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Enchanted Garden: Healing from Heartbreak and Emotional Pain
Episode 2829th June 2023 • Inner Peace Meditations • Steven Webb
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For heartbreak, and for pain that has been sat there a while. A neglected garden, and a watering can with your name on it.

About 12 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice.

You go through an iron gate into a garden that has gone to seed. Each wilted plant is one of the feelings. A lost love here, regret there, loneliness in the corner. You water them rather than pull them up. It does not pretend heartbreak takes weeks, because it can take years. But a heart blown wide open ends up holding more.

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Welcome to Enchanted Garden. A meditation that aims to comfort those experiencing heartbreak

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and emotional pain. It provides a safe space for acknowledging feelings, fostering self-love and moving

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towards emotional resilience. So

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we begin by just becoming comfortable, giving your body permission to relax. And shake out your arms and just

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sit and allow your body to relax and become comfortable in this moment.

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Recognise this moment as a peaceful moment and set the intention for the next 10 minutes or so

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that we're going to allow this moment to be exactly what it is.

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Just a pause. Just

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a peaceful moment. And

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now when you're ready, if you gently close your eyes we'll just soften your gaze a few feet in front

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of you. And bring your attention to your breath.

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And we'll take a couple of deep breaths in and then we'll hold it and then we'll breathe out.

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So after three, one, two, three, take a deep breath in.

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Hold it.

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And now just let that breath out. And

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now breathe easy.

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And we'll do it one more time. This just connects the mind and the awareness to the body. So one,

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two, three, take a deep breath in.

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Hold it.

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And now just allow your breath to come out naturally. And

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now just allow your breath to be what it is. We

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won't get involved with the breath anymore. We're just going to allow the body to breathe.

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And now just imagine standing, visualizing before you a real big beautiful iron gate. It's

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entwined with trailing ivy.

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And this is the entrance to your enchanted garden. It's a magical place that exists in the

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landscape of your heart

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And you can gently walk over to it and you gently push the gate open and you're feeling the cool

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metal against your palm and

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as you step inside, you notice the vastness of the garden.

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You notice that it looks a little bit neglected with some of the flowers wilted and dry patches

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of earth. But

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don't be disheartened because this garden is a resilient one and it holds the promise of renewal just as your

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heart does.

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And as you stroll along the garden paths, you recognise each withering plant. You see, and it

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represents an aspect of your emotional pain.

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Maybe one plant represents a lost love.

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Another symbolizes regret.

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And another signifies loneliness.

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Take a few moments to acknowledge these feelings.

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It's okay to feel this way.

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It's okay to let yourself feel a bit sad.

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And now in your hands you feel the gentle weight of a watering can.

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This isn't any ordinary watering can. It's filled with nurturing elements of self-love,

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self-care, forgiveness and hope.

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And when you're ready, begin to water each plant in your garden.

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And as you do, understand that you are tendering to your pain with love and compassion.

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And watch as these droplets fall onto the dry soil, seeping in and reaching the roots. You see

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the transformation happening before your eyes.

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The wilted flowers begin to stand tall.

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The colours start to return brighter.

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The new buds begin to bloom.

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Every plant you nurture with love begins to flourish. As it does, feel your heart becoming

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lighter,

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stronger and more vibrant.

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This garden is a reflection of you.

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As it revives and thrives, so do you.

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And we're going to spend another couple of minutes just walking around the garden, recognising the plants as they grow,

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recognising their transformation.

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And as you recognise and seeing the plants grow, it's really tendering to your feelings and nurturing your heart with

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love and kindness.

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Recognise that you have the power to heal and grow, just as this garden does.

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Now we'll bring our awareness back to our breath, just as you notice you're breathing in and out.

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Notice what you're sat on.

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Notice this calmness and this

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revitalized energy and compassion you have.

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And you recognise it's okay to be sad. And this sadness we can grow into bloom whatever we want.

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We are in control.

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And as we take a couple of breaths, just gently open your eyes, shake out your arms, and become more

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aware of the room you're in.

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And You can carry this image of your flourishing garden with you and the feelings of renewal with you all

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day long. And remember it's okay to feel pain.

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But within you, just like within your enchanted garden, there is an innate ability to heal and

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bloom again.

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Carry this knowledge with you. Carry this wisdom. And as you navigate through your journey of healing, it's

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not easy healing from a broken heart or emotional pain. It takes time it's sometimes

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months, sometimes years. But

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when we truly feel it and embrace it and embrace the sadness, we can grow. And we can grow with

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a bigger heart. You know, the heart blows wide open. And the more it blows open, the more we love,

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the more compassion we have,

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the deeper we feel. And the deeper we feel, the more joy and love we have.

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I'm Steven Webb. And you can always listen to my other podcast, Stillness in the Storms, where we talk about

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all this kind of thing. And you can head over to thankyousteven.com where the links are there. Take care.

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Wishing you a most amazing day. Bye.

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