What if judgment is not something you need to eliminate, but feedback revealing where your awareness may still be incomplete?

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Can you live without a judgment? No,

you're going to have

judgments in your life.

I don't think you're going to go a day

without a judgment. The question is,

what do you do when you

find yourself in judgment?

And this is an interesting

thing because as you go along,

all of the experiences that

you've accumulated in your life,

which is your amygdala has assigned

a valency to, positive or negative,

supportive or challenging, ,

you stored in your hippocampus,

the subconscious mind, you

might say, storage. And,

you now have this

memory of what happened in the past that

you're now associating with what you're

experiencing in the present.

And so when you have present reception

of information through your senses,

you're taking that,

attaching it to your memory and making

associations with it and associating,

you know, do I seek it or do I avoid it?

Or do I just remain present with it?

If I'm seeing that it has way

more positives than negatives,

in my perception,

then I'll probably seek it and look for

it and try to bring it into my life.

If I perceive it has more

drawbacks and negatives,

then I'll probably withdraw from it

and try to keep it out of my life.

And so you're going to be

making judgments all day long,

with the associations you've made.

But if you transcend that label,

that judgment, that valency, the positive

and negative labels you've given it,

and see it simultaneously positive and

negative, the, it's, in other words,

it's neither positive or negative, instead

of it's either positive or negative.

And you see both sides of it

simultaneously, in that moment,

you transcend the judgment.

You activate your medial prefrontal

cortex and you spontaneously act,

not as a reaction to something to

seek or avoid from your amygdala,

but, something to act

upon, an act of love,

an act of inspiration, a spontaneous act,

instead of an evoked reaction.

They call it spontaneous potentials in

the brain instead of evoked potentials in

the brain. Here, you

have a moment of grace,

a moment of love, a moment of

inspiration, moment of enthusiasm,

a moment of certainty, because

there's no wavering. 'Cause See,

when you're seeking something

and it's positively valent,

you're blind to the downsides.

When you're avoiding something

and you perceive it as negative,

you're blind to the upsides. When

you see both sides simultaneously,

you're not blind. You're aware, fully

aware, you're awake, you're enlightened.

You're not asleep.

You're not in the dark with missing

information or the unconscious.

When you do, you have the

capacity to be present.

You're not trying to avoid

something and get a better thing in the

future and avoid something in a memory

that's past. Or you're not,

trying to seek something,

avoiding something in the past again

with something valent, positive.

You're just present. In that

moment, you're in a state

of grace. You're certain,

you're inspired, as I've

said, and in that process,

you've transcended judgment.

You can have a moment of that.

You'll get a tear of gratitude.

You'll have a moment of authenticity.

You'll be of the soul, the

state of unconditional love.

You won't be in the moment of

judgment and into this strife,

internal strife you have. In

that moment, there's no judgment.

You can have a moment of that.

But in that moment of gnosis,

that moment of knowledge,

epistemological awareness,

you might say, in that

moment, it's fleeting. It's

there. There's no time there.

It's not something that endures.

It's just something that's a moment.

In that moment, you have an aha, a

eureka, a gamma synchronous in the brain,

authentic moment, a tear of gratitude,

because you see things

as they actually are,

not as you in your reality,

perceive them to be,

where you usually distort

things when you judge.

The amygdala is a desire center. It

desires to seek prey and avoid predator.

So it's noted for its judgments.

And if you're in a moment of grace,

a moment of presence,

where you have no desire to change you

relative to others or others relative to

you, where your human

will matches what is,

what some people in theology call divine

will, you're now in a state of grace.

And in that moment, you've

transcended it. But the moment you do,

you get automatically promoted to

the next illusion, the next mystery,

the next thing you don't

know where you judge again.

And then as you gain knowledge and learn

to ask questions and go through inquiry

and then you see both sides

simultaneously and you solve the

unknowns, the mysteries, like a

mathematical equation, you solve for X,

the missing information,

the unknown, the entropy.

you now get a negentropic awareness again,

and you're back into grace again.

And then you get promoted to the

next illusion. Whatever you know,

there's always something that you don't

know beyond it. And in that unknown,

there's an unconscious and then

there's a question and there's a,

a mystery to solve. And so you're

going to go back into judgment again.

And you're going to

have uncertainty again.

And then you're going to solve that

problem and you're going to solve the

equation, balance the equation,

see both sides simultaneous,

see that it's neither positive

or negative, get back into

the soul, if you will,

the state of unconditional love.

See the grace state and

transcend another judgment.

So you're not going to

get rid of judgment.

You're going to use judgment as a

feedback to let you know you have an

incomplete awareness and you're

trapped in a reality that's

skewed and distorted and generalized.

But you can use that as a tool to

learn to ask quality questions.

In my Breakthrough Experience program,

I present the Demartini Method,

which is a series of very precise

questions to help you become

fully conscious of when you're

unconscious and judging things,

on how to transcend that. But you're

not done. You got still more growth.

If you meet somebody who claims

to be all aware, all enlightened,

you know, they're not. They

only know what they know,

and they're only aware of what they're

aware of and what they've experienced in

life.

And to say that they're universally

aware would be an ego trip of

unbelievable magnitude.

Live with holy curiosity.

Tackle the next challenge,

problem, mystery.

Go allow yourself to go into the

unknowns, experience the judgment,

use the judgment as a feedback mechanism

to guide you to ask questions to solve

the mystery of the unknown,

the unconscious, and become

fully conscious again.

That's the journey. If not, we

stagnate, we stay stuck in a judgment,

and we continue to live

with holy curiosity and keep

growing if keep answering

the mysteries. Penetrating

new mysteries is fulfillment.

Staying stuck in a belief

system and holding on to a

valent perception, can

trap you and hold you back.

And that's why I'm a believer

that it's a scientific inquiry

to solve the next mystery and to

believe that there's some sort of a

hidden order in the chaos to keep you

on the journey, I think has merit.

So give yourself permission

to allow yourself to judge,

go to a moment of grace, see the

order, go to another disorder,

see the grace, and just keep going.

Keep living and keep fulfilling,

and penetrate ever greater mysteries.