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Hello darling heart, and welcome to the Drink Less Live Better podcast. This is the podcast that helps you to see that drinking
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less doesn't need to be stressful, lonely, or boring. I'm your host, Sarah Williamson, and I decided to have a year drink
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less adventures. I'm here to tell you that you can relax, connect, and have fun without alcohol in your life. Join me here
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each week to find out how. If you listened to episode 4, you'd have heard me talk about why I decided to tell some people
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about my alcohol free experiment, and not others. Today, I'd like to tell you a story about how and why I came to drink less
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before I decided to go alcohol free. During my late thirties, I'd started to become uncomfortable about the way that I drank,
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but couldn't figure out what to do about it. In an average week, I didn't drink more than the UK government guidelines for
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safe drinking limits in women. But when I went out with my girlfriends, I always drank more than I intended to and always
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had a hideous hangover the next day. As far as the chief medical officer's guidelines are concerned, if women drink more than
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6 units in a single sitting, that is considered binge drinking. On average, one large glass of wine contains 3 units of alcohol,
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so I only needed to be drinking 2 large glasses of wine to be binging. I hate the word binging. It even sounds ugly. Anyhow,
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binging is apparently what I was doing when out with the girls, and the price I paid seemed to get heavier and heavier over
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time. It was making me feel physically and emotionally exhausted. In 2017, I had a night out with some friends in London,
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and the next day I suffered one of the worst hangovers I had ever had. I've kept the travel card from that night out in my
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purse ever since. I keep it as a reminder of how I never ever want to feel again. The feeling of shame lasted well over a
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week, and I still have flashbacks that catch me out from time to time. Through 2018 and 19, the idea popped into my head every
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now and again that I should cut back my drinking on nights out. However, I never got round to actually cutting back. I just
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thought about it most of that time. I thought I had to behave the way I always had, as that was what my friends expected of
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me. When I was ready to change, I started with changes I could make at home. I started buying those really small single serve
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bottles of wine so that I didn't feel the need to finish a full sized bottle. Sure. They're more expensive per millilitre
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of alcohol, but I knew I was benefiting my health massively by not drinking a whole bottle of wine, so I didn't care. I then
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began to tell myself a new story about who I was on a night out. I would tell myself, I am the person who goes to the pub
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with friends and enjoys 2 glasses of wine and no more. This took me a while to perfect, but once I had it as a firmly entrenched
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belief about who I was, it worked a dream. Drinking less over time was a massive part of my pathway to being able to choose
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alcohol free for myself further down the line. I had a good 2 or 3 months successfully moderating my drinking before I took
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the plunge and went alcohol free. We should always choose what works best for us, and drinking less led me very neatly into
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alcohol free. For other people, a hard stop works well, and for others, getting their drinking to a place of moderation is
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their dream goal. Each to their own, I say. You can sign up to my 5 day drink less experiment and find out about working with
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me one to 1 at drink less live better dot com. Thank you for listening today, and please listen in again next time to learn
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some key tools to help you through your early days of your drink less or alcohol free adventure. It would make me happier
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than a Buddhist monk if you would please subscribe, 5 star review, and comment on my podcast on whatever platform you listen.
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Imagine it like the tasting notes on the finest wine I am never going to drink. Thank you. And PS, I believe in you.