E25 - Zen at Work & Home- Balancing Family, Spirituality, and Relationships

Episode 26 • 20th December 2024 • The Game of Zen • Scott Berman and Paul Agostinelli

Welcome back to another enriching episode of "Game of Zen," where we explore the synergy between professional, personal, and spiritual growth through the lens of Buddhism and Zen mindfulness. In this episode, hosts Scott Berman and Paul Gyodo Agostinelli dive into the profound influence of spirituality on relationships, drawing from their personal journeys and Buddhist teachings.

Join us as Paul unpacks the concept of "karmic atonement" and its impact on future relationships, while Scott reflects on his past experiences with gratitude and the evolving qualities he seeks in a partner. The hosts emphasize the importance of mutual spiritual growth and maintaining a conscious relationship, especially during the holiday season—a time ripe for reflection and gratitude.

As always, we encourage our listeners to integrate spirituality into everyday life consciously, balancing responsibilities while fostering personal growth. Don’t miss out on their insightful discussion about the evolution of Zen practice, the challenges of attachment, and how to recognize relationships that match your personal vibration.

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00:00 Spiritual focus; women allowed in Sangha, unequal.

03:56 Zen practice evolved from monastic to inclusive.

07:06 Serial monogamy, later marriage, family commitment achieved.

13:11 Mindfulness enhances empathy and spiritual awareness.

16:23 Relationships test personal growth and consciousness.

19:48 Strives for mindfulness in daily life activities.

23:25 Discussing Buddhist concepts of change with daughters.

25:45 Commitment to self-awareness and nonviolent communication.

28:03 Experiential vs. fundamentalist spirituality challenges relationships.

32:34 Spirituality used superficially as personal enhancement.

36:18 Spirituality found among like-minded people, everywhere.

38:19 Quarterly Fusatsu ceremony reviews core Buddhist precepts.