Alan Carroll interviews Tina Erwin in this week’s episode of Mindful You. From being a female officer in the United States Navy, Tina is now passionate about being a Ghost Helper: Teaching The Living To Help The Dead. Alan and Tina dive deep into the power of patterns and how to recognize them and change them. Our thoughts are a form of magic and energy. We all have the ability to change the interpretation of things. What is the Huna? Find out in this mystical and captivating episode.
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Tina is passionate about being a Ghost Helper:Teaching theLiving toHelp theDead®.She wants to empower us all to help all ghosts: this is the compassion we will want for ourselves, by usingThe Crossing Over Prayer©on GhostHelpers.com and in“TheCrossing Over Prayer Book©.” When a psychic only connects to a dead person, the ghost does not receive the critical assistance they desperately need. Tina has studied metaphysics all her life, gaining insight into the mystical world of magic and spirituality.The author of eight books on metaphysics, her writing comes from an intense desire to know and understand the hard science behind the unseen world of action and reaction combined with a sincere desire to share this understanding with other knowledge seekers. Her lifelong studies into the deeper meaning of events and actions were further enhanced by the experiences of a dynamic 20-year career in the Navy, working for theU.S. Submarine Force, retiring at the Commander level.
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Hello, everybody. Welcome back to the mindful you
Alan Carroll:podcast. I'm Alan Carroll. I'm your host. And today I
Alan Carroll:interviewed Tina, Erwin. And Tina is a psychic. Meaning that
Alan Carroll:there's the physical world and the metaphysical world. And she
Alan Carroll:is able to go back and forth from the physical world to the
Alan Carroll:metaphysical world. And for the last studied metaphysics for
Alan Carroll:gaining insight into mystical Worlds of Magic, spirituality.
Alan Carroll:She's written eight books on metaphysics. And her writings
Alan Carroll:come from a intense desire to know and understand the hard
Alan Carroll:science, not the woowoo science, but the hard science, behind the
Alan Carroll:unseen world of action and reaction, combined with his
Alan Carroll:sincere desire to share this understanding with other
Alan Carroll:knowledge seekers. And so that's part of her biography. Another
Alan Carroll:part of her biography is, she was an officer in the United
Alan Carroll:States, submarine, Navy sub submarines for 20 years. She was
Alan Carroll:one of the first female officers on submarines. And she said,
Alan Carroll:often, she would notice that a lot of the decisions that were
Alan Carroll:made by captains are sometimes intuitive, not by the book, like
Alan Carroll:they were able to connect with something greater than
Alan Carroll:themselves. So she combines that military discipline and show me
Alan Carroll:facts. And she combines that and marries it to the metaphysical,
Alan Carroll:wonderful, healer, wonderful insights. And so it is just
Alan Carroll:exciting to be able to have her on on the show, and for her to
Alan Carroll:be able to share her wisdom from years and years of experience.
Alan Carroll:So please welcome Tina Irwin to the mindful you, podcast. Thank
Alan Carroll:you. Tina, welcome to the podcast. Thank
Tina Erwin:you so much, Alan, for having me. I'm really
Tina Erwin:delighted to be here.
Alan Carroll:Oh, the opportunity of having a
Alan Carroll:conversation with someone who has such rich experiences is a
Alan Carroll:gift. And in our conversation we had before, we were talking
Alan Carroll:about the importance of of the discipline. And that came from
Alan Carroll:our conversation of you being a career military officer. So you
Alan Carroll:have that background and just like to jump a little bit into
Alan Carroll:your background, and then sort of let our audience feel a
Alan Carroll:little bit of the evolution that you've gone through that has
Alan Carroll:brought you to where you are right now and this level of
Alan Carroll:awareness and consciousness.
Unknown:Well, thank you for that opportunity. I joined the
Unknown:Navy in 1972. Because you really couldn't get hired at a decent
Unknown:salary. You know, I graduated with a degree in Industrial
Unknown:Relations, and nobody would hire me. And I didn't want to be a
Unknown:martyr. Martyrs lead a really awful life. And I wanted to have
Unknown:some fun. And so I thought, gee, I'll see if I can join the Navy.
Unknown:And I did. I was their first female officer and in a really,
Unknown:really long time from the state of North Carolina where I was
Unknown:living. And my first day at my first duty station, I met my
Unknown:husband, and we were both stationed at submarine base, New
Unknown:London, and I received it for all the crypto gear for all six
Unknown:CDA class new construction submarines. And then eventually,
Unknown:I was the first female officer in the history of submarine
Unknown:school. I taught the sealed authenticator system which tells
Unknown:the commanding officer of a submarine how to authenticate
Unknown:the message that says to launch a missile. So the Navy provides
Unknown:you with an astonishing amount of responsibility really, really
Unknown:early. And you get to meet some of the most remarkable men you
Unknown:could ever imagine. real patriots. People who care
Unknown:brilliant, brilliant minds. And I mean, if you're pretty weak,
Unknown:they just eat you for lunch. So I had a blast. And I learned
Unknown:that when you are on a submarine, you have to feel the
Unknown:ship. It doesn't matter whether it's a submarine or a surface
Unknown:ship. These are men who have gut instincts. And it's those gut
Unknown:instincts that save lives. They, these are men who listen to
Unknown:something, they wouldn't call it a higher self, or they don't
Unknown:have a fancy name. But it's the same thing. And I have a deep
Unknown:and abiding respect for these men, including my own husband,
Unknown:just spent 42 years at Sei. And these men would tell you, I had
Unknown:a bad feeling about this, or I knew something was gonna happen.
Unknown:And some of them told me, some of them actually saved. i
Unknown:There's one astonishing story where this guy saved 129 lives,
Unknown:because he listened to something that was not quantifiable. And
Unknown:he changed history. And when you are observing these things, you
Unknown:don't go oh, well, that's neat. You go, but wait a minute. That
Unknown:is amazing. These aren't psychic guys, they would never use such
Unknown:a term. And I, I wouldn't use that term with them. I would
Unknown:respect that they had a feeling and that they, they paid
Unknown:attention to it. I had one captain of a submarine knew I'd
Unknown:known for years and years. I mean, I, I made friends with all
Unknown:these guys. Because they taught me so many things. Gosh, I mean,
Unknown:when a school house. And he said, You know, I knew my
Unknown:navigator was bad. I did everything in my power to remove
Unknown:him from my ship. I told Admiral Rickover, I documented it. And
Unknown:when we hit that Russian submarine, I had a bad feeling
Unknown:something was gonna happen. And so when you start listening to
Unknown:what these men experienced, you know, without saying, Oh, well,
Unknown:I don't know if I believe that, instead of discounting it. You
Unknown:listen on another level. And you learn how, when you deliberately
Unknown:submerge a billion dollar vessel with 100, between 125 to 150
Unknown:lives depending on whether it's a fast attack or ballistic
Unknown:missile submarine. You had better know what you're doing.
Unknown:You could better feel your crew. What is that if it's not a
Unknown:spiritual part of you, that is not quantifiable. And so that's
Unknown:what got me started. I've always been a psychic person from the
Unknown:time I was a little kid. It's not like you're running around
Unknown:talking about it, especially in the military, people think
Unknown:you're crazy. But there are, there are a lot of really,
Unknown:really intuitive human beings that are in the military. And
Unknown:one of the most famous was a General George C. Patton.
Unknown:Patton, frequently spoke to God, Patton had Patton had amazing
Unknown:experiences. And I am a student of history. And when you look at
Unknown:the how so many of these men in horrendous situations, called
Unknown:upon God, not spirit, but God, God, please help me in this
Unknown:moment. It is amazing. I also studied survivors, I studied the
Unknown:stories of survivors of the Holocaust, and World War Two.
Unknown:And when I, there were some of those, especially men who were
Unknown:futurists, they had to believe there was going to be a future
Unknown:beyond the moment they were in. And they held on so tight to
Unknown:that spiritual future. They survived when others gave up and
Unknown:died of depression, loneliness, and terror because the Nazis
Unknown:were terrifying. Have a frog in my boots voice?
Alan Carroll:No worries. No worries. Take a breath.
Unknown:Ah, so that's how I got started on this path because I'm
Unknown:a person who studies everything. How does the submarine work? How
Unknown:does the mind work? And my mother worked for a psychiatrist
Unknown:for seven years. And she discussed every single case with
Unknown:me when I was in high school. So I have a somewhat unusual
Unknown:background, which really benefited me in the Navy.
Unknown:Because I could, I could quickly identify a variety of different
Unknown:types of character disorders. And or whether or not someone
Unknown:was psychotic and whether or not they were dangerous. So that
Unknown:when I referred them to, you know, a professional, you know,
Unknown:in a military hospital, I could speak a language, that would
Unknown:mean I would be taken seriously. And this person would receive
Unknown:the help that they needed. The military is only about people.
Unknown:And it's only about how people relate to a belief in
Unknown:themselves. And if you have no belief, beyond that, there's
Unknown:nothing else but this, there is a loneliness that pervades the
Unknown:soul. And I, I began to see that and what the military gives
Unknown:people is a belief in something greater than yourself.
Unknown:corporations can't do that. People who have private
Unknown:businesses or consulting firms or private practice, they
Unknown:believe in something more than themselves, especially their
Unknown:clients. I have a lot of private clients than when when you are
Unknown:part of a team and I love that I love my wardroom I loved I had
Unknown:150 men work for me at any given time. Sometimes I had a lot of
Unknown:women too, but mostly it was just men. And they had the same
Unknown:problems that anybody else has. They had an illness in the
Unknown:family or their wife had a problem or somebody has an
Unknown:alcoholic or there's a drug problem, or they were sexually
Unknown:abused or fill in the blank. And what they need, it isn't
Unknown:necessarily a military solution. It's a human solution. And I'll
Unknown:give you one of my favorite examples. I was executive
Unknown:officer for a submarine training facility in San Diego. And we
Unknown:had this guy who's a big guy. I mean, he had muscles, he had the
Unknown:slips his sleeves. He's such a big man, who's our sailor of the
Unknown:quarter. He just beat the bejesus out of his wife. Well,
Unknown:we sent him to anger management school, we sent him to
Unknown:psychiatric care, and we did all of these things. So one day, he
Unknown:comes in, he sits at my desk and he says, Commander, what's the
Unknown:big deal? So I beat my wife, nobody's perfect. And, and the
Unknown:female in me, wanted to just reach out and strangle him. That
Unknown:would be the that's the truth.
Unknown:But the better part of me sat back. He wasn't being
Unknown:disrespectful to me. In that moment, he was honest. And I
Unknown:said, petty officer, whatever your name is, did your daddy
Unknown:beat you?
Unknown:He said, Yes, ma'am. He beat me every day, but good. And I said,
Unknown:Did your grandfather beat your dad? Yes, ma'am. Hey, Tam, his
Unknown:huddle. He used to tell me how badly he was beaten. And then I
Unknown:waited, you know, you know, way to beat and he looked at me and
Unknown:he said, Doesn't everybody get beaten when they grow up? I
Unknown:said, No, it's called assault. And if somebody beat your wife
Unknown:on the street, like you beat her, they will be put in prison
Unknown:for assault. And if you continue to beat your wife, and you have
Unknown:an adorable little girl, for 1000 years, your family will
Unknown:continue to beat each other. Unless you have the power and
Unknown:the courage to change. And I can send you to 1000 schools, but
Unknown:that change has to come from inside of you. You have to want
Unknown:to change the future for 1000 years. Do you have the courage
Unknown:and the strength within you to do that? And he looked at me and
Unknown:he blinked and he said I I never looked at it that way. Nobody
Unknown:ever explained it like that. Why did they ever talk to me like
Unknown:that? I said, I don't know. But I I can hear you. I can hear
Unknown:that you're not a bad man. You're just part of a pattern.
Unknown:And it's the bad pattern that has to be changed. So if you
Unknown:separate the goodness of the person from the pattern, then
Unknown:you give the individual the opportunity to save enough face
Unknown:to be able to change. Now I would love to tell you that he
Unknown:never He his wife again. But two weeks later, he got transferred.
Unknown:And I don't know what happened. But I like to believe that
Unknown:perhaps in that moment, something shifted for him. So
Unknown:that's how I got started on all this.
Alan Carroll:That's a That's a beautiful story. tears coming to
Alan Carroll:my eyes very, very beautiful. You, you said the ability to
Alan Carroll:separate yourself from the pattern. Let's talk about the
Alan Carroll:level of awareness, you have to be to have the realization that
Alan Carroll:you're in a pattern in order to separate yourself from the
Alan Carroll:pattern.
Unknown:I liken it to having a starfish on your forehead like
Unknown:this. You have a starfish on your face, you're so used to
Unknown:looking around the arms of the starfish, you can't see it's
Unknown:kind of sucking you dry. So you need someone outside of yourself
Unknown:to come up and say, excuse me, you got a starfish on your head?
Unknown:Can I help you with it? Let's take it off and and put it down
Unknown:over here. Now what's your view like? Oh my gosh, I can see so
Unknown:much better. And if I work with a client, I help them go back
Unknown:and back and back to understand the longevity of the pattern,
Unknown:what their victimization and or role is in the pattern and what
Unknown:steps they can take to change it. And this is spiritual
Unknown:progress. Because many times a pattern has gone on for
Unknown:lifetimes I do past life regressions do. People are
Unknown:murdered by the same person life after life. They're raped by the
Unknown:same person life after life after life. I studied Edith
Unknown:theories work and Raymond Moody and Bruce Kohlberg. All these
Unknown:amazing people. When you look at what that historical foundation
Unknown:is, we can change our future if we can create an awareness that
Unknown:we have that power
Alan Carroll:can create, we can change the future if we have
Alan Carroll:awareness that we have the power, the power to do what
Unknown:the power to recognize the pattern, and then change it.
Unknown:So
Alan Carroll:to be able to recognize something going on in
Alan Carroll:this moment of now requires you to be able to be a space between
Alan Carroll:you and the something that you're that you're looking at.
Unknown:That's correct. Okay. And it also requires someone to
Unknown:gently point out that what you thought was real, might have a
Unknown:different interpretation. And I've had so many clients who are
Unknown:so abused, I have a lot of women who never had children, because
Unknown:they were so horribly sexually abused that they, they needed to
Unknown:heal themselves. So I give them a great deal of credit for not
Unknown:wanting to perpetrate additional abuse on a child when they
Unknown:hadn't healed themselves. Because the subconscious of an
Unknown:individual is frozen at their earliest trauma. That's a really
Unknown:powerful statement, which I have been working with the
Unknown:subconscious of, you know, 1000s of clients. If the subconscious
Unknown:of a person is frozen at the age of their earliest trauma, and
Unknown:I'll use my father as an example. When my father was six,
Unknown:his father went to Paris for the National Exhibition or the Paris
Unknown:World's Fair. And he died there. So his father died, he never saw
Unknown:him again. His mother came to America to set up shop, and he
Unknown:was given to his grandmother who beat him every day. My father
Unknown:was frozen at the age of seven. He didn't have either parent for
Unknown:a long time, and the grandparent he had was abusive. And he was a
Unknown:child in a big body, so much of his life. And God bless him. He
Unknown:tried, he really tried. And the insecurity he felt was so
Unknown:difficult to overcome. He's one of the one of the things we all
Unknown:have to understand is the impact our parents have on us. There
Unknown:are no perfect parents. I love Mitch albums book, the five
Unknown:people you meet in heaven. And in the early stages of his book,
Unknown:he says all parents damaged their children. Just some
Unknown:parents do it worse than others. I'm sure you've heard of Mitch,
Unknown:remarkable author. I read a lot of authors. And it's everyone
Unknown:offers you something.
Alan Carroll:That's right. That's right.
Unknown:And when I'm, I look at my father, or I look at the
Unknown:things that happened to my mother, and they they were in
Unknown:resonance with each other. She was abused as a child, her
Unknown:father was horribly abusive. Her mother was a private duty nurse,
Unknown:and she was always gone. So here you have two people who were
Unknown:abused, they had the same resonant frequency of somewhat
Unknown:of abuse. Now they're married. They did not abuse their four
Unknown:children, for which I am truly grateful. I didn't mean we had
Unknown:perfect childhoods. But to their credit, they really, really
Unknown:tried to provide us with better childhoods than they had You
Unknown:bet. And so to a degree, they were able to separate what
Unknown:happened to them for perpetrating it on all of us.
Unknown:And isn't that the hope each of us have, when we have children
Unknown:will, we'll be able to provide more or better or more stable
Unknown:for our children than we had. So when I'm working with a client,
Unknown:especially someone who has been abused, and sexual abuse is the
Unknown:Hmong, the most hideous and if we're going to talk metaphysics,
Unknown:sexual abuse is an initiation into the dark side. Because it
Unknown:is a it is a power center in the body. And if you study all of
Unknown:the elements that come with metaphysics, you also have it's
Unknown:like a doctor has to look at germs, bacteria, viruses, and
Unknown:mold. How do they infiltrate the body? And what's the long term
Unknown:effect? The long term effect of child abuse, especially sexual
Unknown:abuse, is that it separates the child from their higher self. It
Unknown:separates the subconscious is the gatekeeper to higher self.
Unknown:If you have frozen that subconscious at the age of that
Unknown:hideous trauma, that subconscious sometimes hides,
Unknown:very difficult for that subconscious then to connect to
Unknown:higher self. Because the subconscious is the gatekeeper.
Unknown:And this was astonishing to me, because I, you know, I work
Unknown:with, I help people understand they have a conscious and
Unknown:subconscious and superconscious. And if you want to be on the
Unknown:spiritual path, you have to know how to contact your
Unknown:superconscious your higher self. This is some great mystical
Unknown:thing. Not really, it's much more straightforward. I mean, it
Unknown:doesn't have to be mystical. I mean, you can make it mystical.
Unknown:But if you're really honest, it's pretty straightforward. And
Unknown:the process I use goes back to a tradition that goes back to the
Unknown:original 12 tribes, which is Hoonah. Have you ever heard of
Unknown:Hoonah? Ah, una? No. I actually brought this book. It's called
Unknown:Hoonah. A Beginner's Guide by Enid Hoffman. I don't know what
Unknown:beginner she's talking about, because this is not for the
Unknown:faint hearted. But one of my teachers introduced me to
Unknown:Hoonah. There is only one sin in the Hoonah tradition, which is a
Unknown:Hawaiian tradition, the great Kahuna. It goes all the way back
Unknown:to the original, some of the original beings on the planet.
Unknown:And the laws that they set down for human beings to follow to
Unknown:lead happy and prosperous lives, included the element of
Unknown:spirituality, and continuing to connect to the higher self and
Unknown:our connections to God. I'm not a person who uses the word
Unknown:spirit. Spirit is alcohol. If you're going to if you're going
Unknown:to connect, be specific. So in the Hoonah tradition, there's
Unknown:only one sin and that's hurting one of the three selves, your
Unknown:conscious, your subconscious and your superconscious. If you
Unknown:You're constantly saying I'm dumb, I'm stupid. You know, I
Unknown:knew a mom who was constantly telling her a little girl, she
Unknown:was a fatty, she was a little hippo, she's a baby elephant. So
Unknown:the girl was enormous. She grew up to be what her mother
Unknown:believed about her. And when the conscious self can't see itself
Unknown:as, as whole, perfect and complete, that's a problem. The
Unknown:job of the subconscious is to keep you alive, your eyes,
Unknown:blink, your heartbeat, the blood to flow. And the conscious self
Unknown:develops all the plans for your life, I'm going to go do this,
Unknown:I'm going to go do that. But you don't get very far unless you
Unknown:have a relationship with your subconscious. And one of the
Unknown:things I teach clients is how to build that relationship with
Unknown:their subconscious. Your subconscious helps you remember
Unknown:things, your subconscious warns you don't do that. And as you
Unknown:begin to honor that part of you that unsung hero inside of you,
Unknown:you get this door opening to the light of the Divine and higher
Unknown:cell. As you engage in more prayer, this is outside the
Unknown:confines of religion and dogma and scripture, this is the most
Unknown:basic element of the priesthood of all believers, you should be
Unknown:able to pray to God without an intermediary, that thank you,
Unknown:Martin Luther for that. And when a client is able to understand
Unknown:that they have that power, and you have reinvigorated their
Unknown:subconscious, and you've worked to heal their conscious self,
Unknown:then the client can begin to make some powerful changes. Not
Unknown:everyone can do that, it requires a great deal of insight
Unknown:and willingness to face some really tough things. But if you
Unknown:can do it, you can change your life
Alan Carroll:so so rich, so rich, like eating cake. Very,
Alan Carroll:very rich, and also very, very clear. It's I liked I liked the
Alan Carroll:clarity of your of your speaking about something that's abstract,
Alan Carroll:that's really a, it's really a gift to be able to frame it in
Alan Carroll:different ways. And I, I, I'm a big fan of the creating the
Alan Carroll:buffer zone of space. And to me, the creation of space requires
Alan Carroll:you to have to take something out in order to create the
Alan Carroll:space. And so that's the but the key is observation of what what
Alan Carroll:that something is outside of the pattern. And my favorite movie
Alan Carroll:is the is the matrix one where they use the red pill in order
Alan Carroll:to get Neo outside of the thought of the matrix to wake
Alan Carroll:up. And to me waking up is like a lucid dream. Where you dream
Alan Carroll:at night dream a dream a dream and then once in a while home
Alan Carroll:you wake up in the dream and that was a altering of
Alan Carroll:consciousness that was just gave me tingles, I always thought
Alan Carroll:it'd be nice to have lucid dreams and I when you were
Alan Carroll:talking about the the captain of the ship, intuitively, I use the
Alan Carroll:word intuitively sensing something beyond the physical
Alan Carroll:reality of logic to me it's the more still you become in
Alan Carroll:speaking the more still you become physically the calmer you
Alan Carroll:are and it's like the leaves are settling down and the wind is no
Alan Carroll:longer blowing and things are settling and settling down and
Alan Carroll:and then that to me creates a word curtain comes up in my
Alan Carroll:mind's eye a curtain between myself and the the metaphysical
Alan Carroll:that curtain begins to fade away and in my ego seems to fade away
Alan Carroll:to as I as I shift from that and when I was reading your bio i i
Alan Carroll:was i want to do talk about the black magic and the white magic
Alan Carroll:and and you also you introduced it a little bit earlier saying
Alan Carroll:the dark side the the child sexual molestation of children
Alan Carroll:is is part of the dark the dark side. And so I'd like to just
Alan Carroll:hear you talk a little bit about white magic and black magic.
Unknown:Well, all thought is energy. Basically all thought is
Unknown:a form of magic because it's it crea ate? What do you think you
Unknown:create? And what's
Alan Carroll:going on? I know you want to go slow on that one.
Alan Carroll:That was like a home run. So I want to I want to make sure
Alan Carroll:people understood that was this a home run? Go ahead and spend
Alan Carroll:some more time.
Unknown:When you are thinking about something, it is part of a
Unknown:creative process. I started with a remarkable man named Dr.
Unknown:Abraham Kareem. He was the founder of biogeometry. I just
Unknown:adore this man. And he talked about creation. In a way I'd
Unknown:never heard anyone discuss it. I'm an art freak, I have
Unknown:hundreds and hundreds of paintings. And there is a
Unknown:creative element to all of the art that surrounds me. And what
Unknown:Dr. Karim explained, and I am trying to be really careful, I
Unknown:give credit to the people whose original idea of was. So if
Unknown:someone wants to look it up, they are certainly welcome.
Unknown:Don't just believe me, do your own due diligence. When you
Unknown:create, you connect to God. My father was a furniture designer.
Unknown:And when he was designing beautiful furniture he would
Unknown:have on Mozart and Chopin and Schumann and Bach, Beethoven,
Unknown:because the frequency of the music, it's like it opened up
Unknown:the pathways for him to feel the divine, live within him. And he
Unknown:created beautiful things. And when that happened, he was an
Unknown:amazing designer. And so when I look at every piece of art I
Unknown:have on the wall, whether it's a photograph, or a painting, or
Unknown:sculpture or bronze, the artist is sharing with me their
Unknown:connection to the divine, that thought that creation is divine.
Unknown:And the more beautiful it is, the higher the frequency.
Unknown:There's a whole dissertation on frequency. And when you are
Unknown:thinking, your thoughts, program, your cells, and the
Unknown:person who did the work on this, who also worked with Dr. Karim,
Unknown:briefly, was Dr. Masaru, Emoto, who wrote messages from water.
Unknown:And Dr. Emoto proved that words impact the water in our cells.
Unknown:And when we say You are beautiful, or your work is
Unknown:wonderful, or I love you, the cell, the water in the cells is
Unknown:charged with light. But when someone says I hate you, or
Unknown:they're abusing you, or it's a terrible word, Dr. Emoto proved
Unknown:that it causes a distortion of the water molecules. This is
Unknown:about as hard science as you're going to ever get. So all
Unknown:thought is energy. How am I doing so far? Oh, I
Alan Carroll:love it. I use the paintbrush on the canvas, trying
Alan Carroll:to explain that if I can control the thoughts, I control the
Alan Carroll:paintbrush that paints the 35 millimeter slide that then I
Alan Carroll:project onto the reality in which I'm looking at. And that's
Alan Carroll:exactly right. Yep. So go I'm right with you. I love it.
Unknown:Well, when you are creating a thought, If all
Unknown:you've ever heard as a child are negative things. And one woman
Unknown:who was just her father beat her every day, she was six one, the
Unknown:tall, she's beautiful woman just tall. And I do a group. I did it
Unknown:for years, a monthly group called Light times and we would
Unknown:come and discuss metaphysical topics. And I wrote all the
Unknown:handout I wrote 70 different notes for all different topics.
Unknown:And as she was leaving, I heard this voice say ask her if she
Unknown:wants an appointment and and I kept my foot on the line of
Unknown:spiritual law because you can't tell somebody they need to have
Unknown:an appointment with you. But someone said, If she leaves,
Unknown:she'll kill herself. You have to say something. They said, Have
Unknown:you have you ever considered maybe we should work together? I
Unknown:have an opening next week and she said yes. Yes. Oh, I would
Unknown:love to do that. said okay. And she went home. She didn't kill
Unknown:herself at night. And she told me that was her plan let him
Unknown:years later. And in this woman's story, she had been so abused by
Unknown:her father, he was this horrible, horrible man. And
Unknown:she'd been to I don't know how many different people for help.
Unknown:And they all told her her husband was the problem. So I
Unknown:asked her if I could speak to her husband, and she adored him.
Unknown:He was the sweetest, kindest man. And I just didn't
Unknown:understand why everyone kept saying he was the problem. He
Unknown:wasn't. Her father and her mother were the problem. And I,
Unknown:when we're sitting, talking face to face, I asked her, I said,
Unknown:when your father beat you, what did your mother do? She didn't
Unknown:say anything. And they said, when your father was beating
Unknown:your sister into mental retardation because of Shaken
Unknown:Baby Syndrome, which he did, which he should have been sent
Unknown:to prison for assault, what did your mother do? She just stood
Unknown:there. When I was crying in the closet, she would come and stand
Unknown:over me and say, I must have deserved it. Because that's why
Unknown:he beat me. I said, Did she ever once comfort you in any way? No,
Unknown:she'd leave him sometimes. But we'd always come back. I grew to
Unknown:be six foot one, and he couldn't beat me anymore, because I was
Unknown:taller than he was. And only then, but he leaves me alone. I
Unknown:was covered with black and blue marks. And this principal and
Unknown:the teacher were horrified. But my mother begged them not to say
Unknown:anything. And then he just kept beating me. And I said, I need
Unknown:and she said, you know, and I just love my mother so much. And
Unknown:I so I, I'm going to kind of break this bubble a little bit.
Unknown:Problem is not your husband. And ironically, it's not your
Unknown:father. Your mother is the biggest abuser because it's the
Unknown:sin of omission. She stood there and watched him brutalize two
Unknown:children. And she did nothing, absolutely nothing to defend
Unknown:you. And she always came back for the abuse. Your mother is
Unknown:the largest abuser. And I have a feeling you've been angry at her
Unknown:for a really long time. And it's like, you know, I pulled a
Unknown:little thing out of the dam, and bam, all this emotion came out.
Unknown:And I said, Do you have any photographs of your father as a
Unknown:child? She said, I do. I don't do this with every client. But I
Unknown:did it with her. She brought all of her family photos. So we went
Unknown:back a couple generations, and we look at the children. And we
Unknown:can identify the date, the age, they all all of the abuse
Unknown:started because I said do you see it in their faces? This is
Unknown:generational. And it's wrong. All of this is wrong. What they
Unknown:did to you was wrong. She said really? And and then I did this
Unknown:odd thing. I said, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry, this happened to
Unknown:you. You didn't deserve those things. And again, it's like I
Unknown:pushed a button and the tears came. I want you to know I think
Unknown:you are the finest, most wonderful person, the sweetest,
Unknown:kindest person and you didn't beat your children did you know
Unknown:and I said, and you're such a good person that you married the
Unknown:finest husband, you could have married, he's been with you.
Unknown:He's been loyal and true to you. And it hasn't been easy. And
Unknown:it's just this acknowledgement of how hard it's been for her.
Unknown:It's just feeling that she could be loved. And that what her
Unknown:mother did was not love. It was the worst abuse. She never stood
Unknown:up to him. And I said that was your mother's challenge. That
Unknown:was one of the biggest things she was here to do in this
Unknown:lifetime. She just didn't choose to do it. She didn't choose to
Unknown:take that opportunity. That is not your fault. You gave her
Unknown:ample opportunities. And so did your sister who's now in a group
Unknown:Oh, because she, her brain is fried. And you have been a loyal
Unknown:sister to her. And we resolved so many issues. There were
Unknown:lawsuits or all these horrible things and one by one. As she
Unknown:healed all these other separate little things began to heal.
Unknown:Slowly but surely. In an age time, I would remind her because
Unknown:it was the truth. I'm not making this up. She's a really good
Unknown:person. She was a wonderful wife, a loving mother A genuine
Unknown:friend. And as she began, it's like I'm healing all those
Unknown:little water molecules inside of her with the gentleness of
Unknown:words. Her husband had been trying to do it. He needed
Unknown:someone in his court and he and I started to work together, like
Unknown:a, a combined action. And their marriage became significantly
Unknown:better. Her happiness became better. They began to go out to
Unknown:do different things, and she did not ever kill herself. And that
Unknown:sounds like a small accomplishment, but for her to
Unknown:have live for her to live a whole life. And she said to me,
Unknown:do I have to forgive them, and I said, I'm not the forgiveness
Unknown:place. Forgiveness, calm, comes at a moment in time, when you're
Unknown:ready, you can't order it, you can't legislate it. It has to
Unknown:happen at a time and place that works for you. The Jews forgave
Unknown:the Nazis, because they said it set them free. They weren't
Unknown:forever the prisoner of the Nazis. But they didn't forget.
Unknown:And that's a key point, just because forgiveness isn't a free
Unknown:pass, oh, well, I forgive you. So you could do it again, and
Unknown:understand what that means, means you set yourself free,
Unknown:what that person did earn them the karma of their actions, your
Unknown:forgiveness doesn't change the karma that is earned for that
Unknown:particular set of actions. So that's where I'm going with
Unknown:that.
Alan Carroll:The, the idea of sin, and the idea of salvation,
Alan Carroll:the forgiveness of sin, is clearly stated several places
Alan Carroll:all over in the Bible. And the key to forget, the key to
Alan Carroll:salvation is forgiveness, forgiveness of what, for me, it
Alan Carroll:must be in my movie that I'm painting in my mind, I have
Alan Carroll:these brown spots where I hold grievances about what happened
Alan Carroll:to me. And, and that becomes my identity. And, and I'm in the
Alan Carroll:preservation of my identity business, not the letting go of
Alan Carroll:my identity business. So how do you get people to the letting go
Alan Carroll:of the identity in order to practice the forgiveness when
Alan Carroll:it's appropriate?
Unknown:I would say that's a real challenge. And no one lives
Unknown:a life without being hurt, without being betrayed, without
Unknown:being abused in some way, without experience. When you
Unknown:don't need an experience anymore, it just stops
Unknown:happening. I mean, that's kind of a spiritual law. You have
Unknown:experiences so you can learn from them. When you've taken
Unknown:every last ounce, you feel like you can learn from them, then
Unknown:you can recount as difficult as it was the value of the
Unknown:experience. When you are conscious of the value of the
Unknown:experience, then it opens a doorway for you to then forgive
Unknown:the person that perpetrated it. And I like I said, I don't know
Unknown:if anyone who can go through a mortal life, or multiple lives
Unknown:and not have difficult experiences. And we live life
Unknown:after life after life so that we can work through them all. And
Unknown:remember, I was so angry one time and my one of my teachers
Unknown:said, you have to get this right this lifetime, you have to
Unknown:resolve this. I was really angry at my mother in law. Because I
Unknown:knew I had conscious memory that she was responsible for my death
Unknown:in a previous life. And it was crystal clear. It wasn't like
Unknown:somebody told me and I could see it when a lot of people have
Unknown:memory of previous lives.
Alan Carroll:But that's a psychic quality psychics are
Alan Carroll:able to do things like that. Yes, well, I
Unknown:have that. I have somewhat of that ability. Yes.
Unknown:And, but I didn't tell her that she just hated me on site. And I
Unknown:saw I saw her I started vomiting. And it was not. It was
Unknown:my subconscious recognizing a previous threat. So because of
Unknown:all of the studies and then I was working with my teacher He
Unknown:said, How many lifetimes are you going to go before you come to
Unknown:terms with this woman? You have to figure this out. And I
Unknown:realized I was holding rage. No one is exempt from this
Unknown:certainly not me. I was holding this rage from a past life. And
Unknown:she wasn't much better this life. What she was turned out to
Unknown:be an opportunity. You there are certain again, spiritual laws,
Unknown:you can't change anyone else, you can only change yourself.
Unknown:You can't want something from someone else that they don't
Unknown:want for themselves. And you can't want something from
Unknown:someone they have no capacity to give you. Those are those are
Unknown:given hard, fast rules. And what I realized, took me to working
Unknown:with him, it took me a little while and then I realized that
Unknown:she really had no power over me anymore as wearing the ruby
Unknown:slippers, and I forgot that I had them on.
Unknown:And that she had no power anymore. And that she wasn't
Unknown:going to kill me this lifetime.
Unknown:She's just didn't like me, okay, I wasn't her choice. I get it.
Unknown:And we hadn't spoken to her in 14 years, as my daughter says, I
Unknown:gave new meaning to timeout, she did something I felt was pretty
Unknown:unforgivable. So what we, what we did was, I didn't like who I
Unknown:was, when I was near her, it's like, my whole personality
Unknown:changed. And I felt that if we didn't have contact, that I
Unknown:could find some way to come to terms with who she was, and how
Unknown:to have a relationship with her. in cosmic time, that's actually
Unknown:pretty quick. And we did, we, we did reach out to her, set up
Unknown:some ground rules, and we rebuilt the relationship with
Unknown:with each other that my husband and and she and I. And we were
Unknown:able to establish some ground rules that worked. And she was
Unknown:able to tell me that she loved me. And I was able to say that I
Unknown:loved her too. And it turns out, she was very generous to our
Unknown:children. And she, she changed, not because I made her change,
Unknown:but because I changed, right. Right. And, and I'm sharing that
Unknown:story because, you know, and I didn't go to perfect school, I
Unknown:came to mortal school. And that makes that makes a difference.
Unknown:She, she didn't say she was still pretty hard with my sister
Unknown:in law. But we helped, we helped her by managing the estate when
Unknown:my mother in law died. And for which my sister in law was
Unknown:deeply, deeply grateful. And in a lot of families you have
Unknown:fighting over in a state there was no fighting, there was 100%
Unknown:agreement with everything. And when you do that, it makes
Unknown:everything so much smoother. So now when I look back on that
Unknown:experience with her, the Tibetans say your enemy is your
Unknown:greatest teacher, and I want you to know I got a PhD from her
Alan Carroll:it's the ability to see something terrible, and
Alan Carroll:be able to paint it one way in your mind and therefore that's
Alan Carroll:what you see. And then being able to change the way you are
Alan Carroll:interpreting what you are seeing. And then all of a
Alan Carroll:sudden, when you watch the movie outside, the movie matches the
Alan Carroll:what you see. And and that to me, we mentioned before is a the
Alan Carroll:power of observation, the power of being a witness to what's
Alan Carroll:going on. And to me that's like a lucid dream. It's just like
Alan Carroll:waking up in a dream world the the dream of thought that we
Alan Carroll:don't even know where to dream the thought was like a dream of
Alan Carroll:thought, but you don't know you're in a dream with thought
Alan Carroll:until you can wake up from the dream of thought. And to me
Alan Carroll:that's that space you talked about the the ability to create
Alan Carroll:that metaphysical space because Spaces Spaces is bits not
Alan Carroll:physical spaces a metaphysical and
Unknown:yes, it's beyond the physics we think we know that's
Unknown:exactly right.
Alan Carroll:But and it's available. And it's there's five
Alan Carroll:elements earth air, fire, water and space. Yes, people sort of
Alan Carroll:space do I That's not that important, well spaced has been
Alan Carroll:told to be the mother of the other four elements, because
Alan Carroll:something comes out of nothing and nothing is going to be
Alan Carroll:space. And so the key is that ability to create the space. And
Alan Carroll:new has certainly, and when you create the space, you can, you
Alan Carroll:can have a frequency that that allows you entry into a portal
Alan Carroll:that's available to everybody is the way I see it. And you talked
Alan Carroll:about frequencies. And if I remember, frequencies are magic
Alan Carroll:things if you have the right frequency, abracadabra, ba, ba,
Alan Carroll:ba, ba, ba, ba, you're doing a frequency with your words and
Alan Carroll:opens up the lock. And so you mentioned frequencies. And I
Alan Carroll:know I need to get to the completion of our of our
Alan Carroll:podcast, because it's just a it's just, there's so many
Alan Carroll:avenues that are that are tickling my body. And the
Alan Carroll:frequency conversation, I think is a really important
Alan Carroll:conversation. And you seem to be a subject matter expert on
Alan Carroll:frequencies. So I'd like to suggest if this works for us,
Alan Carroll:we'll schedule another podcast.
Unknown:We'll be really, that'd be awesome. I've written two
Unknown:books on frequency. So yeah, so
Alan Carroll:perfect. Perfect. Now, before we complete this
Alan Carroll:podcast, is there How does one connect with you and the work
Alan Carroll:that you're doing?
Unknown:I actually have two websites, Tina irwin.com, it's
Unknown:urban with an E, or ghost helpers.com. Because I do teach
Unknown:the living to help the dead, it's another one of the little
Unknown:things I do. And to help the dead without immediate you
Unknown:shouldn't have to pay a medium to help your loved one. And the
Unknown:opportunity to to help someone is really the whole purpose of
Unknown:moral life is to be of service to others is is truly the bottom
Unknown:line. And and I'm so grateful that you gave me an opportunity
Unknown:to share some thoughts today and maybe something that we said,
Unknown:will trigger something in another person and we will have
Unknown:helped someone today and that that is really what I live for.
Alan Carroll:I started the beginning for the podcast with a
Alan Carroll:prayer. And the prayer was das divine light to become president
Alan Carroll:and allow us to manifest something with the divine light
Alan Carroll:of our conversations today. So we're we're on the we're on the
Alan Carroll:same frequency. Awesome. Well, thank you very much. I enjoyed
Alan Carroll:the conversation. Obviously Tina, and I look forward to the
Alan Carroll:next opportunity. We have to sparkle the space.
Unknown:That was fantastic.
Alan Carroll:Thank you. All righty.