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Grand Crosses and the Birth Chart of Doom?
Episode 712th October 2021 • Astrology Hotline • Kyle Pierce
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Tristan and Kyle respond to questions from Jet and Karoliina regarding grand crosses and if difficult placements in a birth chart mean that the nativity is doomed. If you have a question you would like answered on the podcast, send us your question at astrologyhotlinepod@gmail.com.

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Kyle Pierce:

Hello and welcome to astrology hotline to podcast where we

Kyle Pierce:

answer your questions about astrology. My name is Tristan

Kyle Pierce:

and hosting with me today is Kyle Pierce. Hello.

Tristan Paylor:

How are you doing today cow?

Kyle Pierce:

I'm doing quite well said my frappuccino. So if

Kyle Pierce:

you want pretty good. How are you doing today?

Tristan Paylor:

I'm pretty good. I haven't had a frappuccino so

Tristan Paylor:

maybe not as good as you but no complaints. Otherwise it's kind

Tristan Paylor:

of a dreary day here and

Tristan Paylor:

my efforts to feed the local bird population before winter

Tristan Paylor:

strikes are being thwarted by my backyard chipmunk.

Kyle Pierce:

What

Tristan Paylor:

is the chipmunk stealing the bird food? Oh yeah,

Tristan Paylor:

I mean the chipmunk is getting all of the bird food. You guys

Tristan Paylor:

are just jumping up there and stuffing her cheeks and leaving

Tristan Paylor:

and then coming back for another. She's just horrid.

Tristan Paylor:

She's holding it all she's transferring it from the bird

Tristan Paylor:

feeder to wherever food stashes.

Kyle Pierce:

Mean squirrels got a monk's gotta get get prepared

Kyle Pierce:

for the winter to you know, they do I you know, I have maybe some

Kyle Pierce:

extreme opinions about birds. So I might be on the chipmunk side

Kyle Pierce:

in this case.

Tristan Paylor:

Right, you're not dinosaurs. I mean, that's

Tristan Paylor:

why I love them. They're evil. They're evil. Why did you know?

Tristan Paylor:

Did you never go through the dinosaur phase as a kid? You

Tristan Paylor:

don't think dinosaurs are cool?

Kyle Pierce:

No, I think that dinosaurs are great. But they're

Kyle Pierce:

they're extinct. And I'm glad that they're extinct. I don't

Kyle Pierce:

want dinosaurs around. Well, I don't think anybody wants a pet

Kyle Pierce:

dinosaur because that will probably eat your head. Birds

Kyle Pierce:

would totally eat your head if they could, if they were big

Kyle Pierce:

enough to bite it

Tristan Paylor:

right. I've seen some pretty aggressive emus. So

Tristan Paylor:

yeah, you might not be wrong on that.

Kyle Pierce:

Reptile brains, flying rats. spreaders of

Kyle Pierce:

disease

Tristan Paylor:

oh my goodness, they're beautiful. They're

Tristan Paylor:

spread disease but they're beautiful.

Kyle Pierce:

I think we've had this conversation before where

Kyle Pierce:

you know you check into because I don't seem to a lot of like

Kyle Pierce:

ghost stories and stuff for Halloween coming up from getting

Kyle Pierce:

getting in the Spirit. And you know, people get like messages

Kyle Pierce:

from birds, you know, from spirits and they're like, kind

Kyle Pierce:

of a long store goal. trend of you know, birds being like

Kyle Pierce:

messengers from the other side. And that's maybe why I don't get

Kyle Pierce:

any because I hate birds so much.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, you might get some valuable information

Tristan Paylor:

from the spirit world if if you just let birds alone. Give them

Tristan Paylor:

a chance.

Kyle Pierce:

I am fine with birds overall. I just did in the

Kyle Pierce:

morning when they start chirping so early. It's so disturbing.

Kyle Pierce:

Just like these little noises. Like in the morning when you're

Kyle Pierce:

trying to sleep. Like that really early morning. I don't

Kyle Pierce:

know that though. You get up at what maybe that's why you get up

Kyle Pierce:

maybe it's the birds fault that you get up.

Tristan Paylor:

It's the window cleaners fault. It's my partner

Tristan Paylor:

who gets up Burley in the morning to go out and clean

Tristan Paylor:

windows every day. He's He's the bird that gets me up.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Well,

Unknown:

I don't trust morning people.

Kyle Pierce:

But I have never been a morning person. And yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

birds, birds get in the way of of that.

Tristan Paylor:

That's understandable. I can respect

Tristan Paylor:

that I can respect wanting your peace in the morning. Yeah, it's

Tristan Paylor:

interesting how in it sort of a trope in movies where the

Tristan Paylor:

protagonist starts off, not being a morning person. And then

Tristan Paylor:

they go on this whole adventure, and it's life changing. And then

Tristan Paylor:

by the end of the movie, they're up at the crack of dawn, cooking

Tristan Paylor:

breakfast, or whatever. And this is supposed to be like a

Tristan Paylor:

demonstration of how they've like grown into themselves. And

Tristan Paylor:

I kind of resent that because yeah, implies that people who

Tristan Paylor:

are not morning people are like, somehow less advanced, like

Tristan Paylor:

being a morning person is something we should strive for

Tristan Paylor:

when it's like, it's actually a matter of your inherent biology,

Tristan Paylor:

which is not under your conscious control is not a

Tristan Paylor:

virtue be treated, the morning person is not emerged you any

Tristan Paylor:

more than being a negative seeing a benefit. Yeah, it works

Tristan Paylor:

in the current context of most of our working lives.

Kyle Pierce:

Now I want to like see, see, that can look at a

Kyle Pierce:

chart and see that seems very much like it like the dignity

Kyle Pierce:

system in some way. And like, just by virtue of like your

Kyle Pierce:

nature, you know, you just happen to fit into what society

Kyle Pierce:

likes.

Tristan Paylor:

And maybe this is a manifestation of my

Tristan Paylor:

partner's exalted sun in Aries conjunct Jupiter is that he's

Tristan Paylor:

able to be a morning person. Hmm, yeah, it's, it's what is

Tristan Paylor:

favored by by society? Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I'm, I'm,

Tristan Paylor:

like, midnight to 9am Or like, 11pm to 8am kind of person.

Tristan Paylor:

That's nice. That's not an early morning person. But

Kyle Pierce:

if you take away all obligations, for me, I'm

Kyle Pierce:

like 4am to, to noon person when I would like my body wants to

Kyle Pierce:

sleep around dawn when the birds start chirping. And don't let me

Kyle Pierce:

go to sleep. Though I don't get to do that now. Anyway, so thank

Kyle Pierce:

you birds, for making.

Tristan Paylor:

They're trying to hedge more on sustainable

Tristan Paylor:

making sure. Making sure you get to work on time. They're just

Tristan Paylor:

looking out for you. I would certainly be curious to know if

Tristan Paylor:

either of our question askers this episode are morning people.

Tristan Paylor:

Because our clearance because there's a lot of Cardinal energy

Tristan Paylor:

happening in this episode. Lots of cardinal sign action going

Tristan Paylor:

on. Yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

good. Nice segue. Tristan.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, you're welcome.

Kyle Pierce:

brings us into our our first question. So our first

Kyle Pierce:

question comes from jet. And jet has she has a Cardinal Grand

Kyle Pierce:

Cross in her chart, and would like to know more about grand

Kyle Pierce:

crosses, in general, but for more focus on Cardinal green

Kyle Pierce:

crosses, in particular. And she has also shared her chart with

Kyle Pierce:

us, which, you know, is a pretty awesome example of a Grand Cross

Kyle Pierce:

so well. You know what first thing that comes to your mind

Kyle Pierce:

when you think of grand grace is Tristan.

Tristan Paylor:

The key words that come to mind for me are

Tristan Paylor:

dynamic tension. And how that plays out obviously depends on

Tristan Paylor:

the planets involved in the Grand Cross and the mode that

Tristan Paylor:

they're in. I feel like it probably be helpful. In case we

Tristan Paylor:

have listeners who are very new to astrology to define some of

Tristan Paylor:

our terms first, so maybe we can explain what a Grand Cross is

Tristan Paylor:

and what Cardinal means, because the modes are important when it

Tristan Paylor:

comes to Grand crosses. So a Grand Cross is an aspect

Tristan Paylor:

pattern. It is formed by four planets that are all in the same

Tristan Paylor:

mode. The three modes are Cardinal, fixed and mutable. So

Tristan Paylor:

all 12 signs of the zodiac can be divided into these three

Tristan Paylor:

modes. And signs that have the same mode will either square or

Tristan Paylor:

oppose one another by aspects which is a tense sort of aspect,

Tristan Paylor:

a challenging aspect. Both the opposite addition and the square

Tristan Paylor:

are associated with the malefic planets. So not as like easy and

Tristan Paylor:

comfortable as the other aspects that could happen in a chart. So

Tristan Paylor:

the signs that are configured by a Grand Cross all have mode in

Tristan Paylor:

common, so they do have something in common. But there

Tristan Paylor:

can potentially be some disagreement about what goal

Tristan Paylor:

should be achieved with the energy they have, what sort of

Tristan Paylor:

direction they should be going in, there can be some sort of

Tristan Paylor:

competing interests happening. And it's, it's pretty easy to

Tristan Paylor:

spot a Grand Cross in a chart, if you're looking at the pattern

Tristan Paylor:

of aspects in the middle of a chart, you'll see a great big

Tristan Paylor:

square with an X in the middle, because you'll have two axes of

Tristan Paylor:

opposition and four squares between all four of these

Tristan Paylor:

planets all configured to each other.

Kyle Pierce:

four squares and two opposition's

Tristan Paylor:

exactly. I feel like that was probably a really

Tristan Paylor:

long winded explanation.

Kyle Pierce:

No, me No. And that's that's the essence of a

Kyle Pierce:

Grand Cross. But this was like other things I like to consider

Kyle Pierce:

just in not just grand crosses, but like interpreting squares

Kyle Pierce:

and opposition's you know, when you think of how the house

Kyle Pierce:

system is set up, you know, what are the the powerful houses the

Kyle Pierce:

most energetic houses, the they're the angular houses, the

Kyle Pierce:

first, the fourth, the seventh, and the 10th. So I mean, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, squares, and opposition's involve a lot of energy, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, they're, they're powerful. And maybe, depending on the

Kyle Pierce:

planets involved, and their relationship to each other, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, it could be more positive or more negative, more

Kyle Pierce:

challenging. But it gets, it's good to consider how powerful

Kyle Pierce:

can be different than favorable. You know, or powerful, powerful

Kyle Pierce:

isn't always easy. You know, it's not always smooth.

Tristan Paylor:

And I think that's a common interpretation

Tristan Paylor:

of the Grand Cross is that it is an aspect pattern. That takes a

Tristan Paylor:

lot of work.

Kyle Pierce:

But also, well, I mean, the, there's so many

Kyle Pierce:

factors involved in interpreting any given brain cross, but it

Kyle Pierce:

also involves a lot of energy. Which can be a good thing. I

Kyle Pierce:

think the challenge given the how there is sort of a conflict

Kyle Pierce:

built into all these squares, and opposition's is figuring out

Kyle Pierce:

how to channel that in a in a positive way. And my son has a

Kyle Pierce:

as a Cardinal Grand Cross. It's actually a very tight one. And

Kyle Pierce:

it's funny watching him play video games, because he is never

Kyle Pierce:

sitting down while he's playing. And he's always jumping, and

Kyle Pierce:

talking, while he's playing. He's doing all these things,

Kyle Pierce:

same time while playing this game. And that's kind of like

Kyle Pierce:

what a Cardinal Grand Cross in particular, but Green Cross in

Kyle Pierce:

general is that it's like multiple impulses or multiple

Kyle Pierce:

intentions, that are kind of at odds, you know, like, when I sit

Kyle Pierce:

in play video games, I sit and I hone in on on the game. You

Kyle Pierce:

know, if you try to talk to me, while I'm doing that, I'll

Kyle Pierce:

probably get annoyed with you. And while Declan likes to. He

Kyle Pierce:

likes to talk to you while I was playing the game, he likes to

Kyle Pierce:

talk to himself while he's playing the game. To move

Kyle Pierce:

around. I would say that there are ways to start with a way to

Kyle Pierce:

kind of manage that energy or I think traditionally, a lot of

Kyle Pierce:

what makes a opposition well square more difficult is the

Kyle Pierce:

lack of affinity I guess between the two elements, like Aries on

Kyle Pierce:

a planet in Aries would be squaring a planet in cancer. So

Kyle Pierce:

one is fire and one is water and the two very different elements.

Kyle Pierce:

So I mean, you get boiling water, I suppose or but water

Kyle Pierce:

could also put out the fire. They sort of destabilize to some

Kyle Pierce:

degree but they also promote change. The interaction promotes

Kyle Pierce:

change, while you know what stabilizing Trine is gonna maybe

Kyle Pierce:

promote a more more stable movement more stable. And once

Kyle Pierce:

they stay It is quo, but like a train, it's like, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

starting a job and getting a promotion after you know, a

Kyle Pierce:

certain amount of time or getting a steady raise, get

Kyle Pierce:

along with your coworkers, while like a square might be like a

Kyle Pierce:

sudden job change, or, you know, getting in a conflict with your

Kyle Pierce:

boss, and maybe your boss gets fired, and then you get to take

Kyle Pierce:

their job or something, or the other way around.

Tristan Paylor:

And I think that's all that's all excellent,

Tristan Paylor:

I love the description of a Grand Cross being sort of like

Tristan Paylor:

multiple impulses, that are all trying to express themselves at

Tristan Paylor:

once and all in different areas. And you know, the, the person

Tristan Paylor:

who's dealing with that sort of energy in their life is sort of

Tristan Paylor:

in this position of having to juggle all those different

Tristan Paylor:

impulses and all the different directions they want to go in,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, in this case, it's four different directions,

Tristan Paylor:

you're sort of being pulled in all at once, I think, especially

Tristan Paylor:

with the Cardinal Grand Cross, because Cardinal energy is all

Tristan Paylor:

about momentum, and forward movement and initiation. It is

Tristan Paylor:

all about change and initiating change. And you add cardinality

Tristan Paylor:

to the symbolism of the square, which is the aspect of Mars, so

Tristan Paylor:

you know, more challenging and more extreme, I like that

Tristan Paylor:

comparison of like, you know, getting a job and, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

sort of getting promoted, you know, when you're your job

Tristan Paylor:

review, and everything is just kind of going along as expected.

Tristan Paylor:

Like it's sort of going along according to script, that's very

Tristan Paylor:

much what the train, the energy of the train is, like, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

are being on the, the so called relationship escalator where you

Tristan Paylor:

know, you, you date, and then you know, you get engaged and

Tristan Paylor:

then you get married, you have kids, it's sort of like the

Tristan Paylor:

traditional cultural script for how a relationship is supposed

Tristan Paylor:

to change and grow or how, you know, the workplace is your

Tristan Paylor:

position, or your workplace is supposed to change and grow.

Tristan Paylor:

Whereas with a square, it's like, anything goes like

Tristan Paylor:

anything could happen at any point, you could be bouncing

Tristan Paylor:

from one extreme to the other. So it's that it's a little it's

Tristan Paylor:

a little more chaotic.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, and it's making me think of you, your

Kyle Pierce:

preferred exercise routine is climbing stairs, right?

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, well, I was climbing stairs for a while,

Tristan Paylor:

and then I got a hold of an exercise bike. So it's been it's

Tristan Paylor:

been either way, it's the sort of like stationary, like,

Tristan Paylor:

steady, you know, one direction at a time, kind of, it's not

Tristan Paylor:

very kale. Yeah.

Kyle Pierce:

Well, just, it's making me think of just the

Kyle Pierce:

square by itself, right? And just the shape of it, it's right

Kyle Pierce:

angle, you know, I'll try and it's like, a nice, you know, can

Kyle Pierce:

you think of like a ramp? Did you kind of walk up the ramp,

Kyle Pierce:

and you don't have to like, it's like a gentle, slow, gentle

Kyle Pierce:

slope that you, you know, slowly climb up, and it doesn't take.

Kyle Pierce:

You're not expending quite as much energy, at least not at one

Kyle Pierce:

moment. But it might take you a little longer to get to the top

Kyle Pierce:

of the, you know, has to be a longer ramp to get to cover the

Kyle Pierce:

same distance. While stairs, you know, you climb up each stair

Kyle Pierce:

and if you've ever climbed up Winchester years, wears you out

Kyle Pierce:

pretty fast, right? So I kind of hard on your knees, but you can

Kyle Pierce:

also get up to higher levels faster.

Tristan Paylor:

Oh, yeah, that's a good point where it's like the

Tristan Paylor:

steepness. So I feel like that. That's good commentary on the

Tristan Paylor:

nature of Capricorn, which is a cardinal sign. And, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

because Capricorn tends to be associated more with tradition

Tristan Paylor:

and restraint. And you know, it has this sort of holding on or

Tristan Paylor:

blocking kind of energy. I think sometimes it's hard to

Tristan Paylor:

understand what makes Capricorn Cardinal but it's that like, you

Tristan Paylor:

are moving, you're just moving through more difficult terrain.

Tristan Paylor:

So your movement is maybe not as quick or as obvious as it would

Tristan Paylor:

be in a sign like cancer or Aries, but you are nonetheless,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, making forward movement. You're just kind of

Tristan Paylor:

struggling for like climbing up very, very steep stairs. Yeah.

Kyle Pierce:

Rugged, rugged terrain. Yeah, that makes me

Kyle Pierce:

think we'll just say a bit about difference between Cardinal

Kyle Pierce:

mutable and fixed, just so we maybe talk a little bit about

Kyle Pierce:

like the differences between like a Cardinal Grand Cross and

Kyle Pierce:

the fixed one and the mutable one. That Cardinal is all about,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, initiating things, it's initiating actions that are

Kyle Pierce:

the beginnings of things, starting things like a starting

Kyle Pierce:

up a company or something. Fixed signs are, I guess, status quo

Kyle Pierce:

to a degree, but they're kind of talking about things that are

Kyle Pierce:

already established already happening. And they sort

Tristan Paylor:

of they maintain the establishment. Yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

there's more of a lasting quality to fix signs,

Kyle Pierce:

but they're also you know, not as movable, you know, it's

Kyle Pierce:

already happening, the momentum is already there. And mutable

Kyle Pierce:

would be more about like the the endings of things, but also the

Kyle Pierce:

more transitory you think of like seasons Pisces, for

Kyle Pierce:

example. So mutable sign, it kind of comes at the very end of

Kyle Pierce:

winter, just before spring, so there's kind of that in between

Kyle Pierce:

period where it's kind of winter still, but it's, it's, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

the snows kind of starting to melt, sort of like preparing

Kyle Pierce:

for, for spring. So like mutable signs are a bit more adaptable,

Kyle Pierce:

but they maybe have a similar struggle is like cardinal signs

Kyle Pierce:

is kind of maintaining direction, right? Like they're

Kyle Pierce:

not as sort of maybe what like mutable signs aren't as good at,

Kyle Pierce:

like staying on one task, you know, for a long period of time.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, I think of mutable as switching back and

Tristan Paylor:

forth, or, or sort of being in two places at once or doing two

Tristan Paylor:

things at once. The the traditional term for them as

Tristan Paylor:

double bodied signs. And if you look at opportunity to symbols

Tristan Paylor:

for the mutable signs, yeah, there have two natures, or

Tristan Paylor:

they're literally split in two. And you can see it with all of

Tristan Paylor:

the symbols even, you know, Virgo is maybe the least obvious

Tristan Paylor:

but Virgo is often depicted as an angel, which is of two

Tristan Paylor:

natures right of, of the mind and spirit, you have a human who

Tristan Paylor:

also has some sort of divine nature as well. And you know,

Tristan Paylor:

Gemini and Pisces are pretty obvious because they're both

Tristan Paylor:

symbolized by two things. And you know, this, the center of

Tristan Paylor:

Sagittarius is half human, half horse. So you with all four

Tristan Paylor:

signs, you have this meeting of two natures, sort of both acting

Tristan Paylor:

at once, or alternating. And I think that's sort of the key

Tristan Paylor:

difference between mutable and Cardinal, because both of those

Tristan Paylor:

modalities are about change. But in the case of Cardinal, it's

Tristan Paylor:

more like, you know, moving from one thing to the next, and with

Tristan Paylor:

mutable, it's more about having your foot your feet planted in

Tristan Paylor:

two different worlds simultaneously. Yeah. And having

Tristan Paylor:

to sort of be flexible, because you never know what sort of

Tristan Paylor:

demands might be placed on you by the sort of opposite

Tristan Paylor:

expectations.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, and I guess thinking about that, in the

Kyle Pierce:

context of grand crosses, like a generally, I mean, a lot of the

Kyle Pierce:

common discussion around Grand crosses and think in practice,

Kyle Pierce:

when I, like, I've noticed is that Cardinal Grand crosses are

Kyle Pierce:

a little I want to say easier, but they're a little. Like a

Kyle Pierce:

Grand Cross is more compatible with the nature of Cardinal

Kyle Pierce:

signs in general. Yeah. Can you think of somebody like kind of,

Kyle Pierce:

like constantly starting new things? Like I don't know, like

Kyle Pierce:

getting like multiple balls rolling? And maybe always having

Kyle Pierce:

these like, different balls rolling all the time. So it

Kyle Pierce:

makes me think of the way that he you know, anything about how

Kyle Pierce:

like, electric motors work?

Tristan Paylor:

I'm absolutely terrible at anything mechanical.

Tristan Paylor:

I did not understand it.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. I mean, I don't I only know the essence of

Kyle Pierce:

of it. I am not mechanical in any way. Yeah, so essentially,

Kyle Pierce:

the way a motor works is, you know, when a electric current

Kyle Pierce:

passes through a coil, in a magnetic field, the magnetic

Kyle Pierce:

force produces like torque, which turns the motor and then

Kyle Pierce:

there's like a communicator that like reverses the current, each

Kyle Pierce:

half revolution to like keep the torque turning the same coil,

Kyle Pierce:

like in the same direction. So like, you know, creates this

Kyle Pierce:

very, you know, active movement. And while it's only you know,

Kyle Pierce:

dealing with two pole poles like a good well oiled Grand Cross,

Kyle Pierce:

makes me think of that of like how electric motor works. It's a

Kyle Pierce:

lot of dynamic energy. That when you know going smoothly, can

Kyle Pierce:

generate a lot of power generate a lot of dynamic action. It can

Kyle Pierce:

be like very constructive.

Tristan Paylor:

It can but I can imagine it you No, can also get

Tristan Paylor:

very tiring because that motor does not shut off in the case of

Tristan Paylor:

a Cardinal Grand Cross going, although you know the the nature

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of the planets involved can change that with with jets,

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Cardinal Grand Cross in particular, the four planets

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involved our Jupiter, Mars, Venus and the moon. And we've

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got Jet's chart up in the show notes. So if you want to take a

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look at it and follow along, please do so. So jet was born

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with Libra rising. And Jupiter is in Libra as well in the first

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house. So if you've been listening carefully, you may

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already realize that this particular garden Cardinal Grand

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Cross is taking place in the angular houses in jets chart,

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because Cardinal planet number one is Jupiter in Libra right

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there in the first house. Then we have the Moon in Capricorn,

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in the fourth house forming another point of the Grand

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Cross. And then in the seventh house, we have Venus in Aries.

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And finally, in the 10th house, we have Mars in Cancer. And that

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completes our Grand Cross of Cardinal planets. So something I

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find kind of interesting about this one is that you have some

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like, pretty soft and gentle planets making up you know, the

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three points at the bottom of the Grand Cross, at least, you

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know, visually in this chart there at the bottom there. And

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although like, you know, the moon and Capricorn and Venus in

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Aries are maybe not as traditionally soft and fluffy as

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the Moon and Venus are sort of like pure archetypes of

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themselves. It's, you know, despite being like, you know,

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them all squaring and opposing each other, you know, those are

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generally pretty gentle natured planets. And when you have a

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square from a benefic planet, like Jupiter or Venus, it's

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actually really supportive. And if the benefic is earlier in the

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order of zodiacal signs, and it's squaring another planet,

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it's actually modifying that planet so it's, it's giving it

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so much support that ancient astrologers are just like, this

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is one of the best things that you can possibly have in a

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chart. So even though it's like it's still a tense aspect, when

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you have the benefits involved, it's it's a little bit less like

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somebody's trying to fight you and a little bit more like, you

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know, maybe an accountability buddy who, you know, they, they

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do light a little bit of a fire under your butt to get moving,

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but in a very supportive, friendly, gentle sort of way,

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you know, and they're, they're providing resources and, you

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know, maybe wisdom and advice like, in the case of Jupiter and

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Libra, squaring the Moon in Capricorn, Jupiter is you know,

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quantifying the moon. So you know, that sort of like, Jupiter

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may be acting as a mentor, or, you know, giving the moon some

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good advice or giving the moon like connections or, you know,

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literal resources that help the moon do what it wants to do. So,

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it's, it's still, you know, a little bit more active than if

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that was a Trine but it's nonetheless like, you know, not

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traditionally a difficult aspect despite being a square. But then

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when you get to the top of the Grand Cross, you have Mars and I

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feel like Mars is really the, you know, the one that's kind of

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moving all of this and like injecting a little bit of like

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fire and sharpness into this overall Grand Cross and sort of

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stirring the pot.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Yeah, well, it's mean, squares or the nature

Kyle Pierce:

of Mars, right? But squares with like, genetics, or software

Kyle Pierce:

planets, you know, I think like, the essential energy of a square

Kyle Pierce:

is just, it's excessive to some degree, or just like a lot. So,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, that can look like more. You know, just thinking of

Kyle Pierce:

like the mentor. analogy, like you have your mentor that's

Kyle Pierce:

like, way to go like, you know, you're on the right track. You

Kyle Pierce:

know, maybe touch up this here and there. You know, keep

Kyle Pierce:

putting your work in and like, you know, you're on your way to,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, that fantastic acid essay that you've been wanting

Kyle Pierce:

to write while like You know, with the square like Jupiter,

Kyle Pierce:

squaring the moon, right? Look a little more like, more

Kyle Pierce:

energetic, enthusiastic, praise or enthusiasm. You want to like

Kyle Pierce:

push forward faster, can be a little excessive, though, like

Kyle Pierce:

maybe unrealistic expectations that are overall positive, like

Kyle Pierce:

pushing you forward in a positive direction

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creates sort of a high standard to live up to.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, there's like he has a real sense of ambition.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, when I think like Moon Jupiter, I always just

Kyle Pierce:

feel like, like optimism, you know, right, it's very, adds a

Kyle Pierce:

lot of optimism to the moon, right to your emotional state to

Kyle Pierce:

some degree. And then like a smoother aspect, you know, it's

Kyle Pierce:

a little more realistic optimism. But in like a harder

Kyle Pierce:

aspect, it might be a little more excessive, you know, that

Kyle Pierce:

could be, you know, met with disappointment here and there,

Kyle Pierce:

too. I guess, you know, the, the hard aspects being of the nature

Kyle Pierce:

of both in the Olympics in the Olympics, and dealing with

Kyle Pierce:

extremes, I do like to think of excess with hard aspects, which

Kyle Pierce:

can be nice. If it's like, Jupiter, or square Venus, having

Kyle Pierce:

excess money, or friends, is great. But they can also, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, you could party too much as well,

Tristan Paylor:

I think some of the potential difficulties with

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the nature of a Cardinal Grand Cross are a risk of burnout, you

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know, trying to take on too much trying to do too much trying to

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do too much at once, not giving yourself enough of a break

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between projects or feeling pulled in, you know, in this

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case, you're literally being pulled in four directions at

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once, that's sort of the visually, that's what the Grand

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Cross is, is like your life sort of being pulled with the same

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amount of like, intensity and ambition, but in four different

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directions, all at the same time. Which, you know, some

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people can certainly pull off, but you know, there's, there's a

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point at which you need to stop and rest because there is only

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so much that any one of us is capable of. And this one in

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particular, you know, taking place in the angular houses is

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really interesting, because you have a planet in the first

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house, which has to do with the self, and, you know, having a

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strong sense of individual identity. And the fourth house,

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which has to do with home and family, and the seventh house

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that has to do with relationships, and the 10th

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house, that has to do with your career, and your you know,

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interface with the world and your public life, which are all

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sort of, you know, they're the angular houses, because those

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are the four sort of most pivotal and usually significant

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areas of life for all of us that are pretty universal, right? You

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know, that's, that is where we encounter things that profoundly

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change us and that move our story forward significantly. So

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there can be, you know, perhaps a sense of competing ambitions

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where it's like, you know, I want to be the best me I can

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possibly be is what Jupiter in the first house is saying, and,

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you know, the moon in the fourth house is saying, like, I want to

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be, you know, the best family member ever, and I want to have,

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you know, a really fulfilling private life and have like, a

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lovely home, I want it to be like clean and organized and you

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know, all of the sorts of ambitions you could have related

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to home and family and then you know, Venus in the seventh house

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is like I want to have really great relationships and you

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know, be it be an expert on you know, interpersonal interaction

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and the Mars in the 10th is like, I want to be I want a

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legacy, you know, I want to make a name for myself in the world,

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and have you know, pursue a career that gives me a sense of

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purpose and trying to have all four of those things sort of

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like maxtow You're sort of like mid maxing and a video game

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right like it's, that's a lot like it's it's certainly a

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worthwhile ambition to have but you know, there's this sense of

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like, wanting to be the best and achieve as much as possible in

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like all of the really significant areas of life all at

Tristan Paylor:

once.

Kyle Pierce:

Oh, yeah. Yeah, no, that's like the maxing out your

Kyle Pierce:

your video game character analogy. It's like usually most

Kyle Pierce:

games like there's like a you know, you get so many wonder XP

Kyle Pierce:

points that You can put towards different upgrading different

Kyle Pierce:

skills, you know, so you're not going to get like a character

Kyle Pierce:

with 100 points in all, all the different categories, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

usually emphasizing like agility is going to come at the expense

Kyle Pierce:

of something else, you know, if you want to be agile you need

Kyle Pierce:

you can't be as strong or something. So yeah, I think

Kyle Pierce:

Grendel Grendel, a

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garden home grant grant an owl, or just a

Kyle Pierce:

Green Cross in general. Yeah, it's gonna kind

Kyle Pierce:

of look like that, like, wanting to put so much energy in so many

Kyle Pierce:

different things. But you, there's a maximum limit, human

Kyle Pierce:

wise and time wise to, you know, how much you can accomplish in

Kyle Pierce:

each area, like you kind of have to, to focus it a bit. To get

Kyle Pierce:

results, it's gonna look like starting a lot of things, maybe

Kyle Pierce:

not finishing them in theory.

Tristan Paylor:

You know, there's, so I have, I don't have

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a Grand Cross in my chart. But I do have an extremely Cardinal

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chart. It's like, 95% Cardinal, it's ridiculous how Cardinal my

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chart is. When I was first doing astrology classes, my astrology

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teacher put all of our charts up on the wall. And mine was the

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one chart that would not stay stuck to the wall. Yeah, it just

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kept the tape kept peeling away from the wall, and it kept

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falling down. And we would just joke that like it was it was to

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Cardinal to stay in this place. And I remember, as a kid,

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reading some sort of children's novel, I don't remember the

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book. I don't remember what it was about. But I have a vivid

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memory of this one scene in the book, where a character got into

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an apple harvest, I think, and just took a single bite out of

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every single one of the Oh, yeah, like that. Yeah. And like,

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you know, when their parent or caregiver, whoever it was, saw

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what happened, they were just like, I mean, you know, the

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whole the apple harvest was ruined. But like, instead of

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getting, you know, angry and upset, they were like, Why did

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you do this? And the kid was like, because the first byte

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tastes the best. That's the best one. And I've never related to

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anything so hard in my entire life. Like, I've forgotten the

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whole the context that the story was in, but I was just like,

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Yeah, it's true. The first the first bite is the best. And I

Tristan Paylor:

think Cardinal energy can be a bit like that, like taking one

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bite out of 1000 apples. Yeah.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, that's, that's a great analogy. Say I

Kyle Pierce:

have a very fixed chart. We think like, what, six of my

Kyle Pierce:

planets are involved in a T square, which is not quite the

Kyle Pierce:

same as his Grand Cross, but similar. And yeah, I do. I have

Kyle Pierce:

a similar tendency to want to put a lot of energy and a lot of

Kyle Pierce:

different things. But it do have a little bit harder of a time

Kyle Pierce:

with initiating things kind of want to skip to the, to the

Kyle Pierce:

middle part of the language where everything's just running

Kyle Pierce:

smoothly, I want to get to that part. And there's kind of the

Kyle Pierce:

frustration with like, a more of a fixed goodbye, that to like a

Kyle Pierce:

Grand Cross, like a fixed Grand Cross would be harder to get

Kyle Pierce:

moving. You know, you'd like a lot more stuck sort of energy.

Kyle Pierce:

Leave a lot of it's gonna say like a catch. 22.

Tristan Paylor:

Like, do I like that description of just wanting

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to get to the middle part? You know, just wanting it's funny

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because I

Kyle Pierce:

don't eat the crust. When I want the oldest

Kyle Pierce:

stuff in the middle.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, you want the middle of the Oreo, juicy

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middle part. Yeah.

Kyle Pierce:

I want to get a little bit more into focus a

Kyle Pierce:

little bit on jets, Grand Cross,

Tristan Paylor:

because there is no Saturn in this Grand Cross.

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So it's really the wheels turning, there's kind of nobody,

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nobody has their foot on the brake. In this particular Grand

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Cross.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, they're all planets that are down to move,

Kyle Pierce:

you know? Yeah, the moon is very fast moving Venus. You know,

Kyle Pierce:

benefics I mean, just Jupiter, it has its domiciles are mutable

Kyle Pierce:

but has an exultation and a cardinal sign. Venus has a

Kyle Pierce:

domicile in the cardinal sign. The moon, you know, it's

Kyle Pierce:

domiciles Cardinal Mars likes Cardinal. They're there, you

Kyle Pierce:

know. You're down to move. So I would Yeah, I would think a lot

Kyle Pierce:

of restless movement, but there. I would think that like, when

Kyle Pierce:

there's a lot of reception involved, I think that you get a

Kyle Pierce:

little bit more of the electric motor running as opposed was two

Kyle Pierce:

parts a bunch of parts that don't really fit together, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, like finding a way to, to harmonize them or to combine

Kyle Pierce:

things is gonna be easier. I think when there's reception and

Kyle Pierce:

there's quite a bit in this one

Tristan Paylor:

you got a lot, there's a lot of reception going

Tristan Paylor:

on there a lot of like, there's some potential disagreements,

Tristan Paylor:

but there are a lot of there's a lot of sympathy going on as

Tristan Paylor:

well.

Kyle Pierce:

Oh, yeah. Yeah, I think like Venus is an Aries.

Kyle Pierce:

And it's in the overcoming square with Mars, and Mars rules

Kyle Pierce:

Aries. So I mean, there is a sort of an exchange of like a

Kyle Pierce:

trade relationship or something between countries where you have

Kyle Pierce:

something you want, and you have something I want, so we don't

Kyle Pierce:

need to fight each other. It's, it's actually more profitable

Kyle Pierce:

for us not to fight in, in, you know, do business,

Tristan Paylor:

and the Venus being in the seventh house,

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representing relationships and partnerships. But also being an

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Aries, which is the sign of Venus is detriment, you know,

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which could indicate relationships that are a little

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more unconventional, or that go against the grain in some way.

Tristan Paylor:

But nonetheless, you know, those relationships are supporting

Tristan Paylor:

what Mars is trying to do. So, you know, this can be, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

you you want to have the greatest relationships and also

Tristan Paylor:

have the greatest career, but they're, those two areas of life

Tristan Paylor:

are actually potentially really working together. Well, yeah,

Tristan Paylor:

both of the planets are in kind of unconventional signs. So you

Tristan Paylor:

know, if it's a, a relationship, that's, you know, a little a

Tristan Paylor:

little Venus and Aries II, you know, a little bit a

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relationship that kind of goes off script or sort of defies

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norms or expectations in some way, Mars in Cancer is also a

Tristan Paylor:

Mars that defies expectations. So, you know, they've kind of

Tristan Paylor:

got each other's back in that sense. And, you know, because

Tristan Paylor:

Venus is in the domicile of Mars and is in, you know, the

Tristan Paylor:

overcoming position, it's sort of like, Venus is being treated

Tristan Paylor:

as a guest of Mars, but also has, you know, a certain amount

Tristan Paylor:

of power in that situation. You know, because Venus is earlier

Tristan Paylor:

in zodiacal order, you know, Venus is able to, to make

Tristan Paylor:

demands of their host. Yeah, so, you know, I would, I would think

Tristan Paylor:

that's actually like, it's, it's dynamic, and, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

potentially challenging and that, you know, what you might

Tristan Paylor:

want to do in those two areas of life, you know, you may have to

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do some of those, you know, achieve some of those goals in a

Tristan Paylor:

way that is defiant of, you know, what is expected of you.

Tristan Paylor:

But, nonetheless, those two areas of life are supporting one

Tristan Paylor:

another. Yeah, it's not a contest. It's not like it's

Tristan Paylor:

sometimes with grand crosses, it can be like one area of life,

Tristan Paylor:

implicated in the Grand Cross needs to be sacrificed for

Tristan Paylor:

another or, you know, like, how do you compromise between these

Tristan Paylor:

four competing interests, and there's one that's sort of

Tristan Paylor:

asking the other to make a sacrifice, like you need to

Tristan Paylor:

spend less time on your relationships if you want to

Tristan Paylor:

pursue you know, graduate degree or whatever it is, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

those two areas of your life are demanding that one of them needs

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to be sacrificed for the other in this section of the Grand

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Cross it doesn't look like that kind of situation. It doesn't

Tristan Paylor:

look like relationships or career needs to be sacrificed

Tristan Paylor:

for the other

Kyle Pierce:

No. You know, not necessarily how it's played out

Kyle Pierce:

or played out yet but that makes me think of like a like a power

Kyle Pierce:

couple. Like there are a couple

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eccentric power couple but

Kyle Pierce:

like they don't have to Yeah, they don't have to

Kyle Pierce:

exist as two separate spheres of life like there's ways that they

Kyle Pierce:

can merge yeah to some degree and support each other. Which

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, which I thought the ways I can think of that that would

Kyle Pierce:

play out more favorably similarly to like with the Venus

Kyle Pierce:

Venus is opposing Jupiter in the first and Venus rules Jupiter

Kyle Pierce:

you know like there's a there's reception there not that we

Kyle Pierce:

would be too worried about a Venus Jupiter opposition and

Kyle Pierce:

thankfully I think

Tristan Paylor:

realizing Yeah, also that that's

Kyle Pierce:

why We are and energetic, enthusiastic.

Tristan Paylor:

And so when I think of when I think of like

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Venus and Jupiter and heart aspect to each other, I think

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more of like two friends who really love each other, like

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shouting overtop of other voices and music at a bar so they can

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hear each other, you know, or it's just like that kind of

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exuberant,

Kyle Pierce:

energy and each other to more and more fire

Tristan Paylor:

pushing each other to succeed a little.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, that one I like. And Jupiter is also in a

Kyle Pierce:

position where it can modify the moon and overcoming square with

Kyle Pierce:

with the moon, in Capricorn in the fourth, which I think helps.

Kyle Pierce:

The fact that like Mars has been modified by Venus in the moon

Kyle Pierce:

has been modified by Jupiter. And it helps with that

Kyle Pierce:

opposition, the Moon and Mars. But there is some reception

Kyle Pierce:

there as well. Mars, exalted in Capricorn, in the moon rules,

Kyle Pierce:

cancer, like a mixed reception, not that that's gonna, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

make that the easiest aspect in the world by any means, but

Kyle Pierce:

it's, it's gonna help a lot. It describes like a, like

Kyle Pierce:

difficulty, but it's sort of, because they are to some degree

Kyle Pierce:

responsible to each other, Mars and the Moon. There, it sort of

Kyle Pierce:

points to a path to like integrating the two, to making

Kyle Pierce:

them more cooperative, or making, you know, more maybe

Kyle Pierce:

more obvious, obvious, but more accessible solutions to the

Kyle Pierce:

problems that that opposition describes.

Tristan Paylor:

And looking in to that opposition with more

Tristan Paylor:

detail. You know, we've got the moon in the fourth house and

Tristan Paylor:

Mars in the 10th. And the moon is generally about relaxation,

Tristan Paylor:

and how we get comfortable, how we take care of ourselves, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, the the moon is, is a cozy sort of energy, and, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

has to do with like, where we're doing the moon, when we are

Tristan Paylor:

unwinding, you know, we're doing the moon when we're nourishing

Tristan Paylor:

ourselves, you know, when we're taking a nice bubble bath and

Tristan Paylor:

having a snack like that's, that's a lunar activity,

Tristan Paylor:

typically not marketing, not when we're on Mars, saying, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, we're out trying to take over the world. So, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

those two planets are generally at odds with each other, which

Tristan Paylor:

is also why, you know, they don't tend to be super

Tristan Paylor:

comfortable in each other's signs. So with, you know, the

Tristan Paylor:

Mars opposition. One way that can manifest is difficulty

Tristan Paylor:

relaxing, because the moon is how we get comfortable, and Mars

Tristan Paylor:

is like, there's always a crisis, there's always an

Tristan Paylor:

emergency as far as Mars is concerned, and there's always

Tristan Paylor:

something else to do, and you need to always be vigilant and

Tristan Paylor:

ready to act quickly. You know, in the poor Moon is like, I'm

Tristan Paylor:

just trying to have a cup of tea and read my book and Mars is

Tristan Paylor:

like, but at any moment, an alarm bell could go off, and you

Tristan Paylor:

need to be ready. So there's, you know, and because of the

Tristan Paylor:

houses they're in, that kind of fits in with the symbolism well

Tristan Paylor:

to since the moon is in the fourth house, which is about

Tristan Paylor:

home and private life. So like the moon here is really just

Tristan Paylor:

like, I just want to go, you know, in into my private space,

Tristan Paylor:

and, you know, not be seen by anybody and just relax and Mars

Tristan Paylor:

is up there, like wanting to be seen in this very public place,

Tristan Paylor:

being very ambitious being like, you know, we've got, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

we don't have time for this, we've, we've got to keep working

Tristan Paylor:

and working and working in order to, you know, achieve these

Tristan Paylor:

ambitions. So it could, you know, potentially be a very

Tristan Paylor:

restless energy that, you know, could be liable to burnout. But

Tristan Paylor:

because the moon is in Mars, a sign of exultation, and Mars is

Tristan Paylor:

in the moon's domicile, they do have a little more sympathy for

Tristan Paylor:

each other. And they're able to kind of exchange resources a

Tristan Paylor:

little bit, which I think takes the edge off of that

Tristan Paylor:

combination.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Yeah, that was a good deal the edge and,

Kyle Pierce:

like, you know, you can work from home, right? I mean,

Kyle Pierce:

there's there's way Yeah, merge the fourth and 10th houses.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, it's not like an impossible thing. And having,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, reception between the planets ruling those houses or

Kyle Pierce:

plants in those houses, like is going to go by create like

Kyle Pierce:

avenues, sort of outlets. So I mean, it's, I don't want to say

Kyle Pierce:

like, oh, you know, it's gonna be easy to to sit back and relax

Kyle Pierce:

and have your tea. But it may be like, I don't know, the some

Kyle Pierce:

degree it's makes me think about the shark. How sharks can never

Kyle Pierce:

stop swimming.

Tristan Paylor:

Right? They can't just, yeah, they still

Tristan Paylor:

they gotta keep moving

Kyle Pierce:

while they swim while they sleep. You know?

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. After they drown if they don't, that's a really good

Kyle Pierce:

image. So I mean, there's a way that like that that movement,

Kyle Pierce:

that constant like energy and restlessness, it probably feels

Kyle Pierce:

best, you know, when you're actually moving and acting on

Kyle Pierce:

things, which can be very productive. But then yeah, like

Kyle Pierce:

he's interested in the burnout. So, you know, I mean, it seems

Kyle Pierce:

like having, I don't know, a cycle that could work pretty

Kyle Pierce:

well of, you know, working hard and playing hard, or, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

going on a nice vacation after, you know, a long stint of

Kyle Pierce:

workaholism?

Tristan Paylor:

Well, yeah, it's that the sort of extreme nature

Tristan Paylor:

of these aspects and also just the extreme nature of literally

Tristan Paylor:

anything that involves Mars, I think about will even like, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, what my partner does, who has a very prolific chart. And

Tristan Paylor:

his work is very seasonal. So he works insanely hard, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

like 10 hour days, doing, like really demanding physical labor,

Tristan Paylor:

and a ton of commuting, like he travels for hours every day. And

Tristan Paylor:

then, you know, he has a whole bunch of projects at home, some

Tristan Paylor:

of which are also connected to career. And so you know, he'll

Tristan Paylor:

come home after a 10 hour shift, and you know, work for three

Tristan Paylor:

more. And that's just you know, how he is, but then, because of

Tristan Paylor:

the nature of his work, he also gets most of the winter off. So

Tristan Paylor:

it's that going from one extreme to the next, like, you work

Tristan Paylor:

yourself, you know, like a horse, and then you take, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, a lot more time off at once compared to other people

Tristan Paylor:

mean tea, I don't know I a lot about teaching, but I feel like

Tristan Paylor:

teaching can probably be one of those jobs, too, or it's just

Tristan Paylor:

like really demanding, and really intense when you're at

Tristan Paylor:

work. And then you know, you get the summer off. And, yeah, so

Tristan Paylor:

you're sort of bouncing between those two extremes all the time.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah. And

Kyle Pierce:

I mean, that, I think the key is finding the

Kyle Pierce:

balance, finding balance in that. And that could look very

Kyle Pierce:

differently. I mean, it be like a daily sort of balance that

Kyle Pierce:

maybe, like a broader scale, like, a seasonal sort of

Kyle Pierce:

balance. But I mean, I think maybe the obvious problem to me

Kyle Pierce:

is just the burnout, but just yeah, like even noticing when

Kyle Pierce:

you're burning out, and maybe not until it's too late. Maybe

Kyle Pierce:

having to do that a couple of times before you maybe get the

Kyle Pierce:

message of like, oh, this is what happens when I'm burning

Kyle Pierce:

out or when I'm not taking care of myself working too much.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, that's thing that's the case with sort

Tristan Paylor:

of more extreme types of energy is that you don't always when

Tristan Paylor:

you're in the thick of it, you know, you're just sort of

Tristan Paylor:

intoxicated by that, you know, needing to keep moving forward.

Tristan Paylor:

And you don't actually know where the limits are until you

Tristan Paylor:

reach them. And you hit that wall. I think that can be, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, one of the characteristics of squares, and opposition's as

Tristan Paylor:

you, you kind of do have to go too far a couple of times in

Tristan Paylor:

order to know where to far is and then you're like, Okay, I

Tristan Paylor:

understand how to work with this now. But you kind of have to

Tristan Paylor:

learn the lesson the hard way at times.

Kyle Pierce:

I mean, speaking from experience, and to some

Kyle Pierce:

degree, it's a can t squares not quite the same, but he gets some

Kyle Pierce:

similar manifestations? I don't know. Yeah, almost like, it's

Kyle Pierce:

like the hard aspects make things more Cardinal like. And I

Kyle Pierce:

think maybe with a fixed grand grace or T square, aspect

Kyle Pierce:

pattern like that. It's learning to be more fixed, learning to

Kyle Pierce:

take a slower, steadier pace. I know once I start doing

Kyle Pierce:

something I'm into, I want to do it for the next, you know, 20

Kyle Pierce:

hours if I can. But obviously, that would be very

Kyle Pierce:

destabilizing.

Tristan Paylor:

And I think maybe one of the sort of key

Tristan Paylor:

differences between a a cardinal or mutable Grand Cross and a

Tristan Paylor:

fixed one is that, you know, you potentially have these competing

Tristan Paylor:

interests. And in the case of, you know, Cardinal, you're all

Tristan Paylor:

going to try to like start at once and sort of yell over top

Tristan Paylor:

of each other. And with mutable, you're going to try to juggle

Tristan Paylor:

everything at once. And with fixed, it's like everybody, you

Tristan Paylor:

don't get started at all, because everyone is disagreeing

Tristan Paylor:

about what to do. So you're kind of stuck in that stage of like,

Tristan Paylor:

okay, well, who's going to win? And, you know, they can't decide

Tristan Paylor:

like, what direction do we go in first because they all want to

Tristan Paylor:

go into four different places, but I you know, and I think of

Tristan Paylor:

like the cardinal version, it reminds me a little bit more of

Tristan Paylor:

the picture on the two of Pentacles and a Rider Waite deck

Tristan Paylor:

where you know, there's this like swirling see with all the

Tristan Paylor:

waves behind the figure and the boats are kind of being tossed

Tristan Paylor:

on the sea and the figure is juggling, you know, the two

Tristan Paylor:

Pentacles and like dancing at the same time, where it's just

Tristan Paylor:

like I'm doing everything at once and Meanwhile, you know is

Tristan Paylor:

Fixed sign buddy is just like I haven't even started yet.

Kyle Pierce:

I know which one I want to juggle right now. Yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

it's been one for a long time. And then yeah, maybe addressed

Kyle Pierce:

the other one later on. When I'm in the mood debts,

Tristan Paylor:

maybe a bit more of a four of pentacles energy

Tristan Paylor:

where the figure is just like sitting there hunched over, like

Tristan Paylor:

hanging on to all the Pentacles. Like, I could do something with

Tristan Paylor:

each of these four Pentacles. But I don't really know what to

Tristan Paylor:

do first, so I'm just gonna hold. And meanwhile, the

Tristan Paylor:

cardinal one is just like, I'm gonna use all four coins at once

Tristan Paylor:

and just hope for the best.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Yeah, I think like, traditionally, a lot of

Kyle Pierce:

like, the interpretive principles of astrology, it all

Kyle Pierce:

kind of comes down to affinity between planets and what

Kyle Pierce:

situation they're in. So I do find that, you know, a Grand

Kyle Pierce:

Cross has more affinity to Cardinal signs, and even like

Kyle Pierce:

Angular houses as well.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, where they're action oriented houses,

Tristan Paylor:

they're change oriented houses, they're focused on movement. And

Tristan Paylor:

they're sort of they're the peak, right? Like, they're the

Tristan Paylor:

culmination point. So there's that sense of like, elevated,

Tristan Paylor:

the things that are in them are elevated, and there's also just

Tristan Paylor:

like, an intense concentration of like, focused energy.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, some sounds like a busy life.

Tristan Paylor:

It does. It does sound like a busy life. I do I

Tristan Paylor:

do want to say that I know Jack personally. And she is just like

Tristan Paylor:

an incredibly wise and supportive and generous and kind

Tristan Paylor:

person. So if any listeners are looking at her chart, and

Tristan Paylor:

they're curious to know what the chart of a incredibly decent

Tristan Paylor:

human being looks like, you are looking at it. This is just the

Tristan Paylor:

chart of a very Jupiter in the first Yeah, Jupiter in the first

Tristan Paylor:

There you go. Just like friendly and generous and supportive.

Tristan Paylor:

That's the Jupiter is that like, you know, person you look up to

Tristan Paylor:

who's like always there for you kind of energy.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, it's, I like this chart. I don't think it's

Kyle Pierce:

fun. I mean, yeah.

Tristan Paylor:

It's just like, almost all the planets are in

Tristan Paylor:

places, they're not supposed to be there. Like five of the seven

Tristan Paylor:

traditional planets are either in detriment or fall and they're

Tristan Paylor:

just like, you know, we're just gonna make the most of this

Tristan Paylor:

somehow

Kyle Pierce:

they got my like UFC reach that research is

Kyle Pierce:

really got me rethinking how important dignity really is, I

Kyle Pierce:

don't know, I don't know if like planet has to be in a good sign

Kyle Pierce:

to function. Well. Think even, like, a lot of traditional

Kyle Pierce:

thinking is more focused on house placement and angularity

Kyle Pierce:

and all that. Yeah. But they definitely come with challenges,

Kyle Pierce:

but said it before say it again. I think there's a lot of room in

Kyle Pierce:

the world now for people acting. In non traditional ways, or

Tristan Paylor:

maybe when it's green a little bit. Yeah, maybe

Tristan Paylor:

that's I mean, you know, the world is still a pretty

Tristan Paylor:

difficult place. But you know, if you think about, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

like, where I'm sitting in Canada, in the 21st century,

Tristan Paylor:

compared to you know, somebody living 1000 years ago, it's this

Tristan Paylor:

sort of extreme interpretations of planets in different sorts of

Tristan Paylor:

dignity, in traditional astrology and maybe make more

Tristan Paylor:

sense in a society where it's like, most people are you know,

Tristan Paylor:

they most most people in that society don't have any power

Tristan Paylor:

whatsoever. Yeah, and they're just kind of at the whim of this

Tristan Paylor:

system in a really sort of extreme way. You know, whereas,

Tristan Paylor:

like, I'm somebody who doesn't have a lot of you know, sort of

Tristan Paylor:

power and influence or whatever, but, like, there's more sort of

Tristan Paylor:

room for me in in the world than there would have been, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

1000 years ago.

Kyle Pierce:

Maybe like, not at the world, in the world at large

Kyle Pierce:

but like within your, you know, your community within your

Kyle Pierce:

communities you're involved in Yeah,

Tristan Paylor:

that's that's a good way to put it. But yeah, I

Tristan Paylor:

guess it's like, there are spaces for me even though in a

Tristan Paylor:

lot of ways, I am unconventional and sort of, you know, the the

Tristan Paylor:

usual scripts don't tend to include me there are at least

Tristan Paylor:

still spaces for me where I can, you know, have influence and

Tristan Paylor:

like, have community and express myself and you know, there are

Tristan Paylor:

or more opportunities for me to make creative use of sort of the

Tristan Paylor:

unusual circumstances I've been dealt whereas, you know, in, in

Tristan Paylor:

other times in human history, that would not have been the

Tristan Paylor:

case.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, absolutely. I think that's, you know, it's

Kyle Pierce:

like want to qualify everything that I say but I mean, the world

Kyle Pierce:

now is not, you know, all roses and, you know, cherry orchards

Kyle Pierce:

and stuff it but things have improved, I guess a lot for

Kyle Pierce:

people who are operating outside of convention, right? Yeah.

Kyle Pierce:

Doesn't make it easy. It just means that there are communities

Kyle Pierce:

where it were, your voice can be heard, tend to be what I think

Kyle Pierce:

about like with dignity a lot is the ruling planet being kind of

Kyle Pierce:

the expectation that the planet is being held to some degree,

Kyle Pierce:

whether internally or externally.

Tristan Paylor:

I think a conversation about dignity might

Tristan Paylor:

be a good segue into our next question.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, yeah.

Tristan Paylor:

Our second question comes from Karolina who

Tristan Paylor:

is a Karolina I'm realizing I don't know how to pronounce your

Tristan Paylor:

name. I'm very sorry.

Kyle Pierce:

Karolina Karolina same had

Tristan Paylor:

him for now. Yeah, let's let's go with that

Tristan Paylor:

and I apologize if that is incorrect. So Karolina wants to

Tristan Paylor:

know, if she is doomed with so many fallen or debilitated

Tristan Paylor:

planets and squares in her chart. She also wants to know

Tristan Paylor:

how one should react to challenging aspects like squares

Tristan Paylor:

and opposition's or difficult dignities and also how this

Tristan Paylor:

relates to one's karma. Good question. And I've got

Tristan Paylor:

Carolina's chart is in the show notes, if anyone wants to follow

Tristan Paylor:

along with our interpretation and everything? Well,

Kyle Pierce:

um, start off the answer is no. And, yeah, next

Kyle Pierce:

question.

Tristan Paylor:

The answer is you're, you're most certainly

Tristan Paylor:

not doomed. I think I can speak for both Kyle and I, in saying

Tristan Paylor:

that we do not belong to a school of thought that one's

Tristan Paylor:

birth chart dictates their destiny. Or that, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

traditionally difficult placements in a birth chart

Tristan Paylor:

indicate any sort of doom and gloom, they can manifest in all

Tristan Paylor:

kinds of ways. And sometimes they just manifest in really

Tristan Paylor:

quirky, weird ways that, you know, are not necessarily, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, evil, or, you know, anything sort of scary like

Tristan Paylor:

that.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. One, I mean, sometimes they, they do describe

Kyle Pierce:

difficult situations or experiences, but, you know, we

Kyle Pierce:

also have a lot of agency and how we respond to that, and I

Kyle Pierce:

guess, my thoughts get drawn to the second part of the question,

Kyle Pierce:

which is like, how to respond to your difficult placements in the

Kyle Pierce:

chart when you see them. And that's mainly, I mean, I guess,

Kyle Pierce:

it's good to get a sense of like, what the traditional

Kyle Pierce:

interpretations are what, you know, maybe two, astrologers

Kyle Pierce:

have to say about it. But I find it personally, like valuable to,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, they are difficult placements, like how they might

Kyle Pierce:

have already played out in your life, and often indicate just

Kyle Pierce:

stuff that maybe already happened, or maybe not even

Kyle Pierce:

stuff that happened, just the way you feel about certain

Kyle Pierce:

things. And, um, sort of like a degree of maybe even like,

Kyle Pierce:

accepting that, like, okay, that that happened, this or that

Kyle Pierce:

happened. But in many cases, you know, you might already be doing

Kyle Pierce:

things that like, manage that, you know, or you may already be

Kyle Pierce:

working with that in a much more constructive way. Like myself

Kyle Pierce:

seeing some of my more difficult placements and accepting the

Kyle Pierce:

negative ways that maybe they have played out, um, sort of

Kyle Pierce:

like a good ended up being like constructive in the sense of

Kyle Pierce:

like, okay, I see, you know, that happened, all right. I

Kyle Pierce:

can't change you know, what's already happened, but I can

Kyle Pierce:

maybe change or maybe already have changed in many ways, how I

Kyle Pierce:

react to it, or how I you know, I'm already or can in the

Kyle Pierce:

future. Work with that like a more constructive way or a more

Kyle Pierce:

positive way and often even just like a difficult placement can

Kyle Pierce:

describe a lot of different things and not all of them are

Kyle Pierce:

difficult, you know?

Tristan Paylor:

And some some things that are challenging or

Tristan Paylor:

or difficult are enjoyable, you know, depending on your

Tristan Paylor:

temperament. And, you know, looking at curliness chart here,

Tristan Paylor:

I see that the sun is in areas. So, you know, and Mars is

Tristan Paylor:

conjunct the ascendant in the first house, and, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

those are indications of being someone who doesn't necessarily

Tristan Paylor:

shy away from challenge. So, you know, not everybody wants the

Tristan Paylor:

kind of life where everything just goes smoothly, and they're

Tristan Paylor:

never challenged. Like, that's very boring. You know, sometimes

Tristan Paylor:

being unsatisfied in a subject of study or at a job or in a

Tristan Paylor:

relationship can be because it's too boring, there's just there's

Tristan Paylor:

nothing about it, that kind of forces you to change or grow in

Tristan Paylor:

any way. And, you know, people have different temperaments

Tristan Paylor:

where that is concerned. Some people would prefer life to be a

Tristan Paylor:

little bit of an adventure. And so, you know, difficult or

Tristan Paylor:

challenging situations, you know, depending on the kind of

Tristan Paylor:

situations you're talking about, and what sort of temperament you

Tristan Paylor:

have are not necessarily bad. I also think when, because you,

Tristan Paylor:

Karolina mentioned, as well, you know, starting to study a little

Tristan Paylor:

bit more Hellenistic astrology. And one thing that Chris

Tristan Paylor:

Brennan, who I learned Hellenistic astrology from says,

Tristan Paylor:

quite a lot, I think, you know, he repeats on the astrology

Tristan Paylor:

podcast fairly often. And I'm glad he repeats it is, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

the delineations that you read in traditional texts for

Tristan Paylor:

placements are going to be very extreme. Because when you're

Tristan Paylor:

trying to teach somebody, the nature of these symbols, it's

Tristan Paylor:

more extreme situations are more memorable. And, and tell you

Tristan Paylor:

more about sort of, like, where are what are these symbols

Tristan Paylor:

about? And where are their limits? For most people, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, that placement is not going to manifest as the worst

Tristan Paylor:

case scenario. But you know, the best case scenario or the worst

Tristan Paylor:

case scenario, those are really valuable teaching tools. It's

Tristan Paylor:

like, you know, using case studies, right, like using

Tristan Paylor:

remarkable case studies, to learn about people or

Tristan Paylor:

situations, those case studies don't necessarily generalize

Tristan Paylor:

well, to the whole population. But nonetheless, they they do

Tristan Paylor:

still teach you a lot about certain things by showing you

Tristan Paylor:

really unusual or extreme circumstances. Yeah. And I think

Tristan Paylor:

that's, you know, something to keep in mind when you're reading

Tristan Paylor:

those traditional interpretations is that of

Tristan Paylor:

course, they're extreme, because that's what you're going to

Tristan Paylor:

remember. And that's what's going to help you learn. But

Tristan Paylor:

most of the time, that's not actually you know, realistically

Tristan Paylor:

what goes on in the average person's life.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, absolutely. True. Do you mind if I just

Kyle Pierce:

described the chart a little bit for listeners? Yeah, go for it

Kyle Pierce:

and get a sense of what's going on. Because it's actually funny

Kyle Pierce:

that I'm here Lena and jet were born within two months of each

Kyle Pierce:

other. But be within Yeah, think too much of each other actually.

Kyle Pierce:

Very similar charts and there's a similar Grand Cross going on

Kyle Pierce:

in Carolyn's chart, so

Tristan Paylor:

in the angular houses and no

Kyle Pierce:

less, so you guys should be friends.

Tristan Paylor:

Yes, become friends.

Kyle Pierce:

Also, Karolina was born with cancer rising with

Kyle Pierce:

Mars conjunct the ascendant. 20 degrees in cancer and the sun in

Kyle Pierce:

Aries in the 10th house, and the Moon in Libra in the fourth

Kyle Pierce:

house. Jupiter is also in the fourth house in Libra. Venus is

Kyle Pierce:

in Aries in in Libra, and I'm

Tristan Paylor:

sorry Venus is in

Kyle Pierce:

because it's an Aries and Libra

Tristan Paylor:

in Aries in the 10th house

Kyle Pierce:

Aries in the 10th house. Yes. And Mars is opposing

Kyle Pierce:

Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn in the seventh. Mercury is in

Kyle Pierce:

Pisces in the ninth house and Saturn is in Aquarius in the

Kyle Pierce:

eighth house. So happy Saturn Return Karolina

Tristan Paylor:

oh yeah happy Saturn Return jet and Karolina

Tristan Paylor:

very excited. Yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

yeah, just getting the basis of the chart so

Kyle Pierce:

similar themes going on, but I'm kinda going back to what you

Kyle Pierce:

were saying about getting into Hellenistic astrology is like

Kyle Pierce:

yeah, the initial reaction to like the interpretations and

Kyle Pierce:

everything. They are very extreme. But I guess also thing

Kyle Pierce:

to keep in mind And the deeper you get into it, there's like a

Kyle Pierce:

lot of other factors always at play to consider as well.

Tristan Paylor:

And there are a lot of mitigating factors in

Tristan Paylor:

this chart as well. Even though you know, you do have a bunch of

Tristan Paylor:

planets that are not traditionally dignified like

Tristan Paylor:

Mercury's in Pisces, Venus is an Aries. Mars is in cancer right

Tristan Paylor:

on the ascendant. So those three planets, you know, all stand out

Tristan Paylor:

as being, you know, in signs that are a little awkward for

Tristan Paylor:

them. And also, you know, being pretty visible, you know, Venus

Tristan Paylor:

is up in the 10th. And Mars is extremely Angular right on the

Tristan Paylor:

ascendant. So, you know, they're very prominent planets in the

Tristan Paylor:

chart as well.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Why now, that is the first thing when we see a

Kyle Pierce:

planet like right on the ascendant, your eye kind of

Kyle Pierce:

immediately gets drawn to that. And first thing I thought even

Kyle Pierce:

just seeing that was mirrored with like Michael Phelps, a

Kyle Pierce:

Olympic, if he does it professionally anymore, but he

Kyle Pierce:

was a big Olympic swimmer to Mars and cancer swimming, like,

Kyle Pierce:

actually, I would say, is great remediation for Mars and cancer,

Kyle Pierce:

if you ever want to take up swimming, or maybe you do

Kyle Pierce:

already. But Michael Phelps actually did an interesting

Kyle Pierce:

documentary not that long ago about that's been a while since

Kyle Pierce:

I've watched it, but it was about, like, the unhealthy

Kyle Pierce:

patterns that athletes get into, like the obsession to win. And,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, particularly like I think, was about Olympic

Kyle Pierce:

athletes, and how they would spend four years training for

Kyle Pierce:

the Olympics. And then you know, whether they won or not, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, the end of the day after that, they almost almost say

Kyle Pierce:

universally, but a majority of them fell into like, huge deep

Kyle Pierce:

depressions. And it's kind of like a huge come down, and then

Kyle Pierce:

having to figure out like what to do with your life after,

Kyle Pierce:

after that, but I just thought that was an interesting

Kyle Pierce:

manifestation of that for like a fallen Mars and in the first

Kyle Pierce:

house for like an athlete who ends up succeeding quite

Kyle Pierce:

prominently as an athlete, champion swimmer. But then kind

Kyle Pierce:

of challenging the culture around athleticism, and kind of

Kyle Pierce:

like exploring the drawbacks and dark side of the way that

Kyle Pierce:

athletes themselves approach athletics in the way we expect

Kyle Pierce:

from athletes.

Tristan Paylor:

Mm hmm. Yeah, and I think, you know, looking

Tristan Paylor:

at planets in fall, you know, there's that symbolism of sort

Tristan Paylor:

of falling from a high place or a high point. And you know,

Tristan Paylor:

sometimes you have to start out or get to the high place first

Tristan Paylor:

in order to have that experience of falling. And I think, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, you and I have discussed this more and more recently, how

Tristan Paylor:

exultation and fall really, you know, it is an axis and I think

Tristan Paylor:

when you have a planet, either an exultation or fall in your

Tristan Paylor:

chart anywhere, it draws attention, not only to that

Tristan Paylor:

planet, but to the whole axis it's on and just the whole

Tristan Paylor:

nature of what is it to be sort of elevated, and what is it to

Tristan Paylor:

be brought low, and that experience or sort of a deeper

Tristan Paylor:

understanding of that dynamic, and how it plays out in human

Tristan Paylor:

culture, I think is part of that it doesn't mean that like, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, if a planet is in fall, that it's always you know,

Tristan Paylor:

somewhere, you know, in the ditch, like, it's, it's a planet

Tristan Paylor:

that maybe through its experiences, has a recognition

Tristan Paylor:

of the extremes between, you know, being high up on a throne

Tristan Paylor:

versus being in the ditch, and, you know, somebody like a

Tristan Paylor:

professional athlete, you know, is a good example of that, were,

Tristan Paylor:

being a professional athlete sort of forces you to extremes

Tristan Paylor:

in your pursuit of your goal. And yet, your goals are

Tristan Paylor:

necessarily limited by human physiology. And at some point,

Tristan Paylor:

you're not going to be able to compete at that level anymore.

Tristan Paylor:

And you're gonna have to come to terms with that and find a way

Tristan Paylor:

to, you know, build your identity around you know, and a

Tristan Paylor:

new way of living you know, if your whole identity was kind of

Tristan Paylor:

built around, being the best athlete in the world that's not

Tristan Paylor:

sustainable. So, you know, how do you still have like a

Tristan Paylor:

positive self concept when you're no longer able to compete

Tristan Paylor:

at the level you once were?

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. We have been talking a lot about that lately.

Kyle Pierce:

And since the last episode, my Mars research on the UFC

Kyle Pierce:

fighters got like way deeper. But this is making me think

Kyle Pierce:

about that. I'm still working on writing the article. I can

Kyle Pierce:

barely talk. So you know, imagine how long it takes me to

Kyle Pierce:

write things. The but Mars and cancer and Mars and Capricorn

Kyle Pierce:

are like the two most common Mars signs of the UFC fighters

Kyle Pierce:

think Mars and cancer did end up. Think of a second I think

Kyle Pierce:

there's one less Mars in Cancer than one ours in Capricorn, but

Kyle Pierce:

But yeah, pretty much highlights that access, the fall,

Kyle Pierce:

exultation access. And I think that like planets and fall and

Kyle Pierce:

planets and exultation can kind of both end up in the same

Kyle Pierce:

places, you know either starting from I believe and going to

Kyle Pierce:

localize or going to a place from a high place or back and

Kyle Pierce:

forth and between or just understanding all the dynamics

Kyle Pierce:

of that, you know, so, I mean, I wouldn't get too down on on

Kyle Pierce:

balls, and actually, it's why it's taking me so long to write

Kyle Pierce:

because I feel like I grok something internally about about

Kyle Pierce:

falls that I want to express, but it's really hard, hard to

Kyle Pierce:

express or put in a way that I want to, but you know, you're in

Kyle Pierce:

good company. I am a, you know, a cancer rising and my first

Kyle Pierce:

house is ruled by a fallen Moon in Scorpio. Right? So I actually

Kyle Pierce:

had similar reactions to you, when I started getting into

Kyle Pierce:

Hellenistic astrology that I had that very same question of, Am I

Kyle Pierce:

doomed? You know, because of this, this fallen planet? But

Kyle Pierce:

just from talking to clients and talking to people about the

Kyle Pierce:

charts and getting deeper into astrology, yeah, very

Kyle Pierce:

definitively, now.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, I think planets and fall can be also

Tristan Paylor:

about, you know, climbing your way out of a fallen place. Or

Tristan Paylor:

can be, you know, starting in a place, which, I mean, I relate

Tristan Paylor:

to that kind of narrative as somebody who also has the Moon

Tristan Paylor:

in Scorpio ruling my ascendant with a day chart, so we both got

Tristan Paylor:

an out of sect, fallen planet, or ascendant.

Kyle Pierce:

I'm fascinated by like Mars and cancer, because

Kyle Pierce:

yeah, like the complementary other, other half or whatever.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, I'm obsessed with Mars and cancers.

Tristan Paylor:

It's like our mutual reception.

Kyle Pierce:

I know a ton of them a bunch of my family. And

Kyle Pierce:

yeah, I mean, I think that the finding a way out of a difficult

Kyle Pierce:

situation or, but also, like fall fallen plants is that I was

Kyle Pierce:

at an improv show not that long ago. And it occurred to me that

Kyle Pierce:

who, you know, who tends to get into something like improv, it's

Kyle Pierce:

usually people who are naturally inclined towards comedy, or

Kyle Pierce:

being on a stage or something like improv, but often a lot of

Kyle Pierce:

my partner is taking improv classes, a lot of them are

Kyle Pierce:

people who have who actually really, really struggle in those

Kyle Pierce:

areas. And they take those classes to, to, you know, get

Kyle Pierce:

better at socializing and feeling more comfortable in

Kyle Pierce:

their own skin or just saying what's on their mind. And often,

Kyle Pierce:

it's those people who kind of have to build, say, planetary

Kyle Pierce:

nature of some kind, but kind of like starting from the bottom

Kyle Pierce:

and having to work, like build your way up in a position to

Kyle Pierce:

know more about every detail of how, how to moon, and maybe in

Kyle Pierce:

our case, or how to Mars. In your case. Yeah, I thought a

Kyle Pierce:

Mercury.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, I think that's a really, really good

Tristan Paylor:

point that's making me think of when I was younger. I briefly

Tristan Paylor:

took singing lessons. And, you know, I was really hesitant to

Tristan Paylor:

do it at first because I'm not a good singer. And, you know, but

Tristan Paylor:

people around me were making the point that well, that's what

Tristan Paylor:

singing lessons are for, like, you don't start out good. Like,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, people who just start out with a natural talent for

Tristan Paylor:

singing don't, you know, necessarily need singing

Tristan Paylor:

lessons, it's, you know, those of us who don't have an innate

Tristan Paylor:

talent for us, you know, we're kind of starting from the bottom

Tristan Paylor:

and working our way up. And life requires us to challenge

Tristan Paylor:

ourselves in in these ways, we're not, you know, none of us

Tristan Paylor:

are sort of like immortal gods who are just naturally gifted

Tristan Paylor:

with every possible thing we could want or needs to do under

Tristan Paylor:

the sun, like at some point, all of us in life are going to come

Tristan Paylor:

up against a thing that you know, we might innately struggle

Tristan Paylor:

with and going you know, we've got to go to our singing lessons

Tristan Paylor:

in order to to master that thing and it doesn't mean that you

Tristan Paylor:

can't master that thing. You still can you just have to go

Tristan Paylor:

through the process of kind of learning from the ground up in

Tristan Paylor:

order to master it.

Kyle Pierce:

Well, I think that's um, thing with like a

Kyle Pierce:

fall or detriment is that because, you know, you

Kyle Pierce:

experience like the difficulty of that, or like the challenge

Kyle Pierce:

of that planet, your attention is immediately drawn toward

Kyle Pierce:

like, Okay, how do I get better at this? Yeah. And can result in

Kyle Pierce:

people being excessively good at Something though they may have a

Kyle Pierce:

hard time recognizing it can get that with expectations too,

Kyle Pierce:

where the standards are so high internally that they become like

Kyle Pierce:

disillusioned

Tristan Paylor:

as someone with two exalted planets in my chart,

Tristan Paylor:

one of which, you know, as I mentioned is the sun in Aries,

Tristan Paylor:

like like you Karolina, I often find, you know, that manifests a

Tristan Paylor:

little bit more as perfectionism in a way, because it's like, the

Tristan Paylor:

standard I've set for myself, and that area of life is the

Tristan Paylor:

best, I cannot do less than that, which is totally

Tristan Paylor:

unrealistic, right? And have all

Kyle Pierce:

the exalted planets in the world and you're still

Kyle Pierce:

not getting

Tristan Paylor:

perfection? No, no, nobody's nobody's going to

Tristan Paylor:

even if you know, every planet is exalted in their chart. And

Tristan Paylor:

everyone with exalted planets, I think, still has to calibrate

Tristan Paylor:

that you know what that person? That's, that's the thing, like,

Tristan Paylor:

I

Kyle Pierce:

think we're perfect if they did accomplish it, I

Kyle Pierce:

don't

Tristan Paylor:

know, you and you and you wouldn't be able to

Tristan Paylor:

relate? Yeah, you wouldn't be able to relate to themselves.

Tristan Paylor:

So, you know, no one wants people people want to be around

Tristan Paylor:

fallen and debilitated planets, because they can relate, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, it's like, when I when I hear, you know, the

Tristan Paylor:

interpretations of a planet and it's fall or detriment. I'm

Tristan Paylor:

like, I sympathize with this protagonist, you know, and I,

Tristan Paylor:

when I'm reading a client chart, and their ascendant ruler is

Tristan Paylor:

like, a debilitated planet in some way. I'm just like, this is

Tristan Paylor:

the hero I root for in a story. This is I'm invested in the

Tristan Paylor:

outcome of this protagonist story. And, you know, there's an

Tristan Paylor:

arc to every story too, right. So if you know you're starting

Tristan Paylor:

from that fallen, or exiled position, you know, in a

Tristan Paylor:

narrative format, your arc is going to take you away from that

Tristan Paylor:

position, because you always end up somewhere different than

Tristan Paylor:

where you started. Yeah. I think Mercury in pisces really

Tristan Paylor:

interests me because I think it's a really good from my

Tristan Paylor:

personal experience is a really good example of what you were

Tristan Paylor:

just talking about Kyle with, you know, the way that

Tristan Paylor:

debilitated planets tend to draw a lot of attention and a lot of

Tristan Paylor:

energy, because they're noticeable, right? Like they

Tristan Paylor:

stand out. And so they demand a lot of energy and care. And

Tristan Paylor:

mercury, and Pisces is a mercury that I meet a lot. Both when I

Tristan Paylor:

look up charts of, you know, public figures I'm interested in

Tristan Paylor:

and in my personal life and the people I encounter and I have

Tristan Paylor:

yet to meet, a encounter a mercury and Pisces person who's

Tristan Paylor:

like, the traditional just like, you know, tripping over their

Tristan Paylor:

words, and just like can't Mercury like most of the mercury

Tristan Paylor:

and Pisces, people I've encountered are very eloquent

Tristan Paylor:

and often very talented writers and very creative thinkers, and

Tristan Paylor:

very good speakers. And, you know, often there is like, a

Tristan Paylor:

part of their story where, you know, they felt discouraged at

Tristan Paylor:

some point or the, you know, the way they learn or think is

Tristan Paylor:

somehow different, or like unconventional or unusual. And

Tristan Paylor:

so there were certain obstacles that they encountered, because

Tristan Paylor:

of the ways in which they're thinking or speaking or learning

Tristan Paylor:

style were unusual. But, you know, it's like, so many of the

Tristan Paylor:

best writers and public speakers have Mercury in pisces, it's

Tristan Paylor:

just like, all that attention, and work being poured into a

Tristan Paylor:

particular area of life does potentially lead to mastery,

Tristan Paylor:

even if it's challenging on on the way. You know, I can think

Tristan Paylor:

of somebody I know with mercury and Pisces, you know, who's, who

Tristan Paylor:

often feels like, they're not a great speaker, like, that's sort

Tristan Paylor:

of their subjective experience that they're like, I don't

Tristan Paylor:

really feel like I communicate well, but everyone else around

Tristan Paylor:

them, it's like you're one of the best communicators. I know.

Tristan Paylor:

So yeah, that can be another manifestation of these

Tristan Paylor:

placements to where it's like, you're not actually bad at

Tristan Paylor:

something, but you know, maybe you're holding yourself to an

Tristan Paylor:

unrealistic standard, or you had an experience in your life,

Tristan Paylor:

which may be totally real invalid, that made you feel

Tristan Paylor:

inadequate, even though you're not actually be, you know, maybe

Tristan Paylor:

some somebody, you know, said the wrong thing, or you were,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, in a context where, you know, the way that you

Tristan Paylor:

happen to think was just not the mainstream and so you've

Tristan Paylor:

developed a sort of belief about yourself that you're inadequate,

Tristan Paylor:

even though it's not true.

Kyle Pierce:

Yet, that's a great point because, um, the more I

Kyle Pierce:

talk to people about their charts, that that ends up being

Kyle Pierce:

it's maybe your experience of that planet that is maybe

Kyle Pierce:

informed by what could have been just like a one time incident

Kyle Pierce:

early on, when it was very formative, that you know, like

Kyle Pierce:

Mercury in pisces, like you weren't heard or weren't

Kyle Pierce:

listened to, or people didn't want to pay attention to you or

Kyle Pierce:

or that you weren't good at talking, or maybe you did

Kyle Pierce:

struggle with, with speaking in some way. Like you're saying,

Kyle Pierce:

you're gonna put a lot of energy in finding a way to either

Kyle Pierce:

improve that or find an alternative way of expressing

Kyle Pierce:

it. A lot of writers, you know, maybe they struggle with

Kyle Pierce:

intrapersonal talking or interpersonal communication

Kyle Pierce:

sometimes, and they maybe go to writing where they can, like,

Kyle Pierce:

take their time to craft their sentences in a way that they

Kyle Pierce:

can't, you know, when they're, in the moment, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

speaking to somebody in front of them. So just difficulty place

Kyle Pierce:

planet, it's like having to master a dichotomy of some kind,

Kyle Pierce:

or find a way to integrate, you know, two seemingly disparate

Kyle Pierce:

principles. Find a solution to something and think that that is

Kyle Pierce:

what you know, ends up resulting a lot of like, creative

Kyle Pierce:

solutions.

Tristan Paylor:

Oh, yeah, like creativity is, is my number one

Tristan Paylor:

key word for planets and fallen detriment. And the more of them

Tristan Paylor:

you have, you know, the greater the creative potential in the

Tristan Paylor:

chart, because, you know, creativity comes from, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

having to come up with novel solutions to problems. Yeah.

Tristan Paylor:

And, you know, having to work in environments where, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

the usual ways of doing things don't work. I think with with

Tristan Paylor:

planets in fall and detriment as well, they can symbolize

Tristan Paylor:

difficulty finding the right context to be expressed in now,

Tristan Paylor:

I've been, you know, thinking about Mars and cancer, right on

Tristan Paylor:

the ascendant there. And how, you know, Mars in particular,

Tristan Paylor:

is, as a planet, regardless of what sign it's in. Its energy

Tristan Paylor:

isn't appropriate. In every circumstance, it's a really good

Tristan Paylor:

example of a planet that is just not always the appropriate

Tristan Paylor:

response. So you know, I think of Mars in detriment or fall,

Tristan Paylor:

and I reminded of that moment in The Simpsons, there's that

Tristan Paylor:

episode of The Simpsons where Homer gets a gun. And there's

Tristan Paylor:

that moment where he says, Watch me turn on the TV, and he just

Tristan Paylor:

like, shoots the TV on you, Marie turns off the lights by

Tristan Paylor:

shooting off the light bulbs, and it's just like not now Mars,

Tristan Paylor:

like, this isn't the right context for this sort of

Tristan Paylor:

behavior. There is, you know, possibly a context for this kind

Tristan Paylor:

of behavior, but it is not here. And there aren't a lot of

Tristan Paylor:

contexts where that kind of energy is actually appropriate.

Tristan Paylor:

And I think Mars in fall or detriment might struggle with

Tristan Paylor:

that a little bit where it's like, Mars in Cancer has

Tristan Paylor:

something very valuable to offer. But what it has to offer

Tristan Paylor:

is like maybe a little niche in a way, like it needs to find an

Tristan Paylor:

appropriate venue, where it kind of fits the situation and it may

Tristan Paylor:

be an experience of you know, just having, you know, a

Tristan Paylor:

challenge as far as as finding a place where you know, your

Tristan Paylor:

particular talents fit or service. Or like having to be

Tristan Paylor:

creative. Another another Mars in Cancer image I always have is

Tristan Paylor:

the droid IG 11 in the Mandalorian, who starts off as

Tristan Paylor:

an assassin droid. Oh, I don't want to I don't want to spoil it

Tristan Paylor:

for you. But he starts off as an assassin droid. And at some

Tristan Paylor:

point over the course of the show, he's reprogrammed into a

Tristan Paylor:

nanny droid. So you know, he's still an assassin, like, he's

Tristan Paylor:

still a total badass. But his motives have been changed to you

Tristan Paylor:

know, protecting a baby, instead of, you know, working for, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, whoever was hiring him to do whatever terrible job. So

Tristan Paylor:

it's like that, to me. That's Mars in Cancer, where it's like,

Tristan Paylor:

how does Mars Express Mars? In the context of cancer, that's

Tristan Paylor:

going to be tricky to figure out how to do that in a way that is

Tristan Paylor:

constructive. But it can be done. It just requires a little

Tristan Paylor:

bit of creative thinking to figure out, you know, how do we

Tristan Paylor:

make this work in this context?

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, absolutely. I do want to end up talking about

Kyle Pierce:

like the actually, technically very nice things that are

Kyle Pierce:

happening in your chart.

Tristan Paylor:

Yes, there are a lot of them. Yeah, a lot of nice

Tristan Paylor:

things in this chart.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Part of that involves that. You know, Mars

Kyle Pierce:

has a lot of reception with planets in signs that Mars is

Kyle Pierce:

comfortable in. I mean, there's kind of like there's like

Kyle Pierce:

connections to Mars, Mars, having outlets or Mars having

Kyle Pierce:

training or something on Mars having a I like outlets

Kyle Pierce:

actually. And I want to go back into my data but one of my

Kyle Pierce:

favorite UFC fighter charts was was like a Mars in Cancer with

Kyle Pierce:

Mars opposing Uranus in Capricorn, which is science,

Kyle Pierce:

exultation, it was a trine Pluto. And I believe Venus was

Kyle Pierce:

an Aries as well. Just like giving like Mars, like all the

Kyle Pierce:

Mars tools, to kind of like what you were saying, like, it's like

Kyle Pierce:

finding a way to express that, appropriately, is often very

Kyle Pierce:

hard, usually Mars and cancer. Like, the feelings get hurt very

Kyle Pierce:

often, easily. There's a sensitivity there. And Mars is

Kyle Pierce:

not, you know, used to giving a, an F about what other people

Kyle Pierce:

think. And it just wants to do its thing. It's its job done.

Kyle Pierce:

accomplish its mission.

Tristan Paylor:

You know, doing it's not, you know, I don't have

Tristan Paylor:

time to worry about how other people are going to react to

Tristan Paylor:

this. And so, you know, in labor or cancer, those are signs

Tristan Paylor:

where, you know, you have to consider what other people might

Tristan Paylor:

think or what other people might feel before you act. And Mars is

Tristan Paylor:

not, that's not what comes naturally to Mars at all.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. And so, I mean, the reactions can be

Kyle Pierce:

extreme in different directions, you know, so maybe you'd have

Kyle Pierce:

to, like talk to somebody, you know, with any given placement,

Kyle Pierce:

but particularly, like, more extreme placements like that, to

Kyle Pierce:

see what their particular experiences with it. But, um,

Kyle Pierce:

that's my thought. My thought, you know, I don't have a follow

Kyle Pierce:

on Mercury, but I feel like it is something different was on

Kyle Pierce:

that excess.

Tristan Paylor:

And I guess, you know, that's sometimes the

Tristan Paylor:

advantage there is that if, if Mercury has fallen, you're more

Tristan Paylor:

inclined to want to do something about it.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, I mean, I want to do something about it,

Kyle Pierce:

but it's almost like planets in detriment or in fall. It's like

Kyle Pierce:

they have very obvious sightlines to, to where they do

Kyle Pierce:

well, yeah. No. Oh, I can see the place that that I do. Well,

Kyle Pierce:

it's right there across the golf, you know, and I want to

Kyle Pierce:

traverse that and get there. But when, you know, I make a paragon

Kyle Pierce:

grim planet, maybe worse, I don't know. Like, just kind of

Kyle Pierce:

like, I just don't, I don't know what the solution is. I don't

Kyle Pierce:

know what the,

Tristan Paylor:

like, I can't see where I'm supposed to be or

Tristan Paylor:

like, Where would be a good place for me to go? Yeah, no

Tristan Paylor:

idea. I do feel like, you know, to jump into some of the, the

Tristan Paylor:

more traditionally nice things in this chart. Mars is being

Tristan Paylor:

bonafide by Venus. Venus is in Aries in the 10th house. And

Tristan Paylor:

Mars is in cancer in the first so Venus is earlier in zodiacal

Tristan Paylor:

order and squaring Mars, which is a good thing for Mars. And

Tristan Paylor:

they are both sect mates, you know, they're both night

Tristan Paylor:

planets. So you know, it's kind of nice that Mars is getting a

Tristan Paylor:

boost from its sect mate. And of course, Venus is in Aries Mars's

Tristan Paylor:

sign. So they're, you know, there's some some sympathy and

Tristan Paylor:

understanding there. So that is actually like a really cool

Tristan Paylor:

relationship that, you know, potentially softens the harder

Tristan Paylor:

edges of Mars. And because you know, Venus is in Aries, like

Tristan Paylor:

Venus is in Mars is domicile. So you know, Venus in a way can

Tristan Paylor:

kind of, you know, if Mars is missing stuff at home, like man,

Tristan Paylor:

in order to do my job, I really need this thing. But I don't

Tristan Paylor:

have it here because I'm in this weird place in cancer where

Tristan Paylor:

nothing makes sense to me. And Venus is like, well, I've got

Tristan Paylor:

you I can you know, I'm in your house right now. Let me know

Tristan Paylor:

what you need. And Venus will send what Mars Needs, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

to make things work in cancer. So that that aspect really,

Tristan Paylor:

really changes the interpretation of Mars and

Tristan Paylor:

cancer on the ascendant were like, yeah, it's a little

Tristan Paylor:

unusual. It's a little challenging, but Mars is

Tristan Paylor:

getting, you know, really valuable support from back at

Tristan Paylor:

home.

Kyle Pierce:

I think one thing that I like, and this may seem

Kyle Pierce:

counterintuitive at first, but Venus is retrograde in Carolyn's

Kyle Pierce:

chart and what I actually like about that, is that it I find it

Kyle Pierce:

I think that it increases the affinity between Venus and Mars.

Kyle Pierce:

Not that Venus turns into Mars when it's retrograde. But Venus

Kyle Pierce:

is it's about like champ challenging consensus to some

Kyle Pierce:

degree kind of going against consensus for the sake of

Kyle Pierce:

creating better you know, more unity and a sense of so like,

Kyle Pierce:

it's a much more going against the grain sort of Venus. I like

Kyle Pierce:

to think of like people with like, very offbeat, eccentric

Kyle Pierce:

fashion style. Think I've seen Venus retrograde is in fashion

Kyle Pierce:

designers. But as opposed to like unifying and like blending

Kyle Pierce:

in and being the same as everyone else, Venus retrograde

Kyle Pierce:

just like like wants to create new different using the fashion

Kyle Pierce:

analogy, like a new fashion new style, you know, that challenges

Kyle Pierce:

and goes against what has already existed. Venus is often

Kyle Pierce:

potentially very creative

Tristan Paylor:

when it's retrograde. I really like that,

Kyle Pierce:

such as trying to create peace and harmony and you

Kyle Pierce:

know, make things fit nicely together. It's like, let's,

Kyle Pierce:

let's try that, you know, that leopard skin? That leopard print

Kyle Pierce:

jacket with the my tie dye leggings. See how that goes? Oh,

Kyle Pierce:

you don't like it? Well, I like it. And in 10 years, it's gonna

Kyle Pierce:

be what's cool. It's gonna be what's in because I'm concerned.

Kyle Pierce:

So

Tristan Paylor:

I love the idea of Venus retrograde connecting

Tristan Paylor:

with fashion design, because a big part of fashion is recycling

Tristan Paylor:

old fashions like at some point, yeah, whatever was cool a few

Tristan Paylor:

decades later becomes retro, and like there's a new spin on it.

Tristan Paylor:

And that is now what is cool. So I feel like there's a little bit

Tristan Paylor:

of that reaching back into the past to come up with something

Tristan Paylor:

new. That Venus retrograde in Aries might you know, because

Tristan Paylor:

Venus in a cardinal sign and you know, forward thinking sign like

Tristan Paylor:

Aries is going to want to do something that's you know, never

Tristan Paylor:

been seen before set a trend or whatever and a retrograde is

Tristan Paylor:

gonna look back into the past and look at like, Okay, what

Tristan Paylor:

worked in the past what was cool then, and how can I kind of

Tristan Paylor:

remix this for the present era?

Kyle Pierce:

Again, Venus has that sorry.

Tristan Paylor:

Oh, just you got me thinking about, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

Venus's sort of primary function is to unify and create peace.

Tristan Paylor:

And I actually gave a sermon about this subject once. You

Tristan Paylor:

know, I used to I used to do a little bit of work in church

Tristan Paylor:

ministry and a past life you know, before I became a heathen

Tristan Paylor:

to heretic whatever, I

Kyle Pierce:

would love to hear you give a sermon epic we should

Kyle Pierce:

have a segment of the show where interesting gives a sermon,

Kyle Pierce:

astrology sermon.

Tristan Paylor:

Oh, maybe that's I mean, I think astrology has

Tristan Paylor:

become sort of that outlet for me. Because you know, I'm not

Tristan Paylor:

I'm no longer Christian and no longer involved in the church.

Tristan Paylor:

But a lot of the work I did for the church was very fulfilling

Tristan Paylor:

and so astrology lets me kind of do some of that

Kyle Pierce:

stuff is gonna change the way I listen to you.

Tristan Paylor:

Be like, listening to the preacher.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, I'm gonna, nobody will be able to see me

Kyle Pierce:

but just gonna have my hands raised. My eyes closed. Me

Kyle Pierce:

looking up at the sky. Interesting talk because

Kyle Pierce:

Christian is connecting me with the Lord.

Tristan Paylor:

Now I'm now in connecting people with the

Tristan Paylor:

stars, I guess in an animistic sense instead of it's you know,

Tristan Paylor:

I relevant to me. Yeah. So I gave are actually up there. They

Tristan Paylor:

I know you can actually see them. It's nice. It's yeah, it's

Tristan Paylor:

like that George Carlin bit about sun worship, you know, you

Tristan Paylor:

can actually see the sun. Yeah, actually, like, you can

Tristan Paylor:

literally prove that it, you know, allows life on Earth. So

Tristan Paylor:

it makes sense to worship. Sorry, I don't I don't want to

Tristan Paylor:

offend any listeners of various religious persuasions. But it's

Tristan Paylor:

I know it's true if you if the trouble right with religion is

Tristan Paylor:

that whatever your position is, it contradicts somebody else's

Tristan Paylor:

position. And so then what do you do? Anyway, I

Kyle Pierce:

gave make fun of it as much as I do.

Tristan Paylor:

I, you know, and I still like I actually had a

Tristan Paylor:

really good time with the church, I was involved in really

Tristan Paylor:

progressive, rebellious in a good way kinds of churches. So

Tristan Paylor:

you know, I still really appreciate that time. But

Tristan Paylor:

anyway, I gave a sermon about that. There's a famous passage

Tristan Paylor:

in the Gospels. That, you know, is very controversial, where

Tristan Paylor:

Jesus says, Do you think I came on I came to earth, to create

Tristan Paylor:

peace, I didn't come to bring peace but a sword. Essentially,

Tristan Paylor:

like I've come to bring strife and I gave a whole sermon about

Tristan Paylor:

the concept of, of peace and how there is a difference between

Tristan Paylor:

there's sort of two different kinds of peace. You know,

Tristan Paylor:

there's the peace that comes as the result of ignoring our

Tristan Paylor:

problems and ignoring injustices and just refusing to rock the

Tristan Paylor:

boat. You know, when you know something is wrong. You just

Tristan Paylor:

don't you just tow the party line, you don't do anything

Tristan Paylor:

about it, and the kind of peace that comes from actually having

Tristan Paylor:

justice and, you know, in order to get that Peace, you actually

Tristan Paylor:

have to create a disturbance first. And the example that I

Tristan Paylor:

used in my sermon was, so I'm also a big hockey fan. And

Tristan Paylor:

several years ago, Braden Holtby. One, the Stanley Cup

Tristan Paylor:

with the Washington Capitals. And Trump was president at the

Tristan Paylor:

time. And it is a tradition for Stanley Cup winning hockey teams

Tristan Paylor:

to visit the White House and visit the president. And Braden

Tristan Paylor:

Holtby was the goalie for the Washington Capitals, and he

Tristan Paylor:

refused to go. And this was a big deal, because most of the

Tristan Paylor:

teams still went, a couple of players on the team refused to

Tristan Paylor:

go because they were like, I don't, you know, I don't want to

Tristan Paylor:

go down in history being seen, you know, photographed with

Tristan Paylor:

Donald Trump who's responsible for all these horrible things.

Tristan Paylor:

But like, hockey culture is very conservative, not just like, in

Tristan Paylor:

a political sense, but in the sense that like, team, the team

Tristan Paylor:

comes first before the individual. And it's all about

Tristan Paylor:

sort of like conserving the tradition, and not rocking the

Tristan Paylor:

boat and not deviating from your team, like being you know, too

Tristan Paylor:

much of an individual celebrity is also kind of discouraged, or

Tristan Paylor:

like showing too much personality, because it's taking

Tristan Paylor:

attention away from the team and putting it on an individual. So

Tristan Paylor:

it's like a really, you know, he's breaking away from this

Tristan Paylor:

very sort of unified, you know, I feel like this is sort of the

Tristan Paylor:

shadow side of Venus, where it's like, in order for this team to

Tristan Paylor:

remain cohesive, and everyone to get along, and like each other,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, we can't do anything divisive. And he made a decision

Tristan Paylor:

to stand by his principles, and do something divisive. And you

Tristan Paylor:

know, and ultimately, the team ended up supporting him and

Tristan Paylor:

everything was fine, but I feel like that's, that's sort of the

Tristan Paylor:

meaning of, of Venus. And Aries, to me is like, in order to get

Tristan Paylor:

to peace, we need to actually sometimes deviate from the group

Tristan Paylor:

mentality, we sometimes have to do or say things that are not

Tristan Paylor:

nice that ruffle feathers. And that like supportive

Tristan Paylor:

relationship between this retrograde Venus in Aries and

Tristan Paylor:

Mars in Cancer, I think really illustrates that kind of, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, understanding of the world, you know, and the

Tristan Paylor:

willingness to actually say, like I am, I am going to do

Tristan Paylor:

something that, you know, especially since Venus is right

Tristan Paylor:

up there in the 10th house, you know, pretty visible I mean, is

Tristan Paylor:

it under the beams or it's sort of on the border line there? I

Tristan Paylor:

think it's still pretty visible.

Kyle Pierce:

Mammals don't have that, though. Exalted. Yes. It's

Kyle Pierce:

like, Venus maybe can't be seen it by itself. Like it has to be

Kyle Pierce:

like plants under the beams to some degree, it's like the sun

Kyle Pierce:

sort of takes over, or they like they have to express themselves

Kyle Pierce:

through the sun.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, but that's not the worst sign you could

Tristan Paylor:

express yourself through great sun. I mean, it's a heroic Sun

Tristan Paylor:

too. So it is kind of like being willing to take a risk, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, in order to do what is right, being willing to take a

Tristan Paylor:

risk for the sake of the things that Venus stands for, which is,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, a world in which people enjoy peace and harmony

Tristan Paylor:

and, you know, enjoy things that are fun and pleasurable, and,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, have the leisure time and we can't have something

Tristan Paylor:

that's unpopular. Yeah. We can't have any of those things without

Tristan Paylor:

actual justice, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

ya know, retrograde means makes you think of

Kyle Pierce:

specifically what your chart currently on this makes me think

Kyle Pierce:

of like the tyranny of the majority, which democracies run

Kyle Pierce:

into, right when, you know, we may all agree on a law. But that

Kyle Pierce:

law is not just that laws broken or that law is actually creating

Kyle Pierce:

strife and conflict. Think like Venus retrograde is, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

that's when Venus retrograde steps in is like now, this is a

Kyle Pierce:

this may be popular, but this is not good. This is not. This is

Kyle Pierce:

actually creating more strife and disharmony. Yeah. And I feel

Kyle Pierce:

like that combination, Mars and cancer. Be like that's the

Kyle Pierce:

important part of your life is maybe having to advocate for or

Kyle Pierce:

say the unpopular thing. For the sake of sick of being, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

right. Right.

Tristan Paylor:

But the secret lair prodution Yeah, yeah,

Tristan Paylor:

Phoenician principles, which are all like now Things You know,

Tristan Paylor:

like Venus wants nice things.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. I think it's Venus like makes Mars a lot more

Kyle Pierce:

well intentioned overall, you know, not that can't Yeah, by

Kyle Pierce:

itself. But yeah, I in that. I mean, that can be a very

Kyle Pierce:

uncomfortable position to be in, though to Yes. To be, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

sing the things that other people don't want to hear.

Tristan Paylor:

But you know, you do have that exalted sun in

Tristan Paylor:

the 10th. And you also have that opposition from Jupiter to help

Tristan Paylor:

perhaps smooth that over and you know, make the things that you

Tristan Paylor:

want to say. More resonant? Yeah, it's a very I that caught

Tristan Paylor:

my eye immediately. So I was like, Okay, well, Venus is in

Tristan Paylor:

detriment here but also has reception with Jupiter, which is

Tristan Paylor:

in Venus's sign of Libra. So Venus and Jupiter have an

Tristan Paylor:

understanding and Jupiter is able much like, you know, Venus

Tristan Paylor:

is kind of able to send Mars things from home that Mars might

Tristan Paylor:

need. Jupiter is in a similar position here where Jupiter is,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, in Venus's house, and Jupiter's nature is to want to

Tristan Paylor:

help and I think the nature of an opposition with genetics

Tristan Paylor:

involved is actually stabilizing, because the

Tristan Paylor:

opposition is the aspect of Saturn and so it has a sort of,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, stuckness or rigidity to it, it tends to slow things

Tristan Paylor:

down. But when you're talking about benefics you know, I think

Tristan Paylor:

that's, that's a more pleasant potential manifestation of that

Tristan Paylor:

kind of like, slow steady energy. It's been, you know, my

Tristan Paylor:

experience with I have Jupiter very loosely opposing my Moon in

Tristan Paylor:

Scorpio. And I sometimes feel like that's my saving grace, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, or like, my Moon in Scorpio tends to go to extremes

Tristan Paylor:

but there's, you know, sweet, gentle Jupiter and Taurus just

Tristan Paylor:

sort of, like, take a moment. And, you know, offers that kind

Tristan Paylor:

of, you know, like that, that strong, steady hand on your

Tristan Paylor:

shoulder that kind of studies you and allows you to center

Tristan Paylor:

yourself before you react. I think you know, Jupiter can

Tristan Paylor:

offer some of that to Venus, and also Jupiter happens to be in

Tristan Paylor:

the sign of Libra, which is all about justice. So you know,

Tristan Paylor:

maybe some of that symbolism is being repeated here. Yeah, of

Tristan Paylor:

you know, being being good. And, you know, you're talking about

Tristan Paylor:

the law and, you know, laws can be popularly agreed on but still

Tristan Paylor:

be unjust or corrupt. And Jupiter is the law. And Jupiter

Tristan Paylor:

in Libra is assessing and judging whether or not laws are

Tristan Paylor:

fair,

Kyle Pierce:

yeah. Yeah, it's like Venus has, you know, has a

Kyle Pierce:

planet in Libra. And it's Jupiter. Jupiter, is a good role

Kyle Pierce:

model, you know, Venus, like, knows that it's by choice so

Kyle Pierce:

much, but it's like Venus knows how to be Venus. If it needs to

Kyle Pierce:

be reimagined, like you're able to be agreeable and all that

Kyle Pierce:

when you when you need to be, but it's maybe not your

Kyle Pierce:

inclination, some degree or maybe not. What you need to do

Kyle Pierce:

to maybe solve that Grand Cross, I could see, like, I don't know

Kyle Pierce:

if I'd be interested in maybe how, to what degree some seems

Kyle Pierce:

like this might have played out for jet as well as, like, I

Kyle Pierce:

don't know, like with a Grand Cross, it's like the, because

Kyle Pierce:

there's so much energy being fed into, into that aspect pattern.

Kyle Pierce:

It's like, you get, like, flow with it to some degree. You have

Kyle Pierce:

to kind of demanding an outlet. I guess, you know, thinking

Kyle Pierce:

about like Mars, like, on the ascendant in the first. And

Kyle Pierce:

because it's like, usually, like the out of sect. malefic is

Kyle Pierce:

something you know, is like, something that you want to like,

Kyle Pierce:

contain or manage or curtail, sort of, like instinctively be

Kyle Pierce:

like, I don't know. speaks to me more as like, I don't know, it's

Kyle Pierce:

like something about difficulties around self

Kyle Pierce:

expression to some degree, like finding courage to be different.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, that's a good feeling. It's a good sort

Tristan Paylor:

of key phrase for Mars and cancer in the first house is,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, having the courage to stand out in some way. And I

Tristan Paylor:

don't know it's, it's interesting, you know, as

Tristan Paylor:

somebody with a fallen out of SEC planet ruling, my first I

Tristan Paylor:

remember, you know, back in my online dating days in the

Tristan Paylor:

distant past, there was a match question on OKCupid, the dating

Tristan Paylor:

site, which is, you know, what, would you rather be normal or

Tristan Paylor:

weird? And it always made me pause. Because I am very much

Tristan Paylor:

weird, and I've spent my whole life being told in no uncertain

Tristan Paylor:

terms that that is what I am by everyone around me, but I often

Tristan Paylor:

kind of resent being weird and I often think about how much

Tristan Paylor:

easier my life would be If I didn't stand out, and you know,

Tristan Paylor:

I go through phases of kind of trying to present myself in a

Tristan Paylor:

way that makes me stand out less. And it just, I just can't

Tristan Paylor:

keep it up. And it's frustrating because it's like, I don't I'm

Tristan Paylor:

not trying to get attention by being weird. This isn't some,

Tristan Paylor:

like, you know, narcissistic thing, I just, I just want to be

Tristan Paylor:

myself and be left alone. Like, I don't actually want people

Tristan Paylor:

making comments about me. But, you know, so like, if if I were

Tristan Paylor:

just if I just had more normal tastes and a more normal, more

Tristan Paylor:

normal interests and more, you know, if I did what was expected

Tristan Paylor:

of me, my life would go much smoother and I wouldn't draw

Tristan Paylor:

attention to myself and I'd be able to fly under the radar. But

Tristan Paylor:

for some reason, it's just my nature. Yeah. And I think you

Tristan Paylor:

know, making peace with you know, I'm probably never gonna

Tristan Paylor:

have a quote unquote, normal life is you know, sort of part

Tristan Paylor:

of my journey right now as being at peace with that. And I don't

Tristan Paylor:

know Karolina, if you can relate to that at all. But you know, if

Tristan Paylor:

you can maybe that's maybe that's part of your Mars in

Tristan Paylor:

Cancer on the ascendant journey to is just like being okay,

Tristan Paylor:

with, with being different, and, you know, standing out for who

Tristan Paylor:

you are, and what makes you unique, even if you know, that's

Tristan Paylor:

sometimes challenging or, you know, results in in attention or

Tristan Paylor:

reactions that you'd rather not deal with.

Kyle Pierce:

No, I think, well, it's something that you

Kyle Pierce:

inherently both have. So the sun, exalted in the 10th. But

Kyle Pierce:

just like the sun in the 10th, in general, it's like, they're,

Kyle Pierce:

like, you can't help but like, attract attention. Yeah, it's

Kyle Pierce:

not you know, whether you want it or not, it's kind of like

Kyle Pierce:

they're like a, you're just going to tend to draw more

Kyle Pierce:

attention, I think with some attempt.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah. And an Aries is just as the sun

Tristan Paylor:

everything sort of the Sun is magnetic, and it's the brightest

Tristan Paylor:

thing there is, everyone is looking at it, everyone's

Tristan Paylor:

revolving around it, you kinda, you kind of can't escape it. Now

Tristan Paylor:

what occurs is the gift and the curse of the Exalted son is just

Tristan Paylor:

like not not being able to kind of go anywhere on notice. It's,

Tristan Paylor:

it's not it's not a stealthy placement.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Whether you want to be looked at or not.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, visibility is sort of unavoidable. And yeah, I think

Kyle Pierce:

for you, Kristen, with the moon Scorpio, and for you, Karolina

Kyle Pierce:

with the moon in the fourth house is, you know, there's

Kyle Pierce:

going to be a tendency more towards preferring privacy

Kyle Pierce:

preferring not wanting to have all the attention, I would think

Kyle Pierce:

for you clearly and with, I don't know, being compelled or

Kyle Pierce:

impelled to challenge the status quo, he'd be having to reconcile

Kyle Pierce:

getting attention for it to be accepting the attention. And

Kyle Pierce:

doing it any way is part of the journey.

Tristan Paylor:

Or maybe, you know, finding the spaces where

Tristan Paylor:

where the attention makes sense. Yeah. Where it's received. Well,

Tristan Paylor:

that's another sort of challenge is, you know, finding Where's

Tristan Paylor:

where's the right space for me to shine where, you know, it's

Tristan Paylor:

not making unreasonable demands of me. Yeah. Well, yeah, that

Tristan Paylor:

the Oh, sorry. Go ahead.

Kyle Pierce:

I was just gonna add, part of what's positive,

Kyle Pierce:

though, about just Mars in Cancer is that it's the ruler of

Kyle Pierce:

the 10th. And the fifth, you know, it's being on your

Kyle Pierce:

ascendant. While it does have like, the out of sect, Mars job,

Kyle Pierce:

it's also you know, those are powerful, more positive houses,

Kyle Pierce:

and to have that clarity on your Ascendant is, you know, because

Kyle Pierce:

with a traditionally would be called, like, eminence, you

Kyle Pierce:

know,

Tristan Paylor:

yeah, it's bringing, bringing the

Tristan Paylor:

significations of the fifth and the 10th houses into the first

Tristan Paylor:

house, you know, where they're sort of part of your, your

Tristan Paylor:

identity and where you have a lot of, you know, potential a

Tristan Paylor:

lot of agency over those topics. And they're very visible to

Tristan Paylor:

other people. I mean, I having the fifth house, you know, being

Tristan Paylor:

very visible to people. I mean, that can be fun, you know, maybe

Tristan Paylor:

or maybe you're really fun to hang out with at a party.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, I mean, well, I guess it's not a Come on. I

Kyle Pierce:

don't know you. Like sex appeal do?

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, this is true that like sort of unusual

Tristan Paylor:

Sex House sucks. Yeah, like unusual sex appeal. The Mars

Tristan Paylor:

maltreating the Moon and Jupiter. meno is, you know, one

Tristan Paylor:

of the more sort of challenging aspects in the chart and part of

Tristan Paylor:

that Grand Cross where Mars in Cancer is overcoming Jupiter,

Tristan Paylor:

and the moon in the fourth house in Libra. And I think maybe that

Tristan Paylor:

is For a repetition of some of the themes of, you know, a bit

Tristan Paylor:

of the tension between the the 10th house and the fourth house,

Tristan Paylor:

potentially, where, you know, the moon, in the fourth house,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, wants privacy and the Moon in Libra wants peace. You

Tristan Paylor:

know, it doesn't, doesn't want to deal with, you know, extreme

Tristan Paylor:

situations or, you know, extreme people or conflict or fighting

Tristan Paylor:

or arguments or any of that kind of stuff, it just wants

Tristan Paylor:

everything to go smoothly and you know, wants to be able to

Tristan Paylor:

relax. And you know, Mars being in this very visible part of the

Tristan Paylor:

chart, maybe, you know, is another illustration of some

Tristan Paylor:

potential tension there between the desire for privacy and the

Tristan Paylor:

desire for, you know, things on a social level to just kind of

Tristan Paylor:

go easily and nicely without disagreements, and then, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, this Mars in the first house that's just like, No, we

Tristan Paylor:

need, we need to, you know, say things that people don't want to

Tristan Paylor:

hear. And you know, we're going to stand out in a really visible

Tristan Paylor:

way. So there's too, you know, and it's like, we were talking

Tristan Paylor:

about the Grand Cross and kind of competing drives or impulses,

Tristan Paylor:

like those are two potential competing impulses in this

Tristan Paylor:

chart, and Mars is going to have a bit of a tendency to get the

Tristan Paylor:

upper hand, but there's also again, reception because the

Tristan Paylor:

moon is in, or Mars is in the moon's sign. So that also like

Tristan Paylor:

potentially softens the tension there and creates more potential

Tristan Paylor:

for compromise between those two areas of life.

Kyle Pierce:

But with Mars, overcoming those, those fourth

Kyle Pierce:

house planets, sort of like doing some damage to like the

Kyle Pierce:

privacy even, you know, like, yeah, say the things that people

Kyle Pierce:

don't want to hear is maybe just like, part of like, what you're

Kyle Pierce:

called to do to some degree, maybe at some point and have

Kyle Pierce:

like, your, your sort of privacy disturbed by that or? Yeah, that

Kyle Pierce:

feels like mean, just having to do something that it's like a

Kyle Pierce:

hard choice, or I don't know, like, like me wanting to keep

Kyle Pierce:

the peace, like the Venus. But you know, Venus is also like,

Kyle Pierce:

now we got challenged consensus. So,

Tristan Paylor:

yes, I see where you're coming from, and it's

Tristan Paylor:

making me think about situation, you know, an example from my own

Tristan Paylor:

life right now. Like the the fourth house, in Carolina's

Tristan Paylor:

chart is, is a little mixed, you know, it's a little confusing,

Tristan Paylor:

because you've got to benefic of the second favor, that being

Tristan Paylor:

Jupiter in the fourth house, and you know, in a day chart,

Tristan Paylor:

Jupiter is traditionally the most positive planet and so

Tristan Paylor:

where Jupiter is located, should generally you know, indicate

Tristan Paylor:

where things tend to go well and go easily and be pleasant and

Tristan Paylor:

enjoyable, like, you know, potentially some of the most

Tristan Paylor:

fulfilling or enjoyable topics of life will be found where

Tristan Paylor:

Jupiter is, but you know, Jupiter is also retrograde and

Tristan Paylor:

in sort of a complicated, you know, maltreatment with Mars,

Tristan Paylor:

but there's also like, some reception there by exaltation,

Tristan Paylor:

because cancer is Jupiter's exaltation. But, you know, Mars

Tristan Paylor:

doesn't really understand Libra very well. So, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

there's, there's a little bit of potential for relating to each

Tristan Paylor:

other here. But I'd still say overall, it's quite a tense

Tristan Paylor:

relationship between Mars and Jupiter. So yeah, it's like in

Tristan Paylor:

in theory, you know, home and family should be like, some of

Tristan Paylor:

the most enjoyable experiences in this chart. And then, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, Mars is kind of getting in there and being like, I want to

Tristan Paylor:

cause problems. But, you know, I don't I don't actually really

Tristan Paylor:

think of it as far as causing problems and I think that's a

Tristan Paylor:

lesson I'm learning right now. As someone who also has cancer

Tristan Paylor:

rising and has a Libra fourth house like Karolina does. I am

Tristan Paylor:

in a Mars year, as is Karolina actually, I checked, we're both

Tristan Paylor:

fifth house we're both having Mars years. And so Mars is and

Tristan Paylor:

Kyle too. So like all three of us, really, we're all in the

Tristan Paylor:

same boat here where Mars risings with Mars, transiting

Tristan Paylor:

the fourth Mars Sun, Mars in detriment transiting the fourth

Tristan Paylor:

house.

Kyle Pierce:

Actually my Solar Return chart this year, looks a

Kyle Pierce:

lot like Karolina say Mars Exactly. On my ascendant for

Kyle Pierce:

celebrity. Return to the minute. Oh, that's interesting. I

Kyle Pierce:

actually got pulled over the next day, the day after my

Kyle Pierce:

birthday because my license was expired for one day had been

Kyle Pierce:

expired for one day and I got it Legal hell. But you know, Mars

Kyle Pierce:

also rules my tongue started the podcast or two podcasts actually

Kyle Pierce:

this year. So you take the good with the bad.

Tristan Paylor:

Oh, that's that's the thing, right is that

Tristan Paylor:

the mill? The mill ethics represent extremes. And I think,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, we tend to think of the mill ethics as representing

Tristan Paylor:

all the bad stuff, forgetting that extremes mean that there is

Tristan Paylor:

extreme good and extreme bad. And I mean, that's certainly

Tristan Paylor:

been my experience of my Mars years so far is it's a roller

Tristan Paylor:

coaster, where it's like absolute euphoria, everything's

Tristan Paylor:

going well, tons of opportunities are being handed

Tristan Paylor:

to you. And then the worst of the worst, everything is falling

Tristan Paylor:

apart, and then we go back up. It's, I think, maybe why, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, people are sometimes sometimes express disappointment

Tristan Paylor:

about Jupiter transits and that's like, Well, if the time

Tristan Paylor:

of your life when Jupiter was making that transit was really

Tristan Paylor:

genuinely Jupiter re, it probably would have just gone by

Tristan Paylor:

without any fanfare, because now it's like, easy and things come

Tristan Paylor:

naturally. And, you know, it's the the Mars energy that's like,

Tristan Paylor:

wow, that was really amazing. And then that was really

Tristan Paylor:

terrible, sort of, like all at once, or whatever.

Kyle Pierce:

Like, Jupiter might pass you the ball, but you still

Kyle Pierce:

got to run with it.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah. But yeah, the sort of experience I'm

Tristan Paylor:

having with Mars, and Libra, transiting my fourth house right

Tristan Paylor:

now is I've got like, weird family stuff going on. And it

Tristan Paylor:

has, you know, I guess in my life, I've been very

Tristan Paylor:

characteristically a, you know, Venus ruled fourth house kind of

Tristan Paylor:

person where my approach to family is, you know, I'm I just

Tristan Paylor:

tried to be relaxed and live or let live and just kind of end up

Tristan Paylor:

ignoring a lot of problems and not asserting myself. And, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, just sort of being agreeable in situations where I

Tristan Paylor:

should actually be standing up for myself. But it's been the

Tristan Paylor:

kind of case where I've been able to get away with that for a

Tristan Paylor:

long time. And now that Mars is going through my fourth house,

Tristan Paylor:

I'm going through a situation where it's sort of like, oh, I

Tristan Paylor:

can't ignore this anymore. There. There's actually like,

Tristan Paylor:

serious dysfunction here. And, you know, I think that can be

Tristan Paylor:

one of the qualities of Mars where, you know, maybe the Moon

Tristan Paylor:

and Jupiter in Libra and Carolina's fourth house, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, they just want to be kind of live and let live when it

Tristan Paylor:

comes to issues at home. You know, whether those are physical

Tristan Paylor:

issues with like, the actual house or their dynamics within a

Tristan Paylor:

family or what have you any any sort of fourth house topics,

Tristan Paylor:

they're going to be a little more laid back about it. And,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, sometimes being laid back about things causes us to

Tristan Paylor:

miss problems until they've been kind of building for so long

Tristan Paylor:

that it becomes really hard to change them and Mars is kind of

Tristan Paylor:

the energy that we need to shake us out of those ruts a little

Tristan Paylor:

bit.

Kyle Pierce:

Actually, I think it's funny that Justin had been

Kyle Pierce:

talking about this a lot since Mars got into Libra, but both

Kyle Pierce:

having just kind of like annoying like family problems

Kyle Pierce:

sort of come up as Mars transits the fourth house in a Mars ruled

Kyle Pierce:

perfection year I'd be really curious actually hope that you

Kyle Pierce:

maybe let us know Karolina. If you're having annoying family

Kyle Pierce:

problems.

Tristan Paylor:

or annoying like house problems like Yeah, I

Tristan Paylor:

think when Keith and I first moved in my partner and I first

Tristan Paylor:

moved into our new house, we actually have a well which is in

Tristan Paylor:

mundane astrology wells are ruled by the fourth house. And I

Tristan Paylor:

think Mars was going through his fourth house. And the well bro

Tristan Paylor:

you know, and I feel like it's not it's not it's it's easy to

Tristan Paylor:

tell a narrative where it's like, oh, Mars is coming in

Tristan Paylor:

fucking things up, but it's actually not that like Mars is

Tristan Paylor:

antagonizing so much as Mars is pointing out that like, hey,

Tristan Paylor:

this thing's been breaking down for a really long time. And if

Tristan Paylor:

you just put like a little bit too much pressure on it right

Tristan Paylor:

now, it's going to utterly collapse. So like you now are

Tristan Paylor:

forced to address it.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, yeah. Do some work. Do some Mars.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, you got to do the Mars Mars work, which is,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, the the work to sort of maintain a I guess adequate

Tristan Paylor:

level. It's like fixing your well, or, you know, dealing with

Tristan Paylor:

annoying annoying family members.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, I'm just one. There's another chart thing I

Kyle Pierce:

wanted to point out. I find interesting. Is Mercury is in

Kyle Pierce:

Pisces, in the ninth house. Um, it's actually has the Anisha

Kyle Pierce:

with Jupiter and Venus. It's within what is that? It's a

Kyle Pierce:

couple of degrees off, but it's like within what I would call

Kyle Pierce:

the range of the Anisha. So it's like kind of being received by

Kyle Pierce:

Jupiter through that. And Tisha, for listeners unfamiliar with

Kyle Pierce:

Anisha has to do with the equinox all points, right? So

Kyle Pierce:

like the Pisces, Aries cusp, the Virgo, Libra cusp, the Capricorn

Kyle Pierce:

Sagittarius cups and the Gemini cancer, cusp. And when you think

Kyle Pierce:

of like the planets being able to see each other by a

Kyle Pierce:

traditional aspect, you know, it's one form of affinity. But

Kyle Pierce:

the Anisha was another form of affinity, another way for

Kyle Pierce:

planets to to interact with each other, as opposed to just being

Kyle Pierce:

like in a version because they have the same distance away from

Kyle Pierce:

the solstice points. I can never remember what to call those

Kyle Pierce:

things.

Tristan Paylor:

But Equinox points because I think a

Tristan Paylor:

solstice Yeah, one is contour and Tisha is Solstice points. I

Tristan Paylor:

think, if I'm remembering this correctly, we have the symbolism

Tristan Paylor:

has to do with like, having the same amount of light that's

Tristan Paylor:

that's what gives them affinity.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, so there's like a relationship with the

Kyle Pierce:

planets kind of like mitigated diversion. But Mercury is like

Kyle Pierce:

in this kind of interesting position to like, because

Kyle Pierce:

mercury is, you know, the translator to sort of be a voice

Kyle Pierce:

for those, those two planets and it's in a applying trine with

Kyle Pierce:

Mars on the ascendant. So I don't know if you do any kind of

Kyle Pierce:

writing or like philosophical or like spiritual activities, like

Kyle Pierce:

ninth house activities.

Tristan Paylor:

Astrologer ology Yeah. Mercury is the planet of

Tristan Paylor:

astrology in the house of astrology in your chart,

Tristan Paylor:

Karolina so HINT HINT nudge nudge on Mercury

Kyle Pierce:

is to grade Mercury Mars is going to be gather so

Kyle Pierce:

maybe maybe that's why you wanted to reach out to astrology

Kyle Pierce:

going for like two hours now two and a half hours coincides and

Kyle Pierce:

he reaching out to a couple astrologers. But yeah, I don't

Kyle Pierce:

know if you do any writing, but that could be a really good way

Kyle Pierce:

of and I always like my mind jumps to remediation, or just

Kyle Pierce:

like ways to like a positive ways to like, you know, without

Kyle Pierce:

a chart writing. gonna write something controversial or, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, if you have like big opinions, right? Um,

Tristan Paylor:

one one last little thing I wanted to point

Tristan Paylor:

out as an interesting mitigating factor in this chart. Before I

Tristan Paylor:

actually attempt to answer the question properly, and not just

Tristan Paylor:

sit here and analyze curliness turn on night, which is proving

Tristan Paylor:

to be a really fun exercise. Yeah, thank you for sharing.

Kyle Pierce:

I mean, I won't be dismissive of, you know, some of

Kyle Pierce:

the challenges that can be described in a chart, but that

Kyle Pierce:

can be what is nice about astrology too, is that you know,

Kyle Pierce:

sort of look at the fun side of things too.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, I think that's sorry, go ahead. You

Kyle Pierce:

go ahead. I was thinking you

Tristan Paylor:

know, you know, we're gonna we're gonna channel

Tristan Paylor:

the energy or like, you know, Venus in Aries, where it's like,

Tristan Paylor:

I'm going to be aggressively polite. Go first. No,

Tristan Paylor:

absolutely. I will kill you if you don't go first.

Kyle Pierce:

I like that

Tristan Paylor:

Venus in Aries. And Karolina is chart or, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, Mars transiting through Libra. Right now. We're

Tristan Paylor:

channeling the energy of one or both of them. Venus in in Aries

Tristan Paylor:

in Carolina's chart is actually in its own term. So not only for

Tristan Paylor:

those unfamiliar with the subdivisions of the zodiac

Tristan Paylor:

signs, there are various methods of dividing the zodiac signs

Tristan Paylor:

into smaller sections that also have symbolic meaning. And term

Tristan Paylor:

or bound is a really ancient one where you know, each zodiac sign

Tristan Paylor:

is kind of unevenly divided. And each section is ruled by its own

Tristan Paylor:

planet. So in curliness chart, Venus at eight degrees of Aries

Tristan Paylor:

is in its own bound, or term. And one way to interpret this is

Tristan Paylor:

it's a type of essential dignity. And it's kind of like

Tristan Paylor:

Venus is in you know, the best room in the house. So Venus is

Tristan Paylor:

in Mars's house because it's an Aries which is an awkward place

Tristan Paylor:

for Venus to find itself. But Venus at least has the nicest

Tristan Paylor:

room in Mars's house, which, you know, gives it a little bit of a

Tristan Paylor:

boost and, you know, because it's also in the overcoming

Tristan Paylor:

position over Mars. It you know, has little Little bit of power

Tristan Paylor:

so you know I kind of think of this as like she's a guest in

Tristan Paylor:

Mars's house and Mars is kind of making his best effort to give

Tristan Paylor:

her a space of her own where she can be comfortable even though

Tristan Paylor:

she's so far from her actual home so it's like you know Venus

Tristan Paylor:

can have the most of Venus the room and Mars his house and can

Tristan Paylor:

kind of make some demands of Mars like, I don't really like

Tristan Paylor:

the food here. You know, I I'm tired of eating red meat and

Tristan Paylor:

drinking whiskey like I you know, want some souffle or

Tristan Paylor:

whatever, you know, Venus would want to eat and can kind of, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, get get a little bit of demand a little bit of room

Tristan Paylor:

service from Mars here.

Kyle Pierce:

No. I actually, I love this. I'm just realizing,

Kyle Pierce:

remember this because I wrote an article on it was the lunation.

Kyle Pierce:

This year, March 28. The Full Moon in Libra. It was when Venus

Kyle Pierce:

was Cassini, the sun in Aries and opposing exactly the Moon in

Kyle Pierce:

Libra at the exact same degree in your chart, currently no.

Kyle Pierce:

Eight degrees when it was in its own bound. It's actually

Kyle Pierce:

interesting that that happened and it would have been a Venus

Kyle Pierce:

rule year. So I'm wondering if something interesting might

Kyle Pierce:

happen for you. March 28 of 2021 just figuring this out, so I

Kyle Pierce:

don't I don't have like an off the cuff interpretation for

Kyle Pierce:

that. But I feel like I'm giving Karolina a lot of homework.

Kyle Pierce:

Sorry. But if I really want to know now, you want to shoot us

Kyle Pierce:

an email or something? Anything happened, like around the end of

Kyle Pierce:

March? Because that full moon is interesting. And I found it I

Kyle Pierce:

thought it was a really interesting position for Venus

Kyle Pierce:

to be in in its own term and then Cassini lithium exalted

Kyle Pierce:

sun. Yeah, anyway, yeah. The term the Venus is in the gives

Kyle Pierce:

like he's like better equipped, you know, actually, I feel like

Kyle Pierce:

it's a really good position for a retrograde Venus in Aries to

Kyle Pierce:

be in, like where it has, like all the tools to do its job,

Kyle Pierce:

because it is like a little more of a challenger. And it has, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, access to the the Venus section of the arsenal.

Tristan Paylor:

Hmm. Yeah, it's like, you know, it's still

Tristan Paylor:

challenging placement, fundamentally, but ultimately

Tristan Paylor:

also has access to resources, they're going to enable it to

Tristan Paylor:

meet those challenges. Yeah. In terms of, you know, dealing with

Tristan Paylor:

difficult aspects, which is one of the questions, Karolina

Tristan Paylor:

asked, you know, how do you react to challenging aspect

Tristan Paylor:

panic or panic Freako has my dog is doing right now. Ketsu took

Tristan Paylor:

your injunction to panic very seriously. My dog also has a, a

Tristan Paylor:

moon Mars square in his chart. And he's very, very good at.

Kyle Pierce:

Oh, yeah, that's like one of the few things we

Kyle Pierce:

don't have in common in our charts. You don't have the moon

Kyle Pierce:

Mars square?

Tristan Paylor:

No, no, I still get panic moon because it's in a

Tristan Paylor:

Mars sign. But the Moon and Mars are sextile in my chart. So

Tristan Paylor:

that's a little. I don't know, I guess I know how to manage my

Tristan Paylor:

panic when it happens. Hopefully, maybe that's because

Tristan Paylor:

more because that's what it means. Justified panic,

Kyle Pierce:

unjustified? No, or more. Exactly. Fine.

Tristan Paylor:

All right, I see what you're saying.

Kyle Pierce:

Everything's sextile Interesting. Okay.

Tristan Paylor:

One piece of advice for dealing with any sort

Tristan Paylor:

of contradiction or, you know, two impulses or two areas of

Tristan Paylor:

life that you know, require some kind of reconciliation or

Tristan Paylor:

compromise is to give them a common goal. So, you know, if

Tristan Paylor:

the planets involved in a challenging aspect, share some

Tristan Paylor:

kind of goal in common, they're more likely to work together in

Tristan Paylor:

spite of their differences. So just kind of looking at your

Tristan Paylor:

chart for examples. You know, Mars and the Moon are both

Tristan Paylor:

connected to your first house because your first house is

Tristan Paylor:

ruled by the moon. And Mars is, you know, right there on the

Tristan Paylor:

ascendant. So, you know, both of these planets, in a sense, are

Tristan Paylor:

being tasked with helping you to establish a really strong sense

Tristan Paylor:

of individual identity. You know, helping you to cultivate

Tristan Paylor:

self esteem, that kind of thing. And, you know, if you're able to

Tristan Paylor:

kind of get those two Um, impulses working together

Tristan Paylor:

towards, you know, sort of the common goal of like a healthy,

Tristan Paylor:

strong sense of identity. You know, that can be a way of

Tristan Paylor:

reconciling those.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, I mean, so how to react would be not to do

Kyle Pierce:

what I said earlier, because I was joking. But yeah, don't

Kyle Pierce:

panic, because I do think there's a lot of things that you

Kyle Pierce:

and I, and everyone can do that already do do that work with

Kyle Pierce:

those difficult aspects. But I mean, I guess you gotta like

Kyle Pierce:

take it on a case by case basis, because it's like the, I tend to

Kyle Pierce:

think that the aspect in the chart the planets involved in

Kyle Pierce:

everything can describe, you know, a problem, it also kind of

Kyle Pierce:

has like the, the solution sort of built into it too. I don't

Kyle Pierce:

find that most things, in certain things are

Kyle Pierce:

irreconcilable, like, I don't know, probably not going to

Kyle Pierce:

enjoy like coffee beans, and your peanut butter and jelly, or

Kyle Pierce:

something. But usually, there are ways that you can integrate

Kyle Pierce:

something like a square, or something that kind of points to

Kyle Pierce:

a dichotomy here, or something that seems, you know, a

Kyle Pierce:

conflict. But there's also

Kyle Pierce:

you know, I'm not a psychologist can do, you know, diagnose

Kyle Pierce:

anything, but read a lot about psychology and a lot of the way

Kyle Pierce:

that it's approached, you know, it's not so much about fixing,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, what's wrong with you. It's not really what it's about,

Kyle Pierce:

it's about no forgiving yourself for not being perfect for not

Kyle Pierce:

having all exalted planets that are all trying and sextile to

Kyle Pierce:

each other. Like, you know, we're all imperfect creatures.

Kyle Pierce:

And it's also kind of what makes us interesting and unique, and

Kyle Pierce:

how we react to challenges and the creative ways that we find

Kyle Pierce:

to solve those problems. I don't know, sometimes I like to look

Kyle Pierce:

at like some, like difficult placements is like, a quest or

Kyle Pierce:

something like, a problem that I had been tasked to solve. Like.

Kyle Pierce:

I don't know that I think that's what's cool about astrology is

Kyle Pierce:

that you get the symbolic framework for looking at things

Kyle Pierce:

and you can use that in a very negative way. And you can, you

Kyle Pierce:

can play with that and find, you know, ways to re to tell the

Kyle Pierce:

story differently. This strategy is great, because it like it

Kyle Pierce:

calls attention to tendencies that you may already be aware

Kyle Pierce:

of, but maybe puts them into a context, it's like easier to

Kyle Pierce:

identify, and potentially makes it easier to work with, because

Kyle Pierce:

you can actually have a language to describe it.

Tristan Paylor:

I really, I really liked that about how, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, there are different ways to tell the story. Astrology

Tristan Paylor:

gives you different ways of telling your story. And you can

Tristan Paylor:

look at it through many different from many different

Tristan Paylor:

perspectives. You know, one of my pieces of advice for

Tristan Paylor:

navigating challenging placements is having a sense of

Tristan Paylor:

humor. Okay, now, I want to Kyle's pet charts that we

Tristan Paylor:

discussed on a recent episode, as Will Ferrell who has you

Tristan Paylor:

know, a lot of debilitated planets in his chart. And, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, they are expressed through comedy where it's like, there's

Tristan Paylor:

an incongruence at two planets and follow detriment. And that

Tristan Paylor:

kind of incongruency like something being in a place where

Tristan Paylor:

it's not supposed to be is the core of humor. You know, so

Tristan Paylor:

finding, finding a way to express those things through

Tristan Paylor:

humor is his one is one way, that's one perspective, you can

Tristan Paylor:

take but of course, you know, like, I also appreciated what

Tristan Paylor:

you were saying earlier, you know, we were talking about this

Tristan Paylor:

being a fun chart to analyze, but you know, not wanting to

Tristan Paylor:

sound dismissive, because another perspective, you can

Tristan Paylor:

take on your chart, like you can take the perspective on your

Tristan Paylor:

chart of, you know, this is fun, and, you know, I can kind of see

Tristan Paylor:

the humor in my life using this framework, but you can also take

Tristan Paylor:

the perspective that, you know, I can see some of the hardest

Tristan Paylor:

things that have happened in my life in my chart, right? So

Tristan Paylor:

depending on the perspective you're looking at your chart

Tristan Paylor:

from, and I certainly, you know, don't want to suggest that, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, life is just all fun and games and that's, you know, the

Tristan Paylor:

best way to look at your chart sometimes. You will find that,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, the symbolism in your chart can say something about a

Tristan Paylor:

particularly difficult situation that happened in your life.

Tristan Paylor:

That's become a really important or influential part of your

Tristan Paylor:

story. And you know, Looking at the astrology more seriously,

Tristan Paylor:

and using it to help you tell the story of some of the harder

Tristan Paylor:

things that have happened in your life can also be healing.

Tristan Paylor:

And, you know, give you a language for talking about them

Tristan Paylor:

and, you know, figuring out how they fit into your life story in

Tristan Paylor:

a meaningful way. You know, and like I was saying, there's some

Tristan Paylor:

things in life that are just irreconcilable. But there are

Tristan Paylor:

some things in life that are difficult, but we're able to

Tristan Paylor:

sort of find meaning in them, regardless, and the symbols of

Tristan Paylor:

astrology are really rich for helping us to find meaning in

Tristan Paylor:

those difficult circumstances.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, that was like, the only other thing I

Kyle Pierce:

wanted to say was that you make meaning out of it, you know?

Kyle Pierce:

Think since our last episode, we were exploring the, the science

Kyle Pierce:

seen as sort of not science, Enos of astrology, and kind of,

Kyle Pierce:

regardless of like, where you come come down on what is or

Kyle Pierce:

isn't, you know, objectively true about astrology, it's a

Kyle Pierce:

tool for meaning making. And there is no objective single

Kyle Pierce:

meaning to things. You know, it's like our job as humans is

Kyle Pierce:

we do the meaning making. And astrology is a great tool for

Kyle Pierce:

that. And can really strategy is very Jupiter free in the sense

Kyle Pierce:

of that it can very much stabilize and affirm meaning in

Kyle Pierce:

certain ways, like, oh, yeah, this, this came up this time,

Kyle Pierce:

and like, you know, connects with this. And maybe this means

Kyle Pierce:

that I didn't get picked on and made fun of in high school for,

Kyle Pierce:

for nothing, you know, that there's something to be gained

Kyle Pierce:

from that, or something that can be made positive out of that.

Kyle Pierce:

And that's not to say that, like, oh, yeah, get picked on in

Kyle Pierce:

high school, that'd be great. Let's say that, you know, Yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

that sucks. But like we can, we can turn, we can turn that into,

Kyle Pierce:

we can find gems in that, you know, we can become people that

Kyle Pierce:

empathize with people that were bullied or, you know, we can be

Kyle Pierce:

equipped with the tools to help to help those people or, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, whatever. There's lots of ways to make meaning. And I

Kyle Pierce:

guess I, sometimes I wish I was like one of those astrologers

Kyle Pierce:

that have, like, a really strict sense of beliefs that, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

I could tell clients like, oh, well, this means that in a past

Kyle Pierce:

life, this and that, and you're in this life to heal that wound,

Kyle Pierce:

I wish I could tell people that and I don't disagree with those

Kyle Pierce:

ideas or statements. I just don't know if it's my particular

Kyle Pierce:

personal role to say those things. But I mean, yeah, I

Kyle Pierce:

think at the end of the day, give yourself credit to, I

Kyle Pierce:

guess, for all the things you've done to make that work, all the

Kyle Pierce:

work you've done to make progress. You know, if you got a

Kyle Pierce:

bad a bad, traditional Venus, you know, focus on like, the

Kyle Pierce:

take some time to focus on like, the ways that you've been Venus,

Kyle Pierce:

to people, or in your life. Because you have anybody who

Kyle Pierce:

hasn't been a little bit Venus. Yeah, I don't know. I think that

Kyle Pierce:

I know, early on in astrology, for me, particularly Hellenistic

Kyle Pierce:

astrology would look at, like, you know, the negative things

Kyle Pierce:

that were being described. But I kind of forgot to give myself

Kyle Pierce:

credit for all the things that I've done to manage that. And,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, your chart can't take that away from you, I guess.

Kyle Pierce:

Doesn't mean you're doomed to fail at this, you know, means

Kyle Pierce:

you have a challenge here. And, you know, you might do the work

Kyle Pierce:

to make the best of that, or to turn that around. But it might

Kyle Pierce:

be almost makes like your achievements, that area, like

Kyle Pierce:

more earned or deserved, in some ways, because they weren't like

Kyle Pierce:

handed to you, or, you know, the world wasn't wasn't built to

Kyle Pierce:

accommodate, you know, your particular inclinations, you had

Kyle Pierce:

to carve out your, your, your niche.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, I like that, you know, having to carve

Tristan Paylor:

out your niche. I think that really is one of the important

Tristan Paylor:

lessons of debilitated planets. And just, you know, thinking

Tristan Paylor:

more about the different perspectives you can take when

Tristan Paylor:

you approach those placements. You know, when I think about my

Tristan Paylor:

own debilitated planets like to use, you know, my Moon in

Tristan Paylor:

Scorpio as an example. You know, I have anxiety disorders, I have

Tristan Paylor:

OCD. And those, you know, the symbolism of the Moon in Scorpio

Tristan Paylor:

really connects with those experiences to me, and you know,

Tristan Paylor:

that's some of the most difficult stuff that I deal with

Tristan Paylor:

in my life, like, I don't feel like I'm a better person,

Tristan Paylor:

because I have OCD, my life would be better if I didn't have

Tristan Paylor:

it, you know, I wouldn't wish it on anyone, there's no, there's

Tristan Paylor:

no benefit, at least for me, you know, maybe other people have a

Tristan Paylor:

different perspective on their own illness, but for me, like,

Tristan Paylor:

there's no benefit to having it, that, you know, the challenges

Tristan Paylor:

it's brought to my life, you know, haven't really done

Tristan Paylor:

anything of value for me. But, you know, it's part of my story,

Tristan Paylor:

and I can see it reflected in my moon sign, and that makes me

Tristan Paylor:

feel seen, it makes me feel seen, you know, by the cosmos,

Tristan Paylor:

and, you know, some of the ways of managing that stuff is also

Tristan Paylor:

communicated by that symbol. So it's not just, you know, sort of

Tristan Paylor:

reflecting my experience, and giving me an alternative way of

Tristan Paylor:

describing that experience. But, you know, the, the skills are

Tristan Paylor:

what's in the toolbox of the moon, and Scorpio, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

offers me potentially some guidance for how to manage that.

Tristan Paylor:

And so, you know, that's, that's one way that, you know, the Moon

Tristan Paylor:

in Scorpio is meaningful to me, and it's describing something

Tristan Paylor:

pretty negative. And pretty hard. But on the other hand, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, there if I look at my chart through a more fun

Tristan Paylor:

perspective, my Moon in Scorpio also describes some things that

Tristan Paylor:

are like, pretty neutral or pretty funny or goofy, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

because it's an awkward placement for the moon. It's

Tristan Paylor:

like the Moon in Scorpio is in the fifth house. The Fifth house

Tristan Paylor:

is supposed to be you know, how we have fun and take pleasure in

Tristan Paylor:

things and you know, what we value and, you know, I'm like,

Tristan Paylor:

an avid Bone Collector, and, you know, my idea of a good time, is

Tristan Paylor:

like, going to the entomology section of the library and

Tristan Paylor:

reading the weirdest thing that would freak everybody else out,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, like, that's my, the things that I enjoy our fairy

Tristan Paylor:

Moon in Scorpio, you know, like, I keep a praying mantis as a

Tristan Paylor:

path because like, I enjoy that. And it's like, that's kind of

Tristan Paylor:

funny, you know, or it's just like, I, you know, there's this

Tristan Paylor:

certain weirdness. To me, that is also symbolized by a Moon in

Tristan Paylor:

Scorpio, and I can lean into that, and like, see the humor

Tristan Paylor:

and the, you know, creativity and uniqueness in that. So there

Tristan Paylor:

are all these different outlooks you can take when you're looking

Tristan Paylor:

at those placements. And some of them might reflect genuinely

Tristan Paylor:

difficult experiences you've had, but offer some guidance as

Tristan Paylor:

to how to deal with them. And some of them, you know, might

Tristan Paylor:

reflect neutral or even positive experiences, even though the

Tristan Paylor:

placement is unusual or difficult.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, yeah. I mean, I think there are things about

Kyle Pierce:

totally a Scorpio moon in the fifth house, right? Wouldn't it

Kyle Pierce:

be great, if there was no such thing, if there was no such

Kyle Pierce:

thing as a fallen planet or plant, you know, or whatever,

Kyle Pierce:

there were no outcasts, you know, if you're going to have

Kyle Pierce:

like, highly successful people, you're going to have big

Kyle Pierce:

failures to write. But I'm proud to be somebody who, who likes

Kyle Pierce:

those people, likes the little stories of the people that you

Kyle Pierce:

know, fell through the cracks, or, you know, refuse to even

Kyle Pierce:

refuse but just by nature aren't, don't just fit just

Kyle Pierce:

don't easily fit in to the generally accepted scheme. But

Kyle Pierce:

I'm glad that there are people like that, to to have those

Kyle Pierce:

people who care about those people care about those those

Kyle Pierce:

things, situations and experiences. Because they exist,

Kyle Pierce:

and we have opportunity to make meaning out of those things. I

Kyle Pierce:

mean, it that's like my, my job, our job, Tristan, like, is it

Kyle Pierce:

think of it like that way? Like, oh, yeah, I like to read about

Kyle Pierce:

serial killers. And I can't think of anything redeeming or

Kyle Pierce:

positive about that. Other than, you know, that exists. And to be

Kyle Pierce:

made out of that, actually, there's nothing good about about

Kyle Pierce:

being interested in that. But a lot of people are, I don't know,

Kyle Pierce:

I don't know what they will.

Tristan Paylor:

Maybe it is, maybe it's the motivation

Tristan Paylor:

behind, you know, the the Scorpy onic desire to understand the

Tristan Paylor:

worst parts of human nature, you know, the willingness to face

Tristan Paylor:

things that, you know, we don't generally want to look at in

Tristan Paylor:

order, you know, to understand the extremes of human nature

Tristan Paylor:

and, you know, to understand it, how is I think like, this sort

Tristan Paylor:

of what most people are probably interested in, you know, when

Tristan Paylor:

they're reading about true crime is how, or why, how did this

Tristan Paylor:

happen? And if we know how it happened And maybe it can be

Tristan Paylor:

prevented. And so maybe there is you know that that interest has

Tristan Paylor:

redeeming qualities, right or like, you know, what if you're

Tristan Paylor:

you know, in into forensics or something or, you know, you

Tristan Paylor:

investigate these horrible crimes for a living, like you're

Tristan Paylor:

doing work in a very melodic, you know, blind debilitated area

Tristan Paylor:

of life in order to prevent that those circumstances from

Tristan Paylor:

happening.

Kyle Pierce:

Exactly. I don't know if we'll ever be able to,

Kyle Pierce:

like completely eliminate those things. But I think that, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, we can reduce them. Let's say that, you know, the planets

Kyle Pierce:

have been going around in circles for 1000s of years, and

Kyle Pierce:

awful shit still happens on Earth, great things still happen

Kyle Pierce:

on earth. But the overall quality of life is improved, I

Kyle Pierce:

think on scale. We're not murdering each other on quite

Kyle Pierce:

the same scale that we used to, I don't know, life expectancies

Kyle Pierce:

have been improved. Lots of other things are terrible. But I

Kyle Pierce:

want the path to remediation. I like to think it's my, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

optimistic, because he needs you better maybe and the, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

maybe the Moon in Scorpio says Everything's fucked, and we're

Kyle Pierce:

all gonna die alone. But we got to accept both of those

Kyle Pierce:

realities, because both of them are true.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, that's it. multiple, multiple perspectives

Tristan Paylor:

on reality can be true simultaneously. I guess one last

Tristan Paylor:

thing might want to say is, Karolina did ask about how

Tristan Paylor:

undignified planets or challenging aspects relate to

Tristan Paylor:

one's karma? Which I think is a great question, but one I am

Tristan Paylor:

absolutely not qualified to answer. Karma as I understand

Tristan Paylor:

it, is a very, very complex, multifaceted, philosophical and

Tristan Paylor:

religious concept that can't really be separated from you

Tristan Paylor:

know, the religions and philosophies it belongs to, like

Tristan Paylor:

in in Hinduism, or Jainism, for example. And so, I am certainly,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, not being of that religious or philosophical

Tristan Paylor:

background myself, I am not really qualified to speak on how

Tristan Paylor:

karma plays out in a chart. But I think, you know, if you maybe

Tristan Paylor:

looked into some Vedic astrologers, there might be some

Tristan Paylor:

very talented folks who can answer that question for you.

Kyle Pierce:

Um, you know, in an interpersonal interpersonally,

Kyle Pierce:

like a one on one conversation, I'll have all kinds of

Kyle Pierce:

conversations about.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

just the idea of karma, what I think about it, or

Kyle Pierce:

my constantly changing different philosophically thoughts about

Kyle Pierce:

about such things, but in the context of your podcast and

Kyle Pierce:

making an authoritative statement? Yeah, I'm not

Kyle Pierce:

prepared to make a statement on that. So for that, specifically,

Kyle Pierce:

what Tristan said,

Tristan Paylor:

do we want to mention a couple things about

Tristan Paylor:

remediation? Yeah, that's another method. You know, if, if

Tristan Paylor:

you do find that something about a difficult placement in your

Tristan Paylor:

chart resonates with your lived experience, you know, to the

Tristan Paylor:

extent that like, your own agency is able to change those

Tristan Paylor:

circumstances. remediation can be, you know, a sort of like a

Tristan Paylor:

magical act, you know, that helps support you in taking

Tristan Paylor:

control of the circumstances.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. I certainly

Tristan Paylor:

know, I mean, I guess we should probably define

Tristan Paylor:

remediation.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, um, you might have a more exact definition. To

Kyle Pierce:

me, remediation is like the, the solutions to the problems that

Kyle Pierce:

something in your chart is pointing out or not solutions,

Kyle Pierce:

but like the, the ways to remediate or remediate, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, to smooth that, that that out?

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, smoothing it out is a good, good way of

Tristan Paylor:

describing it. Remediation is, you know, say, a planet in your

Tristan Paylor:

chart, you know, symbolizes something difficult for you. And

Tristan Paylor:

you know, you have a hard time managing the the topics are the

Tristan Paylor:

energy of that planet as it is in your chart. You can do things

Tristan Paylor:

that are of the nature of that planet or that honor that planet

Tristan Paylor:

in some way. And that is a form of magic, essentially. You know,

Tristan Paylor:

and and whatever you believe about magic, you know, there are

Tristan Paylor:

different perspectives on it. For me, it's it's more of a

Tristan Paylor:

psychological tool. Like I don't think the remediation is going

Tristan Paylor:

to fix all my problems, but it is like a support And, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

potentially an outlet. So like, if you have problems with Mars

Tristan Paylor:

energy in your life, you know, an example that Kyle uses often

Tristan Paylor:

is hitting his punching bag. You know, getting getting in a

Tristan Paylor:

really heavy workout is an example of a Mars remediation

Tristan Paylor:

because it's, it's honoring Mars, and it's giving Mars like

Tristan Paylor:

a constructive outlet in your life in some way.

Kyle Pierce:

And even just like on a practical level, like, I'm

Kyle Pierce:

working on, like a series of articles, flush out my

Kyle Pierce:

remediation page on my website, and I like it when it's

Kyle Pierce:

practical, I like it when it it's fits into, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

established ideas about how people work outside of

Kyle Pierce:

astrology, but when you feel if you have a lot of anger and

Kyle Pierce:

aggression and stuff, well therapy is good. But you know,

Kyle Pierce:

finding a healthy outlet for those feelings is good. It's a

Kyle Pierce:

good thing to do. expressing feelings sucks and then they

Kyle Pierce:

just, you know, they blow up and then you hurt people you don't

Kyle Pierce:

want to hurt people, especially as a cancer rising probably.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, of the punching bag and actually, particularly with Mars

Kyle Pierce:

and cancer kept popping into my head is how many UFC fighters

Kyle Pierce:

have it and what you were saying earlier about, like, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

the Mars wanting to express itself like an appropriately it

Kyle Pierce:

makes sense to me that a lot of those UFC fighters like get into

Kyle Pierce:

that because it's an appropriate channel for the Mars energy. And

Kyle Pierce:

so you know, finding appropriate channels. So, I would say

Kyle Pierce:

swimming, physical activity. Water gun fights,

Tristan Paylor:

water gun fights are good Mars in Cancer

Tristan Paylor:

remediation. I love that

Kyle Pierce:

if you start like an adult Water Gun park like

Kyle Pierce:

adults can can shoot each other with water guns and throw water

Kyle Pierce:

balloons at each other and my God, that's the flag with water

Kyle Pierce:

guns. Oh my god, I think that's your that's your destiny.

Tristan Paylor:

That's your calling Uranus and Mars rules

Tristan Paylor:

the fifth house which is fun and recreation and it's in your

Tristan Paylor:

first house in a water sign clearly, Karolina was destined

Tristan Paylor:

to open an amusement park where people can shoot each other with

Tristan Paylor:

water guns.

Kyle Pierce:

I would love that, that would be so amazing. And I

Kyle Pierce:

would totally we would promote your waterpark on the show. That

Kyle Pierce:

would be fantastic. But or something like that, you know, I

Kyle Pierce:

guess that's how I like to approach remediation a lot. But,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, finding constructive manifestations of your chat.

Tristan Paylor:

I think you found a good Venus retrograde in

Tristan Paylor:

Aries remediation earlier, when you know you were talking about

Tristan Paylor:

fashion. And you know, potentially a good remediate of

Tristan Paylor:

activity for Venus retrograde in Aries is you know, just not even

Tristan Paylor:

necessarily, you know, as, as a professional thing, you could

Tristan Paylor:

just do it for fun, like designing outfits or, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

like Mars and Aries real sharp things, like pull out the sewing

Tristan Paylor:

machine, or, you know, out of colors or learn how to tattoo,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, stuff, stuff like that. Yeah, loud colors, like

Tristan Paylor:

make make a piece of art that's just like really bold and spiky

Tristan Paylor:

and full of bright colors and hot things. Yeah. Yeah, like

Tristan Paylor:

creative outlets.

Kyle Pierce:

Even if you don't like that, like in your space

Kyle Pierce:

all the time. Like, create, like, an altar to that like 90s

Kyle Pierce:

like, hot pink jumpsuit. With like, spikes for shoulder pads.

Kyle Pierce:

Oh, yeah. Yeah.

Tristan Paylor:

And there's Sorry, what are you gonna say?

Kyle Pierce:

Nothing. I was really grateful that you were

Kyle Pierce:

about to talk, you're the impetus was no longer on

Tristan Paylor:

your planet planetary donation is another

Tristan Paylor:

form of remediation, or you know, if there's a planet that's

Tristan Paylor:

being a pain in your ass, you know, figure out who are who are

Tristan Paylor:

that planets people and support them in some way. And that's,

Tristan Paylor:

you know, a way of sort of creating a sense of friendliness

Tristan Paylor:

with what that planet represents. And, you know, maybe

Tristan Paylor:

we'll help you work with its energy a bit. So, you know, with

Tristan Paylor:

Mars, yeah. Veterans is an obvious one.

Kyle Pierce:

Dv domestic violence victims. Yeah. Are from

Kyle Pierce:

cancer, be working with them to be donating to shelter?

Tristan Paylor:

And that's, I mean, that's where I see you

Tristan Paylor:

know, planets and fall in detriment. Or in difficult

Tristan Paylor:

aspect working most of the time anyway, like when I think of the

Tristan Paylor:

charts of people I know who have those placements, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

they're like paramedic acts or psychiatric nurses or therapists

Tristan Paylor:

or you know, they volunteer at a shelter or you know, do some

Tristan Paylor:

kind of work in their lives related to those difficult

Tristan Paylor:

circumstances that those placements represent.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. And that's just intuitively makes sense.

Kyle Pierce:

Because, you know, whether you've experienced that yourself

Kyle Pierce:

or not, a lot of the times people who have experienced

Kyle Pierce:

something in that realm themselves are the ones that,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, want to go help other people who have challenges in

Kyle Pierce:

that area. But yeah, I mean, a lot of the time a chart is like,

Kyle Pierce:

yeah, you'll see difficult placement, and it's them, you

Kyle Pierce:

know, helping other people in those situations or working with

Kyle Pierce:

people in those situations.

Tristan Paylor:

And even if you know, if that placement doesn't

Tristan Paylor:

represent a difficult circumstance that happened to

Tristan Paylor:

you specifically, it can represent sort of a higher

Tristan Paylor:

tolerance or ability to navigate difficult circumstances

Tristan Paylor:

creatively. So like, you know, I know a paramedic who has like a

Tristan Paylor:

really gnarly chart, and it's just like, His disposition is

Tristan Paylor:

just like really well suited to that line of work. Just the way

Tristan Paylor:

he had, like, he just he has he's really good at keeping his

Tristan Paylor:

cool and he's, you know, really good at keeping his head in a

Tristan Paylor:

crisis. And you know, he can he can stomach the work

Tristan Paylor:

essentially. So it's not so much that like, he's injured really

Tristan Paylor:

traumatic things in his life, but he helps other people who

Tristan Paylor:

are dealing with traumatic events because he's got the

Tristan Paylor:

capacity to you know, walk out into those dark scary places and

Tristan Paylor:

face them, which I think is a very debilitated planet quality

Tristan Paylor:

is being able to go into those scary or difficult places and

Tristan Paylor:

not be sort of scared away.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, yeah, exactly.

Tristan Paylor:

I think you are slowly dying. I'm hungry. I'm

Tristan Paylor:

tired.

Kyle Pierce:

I do like to do things for hours and hours and

Kyle Pierce:

hours on end, but I like to eat while I'm doing those things or,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, not be in a closet that they were shutting curtain

Kyle Pierce:

up and soundproofed and sit in a bottle of my own sweat.

Tristan Paylor:

That was it hot there.

Kyle Pierce:

Top my closet wonders and electronics going on

Kyle Pierce:

in here.

Tristan Paylor:

Oh, no, this is this is Mars in the eighth

Tristan Paylor:

house. You're just like trapped in a hot box.

Kyle Pierce:

But I have a mission so you know moving

Kyle Pierce:

mission but I guess

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, Mars is Mars is willing to do anything

Tristan Paylor:

if there's a mission.

Kyle Pierce:

Oh, yeah. Yeah. I was just imagining things I get

Kyle Pierce:

tired and think some silly things. But just imagining like,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, might be a fun thing to do to just like, I don't

Kyle Pierce:

know. Do you ever when you were a kid? Like he didn't play like

Kyle Pierce:

war games as much right?

Tristan Paylor:

No, I that interest was sort of nipped in

Tristan Paylor:

the bud when I was really young. My parents were very against me

Tristan Paylor:

playing any kind of violent games or having any toy soldiers

Tristan Paylor:

or toy weapons or anything like that. So it just wasn't a big

Tristan Paylor:

part of my childhood. Yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

I was a big part of my childhood. And I don't know

Kyle Pierce:

sometimes I like to do it for myself. Just like once like

Kyle Pierce:

child Lee Child, like, childlike way like pretend like whatever I

Kyle Pierce:

need to get done is again Nishan like, I don't know, yeah, and

Kyle Pierce:

warrior mentality about it. And I don't know. being playful with

Kyle Pierce:

your chart, I think can be really helpful. When you're able

Kyle Pierce:

to like sort of laugh about it and be playful with it and like,

Kyle Pierce:

I don't know, it sort of like loses its its hold over you to

Kyle Pierce:

some degree like I don't know, maybe not taking it too

Kyle Pierce:

seriously and

Kyle Pierce:

have a think for a while I was thinking like how looking at

Kyle Pierce:

your placements or whatever, like a shitty placement and I

Kyle Pierce:

was like, turned into a self fulfilling prophecy.

Tristan Paylor:

The fifth house ruler and the first so yeah,

Tristan Paylor:

playfulness is it's part of part of the identity of this whole

Tristan Paylor:

chart.

Kyle Pierce:

Actors like you see roles coming up in their chart

Kyle Pierce:

so often. And I can't help but think that that's like that must

Kyle Pierce:

be remediation in some way like you know about them. It's it's

Kyle Pierce:

the character they played or

Tristan Paylor:

like Alan Rickman, you know, playing Snape

Tristan Paylor:

and having moon and Scorpio. So often I see you Yeah, like so

Tristan Paylor:

often I see actors with all these debilitated planets, and

Tristan Paylor:

it doesn't necessarily show up in their personal professional

Tristan Paylor:

lives, but it shows up in the roles they play. And, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

maybe there's some potential, you know, remediation, like you

Tristan Paylor:

said in there to where, you know, play play the role of Mars

Tristan Paylor:

in Cancer, mercury, and Pisces, you know, or the moon being

Tristan Paylor:

maltreated, or whatever, you know, play that role, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

as an acting project or something, or, you know, write

Tristan Paylor:

that character into a piece of writing that you're working on?

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, give it a separate body. Yeah, sort of,

Kyle Pierce:

like an offering.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, and offering Exactly. Oh, I, I'm

Tristan Paylor:

really glad you mentioned the self fulfilling prophecy thing,

Tristan Paylor:

because I think people underestimate how powerful that

Tristan Paylor:

is. It's extremely powerful. And it has like, extremely

Tristan Paylor:

noticeable societal effects as well, like our judgments of

Tristan Paylor:

other people, our pre judgments of other people, or certain

Tristan Paylor:

groups of people, you know, predicted their success to some

Tristan Paylor:

extent, if we're in positions of authority, right. So certainly,

Tristan Paylor:

in our own lives, as well, you know, what we expect for

Tristan Paylor:

ourselves often comes true, and, you know, that's something that

Tristan Paylor:

I think we need to be careful about with astrology, where it's

Tristan Paylor:

really easy for us, you know, if we're in an anxious place, maybe

Tristan Paylor:

to look at our chart or transit coming up and be like, well,

Tristan Paylor:

that confirms the, you know, most catastrophic situation I

Tristan Paylor:

could imagine in my anxious brain on. And then, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

you end up creating a circumstances that, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

you you didn't want, it's, it's not, it's not fate, you know,

Tristan Paylor:

it's our, we actually, you know, have some power over our lives

Tristan Paylor:

and our expectations, they have a lot of power.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah, don't give, don't give your power away to

Kyle Pierce:

astrology, or to the parents. Yeah, don't like, let it remove,

Kyle Pierce:

let it divorce you from the agency that you do have. None of

Kyle Pierce:

us are masters of the universe. But, you know, we can choose

Kyle Pierce:

different things changing can take time, and it's hard, but it

Kyle Pierce:

is possible to do.

Tristan Paylor:

And I think it's, I mean, maybe the key, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, there's kind of a balancing act with astrology

Tristan Paylor:

where, you know, on one hand, we don't want to take it too

Tristan Paylor:

seriously. And we want to be careful when we're talking about

Tristan Paylor:

when we're using astrology, to talk about negative stuff, we

Tristan Paylor:

want to be careful because we don't want you know, people to

Tristan Paylor:

take it too seriously. And then start, you know, become afraid

Tristan Paylor:

because of a birth chart, which you know, is that's not, that's

Tristan Paylor:

not a great situation. But at the same time, astrology in

Tristan Paylor:

order to speak meaningfully about life needs to have symbols

Tristan Paylor:

available to it to talk about the most difficult aspects of

Tristan Paylor:

life. So it's, you know, striking that balance, right? Or

Tristan Paylor:

it's like, we don't want to be dismissive of what might be

Tristan Paylor:

genuinely difficult things in somebody's life that they have

Tristan Paylor:

been able to use astrology to find meaning for. But also, you

Tristan Paylor:

know, being really careful not to inspire fear. Yeah. It's like

Tristan Paylor:

finding that balance, where like, you know, astrology

Tristan Paylor:

doesn't dictate your life, it should not inspire fear. But at

Tristan Paylor:

the same time, it does need to have some scary language in it,

Tristan Paylor:

if you want to use it to talk about things that are difficult

Tristan Paylor:

in your life that aren't, you know, necessarily like trying to

Tristan Paylor:

predict whether or not bad things will happen. But you

Tristan Paylor:

know, making meaning out of maybe difficult circumstances

Tristan Paylor:

you're already going through or have already been through, like,

Tristan Paylor:

I find it's more useful to look at the present or look, in

Tristan Paylor:

hindsight, you know, what that kind of symbolism instead of

Tristan Paylor:

looking ahead and predicting doom for yourself?

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. I just want to say like, look at how it

Kyle Pierce:

actually resonates with your life. Yeah. Yeah, I guess like

Kyle Pierce:

don't project you know, things that aren't, that don't resonate

Kyle Pierce:

with your life onto it. And through that, you can, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

make really good assessments of your life and like, you know,

Kyle Pierce:

see some things you need to patch up if you can see some

Kyle Pierce:

things that tend to go more smoothly for you and work it.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah. Like ultimately you You are the

Tristan Paylor:

authority on your own life, not your birth chart.

Kyle Pierce:

Yeah. Well, that's a good place to wrap it up for

Kyle Pierce:

today.

Tristan Paylor:

I think so. Well,

Kyle Pierce:

thank you so much, Jett. And Karolina for your

Kyle Pierce:

awesome questions. And yeah, like to encourage anyone else

Kyle Pierce:

does Questions, please. You know, send us a send us your

Kyle Pierce:

questions at astrology hotline pod@gmail.com We would love to

Kyle Pierce:

hear them and we'd love to hear back from jet and Catalina as

Kyle Pierce:

well.

Tristan Paylor:

Yeah, that would be awesome. Thank you both so

Tristan Paylor:

much for these questions. You know, obviously we got a ton of

Tristan Paylor:

discussion material out of them. They were excellent questions.

Tristan Paylor:

really, really interesting and important topics. So and also

Tristan Paylor:

just super interesting that your charts are so similar. So

Tristan Paylor:

thematically, you know, things are all like tied together

Tristan Paylor:

really nicely between these two charts.

Kyle Pierce:

That's where mystical Kyle shows up. And it

Kyle Pierce:

was like, that wasn't an accident. I don't know.

Tristan Paylor:

Oh, Sam, that's where my, my, my mystical side

Tristan Paylor:

is loves this. It's just like, yes, this was meant to be.

Kyle Pierce:

You know, it's funny when I first had the idea

Kyle Pierce:

for this show. I was imagining, like, love line style with like,

Kyle Pierce:

you know, questions and like, 10 minute answers, you know?

Unknown:

Yeah, so it's just get longer

Kyle Pierce:

and longer. So I kind of like that, too. I don't

Kyle Pierce:

know. Maybe we'll do a special episode one day,

Tristan Paylor:

like to answer 10 questions,

Kyle Pierce:

to answer them as fast as possible in a short,

Kyle Pierce:

succinct way,

Tristan Paylor:

that will be a huge challenge for me.

Kyle Pierce:

I agree. I like this format. It's fine. It's

Kyle Pierce:

just funny how it actually makes a lot more sense. But But yeah,

Kyle Pierce:

what do you got going on these days? Tristan,

Tristan Paylor:

I have got the usual things going on. My prices

Tristan Paylor:

have gone up a little bit for birth chart consultations. So it

Tristan Paylor:

is $60 for 60 minutes over zoom. And I can, you know, answer your

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questions about your birth chart or just give you a general natal

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chart reading. And if you know if you like it, you're welcome

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to follow up and I can look into transits and perfections and

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more time based things as well. And you can book a reading with

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me through my website, which is bad sign astrology.ca. And you

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can also find me on social media. I'm on Instagram at bad

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sign astrology. And I have a blog where I've been posting my

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astrology writing, which you'll find on my website, but also on

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Tumblr at bad sign astrology. And what about you Kyle can

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consistent branding

Kyle Pierce:

you know, the huge, you can book a consultation with

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me at my website. Remember the name of my own website,

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apparently? Kyle Pierce astrology.com You have like five

Kyle Pierce:

different irons in the fire. I don't wanna talk about anything

Kyle Pierce:

till one is actually

Tristan Paylor:

would you say that your your fixed t square

Tristan Paylor:

is? is causing you to put too many irons in the fire? Yeah,

Tristan Paylor:

yes.

Kyle Pierce:

In the sheer lack of mutability in my chart. It's

Kyle Pierce:

like, I was like the chess analogy. Just like cardinals,

Kyle Pierce:

like your opening move. Fixed is like your mid game and usable is

Kyle Pierce:

your end game. And actually with chest sight, my end game is

Kyle Pierce:

awful. I Yeah, it's really hard for me to like wrap things up.

Kyle Pierce:

But yet, I still want to do you know, like six different things

Kyle Pierce:

at a time. So

Tristan Paylor:

this is why we can't wrap up a show or

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conversations because neither of us have enough mutable in our

Tristan Paylor:

charts. It's just all cardio you only have Yeah, yeah, I have the

Tristan Paylor:

same situation. And we've only have a mutable planet. trying

Tristan Paylor:

desperately to wrap everything up.

Kyle Pierce:

Yep. So you know, if I ever finish any of those

Kyle Pierce:

things, I'll let y'all know. But other than that,

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all yet. Well, bye for now. Thanks for

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listening.

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