You cannot change what happened. You can change how it sits in you. This one sets up a room where the younger you gets what they needed.
About 15 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice.
There is a room inside your heart with a comfortable chair in it. Your younger self turns up, not knowing who you are, only that you are calm and safe and worth trusting. Then you swap places and sit in their seat, which is the hard part. Receiving the love is always harder than giving it. Things can come up here. That is allowed.
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Steven Webb:after the meditation
Steven Webb:yeah This is a powerful meditation as we cannot go back and change the past. We cannot
Steven Webb:rewrite the story. We cannot change the experience. What we can do is rewrite how we feel about it
Steven Webb:and we can kind of change the way the mind sees it
Steven Webb:and we can make sure that the memories and experiences of the past don't affect us as much in the
Steven Webb:future. If we can just feel the love, And feel what it's like to receive the love. That's one
Steven Webb:of the hardest things is receiving the love.
Steven Webb:We're going to visualize going into a comfortable room and sit on a comfortable chair and then we're going to
Steven Webb:imagine our younger selves with us and we'll project the love from ourselves onto them and then we'll become them
Steven Webb:for a little bit and then we'll ask some questions of what it's like to receive love. And what it's
Steven Webb:like to be that child in a loving world. And then we'll return back to yourself now.
Steven Webb:And the reason why I set the scene slightly is because sometimes things can come up. I just want you
Steven Webb:to know that everything is okay. And we're in a safe environment and we're everything is well in this moment.
Steven Webb:And whatever comes up, just allow it to be.
Steven Webb:Firstly, we'll sit back and relax and we'll just give that narrator in your mind a little time off for
Steven Webb:the moment.
Steven Webb:There is nothing that needs to be done in this moment
Steven Webb:As we bring the awareness to I'm breathing in and I'm breathing out. You
Steven Webb:don't need to do anything with the breath. Just be aware of each breath in and be aware of each
Steven Webb:breath out and
Steven Webb:all the little nuances with the breath.
Steven Webb:As you breathe in, imagine you're breathing in calmness. As
Steven Webb:you breathe out, imagine you're relaxing a little more each time.
Steven Webb:Breathing in calm, breathing out relax
Steven Webb:And we're going to go from the top of the head to the right down to our toes and just
Steven Webb:relaxing the muscles as we go. And remember, relaxing isn't something you do. You cannot force anything to relax. It's
Steven Webb:just allowing it to relax and giving it permission. So
Steven Webb:we do this start by just giving your forehead and your face permission to relax. Breathing in calm. Breathing out
Steven Webb:relax
Steven Webb:And behind your eyes and your cheeks and
Steven Webb:your jaw and your neck.
Steven Webb:Just allowing it to soften and inviting each muscle to relax and let go of any tension.
Steven Webb:Moving down through the shoulders, through your elbows, now for your hands.
Steven Webb:Down through your torso, down
Steven Webb:your back, your
Steven Webb:belly and your bum and your knees. Down your legs.
Steven Webb:Just allowing it to relax each time with each out breath.
Steven Webb:We're just equaling the pressure between the external world and the internal world. And
Steven Webb:there's nothing needs to be done in this moment.
Steven Webb:You don't even need to get involved in your breath. Just allow your breath to be what it is.
Steven Webb:Now as you breathe in, calm and breathe out relaxed Slowly allow every muscle in your body from your head
Steven Webb:to your toes. In one big wave, just to relax and let go one more time.
Steven Webb:Everything is well in this moment. This moment has everything it needs.
Steven Webb:So now that we're completely relaxed, bring your awareness to your heart centre.
Steven Webb:And imagine a room in your heart. This room that you're able to climb down into the
Steven Webb:room has everything you need to feel safe and comfortable.
Steven Webb:There is a comfortable chair, some bookcases, nice
Steven Webb:pictures on the wall of your choice.
Steven Webb:It's decorated and everything is exactly the way you would want in your perfect room.
Steven Webb:As you walk over to the comfortable chair, you sit down and feel completely relaxed, settling
Steven Webb:in.
Steven Webb:Then you notice that there's a younger version of yourself there with you.
Steven Webb:It's such a time in your life when you needed the people around you and you needed the love and
Steven Webb:the support.
Steven Webb:They have no idea that you are the older version of them.
Steven Webb:You are just someone that is calm, loving and wise. Someone that they really appreciate having in their
Steven Webb:lives.
Steven Webb:Someone they can trust, they can feel comfortable with and someone they can rely on.
Steven Webb:You are both interacting, talking and telling stories to each other and listening and
Steven Webb:perhaps you're laughing and joking.
Steven Webb:You're just enjoying each other's company.
Steven Webb:You enjoy your younger self's company. You become aware of how much love you feel for your younger self and
Steven Webb:how much you care about your younger self.
Steven Webb:And there's this growing love and light within you, within your heart, growing in expanding With
Steven Webb:each moment of realising how much your younger self means to you.
Steven Webb:And with each awareness of your breath, it grows and expands. And eventually it includes your younger self,
Steven Webb:filling up the room.
Steven Webb:Your younger self is completely unaware of this happening. They just feel loved, safe and understood.
Steven Webb:As you continue to listen and share stories with them.
Steven Webb:Now imagine swapping position You becoming your younger self. In the presence of this older, wiser,
Steven Webb:loving, calm person.
Steven Webb:You are feeling very much loved and feeling safe and secure. Very much understood and accepted in this moment.
Steven Webb:What does it feel like to be completely accepted?
Steven Webb:What does it feel like to receive this love?
Steven Webb:What does it feel like to be completely yourself?
Steven Webb:Imagine as your younger self with everything you needed to develop in a healthy, confident and loving way.
Steven Webb:Now bring your awareness back to who you are now sat in the comfortable chair.
Steven Webb:What does it feel like to be loving your younger self?
Steven Webb:What does it feel like to see your younger self growing in a healthy, loving way?
Steven Webb:Now bring your awareness back to being your younger self.
Steven Webb:What is it like to receive this love from this amazing older person with you?
Steven Webb:What is it like knowing that you can grow up, knowing that you will always be loved and cared about
Steven Webb:and understood?
Steven Webb:Now bring your awareness back to being yourself now sat in the comfortable chair.
Steven Webb:And imagine your younger self merging with you. But this time, that younger self has all the love,
Steven Webb:acceptance and understanding. And all the love they need as if they always had it.
Steven Webb:Imagine what it feels like to have your inner child completely healed and been able to receive and give the
Steven Webb:love that they always deserved.
Steven Webb:As you bring your awareness back to your breath and we leave the room and become more aware of the
Steven Webb:sounds going on outside of you, my voice and the room you're in.
Steven Webb:Imagine your life today. And in the weeks ahead and even the years in the future. Knowing that the
Steven Webb:whole self, including your inner child, is loved and understood and healed.
Steven Webb:That's where you bring this meditation to the rest of the day. Bringing your awareness to your breath in the
Steven Webb:room you're in. Gently open your eyes. Stick out your arms. Shake them off a little bit.
Steven Webb:Take a deep breath with some extra energy and smile while radiating all the love you have from within
Steven Webb:between yourself and your younger self and the rest of the world
Steven Webb:just want to tell you, you are enough and you are love. Namaste.