In this episode of The Ultimate Coach Podcast, host Ipek Williamson welcomes Martha Jeffers as her guest while Martha shares insights from her profound journey, which includes obtaining a Master’s in Spiritual Psychology and her life-altering experience walking the Camino de Santiago. She reflects on her shift from corporate life to embracing a coaching role in her 70s, underlining the message that it’s never too late to pursue one's dreams and embrace personal transformation.

Martha also discusses the impact of her background and experiences on her approach to coaching, emphasizing compassion and understanding derived from her own life challenges. She delves into how those challenges enable her to connect deeply with her clients, helping them overcome their own obstacles and find fulfillment. Martha’s story is a testament to the power of lifelong learning and the possibilities that unfold when one is open to change, regardless of age.

About the Guest: 

Martha Jeffers is a dynamic individual with a 30-year background as a Human Resources executive and a Master's in Spiritual Psychology, blending professional expertise with personal growth to guide others toward a soul-centered life. Originally from Colombia, Martha embraces her rich Spanish heritage and multicultural experiences, infusing her work with a deep appreciation for tradition and diversity.

As a grief facilitator, Martha uses her own experiences of aiding her parents through their final transitions to offer solace and support to those dealing with loss, guiding them toward healing and acceptance. Her passion for retreat work is evident as she creates transformative spaces for women to unwind and reconnect with their inner selves, combining adventure with coaching for holistic growth. Known for her deep, heart-centered listening, Martha is described as a “grounding loving force” and a “grandmother spirit” coach, empowering clients to navigate life’s challenges with resilience.

Martha’s adventurous spirit has led her to complete the Camino de Santiago, climb Yosemite’s Half Dome, and ascend over 1,000 feet in Peru’s Sacred Valley via the Via Ferrata. Her love for exploration extends to her roles as a loving wife, devoted mother, and cherished grandmother, enriching her family’s lives and those of her clients. 

To learn more about Martha, follow her on Facebook or Instagram @marthamotherearth or visit her website at www.marthajeffers.com 

About the Host:

A beacon of change and a catalyst for transformation, Ipek Williamson is a multifaceted professional who seamlessly integrates two decades of corporate expertise with a diverse skill set as a coach, mentor, speaker, author, meditation advocate, and teacher.

With a passion for guiding individuals through the complexities of modern life, Ipek specializes in helping overwhelmed individuals harness a profound sense of peace and harmony. Her coaching methodology draws inspiration from Core Values, Mental Fitness, and Mind Mastery, allowing her clients to unearth their latent potential. She adeptly navigates them through the turbulent waters of change, enabling them to embrace transformations with unwavering confidence and boundless joy, all on their own terms.

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TUCP Intro/Outro: Thank you for tuning in to The Ultimate Coach podcast, a companion to the transformative book, The Ultimate Coach, written by Amy Hardison, and Alan D. Thompson. Each conversation is designed to be a powerful wake up call, reminding us of what's possible for you and your life. So if you're on a journey to expand your state of being, this podcast is for you.

While Welcome to another episode of The Ultimate Coach podcast, where we explore the depths of personal transformation, and the power of coaching. I'm Ipek Williamson. And today, we are incredibly fortunate to have my third Jeffers with us, Martha, a beacon of wisdom. And Grace brings a lifetime of experiences, insights, and the heartfelt approach to coaching that transcends dimensional boundaries. With a background as a Human Resources executive, a master's in spiritual psychology, and the courageous leap into a new career in her 70s. Martha embodies the spirit of lifelong growth and transformation. Her mission is to guide individuals in breaking free from their own barriers, to thrive authentically, at every level of there being Martha, your story is a great reminder that it's never too late to pursue our dreams, embrace our vulnerabilities and step into our power. So thank you for joining us today. It's an honor to have you share your journey and wisdom with us.

Thank you, Ipek as you were reading about me, I got all teary eyed, no. And it's such a privilege to be here with you. And thank you so much for the invitation to share my life, my transformation and my journey to where I am today.

So you remember we stayed together in Scottsdale, when we were in Arizona for the second year anniversary of the ultimate coach, you're banned. And there I asked you if you would be kindly Be my guest for this podcast. And you said yes. And I am so happy that we are doing it now. And there's one thing that that stood out for me when I was going through learning about you know, your background and everything. I myself went through a huge transformation when I left the corporate world and started my practice as a coach and meditation teacher. And I know that you went through a really similar experience. So I want to ask you, how did your transition from a successful career in human resources to coaching unfold? What sparked this profound shift in your life's direction?

Well, you know, it started. It started about age 42. At age 40, I decided that I needed to do something different within my career, didn't know where I wanted to go up until then I've been an executive secretary for a couple of executives with an the areas of industry that caught my attention that didn't truly fulfill me at any rate, I decided to embark in six months searched for what career path I would want to take. And that led me into the career path of human resources. And when speaking to Human Resources executives, four or five of them said without a degree without a Masters is going to be very difficult for you to really enter that field of endeavor. So I decided I would go back to college and get a degree. So at 43 I enrolled and a community college and then from there gone accepted for a degree in our bachelor's degree in Human Development at the University of San Francisco. And that brought me into The opportunities that then gave me more experience in HR. And then, through my 30 plus years in HR, I found that I loved working with people from a place of who are you, what are you about? And what do you want to accomplish in your life. And as you may know, many of our viewers may know HR is always been seen as that place where you go for corrections and possible terminations, you know, the darker side of HR, I guess you would say. And I learned from my own experience, that really sitting with employees and supporting them right where they were, regardless of the circumstances, led me later to retire at 70 and start thinking about coaching as my next career. And so here, I am still learning

Of course, always the students of life. But what's the student ablow, but I also know that you attended the University of Santa Monica USM. Right.

I did. That was a pivotal point in my life that changed my life forever. And really, it's, you know, going back, I left a very flourishing opportunity with a very large company, at a point where I thought, I need something different in my life. And so I quit cold turkey, which I'd never done in my life, and took on a position in Portland, Oregon for six months to support another company. And I had a major spiritual transformation while I was there, which had come from just having graduated from the University to sack at Santa Monica with a with a degree Master's in spiritual psychology. So combining the two, and in between sandwiched in between these two, I had the opportunity to work the Camino, Santiago, which is a 500 mile walk across Spain. Now, some people might say, well, that's not, you know, great, but I had never gone backpacking. I had never walked more than maybe 1010 miles at the most. I had never gone to a foreign country all by myself, except when I was five years old. And so it was a major experience for me. And so those three things combined just cracked me open into experiencing who am I? And what do I have to offer? And what do I want to do? And at the end of those six months, I had the opportunity to work with an incredible company that allowed me to really put into practice all my learnings over the course of three years. And then, of course, all my previous experiences. But yeah, I have

Beautiful! Thank you for sharing. And I would like to ask you all these, especially these three major experiences on how all those experiences influenced your approach to coaching and your understanding of personal transformation.

What a great question. The pagans you and I have experienced life. You know, every every experience in our life is for us. And so if I go back to when I was five years old, and I was sent to this country, by myself, and and dropped me off with another aunt, but I didn't know that aunt. I was dropped off here for about a year at five, without my parents without the similarity of my extended family, my siblings. When I look back at that experience, I took on a belief of abandonment. And I took on a belief of, of an imposter syndrome, if you will, that drove most of my life. And until it was discovered, and heal to a great degree through the practices and principles of spiritual psychology, that helped me open up my cell To a place that I've never experienced before. And that was the healing part of my lives with my mother, my relationship with my mother, that allows me now as a coach to have such compassion for those individuals that have experienced certainly not the similarity of mine, but who have who are hurting, through the relationships with their parents or with another individual in their life. That that I may not understand exactly where they are had, oh, my goodness, I hear it, I can experience it. And it's just one example of what brought me to coaching. And certainly through HR, the many people I touch either through our leadership trainings, or through the opportunities of having to terminate individuals. Always, for me, it was always at the crossroads of really being clear that whatever action we were taking with the boy, that I was clear that it was, I use the word for the highest good and as fair as possible, and with the intention not to cause harm, but to allow for greater grace for this individual, though they may not have seen it at that moment. But with the hope that later, as they reflected back, they could see that they were treated fairly and with kindness.

Yes, that's that's very important perspective. Thank you. You know, I see you as one of the backbones of the ultimate coach community, and the being moment. And seeing that you have a background and through the USM, which still has the same background, it's really easy to see you as a part of this community. But what was the main thing that attracted you to the community or connected you to the community? How, how did you get into becoming an essential part of this community? Martha,

Thank you for sharing that. It's just it's so interesting. I knew of Steve Hardison, actually, you know, through USM. And being a member of the Facebook family, I had seen postings that he had created. And once or twice, I had answered one of his postings. And he responded to me through messenger and we connected always with Oh, my goodness, who is this man? I mean, he just responded to meet with this person. And I was always very curious about Steve. So when the book came out, in December of 2021, I immediately bought the book and the day that it arrived, and I remember distinctly at seven o'clock at night, I opened the book at eight, and read the whole book until four or five o'clock in the morning, the next day, wow. I could not put that book down. It's just shifted something in me, you know, because I read it about Steve. At the time I read about Steve, I read about his story. But it really related a great deal. And certainly a lot of his languages. languaging in the book is familiar to me because of the university Santa Monica connection. So in January of 2022, I joined the Facebook group, and began to listen more about me as the book instructs us to do and began to shift a lot of my experiences about being to the degree that I couldn't put it down. I mean, I was in the Facebook group all the time. And at the time, there were 500 of us. It shifted, it shifted deeper in me. It shifted a new awareness and a new reality and and so, my involvement throughout that year 2022 brought me to 2023 and got to know a lot of people, I made a commitment at the beginning of 23 that I was going to connect with 100 Facebook, individuals in the tuck Facebook group. And I did by the end of the year, I had touched 100 individuals. And that was glorious. The idea to connect with a total stranger in different parts of the world opened up for me the possibility that there is no difference between us that we are just humans experiencing ourselves in this body that we're in. And here we all want to be loved and want to be seen and want to be cared for and want to be shared, fished, no matter what station in our lives we were. And that kind of eroded the, the, the belief in which I grew up with, that anyone in a higher position was to be revered. And that my role really was to observe them. And what it did is just brought everyone back to a place of all we're all the same. We just use our talents in a different way. And so that also drove the understanding that the more I become, who I am, and the authentic place, and the experience of my vibrancy can affect people who I don't even know, hopefully, for the best. So then here we are, and 2020, we're in the middle of 2023, I joined the group that puts together the readings that go on on Wednesday nights and Sunday mornings, and got to meet some beautiful people. And in January of this year, I got the opportunity to open one of the events and Phoenix. It we're doing the convocation and I can't tell you the pack that was or it still touches me. That was an embodiment of something that I have yearned to do. And that's to support people's soul.

And I am one of the lucky people who was there to watch you and clap like for you, and cheering for you. And it was a beautiful, beautiful opening speech. One thing that you said about the book, when you first received it, you read it right away to the fullest. And about Steve, the first time you read it. I so agree with that. And actually, even though Steve says read it about you read it about you, I recommend people who get the book to read it to learn about Steve first, the first time you read, read it to learn. And the second time and other multiple times that you might read after read it about you and following the instructions that Steve says like back of the book, and the front, beginning of the book, and then the book itself, about you. I think that is even more impactful. Because it worked really well for me. So that's my actually recommendation to anyone I refer the book to. And I always say one time is not enough, never, never enough. So you're gonna need to read this many times. And the first time read about Steve but then every time you read read about you,

Ballard so accurate that is so accurate because in my reading about Steve, I really got a chance to see him as this human experiencing life on this earth with all the challenges that he had and how she used those for his own upliftment and growth, which gave me the opportunity to look at my life from that vantage point. And I you know, I did a lot of that work and you know, Sam, what this book has done is deepen is deepen. So if you were to look at my book right now it's full of notes and and stickies and and highlights, because I guess I'm in my sixth reading of this book. I read it several times for myself and then through the community reading that we do on Wednesdays and Sundays. Then I get the opportunity to read it again chapter by chapter. And yeah, it resonates. I mean, this morning before you and I met, I turned to page 23 And he talks about his son talks about the thanks to Steve, this taught him and I have several things highlighted such as rely on agreements and not expectations, or get outside of your own paradigm, or is not as much what you are doing as your Bing. And then there's a lot of other bullet points, but those are the ones that I highlighted. And then I go to often to remind myself, Who am I being at the small lens? Who am I wanting to be at this moment? What am I creating? And, and you know, what APEC I just in being authentic with you. I went through a really dark moment in February and part of March and I'm just coming out of it. And so I part with the reason why I'm sharing this, that even through all of the learning that I've experienced, all of the development work that I do, the amount of reading that I do, the connections that I have, the work that I'm doing right now, through the CFJ, Kochi school, there are still moments where we fall. And it has just made me really contemplate what that was all about in February and March. You know, we talked about being on the court while I was on the sidelines, not playing full out or wanting to play. And so I had moments where it's okay. It's okay in lots of self forgiveness, compassionate self forgiveness for, it's okay, I'm healing at a deeper level. So this book is been intriguing and impactful.

To say the least, yes. Okay, thank you. Thank you so much for sharing all this. This one thing, I want to ask you about your coaching practice, because starting a new career, in your 70s is a bold and inspiring decision. So, I want to ask you, what message do you hope this choice gives others about aging and potential? What is the message that you would like to convey?

I'd love this question. And makes me happy. It's never too late. I'm a late bloomer, i in i am a late bloomer, I start started in my late 40s. Right to really, where am I going? What am I doing? And this is my fiber and see, I I just it makes me happy. It makes me get up in the morning and, and look forward to Who am I going to touch this today, tomorrow the next day. So there's a vibrancy to that. I want to live my life to the fullest. I want to climb another mountain, which I've already done. I'd want to walk another walk, which I done again, I want to touch as many people as I can and why not? Like why not?

That I believe that as long as we are in that state of mind. And we have a purpose. We have something that is excited excites us about doing or thinking even we stay young. Yes,

Yes. And no matter what we do, right, I mean, I after I retired at 70, I took a couple of years off just to enjoy and loved not doing a thing other than getting up in the morning and gardening or whatever. And then I realized now I want to do more and especially after having taken care of my mother and father through their transition. I knew that there was more for me to do. Yeah, so

Exciting. And it ended you know what it's okay to take some time to reflect and just giving yourself permission to take that time for yourself and now regroup and see what do I want to create from this point on is perfectly fine. We don't have to go go go go all the time. We can we are allowed to take a break. He could breath. He could pause, get dressed, rejuvenate, recharge, come back with full batteries. Right? Absolutely.

And how beautiful to be able to take breaks throughout our life not waiting Until, quote unquote, retirement. For me, there is no such thing as retirement is just a new face in my money that I'm no longer working in corporate America 85 I am working, and I do create office hours. But it's all around what I want to do and how I want to show up. So yeah, it's there's so much to like I, I'll be 79 this land, a pack, and so grateful, so great.

And Janna. And Martha, may I'd say you don't show your age at all, you look so beautiful. And so young. I think he is the internal light and wisdom is showing externally in YouTube. It's so beautiful. But there's a question that I asked everyone. I asked all my guests, which one of the questions in the before you begin section of the book, or on the back of the book you see is the one you need to focus on the most at this moment in your time?

So here's the question, because I went through them again today. And this one still is important to me. And that is, who would I need to be to alter my relationship with fear.

Okay, explain. Wayne. Yes, a little bit.

So I find myself still wanting to show up. However, I think people want me to show up. And if I create that story inside of me, then I am being tearful. And preparing to be with you, this last couple of days has shown me that it's just showing up with who I am regardless. And that there are people who may like it or not, and it's okay. So I'm, I'm still learning how to show up without fear. And to do things without fear. So being courageous, being deeply courageous is what I would like and so I am courageous.

Yes, you are UI that. So now we are coming to our three rapid fire questions. Mobile I

It all.

So these are very easy. The first one is your first job ever. What was it and what did you learn from it? Sears

and Roebuck as an auditor, was learned how to type and use computers. like no other. Oh,

beautiful. Second question. The last thing you do before bed, what's your nighttime ritual?

I brush my teeth, wash my face and pray go into meditation and prayer and gratitude for the day.

Beautiful. And third one. What is one thing that not too many people know about you?

Well, not too many people know about me. Well, boy, I don't like to cook. i If I could get someone to cook my meals, I would be the happiest woman in Word.

Thank you for sharing that. Well, I kind of agree with you is it's the same for me. I cook but just because I have to. If I didn't have to. If I had a chef who was cooking for me, I would never cook I think I agree. I'm right there with you. So thank you so much for everything you shared with us today. My dear Marsa. It's been an absolute pleasure and an enlightening experience having you on the podcast, your journey, your insights and your big impact that you're making through your coaching your work. Everything you do and through your being in this community through your stand is really inspiring. And for our listener, listeners who feel a connection with your story and may be seeking guidance or wish to learn more about your work, what is the best way for them to reach out to you?

They can either reach me through Facebook through messenger, they can reach me through Instagram, like them Mother Earth, or in my through my website Martha jeffers.com Beautiful.

Thank you. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom, your journey your light with us. Your story is a powerful reminder of the beauty of transformation at any stage of life and the importance of embracing our true selves. We are incredibly grateful for the opportunity to learn from you. And we are so excited to see the continued impact of your work. My dear Martha, thank you so much for being such a vital part of our community. Listeners, be sure to reach out to Martha and dive deeper into her transformative insights. Until next time, keep embracing your journey and the infinite possibilities that are out there waiting for you. Thank you, Marta, and see you soon.

Thank you, Ipek.

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