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Secure Functioning Relationships Part One: Why They Are A Necessity, Not a Luxury
Episode 14428th January 2026 • Master Your Marriage • Sharla and Robert Snow
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In the premiere of our new series on Secure Functioning Relationships, we dive into why these partnerships are essential in today's chaotic world. Drawing from attachment theory and the work of Stan Tatkin, we explore how secure bonds act as our ultimate source of safety, happiness, and health—serving as a natural antidote to stress, anxiety, and uncertainty. Through personal stories from the COVID pandemic and everyday adventures, discover how threats can either unite or divide couples, and learn the foundational signs of a secure-functioning relationship: being true allies, equal shareholders, and prioritizing your union above all. Whether you're navigating fears, tribalism, or post-pandemic PTSD, this episode lays the groundwork for building a resilient "home base" with your partner. Join us weekly for practical steps to create lasting security in your marriage.

Key Topics Covered:

  1. The global need for secure relationships amid existential and everyday threats
  2. Benefits of secure functioning: Better mental health, longevity, and stress reduction
  3. Contrasts with insecure attachments and their health impacts
  4. Real-life examples of handling crises as a team
  5. Core principles: Safety at all times, shared power, and putting the relationship first

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