Artwork for podcast COACHED with Coach Keren
The Strength of Self-Compassion with Dr. Kristin Neff
Episode 5314th August 2025 • COACHED with Coach Keren • Keren Eldad
00:00:00 00:38:07

Share Episode

Shownotes

This week on Coached: Coaching Masters, Keren Eldad speaks with Dr. Kristin Neff, pioneering psychologist, associate professor at UT Austin, and author of Self-Compassion and Fierce Self-Compassion. Dr. Neff defined and measured the concept of self-compassion in academic literature, transforming how we relate to ourselves.

In this conversation, they explore:

  • Why self-compassion is stronger than self-esteem
  • The three components of self-compassion (mindfulness, kindness, common humanity)
  • Why self-compassion does not undermine motivation
  • The difference between compassion and pity
  • Fierce self-compassion and the power of mama bear energy
  • How self-compassion is the antidote to burnout

Dr. Neff shares personal stories of childhood abandonment, parenting her autistic son, and how her research has changed her life. If you struggle with perfectionism, burnout, or harsh self-criticism, this episode is a must-listen. And as is the point of this series – if you are a coach, speaker, author or teacher – then you cannot do what you do without the self compassion work. How about hearing about it straight from the woman who literally wrote the book?

Connect with Dr. Kristin Neff:

Website: self-compassion.org

Books: Self-Compassion and Fierce Self-Compassion

Mentioned in this episode:

Book a Call

Transcripts

This week on Coached: Coaching Masters, Keren Eldad speaks with Dr. Kristin Neff, pioneering psychologist, associate professor at UT Austin, and author of Self-Compassion and Fierce Self-Compassion. Dr. Neff defined and measured the concept of self-compassion in academic literature, transforming how we relate to ourselves.

In this conversation, they explore:

Why self-compassion is stronger than self-esteem

The three components of self-compassion (mindfulness, kindness, common humanity)

Why self-compassion does not undermine motivation

The difference between compassion and pity

Fierce self-compassion and the power of mama bear energy

How self-compassion is the antidote to burnout

Dr. Neff shares personal stories of childhood abandonment, parenting her autistic son, and how her research has changed her life. If you struggle with perfectionism, burnout, or harsh self-criticism, this episode is a must-listen. And as is the point of this series – if you are a coach, speaker, author or teacher – then you cannot do what you do without the self compassion work. How about hearing about it straight from the woman who literally wrote the book?

Connect with Dr. Kristin Neff:

Website: self-compassion.org

Books: Self-Compassion and Fierce Self-Compassion

Follow

Links

Chapters

Video

More from YouTube