Are you just a character in someone else’s book or are you holding the pen and writing your own story?  

In this episode,  I'm joined by Alexis (@intentionally.alexis) and we chat about all things healing in motherhood,  including self-worth, spiritual bypassing, and radical responsibility to finally get out of that victim mindset. 

Alexis Stearns is a healing mentor for moms who are ready to heal their birth trauma, break generational cycles, and enjoy motherhood. 

 This episode is a juicy one, we touch on sooo many themes including: 

• Creating and cultivating rhythm and ritual in your life 
• Unsubscribing from the patriarchal and masculine expectation to find balance 
• Looking at balance as a myth, instead striving for presence as our goal 
• Falling victim to this idea of destination  addiction  
• Who you are before the world got to you 
• Recognizing when your 'shoulding' on yourself 
• The ripple effect our healing has on future generations 
• How fitting in and belonging might lead to self abandonment 
• Taking radical responsibility in healing, looking at where you’re being the victim in your life 
• Importance of self worth in motherhood 

Want to work with Alexis?
Her signature course, Healing Birth Within is available here
Her FREE course to get started with healing can be found here
And on Wednesday May 24/23, Alexis is hosting a Inner Child Healing Workshop, details can be found here

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