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How to Handle Feeling Misunderstood at an IEP Meeting: A Simple Special Education Advocacy Strategy for Parents to Improve Communication and Collaboration
Episode 26324th February 2026 • The Collaborative IEP • Ashley Barlow
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A Simple Special Education Advocacy Strategy for Parents

Do you ever leave an IEP meeting feeling frustrated, unheard, or completely misunderstood?

If you’re a parent navigating special education, you are not alone. In this episode of The Collaborative IEP Podcast, we break down a simple, practical advocacy strategy you can use when school staff don’t seem to understand your concerns, your child’s needs, or your “why.”

This episode is packed with plain-language guidance for parents who want to improve communication at IEP meetings without escalating conflict.

You’ll learn:

  1. What to do when you feel misunderstood at an IEP meeting
  2. How to respond when the school district doesn’t “get” your position
  3. A step-by-step special education advocacy strategy you can use immediately
  4. How to pause an unproductive IEP meeting in a professional way
  5. Why writing your concerns can strengthen collaboration and protect your child’s rights
  6. How to improve parent-school communication without jumping straight to due process

This episode is especially helpful for parents of children with IEPs who are dealing with:

  1. Communication breakdowns during IEP meetings
  2. Disagreements with the school team
  3. Feeling dismissed by school staff
  4. Special education negotiation challenges
  5. Collaborative advocacy vs. litigation decisions

If you’re trying to advocate for your child with a disability and want to stay calm, clear, and effective at the IEP table, this episode gives you a practical tool you can use right away.

Whether you’re new to special education or a seasoned IEP parent, this conversation will help you handle conflict more strategically and move toward productive collaboration.

Listen now to learn how to turn frustration into focused, effective advocacy.

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