Does one kiss matter?

My short answer is: yes.

Because the things we do every day–the mundane things that we hardly notice if at all—these tiny moments make more difference in your relationship than anything else. That is because of the power of compounding.

Today we’re talking about my favorite thing: making the invisible visible.

1. I’ll tell you a kissing story that happens in my mud room
2. We’ll talk about Alpha Centauri and the compounding power of invisibility
3. And I’ll offer you encouragement if you need some courage to be gentle

Habit for Your Happily Ever After

This week’s habit for your happily ever after is to go looking for your invisible rituals. You might not know about them because, after all, they are currently invisible.

But we can make them visible simply by looking for them.

Date Night Discussion

If you’ve looked at your invisible ritual and you realize you have your home’s equivalent to my mud room moment, I invite you to notice it aloud.

But what if you’ve looked at your invisible ritual and you realize you have that nothingness, or your ritual is more likely to be flavored badly than sweetly? If this is the case at your home, I don’t invite you to have a discussion about it.

Instead, I invite you to change it.

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