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105:: A doctorally trained cosmetic injector's honest guide to bridal skin: what works & what's overhyped
Episode 13215th June 2026 • Wellness Big Sis: The Pod • Dr. Kelsy Vick
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Your skin on your wedding day is not something you want to figure out last minute. And according to today's guest — it's also not something you want to experiment with close to the date.

Dr. Kelsy Vick sits down with Claire — a Columbia-trained, board-certified nurse practitioner and cosmetic injector — for the most practical, honest, evidence-based bridal skin prep conversation on the internet. From the mistakes brides make most often to the exact timeline you should be following — this episode covers everything.

What you'll learn:

  • The most common bridal skin mistakes — and why panic-changing your routine is at the top of the list
  • Why you should never try Botox, filler, or a new procedure for the first time close to your wedding date
  • The 12-month, 6-month, and 3-month skin prep timeline — broken down clearly
  • What treatments are actually evidence-backed — and which ones are overhyped
  • What to prioritize in wedding week — sleep, hydration, and barrier protection
  • The TikTok skin advice you need to stop following immediately

Whether you're a bride, a MOH, or just someone who wants better skin — this episode is for you.

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Speaker:

Welcome to Wellness Fixes the

Pod, a by Maven Media production,

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where we believe you deserve real

education from real experts delivered

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in a way you can actually use.

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I'm Dr.

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Kelsey Vick, your board certified

orthopedic doctor of physical therapy, and

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this podcast was built for the girl who

is done feeling overwhelmed and frustrated

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by conflicting health noise and is ready

for something she can actually trust.

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Every week we have honest science-backed

conversations about your health,

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your hormones, your brain, your

body, and everything in between.

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No fluff, no fear-mongering,

just the truth.

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Because understanding your

body is the most powerful

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thing you can do for yourself.

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A table full of experts built for

the curious girl who wants the truth.

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So welcome.

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Your seat is waiting for you.

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If anything that I've learned from

all of my years in practice, it's

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that skin really loves consistency.

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Nothing is gonna happen overnight,

and trying to change it right

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before the wedding is, like, the

biggest downfall of most brides.

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Like, if you're somebody that's in the

realm of having static lines, like,

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Botox can be life-changing, truly.

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And then the other thing that's

my pet peeve is expensive skincare

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that, you know, has weak evidence.

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Like, save your money for Botox.

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I don't think the price is justifiable.

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If you're advertising it on TikTok

and it changes your skin overnight,

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it's usually too good to be true.

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My most honest advice is just,

like, your wedding week is not

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the time to chase better skin.

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It's really the time to protect the skin

that we have spent a long time building.

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today's guest is someone I

have been genuinely excited

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about to bring on the podcast.

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She is a board-certified nurse

practitioner and doctorally prepared

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clinician trained at Columbia University,

where she also served as faculty.

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As a cosmetic injector, she brings a

philosophy deeply rooted in French beauty

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and wellness, an ethos built around

elegance, simplicity, authenticity, and

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the idea that beauty should always look

like you, just a little bit elevated.

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Her methodology is grounded in a

deep understanding of facial anatomy

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and evidence-based techniques, and

the results speak for themselves.

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I really wanted to have her on the

podcast to chat all things prepping your

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skin for a big event, especially for my

brides preparing for their wedding day.

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So I can't wait for all of

us to learn from her today.

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Claire, welcome to Wellness Fixes the Pod.

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Kelsy: What is the most common mistakes

that you see brides make when it comes

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to their skin before their wedding day?

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Claire Schwegel Del Signore, DNP, FNP-BC, MS, RN:

So number one, I think before the

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wedding, there's this thing that br--

I mean, I was guilty of it myself.

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There's this thing that brides

do where they, like, panic-change

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everything right before the wedding.

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There's anything that I've learned

from all of my years in practice, it's

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that skin really loves consistency.

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It does not love, like, this

chaotic spiral that involves, like,

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initiating a retinoid last minute or,

like, trying some new TikTok serum.

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Like, nothing is gonna happen

overnight, and trying to change it

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right before the wedding is, like,

the biggest downfall of most brides.

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After that, I would say, like,

over-exfoliating whether that's, like,

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a chemical or a mechanical exfoliator.

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I grew up in the era of

the apricot scrub, the St.

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Ives Apricot Scrub.

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Like, anything…

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I get it, like, brides wanna glow, but

anything that's going to really disrupt

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the skin barrier is gonna be a huge

problem because it's leaving, like, these

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little areas in for infection to get in.

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It can cause breakouts.

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It will give you this inflamed, maybe

shiny, but, like, really angry skin.

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So I think just getting rid of exfoliation

that's, like, consistently used,

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like, every night or, like, multiple

times a day is the best thing that

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you can do leading up to the wedding.

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I'm not saying don't exfoliate, but I

see these brides, like, chasing the glow

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and essentially trying to just scrub off

the top layer of their skin, and it only

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leads to bad things like makeup sitting

weird or this really stingy, angry skin.

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Starting actives too late.

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Actives are really powerful.

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Those are things like retinoids

and vitamin C serums and pigment

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ingredients, but they require time.

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And my mom always said, like,

"Good things take time."

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Starting one of those right

before the wedding is gonna

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have really minimal effect.

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It's not gonna create, like, big

changes in the amount of pigment

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or the texture of the skin.

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But what it will do is it risks

making you really irritated.

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So I would say, like,

definitely use actives.

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They're very powerful.

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But starting them, like, right before the

wedding is not gonna, tilt the needle or

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change the scales in any meaningful way,

and it's gonna risk undoing any of the

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work that you've done because of either

compromising the barrier or what have you.

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And then the other thing that is

like my hard stop as an injector

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is doing any first-time procedure

right before the wedding.

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So a lot of patients will come in,

and they think that, you know, you

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need Botox right before your wedding,

and that will be the cherry on top.

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And the reality is that you've never

tried any of these treatments before,

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and you're seeing a new injector.

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There's just as much the possibility

that you hate the result than you feel

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like you look better or you like it.

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And so while it's temporary- Very…

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Botox, once it's active,

there's no undo button.

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Like, you- it's the

equivalent of cutting bangs.

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Like, you just have to wait for them

to grow out, which is never a good

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position to put a bride in, is to

do something that's not reversible.

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So I always say, like, never make

your wedding the clinical trial.

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And it's a really tough pill to

swallow because I think, like, a

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month or two before the wedding you

feel like you have all of this time

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to do things but procedures are

never one of them, especially really

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close and, like, leading up to it.

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You can have bruising, number one.

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So if you're really, like, within

a two-week window, you don't wanna

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do anything that's going to leave

you with swelling that makes you

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look strange, or have to cover

up a big bruise or any of that.

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while I'm very good at what I do, I

have first time brides come in the,

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like, eight-week period before their

wedding, I usually turn them away.

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And I have a 90% return patient

rate, and patients are really happy

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and satisfied with the results.

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But it's just not worth it for the

bride, but it's also not worth it for

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me, because then I'm going to be, like,

managing all of these patients right

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before if anything doesn't go perfectly.

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So I always say, like, all eyes

are on you for wedding day as the

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bride, and it's better to look like

yourself than to look super strange.

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What else?

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What's my last one?

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Things like ignoring pigment right

before a wedding is super important.

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So a lot of people forget that

pigment is driven by sun expo- sun

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exposure and, like, UV exposure.

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But it can also be driven by heat,

which two totally different things.

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Being on a beach in the sun is UV

exposure, it's also a little bit of heat.

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But being in a sauna can also

really flare melasma, so that's

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like a different type of heat that

I like to have people think about.

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And so I, like, booked this weekend in

the sun when I went for my bachelorette

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leading up to my wedding, and, like,

obviously flared all of my pigment,

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which was a big rookie mistake.

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But, like, my brides that go on wellness

centers and decide to do, like, a

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whole weekend at the spa with their

girlfriends, like, sitting in the sauna

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and steam room while you think it's

gonna help you, can actually derail all

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the hard work that you've done with,

you know, minimizing the pigment that

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you've had and, you know, especially if

you have melasma, like creating issues.

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So it's really a hidden culprit

that I think people forget about.

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Essentially my hard rule is just,

like, the closer we get to the

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wedding, more boring we become.

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So boring skincare is

bridal luxury in my book.

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Kelsy: I love that mantra too.

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I'm like, this is, I feel like why I

really wanted to have you on the podcast,

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'cause I know that your philosophy in

general is, let's do more natural-looking

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procedures and treatments especially

before, , a big event where you're like,

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"Okay, yes, I am a cosmetic injector.

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Yes, I am great at what I do, , but

this is not the time to be doing that."

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So I think that restriction and that

pulling back, whether it's from treatments

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or skincare, especially if someone's new

to this, is, like, a very, very hot tip.

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Claire Schwegel Del Signore, DNP, FNP-BC, MS, RN:

it honestly doesn't even matter

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the amount of, injectable or how

much you've been doing, like the

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months leading up to the wedding.

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it's really truly like you get to a

good place and as someone in medicine,

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really start to understand like

everything that you do in life, but

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especially with medical procedures,

like there's a risk and a benefit.

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And it's not like I'm gonna do this and

I'm gonna have this perfect end result.

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You really have to weigh the pros and

cons and say, "Okay if I break out from

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this thing, like, is that gonna be okay?

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Am I gonna have enough time to fix it?

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Or is that gonna derail

everything that we've done?"

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And I think those are really good

questions to ask because people come

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in thinking like, "Oh, that provider

can fix my under eyes," or, "That

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provider can do this thing for me."

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And like it's not, you know, injectors,

plastic surgeons, like we're not robots.

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It's really an art.

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And so obviously first and foremost

you may have a different opinion of

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what's aesthetically pleasing than I

do, and there's always a risk for that.

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But also things can go awry, just like

you can take a new medication like

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Tylenol or whatever and have a side effect

or an allergic reaction, God forbid.

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So I always say yes, they're

incredibly effective.

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More likely than not you'll have a

great outcome, but is it something

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that like before this momentous

occasion that you wanna gamble?

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Kelsy: Yeah, complete risk-benefit

sort of analysis that, that needs

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to be totally individualized.

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When we talk about timeline before the

wedding, what should brides in their

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engagement era be thinking about 12 months

out, six months out, three months out?

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Like, what should they be thinking

about at each of these different phases

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if they want to take this more, like,

long-term approach to helping their

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skin look its best on their wedding day?

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Claire Schwegel Del Signore, DNP, FNP-BC, MS, RN:

Okay, so a year out, I always say this

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is like the point in time where you

figure out what you're dealing with.

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Do you have acne?

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Do you have acne scars?

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Do you have melasma, redness,

texture, dullness, laxity?

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Are you dealing with some volume loss?

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Usually, like, my brides are younger, so

volume loss is not as big of a deal, but

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like, you know, some patients are a little

bit older, and they've noticed that their

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fat pads have diminished with some time.

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And you start to formulate

like a good skincare plan.

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And from my chair, the-- most of

the work that I do is needle-based

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or like injectables-based, right?

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Like Botox and fillers.

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But none of that is going to look

good if you don't have good skin.

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It's what's draping all of the

work that we've done together.

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So I always say like come up

with your skincare plan for the

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next year, which should involve

things like a daily sunscreen.

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It's a non-negotiable.

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The American Academy of

Dermatology recommends a broad

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spectrum SPF 30 or higher.

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and You know, I think

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Prevention is like the

bulk of what you're doing.

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After that, after you've gotten your

skin to this like good place, you

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can add in things like retinoids

or come up with a pigment plan.

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But like we wanna start on the

foundational things, which is to create

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a healthy skin barrier so that your skin

is functioning optimally, and then doing

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things that are going to prevent anything

from getting worse leading up to the day.

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After that, like retinoids

at night if appropriate.

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They have strong evidence base for

treating acne and meaningful evidence for

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like photoagency, but they require a lot

of time, and more than time, consistency.

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So I would not start a retinoid

for the first time like we

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said, right before the wedding.

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But like a year-long plan with consistent

use is really enough to see like

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meaningful changes in the skin especially

when you're talking about pigment,

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texture, and like luminosity, which is

what brides are always wanna go for.

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They also stimulate collagen and we

are evidence-based, you know, medical

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providers, so I think there's a lot of

data out there to support their use.

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Other things that are really worth

thinking about at the year mark

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are like a pigment plan if somebody

has melasma or bron- brown spots.

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W- that's like looking for

a little bit of brightening.

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Things like vitamin C serums,

kojic acid, hydroquinone in

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the right patient azelaic acid.

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Those are powerful tools.

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is super nuanced, so the most

important thing is that the

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provider that you're seeing should

be targeting what the underlying

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cause is for why you're developing

or you have developed that pigment.

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So don't just throw the

kitchen sink at all of this.

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I think the most important thing is to,

you know, really analyze why that pigment

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has developed so that you can target it

with things that are clinically effective.

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And then at that one-year mark, I

would say procedure planning is we

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start brainstorming and deciding

when we're gonna do treatment.

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So this is a time to talk about lasers,

microneedling, vascular treatments

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even talking about if we have acne

scarring and then planning out like

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filler if needed and a BOTOX trial.

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So I usually will have brides like count

back six weeks before their wedding, and

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that will be the last possible moment

where we would do BOTOX, and then we

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count back from there to do a trial.

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So that's like my one-year mark planning.

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Around six months out is like this

refinement window, which is when I

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like to have the core routine stable.

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So the skin is functioning optimally.

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We've done all of those things to

start chipping away at any type of,

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redness, PIH brown spots, melasma.

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And then at that point, I like

starting to tighten the plan.

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So for a lot of brides, this might include

doing a Botox trial if it's something

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that they want before the wedding.

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I always say like, "I'm in the

business of I want, not I need."

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Just like you don't need to wear makeup

for your wedding, and you don't need

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to have somebody else do your makeup.

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But if you are gonna do it, and

it's something that you want, you

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definitely should have a trial, and I

think people really forget about this.

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You do a trial for your hair, you do

a trial for your makeup, you should

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absolutely do a trial for your Botox.

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And essentially, like, we

need to understand what's the

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look that you're going for.

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So we wanna understand what dose gonna

use, how we're gonna place it, what

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your brow's response to it is gonna be.

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So it's really good to like, you

know, usually patients are really

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happy after they try it for the

first time, but there are definitely

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things that we can tweak and refine.

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I'll have brides like send me a

little photograph once it's fully

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kicked in after day fourteen.

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and then we can like plan and

tweak things for the final day.

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What else?

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Lasers.

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That's the point in time where

like at six months you're doing

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the bulk of your lasering.

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Lasers can improve everything

from pigment to redness.

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They help with texture.

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They can fight signs of photo aging.

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There's different evidence for different

wavelengths, and it can be super nuanced.

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Like laser physics is its own area,

I think, of aesthetic medicine.

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But, you know, If you talk to a provider

that's like really well-versed in

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how to use all of these things, you

can have pretty outstanding results.

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I will say that not all lasers are created

equal, and not all providers are created

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equal, so, you know, where you're going

to do these things, you can get widely

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varying results based off of the knowledge

of the person operating the device.

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So I think I see a lot of brides

looking for a specific laser.

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They're like, "Oh, I wanna do a Moxie,"

or, "I wanna do whatever it is."

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And the reality is that you should

be seeing someone who's highly

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trained on how to use those devices,

because you can have problems.

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You can have burns.

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You can flare pigment.

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I think, you know, that six-month

mark is when you should do them.

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Maybe start doing your

research a little bit before.

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I think this is like a good time to

do filler if it's appropriate for

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you, like truly figuring out if you're

the right candidate for it, if you

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have a little bit of volume loss.

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Filler like can age you, so go

and really distort you and it

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can photograph really strangely.

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and I'm not anti-filler, but going to

see a highly conservative injector,

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I think is really essential, someone

who's going to be truly honoring,

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like, an individual's essence and not

creating a new face for them or, you

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know, totally changing their appearance.

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Like what…

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The type of work that should

be done are things to really

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refine a bride's appearance.

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So sometimes that's, like, a little extra

hydration in the lip or, you know, one of

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the fat pads project a little bit more to

support the undereye thing and the chin.

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But all of these things, like, you should

be really aligned on with your injector.

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you should feel that they have

a similar aesthetic eye to you

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It's like getting a haircut, like that

you're able to communicate what you want.

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I once brought in, like, a picture

of highlights for my hair and

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the hairdresser cut me a bob.

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Like, just came up and cut me a

bob, and there was just this gross

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misunderstanding that I was not

to her that I wanted, like, hair.

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I came in for highlights, but she saw

the picture and saw a bob and decided

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that, like, we were cutting my hair.

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so really having those conversations

and understanding, like, exactly what

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a provider is going to be doing and

that they're aligned with you and that

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you trust them is really important.

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. Thinking about three months out, it's…

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Three months is, like, still plenty

of time, but it's really not the time

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to reinvent your face, essentially.

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This is a time to, like, really

lock in your routine, so no

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aggressive product experimentation.

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Like, keep doing what's working.

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Do your final Botox,

like, around, week six.

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Some providers will do, like, week

four, but it will be fully kicked

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in and lasting, you know, still

a good amount of time for the

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wedding and, like, the honeymoon.

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It just gives you enough time

to, A, get the full effect of it,

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any small, like, tweaks if you do

need a touch-up, and it allows it

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really to like soften and settle.

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So I always say if you like your Botox

around the two-week mark, then you'll love

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it at four weeks, and it'll carry you out

until it peters on out around 12 weeks.

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And then I, like, will have brides

pretty much avoid major filler unless,

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like- We plan for it, or we have

a really strong relationship just

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because when it's down to the wire

like I said, you don't wanna be deal-

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dealing with bruising or swelling or

something, like, not settling perfectly.

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That's my practice.

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I know plenty of injectors that, like,

will, you know, do lips maybe two

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to three weeks before the wedding.

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I just…

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I don't wanna…

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I, wanna get everything perfect,

and it should last, like, filler

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should last longer than Botox.

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So doing those treatments and having them

be, like, really thoughtful and planned is

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my vibe, and I don't do anything that's,

like, reactionary or deciding we wanna do

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something last minute before the wedding.

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Do only familiar, predictable

s- skin treatments.

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So done peels before, like a gentle

peel, I'm totally fine with you doing

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that, like, around the three-month mark.

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Or even, like, one of these Clear and

Brilliants or, like, a light laser

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if you've never reacted poorly to it.

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But like a first-time aggressive

resurfacing treatment is not okay with me.

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Like, absolutely not.

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I've seen brides really break out

from even trying microneedling for

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the first time or, like, trying a

celebrity facialist for the first

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time because they think they're

gonna like reinvent their skin.

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Just don't risk it.

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All these procedures have some degree

of risk, and it may be small, but

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if it happens to you, it's 100%.

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So in those, like, few weeks

leading up, prioritize hydration

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and, like, barrier repair or, like,

really strengthening your barrier.

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And it's all about, making your face

be makeup-friendly, like, having

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things lie really nicely on your skin.

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Like, the best-looking skin is

healthy, like, luminous skin.

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And if you've done any of those things

or have issues, whether it's from, like,

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actives or lasering or whatever, like,

you don't wanna deal with, like, dry,

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flaky patches and, like, the trial that

you did not working out for the day of.

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Um, That's like, my little breakdown

leading up before the wedding.

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Kelsy: I love that timeline

breakdown too, because as a physical

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therapist, I come at it from,

like, the exercise side of things.

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So I see all of these, like, bridal arms,

six weeks bridal arms series, like, body

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recomposition stuff, and I sort of mirror

what you're saying to those sorts of

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programs where it's like we're not crash

exercising, trying to get the body we want

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for our wedding day, for the wedding dress

six weeks before, just like we shouldn't

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be doing that with our skin once we're

like, "Oh, shoot, the wedding's coming

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up a lot quicker than what I thought.

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Let me get all of the, all

of the skin stuff done."

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Like, I think this longevity approach

to it is super nice, and I also look

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at it from not only, like, a body

recomposition standpoint but also from,

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like, a skin health perspective of the

wedding day might be your motivation

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to get a lot of these things done.

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But it's also okay to use it as this,

like, deadline to try and get your

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routines in order, whether that's,

like, fueling or your movement

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routine or your skincare routine.

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Like, it might just be that added extra

motivator to allow you to put a little

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bit more effort that you want into

whatever routine you're trying to build

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that sticks long after the wedding day.

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So this sort of, like, longevity approach

to it or this preventative, like, giving

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us enough time to either get you the

body recomposition results that you

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want, the skincare results that you

want, how you wanna look and feel on your

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wedding day, like, I think that is huge.

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And I think a lot of brides

think about it with their hair.

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I feel like the hair is like, you

know, "I'm gonna get my color trial."

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Oh, and nails too.

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Nails, like, pedicure, manicure,

they're like, "Oh, I, I have to,

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like, get all of these trials done."

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But I don't think a lot of people think

about it when it comes to their skin.

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They think about it six weeks before, and

they're like, "Oh my gosh, I need to get,

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you know, all of these treatments done."

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So I appreciate the sort of, like,

timelined approach and helping people

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understand, like, giving yourself that,

you know, from proposal to wedding, I

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feel like the average is probably 12

months now, if not a little longer.

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So I think it's just, like, this helpful

time to dive into, like, taking care of

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your skin and getting that professional

consult of, like, "Okay, this is what

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I would like to see happen, and, and

here's, like, when my wedding day is."

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Use that as sort of this motivator to

get everything on track a little bit.

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So what are some of the non-negotiables

that every bride should have in

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her routine regardless of budget?

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I know you mentioned SPF, but are there

any more that you sort of recommend

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that brides have in their routines?

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Claire Schwegel Del Signore, DNP, FNP-BC, MS, RN:

I think it's less of a product and

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more of a philosophy or lifestyle,

which is that And you can't buy this.

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It's consistency.

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The best I can think of, like,

for an analogy is if you're using

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retinoids, and you're using a super

high dose of tretinoin, like 0.05,

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what- whatever it is, and you

can't tolerate that, and you're

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not using it consistently, you're

never going to get results from it.

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The goal is to be able to use it every

two to three nights, maybe even every

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other night if you can, and consistently

use it and tolerate it so that you can

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reap the benefits of using that product.

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So I think consistency is the one

thing that, like, is a non-negotiable,

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whether that's that you're using those

pigment products or, you know, even with

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procedures, if you decide that you're

gonna do microneedling as, like, a

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plan to get ready for your wedding day.

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Like, consistency is the one tool or

gift that I would offer my brides.

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Apart from that, like,

maybe an azelaic acid.

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It's very specific for patients that are

dealing with rosacea or, like, redness.

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I love, you know, starting

your bride on azelaic acid.

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People don't really realize how much

that vascular, like, pigment really

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affects their overall appearance.

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And I see it also just

when patients use lasers.

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Like an Excel V or a vascular

laser to treat redness.

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Like nothing…

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It's almost like nothing was really

done, but like everything was done.

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It j- it just gives you

this, like, refined canvas.

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We , touched on SPF.

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We touched already on retinoids

and using them consistently.

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Yeah, so I would say, like,

it's more of a philosophy.

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Like, I could tell you all the things

that are great for a skincare routine.

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It's never one thing.

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It's really, you know, this idea that

you're going to protect, prevent,

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repair, and correct the skin.

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That takes a long time, and so

if you're using all of those

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things and doing all those things,

which … They're pretty simple.

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M most women these days I think have,

a nice cleanser, like a gentle cleanser

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at home, like a Cetaphil or whatever,

a vitamin C serum, a little bit of a

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retinol or retinoid, even if it's not

prescription, and, like, a good sunscreen.

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Like, truly, it's not complicated.

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Just using those things and using them

consistently is, like, for me, the

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non-negotiable thing that you must do

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Kelsy: So you've mentioned a few sort of

treatments and different procedures, and

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I also know that a lot of these questions

are so individualized, which is why

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I feel like a consult's, like, super,

super beneficial and super necessary.

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But can you talk through some of the

different treatments and procedures

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that you've seen actually move the

needle for brides, and then which ones

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might be a little bit too over-hyped?

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Claire Schwegel Del Signore, DNP, FNP-BC, MS, RN:

Yeah, so I think if you've never

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tried BOTOX, And you have some…

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I always like to talk about lines as

either being dynamic or static, right?

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Lines that you form

when you're expressing.

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So when you smile, you get crow's

feet, and then these static lines

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that still appear there when you're

not making those facial expressions.

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Like, if you're somebody that's in the

realm of having static lines, like,

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Botox can be life-changing truly.

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It will help makeup not crease

and sit in s- in those, like,

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fine lines that you have.

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And it will give you this rested and,

with the right placement, lifted look.

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it should make you essentially

look like I slept, I'm hydrated.

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Like, not that you're frozen and, like,

shiny like an ice skating rink, but

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It should smooth everything out and

be like this in real life airbrushing.

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So I think Botox truly can make a huge

impact and really does, move the needle

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when you're talking about things that

appear to make you look less old and

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just more rested, and that kind of stuff.

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And then vascular lasers for redness.

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Like, I think in the right

candidate, rosacea, broken

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capillaries and just things that

you're trying to cover with makeup.

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Like when I got…

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I couldn't laser when I was pregnant,

but when I got pregnant, I got,

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like, this redness around my nose.

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And I couldn't get it to go away,

but then after I delivered, it

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just went away on its own, I

think because I was less vascular.

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and it just made me look so much better.

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So I think getting rid of those, like,

little red patchy areas or diffuse redness

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really does make a huge difference.

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And patients can usually use

like an Excel V or V Beam laser

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and that is like a home run.

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What else?

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Like little lasers to target pigment.

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I love a Pico laser, especially

in higher Fitzpatrick patients.

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It uses photoacoustic waves, so it's

not gonna be something that puts a

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lot of heat into the skin, which is

good for anybody that's darker skin

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tone or has like essentially melasma

or something that's driven , heat.

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And it can really like find

a little brown spot and just

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like blast it off of your skin.

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there are, like, things that you can do

to generally resurface the skin that I

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think really do make a nice difference in

just like overall glowiness and perfecting

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like small little imperfections or like

erasing small little imperfections.

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And then like subtle filler

will make a big difference.

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Patients a lot of the time will come

in like complaining about these circles

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that they have under their eyes.

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And I never love to run and do under

eye filler, but like supporting the mid

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cheek a little bit just to help, you

know To raise up the tissue to support

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the under eyes can make a huge impact

or giving a little bit of a cheekbone

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so that the contours of the face are

really young and youthful looking.

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Or even somebody that like has a little

bit of asymmetry in their lips, has a

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fuller bottom lip, like trying to get

that top lip to be a little bit fuller

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will just harmonize everything in

terms of like you catch like a picture

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from like your side profile, or if

the light is hitting in a weird way,

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those like things do tip the scales.

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In terms of over-hyped, I would say

like random bridal facials with no plan.

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Like a facial can be lovely, but it's…

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know, if it's like aggressive extractions,

like these unknown actives, weird

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fragrances that they're using on

your face, harsh e- exfoliants, like

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es- especially before the wedding,

it can absolutely derail the skin.

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And then the other thing that's

my pet peeve is expensive skincare

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that, you know, has weak evidence.

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Like I like actives that have a good body

of evidence and like research behind them.

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I think if you're gonna use

these things that are like…

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They're meant for people to have

a luxury experience, essentially.

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Like that you know, feel a

specific way when you're using it.

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Like save your money for Botox.

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I think if you're just doing it

for the way that it makes you feel

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when you apply it, like go for it.

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love a luxury experience, but I don't

think their price is justifiable.

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So a lot of the times, you know, those

things can make you feel like a little

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bit more hydrated, but on the other

end you've spent a lot of money, and

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maybe you have a weird reaction from it.

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So I usually will tell patients like

you don't need super expensive things

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in order to achieve really good results.

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what else?

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Things that are over-hyped.

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Last minute like kind of quote

unquote "glow treatments."

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Everybody comes in, you know,

like finding something on TikTok

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and using that and, you know.

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If you're advertising it on TikTok,

and it changes your skin overnight,

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it's usually too good to be true.

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And too much filler.

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I think cameras are not

kind to over-filled faces.

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Bridal beauty should let you and emote,

and smile, and photograph naturally.

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So I just would be really weary.

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Like judicious and conservative

filler can be good, but doing anything

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that's going to be overdone, obviously

nobody wants that, but it can

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change really quickly um not ideal.

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Kelsy: So what's one thing that

you think brides often overlook

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when it comes to their wedding day?

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It can be like this secret

ingredient, secret sauce.

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Like, what do you feel like a

lot of brides miss when it comes

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to l- helping their skin look

its best on their wedding day?

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Claire Schwegel Del Signore, DNP, FNP-BC, MS, RN:

So I think the most important thing,

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especially like the weeks and days before

the wedding, is just barrier health.

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Everyone talks about like, you know,

all the treatments that you can

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do leading up to it, but the thing

that makes skin look really great in

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real life is a calm, intact barrier.

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It's luminosity and the way that

the light hits super healthy skin.

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So when the barrier is healthy,

then your makeup sits better,

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texture looks smoother, skin

really reflects light nicely.

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Your redness is usually reduced because

you're not inflamed from, you know,

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doing things that have aggravated

the skin, and you look more hydrated.

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Like healthy skin looks and usually

is very hydrated before the sprays

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and the highlighters and all of that.

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So stop over-cleansing, stop

over-exfoliating, moisturize like it's

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part of the treatment plan because

honestly it is, and don't introduce

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a new product close to the wedding.

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The other piece I will say is that

like sleep, hydration, you know,

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minimizing alcohol intake and salt

intake right before like matter

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more than what people want to admit.

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And a lot of people will have

these welcome right before,

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that's not the time to get loose.

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You know, have a few sips of wine or

like a little cocktail, but you know,

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the evidence for sleep and general health

and alcohol avoidance is much broader

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than just bridal-specific skin studies.

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But clinically, like poor

sleep, inflammation, they

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all show up on the face.

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So I think um it's lower quality evidence

for like wedding glow specifically,

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but it's very real in practice.

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My most honest advice is just

like your wedding week is not

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the time to chase better skin.

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It's really the time to protect the skin

that we have spent a long time building.

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This conversation was everything

I hoped it would be and more.

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Claire, thank you for bringing your

expertise, your philosophy, and

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your honesty to this conversation.

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I learned so much, and I hope

all of you guys did, too.

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All of Claire's links for booking,

if you happen to be in NYC and wanna

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go see her, I will leave that link

in the show notes below, in addition

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to her Instagram and TikTok links.

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That way you guys can go learn from

her and follow her on social media.

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Thank you guys so much for being here,

for joining Claire and me in this

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conversation about bridal skin prep,

and I'll see you guys again on the

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next episode of Wellness Fixes the Pod.

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