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Defending Prices That Were Never Set Properly
Episode 112th January 2026 • The Pricing Lady • Janene Liston
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In this episode of Live With The pricing

Lady, we're talking about a pricing

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strategy problem, defending prices that

were never set properly to begin with.

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Sit back, relax, and enjoy the episode.

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Welcome to The pricing Lady Podcast,

where smart business owners price

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with purpose and profit with clarity.

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I'm Janene your hostess.

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I'm excited to be bringing you

the first episode of the New Year.

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Let me start by wishing

you a very happy New Year.

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Today we are going to be talking

about defending prices that were

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never set properly in the first place.

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And I chose this because it was actually

the last post I made on LinkedIn last

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year, and I thought, what a great

episode to kick off the new year.

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Often clients when they come to me, they

say, Janene alls I need are the right

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argument, arguments to defend my prices.

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And I have two big

issues with this request.

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It's not that I don't wanna help you,

but you're looking for the wrong answers.

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And here's my issues.

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First of all, you're talking about

arguments, and second of all,

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you're talking about defending.

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We're gonna get into more why I

have issues with that in a moment.

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But this type of going on the defensive

shows up in sales discussions,

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in proposals, in your written

offers, and even landing pages.

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Or can even be a simple conversation

where someone asked an innocent

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question about what you charge

and you go into defensive mode.

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Most clients are trying to defend

their prices that they themselves don't

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actually believe in, and that's why they

go into defense and argumentation mode.

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The prices were not set on a

foundation, so they don't have the

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belief that those are, or the knowing

that those are the right prices.

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So there's no solid foundation upon

which to have a good, value led

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pricing conversation, and that is one

of the main reasons why they end up

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in defense and argumentation mode.

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So why do people get in this position?

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There are many reasons and the main

one is being, they lack a clear way to

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set prices they actually believe in.

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They don't know how to set them and

they're skipping that entire decision

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process around how they're finding

the right prices in their business.

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And of course, if you don't believe in it,

then you don't feel confident in it, and

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you feel more of that urge to defend or

to argue why those are the right price.

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Some people simply copy what others

are doing, and again, just copying

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what someone else is doing doesn't

mean that it's right for your business.

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Maybe it's right for their business.

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Maybe they're losing money, you don't

know, but just copying what someone else

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does isn't gonna give you the confidence

to say, "Hey, I know this is the right

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price and this is why I know that."

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Oftentimes people will throw at a price

before they actually understand the

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offer or the needs of the customer, and

that again, leads to feeling uncertain.

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You're just trying to throw argumentation

at the wall and see what sticks with

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the client rather than having done

the work upfront and knowing it.

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Maybe they've haven't got a plan yet for

actually navigating such conversations.

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It could also be a preparation.

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So maybe they put some, logic behind

the prices that they have, but then

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they didn't pull that into having a

plan for how to have the discussion.

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So that's another what reason

why people end up in this

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defense and argumentation mode.

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It can also be that they don't understand,

aren't clear or don't believe in the

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value that their offer, whether it

be a product service or a software

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actually delivers, or that it's not

aligned with what the customer wants.

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And that leads me to the last reason

that I'm gonna mention here, and that's

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that they're unclear on the customer.

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And what often happens is people try

to create offers that are great for

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anyone because they think that if they

cast a wide net, it means they'll have

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the opportunity to have more sales.

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But often what they're.

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They're doing what I call for selling.

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So they're trying to, you know, put

a square peg in a round hole in a,

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in, in this context, they're selling

something to a lot of people, a lot

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of customers or clients who actually

it's not suitable or fit for.

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And then when they get pushback, they

feel they need to defend, and they're

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defending with arguments, if you will,

that aren't actually fit for purpose.

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So it feels really uncomfortable.

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So now we're moving a little bit from

why they are in there to what they're

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doing, but I wanted to bring these

six reasons up because maybe you see

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some of that in what you are doing,

and it's important to reflect on that.

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So why does going on the

defensive feel necessary and

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at the same time, so difficult?

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It's a symptom, of what's going on.

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If you're going into a conversation

and you don't feel confident because

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you're not sure about your price or the

customer, or the value or the scope of

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the project or whatever it is, you're

trying to fix it with argumentation.

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Argumentation, or defending

what your price is isn't

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necessarily the right thing to do.

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'cause it's just a symptom of not having

done some aspect of the work upfront.

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It feels necessary because you've set a

price and by setting it, you've made a

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statement that this is the right price,

but you don't feel so certain about it.

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And so you try to argue to then defend it.

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You're tossing out arguments.

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Or let's say, let's put it this

way, why does it feel so hard?

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So you're tossing out arguments that

don't really fix what you're feeling.

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So that's one of the reasons that

it feels so difficult because

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deep down you know that it's not

actually gonna solve the problem.

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You're just kind of hoping that somebody

will take your word for it in a sense.

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And things like scripts and hacks can be

useful when you have the confidence, but

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they will not replace the clarity on the

price and the value that you deliver.

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So these are two reasons, these last two

are reasons why it feels so hard is, you

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know, those arguments might feel hard

putting out there because you not really

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in a solid position to be able to defend.

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And then of course it

feels that much harder.

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Here's my point.

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Clarity earlier in the process makes

everything easier going forward.

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And that is a really big point.

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I want you to write down or type into

your, your calendar or note somewhere

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for yourself because especially when it

comes to having sales conversations and

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leading those conversations with the

value, which is where I want you to get

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to, you need to have that clarity upfront

otherwise it gets difficult very quickly.

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Just like knowing the customer makes

finding the right price easier.

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Having a clear pricing process means that

you've done the work upfront to help you

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build that foundation upon which you can

feel confident about what you charge.

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And then the beauty is you don't

need to argue and you don't

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need to go on the defensive.

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I saw this last year with plenty

of clients looking for arguments.

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Once we rooted the discussion and

their prices in value, it shifted

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and made things much easier.

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Now, it's not gonna

solve all your problems.

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There will always be customers and

clients and situations that come up that

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take you outside that comfort zone, but.

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Over the long run, you're going

to build that repertoire of skills

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to be able to handle those situ

situations with much more ease.

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So what do I mean by earlier?

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Definitely before getting to selling

and before communicating prices,

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you need that base level of clarity

before you're going to market.

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Now, I'm not saying you have to have

all the answers and we are definitely

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not looking for perfection, but if you

understand the value of what you deliver

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in relation to the customer you're

targeting, and you've looked at all the

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right aspects that build up and make

a good price, then you're in a better

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position to be able to handle those

conversations when they do come up.

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The clarity here that matters the most

is you understanding why that price is

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fair to both you and to your clients.

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Now, if you follow me, you know I

talk a lot about finding a fair price.

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'cause I hear that from a

lot of my clients, "janene, I

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just wanna find a fair price."

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There are three components of a

fair price, a fair price reflects

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the value that is delivered, enough

people are willing to pay for it,

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and it brings a reasonable profit.

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So if the price is fair, it

meets those requirements.

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So we're talking about

anchoring things in value.

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That's where willingness to pay, and

of course, the value piece come from.

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And understanding what is profitable

and gonna help you be there to build

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and grow your business and be there

for your clients defense and arguments,

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then transform into anchors of pricing.

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Yeah, so if you are anchors

of value, let me be more clear

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about actually anchors of value.

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So when you understand the

value, those become the anchors.

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You don't need arguments anymore.

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You don't need to defend your

prices because you're leading all

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of your conversations, whether

they are in written or spoken form.

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You're leading those conversations

from a position of value.

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So there's no defensing defensiveness,

there's no argumentation needed per

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se, because you are talking about

things from a perspective of value.

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So you end up leading the conversation

from a much more stable place,

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and you don't feel that same level

of pressure that you do when you

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don't have that foundation there.

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That's what makes it ultimately

possible to communicate calmly

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because you know deep in your heart,

because you've done the work, that

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you set prices that are fair to all.

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As we kick off this new year 2026, I'd

encourage you to reflect on the following.

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If you find yourself defending price

as often, it's worth asking yourself,

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where is that effort coming from?

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Is it about the conversation in front

of you or is it about the decisions

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that were never anchored earlier on?

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That's all I have for

you for today's episode.

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I hope that you enjoyed

this conversation arguing.

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We're talking about leading,

understanding, and leading with value.

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That is your path to path

to pricing success in:

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And for those of you who are interested,

you know that I offer a group program

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called the Fair Price Formula and the

next cohort starts at the end of February.

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If you'd like to know more about

it, head on over to The pricing Lady

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dot com back slash set my prices.

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I wish you all the best.

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Have a great day, and as

always, enjoy pricing.

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