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454: The Permission Paradox: How Success Could Kill Your Dreams with Mitch Matthews
6th August 2025 • STaR Coach Show • Meg Rentschler
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You’ve experienced success, and you are the person that others come to for answers. The problem is that sometimes this very success becomes a trap, stopping us from dreaming new dreams and taking on new challenges. Today’s conversation dives deep into permission. What does it mean to give ourselves permission to be a novice again and to start small when we are used to thinking big? How can we permit ourselves to step into the unknown when we are already successful problem solvers? Today’s show will be incredibly valuable for you! Join us to be inspired to break free from whatever is holding you back from your next level of success. 

Mitch Matthews is a success coach, speaker, and serial entrepreneur. Since 2015, Mitch has hosted the Dream Think Do, a podcast with the perfect title to sum up what he’s all about. He’s interviewed Olympic athletes, NY Times bestselling authors, and top business leaders, all while helping entrepreneurs and coaches dream bigger, think better, and do more. The podcast is rated #1 by the Huffington Post and is in the top 1% of all podcasts. As a speaker and elite success coach, Mitch has spent the last 20 years helping organizations like Nike, United Airlines, NASA, and Disney. His training program has helped thousands of life coaches from around the world build successful and profitable businesses they love. Most importantly, Mitch is a husband, dad, and lifelong learner living a highly caffeinated life with his family in Des Moines, Iowa. 

Show Highlights:

  • The dangers of success for high achievers
  • Permitting yourself to dream big again
  • Being “bored out” vs. “burned out”
  • The “brain’s bodyguard,” the amygdala, and how it reacts when we try to be a novice again (Take the Annual Novice Challenge!)
  • Feeling small again after feeling very big
  • Getting clear on your “leap number”
  • Identify your tribe: Who do you know?
  • Collaboration and competition: “Your competition is not another coach; it’s the couch.”
  • Mitch’s #1 takeaway: “What if”?

Resources:

Connect with Mitch Matthews: Website, Dream Think Do podcast, and LinkedIn.

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