that I know who have done the work. So they're able to tune in and allow the super synchronicity to guide them. So this is it. It's when synchronicities actually line up and coalesce into a super synchronicity. Not just one meaningful coincidence, but multiple synchronicities happening simultaneously. And when that happens, because I'm sure it's happened to you, you're like, boom, boom, boom, boom. It's like a unlock that is evidence that you're tapped into the field, that you are now connected to the superorganism of intelligence itself. And when this happens, it opens up the possibility of what I would call dimensional shifts. Radical, dramatic, rapid changes in your financial situation. Going from single and dating the wrong dude over and over and over again to boom. Meeting your soulmate through a series of synchronicities that no person could have predicted. It's like a hole gets ripped open in time, space, reality. And you go from one life into a completely different life. We can actually see this throughout history too. One of my favorite stories of super synchronicity is the story of John D. Rockefeller. This guy built a billion dollar massive wealth selling kerosene. But then all of a sudden, Thomas Edison comes out with a light bulb and is about to put Rockefeller out of business. At the same time that Henry Ford develops and invents the Model T, which now needs all the throwaways from kerosene, which was gasoline, in order to power the Model T. And now Rockefeller boom just takes off to a whole new level. A dimensional rift. A super synchronicity. So look, what happened to me in Austin isn't random. It's a highly intelligent lining up of pieces that seem to defy reality, as if reality and everyone and everything in it is simply working for you. So the question is, how can you manufacture super synchronicities? When I break this down into three key principles, gonna be really simple. It's the practice of these and the mastery of these that is challenging. But the principles are really simple and you've Heard me talk about this on other episodes. Principle number one is to live in non resistance. I teach a really beautiful formula which is desire plus non resistance equals desired result. If I could distill all of creating your own reality, or how thoughts become things, or personal development into one simple equation, it would be desire plus non resistance equals desired result. If you have a desire, a want, a dream, a vision, a goal, and you are non resistant, meaning your thoughts, your emotions are not in contradiction to it. You don't have limiting beliefs, you don't have frustrations, resentments, angers, you're emotionally aligned and psychologically aligned with the desire 100% of the time. That desire must materialize itself through the power of your thoughts and emotions and actions over time, through the power of coincidence and synchronicity. 100% of the time, if you desire something and you are non resistant to that thing, you will produce the desired result. The challenge is we're born into a lot of resistance. We adopt resistance from our parents. We come up with meanings and belief systems when we're younger that are resistance based. They're misinterpretations of reality. You can wanna make a million dollars, but if you actually believe that money is hard to make, boom. Resistance. That is not desire plus non resistance. So your work, if you wanna make a million dollars, is not actually to try to figure out how to make a million dollars. It's to figure transform the resistance, which is that money is hard to make or money is scarce. If you can desire for money and be non resistant to having it, you will produce it, right? We'll look back and we'll see how you did it. But that's not really the root cause. The root cause is non resistance. So when you're living in non resistance, you are tuned in to the super synchronicity. You are allowing yourself to be in the flow of the great intelligence of life itself. And part of that is to have fun. Because when you're having fun, you're non resistant. But maybe it's been a while since you've had a lot of fun. Maybe your fun moments are fleeting and instead you're spending a lot of time stressed, anxious, overwhelmed, comparing yourself to other people and then checking out, swiping in social media for some form of medication, using drugs or alcohol or whatever it is, people pleasing anger ways to cope with this disturbance that's inside of you. The key is to have fun, go on with your day, get clear on what you want, place your order with the universe and get on with it. Go enjoy yourself. Go do the things that show up in your day with a smile on your face, knowing that you don't know how and you don't know when, but you will produce your desired result. Look at what happened to me in Austin. I mean, literally, I'm sitting around and I thought that I was gonna have to go and raise a bunch of money for the business that I wanna create. And through having fun, experienced a super synchronicity where people showed up and was like, hey, you want me to help you raise the money? Hey, you want me to introduce you to these investors? Hey, some of my investors who already invested my company might be interested or would be interested, would love to be involved in what you're creating miracles by having fun and relaxing. That's principle number one, non resistance. If you want to activate the power of super synchronicity. Number two, operate from intention. Right? There's this. All of the plays in the playbook are mapped out really, really well in the New Testament. By the way, regardless of how you feel about Christianity or Jesus, whatever, go read the book. Because Jesus was the law. He wasn't just teaching it right, he architected, illustrated it in his being. And he said, ask and ye shall receive. So operate from intention. Clear intention acts as a signal to the universe. So I had been intending on all these things. I was excited about meeting with Gordy. I wanted to develop relationships with other amazing people who've created successful businesses and are making a difference in the world. I wanted to find a tech stack and a technology solution for the company that I was going to be building. I wanted to bring together some investors. So I had clear intention. By the way, you don't need to know the how, you don't need to know how. You might have some assumptions of how. Again, I thought I'd have to build a tech stack, but Seth's already got that. Shows up. Huge fan of David Baer. How can I support you? Would you be interested in my technology? Thought I needed to go out and spend a bunch of time pitching investors. Meanwhile, Mickey and Gordy are like, how can we help you? Would you like us to organize all the investors? I had set my intentions and I didn't need to know the how. The solution shows up in such beautiful ways. Your job isn't to figure out the how, it's to hold the what. What do you want from a place of non resistance? Another really interesting thing here about operating intentionally is you only need to ask once. Some people have been taught in personal growth that it's like every morning you need to sit down and you look at all the things that you want, look at all your goals. Every night you need to continue to pray to the God of your own understanding or your higher power. Like, give me this thing. Give me this thing. Give me this thing. It's like an incantation or affirmation. You know what that shows is resistance. It shows your lack of faith. It shows your doubt. Because I don't know what your relationship with your higher power. But you should only be able have to ask once, one time. You ask, now, go on with your life, have fun, stay intentional and be patient. But you only have to ask once. I mean, think about it. Can you imagine if you went to a restaurant, I've talked about this in another episode. And you ordered the pastrami sandwich. And as the waitress or the waiter is walking away, the server is walking away back to the kitchen in order to give the cooks your order. You're like, excuse me, where's my order? Could you come back here real quick? And he or she walks back to the table. It's like, yeah, can I help you? Yeah, I ordered the pastrami sandwich. Yeah, I need to take it into the back and place the order. And as they get away again, you're like, hey, is that coming soon? It's like we don't even allow the universe to organize itself before we start to doubt. Leave the universe alone. Let God fulfill on your order. There's some beautiful things in scripture, both in the Quran and in the Bible that basically say, the moment you ask, it is heard and it is on its way. So carry on with your business, folks. Continual asking blocks the super synchronicity. That's what we're talking about. Be a non resistance, be intentional with your objectives. Principle number three, you got to be in the shoal, baby. You got to be with the other fish. You got to get in the flock, you gotta buzz with the bees. You can't just stay at home and participate in the super synchronicity. You gotta get out there. And this is one of the biggest challenges right now with all this technological innovation is that we're all behind our computers trying to create our realities rather than being in reality itself. Like, how crazy is that? You got to be out there in the world. It's amazing. You look back at like what the founding fathers created or the story of John D. Rockefeller. Like, these guys were like getting on boats, writing letters. I mean, the old school of old school. And they created way more lifetimes, more than you And I, on an average basis, create in our lives. How's that possible? Because they were out there. Tony Hsieh, who was the founder of Zappos, talks about collisions. And he designed this ecosystem in Las Vegas to manufacture coincidences and synchronicities and super synchronicities. And his whole philosophy was based on the idea that you got to create collisions. And it just makes sense. It makes sense from a physics standpoint. You got to have the colliding of lots of different things to produce something new, something just floating. A particle floating by itself throughout space does nothing new. And so you floating at home by your own does not create or align you with super synchronicity. You got to be out there in the world colliding, meeting people. And what's going to happen is you're going to attract fish into your shoal. So people are going to come in who are going to line up with your vibration and participate with you. And then you become more powerful and more powerful, more powerful. Because now it's not just you, it's you and other fish that you're aligned with. And now you've got a shoal and the shoal is invincible. The shoal is unstoppable. You become so powerful that something comes into your world that doesn't belong and boom, the shoal kicks it out. This is the new paradigm. We're moving away from this like me consciousness, let me create everything, to hey, let me have a vision, Let me hold the vision, let me take proper action inside of my vision, but know that I don't need to create it all, that others will show up to co create it with me and have fun while we're doing it. Now does that mean there aren't some things that show up in my day to day experience, especially in my business, that like, I'd prefer not to be doing? Yeah, there are things that I'd prefer not to be doing long term, but I know they're not long term. They're helping me, they're growing me, they're teaching me, they're redirecting me. They're fish that are going to show up that are not going to stay in your shoal, but you're going to learn from them. They're going to become a mirror for you. But you got to be out there with other people because this is not the hustle and grind culture. There are a lot of people out there saying, well, you just wake up at 5am, just work harder. I'm like, well, yeah, put in a good day's effort. But I'd rather work within my herd and my pack than try to be a lone wolf. This is one of the motivations, by the way, of us creating our 12 step program, which is the whole human framework. It's about how to identify the resistance, clear the resistance, get clear on your vision and start to align yourself with the super synchronicity so that you can go out and be the predominant vibration. Because guess what, this inner work is really, really important because you're going to be out there with other fish in the sea and either you are going to entrain and map to them, or they're going to entrain and map to you. I don't know if you've ever seen this study. They take a bunch of grandfather clocks, you know those old school big pendulum grandfather clocks, and they're all swinging the pendulum at a different rate. They're all out of sync and given enough time, they all start to sync together. This is the super synchronicity. And so the question is, are you going to do the inner work and go out there with a higher vibration and start to attract your own shoal or are you going to be somebody else's fish? You get to decide. So the beautiful thing is that we are starting to reconnect through the liberation of our minds and the understanding of how we create super synchronicities, how we can connect to this field, intelligence. This is a beautiful time that we're waking up to and the old paradigm is breaking down. This new paradigm of super synchronicity is what's going to drive the path forward. It's really good news because I don't know about you, but I don't want to do the hustle and grind isolate model anymore. And it doesn't work because this is humanity's time now to start to return to our natural state. So make no mistake, you're going to see two forces at work here. People who returning to nature, people who are doing the inner work, people who are taking responsibility, people who are becoming more emotionally intelligent, spiritually connected and the rest of the chaos. You get to choose which one you want to participate in. Which one of those flocks of birds do you want to fly with? I'm interested in returning to the natural intelligence, which is the only intelligence that exists and operating with and as the superorganism. This is the future of entrepreneurship. This is the future of leadership. This is the future of humanity. Old is the separate competitive force. It's mental control, it's isolation. This new way is connection. Collaboration, flow, intuitive guidance, and community. This is a very important time. And you can literally become the superorganism. As you do this, you stop operating in an isolated individual model, and you become a node in a network connected to infinite intelligence and resource. So I have a lot of examples from my own life. Like, I don't think that I would actually be here if it weren't for Super Synchronicities. The story you've probably heard me tell a million times is how I met my wife. I was single for 10 years, working through my drug, alcohol and sex addiction recovery. And I made a decision. I was clear on my intention and my objective that I was gonna meet a beautiful, intelligent soulmate. I was even specific Colombian woman and make her my wife. And through the power of Super Synchronicity, a buddy's birthday, another buddy who came with me, us not being able to go to the first restauran that we wanted to go to, but going to a second restaurant, one of my friends intimating that he was nervous when he speaks to women, and me saying, hey, it's really not that hard, even though I was always nervous. And then walking across this restaurant and saying hi to this beautiful woman, and it ended up becoming my wife, Carol Gutierrez Bear. That's what you can achieve when you wake up and look. Most people are walking around completely disconnected, living in their heads, isolated in their cubicles, trying to force outcomes. That's how I lived most of my life. And I'm not judgmental or critical of that. I just know that there is a better way. Because when you live that way long enough, you start to wonder why life feels so hard. But when you activate Super Synchronicity, when you become the superorganism, everything changes. The right people show up, the opportunities align, the path becomes obvious. And this isn't woo woo. This is how nature operates. This is how you're designed to operate. And those who understand how to intentionally harness this connective capacity, those are the people who are going to emerge as truly successful people moving forward. So the question is, are you ready to become the superorganism? If you want to go deeper on this, if you want to be a part of our community and a fellowship of human beings that are operating this way, my recommendation is jump over to davidbear.com, check out the Whole Human Framework. It is one of our flagship programs. It'll take you step by step through the structure of how to really liberate yourself from your old stories, your old programs, your old ways of doing things and start to tap into this emergent phenomenon so you can have a powerful living experience. If you love this episode, do me a favor, drop a comment if you're following along on YouTube, if you're listening on the audio platform, subscribe. And if you love this episode, do me a favor and share it with somebody you love. And by the way, if you've got a super synchronicity of your own, drop it in the comments. I want to see it. I love you so much. Thank you for the opportunity to share this with you today. Probably at least a synchronicity that we're here together. Maybe a super synchronicity and I will see you in the next episode. Hey, it's David. One more thing. If you want to go even deeper. On everything we've talked about on today's episode, don't forget to jump over to www.DavidBear.com. you can find the link in the Show notes and subscribe to our newsletter. A couple of times a week, I'm. Going to be sending you the latest episodes that we've released, along with additional free trainings. You'll get individual, immediate access to my. Free Mind Hack ebook and go even. 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