In this episode, I'm joined by Jamie Webb, a sports therapist, to discuss how to deal with physical pain and the connection between our physical and psychological states.
Jamie emphasises the importance of understanding that pain is a signal, not necessarily an indicator of tissue damage, and that our thoughts, emotions, and life experiences can manifest physically in our bodies.
We explore the polyvagal theory, which explains the different states of our nervous system (fight, flight, freeze, and flow) and how our bodies and emotions are interconnected. Jamie shares his approach of working with clients holistically, considering their physical, emotional, and psychological aspects, and the need to sometimes address the underlying psychological factors to alleviate physical pain.
I trust our conversation add further understanding of the mind-body connection and the significance of being adaptable and able to transition between different nervous system states for overall well-being.
Key Learnings:
1. Pain is a signal, not necessarily an indicator of tissue damage.
2. Our thoughts, emotions, and life experiences can manifest physically in our bodies.
3. The polyvagal theory explains the different states of our nervous system (fight, flight, freeze, and flow) and how our bodies and emotions are interconnected.
4. Addressing underlying psychological factors can help alleviate physical pain.
5. Being adaptable and able to transition between different nervous system states is crucial for overall well-being.
Show Notes:
00:00 - Introduction
02:15 - Jamie's background and approach
06:00 - Understanding pain and its connection to emotions and life experiences
14:00 - The mind-body connection and the role of beliefs
19:00 - Polyvagal theory and nervous system states
27:00 - The importance of adaptability and transitioning between states
35:00 - Identity, emotions, and their physical manifestations
44:00 - Body language and its impact on emotional states
51:00 - Integrating psychological and physical approaches for holistic healing
56:00 - The role of breathwork and final thoughts
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Working on the idea that pain is protection.
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:Pain is a threat.
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:Every emotion has a
physical representation.
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:So if you spend a long time in an emotion
that will, you know, shut down some parts
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:of your body, maybe open up others, and
that will undoubtedly be one of the things
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:that's holding you in a pain pattern.
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:If something's not working for you,
you're the captain of the ship.
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:Sal: Hello and welcome.
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:The body and the mind are one system.
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:As you regular listeners of my show
know, that's how I see things and I
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:see that the world of coaching and
human performance is fragmented.
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:Now, when you go to someone for a pain
in your shoulder, a lower back issue or
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:a niggly knee, you might see a sports
massage therapist, a physio, someone
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:like that, and they may treat that area.
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:But I have the fortune of working
with Jamie, who's a sports therapist
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:who treats the whole system.
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:Now he's worked on me,
so I know firsthand how.
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:Jamie looks at things in the body and may
not be the, let's say the expected view
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:of how you work with the physical body.
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:So if you have pain, if you have
challenges, you have mental blocks
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:today, this one's a good one for you.
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:So we're going to get into it.
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:Jamie, welcome to Mindset,
Mood and Movement Show.
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:It's good to have you on.
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:Jamie Webb: Thanks for reminding me Sal.
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:Really looking forward to it.
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:Sal: Pleasure.
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:Yeah.
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:Pleasure.
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:Jamie, what's, take us through,
what do you, what do you do through
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:your day when you're with people?
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:What do you actually do?
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:Jamie Webb: Well, um, so in terms
of the, the work that I do, it's, I
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:think, I think the key thing is to
say it's bespoke for every person.
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:I think that's one of my, um,
big drivers, my big beliefs.
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:we, um, at the clinic, we talk about
meeting people exactly where they're at.
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:So to give you an over the top example,
if someone comes in having searched
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:out a physiotherapy type search term
online, um, and, coming with a knee
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:problem and, and there's a realization
just from my experience that, um, you
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:know, the, the, the flippant way of
saying, and I've never said this to
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:a client is it's not your knee that's
the problem, it's your entire life.
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:you don't want to hear that.
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:Really, but it's about from that point,
um, starting from a, a physical, um, start
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:point, say this knee in case in point,
and then seeing where that takes us.
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:we always start, you know, because my
qualification is a, sports therapy.
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:I'm not trying to be a psychologist, but
it's really important that we acknowledge.
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:the, the mental aspect.
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:Um, so we get to know, the people
in the room, talk about life.
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:it's really important, that our
clients are able to be as open as
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:they can be, sometimes it's difficult
to be open with someone you've just
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:met or, and obviously that rapport
develops, through, through treatment.
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:so we kind of gain the trust on the, on
the, the physical side of things, um,
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:using our biomechanical expertise and,
as you alluded to in the introduction.
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:piecing it all together.
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:we might be, for a knee problem,
we'd certainly be looking
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:at what's going on the foot.
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:At the hip, at the pelvis, um, but
even all the way up to the neck.
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:Um, and been plenty of cases whereby,
we've, we've seen dramatic improvement
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:in people's symptoms by, you know,
even releasing off someone's jaw,
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:for example, and it, it positively
affects the symptoms in their knee.
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:so yeah, that's a, that's a brief outline.
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:Sal: so what's super interesting about
you, Jamie, is that, so I came to see
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:you a while back and I've, uh, for, for
our listeners, I've had this kind of
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:recurrent shoulder issue for quite a long
time and I've done a lot of work on it.
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:I've done my own rehab.
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:I've got a lot of knowledge about
the body, not as much as Jamie, but
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:a lot to kind of do myself work.
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:I've seen other practitioners and
it just hasn't, hasn't resolved.
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:And what struck me was if you've got
a chronic issue, then when I went to
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:Jamie, when I went to Jamie, he was
like, It's probably not a shoulder issue
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:because it would have healed by now.
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:You know, if it's going on for that
long, it's not about your shoulder.
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:And it resonated with me because when
I'm in a coaching space with someone
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:and they are wanting to change how they
think and they're trying to do behavioral
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:change, it's not about the behavior.
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:So I'm already seeing things
in these parallel views.
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:So I might look at someone's
belief pattern and, and the
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:architecture of their mind.
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:And Jamie, you look at people in
the architecture of their body,
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:but there is such a crossover.
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:No one.
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:Has a mind without a body.
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:Everyone lives through a body.
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:Now if, um, If you're looking at someone
like you said there, the person comes
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:in like me with a shoulder or knee issue
and says, Hey, I've got this problem.
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:Can you help?
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:What's, what's some of the stuff that
you're seeing that isn't physical?
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:Because of course for those
of us who've got the physical,
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:we think that's the issue.
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:But what is it you will see are
patterns and trends that come
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:in with some of your clients?
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:that are more likely part of
the pain problem or the injury
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:problem that you're seeing.
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:Jamie Webb: Yeah, sure.
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:Um, would it be okay to talk about
your condition in, in more detail?
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:So I'll just, cause I
can physically see you.
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:Sal: Absolutely.
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:Yeah.
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:I'm a live case
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:right?
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:Jamie Webb: yeah, exactly.
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:Yeah.
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:So it's the one that I can see right now.
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:I haven't got my notes in front
of me, so it will be from memory.
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:Um, but on a purely physical level, um,
I think the, the, I've made a career
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:out of treating what looks most wonky.
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:Um, uh, very technical.
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:You see it in all the textbooks, but,
now, now, for example, In your case, as
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:I remember it, we've, we've obviously,
we have a right shoulder issue.
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:Um, and I'm, I'm less interested
in giving things labels.
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:I'm more interested about
what we can do about things.
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:I think, a critique of, I've got
some textbooks on my, on my, on
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:my books, on my shelves up there.
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:And the pages and pages of these labels
that don't actually mean anything.
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:Um, I mean, to.
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:To use your, um, case as an example,
we, we could have labeled them,
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:if we wish, a, a tendinopathy or
something like that, which if you
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:translate the Latin just means there's
something wrong with the tendon.
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:now we don't know that.
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:And we're just gonna label and
labels can be very negative.
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:I think, um, you know,
you've got something to say.
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:I've there's something wrong with me.
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:and I, and I don't think
that that is helpful.
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:Um, also, I mean, to turn
up is a really good example.
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:Um, they, um, It used
to be called tendinitis.
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:You might have heard of that,
was inflammation of the tendon
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:and they showed, well, actually
there's no inflammation.
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:So that was wrong.
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:Um, then they showed that it was
tendinosis, which is suggested,
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:degeneration of the tendon, which
isn't necessarily the case either.
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:Um, so you can have degeneration of
the tendon and no pain and that's
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:very, very common in all of us.
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:Um, and so that's why they came
up with the label tendinopathy.
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:There's something wrong with the tendon.
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:But is there?
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:Um, and this is the way you start getting
into the pain science, uh, of it as well.
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:You can have, you know, what we would
consider, physical issues in the
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:tissues is, is the, is the phrase that
we use, but actually no pain at all.
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:Um, but equally you can have no issues
in the tissues and pain as well.
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:So to bring it back to you, um, your
point, the first thing I picked up with
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:yourself through that, right side, we
knew where the, where the, um, where
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:the issue was, we knew that there
was some, um, pain on some movements.
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:I can't remember the abs one,
some rotator cuff, most likely,
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:I think some press ups as well.
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:so that gave us a clue as to the
actual muscles that were involved
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:in the pain mechanism, if you like.
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:And then I, then we had a look at you
and then we had a look at how you were
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:lining up and the key things, the two
things that I noticed was I'm, I'm
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:overly obsessed with people's armpits.
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:I'm a bit special like that.
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:so, um, we had a look at your, we
took a little picture of you from
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:the back and we got the ruler, the
iPhone feature, very useful for me.
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:And we saw that the right shoulder I
think was lower than the left shoulder.
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:So something's pulled
down on the right side.
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:And with yourself, which is a really,
really common, double whammy is
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:we saw that on the, on that same
right side, the pelvis was elevated.
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:Um, so again, same, you
can use the ruler as well.
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:You can do it by eye as well.
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:I like to take pictures.
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:with client's consent, of course, just
they're involved in the process as
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:well, so they can see what's going on.
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:Um, and we could see that it
was, if you like, on the side of
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:everybody, it was, the shoulder
was down and the pelvis was up.
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:So we had some short tissues here,
and then I used my biomechanical,
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:okay, what muscles are bridging that
gap, what muscles could be pulling
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:you into that position, um, uh,
and kind of, we then go from there.
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:With yourself, Sal, this wasn't the case,
but it can be the case with many people.
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:It is, cause I know you're, super open
to it based on your own past experience,
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:but it, one of the things, and again, if
I speak to, more conventional therapists,
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:they're all going back, um, uh, the
view, people say, Oh, what does, I'm
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:a big believer in the hands on work.
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:And, um, many people say, well,
you can't change anything.
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:And.
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:Well, they're probably right
from a pure physiological.
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:If you've got a tandem with
degeneration, can I change that?
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:Well, no, not really,
not certainly not there.
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:And then maybe we can over
time if things improve.
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:But, um, what you can do certainly is say
you have a belief, um, and a belief that,
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:If you believe that your pain is
due to a damaged tendon, then, um,
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doing that would be to say, okay,
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:well, as much as we did with you,
just kind of reinforce that message.
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:Physiological healing time is six weeks.
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:So if you had damaged it, and we talk
about the original, mechanism of injury,
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:did anything go twang, snap or pop?
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:Now, if anything doesn't go twang, snap
or pop, we can be reasonably sure, um,
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:that nothing was wrong with it, really.
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:Um, it was, you know, the
pain started at some point.
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:The actual tissues were probably
very similar the day before.
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:and at the point where they,
they felt pain, there might've
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:been an increased load.
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:And key thing is there might've
been an increase, we call it
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:increased stress, maybe might've
been a nicer way of framing it.
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:because increased stress suggests
increased physical stress, which
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:absolutely can be a factor, but
increased emotional stress as well.
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:And that can be a factor.
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:Um, so yeah, correcting those.
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:those beliefs that aren't, helpful.
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:Um, and it's all good and well saying
that and me coming out with my spiel
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:and stuff that I believe based on pain
science experience and biomechanics.
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:But then the hands on work for me is
invaluable in that if I release, and
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:you might intellectually, and you were
on the same page straight away Sal, of
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:course, but intellectually you get what
I'm saying, but if I can use my hands,
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:use the techniques that I've got to then
make you feel a difference there and then.
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:then you start to believe.
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:And what we've done there is we've
effect a mental change and that
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:change happens there and then.
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:And I think that's the most
kind of powerful way to work.
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:Sal: Yeah.
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:That's just so interesting.
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:And thanks for elaborating that.
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:So, uh, just for a bit of extra
context for, for our listener.
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:Um, I've had this ongoing shoulder
pain for more than a year now.
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:I train a lot.
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:As you listen regularly, you'll know, I
do a lot of training, weight training,
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:The shoulder just did not want to work
and, and the things that never healed.
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the rotator cuffs, um, and when I spoke to
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:Jamie, as he's alluded to, you know, it's,
it's not quote unquote attendant problem.
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:This is something else in the system.
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:And of course, peaks my interest because
when I look at systemic change in people,
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:like, Oh yes, that's, of course, I
see this in the mental side of things.
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:Um, but yeah, I think one of the
experiences you led to there, and
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:I want to name is the distinction
between beliefs and experience.
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:I know for a fact that it's
really hard to challenge beliefs.
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:It's what I do on a daily basis.
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:I've challenged people's beliefs
to help them change, but we believe
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:what we believe, and they're sticky.
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:They're really sticky beliefs, and the
way our predictive brain works, it needs
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:to have, trust and, uh, evidence in, in
quite good measure to update that belief.
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:So if you don't really trust
the person you're telling, who's
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:saying, Hey, you haven't got any
pain in the shoulder, really.
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:It's probably something else.
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:If you don't trust them,
you're not going to buy it.
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:But if you don't have an experience,
a valid experiential, whether you
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:feel different, you see different,
whatever it is, then again,
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interesting what you said.
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:the experiential change by your hands
on work, the naming of the potential,
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:like is this a belief issue as well?
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:And I've seen other people
with these, quote, problems and
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:they don't ever get resolved.
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:And of course I'm scratching
my head thinking, well, is that
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:an emotional pattern for you?
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:And just to note, I used to do a bit
more of the therapeutic side of my
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:And I had a physio friend back in
the day and he sometimes referred
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:people to me who he could not treat.
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:They kept coming back with,
Oh, I still got a hip problem.
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:Um, my hip flexors, you know,
firing badly or something like that.
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:And he was smart enough to
know that, yeah, this is
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conversation around it.
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:What's been going on with you?
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:What's in your backstory?
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:Well, what, you know, tell me
something in confidence and I'd hear
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:something about an echo from trauma,
um, a difficult time, something
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:that's happened to this individual.
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:and quote unquote, it was
expressing through the body.
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:So I think if you're listening
now and you've got some physical
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:Is this more than just a
niggly knee or tricky back?
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:Is there something else going on?
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:So now we've uncovered that, Jamie.
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:What else?
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:So pain really interests me
because pain is fascinating.
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:It's in the nervous system.
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:Um, it's, it's, it's very complex
and you understand it very well.
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:But what is pain?
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:Let's understand what is pain.
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:So those of us who experience
headaches, backaches, whatever
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:it is, what are we experiencing?
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:Jamie Webb: Wow.
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:the book's written on
this cell, so thank you.
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:Um, so what is pain?
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:so There's lots of, different, uh,
Theories, I guess, on what pain is,
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:really, and you'd think there'd be an
absolute answer and there really isn't.
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:Um, so, obviously, you've got the pain
where you've just, you know, walked
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:into the drawers at home and banged
your shin, which is pretty damn painful.
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:Um, and it's a And that, that's a very
physical, uh, stimulus and I think
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science, neuroscience short, and, and
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:summarize a lot of the theories and, and
a lot of the, um, um, books that I read.
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I use and I haven't got them right
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um, I'll kind of summarize them.
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idea that, pain, is protection.
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:Pain is a threat.
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:Um, so it's, it, you know, there's,
um, uh, fascinating, the work
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interested in following this further,
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organisms model, which is basically
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:that if you look at a single cell and
a single cell, if there's a noxious
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:stimulus to a single cell, it knows
to go in the opposite direction.
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likes, it knows to go towards that.
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I'm reading at the moment, The Biology
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:of Belief by Bruce Lipton, another
fabulous book, which is a microbiologist
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into detail, microbiology detail, um,
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and they know what's bad for them.
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:Now, Louis Gifford's work on the, um,
mature organisms, model, as in, in a much
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:bigger organisms than single cellular,
which I think, we, very much, qualify in
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:Pain is, is, is trying
to tell us something.
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:It's trying to tell us to,
to move away from something.
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:Now, in the, in the, in the, you know, the
drawers, walking into the drawers, it's
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:It's a very, very simple mechanism.
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:Um, you, you know, you, you, you fall
off, you step off a curb and you, and
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:you, and you roll your ankle and the
pain is there to tell you stop it.
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:It's, it's a mechanism to,
to try and jerk that back.
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:And hopefully the pain is there
as protection as designed to get
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:Now, sometimes you go too far and, and
you know, maybe you're off balance.
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:That's when you're sprained ankle,
you'll get the inflammation.
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:Now, that's easy if you've just
broken your leg and all these
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still holds true for that as
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pain plays in terms of if there is
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:damaged tissues, which we've alluded
to previously, then there's a response.
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pain, um, uh, bracket, which is
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:actually being re rebranded at the
moment to persistent pain, which
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anything longer than six weeks.
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getting into the, the more
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:and in, in its case of what, what
is there, what is, what is pain?
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:It's just telling us something
in our life needs to change.
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an example, Sal, which is a really
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we're going to go slightly off tangent
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it's always the case of what, what was,
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:what was the, what was going on for you
when, when that, when that pain started?
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the load in your training?
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:Were you a little bit run down at
the time, which can be a factor.
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:Had you been ill, for example, there's
a massive correlation between your
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been, um, you know, stressing you out,
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:And these things are, they can
be conscious as the example, but
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the more kind of hidden stuff, which
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:We don't necessarily hold ourselves tense,
um, uh, in, in certain areas on purpose.
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are reasons for that.
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emotional trauma, emotional stress.
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where does PTSD, for example, post
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crossover between stress and trauma?
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is, is held in, in, in different
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lobe or whatever it's called.
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reflected in our body over time.
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current example, I, I, um, I started
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:I'm pretty sore today.
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classes for a little while.
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control back and just work on my
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:And I was really preaching the gym I was
working at previously didn't have mirrors
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this one does have mirrors.
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:I thought, you know, you can imagine me.
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:I'm a very much a form geek,
much like yourself, self style
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:when we're, when we're training.
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:And I was just doing my shoulder
press in the mirror and just.
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:you know, that childlike curiosity
that I have about everything.
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:And I was just looking at how
my ribcage was expanding as I
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:was doing the shoulder press.
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:And on the left side, it was really
opening nicely, possibly too much.
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:Um, and on the right side, it
was really kind of locked down.
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:I'm like, Ooh, Oh, I didn't know
that, where's that come from?
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:And me being me, I was like, Oh,
is that from a previous injury?
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:Or is that from, some old stuff or
the et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
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:So, um, I appreciate I've just gone off
on a tangent there a little bit, but
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:hopefully that, uh, goes, uh, in some
way to answering your original question.
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:Sal: you.
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:Yes.
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:And it's such a huge field.
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:We don't, uh, we respect the fact
that we're sort of giving the entry
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:level sound, you know, sort of just,
just understanding around pain.
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:If you want to go deeper.
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:Yes, we can leave some links in
the show notes to Louis Gifford.
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:But, um, but pain is interesting.
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:You're absolutely right, isn't it?
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:It's information in many ways.
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:It's a signal, it's a frequency, and
it's an intense frequency that one would
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:hear, and, you know, there's a lot of,
there's a, I think a cliché term that if
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:you don't listen to the whispers in your
body, you'll hear it when it screams,
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:and in some ways that's quite true.
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:I see these cases with people, yeah,
you probably see it, I see it with
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:burnout cases, where people are
working so hard and pushing so hard.
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:And I might be coaching this individual
and I'm like, okay, so you know where
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:this pathway is going, don't you?
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:And I'll, I'll name him, but
the pain, uh, can be superseded.
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:Our brain is very, very capable of
superseding physical and emotional
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:pain if we perceive it's important.
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:And I think this is one I
want to talk to you about.
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:I don't know if this is in your space,
but The meaning we make out of things,
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:and I'm very interested in this field
of semiotics, which is the blend of
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:looking at emotions, affects, you know,
how we think and feel about something.
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:Uh, what they mean, because
meaning is everything to humans.
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:We, we are meaning creatures.
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:So if it means something to
us, like, do we love someone or
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:do we care about, it matters.
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:So the meaning pain has for an
individual, which is whether
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:it's psychological or physical.
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:And if we stay with physical for
your experiences, what does it mean?
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:I think that's a really intriguing
question that we can get into
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:because if it's a, as you say,
persistent pain, like my shoulders,
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:persistent pain, what does it mean?
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:So I'm going to be honest here.
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:What does it mean?
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:I'm going to just say this
straight off the cuff.
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:Uh, it's holding me back.
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:Uh, it's stopping me from training.
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:It's annoying me.
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:So I'm actually very resistant to this.
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:Now, if I put my sort of, let's say
Eastern understanding filter on, I'm
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:really, and I've said this a million
times, resistance is suffering.
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:Whatever we resist, it is suffering.
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:So I'm resisting what's going on.
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:And hence, uh, there's probably a
tightness in my architecture of my body.
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:There's a tenseness in my
thinking, thinking as well.
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:Um, And you alluded to already
about if we're holding ourselves a
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:particular way and we don't know,
that's, that's really intriguing.
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:So what meaning are you seeing the, uh,
whether it's me or with other people,
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:what meaning do you see come out of like,
what does pay mean for this individual?
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:What, what kind of themes are you
seeing in it with your clients?
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:Jamie Webb: Yeah, sure.
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:I mean, I think, um, and again, that
goes back to a point I mentioned
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:earlier and it being completely
unique for every individual.
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:I think if we, maybe expand on your
one, Sal, and then, and then maybe
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:move into some other examples that, uh,
just crop up for me as we're chatting.
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:Um, I think in your case, I love
your honesty and the frustration
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:and resilience that, you know, the
resistance and that's, uh, very classic.
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:And I'm sure that will resonate
with, with the listeners.
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:Um, but for you, the bigger picture
is the, you, you, you love training
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:and it is, it's the fear of what
you're missing out on and, and,
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:kind of on a, on a deeper level.
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:from our conversations and I'm sure
you've, you, you, you've spoken
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:about this before, it's important
to your mental wellbeing as well.
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:Um, you know, it might, it might even
be important to your social wellbeing,
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:you know, um, when you, um, when you
go training, you might meet friends at
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:the gym or, you know, you might have.
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:coffee with someone afterwards.
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:So it becomes a big part of your life and
going back to our previous, discussion on,
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:what pain is, um, you know, that threat
and that protection, if there's a threat
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:that, Oh my God, let's take a runner's
cause I know runners get, a lot from this
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:and the catastrophization, which I'm sure
you've spoken about on previous, podcasts.
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:But you know, the brain will quickly
go to, Oh, this Achilles problem.
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:Am I going to be able to do my race?
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:I'm going to be able to run a PB.
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:Um, am I, am I, uh, and then I'm
not, what happens if I can't run?
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:And if I, and if I can't run, um, I'm not
going to be seeing my running friends.
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:And if I don't, what am I
going to do with myself?
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:And, and, and running is really
important for my mental mental health.
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:And, and then I'm just going to go insane.
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:And, you know, I intentionally picked
up my pace in my, in my voice there
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:to just, you know, try and give a
sense of what happens in our brains.
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:And we all do it.
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:Um, it's just kind of
catching yourself doing it and
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:noticing that you're doing it.
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:and then just taking that, that,
that step back, I think, I think
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:is, is, is really important.
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:So.
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:Yeah, I think, I think I pretty
much covered a lot of the bases
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:there, really, just in one
example and projecting on there.
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:Sal: I Yeah.
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:I was going to have
one more layer to that.
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:So yeah, absolutely.
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:There are these implications
of what, what does it mean?
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:And it means I can't do this.
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:Can't do that.
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:Maybe see friends, uh, let's say,
and I know runners and they put a
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:lot of work in to get to their race.
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:And then suddenly if there's a, you
know, an Achilles or a problem, ah,
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:What I also notice is, let's go another
level deeper, particularly this is
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:my lens of work, is it's about your
identity, who you are as a person.
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:So I identify with training like,
trying training like an athlete,
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:and that's how I identify.
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:So if I cannot do that, that's, that's,
uh, potentially taking away a piece of my
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:identity, which I care very much about.
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:because we, we hold our identity close.
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:So I wonder, and of course this
sort of slips into the realm of
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:different archetypal patterns or
what we call parts in psychology.
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:Uh, inner family systems is another model,
but the aspects of self, you know, one
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:self wants to be training, one self is
feeling a bit sore, wants to hide away.
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:And I think this is where
I see the disconnection.
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:And this is why I'm interested to talk
to you about another layer about this
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:disconnection between mind and body.
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:or between the parts of ourself and it
seems to be for some of us we can get an
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:injury because we're disconnected from
our body like forcing the body to do
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:something when perhaps it doesn't want
to or the other way is not giving your
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:body the conditions of say exercise and
activity and it's becoming redundant so
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:that disconnection I see is a problem
what what is there anything you're seeing
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:with disconnection in people's bodies and
their in their thinking self their feeling
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:self that that presents in a problem
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:Jamie Webb: Yeah, I think, oh
gosh, this is another big one, Sal.
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:And, uh, so, uh, if I get too
detailed, do, uh, do pull me out.
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:Um, I think there's, there's, there's two
things that immediately spring to mind.
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:I'll, I'll start on, on, on the first one.
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:I'm fascinated by, um, the, the
catastrophization example I just gave.
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:would be more on a, an anxious spectrum.
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:so someone who more associates with
anxiety, um, we talk about, um, uh, body,
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:body anxiety as, as, as a thing, um, you
know, that fear of what they've done to
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:themselves and, and that, and that kind of
thing, there's also, kind of like a bodily
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:disassociation as well, that can happen.
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:And, that is, I think, where I say,
I think, because I really don't know.
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:Um and obviously it's unique for everyone,
but it's kind of like, you have the
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:mental capacity, and going back to you
probably because it's important for your
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:self worth and your overall, this is who
I am that you alluded to, but you have
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:that ability to push through anything.
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:Um, and we're talking pain
here and, and we all have that.
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:if you've just run a 26 mile marathon,
you're absolutely on your knees.
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:Um, and a lion leaps out at
you, what are you going to do?
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:You're going to run faster than
you've ever run in your life.
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:Um, you know, there's that, I forget
the name, it was 127 hours, something
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:like that movie where a guy got trapped
in the outback in Australia and he, he
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:sawed his own arm off with a rusty pen
knife because that was any sort, he
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:said it felt a bit weird, but he didn't
feel pain because his brain had decided
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:that in order to keep him alive, it was
more important that he didn't feel pain.
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:So, uh, absolutely fascinating.
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:Now going back to the disassociation.
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:I think, um, and I put, um, a lot
of Olympic athletes in this bracket.
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:I'd also put them in a lot of them
in the anxiety bracket as well.
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:it varies from person to person, but
you can go through things to a point.
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:and I've seen a lot of people over time
where they have that ability, their
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:overall goal for whatever that might be,
Olympic gold, self worth, mental health,
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:even, you know, trying to, um, you know,
personally, if I've got any mental health
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:issues, I'm prone to over training myself.
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:Um, I've been, been there, got the
t shirt many, many, many times.
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:Um, so, but what you find with that
disassociation is when the pain
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:does start creeping in, when you
don't, when you don't seem able
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:to zone out from it anymore, then
there's quite a big kind of drop off.
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:and actually a lot of people I've
seen who've previously done that then
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:turn in the other way and become very
anxious all of a sudden because they're
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:like, I can't control this anymore.
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:You know, my usual
strategies aren't working.
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:And, and, uh, Um, so yes, in quite a
few interesting cases, like that over
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:the years, and it's almost, you've got
to rebuild that confidence in the body,
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:and, and in, and in the, in the self
and, and in sometimes you, you do have
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:to address the underlying, okay, why
were they doing that in the first place?
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:and that, self worth, I keep
referring to the big one for myself
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:and, and, and a lot of us, I think.
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:Um, And so sometimes getting people
like yourself on board, I have
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:a, uh, you know, um, uh, I have
some very clever friends as well.
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:If, if in the physical work, we
do pick out something a little bit
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:more, emotional, mental, then I have
people that I can refer to as well.
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:Hmm.
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:Sal: I mean a caveat for me and I'll
be really, uh, vulnerable and honest
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:here, but one of the reasons I train
is originally it's, it's kind of
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:less lessons it's charged now, but
originally was because I hated feeling
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:weak and it's a really, uh, revealing
statement about sort of my psyche.
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:But.
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:The feeling of weakness, uh, and I have
an autoimmune condition, which sometimes,
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:uh, will pull me down and crush me.
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:The, the feeling of weakness
is abhorrent for me.
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:It's been a challenge.
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:I've done loads of therapy
on it and it's a lot of work.
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:It's a lot better for sure.
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:And I'm in a lot better place,
but that's the truth of it.
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:And if anyone has Bernie Brown, the very
well famous, uh, shame researcher, you
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:know, a lot of her work and other people's
too, would point out to, particularly
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:for a man, weakness equals shame.
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:So it can be that as a, certainly
if you're a man and you're
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:training really hard and are you
training to get away from that?
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:Now, of course, the flip of it as well,
just to be on the positive, that I train
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:for fun because there's a playful side in
me and I love to move and play because.
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:Hell, I feel like a kid again.
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:It's brilliant.
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:Certainly a north of 50.
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:It's lovely to be able to feel
childlike and youthful and vigorous.
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:So it's about seeing these sides.
587
:And I think that's the work I
do a lot of self work for sure.
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:And I see it with my clients, but Look at
the shadow and look at the light because
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:both of them are probably part of the, uh,
driving mechanisms behind why you might
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:overtrain, why you might push through
something, um, or why you might be stuck.
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:And if you don't look at that,
that psychological architecture,
592
:it's like it's driving the bus,
as the old expression goes.
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:Now I want to touch on something here
that you mentioned about, perhaps
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:like, athletes who may have had a
difficulty and they've slid down into
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:maybe more of an anxiety type response.
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:If we think of the four Fs, flow,
fight, flight, and freeze, you know,
597
:the two sides of the nervous system,
fight and flight, sympathetic,
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:flow and freeze, parasympathetic.
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:What I often see is that there's a,
um, it's like a navigation point.
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:We're, we're neurologically somewhere in
that response and they're all healthy.
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:If we are appropriately
responding to, stimulus.
602
:But if you've been in fight response
a lot, like pushing towards something,
603
:working really hard, so there's forward
motion and you have an injury or you have
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:an autoimmune condition like I do, and
like suddenly you can't train, it can
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:slide you down into that anxiety place.
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:Or for me, sometimes it's a shutdown.
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:Like it's a retractionism, what the
word, people use the word depression,
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:but I would call it shutdown.
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:It's the shutdown state.
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:And, and I think that's because I've
my nervous system is responding to the
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:experience and the meaning I'm giving it.
612
:Do you work with polyvagal theory
in your work to some degree?
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:Jamie Webb: Very much so, Sal.
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:My head had already gone there
as you, as you were chatting.
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:Yeah.
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:Sal: Great.
617
:So if we use this lens, and I really love
this lens because it's super easy to get.
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:We've got flow state when we're
feeling socially engaged, we feel
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:confident, we're really, you know,
life's just frictionless, it's lovely.
620
:Fight state is in, it's not
act, not, not aggression.
621
:We're talking about moving towards
problems, you know, solving
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:problems, going towards the issue.
623
:Heavyweight training, boxing, CrossFit,
you know, that's often fight state.
624
:All good.
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:Flight state is generally
moving away from the problem.
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:So on the positive, it's like, yeah, I
need to, to put the weights down now.
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:I need to go home now.
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:Or flight state negative is like,
I don't want to deal with it.
629
:Ah, you know, anxiety
chasing you down the road.
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:And of course, Um, freeze state and
it's, and it's more, it's positive realm.
631
:It's like you need to quiet down,
like put the weights down, go
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:have a, go have a massage, go
home, read a book, be quiet, rest.
633
:And that's the sort of more
positive quality of it.
634
:It's darker quality is, is more of a
depression quality, which you've already
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:suggested you've been down that road.
636
:Uh, I know that it's worst state
is, is trauma, you know, when
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:there's other qualities to it.
638
:So what are you seeing when people come
into your, into your, into your space
639
:and they've got some stuff going on?
640
:Do you see them mapping through
one of these neurological spaces?
641
:Jamie Webb: Yeah.
642
:Yeah.
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:And I, and I think, um, you know,
I've been, doing this, for, it's going
644
:to be 20 years, in August for me.
645
:so when you've, um, been lucky enough to,
um, spend time with, I don't know, people.
646
:3, 4, 5, 000 people, in,
in, in close proximity.
647
:you have a unique insight,
into, into the human condition.
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:And, I think it got to a point
probably about five years ago where
649
:I meet the person for the first time
in the, in, in the reception area.
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:And I take one look at them and
I kind of know where they're at.
651
:I'm sure other professionals in my line
of work and particularly, obviously even
652
:more so in, in, in the psychotherapy
realm, we'll have the similar experience.
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:Now that's our initial judgment.
654
:And we, which is useful and it's,
it's instinctive for people like us.
655
:but we've also got to be, wise that
that's our initial, um, indication.
656
:I think it's usually pretty accurate.
657
:But that's our judgment and we have to
remember that is, that is a judgment.
658
:Um, and then we need to
modify that as we go.
659
:Um, but I think I, you know, the,
the, the reason I, I love Parley Vagel
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:theory is, is because it, it talks
about our nervous system is just one
661
:nervous system, at the end of the day.
662
:And.
663
:all aspects of those flight,
flight free social, engagement
664
:are active at any one time.
665
:Um, and, and, and, and the, the, the
best example I always use is, um, sex.
666
:Um, and it was the example that
was, given to me when I was
667
:first introduced to the concept.
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:And it's, you know, there's,
there's aspects of all parts
669
:of the nervous system in there.
670
:There's the obvious kind of, arousal,
which, is that kind of, excitement, that
671
:fight or flight kind of, sorry, the,
the fight, I guess, really, in terms of
672
:what, what's going on, you're coming up.
673
:Um, then, um, you also need that kind
of, Clearly social engagement as you,
674
:look longingly into your partner's eyes.
675
:but also there's that slight, the rep
reptilian part of polyvagal theory that we
676
:talk about, the passiveness, which again,
in is extreme form is depression, in that
677
:you are, you are letting someone in your,
your being passive, um, and allowing
678
:someone to share your body as well.
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:And that's just a really
nice example of how.
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:just in one example of life
that all parts of our nervous
681
:system are working together.
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:Um, and obviously the, you know, that's
in different states at any one time, but
683
:going back to your original question.
684
:And then that initial, uh, kind of
judgment as we, we, we, we were kind
685
:of accurately saying on the person
is you, you, you make a judgment in
686
:terms of where they're more dominant
on any given, um, uh, position.
687
:So, you know, if, if I meet someone
and like, yeah, I'm absolutely
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:fine, Jamie, there's no problem.
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:That stress is absolutely fine.
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:I've got no issues at all.
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:You kind of know that they're a little
bit, they're a little bit flighty, uh,
692
:at the moment and if, if their demeanor,
and again, this probably comes across on
693
:the, on the video version, not so much
so, and I'll try and do the voice as well
694
:for the people just listening on audio.
695
:But if, oh yeah, I'm,
yeah, I, yeah, I'm here.
696
:So I'm sorry.
697
:From existence, I've got this problem.
698
:Sorry to trouble you, sorry
for the, sorry, sorry, sorry.
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:that, you know, they're more
on a, on a, on a depressive
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:end, end of the scale there.
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:And, and so you immediately pick
up on, on, on those nuances.
702
:And then once we sit down and chat
to 'em, get to know them, we get
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:to know a little bit more about the
detail, possibly the reasons why.
704
:Um, get to understand them,
get to understand, um, how.
705
:Um, how they are right now, maybe
that was just an initial, coyness or
706
:a little kind of anxiety and meeting
someone, or if there's some more kind
707
:of, um, uh, underlying, underlying work.
708
:And of course, from, from my
perspective, um, how that, how
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:that shows up in their body.
710
:Um, because every, every emotion
has a physical representation.
711
:So if you spend a long time in an emotion,
that will, you know, shut down some
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:parts of your body, maybe open up others.
713
:And, that will, undoubtedly, be one
of the things that's holding you in
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:a, pain pattern from, from my work.
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:Sal: Yeah, so interesting, isn't it?
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:And I think that's something, uh, which
I'm, I'm hoping as, uh, as a listener,
717
:we can take away because something as
simple as what's the shape of your body?
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:How are you carrying yourself right now?
719
:So if you're sitting, are you
collapsed at your shoulders?
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:Is your ribcage depressed?
721
:You know, is your chin tucked down?
722
:What does that feel like?
723
:And if we think about technology
use, particularly a phone, most
724
:phone use invokes an anxiety
slash depression like response.
725
:It's quite timid, it's
collapsed in the chest.
726
:There's, there's a lot of
sort of inwardness to it.
727
:And of course, using a phone is
a very abstract thing rather than
728
:experiential thing that's around you.
729
:So the shape of your body, your
body language, and it's a space I've
730
:worked with quite a few people, like
to change their body language in a
731
:way that's going to change how they
present in the world and actually
732
:often present in front of people is
just as important as the psychology.
733
:In fact, in often in many times more
so because it's embodied, right?
734
:It's an embodied cognitive state.
735
:So what I find interesting is that we
can get very familiar with these states.
736
:I've seen it in my practice.
737
:It sounds like you're seeing it.
738
:We get identified with, and
we often say it, don't we?
739
:You know, I'm an anxious person or
I have anxiety or I have depression.
740
:And I'm not going to say that's not true.
741
:That's not what I'm saying.
742
:But I'm saying if we overly identify,
it becomes quite a familiar place.
743
:Whether we want that or not, it becomes
a familiar and we have to be very careful
744
:of the homeostatic Gravity of the human
system, we, we gravitate to homeostasis
745
:and sometimes if it's been misaligned
because of life, life's been tough to
746
:you, your upbringing's been tough, your,
your gravity point might be a depressed
747
:quality because of the circumstances of
your life or an anxious because you've
748
:been around threats all of your life, so
we're not saying that it's wrong, you're
749
:not having it, but if you're overly
biased into that space, It does suggest
750
:there's opportunity to step into this
other, let's say, neurological, emotional
751
:states of, and hands up, so another
absolute raw example, you know, I, I,
752
:when I grew up, I, I hated fighting and
there was problems at school when I was
753
:young, uh, difficulties in my upbringing.
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:In more recent years, in fact
last year, I started boxing.
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:which is hilarious because I'm
like, I'm going to hit someone,
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:I'm going to hit things.
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:And I am not, not that far
down the road yet, but there
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:is permission to be aggressive.
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:There's permission for the fight state.
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:And I think as a, as a modality
growing of certainly my system, taking
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:an anxious person and giving them
a fight state in safe, controlled
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:environment is a very healthy thing.
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:Because if you've always had to back
down, if you've always been at threat,
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:You need to turn the tables somehow.
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:So we're not saying go and punch people.
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:That's not what I'm saying at all.
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:I'm saying go get a safe way to understand
fight for someone else's weight training.
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:A heavyweight movement invokes
you have to be aggressive with
769
:it, you have to really go for it.
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:But if you're going through it
with a conscious state, what I
771
:find is you're giving yourself
permission to change state.
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:And perhaps the person who's got a bit
too much aggression because of their,
773
:again, their life story is taken that way.
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:Then how can we help you
back off a little bit?
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:How can we help you find a bit
more safety without having to, you
776
:know, uh, be overly fight statey?
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:So, balance is seemingly the need.
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:We need to be able to go reflexively
into these states as appropriate,
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:hopefully come out of them
when they're not appropriate.
780
:And, um, yeah, it's a big, it's a
big thing that I love to work with
781
:because I've been through, uh, years
of, uh, being in an anxious space and
782
:then going to the flow state in yoga,
just been totally zenned out state.
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:And now I actually am okay.
784
:I mean, it was, it was the more
heavy training disciplines.
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:and the psychological work which
I've done has helped me like,
786
:yeah, stand up for yourself.
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:It's okay.
788
:You can do that.
789
:And then there's that real,
ah, I feel more balanced now.
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:Jamie Webb: Yeah,
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:I think it's, um, oh, very much so.
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:Everything you said.
793
:Um, and I think, adaptability,
um, is the, is the key.
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:Having the ability to, move in and
around all of those nervous system states
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:that we were, we were talking about.
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:Yeah, I often talk about in this
very room here, where you are on a
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:theoretical, the floors kind of like.
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:And the, you know, that massive, we're
all on a sliding scale somewhere in there.
799
:We don't know exactly where it is.
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:It's a theoretical scale.
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:Um, but when we're up here or down
there, we get stuck and actually, um, we.
802
:Um, we, you know, we, getting into
the gab or matte stuff, we are, all of
803
:our decisions are, um, based, based on
keeping our nervous system in the same
804
:way that it's because it is accustomed
to, you know, our, our, our choice of
805
:our jobs, the choice of our partners,
the choice, these, these choices
806
:we make, which we think are active,
conscious, uh, choices, but, and they
807
:are, but they, they, managed to keep us.
808
:in, in the way to which we've
become accustomed from a
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:nervous system perspective.
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:So, coming to change, it's about spending
more time in those different states
811
:that you alluded to, uh, Sal, and, and,
and just to bring it back to my field
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:in terms of the, um, the, the, the
tissue side, the physical side, and it's
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:that, Uh, adaptability of the tissues.
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:Can the tissues adapt?
815
:Yeah, you can slump, and then you
go, you know, up in the air, um,
816
:but can you be everywhere in between
that at the appropriate time?
817
:I think that's the, that's the really
important, really, really important work.
818
:And I think also, um, We've kind of
mentioned around this already, but the,
819
:and then this doesn't happen for, for, for
all of my client by, by any stretch, but,
820
:um, the number of times I've, I've seen
people when I've done some physical work,
821
:where we're working on something that's a
little bit sticky, the, the, the evokes a
822
:specific emotion I've had people say, Oh,
Jamie, that's my anxiety right there, or,
823
:Oh, um, that reminds me of this memory.
824
:Oh, that's making me feel a bit, a
bit funny in the tummy, my, my, my
825
:adrenal glands going, and you can
even trace that in, in certain people,
826
:if, if their, their minds work that
way, um, to very specific events.
827
:Um, now, obviously, if we've more
traumatized people, you have to
828
:be careful, not to re traumatize
them, which, which is possible.
829
:but, uh, as I've got more
experience with that, what I've,
830
:what I've realized is that.
831
:actually, if I'm in tune and listening
to what they and their body are
832
:telling me, I'm watching for the signs.
833
:I'm feeling with my hands, my
fingers, um, then nothing comes out
834
:that isn't ready to, to come out.
835
:which is really lovely, place
that, for me, to be able to say
836
:that, it's taken a lot of effort
and a lot of hard work and, to, to
837
:Sal: Well,
838
:Jamie Webb: that.
839
:Sal: I've been on the table
mate, so I can testify.
840
:Which is so cool.
841
:So there's so much in this space.
842
:Um, of course we, we don't
have all the time in the world
843
:to share this, but we do.
844
:You know, for me, and obviously Jamie,
when you and I have spoken, you know,
845
:outside of this, this conversation and
today, it feels like if we can see the
846
:connections between our psychological
architecture, who we think we are,
847
:beliefs, all those things, our emotional
experience, how do we feel, our
848
:neurological state, like Where am I?
849
:Do I feel safe?
850
:Do I feel like I'm going to
move towards the problem?
851
:Do I want to get out of here?
852
:Do I want to just shut down?
853
:This self awareness grows and expresses
physiologically in the muscles,
854
:in the tissues, in the fascia, in
the movement patterns that we see.
855
:And.
856
:If my dear listener, you are in pain,
struggling, you know, you've got some
857
:physical stuff going on or you're,
you know, sort of tapping on my door
858
:and you think it's more psychological,
you need to go to both doors.
859
:You need to see Jamie, you need to see
someone like me because actually when we
860
:work on the whole system, and I'll cycle
back, this is one of my big hopes for
861
:the, for the sharing of this education.
862
:We are systemic creatures.
863
:We do not work in isolation.
864
:Thoughts affect the physiology and
the physiology affects the thoughts.
865
:And it's one ecosystem
of impact and influence.
866
:So if you're having issues,
make sure you're speaking to
867
:someone who understands this.
868
:more nuanced and integrated
approach because it's likely to
869
:be happening for you as it was
for me as it is for many of us.
870
:Jamie, I'd like to summarize
for, for this conversation.
871
:What are the final thoughts you might
share about how one might think about
872
:their dealing with their physical
self and their, you know, their
873
:psychological self that you see?
874
:What's, what's some of the things you'd
like to finish on a sharing point for us?
875
:Jamie Webb: Yeah, I think I'd like to
finish on a message of hope, really.
876
:and again, I'm, I'm, I'm sure
I know we've both been there.
877
:So, and, and, in, in those hopeless
situations and, and, and it's driven,
878
:what we've done and, people get into
this stuff for purely self interest.
879
:Let's be honest.
880
:but, yeah, it's, it's, if
something's not working for you,
881
:you're the captain of the ship.
882
:And, um, we've all had tough
things that have gone on in our
883
:lives and some more than others.
884
:and I've been relatively lucky in my
life and, obviously a lot of people
885
:have shared a lot of things with me on
the treatment couch just over there.
886
:so I've got a, an array of, uh,
an idea of, of what, you know,
887
:the world looks like, out there.
888
:So It's just, trying different things
and if you're not happy with where you
889
:are right now, do something different.
890
:the, you alluded to, yeah,
see both of us, obviously.
891
:and if it doesn't work with
either of us, see someone else.
892
:there's, there's always,
different options out there.
893
:myself and Sal, we, we love what we do
and we're always, continually learning.
894
:There's always more stuff out there.
895
:Um, But it's fascinating that sometimes
the, um, the emphasis might need to
896
:be more emotional, and psychological.
897
:And sometimes the emphasis might
need to be more, more physical.
898
:sometimes I've had people say,
People who've done a whole raft of,
899
:psychological work on themselves.
900
:And, I just do a few, a few of my party
tricks and all of a sudden they're reborn
901
:and it's almost like it's too easy.
902
:Sal: Yeah,
903
:Jamie Webb: And then, you know, the
flip side is that, you know, maybe
904
:I, the person I alluded to earlier
where, it's not their knee, it's
905
:the whole life that's the problem.
906
:And I'm, I'm beavering away.
907
:I'm doing my usual things, looking at
the whole body, trying to address the
908
:biomechanics and their body's just not.
909
:releasing in the way that I want to
despite my my best intentions and and
910
:and for those people, you know something
They need to do something, differently,
911
:they, they need to, address the, the,
the, the psychological aspect as a way
912
:in, um, and then, you know, everything in
between where if you can work in parallel
913
:with the psychological and the physical,
um, at the same time, and one, might
914
:open up another, which is, uh, is, is,
is the truth as, as, as far as I see it.
915
:Um, in terms of, um, you know,
uh, what, what can we do?
916
:Um, what would be my, my
tip from a physical level?
917
:And you're going to love this song.
918
:That song hasn't paid me for
this, by the way, listeners.
919
:I, I breath work.
920
:is, is, is, is, is not
the answer to everything.
921
:but even from a biomechanical
perspective, it is very much
922
:at the source of everything.
923
:I won't bore you with details.
924
:If you want to look at the work
of the Anatomy Trains guys,
925
:I suggest you do that online.
926
:there's a little bit of
art on our website as well.
927
:So it kind of, for me, it works
on nervous system level as well.
928
:Um, like I say, biomechanically, continued
diaphragms, continues with the hip
929
:flexors, uh, and ramifications, onwards.
930
:really holding myself
back on detail there.
931
:So yeah, so certainly, that would
be, a take on that message of hope,
932
:um, the message of the connectedness
of the physicality and, and the,
933
:that emotional, Ability, uh, of
the, the, the body to physically
934
:store those, those, those emotions.
935
:and then breath work as a, as
a way, as a way of, as a nice
936
:all rounder, for all of us.
937
:we all have to breathe.
938
:when we breathe slower, we,
when breathe out more than we
939
:breathe in, it calms us down.
940
:When we breathe that in more than
we breathe out, it perks us up.
941
:There's a fundamental, there's
a fundamentality about that.
942
:Sal: yeah.
943
:Thank you, Jamie.
944
:Yeah, really nice.
945
:So many points.
946
:Yes, we are coming to the end of our show.
947
:Breathwork is an entire other subject.
948
:Bray and Jamie, maybe you'll come
back on and we'll talk biomechanics.
949
:Um, yes, I'm trained as a
950
:Breathwork, teacher.
951
:It is
952
:Jamie Webb: there you go.
953
:Sal: tool.
954
:Yeah, so, um, and actually I'll be putting
some content on my website soon, so if
955
:you're listening to this, have a quick
peep at the website, there's probably
956
:likely to be something on there, uh,
around the Breathwork piece, which you
957
:can hopefully dig into, so yeah, just
go to the website, look at the show
958
:notes, the details will be in there.
959
:Dear listener, as always, I say this
every time and I'll say it again,
960
:if something in this has piqued your
interest, caught your attention, rewind,
961
:write it down, use AI, don't make how
you do it, but capture the knowledge.
962
:and use it.
963
:It is yours to implement.
964
:I hope it changes something in your world
and I hope it changes something in, uh,
965
:in your thinking and your feeling as well.
966
:So Jamie, thank you for coming on and
sharing your utter brilliant wisdom today.
967
:We basically need an entire day
to unpack your mind, probably
968
:more, but it's, it's probably the
start point for, for our listener.
969
:Um, thank you so much, dear listener.
970
:Take care until the next one.
971
:I'll see you soon.