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BLAME SHIFTING - PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY
Episode 38216th February 2026 • Man vs Marriage • Quincy Moran
00:00:00 00:24:32

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WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRIAGE!

Men blame others so they can justify not taking responsibility.

You can blame your wife.

Your job.

Your season.

Your past.

As long as it keeps you from looking in the mirror.

In this episode, we confront blameshifting for what it really is — emotional avoidance dressed up as justification.


For most men, emotional reactions don’t begin with anger.


They begin with disappointment — and it goes unidentified.

Then the ego gets involved.


Then the internal narrative begins:


“Here we go again… I knew it… this always happens.”


Blame feels productive.


But it’s passive.

It explains why nothing changes while convincing you that you had no choice.


Personal responsibility isn’t punishment.


It’s power.


Because once you own your part, you finally have something you can change.


This episode breaks down:


  • Why disappointment gets mislabeled as anger
  • How ego fuels blameshifting
  • The cost of emotional justification
  • What ownership actually looks like in leadership


Leadership begins the moment you stop asking who’s at fault and start asking what’s required of you.


🎙️ Man vs Marriage Podcast

Helping men stop blaming and start leading at home.

🌐 Website: https://quincymoran.com

📩 Email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com

Start with the “Where Do I Start?” series if you’re ready to take responsibility and build authority in your marriage and family.

#MensLeadership #MarriageAdvice #PersonalResponsibility



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