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Healthy Living Without Sacrificing your Quality of Life (or missing out on the Holiday treats)
Episode 6916th December 2021 • The Wealth and Wellness Podcast with Kalee Boisvert • Kalee Boisvert
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In this episode, we are joined by special guest Esther Avant who is passionate about supporting people achieve their greatest health and wellbeing, without having to sacrifice their quality of life. Esther shares some of the biggest challenges she sees women confront when it comes to weight loss and nutrition and shares realistic strategies that you can implement right now to empower yourself to feel confident around your food and exercise choices. When it comes to living your best life it shouldn’t feel overwhelming, stressful, and unrealistic – Esther shares how a holistic approach can set you up for long-term success. And if you are ready to live your healthiest, happiest, and most confident life – but would like some support getting there be sure to check out EA Coaching’s packages at Esther’s website link below. 

  

About the Guest: 

Esther Avant is a Certified Sports Nutritionist (CISSN), Nutrition Coach (PN 1&2) and Personal Trainer (ACE), and owner of EA Coaching. She has a degree in Exercise Science, 15 years of hands-on experience in the fitness/wellness industry, and specializes in helping women lose weight for the last time without sacrificing their quality of life or health.

 

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Website: www.estheravant.com

Instagram: www.instagram.com/esther.avant

Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/livedietfree

About the Host:

I am a financial professional, who specializes in helping people to achieve their financial goals.  My absolute passion is creating new possibilities in people’s lives by showing them the ropes when it comes to money. I’m here to spark healthy and positive conversations around wealth and investment and create a world where nobody is limited by their financial situation. I believe this begins with education and shifting our relationships with money. I love getting to witness people achieving their most ambitious goals and creating new possibilities for themselves and their families! 

 

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Email: kalee.boisvert@raymondjames.ca

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaleeboisvert/

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Kalee Boisvert:

Welcome to the wealth and wellness podcast with

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me Kaylie Bob air. I specialize in helping people to achieve

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their financial goals. I have a love for all things numbers, and

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I'm passionate about financial literacy. My goal is to spark

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healthy and positive conversations around wealth and

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investment, and create a world where nobody is limited by their

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financial situation. But wealth is just one piece of the

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equation of living our best lives. So join me as we explore

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both wealth and wellness topics. From your net worth to your self

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worth. Get ready to take confident action. Hello, this is

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Kaylee. And thank you so much for listening in to this episode

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of the wealth and wellness Podcast. I'm really excited for

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today's episode, I haven't had an episode like this yet, which

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is shocking to me. It's very important. So I'm glad we're

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doing it now. And I think the timing is very good with the

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holidays coming up, the new year coming up. And a lot of people

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have fitness goals, nutrition goals, health goals. So that's

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all about what we're talking about today. And we're joined by

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special guest for this. So today we're joined by Esther advant

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did I see your last name right? Event event.

Esther Avant:

And so when I started dating the family to

Esther Avant:

Okay, event,

Kalee Boisvert:

Esther is a certified sports nutritionist, a

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nutrition coach and personal trainer, and owner of EA

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coaching. She has a degree in Exercise Science 15 years of

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hands on experience in the fitness and wellness industry.

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And she specializes in helping women lose weight for the last

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time without sacrificing their quality of life or health. I

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love that I love that focus too on working with women. That's

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definitely what I do in my goal as well when it comes to the

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wealth side of things. So that's very important for me. So just

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to get started, Esther, can you share a little bit about

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yourself? And maybe what brought you to do the work you're doing?

Unknown:

Yeah, great question. So I kind of fell into this

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field gradually, when I was in high school and trying to you

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know, pick a future, I had really gotten into exercising.

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And I was like, Well, if I can get paid to do that all day,

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let's do that. So that's kind of what led to my degree, I started

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personal training in college. And then it was like, kind of

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each step of my career made me realize how little I knew, and

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how much more I needed to learn to really help my clients to the

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best of my ability. So you know, I started off, I had this

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exercise background, and I realized just how important

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nutrition piece was. And then once I had a good handle on both

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of those, I realized how important psychology and

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behavior change was to actually be able to take that information

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and help someone change their lives with it. So that's kind of

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what I consider the trifecta is the exercise the nutrition, the,

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you know, sort of mindset work. And that's, that's what led me

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to, I guess, ultimately, this, this business that I own, when I

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met my husband was when I first started started entertaining the

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idea of owning my own business. He's in the military. And I'd

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been previously working for other people in gyms and various

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locations. And I was like, every time we move for his job, I

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don't want to be starting over. So why don't I just do it on my

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own, and that over time has evolved into what VA coaching is

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now with an entire team of coaches working with our clients

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and a variety of coaching options, which just blows my

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mind how, how much it's grown in the last few years.

Kalee Boisvert:

I love that. Yeah. Being that yeah, we're

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virtual, you can do it from anywhere that's fabulous. And to

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be able to kind of assist people from anywhere is wonderful. I

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love that too, about that holistic approach, like bringing

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together the different pieces because we often kind of take it

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as a, you know, one thing, it's like, Okay, I'm going to commit

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to exercising, okay, I'm going to commit to changing, you know,

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my nutrition or my diet or, and so bringing that all together

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and even the mindset piece, like you said, it's so important, I

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think. So it is that holistic view of things. It's not just

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kind of focusing Ultra focusing on one thing it sounds like

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which I think is great important. That's probably part

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of that, that maintenance piece that's really important and in

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the messaging of what you do have that ongoing and keeping

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that quality of life. So, again, I love this for the New Year

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topic. It's often the time So like over the holidays, maybe

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people kind of feel like they get off track and sort of

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indulge in all sorts of things. And then come January, it's like

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this reset point. And oftentimes it's people are ready to go.

Kalee Boisvert:

It's, you know, fitness goals and what they want to accomplish

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with weight goals or things like that. Can you tell us maybe some

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of the biggest struggles you see, especially in regards to

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that, like that consistency, that maintenance? Because we're

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kind of coming up to that period where it does really, I think,

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resonate with people. And it's a big part of like, yeah, people's

Kalee Boisvert:

New Year's resolutions and goals and things like that.

Unknown:

Yeah, there were a few things that came up actually did

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an event in November for my community about the biggest

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challenges of the holiday season. And asked my audience

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prior to that, you know, what, what do you struggle with, and

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there were a couple of kind of overarching themes that came up.

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One was learning how to strike a balance where a lot of women and

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aware kind of Yo yo, dieting and weight comes from, is feeling

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like the two options are either you say no to everything that

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you enjoy, and that tastes good. And you know, right now, that

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would mean no cookies, no alcohol, no phone, cocktails,

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none of that stuff, or you eat and drink all of it. Until you

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know until you get so disgusted by yourself, and then you swear

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off it. And that most of us kind of have that pendulum swinging

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back and forth. So one of the biggest struggles that came up

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is finding balance between those two things where you are able to

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indulge in the things that you really enjoy, without going so

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far overboard, that you're making yourself miserable. So

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that was one of the biggest things another was communication

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and being able to convey boundaries to people around you

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just kind of being out of routine in general. And not

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necessarily feeling comfortable saying to your house guests,

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make yourself breakfast, I'm going to do my workout. Or when

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you're staying with a family member, or Oh, don't you know,

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I'm going to I'm just gonna excuse myself for a little bit,

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I'm gonna go for a walk or whatever it is just kind of

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letting going with the flow a little bit too much, and not

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kind of putting your foot down saying, hey, you know what, this

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is what I need to feel my best. So I'm going to speak my piece

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and just kind of tell the people around me, this is this is what

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I'm gonna do, or this is what I need help with, even though

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those same people are the ones who love you more than anything,

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and, of course, want you to be happy and do what you need to do

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to be healthy, and, and all of that. So that was another one.

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And then just kind of general consistency is tough being

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thrown out of routine, whether it's because you're traveling or

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on vacation, or you have people staying with you just the kids

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are home, it's hard to keep doing the things when they're

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disrupted in some way. So figuring out how can I create

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some routine and some normalcy even in the midst of kind of

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what feels like chaos? So can you anchor yourself to a couple

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of familiar things each day? Can you eat a normal breakfast? Or

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can you get up and go for a walk or do some form of light

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movement, just to kind of set your intention for the day

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started off on the right foot and kind of help you stay

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focused on your goals throughout it, some of those simple things

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can make a huge difference. And then I think the final thing is,

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we kind of let the holiday season all just kind of get

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jumbled together. And basically everything from like Halloween

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through New Year's kind of gets thrown into the holidays, when

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in reality, and we actually did a planning event about this in

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my client community, actually sitting down with your calendar

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and mapping out how many special or unusual days do I have in

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this period of time. Because those as like isolated meals or

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days are really pretty insignificant. It's the fact

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that we let the day before Thanksgiving, through the end of

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the week become one kind of big eating fest, or we let

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everything from mid December through New Year's become eating

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and drinking, eating and drinking centric, as opposed to

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saying, okay, cool. I'm going to indulge on those actually

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genuinely special meals. And there's the time I'm just going

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to be normal would would make so many of us so much more

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successful.

Kalee Boisvert:

Yeah, I love that. Yeah, those are great

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reminders. And yeah, I like the idea to have the boundary one.

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And I just never even dawned on me. But you're right when you're

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in kind of environments that you're not used to you just sort

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of think that it's yeah, you kind of just mold into their

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routines or do what you do or do less and just Yeah, saying hey,

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you know, normally I go for a walk normally I do my exercise,

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so I'm going to go do that. There's nothing wrong with that.

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But it's it's almost just we're thrown off course a little bit

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so I love exactly reminder of boundaries. That's a really good

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one for people. Um, what about for those of us who feel like

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the topics of weight loss, nutrition are overwhelming or

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confusing. There's just, there's so much information out there.

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And information is great. But I feel like sometimes it's

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conflicting. And then you know, you get all sort of your head is

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spiraling of okay, which is which and what should I follow?

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And? And then yeah, you might just be like, Man, or I don't

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even know. So I'm just not even going to bother. So what are

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your thoughts or advice for that for people that feel that

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overwhelmingness confusion when it comes to these topics,

Unknown:

you're so right, and that's something I hear so often

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is, you know, a genuine desire to learn and to do better. And

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then there's just so much information, like you said, a

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lot of conflicting, that the last thing you want to do is get

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started with the wrong thing. So you'll almost be like, well,

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until I know what the right thing is to do, I shouldn't do

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anything, I should just keep researching. And then you find

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yourself just kind of spinning your wheels, month after month

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not doing anything. So one piece of advice I would give is to,

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you know, potentially limit your exposure to all of that noise.

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Because with social media and with, you know, search engines,

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you can have trillions of, you know, pieces of information at

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your fingertips within seconds. And if that's what you've been

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doing, and you're feeling overwhelmed, just block all that

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out and kind of ask yourself, what do I know to be true? What

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what changes do I know that I could make to my lifestyle right

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now, that would be a step in the right direction. And usually,

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when you're not distracted by all that stuff, you do have a

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pretty good idea. Most of us know, I could probably be eating

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more fruits and veggies, I could probably eat fewer things that

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are totally processed and packaged, and you know, calorie

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dense, but nutrient void, I could probably drink more water,

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I could walk more, I could sleep better. The basics like that are

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the majority of where results come from. So I always suggest,

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start with kind of the low hanging fruit first, wherever

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you feel like you personally can wrap your head around making a

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change, if that's getting a simple step counter and saying

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okay, right now I work 2000 steps a day. This next week, I'm

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working getting to 3000, whatever you do in the

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beginning, is a great step. Because what you really want to

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do is just build some momentum, and collect some wins under your

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belt and start to feel like you are making a little bit of

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progress. And like you're taking action and it's working. So once

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you've done some of that some of that really simple stuff, then

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you've built a little bit of confidence in yourself, you've

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proven to yourself that you can set a goal and follow through on

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it. So then it's not that much harder to say, You know what,

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this feels a little bit like a bigger a bigger undertaking. But

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I'm confident I can do it. Because look at this other stuff

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I've done. So then maybe you start tackling, doing a little

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bit of meal planning or meal prep. And that in and of itself,

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I think can be an overwhelming thing because you kind of think,

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oh, I need all these recipes. And I need all this Tupperware

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and all this time. But I just like to think of it as where do

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you find yourself struggling during the week? And what could

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you do in advance to make that part of your life easier. So it

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could be as simple as every late afternoon, I eat way too many

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snacks. So okay, then the on Sunday afternoon proportion,

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your week's worth of snacks. And anything that is not in those

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you know, individual servings, put it out of sight hard to

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reach somewhere that it's not really going to be on your

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radar. So that when you get snacky at that time you go into

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the pantry, you've got your bag, you have built in portion

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control, you've set yourself up to overcome that recurring

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obstacle. Maybe it's that you are in such a rush with getting

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everybody out the door in the morning, that breakfast is an

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afterthought or it's a Starbucks, you know, muffin with

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your coffee or whatever. But just kind of seeing where is my

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current routine, you know, kind of at odds with my my longer

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term goal. And what could I do in advance to not be struggling

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with that anymore? That's really all it ever has to be. And it

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will look different for everybody. But I think really

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the key is just get out of your own way. Just start somewhere

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don't make it this like grandiose. Okay, today is the

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day we change everything. But like, hey, today's the day I

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start with a glass of water. And I'll do that this week and next

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week. I'm gonna build on it.

Kalee Boisvert:

Yeah, I love that. And there's so much that

Kalee Boisvert:

rings true with what you say in the health space that goes to

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like the wealth side of things and I'm like that's what I was

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doing your podcast recording today and one of my ideas was

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get out of your own way and so very similar, which I love and I

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can kind of see the similarities but that idea of yeah Like

Kalee Boisvert:

shutting out the noise, which seems very counterintuitive at

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first, like what I'm not supposed to be, you know,

Kalee Boisvert:

hearing all this and seeing the newest, the latest trends and

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ideas. But you're right, that's gonna give us an opportunity to

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go in inside and go, you know, into ourselves and be like, Hey,

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I know like, there are those things inside, you know, you're

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like, I don't drink enough water like I can tell this week, you

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know, it's been a busy week, and I haven't been going to grab

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more water and just go, go go like we, we do know these

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things. So it's like quieting the noise, gives us the

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opportunity to go inside, like you said, kind of go internally

Kalee Boisvert:

and check in with ourselves. But yeah, the noise gets us all in

Kalee Boisvert:

a, you know, a fury of okay, I'm supposed to do this, I should do

Kalee Boisvert:

that. Or I should be doing this as none. And it Yeah, it's a it

Kalee Boisvert:

feels overwhelming. It gets, you know, a little bit scary. And

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it's like, I that's too much. I'll do that later.

Unknown:

Exactly. And I think you're right, there are so many

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similarities between health and nutrition, especially, and

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finances. And I think, you know, to speak to finances a little

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bit. It's very similar to somebody who's saying, Okay, I

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want to save X amount of money, I have this big purchase that I

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want. And I need to save money. And then like pulling your hair

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out over? Well, you know, what do we have to cut out? And what

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should I put it in? And like, what are we in visionary

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investors? And instead of just saying, like, let me take a look

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at my current, like, Where's my money currently going? And where

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could I cut some things that I don't really need? Where am I

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kind of spending frivolously? And why don't I let my first

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step just be to save that money? And see that number growing a

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little bit? And that's kind of that's getting the wins under

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your belt? Then you say, oh, you know what I'm capable of saving?

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Now, let me see, would it would it be helpful to be a little

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more strategic about it? Or you know, what, what's the next

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step, but like, just start, just start somewhere proves yourself,

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you can do it. And then you know, your next step will almost

Unknown:

kind of like reveal itself for you.

Kalee Boisvert:

Yeah, exactly. Like it's at any action, like

Kalee Boisvert:

you said, is positive, it's going to lead to results. It's

Kalee Boisvert:

momentum. Maybe you see, oh, you know, you're supposed to get

Kalee Boisvert:

10,000 steps a day, or whatever you hear or read. And then

Kalee Boisvert:

you're like, oh, my gosh, I only get like, 1000. I've been

Kalee Boisvert:

getting on average, well, I'm not even close. And you're just

Kalee Boisvert:

kind of throw your arms up in the air. But it's like, Okay,

Kalee Boisvert:

what if I just like you said, what if I try to double that

Kalee Boisvert:

number? What if I try? Yeah, and then the following week, or the

Kalee Boisvert:

following month, I make a goal, or I'm intentional about saying,

Kalee Boisvert:

Hey, I'm going to bring that up even higher, and then it's not

Kalee Boisvert:

that overwhelming, like, oh, I have to go from 1000 to 10,000.

Kalee Boisvert:

overnight. It's how can I gradually incorporate it where

Kalee Boisvert:

it's realistic. And it's something I can maintain and do

Kalee Boisvert:

because Anything's better than nothing, whether you find that

Kalee Boisvert:

you can get up to that one that amount you want but you've

Kalee Boisvert:

doubled, doubled or tripled, from where you were come that's

Kalee Boisvert:

still making a difference. That's, that's progress.

Unknown:

Exactly. And I think I just I love the the financial

Unknown:

comparisons, because that I feel like it's like saying, in one to

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lose, you know, a significant amount of weight is like saying,

Unknown:

I want to save, you know, $10,000 this year, sometimes

Unknown:

when, of course, you want to have that ultimate goal. But if

Unknown:

that's all you're focusing on, you're never going to start

Unknown:

thinking about what steps are going to get me there. You're

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just going to keep telling yourself month after month, I

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need to save 10 grand oh, I need to save 10 grand it was like,

Unknown:

well, but how? And unless you start to break it down and

Unknown:

figure out, Okay, do I want this to be linear, where each month

Unknown:

I'm saving the same? If so, that's this much per month, this

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much per week, where's that going to come from? You need to

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break it down into the actual actionable pieces. And a lot of

Unknown:

us on you know, health front will just focus on wanting to

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lose a certain amount of weight and kind of get on the scale.

Unknown:

Right? How I lost it yet. How come I haven't. And in reality,

Unknown:

you need to kind of break that down further into, you know,

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what does that look like monthly was lifted weekly. But then more

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importantly, what am I going to do to make that happen? It's not

Unknown:

gonna happen to me, because it hasn't happened yet. So what am

Unknown:

I willing to change in order for that to become the reality?

Kalee Boisvert:

Yeah, yeah. And that's sometimes, you know,

Kalee Boisvert:

sacrifices have to be made. I was saying that to podcast, it's

Kalee Boisvert:

people build wealth and doing so they make sacrifices, like it's

Kalee Boisvert:

not that they just get to, you know, continue as is and

Kalee Boisvert:

everything's grand, and they get to go on every vacation and trip

Kalee Boisvert:

and buy everything they want. There's moments where they have

Kalee Boisvert:

to say, Hey, do I want this more? Or do I want to, you know,

Kalee Boisvert:

work towards that goal more and make those sacrifices so, you

Kalee Boisvert:

know, those moments happen and it's more of a it's a decision

Kalee Boisvert:

of, you know, which do I want more and which is more important

Kalee Boisvert:

to me, so those are going to happen as well. Um, what about

Kalee Boisvert:

what it feels like? Like when it comes to dieting and you

Kalee Boisvert:

mentioned kind of yo yo dieting? And what if it feels like, you

Kalee Boisvert:

know, it feels like it's a forever thing like if a woman or

Kalee Boisvert:

a person just feels like, well, I'm only going to be able to

Kalee Boisvert:

achieve that weight or keep it off or do these things if,

Kalee Boisvert:

basically, I'm on a diet for the rest of my life. And and I

Kalee Boisvert:

guess, you know, that's not really a fun feel.

Unknown:

Yeah, absolutely. So I think that's where a lot of the

Unknown:

information around weight loss is lacking a lot of programs, a

Unknown:

lot of information you'll find is really geared towards losing

Unknown:

weight as fast as possible. And it's not geared towards setting

Unknown:

you up for successful maintenance. Looking

Unknown:

statistically, the overwhelming majority of people who lose

Unknown:

weight will regain it, it's a very small minority who keep it

Unknown:

off a year, five years, 10 years down the road, which is really

Unknown:

kind of a sobering statistic. And I don't say it to be

Unknown:

discouraging, or make you feel like, well, why why even bother

Unknown:

trying, if it's, you know, it's not gonna stick. But to try to

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convey that taking the same approach over and over again, is

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not going to suddenly work this next time. The reason that most

Unknown:

people who lose weight have a hard time keeping it off is

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because the approach that they took to lose, it wasn't

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sustainable, or healthy, or realistic, long term. And most

Unknown:

people are very capable of doing something in the short term, we

Unknown:

can all kind of wrap our heads around being committed for 30

Unknown:

days or a few months or things like that. But it's almost like

Unknown:

when you have that end date in mind, you're just kind of

Unknown:

focusing on the end date of oh, I can kind of go back to normal

Unknown:

after that. And that's where the audio comes from, is you make

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all these sacrifices for a short period of time, and you haven't

Unknown:

made sustainable habit changes. So you then revert right back to

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what you did and just kind of bounced back and forth. So the

Unknown:

key, I think, is to lose the weight in a way that is

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preparing you for maintenance. Because at the end of the day,

Unknown:

no matter how long it takes you to lose the weight, or how long

Unknown:

you've been struggling with the weight, odds are, you have many

Unknown:

more years of maintenance ahead of you than you do of weight

Unknown:

loss. So the thing to be preparing for is that, and what

Unknown:

we try to help our clients do is realize that losing doesn't need

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to feel miserable. It doesn't need to be this giant of people,

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like you said, Of course, there are sacrifices, you're going to

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have to choose your long term goal instead of the short term

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gratification. But when you lose it in a way that you're not

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eliminating certain foods, or food groups, or you're not

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feeling very restricted, you're not over exercising, when you're

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making changes that work with your lifestyle. Yes, the day to

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day results may be slower than what you've done in the past.

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But you're not gonna you're not gonna lose it and gain and lose

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and gain it. So ultimately, it's a lot faster. So that's, that's

Unknown:

the biggest thing is if you are doing something that you feel

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like you're counting down until you can stop. That's kind of a

Unknown:

red flag. And I think sometimes there's some confusion about

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something being sustainable and something feeling totally

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effortless. Of course, when you're making changes, and when

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you're learning new things, there's going to be some

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discomfort, there's going to be that learning curve where it

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doesn't feel natural yet, and you would prefer to do it the

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old way. So you do need to kind of get yourself over that hump

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and be committed to learning in the process. And that's what we

Unknown:

talk to clients a lot about is seeing things as tools and as

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skills and learning experiences. To take with them. For example,

Unknown:

food tracking, I, I think of it as very similar to a financial

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budget, you can pull up your bank record, and you can see

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where's my money going? With a food log, you can pull that up

Unknown:

and see where is my food budget going, where my calorie is being

Unknown:

spent. And from there, you can figure out what choices will,

Unknown:

you know, be a better way to use your budget, which foods maybe

Unknown:

don't make you feel your best, how they all can fit within it.

Unknown:

It's a really eye opening tool, but a lot of people use it as a

Unknown:

crutch or as a punishment or as busy work. So we really work on

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what do you need to learn so that the behavior, the changes

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that you make day to day stick, even when you aren't using that

Unknown:

tool anymore? And I think that's ultimately the most important

Unknown:

thing is if you can kind of ingrain those things in your

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head if you can identify your macronutrients, if you can see

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portions and estimate them relatively easily. If you can

Unknown:

stop thinking about foods as being Good or being bad, you're

Unknown:

going to be so much more successful at maintaining even

Unknown:

when you're not, you know, being super focused on not gaining.

Kalee Boisvert:

Yeah, I love all that, that you said and that,

Kalee Boisvert:

that maintenance and that being then the goal and the important

Kalee Boisvert:

part, not just the number loss in and then the part of the red

Kalee Boisvert:

flag being Yeah, if you're like just counting down the days of

Kalee Boisvert:

like, oh, I can't wait, I only have one more week of, you know,

Kalee Boisvert:

not doing this or having to do that, then. Yeah, it's probably

Kalee Boisvert:

there's been a bit too much sacrifice or too much push that

Kalee Boisvert:

you're not going to be able to it's not a maintaining thing,

Kalee Boisvert:

then it's probably it's more that you're torturing. And we

Kalee Boisvert:

don't want that. Um, yeah. What are some then like realistic

Kalee Boisvert:

habits that people can incorporate? You know, now, like

Kalee Boisvert:

right now. I mean, we're in December right now. holidays are

Kalee Boisvert:

coming. There's lots of, you know, food to be eaten and

Kalee Boisvert:

alcohol to be drink and whatnot and temptations and things like

Kalee Boisvert:

that. Maybe what are some realistic habits that people can

Kalee Boisvert:

incorporate right now that could make could make a difference or

Kalee Boisvert:

help with this? You know, the maintenance and whatnot that we

Kalee Boisvert:

talked about?

Unknown:

Yeah, that's a great question. And I think you're

Unknown:

right that this time of year is the advice that I give is a

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little bit different than I might different time of year, I

Unknown:

think there is a an absolute time and place for things like

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food tracking and understanding the numbers and kind of the

Unknown:

science of weight loss. I think that's where most people are

Unknown:

willing to go in kind of the January frame of mind to where

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you want to kind of make it a priority. Again, this time of

Unknown:

year is more so trying to keep the train on the tracks a little

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bit and kind of just not go as overboard, as maybe you have in

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the past. So I have two pieces of advice for that. One is

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learning and practicing mindful eating, which I think is a

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little bit of a cliche term, or even maybe just kind of a vague

Unknown:

term. By that I mean, actually paying attention when you're

Unknown:

eating, I think most of us are probably guilty, every so often,

Unknown:

of eating, you know, quote, unquote, meal, like standing in

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front of the open fridge door, or over the sink, or just kind

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of shoving some food into your face running between thing and

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other things. And when that's how you're eating, you're not

Unknown:

enjoying the food at all, you're not tasting it, it's not feeling

Unknown:

satisfying. So one of the easiest things you can do,

Unknown:

especially if you're at a party or something like that, where

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there's just like food everywhere, is when you're

Unknown:

eating, really pay attention to what you're eating, how it

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tastes, how much you're enjoying it, how satisfied you're

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feeling. It's much easier to do when you're sitting at a table.

Unknown:

And just implementing very small things like putting your fork

Unknown:

down in between bites, or looking around at like, who is

Unknown:

the slowest eater at the table, which is usually the same person

Unknown:

who's talking the most, and trying to match their pace.

Unknown:

Because when you slow down, you're you're much more likely

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to tune into when you start to get full, instead of just eating

Unknown:

until it's gone and be like, Oh, that was too much. So things

Unknown:

like that just paying more attention, putting your food on

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a plate, sitting down to eat it without distractions, not on

Unknown:

your phone, not watching TV, making it the focal point is a

Unknown:

total game changer, you will really get so much more

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enjoyment out of your food. And you'll probably be satisfied

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with less than you think. And you especially with things like

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desserts that are usually very rich. And you may eat to the

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point of not feeling well. When you're paying attention, you

Unknown:

might find it two, three bytes is really all you need. And

Unknown:

after that, it doesn't taste as good anymore. And that's when

Unknown:

you're like, Okay, that's enough. So that's one is kind of

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leaning into that sort of intangible stuff that can make a

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big difference. And the second one is to go into events or

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occasions with a plan.

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I think a lot of times we tell ourselves that we have no idea

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what to expect from something, oh, I'm going to so and so's

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house for the first time I have no idea what foods will be there

Unknown:

or you know what to expect. So it's just kind of a total

Unknown:

crapshoot. You may not have been in this exact position before,

Unknown:

can guess relatively well. There's going to be alcohol,

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there are going to be some appetizers, desserts entrees

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like you can piece together a pretty good guess at what it's

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gonna look like. So, kind of visualize yourself in that

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position and think about what are the very similar to like

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what I was saying about meal planning. Just anticipate what

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are the things that in similar scenarios have tripped me up

Unknown:

before? Is it that the booze is flowing? And I just keep saying

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yes to it? Is it that I always hover around the appetizer

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table? Start kind of picturing yourself in the in the moment

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and thinking what could I do differently? Could I do

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something as simple as just giving myself a drink limit?

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could I tell myself that when you know that I will pick two

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appetizers before we eat, and then you know, I'll wait until

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dinner. Basically, just pre commit yourself to the choices

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that you want to make. In the moment, I like to think about

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our brains as having kind of an operating system like a computer

Unknown:

does. And you make yourself basically like an if then

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statement. So if someone offers me a third glass of wine, then I

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will say, No thank you and have a water instead, it doesn't

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really matter what the thing is. But you just don't want to wait

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until you're in the moment. And then tried to make you know,

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what would be the the choice that to better align with your

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goals. Once you once you're in the moment, you're probably the

Unknown:

easiest thing is going to be to do what you've always done. So

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you need to have come up with a different plan. And then in the

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moment, you just need to decide No, I already made made this

Unknown:

decision, don't go back and negotiate on this topic you've

Unknown:

already decided. So it does take a little bit of discipline to

Unknown:

then follow through on it. But that's where the visualization

Unknown:

really comes through is like, you know, close your eyes

Unknown:

picture who's going to be there, what it's going to look like,

Unknown:

and picture yourself doing the thing you said you were going to

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do, and how good it feels to make yourself proud. And to walk

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out that evening, having done exactly what you said, you're

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gonna do. That sort of practice can go a long way so that you're

Unknown:

not caught off guard. And very much like we were talking about

Unknown:

earlier with collecting wins. Once you prove to yourself that

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you can go into a situation like that, and behave differently

Unknown:

than you have in the past. It just kind of triggers something

Unknown:

in you where you're just like, Okay, if I did that, if I did it

Unknown:

once I can do it again. And then you can kind of kind of have

Unknown:

that momentum going into future events.

Kalee Boisvert:

Absolutely. Very, yeah, it's empowering.

Kalee Boisvert:

Like, once you have that when it's like, Yes, I got this, I

Kalee Boisvert:

can do this. I don't have to like dread the Oh, I'm gonna be

Kalee Boisvert:

like, everything on the planet, and it's just not gonna feel

Kalee Boisvert:

good the next day?

Unknown:

Yes, power is a perfect word. Yeah. And it's

Kalee Boisvert:

things you said, I'm like, Oh, these makes sense.

Kalee Boisvert:

Like, putting it on a plate? Because I'm the one you know,

Kalee Boisvert:

you're hovering around the table, and you're grabbing

Kalee Boisvert:

things here and there. And you're like, how many of these

Kalee Boisvert:

have I eaten? Like, if I would have had on a plate? I'd

Kalee Boisvert:

probably have a better sense of it. But because I haven't you're

Kalee Boisvert:

like kind of lying to yourself, or in denial? How much you've

Kalee Boisvert:

actually been eating? Which, yeah, it gets a little bit

Kalee Boisvert:

scary. So those are amazing ideas. Very relevant for the

Kalee Boisvert:

holidays. I think that's fabulous. And just yeah, in for

Kalee Boisvert:

sake of time, um, maybe can we chat a little bit about? What

Kalee Boisvert:

does it what does it entail to work with like a coach like

Kalee Boisvert:

yourself? So your company is EA coaching? What does that mean to

Kalee Boisvert:

work with? a weight loss coach or nutrition coach? Or?

Unknown:

Yeah, great question. So part of what I think makes a

Unknown:

coaching unique is that we do provide that multifaceted,

Unknown:

really comprehensive approach to health and weight loss. And I

Unknown:

think that's really the key to success. There's a lot of

Unknown:

programs or if you know, you've worked with a personal trainer,

Unknown:

you're getting the exercise, if you work with the just kind of

Unknown:

nutrition specialists, you're getting that piece of it, if

Unknown:

you're working with a, you know, a life coach, you're getting the

Unknown:

mindset piece of it, but it's rare to find all of it under one

Unknown:

roof. And all that is happening, you know, under this one body.

Unknown:

So I think it's important to compare that one stop shop where

Unknown:

you can talk about all of those things, and your coach isn't

Unknown:

going to respond with like, well, that's outside my

Unknown:

wheelhouse. I don't know that we can really look at you as a

Unknown:

whole person and how everything is so interconnected. So our

Unknown:

premier coaching is one on one, and is really a deep dive into

Unknown:

all of those things. We provide the exercise programming,

Unknown:

nutrition protocols, weekly coaching to kind of implement

Unknown:

the stuff go over any of the mindset issues and things like

Unknown:

that we have a curriculum of trainings that go along with it

Unknown:

group coaching calls. And then we have a couple of other

Unknown:

options that are a group program, which is more focused

Unknown:

on the nutrition and exercise basics, which is perfect for

Unknown:

someone who maybe is feeling overwhelmed, and it's like I do

Unknown:

this research. And then I just spin my wheels and wants like a

Unknown:

very clear cut. Let's start here. Let's do this next. These

Unknown:

are the we call them the big rocks. These are the things that

Unknown:

matter most master these and you'll be good to go. And then

Unknown:

we have a self guided weight loss mindset mastery course,

Unknown:

which is really geared towards the woman who feels like I know

Unknown:

what to do. I just like we were saying earlier, I just can't get

Unknown:

out of my own way. I'm sabotaging myself, I'm comparing

Unknown:

myself to other people. I feel like I don't believe that I'm

Unknown:

ever going to be successful. I have this black and white

Unknown:

mentality. So it really dives into the mental component of get

Unknown:

your mind right and then everything else is gonna fall

Unknown:

into place after that.

Kalee Boisvert:

Okay, I love it. So there's a few different

Kalee Boisvert:

approaches and it's very dependent on the person so it's

Kalee Boisvert:

great. There's a lot of variety there depending on what you're

Kalee Boisvert:

looking for. What works well for you if based on your Your Life

Kalee Boisvert:

schedule and things like that. So for people to find more about

Kalee Boisvert:

your programs or to reach out to you, what's the best way for

Kalee Boisvert:

them to do that?

Unknown:

Yeah, so I'm on Instagram Esther event, I

Unknown:

assuming no, in your show notes, you'll have the spelling. So I'm

Unknown:

on Instagram, I'm on Facebook, I run a group, a free group called

Unknown:

Live diet free that you can probably find, you can also just

Unknown:

send me a friend request to Esther event. And my website is

Unknown:

Esther avon.com.

Kalee Boisvert:

Perfect. Okay, I'll have all those in the show

Kalee Boisvert:

notes. I love that definitely reach out to Esther because

Kalee Boisvert:

that's there's a lot of things here. I'm like, Yeah, this is

Kalee Boisvert:

amazing. I haven't really given a lot of thought to this in my

Kalee Boisvert:

own life. And this is all really resonating. And it makes sense.

Kalee Boisvert:

And I love that I love the whole holistic approach you do as

Kalee Boisvert:

well, which is wonderful. So thank you so much, Esther, for

Kalee Boisvert:

being here today. She had a cold and she still went through with

Kalee Boisvert:

it. She talked with us, she gave us lots of good tips. So I

Kalee Boisvert:

really appreciate that. Esther, thank you so much. For all these

Kalee Boisvert:

very great tips that you've shared with us. I know listeners

Kalee Boisvert:

are going to get a lot of value out of

Unknown:

this. Oh my gosh, thank you so much for having me. It's

Unknown:

been my pleasure. All

Kalee Boisvert:

right. So thank you so much. Thank you everyone

Kalee Boisvert:

for tuning into this episode, and I will catch you on next

Kalee Boisvert:

week's episode. All right, bye for now.

Kalee Boisvert:

I hope you found value in this episode. And because I'm such a

Kalee Boisvert:

proponent of taking confident action, I want to pose a

Kalee Boisvert:

question to you the listener. What is one action that you feel

Kalee Boisvert:

inspired to take after listening to today's episode? If you enjoy

Kalee Boisvert:

listening, please subscribe and share with your friends and

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