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Confidence Codes Releasing The Fear Of Being Seen | DFS 373
Episode 37317th November 2025 • Destined For Success • Jennifer Takagi
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Get all the inside secrets and tools you need to help you develop your intuitive and leadership skills so you are on the path to the highest level of success with ease.  I’m going to share two client stories that show exactly how this transformation happens — how clearing old beliefs and emotions around visibility literally shifted everything in their lives and businesses.

In this episode you will learn:


  • Lisa Rubin launches her business
  • Melanie Hershorn almost triples her income
  • ME!  I stepped into energy work



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Listen in as Jennifer Takagi, founder of Takagi Consulting, Certified High Performance Coach, 5X time Amazon.Com Best Selling-Author, Certified Soul Care Coach, Certified Jack Canfield Success Principle Trainer, Certified Professional Behavioral Analyst and Facilitator of the DISC Behavioral Profiles, Certified Change Style Indicator Facilitator, Law of Attraction Practitioner, and Certified Coaching Specialist - leadership entrepreneur, speaker and trainer, shares the lessons she’s learned along the way.  Each episode is designed to give you the tools, ideas, and inspiration to lead with integrity. Humor is a big part of Jennifer’s life, so expect a few puns and possibly some sarcasm.  Tune in for a motivational guest, a story or tips to take you even closer to that success you’ve been coveting.  Please share the episodes that inspired you the most and be sure to leave a comment.  


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I look forward to connecting with you soon,


Jennifer Takagi

Speaker, Trainer, Author, Energy Healer


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Have you ever felt that tug, that inner

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knowing that you're meant for more, but something just keeps

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holding you back from stepping fully into the spotlight. I'm

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Jennifer Takagi, your host for destined for success, and today

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I want to continue the conversation about branding and

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having the confidence to step into your brand. Maybe you've

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built the brand, the website, the offers, but deep down, you

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still hesitate to be seen. Today, I want to talk about that

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invisible block, the fear of being seen, and how releasing it

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can unlock a whole new level of confidence, success and

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alignment. I want to share two client stories today that show

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exactly how that transformation happened, how clearing old

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beliefs and emotions around visibility literally shifted

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everything in their lives and their businesses. The first one

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I want to share about is a gal named Lisa. Lisa and I connected

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at a live event at Brenda Burchard Ultra mastermind event,

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and we just clicked. Like, we just it was like, Oh, wow. You

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know, this is this is cool. We have so much in common, like how

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we want to show up. And I did a free session of releasing

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trapped emotions, and I do this from time to time. And if you've

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never attended, you're missing out. You need to attend. And in

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this session, Lisa shared how she really wanted to start a

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different business. She had a job, a big O, J, O, B, she has a

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job, but she wants to get into more of the psychic mediumship

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that she's really called to do.

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And that's a big thing. And depending on your upbringing,

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your belief systems how you've always shown up in the world.

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Making a big shift like this can be very scary. It can be very

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daunting.

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Now, Lisa had purchased the platform she was going to put

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her website on. She had played around with it. Let's just use

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the word dabble. She had dabbled in a little bit, but she just

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couldn't pull the trigger. Does that sound like you? You know

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what you want to do. You feel the calling, but you just can't

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pull the trigger. Well, that was totally Lisa. She could not pull

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the trigger. And when we were on this group session, she said, I

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go around the room. I try to address everybody that's there,

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if at all possible, depending on how many people show up. And I

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asked the question, do you have any trapped emotions around

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stepping into this new chapter and connecting with your

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intuition is very simple. It's very easy. You just have to be

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open to the possibilities. And there were, there were trapped

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emotions around this idea of stepping into this new business.

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So we identified and cleared the trapped emotions as they came

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up. And to clear a trapped emotion, you literally set your

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intention to clear it. And how I do this is I literally say,

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envision that emotion and everything that goes with it in

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a cloud. And we're going to take a deep breath in, and when you

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exhale, the cloud will dissipate. So we did this

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several times, and cleared all the emotions around it and and

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she's an intuitive person, and in the healing type world, and

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she was like, Oh yeah, that was great. And probably 10 days, two

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weeks later, she reached out and said, I just want you to know I

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did it. It's imperfect, but I took imperfect action. I asked

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for help, which, oh, does that sound like you? Is it hard to

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ask for help? I have that problem sometimes. She said, I

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asked for help.

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I launched my website, I put it out there, and I'm going to have

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my first live event. And I was like, Oh my gosh, that's

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amazing. She said, Yeah, I couldn't have done it if I

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hadn't worked with you, if we hadn't identified what that

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invisible block was, what that wall was that was keeping me

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back from doing what I really wanted to do. I saw her a month

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or two later, and she said I scheduled my first live event.

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I'm doing a live in person setting where I share my psychic

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mediumship gifts and talents. Yes, and I already have it full

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like I already have the people

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lined up to come as an entrepreneur that is like manna

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from heaven, people coming in, people showing up. I was so

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happy for her. We identified what was holding her back, and

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she was able to move forward. She had been doing the work she

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had been moving forward, but just couldn't take that last

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step to pass the finish line. And she did, and she did so

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super happy for her identify. What's holding you back from

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showing up confidently and boldly as yourself can make all

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the difference in the world. Another client of mine, we had

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met online in a in a group, but we really hadn't interacted, and

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she had reached out to me like in a group message. Said, has

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anybody written a book? I want to hear about your experience.

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And I said, Yes. And we got on a quick call, and I shared my

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experience of being a published author on Amazon, and that was

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great. Nice little chit chat. And then we saw each other in

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person, but since our previous call had been on the phone, not

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on Zoom. I didn't recognize her, and there were hundreds of women

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at this event, so like all the names run together at some

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point. And she said, Jennifer, we met. And I said, Oh my gosh,

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we did. Now I'm embarrassed. How did we meet? And she reminded me

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of the phone call, which had been a number of months before.

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So we reconnect, have a nice little chit chat. And we decided

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to have a coffee chat to dive a little deeper into what each

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other does and how we might be able to support each other. So

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in this conversation, she said, Oh, I don't know anything about

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Akashic records. I'm like, can you explain that more. And I

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said, Well, I can explain it a little bit, but it's probably

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easier if we just do it. And she was like, yes, let's do it. So

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the easiest way I can explain and how I look at interpret

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Akashic records are that they're the messages on your soul and

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you, you hear people say, like, oh, I had this little nudge,

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this little tap on the shoulder, on some of the hallmark movies.

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They call them God winks, like God's winking at you to move

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forward and do something. Other people think it's their higher

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self, their intuition. Oh, that's true. All of that is

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true. And with Akashic records, I just call it, the messages of

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your soul. And there are ideas and thoughts and goals and

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purposes that we have that are on our soul, on our hearts, and

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we keep getting opportunities, and opportunities keep showing

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up to lean into that, that that's where we're supposed to

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be. And so when I opened her, her name's Melanie. When I

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opened Melanie's Akashic records, I got this really clear

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vision of ancestors holding her back. And often I don't get

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picture images. I typically get words. And it was like your

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heredity, your ancestors have a very clear definition of a woman

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and what a woman should do and how she should show up in the

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world. And for you, that is being a wife first, and then a

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mother, and then, if you want to have a business, okay, it's a

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little hobby on the side. Does that sound like you? Does

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anybody relate? You can have a business, you can have a job,

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but it's never to take precedent over your family, your

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household. And balance is hard. I'm I do not want to minimize

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that balance is hard.

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But if you really have a block that I can go no further than

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this, because this business is to be a hobby, not a financially

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lucrative business that holds you back. So it was

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super cute. She was like, How do I work with you? How do I give

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you money? How do we book a call? What do we do? How do we

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clear all this? So we did all of those things. And after several

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sessions, she was like, yeah. Like, I'm feeling a shift. And

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we worked together for a while,

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and every time was like, Yeah, I feel a shift. I feel

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differently. I feel a little bit and the interesting thing is,

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with energy work, sometimes you actually feel the shift of the

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energy, and sometimes it's several days later and you

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realize you're in. Interacting with people a little

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differently. And several months passed, three or four months

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passed, and we hop on a call, and she says, You are never

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going to believe this. She's so excited. She's just about to

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jump out of the computer screen at me. And I was like, Oh my

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gosh, what's going on? What happened? And she said,

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I had the biggest month I've ever had. And I said, Oh my

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gosh, that's amazing. Like, you don't have to tell me dollar

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amounts, but is this like, two times bigger than your biggest

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month? Three times bigger than your biggest month, and it was

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almost three times more than she had ever made in one month in

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her business, and now I'm seeing her all over social media, with

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all the great things that she's doing, and oh yeah, the pictures

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of her kids and oh yeah, the picture of her and her husband

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taking vacations together. Like she still has her family. She

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still supports her family, physically, emotionally,

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spiritually,

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and she can have a successful business, because once you clear

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what's holding you back, you can start moving forward. You can

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start moving forward in doing what you want to do. For me, I I

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still do and I love doing leadership development type

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training. I love helping people develop those skills and see how

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they can show up better and differently for their team and

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and then I started learning some of these more touchy feely,

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spiritual type modalities and ways of being and moving in the

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world, and I literally was too scared to share them.

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I wasn't going to tell anybody, because I thought my friends and

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family would think I was a little cuckoo. Could you? And I

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fell off the train, and I woke up one morning, and I just had

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this deep seated knowing that I was going to do it, no matter

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what I was going to do it, even if I was scared I was going to

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do it, even if I had very dear friends who were like that is

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against Everything that we've ever been brought up to believe

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like I was going to do it anyway. And once I decided I was

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going to do it anyway, I started sharing one on one with people

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what I did. And it started with Akashic records. Then it moved

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into holy fire, Reiki, and then Body Code, Emotion Code and

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belief code, and it's changed my life, and it's changed the lives

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of many of my clients. And here's what I want you to

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remember, confidence isn't waiting. It's not something

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you're waiting to feel after you succeed. It's something you

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activate by releasing what's holding you back. I get pushback

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all the time from people who don't really believe in the

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healing energy that I do, and they'll start questioning me.

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Oh, that pendulum, you're moving you're moving it. Your arm is

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moving it. No, it's not. You're seeing what you want to see.

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Yes, as it starts changing direction, it kind of moves my

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hand with it, not the other way around. Oh, I felt nothing.

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That's true. You may not have felt anything today, but in a

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few days, you're going to feel something. One of my clients

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said, Oh, by the way, as we're wrapping up, I stepped off a

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curb and height, twisted my ankle, and it really hurts. Can

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you help me? And I was like, yes, yes, I can. So we created.

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She set her intention as long as I, as along with me, as I set my

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intention to balance the imbalances around her ankle

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healing quickly and easily, and that was like on a Sunday

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evening. No, I don't typically work Sundays, but you know,

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special occasions. On occasion I will, and I saw her the next

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Friday, and she said, Oh my gosh, I woke up Monday morning

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and I stepped out of bed and my ankle still hurt. And I thought

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that did not work, that did not fix my ankle,

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and she said, and then it's now Friday, and I've never thought

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about my ankle again, and it's fine. It's healed. So not only

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did she not notice it instantly, like the next morning, but then

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when it quit being a problem, she didn't even notice that it

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wasn't a problem anymore, like it was so gone. She didn't even

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notice I had one client that had cat allergies. I know it's a

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crazy thing. Somebody goes, Jennifer, do you want to be

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known as the crazy cat lady? Well, I do have cats. I'm a

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crazy cat lady. And I said, Do you. Me to help you with those

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cat allergies. And it was like, all right. And lo and behold,

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30 minutes later, all of his allergy symptoms were gone. And

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about six weeks later, I got a message from him that said, Oh,

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by the way, I've been to my friend's house three different

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times, and I haven't reacted to that cat at all. And I was like,

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Cool. I see him in person. Eight or nine months later, he says, I

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said, Hey, Aaron, those cat allergies. And he goes, I don't

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know. I haven't been around a cat.

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His cat allergies were so gone that he didn't even recognize

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when he was around a cat to remember that he was no longer

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allergic. That kind of cracked me up. But as I get these

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testimonials, as I get these text messages, I worked with a

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client today and I got a text message, nothing externally has

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changed, but inside, I feel differently. Yes, yes, you do.

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That's how this works.

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That confidence comes from doing that. Confidence comes from

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working with the people you were intended to work with, the

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people you were intended to help. So if you've been hiding

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your brilliance or doubting your worth, this is your reminder.

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The world doesn't just need your message, it needs your presence.

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Take a few moments today and ask yourself, Where am I still

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dimming my light? Where am I still playing small? Then take a

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breath. Take one small, brave step towards being seen, because

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your confidence is already within you, and it's time to let

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it shine. I'm Jennifer Takagi with destin for success. And if

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you'd like to have a conversation with me about your

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next best steps and what's holding you back, book a call.

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Your success call.com and I really look forward to talking

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to you soon.

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