We often know what we believe and why we believe it... but how do we explain it to the watching world, to our kids when they are young, and to those we love, but haven't submitted to Christ yet? Daniel Trippie, founder of The Center for Christian Thought and Ethics tells us we don't have to sacrifice love or kindness as we explain truth.
In this conversation, Dan Trippie discusses the importance of Christian ethics, the challenges of parenting in today's culture, and the significance of goodness, truth, and beauty in shaping a believer's life. He explores how to engage with the world around us, the role of parents in guiding their children, and the necessity of understanding and participating in politics. Dan shares insights from his experiences in marriage and parenting, emphasizing the sacredness of family work and the need for Christians to present a compelling narrative of hope and redemption.
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They're the joyful agains our children.
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:the difficult agains of discipline.
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:So much of what we do
as mothers is on repeat.
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:So what if we woke up with clarity,
knowing which agains we were called to.
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:And went to bed believing we are
faithful in what matters most.
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:We believe God's word is
the key to untangle from the
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:confusion and overwhelm we feel.
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:Let's look up together to embrace a
motherhood full of freedom and joy.
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:Stephanie: Today I am so blessed
to be joined by Daniel Trippy.
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:He is the president and co-founder of
the Center for Christian Thought and
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:Ethics, where they are encouraging
believers to pursue goodness, truth,
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:and beauty in their thought life.
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:I was so grateful to meet you,
Dan, recently at a conference.
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:What stood out most to me is the way that
you winsomely explain your perspective.
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:And I know that you have years of
experience in the pulpit, but you're
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:a father and a grandfather now.
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:Correct.
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:Dan: I am.
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:Stephanie: I know that it's
on your heart to be equipping
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:believers of various generations.
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:And I thought, what a blessing
for moms to have your perspective
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:on how can we be wisely guiding
our kids and their thought lives?
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:How can we be wisely communicating
with the culture around us as well?
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:Would you open us in prayer that, whoever
comes across this episode, whether they've
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:been in the faith or whether they don't
embrace Jesus Christ yet, but that we
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:would communicate in a way that, that the
gospel would be, so appealing to them.
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:Dan: Absolutely
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:Stephanie: Thank you.
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:Dan: Almighty God.
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:We come before you with humility.
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:Lord, make us humble.
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:Lord, you are good and glorious
and beautiful and true.
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:And Father, as we engage in a world
that is increasingly confused and
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:frustrated, , disoriented Father,
give us your spirit to engage, as
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:your ambassadors of love and truth.
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:And Father, I pray that, uh, we may
be faithful to give a reasoned answer
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:for why we believe what we believe.
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:So father, guide our time.
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:Uh, may this be a blessing
to your people and Christ.
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:Holy name, amen.
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:And
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:Stephanie: We will get into some
more overarching questions, but
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:your book, compelling Ethics
Thinking for a Modern World.
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:It's fantastic and it's not a thick
read, but it's so thought provoking.
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:It solidifies a lot of things I
already believed, but then you really
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:phrase beautifully a lot of truths
that are important for us to cling to.
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:But I have to confess, I was reading
through the intro and I just came across
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:this one concept and I had to park I
really had to set the book down, but it's
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:been ruminating in my mind about this
paragraph could really change the way
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:It's such a beautifully written book,
but , I struggle with perfectionism
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:in life and I'm just very idealistic,
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:I think it guides me to be a prayer
warrior because I understand, I think
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:what God's intention was on this earth.
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:And I often pray to that end, but
it often makes me disappointed.
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:A little example, like, I have this
beautiful advent idea for my kids,
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:and we're gonna do this new idea.
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:I introduce it and out of the four, that's
the night that one of them decides that
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:they're, they're just really having
a hard time embracing something new.
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:And you thought it was gonna be
this beautiful moment centered on
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:Christ and it turns into a meltdown
and living in the tension, I think,
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:especially as a mom where you're trying
to guide your family in a godly way.
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:But when you said, that Jesus is
teaching on the wheat and tears helps
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:us to set our expectations for this
age, keeping us from the temptation
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:of perfectionism or pessimism.
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:Therefore, as we seek the conditions of
heaven on earth, we also acknowledge
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:the tension that Christian ethics
bring in a world that is not fully
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:submitted to Christ Reign at this moment.
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:To think Christian is to live
faithfully within this tension.
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:I was wondering if you would elaborate
a little bit more on that idea.
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:Dan: Yeah, so I'm writing that
in the context that we live in
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:a culture where not everybody is
going to believe what we believe.
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:We have a civil, pluralism, meaning,
people with multiple different
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:beliefs, and there's tensions and
a, and a representative Republican,
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:which we live in, where you, and we're
feeling these tensions right now.
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:We are really living into them where we
have people who don't understand why we
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:And there can be a temptation to want the
full conditions of heaven now on earth.
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realized eschatology,
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into is to go, well, I'm going to
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about the conditions of heaven.
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should be ordered towards
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state where those laws are that way,
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its power in the human heart, and the
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:That there's still the effects
of sin until Christ return, and
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then we have to live with that.
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with neighbors that don't believe
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:what we believe, we wanna engage,
we wanna persuade, but we also
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is the one who changes the heart.
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with our unbelieving neighbors share
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we have to also settle and realize.
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believe what we believe.
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be discouraging in a world
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return that keeps us, positive.
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we wait for the moment of Christ's
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influence on this kingdom
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:Stephanie: Right.
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:And if he is patient to live in that
tension, knowing that this is the
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:plan that will bring him the most
glory, then we can join him in that,
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:Dan: yeah, I think there's, it is
an interesting thing, right in the
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says, thy kingdom come, thy will be
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:There seems to be, a incremental,
sanctification, right?
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:It's, that's implied
in some of that, right?
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but He redeems us and then we are
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him, but he seems, he seems to be okay
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:Stephanie: right.
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:Talk to our listeners a little bit
about why we need to embrace truth,
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those bring to the table for believers.
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:Dan: Yeah.
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:Well, so all of those, right?
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with goodness, right?
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good as it participates in him, right
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:So when we recognize, the goodness
around us, uh, especially, you
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:I got to hold my, uh,
granddaughter this weekend.
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:And you just look and you hold and
you just see innocence and goodness.
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:So recognizing that when we see his
goodness in everything, that brings
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:us to a place of gratitude, it gives
us the path towards what the rich,
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:Like, show me how to have eternal
life, uh, recognizing God's goodness.
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:He actually comes to,, jesus
and calls him good teacher.
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:So God is the foundation and the
essence of goodness, uh, truth, right?
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:So from goodness, there's also truth.
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:Like it comports with reality.
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:So it's so important for us, especially
in an age that is warring against truth,
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our children to recognize, truth.
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it's real, it exists.
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is one of the things, as we look at
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it's a reflection of who God is
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but his very essence is very being.
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world, that the secular world just can't
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something's beautiful?
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us in such a deep way.
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everything is a survival of the fittest,
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:So I think that's where we name
the book Compelling Ethics.
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:' cause I think there's something
compelling about that.
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:There's a drawing feature of
goodness, truth, and beauty.
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:And if you get rid of one
of those qualities, right?
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:If you get rid of, beauty.
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:Well then, you get chaos in anarchy.
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:If you get rid of, truth, then what
you're going to have to have is, you know,
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:If you get rid of goodness, then
there's, you have domination of people.
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us from all of the, uh, the
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:Stephanie: So well said.
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believers we can understand the beauty and
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it's about judgment and a list of rules.
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we're trying to teach them what they need
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to stand for truth, but also to be loving
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:Um, that's a really great question.
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:Uh, and, um, put in a category
of maybe young children that,
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:maybe some older children, I think
with younger children, right?
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:We're, we're, as parents, we
have been, given the charge of
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:Not just their spiritual formation,
but their intellectual, uh,
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:So I think one of the things that we can
do at a very young age is start to connect
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good, um, and then connect that dot back
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:This is good.
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:Why is that good?
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:Because God is good in very,
very small, subtle ways.
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:We're looking for those
opportunities to, to connect, um,
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:help them be aware, slow down.
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:We wanna build activities, I
think too, that help children
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:So again, I think we write
in the book, about a tree,
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:That's comporting with reality.
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:We wanna help our kids to recognize
that because again, we're living
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them recognize Christ is beautiful
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:and where you see that beauty even,
even around the world in things.
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:Like one of the things, very simply
what we did with our, our son.
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late twenties twins.
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:Um, but one of my boys, had a, I
could tell he had a very tender heart,
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:Stephanie: Mm.
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:Dan: So one of the things that
we did is we enrolled him to be
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with, uh, significant needs,
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of the human person, the beauty of
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:Stephanie: Yeah.
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:Dan: That stuck with him
his entire, his entire life.
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:So now is the second part of this.
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:When we have older children and now
they're gonna be in the world and they're
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with neighbors who don't agree with them.
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:One of the things, that I've helped
e encourage some people to do in my
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:So in a, we're Christians and as
Christians, um, there are certain
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do, but here's why we don't do them.
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:You know, again, it's, we're still clear
and convictional, but we're also saying
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and has meaning, and we want you to join
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:this community is making it something
that's appealing and inviting as opposed
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:Ultimately, yes, we all are going to
submit, to bow the need to Christ, but
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:if we can form communities that are a
thick and beautiful community that is
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:a, that are appealing to people, it
challenges them to change, their moral
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:Because this is why we named
the book Compelling Ethics.
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:It is compelling in a world
you just see today, right?
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:If you see a young couple married.
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I got married at 22.
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what's your first thought?
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the institution of marriage so much
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:So when you see it, it causes you now
to pause, go, oh, that couple's married.
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that animated that.
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:Stephanie: Yes, I can remember my kids
when they were really little and other
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Lord's name in vain, and they were so
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:And I had to teach them, you know,
we have submitted our lives to Jesus
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:because we love God, we wanna honor
his name in this way, but we can't
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that commitment would also follow that.
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:So I'm glad that you're modeling it.
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:Y you know, it was just, it's
interesting in those little moments,
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:it's an opportunity to say, we do live
differently out of love and out of, you
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:know, an honor for God's word, but we
are not going to force our, convictions
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that haven't committed to Jesus yet.
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:Dan: Yeah, that's where the, having
a, a good tension of the here and not
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:Stephanie: Mm-hmm.
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:Dan: Um.
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:I want my neighbors to surrender to
Jesus and live according to his moral
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:law because I think that's what's
gonna be good and bring flourishing
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:But I can't coerce them.
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:I can only persuade with good arguments.
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:And not just logical arguments,
but how I live my life and opening
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invited in and see and participate.
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provoking things you say in this book is
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we use the word politics, we tend
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partisanship, but politics rightly
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to maintain a good and just society.
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two plans, order and relationship.
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it and the way that you define it,
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to guide us to live rightly what do
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how we engage with politics when it
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is, no voice in the public square.
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meant to be for the good of the community
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unbelieving mind of what is good, you
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:end up with policies that good will be
called evil, and evil will be called good.
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Christians are not active in the.
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now, how we engage, is important.
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look at, at Genesis chapter one, and
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conversation in the Trinity, right?
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the father, son spirits, they
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that they're having.
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the outflow of that dialogue.
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persuade through conversation.
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sphere of relationship and politic,
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:we're going to have to engage and talk
with people that we disagree with.
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find the best means by which
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:So, number one, I, I think, uh, engaging,
but engaging in good discussion.
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:Now, that's gonna require some
skills that we're going to need.
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live in a nation that largely has a
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:shared value system, we have to take a
different posture in those engagements
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:so we can build receptivity with other
people if we first start with them.
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:Because who, who do we
like to talk about the most
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:Dan: ourselves.
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:So if we can get people to talk, okay,
well, tell me why you hold that belief.
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:Uh, what you'll find is that most people
hold their moral and political beliefs.
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experience that's underneath that.
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:The James Davis and Hunter
calls it cultural logic,
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:The ideas that people hold,
make perfect sense to them.
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:Dan: Even if they're incoherent,
they make perfect sense.
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:Why do you hold that belief?
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:Make sure that I fully capture what
you believe, why you believe it.
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:I want to make sure that I've
represented the other side, not as a
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the beliefs you do about X, Y, and Z?
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:Once I've done that, I can say, I, and
somebody feels like you've seen them.
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:In fact, part of this is honoring
the Imago day in them because of how,
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beings that are seeking after truth.
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:Many of our neighbors who don't
believe what we believe about policy
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they're seeking after what's good,
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in with, will I see it differently?
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:Stephanie: Love that.
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:Dan: And then by doing that, now you've
opened up, all of a sudden you've
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:Dan: Now we can have an exchange.
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in that exchange when we're
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years in, in Buffalo, New York.
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rehash the wedding ceremony?
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girl overheard me and this couple talking.
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tell me why anybody would get married?
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:Dan: I said, oh, do you have a moment?
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would even question that.
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come from a broken home.
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that was flourishing.
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:So I got all of that and I said,
well, what if marriage was like this?
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:And I started in the garden, started
with brokenness, talked about the
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with the marriage supper of the lamb.
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was true, I would love it.
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to have a dialogue about something that
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and what I hear from you with every
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individuals, seeing people, not with
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really getting to the heart of others.
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conversations and having respect
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:Dan: In international conversation, we
have to learn to humanize one another
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:Dan: we're in dire.
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:Stephanie: Can you talk
specifically about how you might.
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truth and beauty of God's design for
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and why we believe that is loving to
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:Dan: Yeah.
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God has hardwired us in some ways, to
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just have to talk to somebody who's
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of that, that hurts and that, and
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us from that type of pain.
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destruction, uh, that's happened in
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knows that that's a death of sorts.
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more beautiful, nothing more beautiful
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married for 50, 60 years and you see
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that no one has to tell you.
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procreation, again, another beautiful.
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can create any way he wants, but he
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work of, we call it procreation, right?
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reproduction because what do we reproduce?
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this, which then is going to
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hold the view of a distinction
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confused because I don't
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starting with the beautiful and elevating
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following that through, I know it's
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multiply, that's always been God's
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reiterates that through his word,
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that he lets us take part
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again, uh, I want to be tender in this, I
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and mental, brokenness, which timed the
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man and female, even if we were to
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we're only doing that at a cosmetic level.
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don't meet their function, right?
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goodness isn't just deed, it's
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man and woman together.
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marriage and procreation.
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movement and we see, you know, a, a
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seeing is, number one, it's a pushback
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created us to do and be our own gods.
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the way our bodies and even our,
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is oriented towards procreation.
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our bodies, but it doesn't change
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I spoke with you about the way that God
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moral realism, we call it, because out
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his being, and God is supremely good.
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good in the way he's created reality.
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consistent with his goodness.
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I say it's the furniture of the universe.
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explains this better than me.
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really, of Romans chapter one.
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those things aren't there,
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night, and it's pitch black, you don't see
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your toe, right when you walk into it.
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want to say, there are no objective
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every time we bump into them.
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back to marriage and, and sexuality,
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to our sexual ethics, but you
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who's experienced unfaithful,
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subjective, relativistic world.
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very inconsistently.
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with a, a gentleman who, does not believe
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probably wouldn't go as far as
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why the purpose of why we're here,
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species, moving forward keeps
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for Valentine's Day?
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chocolates, and I'm like, why?
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there's something else at work.
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can say that this has just chemical
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part two, as I continue this
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moms about the eternal value that
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episode praying over you, but have
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Dwelling Place Bible Plan for Moms?
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you apply it to life into parenting,
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prayer every day over you and your kids.
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and I hope you can make that a part of
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