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In This Moment with Toby C - Toby C EPISODE 120, 18th June 2021
Overcoming Disrespect
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Overcoming Disrespect

  • Most of us sense that real tolerance of other people's shortcomings and viewpoints and a respect for their opinions are attitudes which make us more useful to others.
  • Though ex-drinkers, we still thought we had to hide from public distrust and contempt.


  • I could almost hear the sound of the preacher's voice as I sat, on still Sundays, way over there on the hillside; there was that proffered temperance pledge I never signed; my grandfather's good natured contempt of some church folk and their doings; his insistence that the spheres really had their music; but his denial of the preacher's right to tell him how he must listen; his fearlessness as he spoke of these things just before he died; these recollections welled up from the past.


  • "There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance -- that principle is contempt prior to investigation." -- Herbert Spencer


Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)